Some Hmong men have the balls to marry a second wife but have no balls to control her at all. They put their original family under her skirt - that's a shame!
Oyo almost choke on my food listening to this story because the tears keep rolling. Just glad they are able to reconnect with their birth mom. I hate some of the Hmong culture practices where they remove the kids from the mother. It's so aweful especially with an evil stepmother who don't care to love these children that are not theirs.
You are a wonderful and smart sister. You took care of your brothers like a mother-God bless you. Karma to your evil stepmother! Couldn't stop the tears. . . . you all are blessed to be able to connect with your birth mom.
May- I love your stories and listens it them everyday. However, I can’t finish this story and other stories similar to this one. Both my parents passed away when my 6 siblings and I were young and as one of the older sibling, I take care of my younger siblings and know the heartache. Can you please tell other stories and not stories of orphans. It’s too sad.
Sister aw pab Nej COV nus Muag Zoo Siab tias Txawm yuav txom2 nyem lub neej nrog Niam yau thiab txiv nyob es Tsis muaj Niam hlub los tsuas yog toj roob haus PES quas xwb txawm yuav Nco npaum li cas Los yeej tseem mus xyuas Tau li ko ces Zoo Heev li os, kuv mas Nim tauv tsis Tau lub mi kua Muag li os mog😭😭
This story make me crying with you guys...kuv niam twb tuag tau 30tawm xyoo lawm os. Nrog nej cov muag nus zoo siab ua nej rov ntsib nej niam. Hlub nej niam kom tsim nyog mog. Ntxhub cov hmoob thaum ub lub siab coj liam hiam thiab coj tsi zoo kiag li.
This story remind me of my mom. How much I miss her so!!! May she rest in peace. Any one out there if you still have a mom, please cherish, love, and take care of her as much as you can. Glad that you and your brothers found and United with your biological mom again.
Hmong culture is the most difficult culture in regards to marriages, divorces, multiple wives, look down on women and daughters, moving on to a new life and stupid ass rules/policy/politician. Nothing to appreciate about the culture, but create hardships, difficulties, heartaches and pain.
I'm so angry at your dad and his family for putting you 3 kids and your mom through all that pain and suffering. Stupid Hmong culture and discrimination against the poor status 😢. I'm glad that you and your siblings were able to reunite with your mom at last.
Cas tu siab ua luaj kuv nrog nej quaj quaj thiab lub ntiaj teb no tsis muaj leej twg hlub yus li yus niam os sister zoo siab nej rov tau ntsib nej niam os
Your the first person who spells out every single Hmong word, other people use Hmong slang words which is hard to understand. I appreciate your writing.
The less we expect, the less pain we will receive. No much to give either. Don't expect love where else when your own parents can't even give it to you. I learn to love myself at a young age. The best lesson ever!
So you are saying that her mom is also an evil stepmom to her step children too? Lol. I would rather blamed the in laws and the dad. Just remember that everyone only able to love their own children.
Tu siab tshaj li os zaj dab neej no nas!! Chim siab thiab ntxub cov Niam pog thiab Txiv Yawg lim hiam li zoo li zaj dab neej no!! Cov tub uas ua tsis tau Txiv es muaj peev xwm yuav tau tabsis hlub tsis taus thiab tiv thaiv ces txoj kev Npam yeej yuav raws yus rau yav laus os.
Tu siab ua luaj. Kuv es niam nrog May quaj quaj nrog cov menyuam thaum lawv yuav los tsev rau mekas es yuav rov qab ncaim lawv niam dua. Ua cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no yuav muaj cov neeg phem li tus niam yau no ntau ua luaj? Thov kom peb cov xaj maim no tsis txhob ntshaw ntshaw mus ua luag niam yau lawm os. Mus ua rau luag tej menyuam mob siab mob plawv xwb. Niag txiv no los ua tsis tau txiv li thiab. Tsis hlub cov menyuam kom sib npaug li. Yuav tsum to taub hais tias yus yeej tsis paub tag kis xyov leej twg yuav yog tus hlub yus rau yav laus.
As much as I don't like to say this but most second wives aren't good people to begin with. The nice ones are real nice and loving. But goddamn, the bad ones, which are the majority, are real bad!
Your father is the fruit of all your suffering. Because of his lust to want multiple wife you guys endured abandonment, neglect, lack of love, regret, trauma. your dad is a coward. He has many many more lives to reincarnate into. Too much karma. We are all here to master the 33 virtues of life. If we don’t know why we came on earth for then misery and suffering will never end. Think about it why do we exist? We have this temporary body one life one opportunity. Let’s graduate from this reality realm, let’s accomplish why we all came on earth for.
Cov laus ib txhia ces yeej tsis muaj siab ntsws xav ua yam twg ces ua li ntawv cuag li lawv thiaj muaj siab muaj ntsws xwb. Zoo siab nej rov qab mus nrhiav tau nej niam lawm os
Vuag cas nej pab mi niam tub es yuav txom nyem siab ntsws ua luaj es ntxim hlub ua luaj ! Sim neej no ntshe tsis muaj leej twg yus yuav nco npaum nco yus niam os yuam o....!!!
Nyob ntiaj teb no, yam zoo ces yog yus niam. Yeej tsis muaj ib yam los pauv tau yus niam lub ntsiaj ntsij li. Vim li no thiab li muaj "niam hnub"los yog" mother's day".
Me koj zoo nkauj ntxim nyiam kawg li nawb lub cev poj niam lub ntsej muag phim heev tsis yog hom zoo heev2 tab sis yog hom zoo2 tawb saib tsis dhuav li nawb kj tus txiv twb tsis phim koj li ne ntsuab teev mad hmoov ntuj zoo tiag2 thiaj tau kj ua nws tus niam tsev kj tej me plab hlaub ncej puab zoo kov zoo ntxim siab kawg thov qhuas nawb
What a beautiful sad story. This life lesson can be applied to our daily lives today too. Parents who divorce, should continue a relationship with their children, unless it's a danger to them of course. A child will always have an emptiness in their heart when there is a missing parent... no matter how old the child is. Best wishes to this family.
😭😭😭 makes me cry. I'm at work and crying 😭😭😭
Some Hmong men have the balls to marry a second wife but have no balls to control her at all. They put their original family under her skirt - that's a shame!
Pab mus caum kv thiab os
Oyo almost choke on my food listening to this story because the tears keep rolling. Just glad they are able to reconnect with their birth mom. I hate some of the Hmong culture practices where they remove the kids from the mother. It's so aweful especially with an evil stepmother who don't care to love these children that are not theirs.
I'm crying with this story. 😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too😭😭😭
One of the best heart felt story's you have told in a while....👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
This is so sad. There’s no one better than a mom.
You are a wonderful and smart sister. You took care of your brothers like a mother-God bless you. Karma to your evil stepmother! Couldn't stop the tears. . . . you all are blessed to be able to connect with your birth mom.
Glad you guys grew up loving each other. May god bless you all!
Em
I just can’t stop crying
So sad!! I'm crying along 😢😭😿
May- I love your stories and listens it them everyday. However, I can’t finish this story and other stories similar to this one. Both my parents passed away when my 6 siblings and I were young and as one of the older sibling, I take care of my younger siblings and know the heartache. Can you please tell other stories and not stories of orphans. It’s too sad.
Sorry to hear sis. But some people want to get their stories out. Don’t listen.
Sad! No one will love you like your mom and no love is like a mother love. Happy to hear that you guys had a chance to go back and visit your mother.
Sister aw pab Nej COV nus Muag Zoo Siab tias Txawm yuav txom2 nyem lub neej nrog Niam yau thiab txiv nyob es Tsis muaj Niam hlub los tsuas yog toj roob haus PES quas xwb txawm yuav Nco npaum li cas Los yeej tseem mus xyuas Tau li ko ces Zoo Heev li os, kuv mas Nim tauv tsis Tau lub mi kua Muag li os mog😭😭
Men dont cry! When they do its way too much!! I'm crying with all of you too!!😭😭
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So sad. Lub neeg ua ntsuag ciaj mam tu siab tshaj. :'(
Omg, so sad. So glad you and your brother finally reunited with your mom.
This story is too sad that can’t help but have to cry along 😭
Ever sad story. God bless you all
This story make me crying with you guys...kuv niam twb tuag tau 30tawm xyoo lawm os. Nrog nej cov muag nus zoo siab ua nej rov ntsib nej niam. Hlub nej niam kom tsim nyog mog. Ntxhub cov hmoob thaum ub lub siab coj liam hiam thiab coj tsi zoo kiag li.
I haven’t cried for a long time listening to neej neeg but I cried with this family through the whole story. 😭 Hlub nej dhau lawm os.
This story remind me of my mom. How much I miss her so!!! May she rest in peace. Any one out there if you still have a mom, please cherish, love, and take care of her as much as you can. Glad that you and your brothers found and United with your biological mom again.
Vc
Very sad story I’m listening to this sad story I’m was crying 😭
Lovely picture!
Pab mus caum kv thiab os
What's a touching story..
This is very sad story make me crying
Saddest storie ever!!!!a mother's is everything in her kids lives!!! dont matter how old u are in their eyes u will always be their babies !!!
This is a so sad story, I'm crying with all of you too...!
Lub neej txom nyem ua nruag ntawm niam txiv sib tso, tuvsiab txom nyem tshaj, leej twg mag mam paub. Nyob usa mus cuag social services hauv lub zos kj nyob, muaj kev pab zoo heev
Pab mus caum kv thiab os
Kuv xav muaj cov txiv neej zoo lis no ncawv.
Koj pua ncaws tau tiag
Glad you guys get to see your mom b4 it's too late!!
Nrog koj zoo siab os tus sister. Koj yog ib leej muam zoo rau koj ob tug nus. Thov qhuas koj.
Pab mus caum kv thiab os
So happy you all are able to go see your Mom. Made me cried.
Hmong culture is the most difficult culture in regards to marriages, divorces, multiple wives, look down on women and daughters, moving on to a new life and stupid ass rules/policy/politician. Nothing to appreciate about the culture, but create hardships, difficulties, heartaches and pain.
I'm so angry at your dad and his family for putting you 3 kids and your mom through all that pain and suffering. Stupid Hmong culture and discrimination against the poor status 😢.
I'm glad that you and your siblings were able to reunite with your mom at last.
Cas tu siab ua luaj kuv nrog nej quaj quaj thiab lub ntiaj teb no tsis muaj leej twg hlub yus li yus niam os sister zoo siab nej rov tau ntsib nej niam os
Ce tu siab ua luaj li o 😭😭
Sooo...sad, but good thing they're in USA now.
Feem coob cov niam yau txiv yau ces siab phem siab nyoos tshaj! Hlub tsis tau luag cov mivnyuam tsis txhob mus yuav lawv txiv lawv niam es muab mivnyuam tsim! Xum mus yuav ib tus kav ib tus es yus mam yug yus pab yus thiaj hlub! Hmoob siab me me hlub tsis tau luag lwm tus cov mivnyuam. Twb yog lawv roj tshav kiag los thaum niam txiv tuag ces hlub tsis tau. Hmoob siab phem tiag tiag! Hmoob phem phem lim lim hiam es tswv ntuj thiaj tsis pub Hmoob muaj tebchaws!
Your the first person who spells out every single Hmong word, other people use Hmong slang words which is hard to understand. I appreciate your writing.
@@YMalisa I can't stand hmong slang. It seems to me they don't know how to spell hmong words correctly and that's why they use slang.
Omg my heart hurt so much. Why are most niam yau so evil T_T
Most stepmom are evil. They only love their Biological kids. Not many women have a big heart to love another woman children ☹️
They would not be a niam yau if they’re not evil women!!
The less we expect, the less pain we will receive. No much to give either.
Don't expect love where else when your own parents can't even give it to you. I learn to love myself at a young age. The best lesson ever!
Wouldn't be a willing niam yau unless she's a bad ass! Need that thick face.
So you are saying that her mom is also an evil stepmom to her step children too? Lol. I would rather blamed the in laws and the dad. Just remember that everyone only able to love their own children.
I was crying my eyes out. I'm so glad children and mother was able to reunite later.
What an evil husband n niam yau!
Very bad father tsis yog ib leej txiv zoo
Tu2 siab li os
Mob siab heev li
Ua nej es nej zaj dab neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj os tu me viv ncaus aw.xa 1 qho nyiaj mus rau koj niam thiab koj txiv tshiab nkawv ua hniav os mog.
I can feel their pain. Even my mom was sick and I still miss her so much. Can’t imagine a life without your own mom. Kev nco niam ma Tu siab heev.
I feel so sad for your mom. 😢😭
Tu siab tshaj li os zaj dab neej no nas!! Chim siab thiab ntxub cov Niam pog thiab Txiv Yawg lim hiam li zoo li zaj dab neej no!! Cov tub uas ua tsis tau Txiv es muaj peev xwm yuav tau tabsis hlub tsis taus thiab tiv thaiv ces txoj kev Npam yeej yuav raws yus rau yav laus os.
Thov koj hlub hlub koj niam nawb! ❤️❤️❤️
Im crying too, for all of you.
So emotional story 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sad story. Niam ntsuab teev.
You’re beautiful in that dress, May...💕
Wow! Cas ib leeg txiv es yuav siab phem ua luaj. Taug mas txob K lawm.
Thaj no mas kuv nyiam tiag tiag...tseem nco thawj thawj zaug yam tag los.......
😭😭😭😭😭tu siab heev li
Tu siab ua luaj. Kuv es niam nrog May quaj quaj nrog cov menyuam thaum lawv yuav los tsev rau mekas es yuav rov qab ncaim lawv niam dua.
Ua cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no yuav muaj cov neeg phem li tus niam yau no ntau ua luaj? Thov kom peb cov xaj maim no tsis txhob ntshaw ntshaw mus ua luag niam yau lawm os. Mus ua rau luag tej menyuam mob siab mob plawv xwb. Niag txiv no los ua tsis tau txiv li thiab. Tsis hlub cov menyuam kom sib npaug li. Yuav tsum to taub hais tias yus yeej tsis paub tag kis xyov leej twg yuav yog tus hlub yus rau yav laus.
May aw..zaj dab neeg no cas yuav tus siab uas luaj li os.
Suab zoo kawg
As much as I don't like to say this but most second wives aren't good people to begin with. The nice ones are real nice and loving. But goddamn, the bad ones, which are the majority, are real bad!
Agree. By the time anyone can break another family apart, they really have no moral standard.
Your father is the fruit of all your suffering. Because of his lust to want multiple wife you guys endured abandonment, neglect, lack of love, regret, trauma. your dad is a coward. He has many many more lives to reincarnate into. Too much karma. We are all here to master the 33 virtues of life. If we don’t know why we came on earth for then misery and suffering will never end. Think about it why do we exist? We have this temporary body one life one opportunity. Let’s graduate from this reality realm, let’s accomplish why we all came on earth for.
Cov laus ib txhia ces yeej tsis muaj siab ntsws xav ua yam twg ces ua li ntawv cuag li lawv thiaj muaj siab muaj ntsws xwb. Zoo siab nej rov qab mus nrhiav tau nej niam lawm os
That's wonderful that you guys are able to reconnect with your biological mom.
Tu siab tshaj li os hmoob aws nrog nej quaj quaj txhaws ntswg tag li lawm os
Cas yv tu siab ua luaj li os 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥kua muag lo2 li os
Kuv nco 2 kuv Niam es kuv kua muag lo2 li os
Who the hell is cutting onions....? Got my tears going.
Ua cas yauv tu siab ua lauj li os
Tu siab ua luaj..mloog txoj no tag ce peb cov muaj niam haj yam hlub peb niam os lawv aws....
ทำไมน่าสงสารจังเลย😭😭😭😭😭
Zoo kawg tuaj pab koj lawm pab kuv thiab,
Vi cau koj lub neeg ma tu siab hee
Zaj no mak hais tau tu siab tiag tiag lí o
Zaj no mas tham tau tu siab tiag2222 los2 kua muag li os tus me vib ncaus aw
Xyoo no koj zoo nkauj zog tuaj lawm
Tu siab tiag tiag
ntuj aws cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os kv mloog zaj no ma kv quaj theem tag li os
Vuag cas nej pab mi niam tub es yuav txom nyem siab ntsws ua luaj es ntxim hlub ua luaj ! Sim neej no ntshe tsis muaj leej twg yus yuav nco npaum nco yus niam os yuam o....!!!
Ua cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os
Nyiam thaj nrhab zog.
Hai tau tu siab tshaj plaw li o tiam neej no ce tse tsua muaj yu niam thiaj li hlub yu xb o
Cas nej ho tsis tos nej niam tuaj nrog nej nyob es nej hlub rau yav laus ma.
You should bring your mom to America
I never respect all the niam yau. My mom is a niam yau too.
All the niam yau come and destroy every family.
Nyob ntiaj teb no, yam zoo ces yog yus niam. Yeej tsis muaj ib yam los pauv tau yus niam lub ntsiaj ntsij li. Vim li no thiab li muaj "niam hnub"los yog" mother's day".
wow I like your dress so sweet!!!
Kuv hlub koj os mi niam tsev cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os
😭😭😭😭tu2 siab li os
hais tau tus siab hv li o lub kuas muag niam lo lo li o niam laus aw
Mloog ce lo2 kua muag li o nrog nej zoo siab os
Haib kawg
Me koj zoo nkauj ntxim nyiam kawg li nawb lub cev poj niam lub ntsej muag phim heev tsis yog hom zoo heev2 tab sis yog hom zoo2 tawb saib tsis dhuav li nawb kj tus txiv twb tsis phim koj li ne ntsuab teev mad hmoov ntuj zoo tiag2 thiaj tau kj ua nws tus niam tsev kj tej me plab hlaub ncej puab zoo kov zoo ntxim siab kawg thov qhuas nawb
I’m crying while getting my covid vaccine shot. And it’s not because of the vaccine.
What a beautiful sad story. This life lesson can be applied to our daily lives today too. Parents who divorce, should continue a relationship with their children, unless it's a danger to them of course. A child will always have an emptiness in their heart when there is a missing parent... no matter how old the child is. Best wishes to this family.
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May thanks for your new name " Kab Ntsaum Rwg " it's looks more cute than "Ntsaum Kab Rwg "....!
Ntuj aw zaj no mloog cas tu siab ua luaj kuv nim quaj2 tsis tau li lawm os. Tu siab tshaj plaw
Zaj no tu siab heev li os.
Mob lub siab dhau os lawv aw kua muas poob tsis tu li
Aww sad kawg li os. May!! Love the dress lol where can I buy the exact same one lol. Lmk