Legit the moment you detach (aka humble yourself) and stick to only pleasing Allah (tawhid) like u said it’ll all just come to you alhamdulillah. It’s truly that simple. May Allah make it easy for all of us, I’m grateful to be a Muslim and finally guided on the right path, the only path
Being Muslim really is a privilege, we were chosen and it’s up to us to stick to our religion. We could’ve been born wicked and misguided, but here we are mashallah
I find it really hard to detach from marriage. Like it is an innate physical and spiritual need Allah created us with. Even Adam pbuh when he was in Jannah he felt lonely and asked Allah for a companion and He created Hawa for him. So I truly believe we were created with this need. I understand what you are saying and the concept of detachment but for marriage I feel like it is just not possible.
Detachment doesn't mean you shouldn't want it, it means figuring out how to feel fulfilled when Allah hasn't given it to you yet (which is the test). Working with what you currently have rather than feeling empty for not having it. Allah is always 100% filling your needs at all times, having wants is different than a need.
Please listen, when allah gives you clear signs you shouldnt be with someone take them. I married someone and divorced and throughout the relationship i WISHED i was single because of the treatment of her towards me.
@@draylouis It may be that you don't like something but that it reveals itself to be in your favour in the long-run or that you like something but it reveals itself not to be good for you after all. From our limited human perspectives, we don't always understand God's plan from the get go but we do know that everything He plans is entirely purposeful and intentional. Knowing that God is the Most Compassionate, tells us that whatever is written for us is better than anything that we could have planned ourselves. Trusting in this is what allows us to submit to God's will, to see the beauty in it and to make peace with it. Oftentimes we don't even know ourselves very well. God knows us fully and knows exactly what will bring joy to our hearts, even in ways that we could have never expected. The key is to have high expectations for Him without setting in stone the particular outcomes we want to happen. That's the fun and adventure of the journey! Hope that helps.
tawheed is believing god is the only god. what does that have to do with attachment to something you like ? Im not worshipping. its part of life. if thats the case then we should have been priests and nuns same like christians.
She's talking about obsessive attachment, specifically over someone you're not married to yet. Obsession can be considered a form of worship, if you are overly attached to someone, this means they're occupying a significant amount of space in your mind, whether it's due to anxiety about whether or not this person is meant for you, or worrying about if you're doing the right things to keep them in your life. Having Tawheed means you give up all your worries to Allah because He will always do what's best for you.
@mk.xo29 what if I know its the best for me and totally agree with it. Yet I still feel bad for how it all happened ? and I still care about her. for unknown reasons that I cant understand :/ I just cant control my mind
Legit the moment you detach (aka humble yourself) and stick to only pleasing Allah (tawhid) like u said it’ll all just come to you alhamdulillah. It’s truly that simple. May Allah make it easy for all of us, I’m grateful to be a Muslim and finally guided on the right path, the only path
“Allah doesn’t need your actions to make things happen “ love this
Being Muslim really is a privilege, we were chosen and it’s up to us to stick to our religion. We could’ve been born wicked and misguided, but here we are mashallah
Istg you are a blessing sent from god, you have changed my thinking towards marriage in such a good way. I can’t thank you enough. ❤
Jazakallah for this! May Allah (swt) guide all to straight path and may He(swt) be pleased with us all.
Choice 1: Stick to people/ material things
Choice 2: Make Allah center of Life
Always choose Choice 2 🥇
Just what I needed! Subhanallah the timing!!! 👏
May Allah increase you Lama! Your content is game changer. ❤
You’re so pretty Lama, mashaallah
the eyebrows!
Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
Jazaki Allah khayrane 💓
Ma sha Allah
Thank you so much
omg you look so pretty and cute 🥰
Salam Sister,
Love the content it’s really insightful ☺️
I find it really hard to detach from marriage. Like it is an innate physical and spiritual need Allah created us with. Even Adam pbuh when he was in Jannah he felt lonely and asked Allah for a companion and He created Hawa for him. So I truly believe we were created with this need. I understand what you are saying and the concept of detachment but for marriage I feel like it is just not possible.
Detachment doesn't mean you shouldn't want it, it means figuring out how to feel fulfilled when Allah hasn't given it to you yet (which is the test). Working with what you currently have rather than feeling empty for not having it.
Allah is always 100% filling your needs at all times, having wants is different than a need.
Will a haram relationship just be the same thing why obsess about marriage not my opinion I just want your answer to this.
Please listen, when allah gives you clear signs you shouldnt be with someone take them. I married someone and divorced and throughout the relationship i WISHED i was single because of the treatment of her towards me.
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Lama should i go for values or should i go for love??
@adilhassan5132 Love without values is not worth it!
Do you believe that god himself tries to intervene in who we end up with? Like divine intervention
In Islam we believe God has already written what is destined for us.
@@lamaaboubakr29 another thing, what if we won’t like what’s written for us?
@@draylouis It may be that you don't like something but that it reveals itself to be in your favour in the long-run or that you like something but it reveals itself not to be good for you after all. From our limited human perspectives, we don't always understand God's plan from the get go but we do know that everything He plans is entirely purposeful and intentional. Knowing that God is the Most Compassionate, tells us that whatever is written for us is better than anything that we could have planned ourselves. Trusting in this is what allows us to submit to God's will, to see the beauty in it and to make peace with it. Oftentimes we don't even know ourselves very well. God knows us fully and knows exactly what will bring joy to our hearts, even in ways that we could have never expected. The key is to have high expectations for Him without setting in stone the particular outcomes we want to happen. That's the fun and adventure of the journey! Hope that helps.
tawheed is believing god is the only god. what does that have to do with attachment to something you like ? Im not worshipping. its part of life.
if thats the case then we should have been priests and nuns same like christians.
She's talking about obsessive attachment, specifically over someone you're not married to yet. Obsession can be considered a form of worship, if you are overly attached to someone, this means they're occupying a significant amount of space in your mind, whether it's due to anxiety about whether or not this person is meant for you, or worrying about if you're doing the right things to keep them in your life. Having Tawheed means you give up all your worries to Allah because He will always do what's best for you.
@mk.xo29 what if I know its the best for me and totally agree with it. Yet I still feel bad for how it all happened ? and I still care about her. for unknown reasons that I cant understand :/
I just cant control my mind
w yap sesh
i needed this thank u😭🥲🥲🥺