This whole video was so powerful. From the dad being so caring for his son regardless of his orientation, and Nathan's teacher breaking out of her comfort zone to make him feel like he isn't alone. To top it off, it dissects how the bullies only do it in groups/one-on-one but never in front of other people in fear people will think they're assholes. Definitely felt very emotional and will have to watch this movie!
This are hardly the case in real life but these are what the LGBT hopes to achieve in the coming generation by producing films that are educating. When the time comes, maybe we'll have less films with tragic ending.
He is not her new student, if I remember properly. But she is just a minor character, is more important the male teacher and, of course, the two family. It´s a really good movie, with a nice end but not a "happy(stupid)" one
why didn't she do anything against those who hit nathan in the first place? giving a moral lesson isn't enough for someone who spanked another student, more so with a
I know this is a joke but that was the lunch bell and where I'm from one of my classes has about 2 minutes before lunch and then we continue afterwards.
This is amazing scene. You can actually see and feel, that the teacher is scared of telling it at loud. But she get over it just for helping him, thats insane... And the way she told it... That person I would call a REAL teacher.
And there is another teacher, he is not gay, and even so he defends Nathan too, he is the one that also convinces the female teacher to stand up for Nathan, because she didn't want to at first.
The teacher is ever scared, she start to change a little after this moment. But the school is not the focus of the story, it´s the parents and the relation between the two boys
i love Nathan's dad in this movie. he finds himself with a situation that is foreign to him but he quickly sees his love of his son as the most important thing and does the right thing.
Anyone that saw the film knew it about 15 minutes first. The movie is not like this clip, it´s really greater that, and this teacher is just a minor character. This come out is necesary just for the class not in the story, that is building around the two boys and the evolution reaction of them and their parents´reactions. you must see it.
super salty I am now 77 and all my life I have fought for equality. Fortunately I have live to see marriage legal. Sadly my late partner is not here to see that. When we were first together we were classed as criminals and had to hide because anyone could report us for living together and we would be imprisoned. So pleased that has changed now
@@supersalty5091 sorry no offence believe in gay marriage. Sorry I am not saying for hurting someone. I putting my point of view. But beating and raping being gay I am fully against that one. It's against humanity. Sorry if someone feel hurt by putting my point of view
This is why I'm out in the classroom -- so that my students know that they are not alone, that they have someone they can go to who doesn't just care and will listen, but understands first-hand. I was a High Schooler in the 80s. Coming out seemed impossible, and I certainly had no role models or resources. I had no one to go to to ask questions, no one to listen to me who cared or could advise me. I felt so alone. My students have me! Silence=Death
Wow thank you for sharing this. I never really thought that being out in a classroom as a student or teacher could really expose or even make others feel that they aren't alone. Representation matters!
I cried when Nathan's father kissed him and sat with him while he cried. My dad was totally emotionalless, which is probably why I was an emotional wreck for most of my life.
This made me cry💔 I literally can’t understand why people think it’s okay to make someone fear the world. Fear being themselves. Fear going to school. It’s heartbreaking and it feels like there’s nothing I can do sometimes.💔
... The problem with bullying is that once someone starts it, others add to the "fun" and no longer stop until an innocent person is seriously injured ... … The problem with bullying is that the child who suffers it will suffer in silence; out of fear and shame, he will never say anything at home, never seek help and unconsciously protect his aggressors ... ... The problem with bullying is that little by little they break the spirit and destroy the self-esteem, honor and morals of those who suffer it; Shame, silence, sadness, shyness, nervousness, fear and loneliness will be your only companions ... ... The problem with bullying is that the idea of suicide is constantly hanging around who suffers, and only one light is seen at the end of that horrible tunnel: Attempting against his own life ... ... The problem with bullying is that the aggressor does not have the slightest idea of moral, mental and physical damage, in many cases permanent damage, which can cause an innocent ... I suffered from mistreatment at my father's house from 7 years old when I went to live with him and from 11 to 14 years old at school, when I arrived at that school everyone realized my shyness, the fear I felt when Someone was talking to me, they realized that I was a very weak child and they started beating me between two, then there were four, then six, and they were not only blows, but threats, they told me names, they gave me nicknames, they told me hurtful things, they told me they screamed, they bothered me, for them all that was laughter and fun and for me it was a torment. I never said anything, I never reported them, I suffered in absolute silence, I never said anything at home to my mother or the teachers, I didn't trust anyone, I felt so ashamed, so humiliated, so little thing, I was very afraid, I thought that nobody cared, those who tormented me convinced me of that, convinced me that nobody cared and that nobody loved me, convinced me that I was worth nothing, made me feel so bad ... And I left very hurt, even I am very hurt, I still cry, it still hurts, my pain is not a physical pain, in reality it was never a physical pain because there came a time where I no longer felt the blows, my pain was a strange pain, it is a strange pain, It is a pain that feels in the chest accompanied by a chill and a deep sadness ... I do not know how to explain it, not with words ... Friend, pay attention to me, do not remain silent and seek help, if in your house they do not lend it Talk to your teachers and go to the authorities. PLEASE NO MORE BULLYING! LET'S STOP WITH THAT! One thing is a video, a song or a short awareness and another very different thing is to live it in its own flesh and in real life. I have years with psychology help, and now, after a few months with the help of my psychologist, I have begun to speak, I have begun slowly to let out what is killing me. Please Mr. Bullying, leave me alone! I just want to be calm.
Thanks for your forthright, honest, and courageous testimony, with which I fully agree. As an 80 year old gay clergyman, I endured my share of bullying in my schooldays, and though it was sometimes deeply depressing, and with nobody to talk to, a strong faith, top grades, and a ready tongue helped see me through, and to devote part of my life and ministry to , like the teacher in this video, befriending and defending victims of all sorts of bullying and bigotry. But some scars from my past still exist and I will probably carry them to my grave : perhaps from the perspective of age and faith, I can wear them as a badge of honour. Thank God that at least in my part of the country this scourge is being addressed, and, I hope eradicated. But there is still a long way to go. I sincerely hope that your wounds are healing and that they will leave few or no scars. Once again, deep thanks for your much needed witness. Never give way to despair: it does get better.
Amazed at your fortitude and stamina to endure. We need Anti-bully student clubs to really be able to stop this by calling out the bullies and making them the ones on the outside of society.
@@elbichito24 Brother do I ever know where your coming from on all 3 counts. Thank God these young folks live in a different time. I hate that to some extent they still have to bear some burdens in this society.
@@mahamahi7624 Hidden Kisses is the name of the movie. It's on Amazon prime and you can Google it and find others who are playing it. It's also on TH-cam with French captions.
I understand. Having another person's inner insanity unleashed on you can leave you with feelings you've done something horrible despite being blameless. It's a trauma that gets trapped under layers of emotional scar tissue, yet can still undermine your self esteem throughout life. Counseling has helped me recognize how fucked up my tormentors were and let go some of the anger. Try to remember that your bitterness is now on autopilot and hurts no one but you. Only you can shut it off. Peace & healing.
@@jeffcampbell1555 Actually I had pushed it back for a long time; at least, I didn't dwell on it. The election of Trump and the accompanying torrent of hate has brought it back.
@@albusdumbledore4336 This happened in Dallas, Texas in 1975. Yes it still happens. Gay teens are still bullied to death and thrown out of their homes and families. Masses of people mostly but not exclusively in evangelical churches deny that gay people are actual human beings; therefore, any mistreatment of gay people is smiled on by god. All of this is because of a few words in an ancient book. I still live in Texas, but in a metropolitan area where I feel relatively safe.
Bravo!! He visto distintos cortos, en este, que es la primera vez que veo, se me han saltado las lágrimas. Padre, profesora, él. Verdadero ejemplo!!, y le quiere!!. Respeto, vida, amor. ❤❤❤!!!.
A video showing powerful, gut churning, heart pounding consequences of physical brutality and emotional trauma, a father's tender love and support, a teacher's inspiring act of solidarity and courage, a bullied teenager confronting his tormenters - alone - AND publicly shaming them ... And many can only comment about ... the short duration of the class. Joking in fact. Sad.
in front of all the students and the headmaster! I once had a gay colleague but he had to remain in the closet for fear the omnipotent headmaster, a very conservative man, would have found a way of getting rid of him under any false pretext. None of us ever knew about this. And when the boss learned that our colleague eventually got AIDS, he sent him to preretirement under the pretext of help and compassion but in reality for fear parents would discover that a gay teacher had been on the staff for years, in spite of him being one of the very best professionals on duty. After that our former colleague went into severe depression and had to be sent to a hospital for rest. Of course, this was a long time ago(1970s), but I sometimes doubt things have changed as much as some do believe. It takes an awful lot of time for mentalities to change.
No, the guy who kissed him, his sort of boyfriend, punched him because he was a coward to stop the others and did not want to be outed. His boyfriend was a coward. And obviously it hurt more than anything
No one should be beaten,bullied ,or harassed for being who they want to be. No one should tell you how to live your life. No one has a right to take their freedom away!PERIOD...If they don't like that then they should go on!..
... The problem with bullying is that once someone starts it, others add to the "fun" and no longer stop until an innocent person is seriously injured ... A child never says anything to anyone and less to the family when they are being bullied in elementary or high school. I suffered from bullying and I was silent because of shame and fear. I lived bullying from 7 years to 14 years and nobody helped me, and nobody helped me because I never said anything. I spent 7 years fighting alone against my older brother when I lived in his house and against those damn people in school who had made my life a mess. I never did any harm to any of them, I never hurt them, I never messed with them, I never took anything away from them and I never understood why that hatred against me if I never hurt them, on the contrary, towards everything they asked me to do in order to win them as long as they accepted me, they made me feel so bad, my morale and my self-esteem were on the floor, I felt that nobody loved me, that no one cared. Sometimes I was alone, retired, hidden, sitting by the playground, they were going to look for him to annoy me or to invite me to play with them, and I was confident and believing that they had finally accepted me and that they were already my friends, but no, it was just to ridicule me, make fun of me or to end up hitting me again ... They made me all kinds of evil, every day a new one: They spit my face, they put gum in my hair, they took my backpack and threw them all away my things all over the floor, when I was going, they put their feet in so that I fell and then they laughed, they took my money, they squeezed my neck and they lifted me up so that I suffocated, they lowered my pants to make fun, if I was standing Somewhere they went and started pushing me against each other, they told me horrible things, they threatened me. Every day, from Monday to Friday they persecuted me and harassed me during the 5 hours I stayed in that school. I asked them to please now, to leave me alone, to leave me alone, that I went to school to study not to fight, I asked them to be my friends that I would do what they wanted, but no, I would not They accepted, I never understood why, and I didn't understand why they beat me. I was just a different child, with a different accent (My way of speaking caused them laughter, I was from another city), I was very shy and somewhat withdrawn, quiet, I was always nervous, the first few days I fell asleep in the classroom , and it was like that because they beat me in my house and didn't let me sleep. One day I peed in class and from there they started to annoy me and they never stopped. I never denounced the aggressors out of fear and shame, I always kept silent and endured everything quiet. With every visible blow to the face, arms or legs, if someone asked me, I said that I had fallen or that I played it. I didn't take my shirt off in front of anyone so they wouldn't see the bumps and bruises I had all over my back and chest, I was ashamed that they saw me, sometimes I couldn't even pass my towel because everything hurt. I felt so ashamed and so humiliated, sad, always very afraid to the point that in the classroom I did not intervene and did not talk much so that they would not make fun of me. It was a very sad and hard stage of my life that only changed when I changed the city and I went to live again with my mother in our new house. I never told anyone or her what I lived. I do not wish that torment on anyone, nor do I wish my worst enemy. Stalkers have no idea of the harm they cause to a helpless child when between three or four they are harassing him every day. The child loses his self-esteem, loses his confidence, loses his morale, thinks that it is worthless, that nobody wants it. I was so desperate to escape them that on several occasions the idea of suicide occurred to me and I even tried to take some pills that I found in the bathroom. Many times I thought about throwing myself from the room on the 11th floor of the hotel where my mother lived. When I was going to spend a weekend with her, they left me alone in that room while my mother went to work and for hours I sat at the window watching people and cars pass by, and thinking that in a few minutes everything could end. Many times at home I was crying with rage, pain, shame and sadness after a new beating, I left the house and crossed the streets without seeing the sides squeezing his eyes and begging God to come a car and roll me and thus finish my sadness..I just asked God not to hurt me so much the blow and that everything was fast. . I was so desperate that I just wanted to die. The years have passed and I still live tormented by all that, I am in therapy to overcome it and I still have not been able to. I was bullying at school, I had problems at home and I thought nobody loved me
I went through bullying cause apparently "u bully the person u like" In middle school but moving on I'm glad for those moments that made me stronger and able to face the world
I cannot believe the gay guys are still facing all that. I came out to my family 30 years ago ( in ex Jugoslavija ) and to my whole world 10 years ago ( in Italy - where I live now ). P.s. The teacher and his father are awesome. All the teacher and parents should be like them.
@@chloemarsh612 I hope people will reach to a point when they realize people opinion has no hold over them , go be u and stop letting people affect that ,i know it's easier to type the words than say it but standing up for urself is the best thing u could possible do, when people see that u have that strength ,they are less likely to bother u for fear
Belle leçon de courage! Bravo Nathan d’assumer enfin pleinement ton identité. Chapeau bas à la Prof. qui t’y a encouragé! Un sentiment de tristesse tout de même pour le garçon à la double identité ( même s’il ne le mérite pas, parce qu’il fait partie des agresseurs de Nathan), car chez certains, le coming out prend du temps, pire, c’est toujours impossible dans certaines régions du monde !
En Iran, en Arabie Saoudite, en Afghanistan, etc Et peut-être le pire, dans la République russe de Tchétchénie. Grozny reconstruite après la guerre civile est la ville la plus glamour de Russie, avec gratte-ciel, casino, centre de sport ultramoderne, station de ski, etc mais... être gay en Tchétchénie, c'est pratiquement un arrêt de mort. Le président Poutine tolère les excès du dictateur tchétchène Ramzan Kadyrov, car ce dernier garantit un ordre absolu et le fait que nul n'osera plus tenter de faire sécession de la Fédération, ce qui conduisit à l'horrible guerre que l'on sait. Kadyrov a obtenu des fonds importants de l'Arabie et des pays du Golfe, il a fait édifier une mosquée qui ressemble à Sultanahmet d'Istamboul, il déclare surtout pouvoir contrôler ses islamistes (une grande crainte du président russe) mais il leur fait de facto néanmoins de grandes concessions, et en particulier la chasse aux LGBT est ouverte, avec ses suites (prison, torture, exécutions) et nul ne trouve à y redire, même si cela viole les lois de la Fédération.
Honestly, i watched it on TH-cam. I don’t know if there’s a version with english subtitles, as the one i watched had spanish subtitles - my native language is french, so i didn’t even need subtitles. Look it up. :)
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"i'm not a father if i dont stick up for my son" wiser words were never spoken
He finally realized
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Are not a dad then?
This whole video was so powerful. From the dad being so caring for his son regardless of his orientation, and Nathan's teacher breaking out of her comfort zone to make him feel like he isn't alone. To top it off, it dissects how the bullies only do it in groups/one-on-one but never in front of other people in fear people will think they're assholes. Definitely felt very emotional and will have to watch this movie!
He realized loves love
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This are hardly the case in real life but these are what the LGBT hopes to achieve in the coming generation by producing films that are educating. When the time comes, maybe we'll have less films with tragic ending.
where to find the whole film?
Love that scene because it also shows how bullies are cowards
Wow the teacher is such an amazing person. She reveals her sexuality to her students just to stand up for her new student.
Different orientation is not whole yet acceptable in many society but slowly will coming to that!
He is not her new student, if I remember properly. But she is just a minor character, is more important the male teacher and, of course, the two family.
It´s a really good movie, with a nice end but not a "happy(stupid)" one
Nagito what the hell are you doing here
why didn't she do anything against those who hit nathan in the first place? giving a moral lesson isn't enough for someone who spanked another student, more so with a
LOVE AND BEUTIFUL BOYEIZ❤❤❤
The courage that teacher gave to Nathan was amazing ❤
@Jericho Taal Hidden Kisses.
Du moin
Du Na
Jam Rodrigues Finnuno
"Him too" is the saddest thing in this whole clip
The teacher is honest yet brave,love her.
well, that was a short class.
i was thinking that too haha
Wish it was like that
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"for the first hour we will talk about....."
* bell rings 2 minutes later *
I could only pray all 7 periods wheee 2 minutes
Ziplock Bag lol
I wish my classes were this short lol
I know this is a joke but that was the lunch bell and where I'm from one of my classes has about 2 minutes before lunch and then we continue afterwards.
Time is supposed to pass, it's a movie
does anyone else think the blonde boy who’s parents are homophobic looks like Isak and Even’s kid🥺
Kenzie Murphy OH SHIT HE DOES😂😂😂😱😱
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Not gonna lie, I actually cried when the teacher kissed her (I presume) wife. I just felt so utterly happy and proud.
This is amazing scene. You can actually see and feel, that the teacher is scared of telling it at loud. But she get over it just for helping him, thats insane...
And the way she told it... That person I would call a REAL teacher.
And there is another teacher, he is not gay, and even so he defends Nathan too, he is the one that also convinces the female teacher to stand up for Nathan, because she didn't want to at first.
The teacher is ever scared, she start to change a little after this moment. But the school is not the focus of the story, it´s the parents and the relation between the two boys
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i love Nathan's dad in this movie. he finds himself with a situation that is foreign to him but he quickly sees his love of his son as the most important thing and does the right thing.
I came out last year and one of my classmates tried to hit me with a chair
My choir teacher came out of the closet and saved me
🎓see a good persons dosnt just watch they speak up
omg ur teacher is an icon
I'm happy for u.keep fighting.
Caden Harmsen Why was he in the clauset lmao as if he knew that would happen
Gateway drug why would the class need to know about his love life? It’s not their concern
Him having his father’s back is love
Not his father having his back? 🤔
Who else thought the story of a lesbians girl was the teacher herself??
Okay she confirmed it
Anyone that saw the film knew it about 15 minutes first.
The movie is not like this clip, it´s really greater that, and this teacher is just a minor character. This come out is necesary just for the class not in the story, that is building around the two boys and the evolution reaction of them and their parents´reactions.
you must see it.
This movie is so well directed... plz people watch this movie
Where can I see it complete?
Name of movie? Does it have subtitles?
'Hidden Kisses' is available on Amazon Prime for free.
@@russelstephan6342 Hidden Kisses. Yes, it has subtitles.
Kostadinka Dimitrova Omg I thgouhtt you sent a prom website 😂
people just have no idea what we've been through.
super salty I am now 77 and all my life I have fought for equality. Fortunately I have live to see marriage legal. Sadly my late partner is not here to see that. When we were first together we were classed as criminals and had to hide because anyone could report us for living together and we would be imprisoned. So pleased that has changed now
@@johnoakes4143 in asia still. we are still hiding
it´s true.
@@johnoakes4143 I'm 50,so have an idea of what you describe; love,strength and happiness to you from London👋💥👊❤👏👏👏👋✌
@@supersalty5091 sorry no offence believe in gay marriage. Sorry I am not saying for hurting someone. I putting my point of view. But beating and raping being gay I am fully against that one. It's against humanity. Sorry if someone feel hurt by putting my point of view
what an example of a beautiful dad loving and defending his son. Too often this does not happen. THANKS for showing this film.
This is why I'm out in the classroom -- so that my students know that they are not alone, that they have someone they can go to who doesn't just care and will listen, but understands first-hand. I was a High Schooler in the 80s. Coming out seemed impossible, and I certainly had no role models or resources. I had no one to go to to ask questions, no one to listen to me who cared or could advise me. I felt so alone. My students have me! Silence=Death
I was out last year and i was open my choir teacher uncloseted himself to save me from a fight in class when i came out
Also thanks for helping make a safe space for ur students
Bravo Mr. Grasso! Your students are very lucky indeed.
Wow thank you for sharing this. I never really thought that being out in a classroom as a student or teacher could really expose or even make others feel that they aren't alone. Representation matters!
I'm sure you are role model to so many of your students, kudos.
I cried when Nathan's father kissed him and sat with him while he cried. My dad was totally emotionalless, which is probably why I was an emotional wreck for most of my life.
This kind of courage I need it in my life,I Stan the teacher and Nathan.
Am proud of your teacher Nathan,and what you did takes courage u a legendary 😘😘😘😘😘🧚♀️🧚♀️🥰🥰
This made me cry💔 I literally can’t understand why people think it’s okay to make someone fear the world. Fear being themselves. Fear going to school. It’s heartbreaking and it feels like there’s nothing I can do sometimes.💔
Yes this movie is something unique. Much admiration for all involved. The math teacher is a role model .. extremely rare to see this in real life.
Great film. Saw it years ago. It's worth seeing again. " Hidden Kisses" French with subtitles.
i, too, agree that Nathan's dad is a treasure. love his compassion even tho he doesnt really understand completely.
I LOVE this movie. And the teacher scene really got me. It was so brave for her to tell it all.
i simply love Nathan's father!!!! my heart goes out to him (even though it's only a movie) i would love to meet him and say how much I love his soul.
Same
... The problem with bullying is that once someone starts it, others add to the "fun" and no longer stop until an innocent person is seriously injured ...
… The problem with bullying is that the child who suffers it will suffer in silence; out of fear and shame, he will never say anything at home, never seek help and unconsciously protect his aggressors ...
... The problem with bullying is that little by little they break the spirit and destroy the self-esteem, honor and morals of those who suffer it; Shame, silence, sadness, shyness, nervousness, fear and loneliness will be your only companions ...
... The problem with bullying is that the idea of suicide is constantly hanging around who suffers, and only one light is seen at the end of that horrible tunnel: Attempting against his own life ...
... The problem with bullying is that the aggressor does not have the slightest idea of moral, mental and physical damage, in many cases permanent damage, which can cause an innocent ...
I suffered from mistreatment at my father's house from 7 years old when I went to live with him and from 11 to 14 years old at school, when I arrived at that school everyone realized my shyness, the fear I felt when Someone was talking to me, they realized that I was a very weak child and they started beating me between two, then there were four, then six, and they were not only blows, but threats, they told me names, they gave me nicknames, they told me hurtful things, they told me they screamed, they bothered me, for them all that was laughter and fun and for me it was a torment. I never said anything, I never reported them, I suffered in absolute silence, I never said anything at home to my mother or the teachers, I didn't trust anyone, I felt so ashamed, so humiliated, so little thing, I was very afraid, I thought that nobody cared, those who tormented me convinced me of that, convinced me that nobody cared and that nobody loved me, convinced me that I was worth nothing, made me feel so bad ... And I left very hurt, even I am very hurt, I still cry, it still hurts, my pain is not a physical pain, in reality it was never a physical pain because there came a time where I no longer felt the blows, my pain was a strange pain, it is a strange pain, It is a pain that feels in the chest accompanied by a chill and a deep sadness ... I do not know how to explain it, not with words ... Friend, pay attention to me, do not remain silent and seek help, if in your house they do not lend it Talk to your teachers and go to the authorities. PLEASE NO MORE BULLYING! LET'S STOP WITH THAT!
One thing is a video, a song or a short awareness and another very different thing is to live it in its own flesh and in real life.
I have years with psychology help, and now, after a few months with the help of my psychologist, I have begun to speak, I have begun slowly to let out what is killing me.
Please Mr. Bullying, leave me alone! I just want to be calm.
Thanks for your forthright, honest, and courageous testimony, with which I fully agree. As an 80 year old gay clergyman, I endured my share of bullying in my schooldays, and though it was sometimes deeply depressing, and with nobody to talk to, a strong faith, top grades, and a ready tongue helped see me through, and to devote part of my life and ministry to , like the teacher in this video, befriending and defending victims of all sorts of bullying and bigotry. But some scars from my past still exist and I will probably carry them to my grave : perhaps from the perspective of age and faith, I can wear them as a badge of honour. Thank God that at least in my part of the country this scourge is being addressed, and, I hope eradicated. But there is still a long way to go. I sincerely hope that your wounds are healing and that they will leave few or no scars. Once again, deep thanks for your much needed witness. Never give way to despair: it does get better.
Amazed at your fortitude and stamina to endure. We need Anti-bully student clubs to really be able to stop this by calling out the bullies and making them the ones on the outside of society.
@@pakana4976 It was not really strength or resistance, it was actually fear, it was terror, it was shame.
@@elbichito24 Brother do I ever know where your coming from on all 3 counts. Thank God these young folks live in a different time. I hate that to some extent they still have to bear some burdens in this society.
The maths teacher in this video is a goddess! I really felt what she said. What a legend.
This movie is beautiful! The teacher's attitude was a class against homophobia. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
GREAT AUDIO ... saw the movie in full and it's very good
name?
What movie?
John Michael Tan Hidden Kisses:-)
Laya-Rose Thank you!
Where did you watch it?
I wish these clips were numbered because now I'm watching them in random order 😒😒
Watch the whole movie. It's really good.
@@meehd01 may i know the movie name...and where i found it with eng sub
Maha Mahi
Do you mind telling me?
@@mahamahi7624 Hidden Kisses is the name of the movie. It's on Amazon prime and you can Google it and find others who are playing it. It's also on TH-cam with French captions.
@@usernamenotfound6515 it's on Amazon prime.
I was beaten nearly to death for being gay. I still bear the scars and am still bitter after 45 years.
I understand. Having another person's inner insanity unleashed on you can leave you with feelings you've done something horrible despite being blameless. It's a trauma that gets trapped under layers of emotional scar tissue, yet can still undermine your self esteem throughout life. Counseling has helped me recognize how fucked up my tormentors were and let go some of the anger. Try to remember that your bitterness is now on autopilot and hurts no one but you. Only you can shut it off. Peace & healing.
@@jeffcampbell1555 Actually I had pushed it back for a long time; at least, I didn't dwell on it. The election of Trump and the accompanying torrent of hate has brought it back.
@@stephendavidbailey2743 Yeah. I feel an atmosphere of danger out there. I had no clue so MANY of my fellow Americans pine for the bad old days.
Im sorry for you, sean, where do u live? Why are they people still beating up lgbt? What they do that can be so wrong?
@@albusdumbledore4336 This happened in Dallas, Texas in 1975. Yes it still happens. Gay teens are still bullied to death and thrown out of their homes and families. Masses of people mostly but not exclusively in evangelical churches deny that gay people are actual human beings; therefore, any mistreatment of gay people is smiled on by god.
All of this is because of a few words in an ancient book.
I still live in Texas, but in a metropolitan area where I feel relatively safe.
This is one the BEST gay movies I've ever seen! Good actors and actresses!
The acting was superb, the story a bit over the top, but of course this is in France.
Love it! It was compressed into 10 minutes but it said everything, don't let anyone take your power
Bravo!!
He visto distintos cortos, en este, que es la primera vez que veo, se me han saltado las lágrimas.
Padre, profesora, él.
Verdadero ejemplo!!, y le quiere!!.
Respeto, vida, amor. ❤❤❤!!!.
This movie both broke my heart and gave me hope. It's beautiful.
Brilliant episode , brilliant acting ! Thank you so much for posting it !
Commi Raid its actually a movie
@@JuanGarcia-ip8db Thank you! I know it and should have written ' scene' not 'episode'. My bad!
@@commiraid8545 th-cam.com/video/Vfp5ruk024E/w-d-xo.html
A video showing powerful, gut churning, heart pounding consequences of physical brutality and emotional trauma, a father's tender love and support, a teacher's inspiring act of solidarity and courage, a bullied teenager confronting his tormenters - alone - AND publicly shaming them ...
And many can only comment about ... the short duration of the class. Joking in fact.
Sad.
beautiful cast, beautifully written & directed
I don’t have words... this movie is amazing ❤️ I love it
What’s the film name
Remarkable teacher! Honest & loving dad.
Fudge, I'm crying...😭😭
I’m on the bus watching this and I’m about to cry. Omg😭🤧💛
This a great movie. I would like to see number 2. Great Actors.
Is the class finish for 5 minutes? What a dream
😂
I would like that any bullied boy could react this way. Heads up, guys, you and your parents!
Teacher gets into the car and says kiss me wow
in front of all the students and the headmaster! I once had a gay colleague but he had to remain in the closet for fear the omnipotent headmaster, a very conservative man, would have found a way of getting rid of him under any false pretext. None of us ever knew about this. And when the boss learned that our colleague eventually got AIDS, he sent him to preretirement under the pretext of help and compassion but in reality for fear parents would discover that a gay teacher had been on the staff for years, in spite of him being one of the very best professionals on duty. After that our former colleague went into severe depression and had to be sent to a hospital for rest. Of course, this was a long time ago(1970s), but I sometimes doubt things have changed as much as some do believe. It takes an awful lot of time for mentalities to change.
He said he too. Meaning his boyfriend hit he too.
I thought he meant they hit him too
Stephen F. He meant they beat his boyfriend up too, dumbass.
No, the guy who kissed him, his sort of boyfriend, punched him because he was a coward to stop the others and did not want to be outed. His boyfriend was a coward. And obviously it hurt more than anything
Bittersweet story. Maybe some day love will completely win over hate.
Someone once said to experience true love you will have to experience pure hate.
I’ve been trying to find this film for months and finally now I have, I’m gonna go watch this again
No one should be beaten,bullied ,or harassed for being who they want to be. No one should tell you how to live your life. No one has a right to take their freedom away!PERIOD...If they don't like that then they should go on!..
they’re really learning the stuff i learned in *8th grade*
... The problem with bullying is that once someone starts it, others add to the "fun" and no longer stop until an innocent person is seriously injured ... A child never says anything to anyone and less to the family when they are being bullied in elementary or high school. I suffered from bullying and I was silent because of shame and fear. I lived bullying from 7 years to 14 years and nobody helped me, and nobody helped me because I never said anything. I spent 7 years fighting alone against my older brother when I lived in his house and against those damn people in school who had made my life a mess. I never did any harm to any of them, I never hurt them, I never messed with them, I never took anything away from them and I never understood why that hatred against me if I never hurt them, on the contrary, towards everything they asked me to do in order to win them as long as they accepted me, they made me feel so bad, my morale and my self-esteem were on the floor, I felt that nobody loved me, that no one cared. Sometimes I was alone, retired, hidden, sitting by the playground, they were going to look for him to annoy me or to invite me to play with them, and I was confident and believing that they had finally accepted me and that they were already my friends, but no, it was just to ridicule me, make fun of me or to end up hitting me again ... They made me all kinds of evil, every day a new one: They spit my face, they put gum in my hair, they took my backpack and threw them all away my things all over the floor, when I was going, they put their feet in so that I fell and then they laughed, they took my money, they squeezed my neck and they lifted me up so that I suffocated, they lowered my pants to make fun, if I was standing Somewhere they went and started pushing me against each other, they told me horrible things, they threatened me. Every day, from Monday to Friday they persecuted me and harassed me during the 5 hours I stayed in that school. I asked them to please now, to leave me alone, to leave me alone, that I went to school to study not to fight, I asked them to be my friends that I would do what they wanted, but no, I would not They accepted, I never understood why, and I didn't understand why they beat me. I was just a different child, with a different accent (My way of speaking caused them laughter, I was from another city), I was very shy and somewhat withdrawn, quiet, I was always nervous, the first few days I fell asleep in the classroom , and it was like that because they beat me in my house and didn't let me sleep. One day I peed in class and from there they started to annoy me and they never stopped. I never denounced the aggressors out of fear and shame, I always kept silent and endured everything quiet. With every visible blow to the face, arms or legs, if someone asked me, I said that I had fallen or that I played it. I didn't take my shirt off in front of anyone so they wouldn't see the bumps and bruises I had all over my back and chest, I was ashamed that they saw me, sometimes I couldn't even pass my towel because everything hurt. I felt so ashamed and so humiliated, sad, always very afraid to the point that in the classroom I did not intervene and did not talk much so that they would not make fun of me. It was a very sad and hard stage of my life that only changed when I changed the city and I went to live again with my mother in our new house. I never told anyone or her what I lived. I do not wish that torment on anyone, nor do I wish my worst enemy. Stalkers have no idea of the harm they cause to a helpless child when between three or four they are harassing him every day. The child loses his self-esteem, loses his confidence, loses his morale, thinks that it is worthless, that nobody wants it. I was so desperate to escape them that on several occasions the idea of suicide occurred to me and I even tried to take some pills that I found in the bathroom. Many times I thought about throwing myself from the room on the 11th floor of the hotel where my mother lived. When I was going to spend a weekend with her, they left me alone in that room while my mother went to work and for hours I sat at the window watching people and cars pass by, and thinking that in a few minutes everything could end. Many times at home I was crying with rage, pain, shame and sadness after a new beating, I left the house and crossed the streets without seeing the sides squeezing his eyes and begging God to come a car and roll me and thus finish my sadness..I just asked God not to hurt me so much the blow and that everything was fast. . I was so desperate that I just wanted to die. The years have passed and I still live tormented by all that, I am in therapy to overcome it and I still have not been able to. I was bullying at school, I had problems at home and I thought nobody loved me
😭😭😭Ignore me I just want to cry here for a while
I went through bullying cause apparently "u bully the person u like"
In middle school but moving on I'm glad for those moments that made me stronger and able to face the world
He’s so handsome
Lit Babe who
All the men in this movie are handsome
I dont think I’m watching these in the right order lol but they are great
The teacher is a very brave woman.
Kudos to that teacher!!!
I wish classes were 3 minutes long like this
This is such an amazing movie
El mejor ejemplo de Padre. Amar a su o sus hijos.
ok but I LOVE THE DAD AND THE TEACHER OMFG
This was a really great movie! the two boys were great, and so were the parents. it was very well done!
I cannot believe the gay guys are still facing all that.
I came out to my family 30 years ago ( in ex Jugoslavija ) and to my whole world 10 years ago ( in Italy - where I live now ).
P.s. The teacher and his father are awesome. All the teacher and parents should be like them.
Excellent Movie... just watched on amazon prime right now it is in the membership
The thing that hurt the most is that the person u love beat u up 😢😔😔😔
Very true it's because he fancied him rotten but he didn't want the bullies to know that
@@chloemarsh612 I hope people will reach to a point when they realize people opinion has no hold over them , go be u and stop letting people affect that ,i know it's easier to type the words than say it but standing up for urself is the best thing u could possible do, when people see that u have that strength ,they are less likely to bother u for fear
@@withneymcfarlane899 Very true
Pour une fois que c'est un film français ! Merci. Thank you so much.
I literally cried 😭 love u Nathan the way ur ❤
i just love Nathan's dad!!!!!
Please hidden kisses 2 pleaseeeeeeeee 😭
Good for the teacher who stood up for her gay students
God- Louis is so attractive. Boys like that turned me gay I swear.
I thought the kids really needed to grow up. I felt I'd stepped back 25+ years in time.
I liked this entire movie but end was so heartbreaking
Okok, I definitely need to watch this film
where is the rest/the end of the story?? there are only 3 parts on youtube?
Honestly tho his bravery is so . I can't even imagine what would happen if I came out to my parents
All I know is that I wish the hours in my classes went by this fast.
Loved this heart warming story.
She took a picture and didn't think it would get that far? Wow just wow
it makes me so sad, teaching them to understand this cz it happened everywhere i have story like this
Honestly, it's the father I'm most impressed with, being gay if I ever told my dad, I'd be disowned
An excellent movie, I really recommend it.
I have watched this movie it was so sad to watch the fighting a scene when his lover punched him in his face
Daisy Dole what’s the movie?
Mchavez_ 2k7 Hidden Kisses
Excellent short film. Très émouvant !
It's not short, this is just a clip from the whole movie.
th-cam.com/video/Vfp5ruk024E/w-d-xo.html film complet (1h30)
I just love this film.....
Are you Gay
When Nathan wanted a kiss at school. Louis actually wanted to but didn't want anyone to see
Beauthiful Boys Beauthiful!!!!!
Would love to see the hole movie has any one got it please
u can easily find it on the internet title is hidden kisses :)
'Hidden Kisses' is available on Amazon Prime for free.
the full movie : th-cam.com/video/Vfp5ruk024E/w-d-xo.html
personne ne sait de moi comme lui, j'ai l'impression de me mentir c'est tellement dur
Aw the dad was so sweet
If you watch the full movie you'll realised ne wasn't nice at first
Este filme e espetacular ! Mas tem outras partes muito bem tristes . ♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋♥💋💋💋♥♥♥♥♥
Nathan and Louis are both handsome lads
Belle leçon de courage! Bravo Nathan d’assumer enfin pleinement ton identité. Chapeau bas à la Prof. qui t’y a encouragé!
Un sentiment de tristesse tout de même pour le garçon à la double identité ( même s’il ne le mérite pas, parce qu’il fait partie des agresseurs de Nathan), car chez certains, le coming out prend du temps, pire, c’est toujours impossible dans certaines régions du monde !
En Iran, en Arabie Saoudite, en Afghanistan, etc Et peut-être le pire, dans la République russe de Tchétchénie. Grozny reconstruite après la guerre civile est la ville la plus glamour de Russie, avec gratte-ciel, casino, centre de sport ultramoderne, station de ski, etc mais... être gay en Tchétchénie, c'est pratiquement un arrêt de mort. Le président Poutine tolère les excès du dictateur tchétchène Ramzan Kadyrov, car ce dernier garantit un ordre absolu et le fait que nul n'osera plus tenter de faire sécession de la Fédération, ce qui conduisit à l'horrible guerre que l'on sait. Kadyrov a obtenu des fonds importants de l'Arabie et des pays du Golfe, il a fait édifier une mosquée qui ressemble à Sultanahmet d'Istamboul, il déclare surtout pouvoir contrôler ses islamistes (une grande crainte du président russe) mais il leur fait de facto néanmoins de grandes concessions, et en particulier la chasse aux LGBT est ouverte, avec ses suites (prison, torture, exécutions) et nul ne trouve à y redire, même si cela viole les lois de la Fédération.
omg the beginning bless him :( i just wanted to hold the boy xo
Anyone who has a copy of the full movie?
😜Watch Full Movie: bit.ly/2kqUsmy
@@QTTVPRIDE that's it ? 10mn ?
Honestly, i watched it on TH-cam. I don’t know if there’s a version with english subtitles, as the one i watched had spanish subtitles - my native language is french, so i didn’t even need subtitles. Look it up. :)
Amazon Prime should have it. That's where I watched it when it came out.
I use to see this on Prime Video
Wow, such a powerful clip.... 👍