To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 2
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Dear Owamie. I am a Malawian who has followed you for 3 years now. This side of you is what will make you grow even more. Wow! This "To hell and back" is a masterpiece. I have an extreme good feeling about it. You are carrying it well. Congratulations baby girl! Maturity and growth it is. May God go before you. ❤
This is the best thing our queen has ever launched!
Amen
Agulu! I'm malawian too followed Owamie since 2019-2020...hahaha
@@DiamondQuality1 Wow! Kutengeka ife, kodi kwathu kuno bwanji luso loteleri kulibe? 🤣🤣🤣 Lol. She entertains you know! Let's keep enjoying!
Malawian too 🥂… zikubeba ndithu 😅
Constructive criticism
The interview should start by Introduction of guest
2. Then the beginning of real story as to how they met
3 The middle of their life together
4 The Change for the worst
5 The decision
6 Learning curve
7 Parting short
I believe it will change with time
Yes I think she will grow with time
Definitely but this is already good she is doing so well nka screamer
🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾Definitely
Constructive criticism, why don’t you start your own podcast and show us how it’s done? Clearly you have it so figured out. We will follow and support ❤
She should consider watching Relebogile Mabotsa and King David interview styles.
This man had so much time on his hands. Entertaining his wife and 41 plus women. Yho, sounds like a full time job nd overtime 😮
This girl is soo polished,soft spoken and gorgeous even as she narrates her ordeal she does it with such calmness .I wish you all the best babe .Put god first and pray for your person he is out there and one day you will meet him.
Im loving the new Owamie....she is a bomb 💣, super smart and beautiful
This lady is a good story teller, I could imagine everything she said. She should definitely pursue her TH-cam
This is exactly what I wanted to comment.
She tells the story so well, that I felt bad that I'm enjoying the story, because I know it's actually sad because it's what she went through.
She said she is on youtube
She has such a calm aura❤
@@Sarah_P897yes her voice is so soothing 😊😊
Brother was living a double life, ninja. Once a man cheats on you, whether he hides it or not that’s the biggest disrespect. Never take back a man who cheated on you it will mess up your peace of mind.
Once you start asking yourself questions if you are good enough or if there is something wrong with you. If you try to over compensate, then you should start running 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I'm here loving this comment coz it's th truth n wisdom of life but I forgave him when he dd me dirty n we are okay😂😅...but at this age if he dare again,aowa shem..no mercy
@@Drip3657how did you get over it and how did you learn to love him and trust him again?
@@kwetsephetla3597 I jus love him mtase n I told him my trust is nvr gonna be the same...I trust God only tht he will continue help him do better. His character is more humble than I ve ever seen... But if hs behaviour changes mo go suspicious I'm gone...
Exactly. Most of these men take resources away from home & spend it on a sidechick
Owami you made it so hard for us to see that she is your friend. The story seem new to you just like it is new to us😱 I'm giving you 100% sana you are the best❤
Ladies, please be careful when letting men know you’re aware of their infidelity or crimes. It can be very dangerous for you. If you KNOW you have proof, move and plot in silence. Leaving a relationship can be the most dangerous time for a woman.
Yeah unless these women take them out first lol
Truth some man are very dangerous
I love interviewers who let the guests talk without interrupting them, good job Owamie 👏🏾
Yes, excellent job!
I second that and the guest is also great at telling her story .
That's the sociopath kind of man, I have exact experience with my ex, but I stayed in that abuse for twenty years, I thanked God that the man finally divorced me. You are lucky and strong my lady to tell such marriage experience.
This podcast is gonna be a success....
Very true, There's no doubt about that 🎉🎉🎉
Very much true❤❤❤❤
Love this for you Queen Ninja❤❤❤❤
Im hooked. This episode was a 10/10.
💯💯
Owami I wish you would take us on a journey with your guests. Starting with light questions like How was her childhood
Or how did they meet? When did she know she loved him? Where was she in life at that time, when did they get married. How old was the guy. How was the marriage. and and and. Leading us to the climax of the story..
Starting the interview with ‘why are you getting divorced is anti climax because that should be the meat of the interview.
This way the questions will not be random. And this was the same with your last interview.
Wishing you incredible growth in your journey 🤍.
I knew the story was long so I tried to get right to it, we are still gonna have a part 2 and i will ask that but thank you ❤
@@OwamieEntertainmentu doing good, we really don't care about that information of childhood, getting straight to it it's a way, plus saves time❤
I agree, the conversation didn't have context. Although it still is an interesting story, it would have been nice to have context
I think reading the biography of her guests will also help .
@@lorrainetshifhango3984Exactly 😅
This guy sounds like an answered prayer shame! We could all fall for him 🤞🏽
I'm going thru the comments and I see alot of constructive criticism from loyal and loving followers but sometimes.. I just feel like sometimes it's so beautiful to watch a person ask their guest normal questions like we do our friends on a normal day.. It's a breath of fresh air to see someone trying to be themselves and not try and imitate what's already working.. She will eventually find her interviewing style as this is not her niche.. But I didn't see a problem with this interview because I heard the most important details from the guests.. But that's just my opinion.. Criticism is also okay if it's constructive ❤
Its not a counselor's role to convince a person to forgive the offender and take them back in their lives. That counselor crossed boundaries. A counselor guides and allows a client to make their decision.
Redflag number 1: Every time a man is obsessively in love...
I love that you let your guests speak and theres no awkard silence between the questions, the follow up questions are great too❤
One thing Iv realised. Women are so desperate for relationships 😢 and the validation that “I’m with someone, look at me, someone wants me”. Self rejection and no self worth is the order of the day.
I'm not like that but I used to be years ago.
And men are aware of this desperation and take advantage of it. It's sad.
Vulry's voice is so calming. I enjoyed this podcast❤
I can see this segment going far. Owami just make tweeks here and there and we will be heading for the prime time Chile. 🎉
Please advise ❤❤
Its red flag if phone doesnt ring when a person is with you.
I hardly get calls so maybe I’m also a red flag 🚩
😂😂 haibo can we not generalize. my phone never rings cause I don't do friendships
@@sphumevezi9538😂😂😂 Like aibo kusho I'm also a red flag moss 😂😂😂
Flight mode gang😂😂😂
True, my cousin would tell them, " you know I'm married, so please don't call me, I will call"🤔
Wow, the guest is such an amazing teller of her story, her beautiful aura floods the whole interview as she shares her story with so much and maturity. She is already a healed woman❤. Beautiful lady ❤
This goes to show that disrespect can only be forgiven by letting go of those who disrespect us. If someone disrespects your values, it's a value conflict, and the only cure is letting go or establish alignment. People can change, but alignment is not something to wait for. It is either we are aligned or we are not. We do not need people we have to change to love them. We love who we are aligned with. It's sad when others misuse our trust, but we must allow our boundaries to be stronger than our love( or at least similar in strength)
Lovebombing is usually carried out by a Narcissist in the first phase when he/she is looking to get something from you. After that you are no longer important!!😭
It’s like this lady lived in my marriage. She’s smarter than I was. I stayed for 13 years. Kudos to her
I stayed for 21 if that makes u feel any better, we stayed for our own reasons, I used to self sabotage, beat my self up continuously until God showed me where and how i erred, I started taking accountability and just told the person thanks and let go
One thing about cheaters, they do not know when to stop! Spirit of lust at its peak!!!
My first time coming across your videos. Im from the UK. I love this. Such a thourough, open and honest conversation abiut her experience. She was very vulnerable and open. You guys left no stone unturned. I felt like i was in the house with my girlies spilling tea and going through the healing process. I need to start my podcast nah
Hey,where in UK are you? I am looking for a friend,I was led here by a man who promised me marriage but turned out he was a scammer. Apart from that,He is a Narcassist. He made me leave my job,and now I am living in a house with two other older man and woman,I am not allowed to make friends or speak to anyone. I haven't been working and it's been so hard. I am about to start work but,Soon I will and need to find a place to stay. Please can we be friends?
I just want to know how he managed to make time for her😂. This man was so crafty. I believe he showered her with all that affection so she would never have a suspicion
The amount of effort these men put into deceiving women is astonishing... if he put that energy into things that benefit the community, we wiukd all be in such a different place as a people across the globe.
Right!! Smh
Representing all the male ninjas....
Yaaassss! 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
So kee my brother what are you representing here 😂😂😂
Owamie you are amazing dear, your work speaks for it self it speaks volumes. I have also started a TH-cam channel because of you. Thank you dear, we truly need people like you who truly motivate us by being who they are and working hard ❤❤❤
Thee gorgeous Vulry Muthabi. A lady of class and elegance ❤ May God give her the grace to overcome this. Enjoyed the interview. Thanks ninja
Her ex husband sounds like a narcissist. That’s their modus operandi…
Ofcourse
@@abongilesibhoko539 love bombing. Cheating with multiple women. Withdrawal from sex. Being aggressive when confronted. Lying. Over inflated sense of self. Tjo, I could go on…..
Yes. This is a spirit on the rise according to 2TIMOTHY 3. They are witches. I was married to one.
@@danilaroche1156 I don’t know about witches but I’ve come across two in my lifetime. I’m just glad there was no relationship. It was just interactions but I could tell something was amiss. I played it cool(dumb&ditzy) for several weeks till I could figure them out. 🙈
I have been scammed by one and now I am stuck!!
This episode is mind blowing, how she narrated.. Owamies interviewing style, camera quality, clean space…. please 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
This lady is a great interviewee. I love how she’s detailed and to the point. She’s open and doesn’t withhold information; even though I know what she went through was very painful. God will be the lifter of her head.
As much as we can advise here and there, sometimes we must let Owami be and come as she prepared.
I'm sure she works hard on preparing for these interviews.
Now we are here scoring her performances and not even engaging on the story brought to the table.
We now discuss how she did instead of focusing on the guests and the lessons we are to learn.
I know we are trying to help but sometimes it's too much, especially because everyone has their own "what to do"
It's not nice with every interview there's a bunch of things she must correct, aowa bathong, give her a break.
I'm not against constructive criticism but there's a thin line between that and having a "critical spirit" of just looking out for the negatives so that you can point out!
I bet if we focused more on hearing what the story is all about and not her performance, we will even forget with the "constructive criticism"😅😅😅
Everyone gets better at what they do with time, give her that.🙏🏽💕
Keep them coming Queen O❤❤❤❤❤
Interesting interview 👍🏾 👌🏽 👏🏾
❤ ohoooo sorry!
@@user-lu1jc8et1y 😂😂😂🤗💖not in a bad way though, just a thought😘
So true! Alternatively, people can have their own podcasts and practice what they preach.
Well said
Owamie I used to watched you long time ago and due to my own personal circumstances I have not watched you in a long time, to come back and see soo much elevation on your channel it has made my heart smile if anyone deserves this it’s definitely you! Wishing you much more success and happiness
I love you ❤❤
Well done Owamie,u have really grown and I must say I respect the fact tat u take advices from Ninjas tats why u r doing so well❤️
Yoh, she really took us through her romance story...you can feel the love and emotions she went through, takes us through how she felt psychologically and the disillusionment
Him proposing marriage on first date is disconcerting. I feel for her . Divorce is traumatizing.
Everything Owamie touches turns to gold, my dhiye❤😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉
Im not going to repeat what everyone has said about structure but I so beleive that a solid structure does make the story. I would add that Owamie will get better with time at this. No one starts off perfectly at anything.
@sinazobogicevic3442 Thanks for sharing your point of view. Just to point out that not all interviews should follow a structure - it is perfectly acceptable in some instances to allow the interviewee to lead the way - to start where they want start narrating their story/experience whilst the interviewer interjects with mimimum probing questions. This unstructured interview is fine in this instance.
I’m so sorry to hear about this Vulry😢. Your marriage looked so perfect on social media but I’m glad you put yourself and son first by leaving. ❤
What’s the name on social media. I need to see what this husband looks like 🙈
@@moe_ramzhay wena😂😂😂😂
@moe_ramz😂😂😂😂
Be very careful of those men who use their past as a way to manipulate you. Abusers love to use their sad backstory to manipulate people.
This lady is so beautiful and calm. She looks like a sweet and peaceful person🥰
She is stunning
man do not appreciate ....no low self-esteem but my question is how I am going to survive in marriage with my ugliness and imperfection that I have if beautiful ladies are getting cheated and when they want the divorce men to let them go, because I believe if a man is court cheating and divorce is proposed he must stop if he real loves his wife.
Owamie. Yho. I could feel in the lady's voice that she actually expressed the feelings like it was happening again 😢
I like that Owamie allows her guests to talk and doesn’t interject.. you’ll grow from here Ninja..
Wow Owamie.... Best interview ever so far. Your guest was so relaxed and narrated her story so well.😊
Like guys we are here for the story bro not for childhood stories 😭💔
Like😂😂😂😂😂😂
Owamie your face when she said "thank for accepting my friend request" 😂😂😂
😂😅died
This man was so “perfect” yho!! How did he even pull such off? So scary
Very scary yoh
Owani is a good interviewer, she ask relevant questions and give the guest chance to tell her story. Lovely
🎉🎉Jackpot Owamie !!! This is amazing…. Fly sisi we see you and your hustle
Good interview so far but here are some of the things you should start doing
-don’t dive straight into the issue follow up questions will lead to that
Questions should be arranged like this:
-when and where did you meet your husband
-how long have you guys been dating before getting married
- what did you like about your husband
-what kind of the person he was prior to marriage
-take us through your marriage
-then you guys will talk about the divorce after she unpacked her marriage……
Maybe you can also ask about the romantic thing her husband has ever done for her….
Haven’t done watching though…
You are so right,I hope you watched unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja she had that great way of asking questions and everything will just unfold Naturally throughout the conversation.
Exactly, this is a good interview but it started all over it almost became exhausting
Saze sabaningi who are to appear on the podcast because wow we’ve been swindled ke sana 🥺🥺🥺
Woza sizolalela ur story
Background noise got me, nevertheless awesome content 👌🏽
Meeting people on Tinder is just a no no. Even Facebook it's a no no. I mean all social media platforms it's a no no
All social media platforms are no no no
Absolutely no interruptions whatsoever.. Other platforms can learn a thing or two from uOwamie❤
Oh marn she's been through a lot. He cheated from first day of marriage. She is so beautiful, so soft spoken.
This really proves that there's no formula 😢that guy was really dedicated to his infedelity
He was so skilled in it
Exactly...and it's scary...how he portrayed himself as a very caring husband.....
This has really got to worry us as women, honestly, after that kind of dedication from that man, why wouldn’t a woman settle for him, he was definitely a scam and no of us would have figured that out.
So smart at his game. God help a woman 😢😢😢
Even if we say, let’s pray for Mr. Right, I mean, you see such a consistent caring man, your like, this is it!!! God sent, from heaven😅
This guy treated her so well ,I totally get why she never suspected anything. He was always home ,always calling there was literally no hints of it
Ankere
haibo i am shooketh
I think she is not telling us the whole truth
My baby father do me the same thing treat me good etc..n I shock 😲 when 2 woman fighting over him
Some men are truly actors out here.
Owamie who dresses you, you've up your game girl you are a heater in summer 😂😂❤❤🎉
May this podcast be a success in every way🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️
Vulry seems like a down to earth wholesome woman. I Pray she finds somebody who will cherish and love her truly, because she deserves it. Awww bless her heart 🙏🏽🤍🕯️.
Absolutely ❤
May God give her the true love of her life, and also help her to trust again especially after all that happened 😢
How i loved this interview, dated a narcissist for 6 months could definitely relate❤
Tjo I'm scared of Mjolo, these guys are really narcissistic. I think I'll camp in the singlehood cz dzi khou vhuya.
That’s my cousin …. My beautiful sis.
Love the podcast but next time try to limit the noise from the outside people
The start of the interview was a big no for me, atleast if you started with how did you meet your husband, then why you getting a divorce. next time ask some questions like the upbringing, siblings etc anyway it was a great interview
You do get that she's only starting out right? Why criticize negatively when you can see she's starting out a new segment. No mann be nice 😏
But still, the 'why' isnt a best approach. It pushes beings into defense mode especially if they have history of being misunderstood. They get the feeling they need to depend themselves and justify their decisions and choices.
However if one maybe can ask " May you share what led to the divorce, what caused the breakdown of the marriage"
Lol husbands and giving their wives their old/other phones💀💀
This is also how my stepmom caught my dad.😭😭😂
Yoooooh
As women we've been through a lot, to be called izimbokodo is an understatement struu bob🤞 just that we all not saying our stories because wow
Its screaming low self esteem and no confidence for this man.. he was consistently seeking for validation even he couldn’t believe she said yes to marrying him
I have to say this . I LOVE that this interview gets right to the heart of the story and sets the stage for answering the question "how did this happen?". To hell and back is an appropriate title. It's not called back and to hell...so yes...she started with HELL and then the story explains how she gets back OUT OF IT. Sometimes something new is great. Every other podcaster does the whole "tell me your about your childhood "
Over spoiling sometimes a person is hiding something, people are sick out there character wise!
Noooooo ways see the growth we now on 18.1k in just couple of hours we were on 18k❤
This podcast is a banger I swear📌
She is a good story teller 😢😢
This was so inspirational.... and we thank the Lord the she had the strength to get out. She will find her Prince Charming..... By the way, what is the name of the guests channel ? ❤
@VulryM
Oh Vulry, I am so sorry you had to go through what you went through. You are gorgeous and always have been and deserve the best. Take care and keep glowing ❤
He behaved exactly exactly like Limpopian men😭those ones are very manipulative
😂😂😂
Giiiiiirl you on fire ... upwards all the way, this is the content we need ... something that is relatable
Please ninjas pay attention to Owami’s reaction at 30:12 😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣 i just fell off my chair. No way!!! Ninja you killed me!! No lie…. I have a feeling big Guy was doing the same thing!!!
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😭🤣😂🤣
I swear I died and rose again 🤞🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣
New subscriber from Namibia
I wish ur content can be on TV because is not everyone that can afford to watch online so that everyone can see and no be victims, you are doing a great job my sister
Bathong, such a gorgeous woman . He fumbled
Owamie Owamie Owamie! This is the ninja I followed years ago. I am not even 5 minutes into watching, but I can see this is meant for you. 🎉🎉🎉
As much as sometimes we dont agree with your opinions but this here is taking you places. Keep it up.
I hate people who encourage people to stay, forgive etc they dig you deeper 😒 but you are left alone and end up in that ditch for too long maybe lifetime
I hope our lady heals from this horrific experience
I'm proud of you Owami keep pushing this it was meant for you.❤
That was one of the best interviews I've watched in ages
Your potcast is the real deal and we really appreciate those raw true stories 🎉🤝
Congratulations on 18k Subbies❤🎉
You are doing well Queen🥰,i have a contribution maybe it will help,you can use cards as well to plan your questions prior to the interview.This will help to direct the interview,to have a flowing conversation from beginning to end.Starting from introductions,life before,how they met,got married,life during marriage,what went wrong,lessons learnt,life now during divorce,advice to others etc🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thats my 2 cents,i feel like the interview kept going before and after,back &forth ,all the best Queen,keep winning 🏆 💐💐💐
🌸🌸🌸🌸 yes this will help
The views here surpass the subscriptions. Heres to a successfull podcast queen ninja. We LOVE this for you❤
I personally dont think the brother was cheating,he is a scammer and judging from the way they met,the guy is targerting all these bussiness ladies and made them to believe he loves them then he strikes ,in other words brother is a yahoo boy,that's why he spend his time on facebook saying the same thing to all these ladies
I agree hey. Sad. Praying she find healing and moves on. She is God's child and he will never leave nor forsake her.
But he had a child in marriage that family knew, when did he make that child if he was not cheating
@@katlegonkadimeng6443 you wrong she was dating them same time and according to my understanding he met that girl first and she was already pregnant ,he them met her in a space of five months they got married. she said *he chose me* meaning the baby mama was already in the picture but she was lucky to get married
6 weeks without is nothing compared to a year and half I had none but married . The spoils didn’t stop. I got LVs, Guccis , D&Gs , BMW and Sandton boutiques spoils .
You must come on the podcast
We need more details, please share your story
Mam please come 😮
Please share your story at this podcast with Owamie. It will be a healing process and learning for all of us
Yoh!
I liked how you conducted this interview, Wow girl you are killing this thing 👏 ....
Beautiful lady 😍 Thanks Owamie for sharing Indaba zabantu siyazithanda shem
Im sorry cc for all that you went through..God is with you...ALWAYS
Your second episode makes you younger and more beautiful than before you married. Umuhle dali very beautiful. I want to go to that center in Cape Town , you came out splendid.❤❤❤
The Visuals mukomana dzi 👌this podcast will surely go Far ❤
Lmao, the part of sending a picture of the food you made reminds me of when I dated this guy in Durban and while I was playing wifey he was taking pictures at MY place, tagging his ‘crazy baby mama’ saying he wishes she were there 🤣😭 So many of our memories that he was tagging her on, only found this out on Facebook when I’d moved to Joburg, after him telling me he’s not on Facebook👐🏾
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