My son is very sick and has had numerous surgeries in his life. He has spent a lot of time in the hospital and I can honestly say it’s scary but it’s also a safe place for us. The doctors and nurses have saved my sons life many times. I know being a doctor and nurse is extremely difficult and stressful. You are responsible for human lives. We are greatful for all the nurses and doctors.
I retired early as a PA and I can definitely relate to you! When I used to work at the hospitals, it burned me out badly to the point where I loathed the job and didn't want to get out of bed, but I had to anyway, bc I had a family to raise. My husband possessed a degree with a good wage, but that wasn't enough to raise our family and pay off his student loans. Whereas, I had the opportunity to have my loans forgiven. I ended up transitioning to work at a small clinic that was run by the state and it was a breeze. The job was stressful but I was actually a lot happier, both mentally and emotionally, and I wasn't physically sick often. Our job has a good pay off but the mental toll can get worse if we do not know how to prioritize our time or take care of our wellbeing. I suggest you to take time off and go for a long vacation and contemplate what you what in life. You're the only one who knows what's best for you, not the outsiders bc they aren't in your position. *Excuse my grammar
I give you a pat on the back for your accomplishment, sister. 👍😉 I can only imagine how stressful your job was at the hospital. It's good that you were able to retire early. Also, your grammar is WAAAAY better than most of these people in the comments. It's drives me nuts when I read a bad or really bad sentence or paragraph and almost everything is wrong, and it makes no sense!
That is why as a parent you let your children choose their path, not go into the path you want them to go to. At the end of the day, it’s your child happiness and future not yours. I truly hope our Hmong parents will start to understand that’s it’s your child future/happiness so let them go into a field they want to. As a parent myself, I tell my college children, go into a field that will make you happy, not me. Regardless of what it is, I’ll support you.
These kind of parents are the 1975 parents who cares about their fame and reputation, they don't understand how hard it is for their kids to go through school, all they understand is that they want their kids to be doctors so that it'll make them look good
Thov VaajTswv foom koobmoov rau koj txhawb koj lub zog os me tub hmong zoo siab tias peb muaj ib tug tub yog moob kawm tiav li koj nawb thov ua siab loj thiab ntseeg tias txhua tus uas koj pab dhau los lawv yuav tsis tu siab rau koj vim koj twb ua tag koj lub peev xwm lawm 🙏🙏
I worked for doctors for many many years. I can honestly say, I never want my children to become doctors. Their job is never done. But I can say the same for social workers and nurses. Social workers always get the brunt of things but are way under appreciated in their field. So many nurses and social workers have mental health problems because of who and what they have to deal with every single day. Public servants are true heroes!
Thank you for sharing your experience sir/doctor. Your story is definitely a refreshing one. I have nothing to say but we appreciate all that you do. You're all heroes. Much love and respect man
The medical field is tough mentally. Do what is best for you not for your dad. He's not the one suffering mentally. You don't want to go crazy because you want to make your dad proud. Life is short.
That's right. Sounds like he's still young and got many years ahead of him. Not sure if he has children and a family, of so, that's even more of a reason to get out.
Tus me nus docteur thov lub ntuj yawm saub pab foom koob hmoov zoo rau koj thiab kom nws muab lub hwj huaj los tdoos koj tiv thaiv koj es kom koj lub siab loj nawb mog. Es koj los pab Cawm tib neeg txoj sia kom zoo xwb nawb mog. Thiab hais kom koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd ho khaws ceeb rau koj thiab kom cov txawj xais ceeb ho pab xais rau thiab os nawb 😍
Do what makes you’re happy about it and not for others.. if you’re not happy on what you’re doing then is not for you.. be strong be yourself and do it that make you happy and well.
Thank you so much brother, for having the courage to share your experience with us, I appreciate all the effort and education you put yourself through for your father's wish. May the Lord blesses you and give you strength as you continue to save lives.
Your mental health is very important. Please change your profession. We are not meant for all professions and that's okay. Please do what makes YOU happy. You are the one suffering. Don't be afraid to disappoint your father.
Don’t want to lost an important person to the community and especially to our Hmong community. I encourage you to read this from the Bible....Psalms chapter 23 verses 1 to 6. You don’t need to be an Christian to be love and comfort by God. He is always with you.
Doc, don’t give up in your career. You are too hard on yourself. You can’t save every lives. You are not expected to save everyone. Spiritual beings are expected at hospitals. Keep going
Thank you for sharing your experience, mister. May you be able to find something that will bring you peace, good money, that you'll love and save your mental health.
What an amazing insight of your field. Shift your position to something that deals with lower stress. I understand that you want to make your dad proud, but at the end of the day, you are the one who is facing all the situations. I'm sure he will be proud of you no matter what. Best of luck to you, brother.
Hais rau nej cov parents na, yog me nyuam tsis yeem mus kawm rau koj lub hom phiaj, txhob yuam lawv mog tsam lawv xub tuag ua koj ntej vim txoj kev nyuaj siab. Thov cia me nyuam xaiv me nyuam txoj kev kawm (lub hom phiaj).
Very interesting topic and perspective! Don’t let anyone pressure you into doing something that kills your soul. Find a career in which even if you don’t get paid you’ll do it because it’s your passion. I was pre-Med my freshman year in college and said no. I’m in a work field that satisfies my soul.
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with the public, so we can share with our sons and daughters. We have to let them know to pick the jobs they like and enjoy of working for many years to come. It seems like you are trying to fulfill your father’s dream only. You need to move on to do the job you enjoy. When you get older your symptoms are going to get worse.
As a almost 40 year old, I can honestly say as you get older it’s not about money in your career, it’s about a healthy work and life balance. Please take care of yourself it can cause a lot of health issues. Maybe become a family doctor or something less stressful. We appreciate all doctors.
Zoo siab rau koj os Dr. Koj mloog koj txiv hais vim tias koj tsis xav kom nws tus siab rau koj. Koj hloov mus ua lwm yam Doctor lo koj yeej yog docteur. Changed the speciality!!! Tu peux changer de spécialité, il n'est jamais trop tard pour toi. Courage !!!
Mi tub Aw congratulations that we have some hmong Dr, just to remember that every job that you do or served customers it’s from ur heart ok? If you r doing from the bottom of ur good heart and honor , it means los ntawm lub siab dawb paug pab tus neeg ntawd xwb ces no worry, but if you don’t know n u still do anyway, that could be ur fault , anything have to be honor
Be strong brother, don't give up. We need people like you to save lives. Proud of your accomplishments. We're behind your back to support you. Love from one your hmoob brother.
I wish the elder will understand sometimes. Not everyone is made to be a doctor, books and pencils is easy to do, but when it comes to performance is a different experience. Thanks for sharing the experience, I had always wonder if Spirit is real.
Kuv Tsuas yog ib tug txhais lus xwb, qee lub sijhawm kuv tau nrog cov Dr mus ua procedure xwb kuv twb tshai thiab ho yuav tau siab tawv tiag2 nawb thiab thov ua tsaug rau nej cov uas yog Dr nej ris lub nra nyav tshaj plaws li.
I was in the OR shadowing Dr.Johnson performing a total knee surgery and it was amazing how good the surgeon was. I was cool and clam maybe I’m used to seeing blood and bones. Looking forward to work in the OR in the future.
Live for yourself. Not for others. Your dad isn't the one going through these issues. You are. If he wants a doctor, tell him to be one. Do what's best for you.
This is an interesting story. Brother, you went through a Phenomenal experience of your career; not everyone can explain your situation. I suggest follow your heart not just your mind. You are very spiritual...have you consider examining the spiritual aspect? If not, please reconsider. Not everyone is fit for the most desired career. Good luck!
THE HEALTH CARE INDUSTRY IS DEFINTELY STRESSFUL BOTH ON A PERSONAL AND PROFESSONIAL LEVEL NO MATTER YOUR TITLE OR POSITION,SOMEONE'S LIFE IS IN YOUR HANDS, PROPS TO ALL WHO IS CARING FOR US ON THE FRONT LINE, YOU GUYS ARE THE MVP.
Need to become christian trust in God mighty God will protect you and God will standby you and he will send his angels to protect you from evils ghost and goblins. 🙏🙏🙏
It's time to change career brother. No job/career is worth you risking your livelyhood and sanity. There's other practices that you can still work in that keep you sane and still continue to pursue your passion. Leave now, those who are telling you to stay in such as your colleagues and your father, once your sanity is gone, they will be too busy to come look after you. Good luck!
There should be no shame dealing with anxiety. I am not a physician but I do feel all the things you do and see things. Hmong people in general are very spiritual people. You just have to learn how to deal with that part of you.
As a nurse, I understand the stress your job demands so much out of you. You already tried your best and only you know when it's time to let go. Your heart is in the right place but it costs your health greatly.
It’s a tough responsibility. Sometimes people think it’s easy but it’s not. We all should be thankful for all doctors. Koj yuav mus nkawm los kavtsij mus. It’s your health not your parents. You’re the one suffering not them.
You have to love doing your job to be able to help your patients especially your jobs are dealing with life and death. Best of luck for you hope you make the right decision in the future.
Kuv tsis yog neeg ntxe tab sis kuv puab koj ceeb loj lawm koj yuav tau nriav tus neeg ua txawj xis ceeb tsaj yuav pab tau koj vim kuv pab tau ntau tus lawm
Prayers for you brother. May you have the courage to face the work you do or have the courage to leave it. Don't listen to your dad's advice. You have to love yourself and do what's best for you. No one understands you best because they don't see what you see. Good luck and take care.
If you don’t have a strong desire to be a Dr and it’s not YOUR passion or choice to go be a Dr and help save lives than you should never go into it. Being scared and frighten of blood or splitting a human body apart is not someone that should go be a DR. Because if you make a mistake you’ll feel bad about it for the rest of your lives and if you see ghosts like this than well... many of them will come back to taunt you and you won’t be in peace about it. One day it might just tear you apart and you can’t let that happen if you want to be a DR. Good luck to you!
Yuav ua ib tug neeg phais neeg yuav tsum yog cov neeg siab tawv. This guy probably can't even walk a mile in the dark to a hunting spot in the morning. He has hallucinations because of his scariness.
Tej zaum koj siab muag xwb tus neeg koj cawm tsis tau zoo rov qab los koj yuav tsum xav tias nws txoj hmoov tsuas los nyob li ntawv xwb ma ua siab loj thov kom lub ntuj foom koob hmoov pu rau koj kom koj ua lub siab loj pab cawm neeg txoj siab mus ntev2 tom ntej mog
I can imagine it’s not easy being a doctor because you are in a position where you are now responsible for a persons life when they come to you for help. It’s not a task to be taken lightly and can be stressful and a heavy burden. It may have its rewards but it also comes with a price and only you can decide if it’s a price you are willing to pay and if it’s worth the reward. Thank you for sharing your perspective on this as some only see the glorified version and not all of what being a doctor entails. I hope you find peace and your calling whatever it may be because life is too short to live your life according to others, Best of luck to you!
Since this is affecting your mental health, it's best that you change your career. You can't be forcing yourself to do something that you have no motivation doing. Good luck to you and I hope that you do what you love and make you happy and that you're not just doing it for your dad. Bc your dad will never understand what you're going through.
I agree with you. I work with a lot of doctor. People think that doctor is a robot and no pain, no feeling, but actually doctor have more stress and depress than anyone else. 3 of my doc have heart bypassed due to a lot of stress. One of our lovely patients die my doctor and I hurt a lot.
Why meet your parents wants? Our Asian parents that’s all they wants for their children, but is you have to take depression’s med and also it’s not your passion to practice then NO need to do it.
You need to love yourself and choose what is best for your health and sanity. Change your career because it sounds like this isn't the right one for you.
To this brother, I think this is not the profession that you enjoyed but you did it because of your Dad. You wasted all your school year doing something you hate!! If you really love it you pour all your passion into learning to healed and compassion toward your patients. You made need to reevaluate your career. Growing up I've always loved helping people and Know that I want to work with elderly or people. I'm a nurse and I love all my patients I can't even wait to see all of them!! Do what you love not what people want you to be!! Be happy!
Brother you very brave to make it that far. Proud of you but if that job takes a toll on you, think twice and change direction because your life is more precious than the job.
Doc, I'm a nurse but outpatient setting and I cannot relate. I say don't give up. I think you just need to have a big hear...siab loj and look it as your have a psych ability that you able to see and communicate with the dead or those who is going to die.
Wow, interesting. I am not a doctor but love to listen to the story. I believe doctors are good people. If I have a chance, i like to be a pediatrician. Wish you well.
Wow, good story for others to have different views on being a Surgeon or doctor. Sounds like this is not the right career for you. Is best you find something else to do before you destroy your own self. For me, I knew I will not be able to see dead bodies and cut people's bodies for surgery etc, so I never consider studying that field. Best wishes to you brother.
Right! Agree. Honestly I wouldn't want a surgeon who is that afraid or have that much anxiety every time if needed to have surgery. People go to these people because they need the help and if you can't, maybe not the profession for you.
yes it's very true and the biggest problem is they have a high divorce rate among doctors because they're not with their significant others... i wanted my son to pursued his medical doctor degree too, but my son said, '' no dad, i don't want to end up like most of my colleagues that are doctors... he has 5 friend and 4 are divorced and the fifth is on bad term... only hmong people appraised and adamant to hold on to that husband for his title... we as parent don't force your kids to pursue your dream, but let him pursue his own dreams not yours.
This is the problem with our society...people only enter a certain career because of fame and money without realizing what they do to their mental. This is also the reason why soo many mental health issues. This also why people always mistreat patients/clients bc it's for money not the passion for the job.
Tus tub koj lub siab yau yog koj ceeb koj ntshai lawm koj yuav tau mus nrhiav cov neeg uas txawj xaisceeb es muab xais ob peb zaug yog cov ntxim mas zoo ov yog koj yuav noj tshuaj nyuaj siab ces yuav tau noj tag koj lub neej os es nrhiav kev pab nawb
Being a certain Doctor depends on the person's passion and mentality. Not everyone can go into it . That's why we have many different types of doctors.
It's so sad that we as children suppress our own health and well being because we want our parents to be happy. I know you were just trying to live your parents dreams but your father is selfish for not caring about your health and well being. Its you who suffer and do not enjoy your life. So what makes you happy and what you can handle.
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My son is very sick and has had numerous surgeries in his life. He has spent a lot of time in the hospital and I can honestly say it’s scary but it’s also a safe place for us. The doctors and nurses have saved my sons life many times. I know being a doctor and nurse is extremely difficult and stressful. You are responsible for human lives. We are greatful for all the nurses and doctors.
I retired early as a PA and I can definitely relate to you! When I used to work at the hospitals, it burned me out badly to the point where I loathed the job and didn't want to get out of bed, but I had to anyway, bc I had a family to raise. My husband possessed a degree with a good wage, but that wasn't enough to raise our family and pay off his student loans. Whereas, I had the opportunity to have my loans forgiven. I ended up transitioning to work at a small clinic that was run by the state and it was a breeze. The job was stressful but I was actually a lot happier, both mentally and emotionally, and I wasn't physically sick often. Our job has a good pay off but the mental toll can get worse if we do not know how to prioritize our time or take care of our wellbeing. I suggest you to take time off and go for a long vacation and contemplate what you what in life. You're the only one who knows what's best for you, not the outsiders bc they aren't in your position. *Excuse my grammar
I give you a pat on the back for your accomplishment, sister. 👍😉 I can only imagine how stressful your job was at the hospital. It's good that you were able to retire early. Also, your grammar is WAAAAY better than most of these people in the comments. It's drives me nuts when I read a bad or really bad sentence or paragraph and almost everything is wrong, and it makes no sense!
That is why as a parent you let your children choose their path, not go into the path you want them to go to. At the end of the day, it’s your child happiness and future not yours. I truly hope our Hmong parents will start to understand that’s it’s your child future/happiness so let them go into a field they want to. As a parent myself, I tell my college children, go into a field that will make you happy, not me. Regardless of what it is, I’ll support you.
These kind of parents are the 1975 parents who cares about their fame and reputation, they don't understand how hard it is for their kids to go through school, all they understand is that they want their kids to be doctors so that it'll make them look good
Thov VaajTswv foom koobmoov rau koj txhawb koj lub zog os me tub hmong zoo siab tias peb muaj ib tug tub yog moob kawm tiav li koj nawb thov ua siab loj thiab ntseeg tias txhua tus uas koj pab dhau los lawv yuav tsis tu siab rau koj vim koj twb ua tag koj lub peev xwm lawm 🙏🙏
nyob zoo, kuv nyiam mloog, keep on going
Thov vajtswv nrog nraim koj os mog.
Don’t be ashamed. You’ve endured through experiences most humans don’t experience. You’re a hero.
Thanks for sharing your experiences. Most physicians don’t talk about their vulnerabilities.
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I worked for doctors for many many years. I can honestly say, I never want my children to become doctors. Their job is never done. But I can say the same for social workers and nurses. Social workers always get the brunt of things but are way under appreciated in their field. So many nurses and social workers have mental health problems because of who and what they have to deal with every single day. Public servants are true heroes!
Koj cov neej neeg dab zoo noog heev li os
Thank you for sharing your experience sir/doctor. Your story is definitely a refreshing one. I have nothing to say but we appreciate all that you do. You're all heroes. Much love and respect man
Bro thov vaj tswv pab koj txawb koj lub zog kom koj lub siab tawv siab loj yuav los cawm tib neeg txoj sia pray for you 🙏🙏🙏
The medical field is tough mentally. Do what is best for you not for your dad. He's not the one suffering mentally. You don't want to go crazy because you want to make your dad proud. Life is short.
That's right. Sounds like he's still young and got many years ahead of him. Not sure if he has children and a family, of so, that's even more of a reason to get out.
@@maipha8560 I sense that this doctor is still single. He can still be a doctor, perhaps just not as a surgeon.
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He is tsi puv 100
Tus me nus docteur thov lub ntuj yawm saub pab foom koob hmoov zoo rau koj thiab kom nws muab lub hwj huaj los tdoos koj tiv thaiv koj es kom koj lub siab loj nawb mog. Es koj los pab Cawm tib neeg txoj sia kom zoo xwb nawb mog.
Thiab hais kom koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd ho khaws ceeb rau koj thiab kom cov txawj xais ceeb ho pab xais rau thiab os nawb 😍
Do what makes you’re happy about it and not for others.. if you’re not happy on what you’re doing then is not for you.. be strong be yourself and do it that make you happy and well.
It's a stressful job yog mus lawm Dr lawm qhov kom koj ua tau
Thank you so much brother, for having the courage to share your experience with us, I appreciate all the effort and education you put yourself through for your father's wish. May the Lord blesses you and give you strength as you continue to save lives.
Your mental health is very important. Please change your profession. We are not meant for all professions and that's okay. Please do what makes YOU happy. You are the one suffering. Don't be afraid to disappoint your father.
Don’t want to lost an important person to the community and especially to our Hmong community. I encourage you to read this from the Bible....Psalms chapter 23 verses 1 to 6. You don’t need to be an Christian to be love and comfort by God. He is always with you.
Doc, don’t give up in your career. You are too hard on yourself. You can’t save every lives. You are not expected to save everyone. Spiritual beings are expected at hospitals. Keep going
Txob xav ntau ntau os es thj g nyuj Siab you thj ua tau you qhov hauj lwm 💪💪
Thank you for sharing your experience, mister. May you be able to find something that will bring you peace, good money, that you'll love and save your mental health.
What an amazing insight of your field. Shift your position to something that deals with lower stress. I understand that you want to make your dad proud, but at the end of the day, you are the one who is facing all the situations. I'm sure he will be proud of you no matter what. Best of luck to you, brother.
Hais rau nej cov parents na, yog me nyuam tsis yeem mus kawm rau koj lub hom phiaj, txhob yuam lawv mog tsam lawv xub tuag ua koj ntej vim txoj kev nyuaj siab. Thov cia me nyuam xaiv me nyuam txoj kev kawm (lub hom phiaj).
I would never want my son be to be a doctor or a officer but of course if that’s his dream I will support him
Very interesting topic and perspective!
Don’t let anyone pressure you into doing something that kills your soul. Find a career in which even if you don’t get paid you’ll do it because it’s your passion. I was pre-Med my freshman year in college and said no. I’m in a work field that satisfies my soul.
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with the public, so we can share with our sons and daughters. We have to let them know to pick the jobs they like and enjoy of working for many years to come. It seems like you are trying to fulfill your father’s dream only. You need to move on to do the job you enjoy. When you get older your symptoms are going to get worse.
As a almost 40 year old, I can honestly say as you get older it’s not about money in your career, it’s about a healthy work and life balance. Please take care of yourself it can cause a lot of health issues. Maybe become a family doctor or something less stressful.
We appreciate all doctors.
Zoo siab rau koj os Dr. Koj mloog koj txiv hais vim tias koj tsis xav kom nws tus siab rau koj.
Koj hloov mus ua lwm yam Doctor lo koj yeej yog docteur. Changed the speciality!!!
Tu peux changer de spécialité, il n'est jamais trop tard pour toi. Courage !!!
Thank you for sharing your experience Doctor!
Mi tub Aw congratulations that we have some hmong Dr, just to remember that every job that you do or served customers it’s from ur heart ok? If you r doing from the bottom of ur good heart and honor , it means los ntawm lub siab dawb paug pab tus neeg ntawd xwb ces no worry, but if you don’t know n u still do anyway, that could be ur fault , anything have to be honor
Be strong brother, don't give up. We need people like you to save lives. Proud of your accomplishments. We're behind your back to support you. Love from one your hmoob brother.
I wish the elder will understand sometimes. Not everyone is made to be a doctor, books and pencils is easy to do, but when it comes to performance is a different experience.
Thanks for sharing the experience, I had always wonder if Spirit is real.
Brother aw, zoo siab rau koj os. Thov kom koj tsuas muaj lub siab loj xwb nawb. Good luck
Thank u for sharing your experiences, brother.
Kuv Tsuas yog ib tug txhais lus xwb, qee lub sijhawm kuv tau nrog cov Dr mus ua procedure xwb kuv twb tshai thiab ho yuav tau siab tawv tiag2 nawb thiab thov ua tsaug rau nej cov uas yog Dr nej ris lub nra nyav tshaj plaws li.
I was in the OR shadowing Dr.Johnson performing a total knee surgery and it was amazing how good the surgeon was. I was cool and clam maybe I’m used to seeing blood and bones. Looking forward to work in the OR in the future.
So scary! Your dad is too selfish. He cares more about your title than your health and happiness.
Live for yourself. Not for others. Your dad isn't the one going through these issues. You are. If he wants a doctor, tell him to be one. Do what's best for you.
This is an interesting story. Brother, you went through a Phenomenal experience of your career; not everyone can explain your situation. I suggest follow your heart not just your mind. You are very spiritual...have you consider examining the spiritual aspect? If not, please reconsider. Not everyone is fit for the most desired career. Good luck!
Very good stories
It takes a special person to be a doctor it's not meant for the weak-minded that profession comes with the good, bad and the ugly...
THE HEALTH CARE INDUSTRY IS DEFINTELY STRESSFUL BOTH ON A PERSONAL AND PROFESSONIAL LEVEL NO MATTER YOUR TITLE OR POSITION,SOMEONE'S LIFE IS IN YOUR HANDS, PROPS TO ALL WHO IS CARING FOR US ON THE FRONT LINE, YOU GUYS ARE THE MVP.
Need to become christian trust in God mighty God will protect you and God will standby you and he will send his angels to protect you from evils ghost and goblins. 🙏🙏🙏
It's time to change career brother. No job/career is worth you risking your livelyhood and sanity. There's other practices that you can still work in that keep you sane and still continue to pursue your passion. Leave now, those who are telling you to stay in such as your colleagues and your father, once your sanity is gone, they will be too busy to come look after you. Good luck!
There should be no shame dealing with anxiety. I am not a physician but I do feel all the things you do and see things. Hmong people in general are very spiritual people. You just have to learn how to deal with that part of you.
As a nurse, I understand the stress your job demands so much out of you. You already tried your best and only you know when it's time to let go. Your heart is in the right place but it costs your health greatly.
Thanks for telling us the truth behind your proffesion.
I appreciate pple like you. Doctors are a group of amazing human being! We appreciate u so much! Thanks for doing your best to help the human kind!
It’s a tough responsibility. Sometimes people think it’s easy but it’s not. We all should be thankful for all doctors. Koj yuav mus nkawm los kavtsij mus. It’s your health not your parents. You’re the one suffering not them.
Koj tseem paub tshaj Tus Dr!
Doc maybe go to Oklahoma?....you will retire soon and became first Hmong millionaires...??
Dag xwb yeej kawm tiav..It's Confendantial Liabilities Policy nyob hauv federal laws
I have worked for the best General surgeon but the work is so hard that he aged so fast. He retired at the age of 55 and looked 65. Good luck to you.
You have to love doing your job to be able to help your patients especially your jobs are dealing with life and death. Best of luck for you hope you make the right decision in the future.
Thanks for sharing. Have a brave heart, switch to the clinic maybe that will be easier on you.
Kuv tsis yog neeg ntxe tab sis kuv puab koj ceeb loj lawm koj yuav tau nriav tus neeg ua txawj xis ceeb tsaj yuav pab tau koj vim kuv pab tau ntau tus lawm
Prayers for you brother. May you have the courage to face the work you do or have the courage to leave it. Don't listen to your dad's advice. You have to love yourself and do what's best for you. No one understands you best because they don't see what you see. Good luck and take care.
Wow great story. The realist dr story told so far.
If you don’t have a strong desire to be a Dr and it’s not YOUR passion or choice to go be a Dr and help save lives than you should never go into it.
Being scared and frighten of blood or splitting a human body apart is not someone that should go be a DR. Because if you make a mistake you’ll feel bad about it for the rest of your lives and if you see ghosts like this than well... many of them will come back to taunt you and you won’t be in peace about it.
One day it might just tear you apart and you can’t let that happen if you want to be a DR. Good luck to you!
Yuav ua ib tug neeg phais neeg yuav tsum yog cov neeg siab tawv. This guy probably can't even walk a mile in the dark to a hunting spot in the morning. He has hallucinations because of his scariness.
Tej zaum koj siab muag xwb tus neeg koj cawm tsis tau zoo rov qab los koj yuav tsum xav tias nws txoj hmoov tsuas los nyob li ntawv xwb ma ua siab loj thov kom lub ntuj foom koob hmoov pu rau koj kom koj ua lub siab loj pab cawm neeg txoj siab mus ntev2 tom ntej mog
Best wishes for you brother. Thank you for saving lives. No one is perfect even mother nature or god.
I can imagine it’s not easy being a doctor because you are in a position where you are now responsible for a persons life when they come to you for help. It’s not a task to be taken lightly and can be stressful and a heavy burden. It may have its rewards but it also comes with a price and only you can decide if it’s a price you are willing to pay and if it’s worth the reward. Thank you for sharing your perspective on this as some only see the glorified version and not all of what being a doctor entails. I hope you find peace and your calling whatever it may be because life is too short to live your life according to others, Best of luck to you!
You're spiritual gifted. Your 3rd eye is opened. That's why you're able to see spirits.
Umm as a person who feel others presents, I don’t think it’s a gift at all. I’m constantly scared
Tsis tau hnov cov Dav Tawm tham li hehe kuj txaus ntshai kawg thiab.
Koj ntshai npaum no koj mus kawm ua ab tsi na yus yog neeg siab muag yus ntsua you tu kheej
Thanks for sharing about doctor field n good story
Since this is affecting your mental health, it's best that you change your career. You can't be forcing yourself to do something that you have no motivation doing. Good luck to you and I hope that you do what you love and make you happy and that you're not just doing it for your dad. Bc your dad will never understand what you're going through.
I agree with you. I work with a lot of doctor. People think that doctor is a robot and no pain, no feeling, but actually doctor have more stress and depress than anyone else. 3 of my doc have heart bypassed due to a lot of stress. One of our lovely patients die my doctor and I hurt a lot.
You should follow your heart.
Why meet your parents wants? Our Asian parents that’s all they wants for their children, but is you have to take depression’s med and also it’s not your passion to practice then NO need to do it.
As a mother, I would never ask my children to seek a career to me make me happy. Life is indeed to short so they need to find what makes them happy.
Asian parents only want bragging rights. 🙄🙄
Hmong parents are all about image.
Tus brother do what makes you happy and gives you peace. Your father is selfish and I hope he will understand you someday. Best wishes to you
I was thinking medical malpractice is more scarier than ghosts.
You need to love yourself and choose what is best for your health and sanity. Change your career because it sounds like this isn't the right one for you.
To this brother, I think this is not the profession that you enjoyed but you did it because of your Dad. You wasted all your school year doing something you hate!! If you really love it you pour all your passion into learning to healed and compassion toward your patients.
You made need to reevaluate your career.
Growing up I've always loved helping people and Know that I want to work with elderly or people. I'm a nurse and I love all my patients I can't even wait to see all of them!!
Do what you love not what people want you to be!!
Be happy!
Brother you very brave to make it that far. Proud of you but if that job takes a toll on you, think twice and change direction because your life is more precious than the job.
You can become a teacher.
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story, brother.
Doc, I'm a nurse but outpatient setting and I cannot relate. I say don't give up. I think you just need to have a big hear...siab loj and look it as your have a psych ability that you able to see and communicate with the dead or those who is going to die.
I already have goosebumps!
Great story!! Thank you for sharing.
Mus thov neeg pab khaws ceeb thiab mas ♥
Yg nw ceeb loj heev li lm ce thj li ua rau nw yua lm o ua ceeb rau ce nw zoo lm
Wow, interesting. I am not a doctor but love to listen to the story. I believe doctors are good people. If I have a chance, i like to be a pediatrician. Wish you well.
Wow, good story for others to have different views on being a Surgeon or doctor. Sounds like this is not the right career for you. Is best you find something else to do before you destroy your own self. For me, I knew I will not be able to see dead bodies and cut people's bodies for surgery etc, so I never consider studying that field. Best wishes to you brother.
You must love your dad more than yourself and anything else, you can die for him but your dad is not your life,
Yog koj siab tsi loj ces kawm lwm yam ma
Don’t listen to your father. Make your own decision and choose different path
Cas koj txiv yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj thiab
Maybe being a Surgeon is not for you. You should be a doctor because that’s who you want to be and not because it’s for your Father.
Right! Agree. Honestly I wouldn't want a surgeon who is that afraid or have that much anxiety every time if needed to have surgery. People go to these people because they need the help and if you can't, maybe not the profession for you.
Don't have to be a surgeon at a hospital. Just be a family physician working for a small clinic. Less stress for you there.
yes it's very true and the biggest problem is they have a high divorce rate among doctors because they're not with their significant others...
i wanted my son to pursued his medical doctor degree too, but my son said, '' no dad, i don't want to end up like most of my colleagues that are doctors... he has 5 friend and 4 are divorced and the fifth is on bad term...
only hmong people appraised and adamant to hold on to that husband for his title... we as parent don't force your kids to pursue your dream, but let him pursue his own dreams not yours.
This is the problem with our society...people only enter a certain career because of fame and money without realizing what they do to their mental. This is also the reason why soo many mental health issues. This also why people always mistreat patients/clients bc it's for money not the passion for the job.
Tus tub koj lub siab yau yog koj ceeb koj ntshai lawm koj yuav tau mus nrhiav cov neeg uas txawj xaisceeb es muab xais ob peb zaug yog cov ntxim mas zoo ov yog koj yuav noj tshuaj nyuaj siab ces yuav tau noj tag koj lub neej os es nrhiav kev pab nawb
Being a certain Doctor depends on the person's passion and mentality. Not everyone can go into it .
That's why we have many different types of doctors.
You are full fledge surgeon. You can rest for a couple of years and transition into outpatient clinics. you don't have to work in a hospital.
Koj mus kawm muab tshuaj kuv xav tias yuav yog ib qhov zoo rau koj os tij
It's so sad that we as children suppress our own health and well being because we want our parents to be happy. I know you were just trying to live your parents dreams but your father is selfish for not caring about your health and well being. Its you who suffer and do not enjoy your life. So what makes you happy and what you can handle.
👍💪💪❤
Kj cov dab neeg yog ib cov qhia rau peb paub txhau yam o