10 INFP Secrets (Don't Tell Anyone!)

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  • @delanebredvik
    @delanebredvik ปีที่แล้ว +39

    As an INFP, I guess I am more likely than most others to look for these videos and watch them, hoping to gain some new insights. Plus it helps me procrastinate.

  • @badpoetry33
    @badpoetry33 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You know us SO SO well. One of the best, wisest and most insightful channels for INFP on TH-cam… instead of relying on stereotypes you really understand how we tick, our deepest fears such as being corrupted by power, and the way you speak directly to us with that look in your eye gives me such a jolt of optimism and hope. thank you, Erik!!!

  • @lourdedevilson7739
    @lourdedevilson7739 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Feels nice to be appreciated

  • @shelovesrealmadrid
    @shelovesrealmadrid 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never stop uploading about infps !!😭❤️

  • @anandaalvarez4336
    @anandaalvarez4336 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This makes me genuinely smile

  • @bretbye1291
    @bretbye1291 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do something nice for others and don’t tell them. Baller move imo.
    Suffer in silence and put on a happy face. Baller move again.
    INFPs are strong 💪🏼

    • @actualizedinfp
      @actualizedinfp  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't suffer in silence though!

  • @yappysgirl5573
    @yappysgirl5573 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yes, I have always been just a bit confused because, while I was 100 percent sure I was an INFP, I have always had a " thing" that felt quite a bit like introverted intuition. I've always had that sense of heading in the direction of a single destination, sifting through life experiences and categorizing or discarding them, but always using them as guideposts along the way to that ultimate destination. I don't even know what to call it, because it, too, is a moving target, but it's always in front of me, and all that I do is a movement toward it. I love that image of Fi pedalling with Ni right behind it. I think that fits with my experience so well.

  • @sarahs5340
    @sarahs5340 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m almost 50 yo. and it has taken me this long to be able to be open to/ with people. Even now I struggle to share myself, but I know it is important for social interactions and building friendships/ relationships. I lost my last boyfriend (partially) because I just couldn’t open up to him and I didn’t like talking about my past or opinions with him. It really frustrated him. Finally, I said, “Look, I’m just a private person”. That dumbfounded him because he loved talking about himself nonstop Lol. I think he began to be suspicious of me, but I didn’t want to talk to him about myself and I realized that I would rather leave the relationship because I would never feel comfortable sharing my life with him. Maybe my walls are a bit too high, but I learn so much listening to others. Maybe it is poor self esteem, but my life is my own and I don’t think it concerns other people. My opinions are just my interpretations of reality based on my personal experiences. I like to be a peacemaker by being a good listener and by being humorous. I guess if I meet the right person I would be able to share myself more, but it makes me feel vulnerable when I talk about myself. I’m practicing opening up to people, but it doesn’t come naturally to me. I will share myself if I think it helps someone else; makes them more comfortable or feel less alone, or even heals them in some way. I realize that kind of sharing isn’t the same and doesn’t facilitate true intimacy since it is a performative act. I feel like no one would really understand me anyway, however that is a self absorbed stance because in reality I’m not that different from anybody else. Anyway, it is a challenge.

  • @logan97327
    @logan97327 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it that this video elucidates infp strengths and does not give away too much

  • @teodora7219
    @teodora7219 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This might be the most useful INFP video I watched. Taking notes.

  • @andeeanko7079
    @andeeanko7079 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A very introspective video! I'm an older INFP and see eith experience the truth of these 10 points. I love your focus on archetypes and myths, I'm writing a fantasy novel myself.....❤
    PS - I do love your hair like this, off of your face, looking really good!

  • @lightloveandawake3114
    @lightloveandawake3114 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💗😊💕Thank you for making your INFP videos. It good to know to keep on the path and not stop ourselves because we lack some self-confidence and just shut down and/or procrastinate. I got some wind under my wings when one of these INFP videos suggested for us (INFP)to bring to mind who are we doing this for? Keeping that in mind, I got out of my funk. Thank you so much, from this INFP.💕😊💗

  • @adrienne9757
    @adrienne9757 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much. You make me love myself more and more every day ❤🎉😢
    Please do a bid about how to balance ne and ti

  • @sunfall9088
    @sunfall9088 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #8 was incredibly helpful, thank you Eric!

  • @nicolagilbert6548
    @nicolagilbert6548 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, love this!!! I don't feel too flaky now!!!....

  • @XYZ-mn2zu
    @XYZ-mn2zu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fantastic video. Thank you!

  • @vmas3
    @vmas3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video. Thank you!

  • @carmanahwoo
    @carmanahwoo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video!❤

  • @Gjakdjruknownhpjs
    @Gjakdjruknownhpjs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since I came to argue here, don't worry you wouldn't be disappointed.
    1# everyone seems to be more than they actually are.
    2# ok I give up.

  • @dieresis9
    @dieresis9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just started reading The Seven Basic Plots by Christopher Booker, a great analysis of common patterns among story types.
    When I first started in IT, I struggled with the thought process, then learned I could reframe everything in terms of language. Learning to think in a coding language as if it were a language foreign to me, like German, allowed me to think about what I needed to design by creating stories that expressed desired functionality from different user perspectives. I was able to a use plot sequence as a stand-in for coding logic. When I had mastered the coding language, I was then able to implement the plot by “speaking” code. It was like having an idea for a story, then just sitting down to write, letting the words that emerged guide me. It did indeed increase my ability to create to have problems that I needed to solve under deadlines.

    • @iwatchyoutube4179
      @iwatchyoutube4179 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shit I had to tried that that sound cool and actually fun.

  • @jeplica7011
    @jeplica7011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She cant be convicted, shes earned her degree. Billy Joel

  • @Таволга
    @Таволга 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Мне иногда кажется может вовсе я не INFP ..Слишком хорошая по характеристикам))) Многое совпадает но ..невозможно быть такой идеальной личностью во всем , так недалеко до эгоизма и высокого самомнения о самой себе. А как же другие типы личности? Ведь в каждом человеке есть хорошие и плохие качества..
    Огромное спасибо за видео!❤

  • @T-Rackz777
    @T-Rackz777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have an innate desire to be number one, and be the leader of the new world. 😴Just you wait, I shall lead from the front.

  • @jeplica7011
    @jeplica7011 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol. My initials are Jem 🤣🧐

  • @anandaalvarez4336
    @anandaalvarez4336 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u

  • @T-Rackz777
    @T-Rackz777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    See thing is, I’m an INFP, but I’m not a pussy like the rest. I like to believe I’m a rare breed. And if need be, I’ll step on anyone. But ofc I prefer not to. I was really in the streets, raising myself since 7th grade. Got in my fair share of fights, and a lot of people view me as competition, not someone people typically think they can run over. My confidence is on 9999999😴

  • @teodora7219
    @teodora7219 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is no. 3?

  • @Pandatwirly
    @Pandatwirly ปีที่แล้ว

    💗😍💗🥰

  • @ismaelmarksteiner
    @ismaelmarksteiner ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Only those who do not seek power are qualified to hold it.”
    ~ Plato 🤍🌸🦋✨