Ryan Dimiquibo, it is a litany that I found in the Pieta prayer booklet, which I also recommend. Here it is: O Jesus! meek and humble of heart, hear me. From the desire of being esteemed, From the desire of being loved, From the desire of being extolled, From the desire of being honored, From the desire of being praised, From the desire of being preferred, From the desire of being consulted, From the desire of being approved, Deliver me, Jesus From the fear of being humiliated, From the fear of being despised, From the fear of suffering rebukes, From the fear of being calumniated, From the fear of being forgotten, From the fear of being ridiculed, From the fear of being wronged, From the fear of being suspected, Deliver me, Jesus That others may be loved more than I, That others may be esteemed more than I, That in the opinion of the world, others may increase, and I may decrease, That others may be chosen and I set aside, That others may be praised and I unnoticed, That others may be preferred to me in everything, That others become holier than I, provided they I may become we holy as I should, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
I’ve prayed it a few times. Maybe that’s what I need to do. I struggle with this. Actually, I’ve listened to BIAY and I don’t remember Jesus addressing this. But it may be something I need to ponder on. I’ve been doing that a lot with things he’s said about other stuff. Jesus gives good advice honestly…I’ve implemented some of it already, and I’ve seen a difference in my life just with the few things I’ve reflected on.
When expressing opinion ... if what is said isn’t rooted in love - it’s in vain/with a selfish agenda. Thank you, Fr. Mike, for sharing the Word in this challenging world.
Lately, I say this more and more. I don’t watch the news as much. Everyone thinks it’s important to have an opinion on everything, but I’m learning it’s really not. It’s okay to not have an opinion on everything. There are things I’ve discovered I have no opinion on, and I’ve been telling myself it’s okay!
Great video! I have found that people are so quick to ask for an opinion, because they want to classify others. Unfortunately this happens among some Catholics - classifying those as “good Catholics” or not.
Did you ask for his permission to state your opinion? You're probably just trying to help by sharing your comment, but at 5:30 "no, I'm just trying to help" "like, yeah, but, I didn't ask for your help, so you're criticizing something". Don't keep your opinion to yourself! Share it with others in a respectful way in order to help them. Otherwise, how will we learn if there is no room for debate or to receive criticism?
Wise words, thanks. Some of the best advice I got in seminary was "You don't have to have an opinion about everything" - it means when you DO have an opinion it will be given more respect.
I recently lost a good friend who was in recovery for a long time and it sounds crazy but i see him in your eyes. He had a recovery channel and its like i was meant to find you and you've worked wonders on me with your teachings. God bless you
But if my opinion follows the rules of logic and is indeed well informed and based on facts. And is fair and just. My opinion and/or argument is valid. If my opinion is greatly biased, ill-informed, unfair, unjust, dishonest, and based on lies, my opinion is bad and malicious.
What is the meaning of criticize? from the merrian-webster dictionary website. Criticize -to judge the merits and demerits of and judge accordingly -to find fault with: point out the faults of.
@@musicsavantaccountant5856 He's not saying you aren't right, he's saying that it's wrong if you think you aren't biased. You could always choose the source that supports you with "facts". There are many "facts" that contradict each other. "facts" are constantly changing.
The whole thing about speaking truth to others was so needed. It was especially fitting for me today since the homily at daily mass was about speaking hard truths (cause today is the feast of the passion of John the Baptist)...but watching this was a nice tie in to that since...ya, we do need to do that, but we also have to access the situation and our motive. :)
This is such a fantastic, timely message. If our society’s members had enough humility to just admit, “I don’t know enough and can’t make an opinion,” there’d be so much more happiness and positivity. Thank you for sharing your message and perspective, Fr.
I love this channel. This was a great message. Something I would like to hear more religious leaders talk about are the examples in scripture where the truth was spoken to confound and confuse people, not so that they would understand and come to a better relationship with God. Nobody seems to ever talk about that.
This is a great reminder, Fr. Mike. I watched your interview with Matt Fradd recently, and you were incredibly charitable with your words. A previous guest of his was the complete opposite: he’s the sort to throw bombs at bulls in China shops. The key, as you said, is to speak truth in a way that the receiver will hear it, not to be as rude and gross as possible for the sake of vengeance. God bless!
I have come to a place of Humility where I have almost no opinion on anything anymore ... And if I ever do have one which is rare, I will only share an opinion if it’s positive now.
Great video Father Mike! So applicable to all of us today, in our relations with others every day. God bless you in your ministry in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour.🙏🏻
l thoroughly enjoy your videos. They're not only offering serious information but presented in such a down to earth way+. You're a true gem, Fr. Mike! And the one thing the world needs to hear are those things Jesus DID NOT say. lf we all did those things, as the song says, ''What a wonderful world it would be.'' +
This is so applicable for today. There was a friend who was talking about politics. At some point he asked, "Who do you support and back in the upcoming election?" I said, "nothing good comes from people discussing politics, especially if we do not agree. You were just talking about a celebrity you don't like anymore because of who they support politically." That is a whole different talk...celebrities who feel they can make an influence on public politically because of their celebrity. I will leave you with this... Opinions are like belly buttons, everyone has one. :)
Thanks Fr Mike one of the many good attributes of the Catholic Church today allowing others and there opinions to be heard , the Spirit gives patience, understanding , wisdom and love , turning opinions into a dialogue of truth so all have opportunity to be set free from there own acts of self righteousness
I’m so grateful to the Father Martin Haters for introducing me to him. I’ve been listening to Father Martin’s loving and compassionate messages and am so happy to know there are many Catholics out there who actually understand Christianity and Jesus’s foundational message of love. Oh, and Father Mike is good, too. I’ve used some of his videos in my courses, and, thanks to the haters, I’ll be using Father Martin’s videos this semester.
My two cents on opinions. I have learned that opinions are referred to as value statements in Logic. An opinion only has subjective value if the people in the debate or conversation value the same thing. Most people want to share their opinions only to validate that another person agrees with their opinions. Opinions cannot be used as a basis for a logical argument. God has inspired me recently to not have an opinion on anything. I see an opinion as a way of gossiping. And I feel that it is a sin. Thank you.
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Finally, someone who expresses what I wondered about for years. I thought I was the only one who thought things like “... but maybe this is a bit more complex than you think” or “what do you mean, why should I have an opinion about something I know nothing about?” It seems to me that opinions are oftentimes an excuse to stop thinking.
One of the things I used to teach my students when I was facilitating leadership training was that opinions are not fact therefore they can't be right or wrong, only different. Some may be better informed than others, but at the end of the day it is still just a person's opinion. The challenge is respecting that. And the Father is right. Sometimes an opinion is best left to yourself. I picked up a saying from watching a documentary on Colonel Hal Moore, the commander immortalized in the movie We Were Soldiers. "Never let a perfectly good opportunity to keep your mouth shut pass you by." Give your self 10 seconds, weigh the consequences, then speak up. I struggle with that so I know the value of that practice quite well.
These lessons need to be learned by all that use social media, especially those platforms like twitter and facebook. There is too much opinion sharing just to get vengeance or to take someone down under the guise of virtuous intent. Sharing an opinion of someone or something can also be called gossip which can get out of hand negatively so quickly and harm is done which cannot be undone.
I enjoyed this topic very much! I just experienced an uncomfortable situation where a Deacon at my church gave me his opinion. He told me, "Your Clinical Depression is Evil and if you don't get rid of it you will take it to Purgatory." Clinical Depression and Situational Depression are different. My Clinical Depression is a mental disorder caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. This is 9 out of 10 times a need for a doctor to review one's medications so that they can be changed or adjusted. Clinical depression is not something I choose. It happens unexpectly and is out of my control. Situational depression is caused by an event: Divorce, Death of a Loved one, Loss of a job, Loss of a relationship, etc. You know what the depression is about and it's usually temporary. Clinical depression can hit you at any time and you do not know why you are crying everyday or how long it will last until you seek help from a psychiatrist. When I left the Deacon's office, I was hurt and confused. I felt "Judged" and I felt like he was calling me a "Sinner" because I had Clinical Depression. His opinion of Clinical Depression was inaccurate. I don't think he is the right Spiritual Director for me, however I'm having problems with how to lovingly address him inorder to have peaceful closure. Please...I am reaching out to all who understand my situation and ideas on how one would have closure. Thanks to All! Big Thank You to Father Mike for all of you incredible videos. I listen to you most everyday.
Very sorry that this happened 😮. I suppose you can check in with him and probe what exactly led him to think that and offer him the chance to let you give him some feedback that might help him the next time he is in that situation
Great video and I liked your example of a layperson criticizing their parish priest... I have seen too much of this lately. I know some of the laity have lost confidence in our priests & bishops because of the scandal which is understandable... but the lack of charity for our good and holy priests and disrespect for the magisterium that I've seen by some of the laity is... disturbing.
True I always say that too 👍🏼 i don’t have opinion in such a subject! I have a life! and care less about others it’s not my business! I follow the path of Christ that chose for me and no one else’s so hope the world does the same and pray instead of criticizing others!
It happens to me that some people feel entitled to MAKE me act (or have an opinion) on something I don't want to be involved with or want to MAKE me have a say when I don't make decisions. If I don't want to be related to something I don't, I won't. They can't make me and if they decide to get away from me because of it, so be it. Is in the same line of this video... I have learned to get away from situations that just tempt me to judge, feed anger, feed hate or things on that line against my "neighbor". In another stage of my life I would participate just to please people, thank GOD I grew it out! lol
There seems to be a certain kind of glee in people when they can say "Oh see, there, you're busted! I got you." - Is this the right motive for correcting? Thanks, Fr. Mike for spotlighting on this. When others childishly challenge my self worth, I want to get even, with vigilance, like an eagle waiting to get its prey 🧐😤. At hindsight, I just needed better role models and process the situation. I really want to be strong for the others so we don't drag each other down to...gehena. (St. Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle. Be our defense against the wickedness and snares...)
At the beginning, and the end... LOL!- I would love to know the process you go through to be so darn wise Father! Thanks for breaking it down and making it easy for me/us to think about clearly! Pete D.---
🙂 Thank you Father for this reminder. How would you suggest a Catholic who creates content on TH-cam handles this when sharing their own opinions on TH-cam. I find it’s nearly impossible to share an opinion (especially anything faith based) on TH-cam in a video that resonates positively with every viewer. No matter the topic discussed there will always be someone who disagrees, doesn’t like the delivery, judges the character of the person and so on. I find that people are so afraid to open up online because they fear they’ll be attacked or ridiculed for having different views or preferences. Any advice you can offer for Catholic creators on TH-cam is greatly appreciated. Pax Christi ~ ✨Deena
I'm a random viewer, but in my opinion (LOL), what's important for a Catholic content creator is to strive to be well-informed and charitable. We're all going to respond differently to what we watch, and there's no way to please everyone or prevent anyone from rushing to judgement. But we can avoid worrying too much or rushing to judgement ourselves. Hope this helps!
Since you specifically asked for Fr. Mike's opinion and nobody else's, based on what Fr. Mike said, this is going to be considered criticism, but oh well, here's my 2 cents anyway (just as an FYI for your own benefit): *anything* you put out on TH-cam is going to receive trash talk ... you will *never* please everyone.
Rob Onymous I appreciate your thoughts. It’s definitely true that no matter what there will always be someone that doesn’t like you/your message. Can’t please everyone 🙂
I saw the title and was immediately suspicious. But this isn’t what I presumed it would be. This is solid advice. I have caveats, perhaps. But I need time to ponder. What I liked was that you offered a specific structure of questions to use around making an opinion. I have an anecdote to offer that you in turn would probably like.
@@josephstalin9969 kinda agree. But there's some truth to it nevertheless. Just be careful when listening to those. Always choose those who talk with love and compassion over those who talk with judgment and hatred. But don't close the doors to anyone but be watchful of the accuser
@@KrustyKrabbz2 I agree, I would like a specific example of hatred on that channel. I have learned so much from Fr. Ripperger and others featured on there. It has deepened my faith and understanding of the Church's teachings; many of which I had never heard explained in any depth or substance.
These days, I never feel like I have enough information to have an opinion on anything. All the news sources are so biased and I just have no idea whether I'm getting the whole story or not. I only ever have opinions about moral and religious issues.
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Yes at least christians... But i am from India.. (we have at least 3 satellite channels of church in regional language... ). I was digging out deep outside my language
Loved this! It would be nice if Church Militant and Fr. James Martin would see this; it's important to speak the truth as well as how to say it without undermining the truth. And it is wise to have the humility to admit that a'lot of times we don't have enough details on a particular topic to have an opinion. Awesome video, thank's Fr. Mike! God bless!😁
Michael Voris from Church Militant is awesome. Yes, he's passionate and vocal ... and *thank God for that!!* Generally speaking, what he says and exposes needs to be -- and in that "in your face" kind of way, because there are *_way_* too many "Catholics" that are either asleep or are simply heretical and they don't even have a clue that they are that way. They need a massive shake-up to wake them up and get their attention, and Michael Voris is the man to do it. The real Church Militant (i.e., us: Christ's Church alive in this physical realm, not the organization that Michael Voris heads) needs more people like him. He heard God's call and has answered ... positively. Usually, the people who get offended by what he says or the way he says it are precisely the ones who need to hear it ... just sayin'. 🕆📿😉
@David Russell Wrong. Church Militant, specifically because it consists of lay people, exposes and discusses the things priests have a hard time opening up about in public. I've seen priests (good priests) try exposing and discussing the same stuff as Church Militant does, even in a much more watered down fashion, and they still continuously get ordered by their bishops to cease and decist. And, out of obedience, so far they all have. The clergy are not going to fix a thing, because many of them are either in bed with Satan, are good but are sidelined by their superiors, are too afraid to lose their lives for Christ's sake (due to the satanic mafia of wolves in sheep's clothing who will arrange for their murder if they don't obey), or are waiting for an external force (like the laity, for example 😉) to do what needs to be done. No, the clergy can guide us insofar as is possible, but the heavy lifting is going to have to be done by the laity, which includes Church Militant in no small part, and you and I. You need to wake up -- and quickly. "My opinion." 😉 🕆📿
@@robonymous4620 I agree with you, and Church Militant is especially good in exposing corruption in the Church and I also agree in the way Micheal Voris speaks about the corruption. It's just that, while I do agree with what he says, I don't agree with the way he speaks about every topic.
So, the four steps defined are: 1. Evaluate why you’re expressing this thought. 2. What is your opinion? Is it something true, like a principal, or is it just a preference? 3. Who are you (in relation)? 4. How are you expressing yourself? Now, what I would like to ask: how is this different from an objective analysis with relative advice/recommendation? An analysis can have different points of view, but that relative differentiation does not turn it into an opinion, unless I have misunderstood the concept of an opinion? Isn't the concept of an opinion meant to be a subjective thought (a preference, not a principle or something like that)? If an opinion is not inherently subjective as a concept, then what do you call a subjective thought? Noting that subjectivity can include lack of full information. So as far as I understand, what has been defined here is the process for an objective analysis with recommendation/advice based on multiple objective factors (including experience and points of view), not the process for or concept of an opinion.
An opinion can be based on direct quotes when you actually hear what someone said publically. And they try to deny they said it sometimes.Maybe it's denial. Yet people have already formed an opinion regardless of evidence and facts. And it's not the media's fault or "fake news".
Here’s an opinion about something: as a Catholic in recovery, it’s come to my attention that there are MANY Catholics who are in a drug addicted downward spiral and clean/staying clean. We could REALLY use some kind of ministry..just saying. How does one even remotely BEGIN to start one up? I’m serious. It’s a dark, evil, lifestyle. Suggestions would be hugely appreciated. Thanks so much! 🙂
I LOVE ADVICE. I always have. Even if someone I dislike or know is a **** is saying something, I like to hear it. Because I can also do the opposite of what s/he's saying. Get my drift? "Oh, that's what YOU would do?" Duly noted.
This is why I never argue about climate change. I simply don't know enough about it. I went to an agricultural school and we learned just so much about climate that I realized it's such an extremely complicated topic that I know just enough to know that I know almost nothing about it. As a conservative, it really annoys me when my fellow conservatives talk about it as if it was something simple and obvious. The same goes for liberals who know just as little but get into extreme panic mode.
Mmmm... Or maybe this is a response to a Lizzie's video... It seems to me... this may be a sort of Catholic lesson for that popular american Catholic girl who made a video on a Fr Mike's video. Many people on many comments told her that she would have been better if she had spoken to Fr Mike BEFORE releasing that video. I completely agree with them. She is a good girl,... but she is still young... and as a "new convert" she is still learning how to be a Catholic... *Anyhow, this is a good lesson for all of us.* Not just for Lizzie or Matt followers or whichever. (Hope my grammatical construction in English is ok...)
@@lishmahlishmah Not overly familiar with Lizzie but what you shared ("Catholic lesson...") seems legit for the Catholic media sphere on the interwebs.
@@isoldesummer5367 . I don't know if I can put the direct link here... Comments with links are often not visible. You can go and look for a Lizzie's video of June 2019. The title is "Father Mike Schmitz is wrong about Trans People. A video response". When I've heard the today's talk of Fr Mike, suddenly my thought went to that video. Not for the video itself, nor for her opinions. But for the reasons Fr Mike has just explained.
Haha true! I happen to have a white 96 Ford Bronco in near perfect condition and ever since the chase I've nicknamed it "The Juice" and ever since then it's value has skyrocketed!
@@eddier9593 The Bronco in Rampage was amazing. It was a concept car that was done some 15 years ago. It's amazing. I hope they put some in production.
Face value mostly...I have aquired skills of ... literally seeing things like poetry...but more focused...and not eased like usually...it's like Terminator vision...scanning angles...depth... distance...etc...I never lead with an opinion because i hate myself...I don't like whatever I may think because I'm in a steady emotional breakdown for five years....I just adapt to it
I don't think we should assault each other with opinions but honestly there is a really good reason for almost anyone to leave church and it starts with communion in the hand. Just my opinion though right?
You are not forced to recieve holy Communion in the hand and jumping off a poorly managed yet still sea worthy boat into the stormy waters of the world is a bad idea
"Keep your opinions to yourself." That's exactly how the Church got in this mess that it's in today. Too many good people kept their mouths shut. Too many Bishops covered up for criminal Priests. See something? Say Something is the new commandment.
Most definitely! We should say something if we see something wrong or just bad or harmful to oneself or others. We should be aware of sharing our opinion to help others find truth based on facts not preference.
I think Fr. Mike implied that if something is happening that merits intervention, then by all means say something! And he used Christ’s words to illustrate how to go about that (e.g. go to the person -> bring friends -> go to the Church). But he also pointed out that topics of mere opinion (e.g. how a priest holds his hands) need not be addressed. Discernment here is key.
Yeh, but in a circumstance like the OJ trial when people asked if you thought he was innocent or guilty, they were asking for your gut feeling not an informed decision.
I would love to see you make a video about the literal or figurative interpretation of Genesis 1-11. To me, that's the biggest stumbling block for the inquirer, when it's probably been misunderstood all along. Love you Father Mike! I watch your vids even though I'm Protestant Lol
@@cade8986 . Me too, I'd like to hear Fr Mike's way of explaining our doctrine. Anyhow Genesis 1-11 is both literal and figurative. It's not just figurative. ... The problem is, a short video can't fully explain all the perspectives and the truths and the relations reality/symbolic of Genesis.
Opinions are good things they make you who you are! Just because someone is too sensitive to hear your opinion doesn't mean your opinion is a bad thing. Maybe this video should have been about rash judgements or the fact that there is a time and a place for everything. Imagine trying to have a relationship with someone where you couldn't share your opinion, it wouldn't be a relationship.
I swearrrrrr mannnnn and then when you say that people think you are just careless... This society is too deep sometimes I just don't want to go deep about certain stuff so 'I don't know enough to give an opinion'
Quite often the stuff that is aired online for the world to hear/judge is inaccurate and sensationalised to achieve the vengeful objective of the ‘rumour-spreader’ & also to ruin someone’s reputation.
@Matt Blaise Go to the TH-cam channel called "adwmuk" (A Day With Mary UK). They have absolutely wonderful priests on there! Every single homily and sermon I've listened to there have been just beautiful! You are SO LUCKY that you have the opportunity to attend them in person.
I have been doing a litany of humility for weeks now. I offer my opinion on everything! It's pride for me. It's been a painful road but I'm learning.
heavenly flame that is a powerful litany! Keep praying. God will certainly not disappoint!!
I have been praying that litany as well, since I am very prideful. It is wonderful!!
@@catherineschultz7930 what’s the litany of humility?
Ryan Dimiquibo, it is a litany that I found in the Pieta prayer booklet, which I also recommend. Here it is:
O Jesus! meek and humble of heart, hear me.
From the desire of being esteemed,
From the desire of being loved,
From the desire of being extolled,
From the desire of being honored,
From the desire of being praised,
From the desire of being preferred,
From the desire of being consulted,
From the desire of being approved,
Deliver me, Jesus
From the fear of being humiliated,
From the fear of being despised,
From the fear of suffering rebukes,
From the fear of being calumniated,
From the fear of being forgotten,
From the fear of being ridiculed,
From the fear of being wronged,
From the fear of being suspected,
Deliver me, Jesus
That others may be loved more than I,
That others may be esteemed more than I,
That in the opinion of the world, others may increase, and I may decrease,
That others may be chosen and I set aside,
That others may be praised and I unnoticed,
That others may be preferred to me in everything,
That others become holier than I, provided they I may become we holy as I should,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
I’ve prayed it a few times. Maybe that’s what I need to do. I struggle with this. Actually, I’ve listened to BIAY and I don’t remember Jesus addressing this. But it may be something I need to ponder on. I’ve been doing that a lot with things he’s said about other stuff. Jesus gives good advice honestly…I’ve implemented some of it already, and I’ve seen a difference in my life just with the few things I’ve reflected on.
Thank you, Father Mike, for saying yes to God. Your ministry is a great blessing to me and to many others I am sure. God bless you.
When expressing opinion ... if what is said isn’t rooted in love - it’s in vain/with a selfish agenda. Thank you, Fr. Mike, for sharing the Word in this challenging world.
You can root in love all day and people still take it the wrong way. Which is why I pray to stop having opinions on everything. It’s kind of a curse.
You made me laugh so hard when you said, “I..... had a life” 😂
Lately, I say this more and more. I don’t watch the news as much. Everyone thinks it’s important to have an opinion on everything, but I’m learning it’s really not. It’s okay to not have an opinion on everything. There are things I’ve discovered I have no opinion on, and I’ve been telling myself it’s okay!
Great videos Fr Mike. We all love you. God bless you Father.
Great video! I have found that people are so quick to ask for an opinion, because they want to classify others. Unfortunately this happens among some Catholics - classifying those as “good Catholics” or not.
Agreed
Amen! ✝️
Self righteousness 💔
Another excellent video, Father, God bless
I think this is a good teaching in humility, we often have hubris and ego in our opinions
Did you ask for his permission to state your opinion? You're probably just trying to help by sharing your comment, but at 5:30 "no, I'm just trying to help" "like, yeah, but, I didn't ask for your help, so you're criticizing something". Don't keep your opinion to yourself! Share it with others in a respectful way in order to help them. Otherwise, how will we learn if there is no room for debate or to receive criticism?
Wise words, thanks. Some of the best advice I got in seminary was "You don't have to have an opinion about everything" - it means when you DO have an opinion it will be given more respect.
I recently lost a good friend who was in recovery for a long time and it sounds crazy but i see him in your eyes. He had a recovery channel and its like i was meant to find you and you've worked wonders on me with your teachings. God bless you
Sorry for your loss. Praying for you
A lot of people think that they are unassailably unbiased and logical. They're not. They're opinionated. And opinions are not facts.
But if my opinion follows the rules of logic and is indeed well informed and based on facts. And is fair and just. My opinion and/or argument is valid.
If my opinion is greatly biased, ill-informed, unfair, unjust, dishonest, and based on lies, my opinion is bad and malicious.
What is the meaning of criticize?
from the merrian-webster dictionary website.
Criticize
-to judge the merits and demerits of and judge accordingly
-to find fault with: point out the faults of.
@@musicsavantaccountant5856 He's not saying you aren't right, he's saying that it's wrong if you think you aren't biased. You could always choose the source that supports you with "facts". There are many "facts" that contradict each other. "facts" are constantly changing.
Yes, opinions are not facts!!!
Thank you Father Mike
The whole thing about speaking truth to others was so needed. It was especially fitting for me today since the homily at daily mass was about speaking hard truths (cause today is the feast of the passion of John the Baptist)...but watching this was a nice tie in to that since...ya, we do need to do that, but we also have to access the situation and our motive. :)
👍 Great, helpful guidelines Father Mike! Thank you! And Thank you Ascension Presents!
Thank you Fr. Mike for this wonderful video. (From India)
This is such a fantastic, timely message. If our society’s members had enough humility to just admit, “I don’t know enough and can’t make an opinion,” there’d be so much more happiness and positivity.
Thank you for sharing your message and perspective, Fr.
Thank you! I was thinking about this today. Love how God randomly played this video. So true!
I love this channel. This was a great message. Something I would like to hear more religious leaders talk about are the examples in scripture where the truth was spoken to confound and confuse people, not so that they would understand and come to a better relationship with God. Nobody seems to ever talk about that.
This video would of saved so many of my past relationships. Only wish I herd it earlier.
@@mweb1 Fr. Mike says in this very video that unsolicited advice is criticism.
@@lalaithan guess what?
I agree.Thank you, Father Mike.
Yup.
This is a great reminder, Fr. Mike. I watched your interview with Matt Fradd recently, and you were incredibly charitable with your words. A previous guest of his was the complete opposite: he’s the sort to throw bombs at bulls in China shops. The key, as you said, is to speak truth in a way that the receiver will hear it, not to be as rude and gross as possible for the sake of vengeance. God bless!
I have come to a place of Humility where I have almost no opinion on anything anymore ... And if I ever do have one which is rare, I will only share an opinion if it’s positive now.
I hear you. Exactly what I'm trying to do. Pray we all get it.🙏
Great video Father Mike! So applicable to all of us today, in our relations with others every day. God bless you in your ministry in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour.🙏🏻
l thoroughly enjoy your videos. They're not only offering serious information but presented in such a down to earth way+. You're a true gem, Fr. Mike! And the one thing the world needs to hear are those things Jesus DID NOT say. lf we all did those things, as the song says, ''What a wonderful world it would be.'' +
This is so applicable for today. There was a friend who was talking about politics. At some point he asked, "Who do you support and back in the upcoming election?" I said, "nothing good comes from people discussing politics, especially if we do not agree. You were just talking about a celebrity you don't like anymore because of who they support politically." That is a whole different talk...celebrities who feel they can make an influence on public politically because of their celebrity. I will leave you with this... Opinions are like belly buttons, everyone has one. :)
Thanks Fr Mike one of the many good attributes of the Catholic Church today allowing others and there opinions to be heard , the Spirit gives patience, understanding , wisdom and love , turning opinions into a dialogue of truth so all have opportunity to be set free from there own acts of
self righteousness
thank you Father. i need this dearly🙏
I’m so grateful to the Father Martin Haters for introducing me to him. I’ve been listening to Father Martin’s loving and compassionate messages and am so happy to know there are many Catholics out there who actually understand Christianity and Jesus’s foundational message of love. Oh, and Father Mike is good, too. I’ve used some of his videos in my courses, and, thanks to the haters, I’ll be using Father Martin’s videos this semester.
Such a positive person you are so refreshing for the soul! Sound but also happy and joyful! All good points to keep us strong and Holy!
He really is the best at giving even unpopular information and still coming out with everyone liking him
God bless you Fr. Mike!! ✝️
My two cents on opinions. I have learned that opinions are referred to as value statements in Logic.
An opinion only has subjective value if the people in the debate or conversation value the same thing.
Most people want to share their opinions only to validate that another person agrees with their opinions.
Opinions cannot be used as a basis for a logical argument.
God has inspired me recently to not have an opinion on anything.
I see an opinion as a way of gossiping. And I feel that it is a sin.
Thank you.
Finally, someone who expresses what I wondered about for years. I thought I was the only one who thought things like “... but maybe this is a bit more complex than you think” or “what do you mean, why should I have an opinion about something I know nothing about?”
It seems to me that opinions are oftentimes an excuse to stop thinking.
No it’s all rooted in pride. It’s real struggle for some of us. Please pray for those of us who struggle with it.
You are awesome Fr. Mike! ✝️
Awesome message! It's relevant in today's times! 🙂
One of the things I used to teach my students when I was facilitating leadership training was that opinions are not fact therefore they can't be right or wrong, only different. Some may be better informed than others, but at the end of the day it is still just a person's opinion. The challenge is respecting that. And the Father is right. Sometimes an opinion is best left to yourself. I picked up a saying from watching a documentary on Colonel Hal Moore, the commander immortalized in the movie We Were Soldiers. "Never let a perfectly good opportunity to keep your mouth shut pass you by." Give your self 10 seconds, weigh the consequences, then speak up. I struggle with that so I know the value of that practice quite well.
My motive is curiosity and discussing something is how you get to the truth, by debating something out, truth set you free
Very good advice as always priest Mike. Kudos! God Bless!
Thank you God Bless you father
I needed to hear this today, and adjust some of my opinion sharing. Thank you!
I needed to hear this, thank you. God bless
Presente padre mike .. I like your videos God bless you father .
Perfect said, Fr. Mike. And really useful. Thanks a lot
These lessons need to be learned by all that use social media, especially those platforms like twitter and facebook. There is too much opinion sharing just to get vengeance or to take someone down under the guise of virtuous intent. Sharing an opinion of someone or something can also be called gossip which can get out of hand negatively so quickly and harm is done which cannot be undone.
I enjoyed this topic very much! I just experienced an uncomfortable situation where a Deacon at my church gave me his opinion. He told me, "Your Clinical Depression is Evil and if you don't get rid of it you will take it to Purgatory." Clinical Depression and Situational Depression are different. My Clinical Depression is a mental disorder caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. This is 9 out of 10 times a need for a doctor to review one's medications so that they can be changed or adjusted. Clinical depression is not something I choose. It happens unexpectly and is out of my control. Situational depression is caused by an event: Divorce, Death of a Loved one, Loss of a job, Loss of a relationship, etc. You know what the depression is about and it's usually temporary. Clinical depression can hit you at any time and you do not know why you are crying everyday or how long it will last until you seek help from a psychiatrist.
When I left the Deacon's office, I was hurt and confused. I felt "Judged" and I felt like he was calling me a "Sinner" because I had Clinical Depression. His opinion of Clinical Depression was inaccurate. I don't think he is the right Spiritual Director for me, however I'm having problems with how to lovingly address him inorder to have peaceful closure. Please...I am reaching out to all who understand my situation and ideas on how one would have closure. Thanks to All! Big Thank You to Father Mike for all of you incredible videos. I listen to you most everyday.
Very sorry that this happened 😮. I suppose you can check in with him and probe what exactly led him to think that and offer him the chance to let you give him some feedback that might help him the next time he is in that situation
Merry Christmas Father Mike!!!
Thank you Father! God bless you and the 'gang.'
Thank you Fr
Great video and I liked your example of a layperson criticizing their parish priest... I have seen too much of this lately. I know some of the laity have lost confidence in our priests & bishops because of the scandal which is understandable... but the lack of charity for our good and holy priests and disrespect for the magisterium that I've seen by some of the laity is... disturbing.
True I always say that too 👍🏼 i don’t have opinion in such a subject! I have a life! and care less about others it’s not my business!
I follow the path of Christ that chose for me and no one else’s so hope the world does the same and pray instead of criticizing others!
Thank you and God bless you.
So true about what you say about preferences!
Your videos always make my day, Father. God bless, from a fellow Minnesotan.
Thanks... well stated and great advice. Peace and Blessings.
It happens to me that some people feel entitled to MAKE me act (or have an opinion) on something I don't want to be involved with or want to MAKE me have a say when I don't make decisions. If I don't want to be related to something I don't, I won't. They can't make me and if they decide to get away from me because of it, so be it. Is in the same line of this video... I have learned to get away from situations that just tempt me to judge, feed anger, feed hate or things on that line against my "neighbor". In another stage of my life I would participate just to please people, thank GOD I grew it out! lol
There seems to be a certain kind of glee in people when they can say "Oh see, there, you're busted! I got you." - Is this the right motive for correcting?
Thanks, Fr. Mike for spotlighting on this. When others childishly challenge my self worth, I want to get even, with vigilance, like an eagle waiting to get its prey 🧐😤. At hindsight, I just needed better role models and process the situation. I really want to be strong for the others so we don't drag each other down to...gehena. (St. Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle. Be our defense against the wickedness and snares...)
At the beginning, and the end... LOL!- I would love to know the process you go through to be so darn wise Father! Thanks for breaking it down and making it easy for me/us to think about clearly! Pete D.---
Thanks so much for this. Very timely considering it's easier than ever to gossip online.
🙂 Thank you Father for this reminder.
How would you suggest a Catholic who creates content on TH-cam handles this when sharing their own opinions on TH-cam.
I find it’s nearly impossible to share an opinion (especially anything faith based) on TH-cam in a video that resonates positively with every viewer. No matter the topic discussed there will always be someone who disagrees, doesn’t like the delivery, judges the character of the person and so on.
I find that people are so afraid to open up online because they fear they’ll be attacked or ridiculed for having different views or preferences.
Any advice you can offer for Catholic creators on TH-cam is greatly appreciated.
Pax Christi ~
✨Deena
I'm a random viewer, but in my opinion (LOL), what's important for a Catholic content creator is to strive to be well-informed and charitable. We're all going to respond differently to what we watch, and there's no way to please everyone or prevent anyone from rushing to judgement. But we can avoid worrying too much or rushing to judgement ourselves. Hope this helps!
RanMouri82 thank you so much for replying. 🙂
I think you’re right that trying to please everyone on TH-cam is absolutely impossible.
Since you specifically asked for Fr. Mike's opinion and nobody else's, based on what Fr. Mike said, this is going to be considered criticism, but oh well, here's my 2 cents anyway (just as an FYI for your own benefit): *anything* you put out on TH-cam is going to receive trash talk ... you will *never* please everyone.
@@robonymous4620 Exactly! This priest doesn't like to hear others' opinions. Just his own.
Rob Onymous I appreciate your thoughts. It’s definitely true that no matter what there will always be someone that doesn’t like you/your message. Can’t please everyone 🙂
I saw the title and was immediately suspicious. But this isn’t what I presumed it would be. This is solid advice. I have caveats, perhaps. But I need time to ponder. What I liked was that you offered a specific structure of questions to use around making an opinion. I have an anecdote to offer that you in turn would probably like.
Its a churchy channel! I like that.
Check out Sensus Fidelium 🙏🏻
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That channel is one of hatred.
@@josephstalin9969 kinda agree. But there's some truth to it nevertheless. Just be careful when listening to those.
Always choose those who talk with love and compassion over those who talk with judgment and hatred. But don't close the doors to anyone but be watchful of the accuser
@@josephstalin9969 what are you talking about? I have not found anything remotely hateful on that channel.
@@KrustyKrabbz2 I agree, I would like a specific example of hatred on that channel. I have learned so much from Fr. Ripperger and others featured on there. It has deepened my faith and understanding of the Church's teachings; many of which I had never heard explained in any depth or substance.
You crack me up father Mike. You're cool.
These days, I never feel like I have enough information to have an opinion on anything. All the news sources are so biased and I just have no idea whether I'm getting the whole story or not. I only ever have opinions about moral and religious issues.
That was very helpful in my life currently, thank you.
Great sermon, Father! ;) ... outstanding!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤..... I don't know for how mane of your videos I'm gonna say exactly!!! , This is true!!!! Or this is directly for me thank you fr. Mike
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:32 🗣️ Be cautious of forming opinions without sufficient information or context, especially when it involves people or complex issues.
03:02 🤔 Before critiquing or correcting others, consider your motives, the truthfulness of the matter, the relationship with the person, and the manner of communication.
06:05 🤝 Jesus' advice: If you need to address someone, do it privately first; involve others only if necessary, but avoid airing grievances publicly online.
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Do hope you are able to make your visit to the Holy Land in 2020 Fr Mike 🙏
It makes me sad that more ppl aren't watching you're videos
Yes at least christians... But i am from India.. (we have at least 3 satellite channels of church in regional language... ). I was digging out deep outside my language
same thoughts I had as well. People are I believe.
Share the videos with your friends that might me interested. God Bless
*your. Sorry. I couldn't resist. But I agree with your sentiment.
@@JeevanMathew92 Haha, that was good
Thanks from Slovakia!
Loved this! It would be nice if Church Militant and Fr. James Martin would see this; it's important to speak the truth as well as how to say it without undermining the truth. And it is wise to have the humility to admit that a'lot of times we don't have enough details on a particular topic to have an opinion.
Awesome video, thank's Fr. Mike! God bless!😁
Michael Voris from Church Militant is awesome. Yes, he's passionate and vocal ... and *thank God for that!!* Generally speaking, what he says and exposes needs to be -- and in that "in your face" kind of way, because there are *_way_* too many "Catholics" that are either asleep or are simply heretical and they don't even have a clue that they are that way. They need a massive shake-up to wake them up and get their attention, and Michael Voris is the man to do it. The real Church Militant (i.e., us: Christ's Church alive in this physical realm, not the organization that Michael Voris heads) needs more people like him. He heard God's call and has answered ... positively. Usually, the people who get offended by what he says or the way he says it are precisely the ones who need to hear it ... just sayin'. 🕆📿😉
@David Russell Wrong. Church Militant, specifically because it consists of lay people, exposes and discusses the things priests have a hard time opening up about in public.
I've seen priests (good priests) try exposing and discussing the same stuff as Church Militant does, even in a much more watered down fashion, and they still continuously get ordered by their bishops to cease and decist. And, out of obedience, so far they all have.
The clergy are not going to fix a thing, because many of them are either in bed with Satan, are good but are sidelined by their superiors, are too afraid to lose their lives for Christ's sake (due to the satanic mafia of wolves in sheep's clothing who will arrange for their murder if they don't obey), or are waiting for an external force (like the laity, for example 😉) to do what needs to be done.
No, the clergy can guide us insofar as is possible, but the heavy lifting is going to have to be done by the laity, which includes Church Militant in no small part, and you and I.
You need to wake up -- and quickly. "My opinion." 😉
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@@robonymous4620 I agree with you, and Church Militant is especially good in exposing corruption in the Church and I also agree in the way Micheal Voris speaks about the corruption. It's just that, while I do agree with what he says, I don't agree with the way he speaks about every topic.
@@mad_marc2757 That's fair. 👍
@@robonymous4620 It's funny cause today's video from Fr Mike reminded me to reply to your comment jajaja.
Such a good video, I need a summary to write it down.
Very good video fr.mike
So, the four steps defined are:
1. Evaluate why you’re expressing this thought.
2. What is your opinion? Is it something true, like a principal, or is it just a preference?
3. Who are you (in relation)?
4. How are you expressing yourself?
Now, what I would like to ask: how is this different from an objective analysis with relative advice/recommendation? An analysis can have different points of view, but that relative differentiation does not turn it into an opinion, unless I have misunderstood the concept of an opinion? Isn't the concept of an opinion meant to be a subjective thought (a preference, not a principle or something like that)?
If an opinion is not inherently subjective as a concept, then what do you call a subjective thought? Noting that subjectivity can include lack of full information. So as far as I understand, what has been defined here is the process for an objective analysis with recommendation/advice based on multiple objective factors (including experience and points of view), not the process for or concept of an opinion.
the beatst is cunning but the serpent is much more subtle wise as the serpent gentle as the lamb you do a great job
Yes!
AMEN.
The pilgrimaged at the end! Really hope. I can go!
Opinions only matter to the person giving one. Father, have you ever expressed an opinion on the days coming weather? Now you've got it.
An opinion can be based on direct quotes when you actually hear what someone said publically. And they try to deny they said it sometimes.Maybe it's denial. Yet people have already formed an opinion regardless of evidence and facts. And it's not the media's fault or "fake news".
Here’s an opinion about something: as a Catholic in recovery, it’s come to my attention that there are MANY Catholics who are in a drug addicted downward spiral and clean/staying clean. We could REALLY use some kind of ministry..just saying. How does one even remotely BEGIN to start one up? I’m serious. It’s a dark, evil, lifestyle. Suggestions would be hugely appreciated. Thanks so much! 🙂
Amen.
I LOVE ADVICE. I always have. Even if someone I dislike or know is a **** is saying something, I like to hear it. Because I can also do the opposite of what s/he's saying. Get my drift? "Oh, that's what YOU would do?" Duly noted.
This is why I never argue about climate change. I simply don't know enough about it. I went to an agricultural school and we learned just so much about climate that I realized it's such an extremely complicated topic that I know just enough to know that I know almost nothing about it. As a conservative, it really annoys me when my fellow conservatives talk about it as if it was something simple and obvious. The same goes for liberals who know just as little but get into extreme panic mode.
Methinks this is a response to some comments after the Fradd interview. Good principles either way.
Mmmm... Or maybe this is a response to a Lizzie's video...
It seems to me... this may be a sort of Catholic lesson for that popular american Catholic girl who made a video on a Fr Mike's video. Many people on many comments told her that she would have been better if she had spoken to Fr Mike BEFORE releasing that video.
I completely agree with them.
She is a good girl,... but she is still young... and as a "new convert" she is still learning how to be a Catholic...
*Anyhow, this is a good lesson for all of us.* Not just for Lizzie or Matt followers or whichever.
(Hope my grammatical construction in English is ok...)
@@lishmahlishmah Not overly familiar with Lizzie but what you shared ("Catholic lesson...") seems legit for the Catholic media sphere on the interwebs.
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What video of Lizzie’s was that?
@@isoldesummer5367 .
I don't know if I can put the direct link here... Comments with links are often not visible.
You can go and look for a Lizzie's video of June 2019. The title is "Father Mike Schmitz is wrong about Trans People. A video response".
When I've heard the today's talk of Fr Mike, suddenly my thought went to that video. Not for the video itself, nor for her opinions.
But for the reasons Fr Mike has just explained.
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I found it. Thanks!
That Bronco police chase was amazing. School was stopped to watch the car chase.
Haha true! I happen to have a white 96 Ford Bronco in near perfect condition and ever since the chase I've nicknamed it "The Juice" and ever since then it's value has skyrocketed!
@@eddier9593 The Bronco in Rampage was amazing. It was a concept car that was done some 15 years ago. It's amazing. I hope they put some in production.
@@christinaguadalupe9986 Supposedly, the new Bronco will be revealed at the Detroit or LA Auto Show, although cool I'm pretty happy with mine :)
Sadly, today’s “social justice” is thinly vailed vengeance.
stevensonrf YES!
Face value mostly...I have aquired skills of ... literally seeing things like poetry...but more focused...and not eased like usually...it's like Terminator vision...scanning angles...depth... distance...etc...I never lead with an opinion because i hate myself...I don't like whatever I may think because I'm in a steady emotional breakdown for five years....I just adapt to it
I don't think we should assault each other with opinions but honestly there is a really good reason for almost anyone to leave church and it starts with communion in the hand. Just my opinion though right?
You are not forced to recieve holy Communion in the hand and jumping off a poorly managed yet still sea worthy boat into the stormy waters of the world is a bad idea
"Keep your opinions to yourself."
That's exactly how the Church got in this mess that it's in today. Too many good people kept their mouths shut. Too many Bishops covered up for criminal Priests. See something? Say Something is the new commandment.
Moosie McGill I’m with you on this one
@@ainojaz
Me too.
Most definitely! We should say something if we see something wrong or just bad or harmful to oneself or others. We should be aware of sharing our opinion to help others find truth based on facts not preference.
@@poetlover30
If you're referring to practicing Sodomites or homosexual marriage, you're spiritually dead wrong.
I think Fr. Mike implied that if something is happening that merits intervention, then by all means say something! And he used Christ’s words to illustrate how to go about that (e.g. go to the person -> bring friends -> go to the Church). But he also pointed out that topics of mere opinion (e.g. how a priest holds his hands) need not be addressed. Discernment here is key.
Yes Father. I totally agree with you. I hope those ‘Catholics’ will learn from your video🙏
Yeh, but in a circumstance like the OJ trial when people asked if you thought he was innocent or guilty, they were asking for your gut feeling not an informed decision.
Thats called gossip
I would love to see you make a video about the literal or figurative interpretation of Genesis 1-11. To me, that's the biggest stumbling block for the inquirer, when it's probably been misunderstood all along. Love you Father Mike!
I watch your vids even though I'm Protestant Lol
Matt Blaise I've seen it Lol. I'd love to hear Fr. Mike's delivery
@@cade8986 . Me too, I'd like to hear Fr Mike's way of explaining our doctrine.
Anyhow Genesis 1-11 is both literal and figurative. It's not just figurative. ... The problem is, a short video can't fully explain all the perspectives and the truths and the relations reality/symbolic of Genesis.
Thank you. Fr. Mike what do you think of the Amazonian Synod?
I wish I could meet Fr. Mike
Were you at all aware of some of the "youtube drama" going on right now? Hit rly perfect on that
Is it true .....is it kind .....is it Necessary....!
Opinions are good things they make you who you are! Just because someone is too sensitive to hear your opinion doesn't mean your opinion is a bad thing. Maybe this video should have been about rash judgements or the fact that there is a time and a place for everything. Imagine trying to have a relationship with someone where you couldn't share your opinion, it wouldn't be a relationship.
I swearrrrrr mannnnn and then when you say that people think you are just careless... This society is too deep sometimes I just don't want to go deep about certain stuff so 'I don't know enough to give an opinion'
The 2020 Israel Pilgrimage sounds like something I would love and could learn a lot from. Problem is, I am a bit too young. Maybe next time!
Quite often the stuff that is aired online for the world to hear/judge is inaccurate and sensationalised to achieve the vengeful objective of the ‘rumour-spreader’ & also to ruin someone’s reputation.
I got to say, I like the sheen on your shirt ;-)
I wish you was in London, so you could be my spiritual father.
@Matt Blaise No, only Americans. I suffer from scrupulosity, so need a good spiritual director.
Which part of London are you?
@Matt Blaise Go to the TH-cam channel called "adwmuk" (A Day With Mary UK).
They have absolutely wonderful priests on there! Every single homily and sermon I've listened to there have been just beautiful!
You are SO LUCKY that you have the opportunity to attend them in person.
@Matt Blaise Thank you so much! That is my favorite channel, and love all of their priests!
I'll share a really awesome homily. Hold on.
I live in Manchester !!! I am going to look up that channel
" adwmuk" thankyou for sharing God bless
American here but I too wish he was my spiritual father & talk in person. 😀
I really wanna go to the Holy Land 😩
You will someday! :)