my grandmom (grew up in a tiny catholic village in italy) told me, when Josephine Baker was popular, she would one time sneak out of class and go to cinema to watch her dance, priests found out (cause they were there themselves...) and so she got kicked out of school and shamed, and she told me she didn't regret sneaking out, it was the moment she understood, men will put you down for the things they do themselves so she won't listen to them anymore, she was 13 back then. I loved that woman and i miss her every single day. my idol
Linda Lemoni now this is a word!!! The double standard is real and the only way to circumvent is for us to play by our own rules! Your grandma sounds fierce!
she definitely was, thank you! So fierce, that she would leave her fiancé when she was pregnant, DURING WWII cause he wouldn't share his food equally, and she said she preferred being hungry in war and an unmarried mother at that time than to be with an egoist. So when I dated in the beginning of my 20ies, and I still didn't really know yet who I was, and kind of allowed some men to misbehave with me, my memory to her would always stop me from continuing that hurtful behavior to myself and stand up for myself instead :) she was the best influence I could have ever had in my life
I had to share this video because it speaks so much truth. If a woman says that she wants an attractive, educated man and so on , people will be quick to tell her : " oh you will be single for the rest of your life", but if man says he wants " an intelligent, beautiful woman by his side", very few people will tell him that he will be single forever. The double standard is real.
I’m sad because I knew of her but not never knew how brilliant she was until she passed. She was on the news in my hometown and after she left I didn’t know what she had grown to be. With the help of these you tube algorithms، I’ve been binge watching everything she’s been in.
That's quite true, the dating books for men are quite different than ones written for women. They are encouraged, inspired and taught to follow their instincts and get what they want women's books are entire endless lists of rules and even blaming yourself for everything in some. It's time to learn to be not nice, it's hard to unlearn though.
Introvertsan it's funny, there are many men taught to be nice, also. it's odd that there are so many videos about nice men and women finish last. odder that there is a quote that says the first shall be last. many of these circle speeches keep people in a cycle of spinning rhetoric and ideologies to keep them in line with manipulation, to both divide and keep them against one another. it is a trick of someone who is controlling both parties, it is systemic. learning the system gives clear view of what is really going on. law is law and applies the same, and power is in league with one of those laws, however, it goes under a different term, as language is what directs the narrative and mindset. the etymology and history of nice is in reference to breeding and training.
I’m done being too nice to men. I’m from a Muslim background and the cultural norms are extremely misogynistic. I believe Janet was fed up with that culture. She did good in the end by leaving with good lump of wealth and cute baby. 👏🏼
@@bibaolaitan5189 that can happen everywhere. It’s not common and very hard to do sometimes. It was mostly used for war to up the population. You can write in your marriage contract that you don’t want to him to have second wife. Problem solved.
@@user-oo6vr1ky5f it is not common in your part of the world... Where i am from, its basically a norm, cos its allowed by the religion... and it was never written in the quran that it was required for war, you just made that up in ur head... the contract thing was never written in the quran or hadith, its the Dubai govt that included that in their marriage law, because of natural human compassion... And it's also funny that the religion that claims to respect women did not include part of the conditions to get a second wife is to ask the first wife permission...
Nothing like a classy, confident and intelligent black woman! I always enjoy your eloquence on the Grapevine and you are really quite daring! I love it, very inspiring to me as a young woman and new subscriber. Keep up the great work!
I was always “nice” my mom is “nice” and it has gotten us NO WHERE… but according to her.. we will get a spot in heaven. Im soooo angry because of it as I watch the women i admire acquire the things that i want.
This is me and my parents too but the days of being a nice girl are over people walked over me and was also left in the background now its my turn to play dirty.
Religion is a form of mental slavery, installed via white supremacy(among blk ppl in the west). You can't play fair in an UNFAIR world! You better start to distance yourself from your mother & DISREGARD that conditioning before it's too late!!!
@@kidano5317 The abrahamic faiths are extremely misogynistic. It was even more worse for Janet when she moved to an Islamic country with her Muslim husband
I don't understand why people focus so much on money in this marriage. She was married twice before this and not once was people talking about money once the marriages was over.
In the case of the Blk community,the ideaology of BW are not supposed to want a man with money (they are called GoldDiggers) and be in a relationship with a non-Blk man is taboo. BW often taught that we are not supposed to go agenda what the collective demands.
I just love hearing you speak. So much passion in your voice, with poignant facts for back-up! I saw you on the Grapevinetv and was immediately hooked. Please keep the uploads coming as frequently as possible. These topics are rare to find on here and even harder to find spoken with your delivery. Amazing ❤️
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I'll crank out as often as I can! I really appreciate you encouragement. If there are specific topics you want to see covered on TH-cam or on my website, please drop a line. xo
Ma’am I have no doubt that you would have a best selling book. Also you would be exceptional as a public speaker. I love how you drop jewels every time you speak. You’re the embodiment of excellence 😍👏🏾
I love this video you are right on: "Our notion of feminity as being soft, accommodating, kind, considerate and nice holds us back." The politics of respectability works to keep women down and remain used and abused by self-absorbed manipulative cheap men.
May god rest your soul . This woman has passed away not so long ago , and even though i don't know her except for her videos, it really touched me deep inside
I made a promise with myself long time ago to never be too nice cause I don't get anything out of it, so it's great to see reaffirmation of that. Thank you ✨💜
@M IA being apart of a religion doesn’t hold you back at all, I’m religious and I’m perfectly fine, my spirituality is apart of who I am just like many other people. And how do you know it was “invented” unless you can go back thousands of years and tell me for sure none of it has truth then....welp 🤷🏽♀️
You're a uniquely intelligent woman. I realize most of the women of power have Scorpio rising, Scorpio energy within their chart. I've notice Leo sun and rising or fire elements also within a lot of these powerful women astrological charts. Lets not forget packed angular houses. If you're into numerology most of these women have also life path 1, 3,5,7,8,9,11 To sum it up their intuitive independent nature, inspired these powerful women too live fearlessly. Thank you for a informative video.
So, I don't know much about astrology but a bit about numerology and I actually happen to be 11, so that's quite exciting, lol! I'm going to read about the Scorpio energy. Were there any specific women who were Scorpio rising and Leo Sun? Thanks for the tremendous compliment. I love your insight because I do think that women gain a lot when they tap into their intuition and their own independent/ fulfilling nature.
I’m not trying to be dramatic but your teachings have changed my life and mindset so much, thank you for all that you do!! Time to take on the world ladies✨
Your content is like a tall glass of ice cold water on a hot summer day! Refreshing! Speaks to everything that I’ve intuitively ‘known’ inside my whole life. Thank you for helping to restore the balance of feminine energy in this world 💕👸🏽 🙌🏾
This video was so awesome. I was recommended this gem by a mutual friend. Your voice enamored me so much, and this video talking about the double standards wmn often have to go through in society was: so enlightening, informing and entertaining. Because you made such great/excellent/valid points, and I got to listen to and dance to Janet Jackson’s most legendary jams. R.I.P Ayesha, you will be missed and your amazing work will never be forgotten. 🥺🙏🏽
I don't have children at 37 and refuse to have children without being paid per child for the strain on my body. Call it what you want, but it's fair in my reality.
Thank you! I really appreciate your support on the Grapevine. I too believe that Seren is the truth! And in person, she's literally one of the sweetest women I know. I hope you'll find inspiration in the videos I create here! xo
I love you so much Ayesha. You were so appreciated In your time, and your wise words, warmth of spirit, and genuineness truly resonates now and forever. May you rest In heavenly power angel.
You are amazing!! There are books written by gl lambert that encourage women to take their power back and to live the life you are talking about. All women should read these book, its written in simple terms but it may be of benefit. Solving Single, Ho tatics and why men dont love women like you Women should be selfish!!!
Currently getting my entire life right now. When I found out one of my favourite panelists from the Grapevine had her own youtube channel I subscribed before I even saw what content Ayesha was creating. I am blazing through these videos and going to raid your blog next. I love you ayesha xoxo
The quotes are so refreshing - thanks for sharing. It's also worth noting that women who go against the grain are deeply despised and ridiculed by society.
Who's making the rules we as women need to stop following the rules of other peoples agendas that do not benefit us as women u make the rules for ur own life not the beliefs of insecure jealous men that want to see u lose
I love your videos. How do one break such rules and step into ones feminine power? Can you make something like a guideline or so? You definitely got a new subscriber
I was thinking about whether or not to speak about for respect at work and this video was in my recommendations. So glad I subscribed!!! I needed the reminded that well behaved women seldom make history.
Absolutely love this video! I just took your archetype quiz to learn who I am at the core and I found out that Ms Jackson and I have major similarities. I knew there was a reason I loved her so much. Literally the GOAT 🐐. Thank you Ayesha! This is amazing.
This is the best video to watch on my way out to work. I’m sitting on the A train watching this and thinking how scandalous I’ve been most of my life... & I picked this way of living again after my divorce and I get so much respect and admiration. Keep giving women these truth and telling us how much power we have. Stay blessed beautiful. You have a new subbie & I’ll be sharing these videos with my friends. ❤️
Love this video! Especially the part in the end about the gold star. I've been contemplating the attitude of "getting the gold star from society" behavior for about two days now- just thinking about how toxic it is. Confirmation from the universe that I'm thinking correctly, I guess lol.
100% agreed. Despite all Technologie advances we enjoy today, we still struggle with society acceptance and basic rights as equal human beings. We need to support each other and change this patriarchy.
I watched this video twice because that’s how much I needed this message. Might watch it a 3rd. Thank you, Ayesha, for continuously showing me where my power is. 💕🙏🏾
Excellent video! I've been pondering over the concept of 'Performative modesty' for several weeks now and your video touched on a lot of the same points. You refer to it as 'respectability politics'
Can I just say I loved you before, but you talking about my queen when most people never talk about her! She is my favorite woman in the music industry people disrespect her and it boils my blood. I adore her. You are amazing. Thank you!
Who gives a fuck about what other people think?! You have to live life on your own terms (in your own beautiful words Ayesha). The great seductresses just didn't care about what others thought of them. They did their OWN THING. Yes, you have to put yourself first. The best advice I can give about seduction is to be happy and at peace in your life. You want to live in a high vibration. Follow your dreams, learn about the law of attraction (make sure your vibe is high. Meaning, be in a good, stress-free mood), and don't give a rip about what others think of you. Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear! 🌹💖🍷 Love your website and your videos Ayesha! Thank you for all you do.
Jessica 111 yassss! 🙌🏽 This comment is the truth!! Ditto on everything! Learning to be you, love you and do you is the single best thing you can do to lift your vibration and start living in purpose!!! Thanks for blessing my page!!!
This was quite interesting to hear, partly because I was raised by a single West Indian Mom who did played by society's rules and was hurt by that. I not here to give an opinion about this Vlog just wanted to ask If you thought there might be a fine line between needing to be ethically responsible so as to not bring the negative side of Karma to oneself and for the strong women to be able to not live her like dumbing down her power for society's sake?
Of course. When I speak about not playing by the rules, I speak about personal power. Power is neutral. I can charm a five year old into eating veggies and drinking milk because it's good for them, or I can charm a person out of their money. Power is neutral. What you do with it makes the difference. I personally believe in karma and ethics, but to each their own.
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my grandmom (grew up in a tiny catholic village in italy) told me, when Josephine Baker was popular, she would one time sneak out of class and go to cinema to watch her dance, priests found out (cause they were there themselves...) and so she got kicked out of school and shamed, and she told me she didn't regret sneaking out, it was the moment she understood, men will put you down for the things they do themselves so she won't listen to them anymore, she was 13 back then. I loved that woman and i miss her every single day. my idol
Linda Lemoni now this is a word!!! The double standard is real and the only way to circumvent is for us to play by our own rules! Your grandma sounds fierce!
she definitely was, thank you! So fierce, that she would leave her fiancé when she was pregnant, DURING WWII cause he wouldn't share his food equally, and she said she preferred being hungry in war and an unmarried mother at that time than to be with an egoist. So when I dated in the beginning of my 20ies, and I still didn't really know yet who I was, and kind of allowed some men to misbehave with me, my memory to her would always stop me from continuing that hurtful behavior to myself and stand up for myself instead :) she was the best influence I could have ever had in my life
Aww your nonna sounds like an awesome rebel.
I'm jealous she seen Josephine lmao , but she sounds like a dope lady. May she rest in peace
@@lindalemoni5428 WOW WHAT A WOMAN. REST IN PEACE AND IN POWER TO YOUR GRANDMA
I had to share this video because it speaks so much truth. If a woman says that she wants an attractive, educated man and so on , people will be quick to tell her : " oh you will be single for the rest of your life", but if man says he wants " an intelligent, beautiful woman by his side", very few people will tell him that he will be single forever. The double standard is real.
Thanks for sharing! And yes, the double standards are so real -- and they prevent us from going out into the world and taking what we want!
i think its the other way around
Mx Tooreal
Exactly ! And unfortunately a lot of these women allow these mediocre men into their lives.
@@78percent34 Yeha YOU think..not a fact.
"They don't play by the rules because they know the game is rigged." Brilliant!🦋
Powerful words I needed to hear.
@Jodi Landon "A free woman is a serious threat to most women." Say that!!!🔥🔥
"But he speaks English, and has two legs" 😂😂😭😭🙌🏾
I died😭😭😭
My Moms standard for me was "if he loves God, has a job, and all his teeth!" Smh
It's unfortunate that I learned about Ayesha only after her passing. She was such a brilliant woman. RIP, Angel 🤍
WHAT?!?! I just discovered her today!
I’m sad because I knew of her but not never knew how brilliant she was until she passed. She was on the news in my hometown and after she left I didn’t know what she had grown to be. With the help of these you tube algorithms، I’ve been binge watching everything she’s been in.
Wait huh 😕
Oh my goodness I bought her Mother archetype course! This makes me so sad
That's quite true, the dating books for men are quite different than ones written for women. They are encouraged, inspired and taught to follow their instincts and get what they want women's books are entire endless lists of rules and even blaming yourself for everything in some. It's time to learn to be not nice, it's hard to unlearn though.
Introvertsan it's funny, there are many men taught to be nice, also. it's odd that there are so many videos about nice men and women finish last. odder that there is a quote that says the first shall be last. many of these circle speeches keep people in a cycle of spinning rhetoric and ideologies to keep them in line with manipulation, to both divide and keep them against one another. it is a trick of someone who is controlling both parties, it is systemic. learning the system gives clear view of what is really going on. law is law and applies the same, and power is in league with one of those laws, however, it goes under a different term, as language is what directs the narrative and mindset. the etymology and history of nice is in reference to breeding and training.
Struggling with that now!
Coffee AtMidnight Exactly! Some will hide behind being nice, but as soon as you refuse them something they want, all hell breaks loose.
I’m done being too nice to men. I’m from a Muslim background and the cultural norms are extremely misogynistic. I believe Janet was fed up with that culture. She did good in the end by leaving with good lump of wealth and cute baby. 👏🏼
The outside world isnt very nice to women either. Only use you until you run dry and toss you away.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590
For real 😒
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 a community where your husband can marry another woman after you.. is so much worse.. it's just disrespectful....
@@bibaolaitan5189 that can happen everywhere. It’s not common and very hard to do sometimes. It was mostly used for war to up the population. You can write in your marriage contract that you don’t want to him to have second wife. Problem solved.
@@user-oo6vr1ky5f it is not common in your part of the world...
Where i am from, its basically a norm, cos its allowed by the religion... and it was never written in the quran that it was required for war, you just made that up in ur head... the contract thing was never written in the quran or hadith, its the Dubai govt that included that in their marriage law, because of natural human compassion...
And it's also funny that the religion that claims to respect women did not include part of the conditions to get a second wife is to ask the first wife permission...
R.I.P Ayesha, soar high Queen! A pioneer that was truly a master of her craft, she brought dimension and depth to the topic of femininity.
What happened? When and h did she die?
@@adbc1f72she died in a car crash
I'm so sad Ayesha died. I love listening to her wisdom. May she rest in peace.
What happened to her ?
@@HijabifiedModestyshe died in a car crash
Nothing like a classy, confident and intelligent black woman! I always enjoy your eloquence on the Grapevine and you are really quite daring! I love it, very inspiring to me as a young woman and new subscriber. Keep up the great work!
sweetchari thanks so much for supporting my work here and on The Grapevine!
'He's not that ambitious, but he speaks English and he's got two legs!' HAHAHAHAHA
Damn I was losing myself till you reminded me of what my mother fought hard for... empowerment
roshmn I hope you are still doing well
I was always “nice” my mom is “nice” and it has gotten us NO WHERE… but according to her.. we will get a spot in heaven. Im soooo angry because of it as I watch the women i admire acquire the things that i want.
Same girl. Same.
This is me and my parents too but the days of being a nice girl are over people walked over me and was also left in the background now its my turn to play dirty.
@@keikei1943 i feel u honey
Religion is a form of mental slavery, installed via white supremacy(among blk ppl in the west). You can't play fair in an UNFAIR world! You better start to distance yourself from your mother & DISREGARD that conditioning before it's too late!!!
@@kidano5317 The abrahamic faiths are extremely misogynistic. It was even more worse for Janet when she moved to an Islamic country with her Muslim husband
I cannot believe this amazing woman is dead. Life is so fleeting. Rest peacefully, Queen 👑
Who is dead?
@@true4585 The woman in this video
@@mave143
Are you serious ???
@@HijabifiedModesty yes. It's so tragic 😢
@@mave143
Did she get vaccinated ? This is terrible, I loved listening to her. I feel depressed now
When Diana asked for a house she made sure the Supremes had a their own house too. She looked out for the Supremes.
I don't understand why people focus so much on money in this marriage. She was married twice before this and not once was people talking about money once the marriages was over.
Jeff Caldwell true
In the case of the Blk community,the ideaology of BW are not supposed to want a man with money (they are called GoldDiggers) and be in a relationship with a non-Blk man is taboo.
BW often taught that we are not supposed to go agenda what the collective demands.
Rest in sweet peace and serenity, Ayesha. I cannot believe you have passed.
I just love hearing you speak. So much passion in your voice, with poignant facts for back-up! I saw you on the Grapevinetv and was immediately hooked. Please keep the uploads coming as frequently as possible. These topics are rare to find on here and even harder to find spoken with your delivery. Amazing ❤️
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I'll crank out as often as I can! I really appreciate you encouragement. If there are specific topics you want to see covered on TH-cam or on my website, please drop a line. xo
Women Love Power can you talk about women in university? Tips etc? :)
Simi Sanni do you mean tips for women in academia? Studying etc? Can you give me some specifics?
Like how to prosper in general as a young woman in university (social, you could include academic as well)
Okay, sounds good. I'll work on something and add to queue down the line!
RIP Ayesha 🌹🌹🌹
What?? I just found her channel. How did she die? 😢
@@mave143 Fatal Anaphylactic reaction to an allergen
@@dugebuwembo thank you James
I can’t believe you are not here anymore 😭😭😭😭
Ma’am I have no doubt that you would have a best selling book. Also you would be exceptional as a public speaker. I love how you drop jewels every time you speak. You’re the embodiment of excellence 😍👏🏾
Well said!
RIP Ayesha K. Faines 💔🙏🏾
How did she die?
@@phillygyrl34 allergic reaction that is unknown. She was born with allergens and asthma
@@klae7058 😔 🙏🏿 💔
She die😮
@@visionn_ Yeah she passed July 2nd, she suffered fatal anaphylactic reaction to an allergen, she had severe allergies....
Beyoncé stepped on Destinys other children !! 😂😂 Good one Ayesha!! New subbie
Jessica Roy 😂
I love your username. Somehow its appropriate for commenting on this video. :)
😂😂😂
😂🤣
Just discovered this channel today and I am so sorry that she has passed. Hope her channel and website stays up so I can binge.
She's still alive
@@kuuii123_ ?
@@kuuii123_ she passed 2nd July 2021
The game really is rigged, I agree.
And your right men never have a rule book on how to treat a lady
I love this video you are right on: "Our notion of feminity as being soft, accommodating, kind, considerate and nice holds us back." The politics of respectability works to keep women down and remain used and abused by self-absorbed manipulative cheap men.
May god rest your soul . This woman has passed away not so long ago , and even though i don't know her except for her videos, it really touched me deep inside
I made a promise with myself long time ago to never be too nice cause I don't get anything out of it, so it's great to see reaffirmation of that. Thank you ✨💜
You’re the one who suffers for trying to be “good” according to standards set up by others who will benefit by holding you back.
@M IA being apart of a religion doesn’t hold you back at all, I’m religious and I’m perfectly fine, my spirituality is apart of who I am just like many other people. And how do you know it was “invented” unless you can go back thousands of years and tell me for sure none of it has truth then....welp 🤷🏽♀️
Yup! Learned the hard way
You can push the envelope and still maintain class. That actually makes the message you want to send more powerful.
RIP QUEEN🌹🌹👑🌹🌹
You're a uniquely intelligent woman. I realize most of the women of power have Scorpio rising, Scorpio energy within their chart. I've notice Leo sun and rising or fire elements also within a lot of these powerful women astrological charts. Lets not forget packed angular houses. If you're into numerology most of these women have also life path 1, 3,5,7,8,9,11
To sum it up their intuitive independent nature, inspired these powerful women too live fearlessly. Thank you for a informative video.
So, I don't know much about astrology but a bit about numerology and I actually happen to be 11, so that's quite exciting, lol! I'm going to read about the Scorpio energy. Were there any specific women who were Scorpio rising and Leo Sun? Thanks for the tremendous compliment. I love your insight because I do think that women gain a lot when they tap into their intuition and their own independent/ fulfilling nature.
Janet Jackson,Martha Stewart, Jacqueline Kennedy Scorpio Rising
Can I recommend getting your astrological chart. Astrotheme.com
Continue giving amazing informative videos. I'm a new subscriber.
Thanks for subscribing! I'm going to get a chart too!
I'm a Gemini sun and Scorpio moon and Virgo rising
I’m not trying to be dramatic but your teachings have changed my life and mindset so much, thank you for all that you do!! Time to take on the world ladies✨
I never knew you. Rest in heaven babe. I know you're in a better place experiencing the joys of not hurting anymore. LIFE ain't easy.
😭 🌹 Fly high ✨
What happened to her???
@@indigoearthangel888 no clue. Chloe posted it.
I am watching this until it is ingrained in my psyche! Thank you Ayesha for all your wisdom.
Badu is defo very seductive I get the impression guy's fell over themselves for her...and probably still do
Erika Badu is a seducer she is a Pisces of course!
REST WELL HEROINE.
ran over here so fast when you said you had your own channel. 😍😍😍😍
Red Delphino woot woot!
I love hearing her speak. Rest In Peace, Ayesha.🤍
Your content is like a tall glass of ice cold water on a hot summer day! Refreshing! Speaks to everything that I’ve intuitively ‘known’ inside my whole life. Thank you for helping to restore the balance of feminine energy in this world 💕👸🏽 🙌🏾
DreamComeTRue super refreshing I’m hooked
Rest In Power Queen!!!
How did she pass?
She's still alive
@@madame4883 Fatal allergic reaction
This video was so awesome. I was recommended this gem by a mutual friend. Your voice enamored me so much, and this video talking about the double standards wmn often have to go through in society was: so enlightening, informing and entertaining. Because you made such great/excellent/valid points, and I got to listen to and dance to Janet Jackson’s most legendary jams. R.I.P Ayesha, you will be missed and your amazing work will never be forgotten. 🥺🙏🏽
I don't have children at 37 and refuse to have children without being paid per child for the strain on my body. Call it what you want, but it's fair in my reality.
Your lost mama when you get old whose gonna care about you
@No U adoption is not your kid and you’re gonna disappoint your self when that kid gets older and wants to be with their tribe
@No U okay soooo.....
@No U Exactly. I’m adopted too and this person is so weird.
Watching this for the third time, I think it is an important reminder. Being likeable is a myth.
Needed this reminder TODAY. BEFORE the next work week starts
This by far is the best feminine channels I have come across!
I followed you from the grapevine. You and Seren always speak what I'm thinking. I'm glad you have this channel , thank you for such great content.
Thank you! I really appreciate your support on the Grapevine. I too believe that Seren is the truth! And in person, she's literally one of the sweetest women I know. I hope you'll find inspiration in the videos I create here! xo
I love you so much Ayesha. You were so appreciated In your time, and your wise words, warmth of spirit, and genuineness truly resonates now and forever. May you rest In heavenly power angel.
What a brilliant woman with amazing advice. Rip Ayesha 💕💕💕
She passed away?
Yes. Passed away a few weeks ago.
@@dawnatha9246 😲😲😲😲 This is my first time seeing her content!!!! She's brilliant!!! 😟😢😔 *was brilliant 😞
Rest in peace Queen
Sooo are you this saying this woman is no longer with us ?
She passed away a few weeks ago.
@@dawnatha9246 how did she pass away
Beyonce stepped on whose children 🤣😂 New subscriber & supporter here!
Smart, eloquent and beautiful. Wish you the very best and guess who subscribed?
Thandi M thank you thank you thank you!!!!! Xoxo xoxo!
WOW this has to be the BEST recommended video I have seen in ages, so empowering! Thankyou :) xxx
THANK YOU!!!
You are amazing!!
There are books written by gl lambert that encourage women to take their power back and to live the life you are talking about. All women should read these book, its written in simple terms but it may be of benefit. Solving Single, Ho tatics and why men dont love women like you
Women should be selfish!!!
Asha Hassell yes, I've read him! Love his work. So eye-opening.
yup, read his site and his books, i agree, she teaches a lot of similar concepts! love them
Janet Jackson deserves the world!
Currently getting my entire life right now. When I found out one of my favourite panelists from the Grapevine had her own youtube channel I subscribed before I even saw what content Ayesha was creating. I am blazing through these videos and going to raid your blog next. I love you ayesha xoxo
I’m just seeing this, love Janet ❤️ I will miss your content (found you years ago), rest peacefully ❤️🧚🏼♂️
Rip queen 🙏🏽❤️
The quotes are so refreshing - thanks for sharing. It's also worth noting that women who go against the grain are deeply despised and ridiculed by society.
Who's making the rules we as women need to stop following the rules of other peoples agendas that do not benefit us as women u make the rules for ur own life not the beliefs of insecure jealous men that want to see u lose
I love your videos. How do one break such rules and step into ones feminine power? Can you make something like a guideline or so? You definitely got a new subscriber
Thanks so much! This is a great topic for a future video or at least a blog post. I'm adding it to the list!!!
RIP Ayesha. Hate that I found you after your transition. Love you 💕
I was thinking about whether or not to speak about for respect at work and this video was in my recommendations. So glad I subscribed!!! I needed the reminded that well behaved women seldom make history.
This is honestly one of the best dating/love etc video Ive ever seen. You've just gained a subscriber.
Absolutely love this video! I just took your archetype quiz to learn who I am at the core and I found out that Ms Jackson and I have major similarities. I knew there was a reason I loved her so much. Literally the GOAT 🐐. Thank you Ayesha! This is amazing.
Can't believe she is no more.... that's really heartbreaking 💔💔💔💔💔
needed to hear this today
This is the best video to watch on my way out to work. I’m sitting on the A train watching this and thinking how scandalous I’ve been most of my life... & I picked this way of living again after my divorce and I get so much respect and admiration. Keep giving women these truth and telling us how much power we have. Stay blessed beautiful. You have a new subbie & I’ll be sharing these videos with my friends. ❤️
I love your outlook and I think you are quite right. We are human too, and we should achieve our goals in life. ❤️❤️
Love this video! Especially the part in the end about the gold star. I've been contemplating the attitude of "getting the gold star from society" behavior for about two days now- just thinking about how toxic it is. Confirmation from the universe that I'm thinking correctly, I guess lol.
MiscellaneousAB confirmation from te universe indeed! Live your life!
100% agreed. Despite all Technologie advances we enjoy today, we still struggle with society acceptance and basic rights as equal human beings. We need to support each other and change this patriarchy.
Rest in peace queen. Thank you for this video I just happened to come across it. 💞
Rest In Peace queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mind telling me what happened. I just found her channel.
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@@dugebuwembo thanks. 🥲
This was a great perspective! Something we need to hear more!
Thanks!!!
Preach! I felt a full body yes from listening to you speak.
Velvet Rope is my favorite Janet Jackson album
I watched this video twice because that’s how much I needed this message. Might watch it a 3rd. Thank you, Ayesha, for continuously showing me where my power is. 💕🙏🏾
I listened to your comments on the grapevine and knew I'd like your channel...great work...I gained information and validity for my thoughts
I just NEVER want your videos to end. Keep dropping knowledge Queen.
"He speaks English and he's got two legs"! dear lawwd !!😂😂😂when did we come to this ?
" blc he speaks English and he got two legs".....? This is deep 😭
I can't wait for us woman's riseeee up.
I LOVE Janet Jackson. Wow, the nostalgia. I miss the 90's :')
RIP Ayesha 🙏🏽🕊
Excellent discussion Angel! Bless your Soul Ayesha 😇🙌✨
Excellent video! I've been pondering over the concept of 'Performative modesty' for several weeks now and your video touched on a lot of the same points. You refer to it as 'respectability politics'
This video was flat out awesome. Well done!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
come back, we miss you!
Can I just say I loved you before, but you talking about my queen when most people never talk about her! She is my favorite woman in the music industry people disrespect her and it boils my blood. I adore her. You are amazing. Thank you!
Peace and love to this beautiful energy. I enjoyed and continue enjoy your balance and knowledgeable insight.
Who gives a fuck about what other people think?! You have to live life on your own terms (in your own beautiful words Ayesha).
The great seductresses just didn't care about what others thought of them. They did their OWN THING. Yes, you have to put yourself first.
The best advice I can give about seduction is to be happy and at peace in your life. You want to live in a high vibration. Follow your dreams, learn about the law of attraction (make sure your vibe is high. Meaning, be in a good, stress-free mood), and don't give a rip about what others think of you.
Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear! 🌹💖🍷
Love your website and your videos Ayesha! Thank you for all you do.
Jessica 111 yassss! 🙌🏽 This comment is the truth!! Ditto on everything! Learning to be you, love you and do you is the single best thing you can do to lift your vibration and start living in purpose!!! Thanks for blessing my page!!!
No black women we are the ones that get told we act like men . 👩🏿👩🏽👩🏾
Miss you
This is glorious tea. I've watched this video so many times over the months aND I'm still moved.
This was quite interesting to hear, partly because I was raised by a single West Indian Mom who did played by society's rules and was hurt by that. I not here to give an opinion about this Vlog just wanted to ask If you thought there might be a fine line between needing to be ethically responsible so as to not bring the negative side of Karma to oneself and for the strong women to be able to not live her like dumbing down her power for society's sake?
Of course. When I speak about not playing by the rules, I speak about personal power. Power is neutral. I can charm a five year old into eating veggies and drinking milk because it's good for them, or I can charm a person out of their money. Power is neutral. What you do with it makes the difference. I personally believe in karma and ethics, but to each their own.
You are super cool.
So glad I found your channel ❤
Sis you are giving me life!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👄💃👸🏾💗💗💗
"ok he's not that ambitious, but he speaks english and has two legs" 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Bless you Ayesha💗✨
You can't make an omelette without braking a few eggs
please make more videos !! i beg you xx
R.I.P. Ayesha 🙏🏽❤️