Untold Truth In No Sex Before Marriage ! *PART 1*

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  • On Part 1 of this discussion, Mel m Mo sit down for a transparent & authentic conversation of the journey leading up to abstinence until marriage and what kept us on this path. Let us know your story and what worked for you. God bless. Pray you enjoy🤎
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  • @eboniarmstrong4401
    @eboniarmstrong4401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +749

    I’m 30. Still a virgin. The Lord called me to repentance in December of 2009. I was going to sell my body to pay for college. Just before I made a decision that would’ve ultimately changed my life forever, He led me to repentance in the middle of a dorm room. I’ve learned that a husband is not a reward for my obedience. Christ is the reward! I’m still trusting Him to send His absolute best in regards to my husband. Thank you so much for this video! ❤️

    • @aminor_vessel
      @aminor_vessel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Glory to God!!! I thank God for your testimony! The Lord is teaching me that lesson about obedience as well!! 💕

    • @aminor_vessel
      @aminor_vessel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      31 year old virgin here! 🙌🏾 Jesus is enough!!

    • @pearlie_ette
      @pearlie_ette 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      31 y/o virgin as well... waiting for my own Mo 😅

    • @AshlleighLynn
      @AshlleighLynn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @meckymeck2
      @meckymeck2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Soon to be(God's Grace) a 31 y/o virgin, also! And it's taken a LOT of faith and will power to get this far, hehe.

  • @tyepastel1122
    @tyepastel1122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +671

    The way you guys are about to be my new favourite interracial family! AND y’all both walk with God!!??? Im definitely on the right side of youtube lol! As someone who is on celibacy & sobriety walk rn, this was definitely encouraging! Many blessings to you all🤍

    • @shameikawhitehorn660
      @shameikawhitehorn660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They my fav...love them...they thought me something to treasure ❤

  • @VincyQueen01
    @VincyQueen01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    This isn’t only for Christians, it’s for everyone. Thank you for having this conversation. ❤️

    • @asiablackgrl6482
      @asiablackgrl6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right! I’m Buddhist and I pray, chant, and am practicing celibacy.

    • @cj03harr
      @cj03harr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It’s for everyone because Christianity is for everyone. It’s God’s best advice for our best life

    • @ajclrj
      @ajclrj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Period.

    • @anonymousnotthegroup6013
      @anonymousnotthegroup6013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cj03harr They mean that this channel is for people who aren't Christian too.

    • @kyathomas8887
      @kyathomas8887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@asiablackgrl6482 Guidance to Jesus
      Well friend to prepare you must repent with all of your heart and confess your sins to the Lord. Repent means that you will change and turn away from those sins, never to look back. I love reading Psalm 51 which is a repentance psalm of David. Your record book in Heaven contains every record of every good deed but also every sin you have committed from birth up to this very second - once you repent of those sins, they will be erased and totally forgotten by God forever - he is so great and abounding in mercy. I also love reading Psalm 103 which is very encouraging and assuring of God and his ways.
      Next you must pay the price - which is definitely not easy but do-able - Pay the price meaning denying your fleshly desires, taking up your cross, and following Jesus. Refer to Matthew 16:24-25 - His desires will become your desires and in that way his will be done through you. Refer to 1 John 2:17 ; Matthew 7:21 ; and Hebrews 13:21 - The will of God is that no perishes in hell but lives in Paradise with him. Doing his will of course includes acting in love and so much more. Refer to Galatians 5:22-25 - Doing his will is also spreading the good news about Jesus Christ to others which is found in John 3:16 - because every soul is destined for either Heaven or Hell but it is that souls’ choice whether they want to take the broad path or the narrow path. Refer to Matthew 7:13-14. It won’t be easy of course because you choose to follow Jesus there will be persecution the in the end it is worth it and Jesus is just worthy to be praised. Refer to John 16:33
      💛
      A lot is coming to pass and the book of Revelation is unfolding quickly before our eyes. The Lord is coming soon so holdfast to the Lord Jesus, read the Bible on a daily basis so it strengthens your heart and helps you to hold on to the truth, repent of your sins, and spread the good news to others
      🙏🏽
      Endure to the end; to your very last breath. God bless you friend and I know this was a lot but I really hope it helps you.

  • @roxanneabrams3403
    @roxanneabrams3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    Abstaining from sex after experiencing sex is called being a "virgin of virtue". It takes a a very strong individual depending on God to attain that because it's not easy.

    • @adriennejohnson7618
      @adriennejohnson7618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      NOT EASY INDEED it's been 6 long years but it is worth it GOD knows best at all times

    • @roxanneabrams3403
      @roxanneabrams3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@adriennejohnson7618 it's a little over 8 years for me. And I couldn't do it without God, so I know.

    • @shameikawhitehorn660
      @shameikawhitehorn660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm almost at three years...its tough....but God

    • @jasmincass573
      @jasmincass573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's easy when you are single and not dating. But it's hard if you are in a relationship and dating.

    • @mathewsuddath210
      @mathewsuddath210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are a beautiful and informed couple. Congratulations!

  • @jocelynetangi
    @jocelynetangi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "I was happy by myself and he was an addition", that part!

  • @yvettepeterson2200
    @yvettepeterson2200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    A SAILOR, I MET IN THE NAVY, TOLD ME HE'D SLEPT WITH EVERY GIRL ON THE 1ST DATE. HE EXPECTED ME TO FOLLOW THE OTHERS. HAVING (4) CHILDREN WITH (4) DIFFERENT WOMEN WAS UNBELIEVABLE!!!! I WISHED HIM THE BEST; I MET MY DAUGHTER'S FATHER (2) MONS. LATER. HE WAS A BLESSING FOR ME!!!

    • @kendralewis6109
      @kendralewis6109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Its great that u didn't let him talk u into doing something u don't do or don't believe in and thank god u was patient and I'm happy that u received ur blessings with an amazing man!!! God is really really good!!

    • @beedabee1221
      @beedabee1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You dodged a bullet. Imagine how many spirits he contracted. Congratulations on your family.

    • @DreamingDarlin
      @DreamingDarlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A sailor not a soldier. Just had to say that since I'm ex navy. But good for you!

    • @yvettepeterson2200
      @yvettepeterson2200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@DreamingDarlin You're right!! I & He were sailors. Others addressed us as Soldiers.

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Cairo is so content in his daddy’s arms. Prayer is the key. So is avoiding putting yourself in situations where that would more than likely occur. Definitely trusting God’s timing.

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I noticed we used to often like to visit where temptation resides and take risk thinking we have control. Key is to avoid it all together 🥰(Mel)

    • @nicolegordon129
      @nicolegordon129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MelnMo agreed

    • @beverleygilbert3741
      @beverleygilbert3741 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And your association tells a lot too.

  • @jrbear12182000
    @jrbear12182000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I 100% agree. I'm going on 5 years no sex and just consistently cleansing and detox. Due to this I became an empathy. I can pick up on toxic energy real quick now. You guys just gained a subscriber. You guys are awesome. Stay precious!

    • @HonestwithGod
      @HonestwithGod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same sis!! Congratulations to you as well! Blessings on your journey! 5 years and counting

    • @jrbear12182000
      @jrbear12182000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@HonestwithGod I thank my yoni steams and spiritual cleansing. Clean eating is easy for me but as a whole for everything this is a lifestyle adjustment. It can be lonely but I learned how to enjoy myself more now.

    • @nefrettitim
      @nefrettitim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jrbear12182000 🌿🖖🏾🌿

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Thank you, I pray you continue on your journey knowing God is faithful and with him anything is possible (Mel)

    • @sandrabowman8935
      @sandrabowman8935 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful ❤❤

  • @vblake530530
    @vblake530530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I feel y’all. “Ain’t NOBODY out here, without a USE-TO-BE”. The words of a wise elderly patient of mine.

  • @divinesistahood7516
    @divinesistahood7516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    This is so amazing! You guys give me hope, as a 19 year old believer of God and a virgin. Since I entrust everything to God, there's no need to rush or feel pressured to do something that isn't beneficial to my spiritual journey. I know that when the time is right, he will send me a good man with good intentions so that we both can follow Christ together and live abundantly.

    • @artandlife8063
      @artandlife8063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's true sister

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      You have it, stay the course regardless of outside entities God will keep you for the right person. Don’t settle your the prize remember that ❤️(Mel)

    • @tamartasema8315
      @tamartasema8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen for you

    • @tamartasema8315
      @tamartasema8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MelnMo the right person is matter

    • @stephiadavis8273
      @stephiadavis8273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes baby girl wait on the the Lord and he will give you the desire of your heart and continue to keep your mind on him because it’s only what we do for Christ will lost stay bless

  • @egyption6
    @egyption6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I really appreciate this. Practicing abstinence myself and being in a country where sex is glorified it can be discouraging at times. Also, the horning (cheating) culture in Trinidad is very heavy so I'm very mindful of who I let into my space. My relationship with God is progressing daily so I know my abstinence walk will not be in vain. His timing, not mine

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You got this ❤️(Mel)

    • @Jovallys
      @Jovallys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!!!! It is worth every second of wait

    • @debrag3666
      @debrag3666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Proud of you

  • @BeautifullyHealed
    @BeautifullyHealed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Father I see what you’ve done for others I’m patiently waiting for my family

    • @pumakel1
      @pumakel1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @beverleygilbert3741
      @beverleygilbert3741 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the right attitude, a waiting expectation from Jehovah, he is the giver of all perfect gifts.

  • @kemmacambell6361
    @kemmacambell6361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Hi u guys are inspiring alot of people ur age. I'm 60yrs old an a Christian, and it was a struggle for me when I was younger... but god is awesome and mercy full.

    • @coleenrose5127
      @coleenrose5127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is true my dear sexual imoritaly make you empty

    • @beautifullove7530
      @beautifullove7530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just had my 👶 quadruples 2 girls and 2 boys me and my Taiwan husband is so happy to have a healthy labor my blasian babies are so beautiful and Im blindian so it's a lot of mixed culture in my family god bless everyone 😊

  • @latoyagriffith156
    @latoyagriffith156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Thanks for sharing this! Your story is very encouraging! Me and my fiancé were together in the past had sex etc. we broke up for a year and some how God brought brought us back together. This time around we decided to save sex for marriage and took it as far as to not kiss each orher. I agree it’s hard, but I tell myself this is bigger than us..Gods purpose and a lot of prayer has helped us a lot. This time around we are in a much better space.. we have been going strong for a year now and we will be getting married next month!

    • @shirleylou6085
      @shirleylou6085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      May God bless your union as you both seek and grow in Him, in the Mighty Name of Jesus, amen.

    • @kersie2000
      @kersie2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God's richest Blessings on both of you. Marital, spiritual health financial all in Jesus name I pray.

    • @OhDontMindMee
      @OhDontMindMee วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hope you two got married and have a great life together !

  • @lindawashington5171
    @lindawashington5171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is so needed to be said for those who did have sexual relationships, but wanted to come clean and serve God with your whole heart. God is forgiving and he's a God of another chance.

  • @sweetsgourmet
    @sweetsgourmet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I just have to give kudos to Mo. Mel is an extremely bright and emotionally and spiritually intelligent woman and Mo supports and compliments her. He’s not afraid of a strong, independent woman. Not all men can do that. Also, I love watching him as a dad. He is so in love with Cairo. I think he might’ve gotten that from his father (Mo’s dad meeting Cairo😭😭😭). Love watching your channel!

    • @Kim-ru9yz
      @Kim-ru9yz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, found your story and I love it.
      I pray for JESUS to bring my mate when I am ready. GOD bless your family.

  • @vernawilliams6367
    @vernawilliams6367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Stop using our body has weapons... Mo that healing is so true.. Mel we need to be happy with yourself we need to stop looking for happiness from ppl.

  • @johnayala2540
    @johnayala2540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I've always been a Christian but when I was younger, I struggle with lust and had fallen several times until I felt so dirty and disgusted of myself and I decided to practice chastity. I've been celibate for almost 3 years and it wasn't easy but doable with the grace of God. I love myself better and don't feel dirty and disgusted of myself anymore.
    Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏻✝🙏🏻

  • @jasminevirgo9811
    @jasminevirgo9811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Side bar Mo had me cracking up when he started dancing. One of the lessons I learned is don't let people bully or guilt you into having sex. Take time to get to know yourself.

  • @brittanyelisejohnson7992
    @brittanyelisejohnson7992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “Trust in His timing, not yours” 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @rosalinelowe972
    @rosalinelowe972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just discovered this couple and I really enjoy them. They are so positive and well suited for each other. I wish them long and lasting marriage.

  • @NatakiAssata-Inspires
    @NatakiAssata-Inspires 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It is a real fight, i am going on two years now and the men that i have met don't get me at all! lol Keep me in Prayer.

    • @islandbelle8767
      @islandbelle8767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praying for you sis! God's got you❤

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I’m praying with you trust I know it isn’t Easy but continue to walk by faith and not by sight❤️(Mel)

    • @sayless1445
      @sayless1445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same thing here sis.. I feel you!

    • @lizwanyana8001
      @lizwanyana8001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for you hun; God got you

    • @gottahavefaith2526
      @gottahavefaith2526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They just weren’t for you. Don’t settle. Much love and prayers to u

  • @deemichelle
    @deemichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    So much focus on sex rather than getting one's mind right and building healthy relationships. Sadly brings too many unwanted, unprepared for suffering children.

    • @HonestwithGod
      @HonestwithGod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes and only God can turn it around for the good, especially after repentance and change.

  • @listenlisten7522
    @listenlisten7522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "When you know better, you do better." AMEN!!!

  • @SweetLoner
    @SweetLoner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    “Heat is in the air” 😂😂😂 too real

    • @puppyprincess2822
      @puppyprincess2822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      #Prayers 🙏😭😂 But fr, I love their commitment and consistency

  • @faith_hope_love6653
    @faith_hope_love6653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Yes Lawd! I'm in my single season and have been abstinent for a loooooooonnnnnnggggggg time! It is definitely a struggle, but I know it's what God wants. It's not just about sex, more about self-discipline. It's been about mind, body, and spirit. Prayer is definitely KEY!

    • @princessresonna4192
      @princessresonna4192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. I've been abstinent a long time as well. It's extremely difficult.

    • @faith_hope_love6653
      @faith_hope_love6653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@princessresonna4192 Stay strong! I find that even when I'm in certain situations, I just have remind myself why I'm doing it. I'm also so deep in that it just wouldn't be worth it, you know?

    • @princessresonna4192
      @princessresonna4192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@faith_hope_love6653 I agree, I waited too long to slip up now. Thank you for the encouragement.

    • @faith_hope_love6653
      @faith_hope_love6653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@princessresonna4192 No problem! We all need it!

    • @blkgm7005
      @blkgm7005 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes ladies stay strong. I have been abstinent for 25 yrs after having sex for several yrs. I fell within the first couple months...I felt awful like the Lord watched me do it. But by HIS grace he has kept me AALLLLLL these yrs. It is very hard, being in waiting, trying to stay focused on his will but if I can do this...yall can too be blessed ladies!

  • @siosworld4064
    @siosworld4064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just like me. I am abstaining and I don't even want to get married. I don't want to be in a relationship. It would be 2 years on May 27th and I am very proud.

  • @carolynricks3123
    @carolynricks3123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Mel, you expressed exactly what God expects from us, obedience to His word. Clearly, the Pastor you referenced was similar to Jeremiah and did not add or detract from the truth of God’s word. “The word is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even dividing asunder of soul and spirit and of the joints and marrow, and it is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart”. Hebrews 4:12
    I am celibate and practicing abstinence for quite some time for all the reasons you both shared but more importantly because I TRUST GOD. 🙌🏾 Thank you both for your transparency and being examples of the blessings of God when you’re faithful!!! 🙌🏾

  • @gailjackson-chapman7085
    @gailjackson-chapman7085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Y’all are the couple to follow on TH-cam. Baby Ciaro is gorgeous ❤️🙏🏾

  • @smartaward20078
    @smartaward20078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow this is so refreshing. God please send me someone that’s on the same track as me. Saving myself for marriage. A man that’s willing to pray and putting God first.

  • @beeallen4298
    @beeallen4298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    “Doing the same thing and expecting different results is a definition of insanity”..... I felt that 🙏🏾
    Edit: I call man-hoes Jezebobs 😂🤭

    • @jasminemungu8008
      @jasminemungu8008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not jezebobs 😩😂 good one, I’ll be using that now lol. Have a great day🥰

    • @The_Harvest
      @The_Harvest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jezebobs 😂 I love that

    • @pearlsrevealed
      @pearlsrevealed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Stealing it.

    • @beautifullove7530
      @beautifullove7530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just had my 👶 quadruples 2 girls and 2 boys me and my Taiwan husband is so happy to have a healthy labor my blasian babies are my everything and I'm blindian so it's a lot of mixed culture god bless everyone 🙏

  • @samanthairving4844
    @samanthairving4844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The Lord must be speaking to my soul on this one! Thank you for letting the God speak through y’all! This came right on time! Amen Amen Amen!

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good Video: Abstinence is part of a greater good - obedience and sacrifice to GOD.

  • @kesha2414
    @kesha2414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    “Healed, with a free mind, and a pure heart! “❤️

    • @HonestwithGod
      @HonestwithGod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @veronicamcgee1708
    @veronicamcgee1708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Beautiful couple who choose to follow the will of God!!! Blessings to you both and your beautiful baby!!!🙌🙌🙌❤️❤️❤️

  • @nnekamyrie7337
    @nnekamyrie7337 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You guys definitely helped to renew my resolve. I’m 32 (not a virgin) but I decided to abstain. I dated and gave in once and felt so dirty and just so sinful I stopped seeing him. Dated others afterwards who either said you’re going to give in or pretended like they were cool all the while all they did was talk about sex. I’m hoping to meet my husband who is also on the same journey but if it doesn’t happen I’m working on letting God be enough.

  • @Shumetra
    @Shumetra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This was a great topic! Yes, the soul tie is true. Because you expect different things from different people based on experience. You can’t bring that into a marriage.

  • @keciaanderson6317
    @keciaanderson6317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Amen! Only Jesus satisfies. He is the only one who can satisfy the deepest desires of the soul. Only he can give us lasting, complete, and eternal satisfaction.
    God is most satisfied with us when we are most satisfied IN Him.
    Isa. 55:1-3

  • @xsheri_
    @xsheri_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This story is very inspiring! After ending my most recent relationship, I decided that I want to live for the Lord wholeheartedly and not partially, so now I’m choosing to stay abstinent until marriage. As Mel said, when you know better, you do better! I’m done dismissing God’s desires for the sake of what my flesh wants.

    • @mphodinahthebe938
      @mphodinahthebe938 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Welcome to the winning team 😂 it’s hard but doable through Christ

  • @sarahmichalk5012
    @sarahmichalk5012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Mel looks like a Tina Turner in a way and mo looks like he should be in Mulan. What a wonderful couple. I love this couple. I can't wait to see the baby as he gets older.

    • @kikibara1
      @kikibara1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually agree

  • @jesuslovescherry5938
    @jesuslovescherry5938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 28 been sexually active but making the decision to practice abstinence until god blesses me with my beautiful husband. 3 months in and going strong , just got back into church and walking with BIG GOD stronger than I ever have . I’ve really been transformed

  • @lynncarter579
    @lynncarter579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Girl how did you do that?! Cause Mo is FINE and his voice OMG! It had to be God lead for both of y'all. God bless your beautiful family👍🏼❤

    • @Ardannyl
      @Ardannyl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL...Mo is a cutie!

    • @iloverose10
      @iloverose10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      You’re doing too much with this comment Sis. Relax, that’s HER husband.

    • @tynishasimmons8078
      @tynishasimmons8078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@iloverose10 facts just stole the words out my mouth asking her how she did that like she’s not capable gurl bye lol

    • @puppyprincess2822
      @puppyprincess2822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@tynishasimmons8078 Exactly. Mel is a beautiful woman. The way sis said 'fine' implies that Mel got lucky or something

    • @cherronedavenport6321
      @cherronedavenport6321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@iloverose10, speak it sis!!!! That comment was mad disrespectful.

  • @lolitamichael6939
    @lolitamichael6939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Great testimony! This is real talk, thank you for being so open and honest in telling your story. Many people don’t realize that after you lose your virginity, it doesn’t mean that you can’t start over again through abstinence. Father always gives us the opportunity to start over again and surrender ourselves totally to Him. This is an encouragement to more people than you know.💕🙏🏾
    United States💜

  • @Th3lite
    @Th3lite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for being honest. We are fallen, but the fall doesn’t define us, it’s the next step and how you chose to move forward. The keys is faith and not staying stuck.

  • @gsbjseizetheday3256
    @gsbjseizetheday3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Sex can happen before meeting the right one or the right one. Beautifully said being on the same path is needed. . whether it comes later on or before. It's never too late to receive that deliverance... cleansing renewal. Just beautiful. Never too late. That's Grace. God's GRACE

  • @debradunham8508
    @debradunham8508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Mel, you hit on some REAL points. I'm glad you said that it was hard, very hard because it is not easy. Blessings to the family. I LOVE your conversations. Oh, I love the fact that you said you CAN START WITH A CLEAN SLATE.

  • @candyspringerblackman9878
    @candyspringerblackman9878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is beautiful. My husband and I waited and I got married at days before 30. We surely were praying along the way.

  • @wells8kai
    @wells8kai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    50 years old and my fiance is 37. I explained to him that sex isn't everything if your mind isn't in the right place and you don't have a pure heart. Loved hearing your story and advice. Thank you.
    Mel n Mo n Cairo💙

    • @wells8kai
      @wells8kai 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @experience That's your opinion and that's fine. He and I are both adults and don't see age difference. Can't help that I don't look 50.😂

    • @wells8kai
      @wells8kai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @experience We've been together 5 years. Please stop judging. You don't know my life and I don't know yours. Find someone else to troll. Enjoy your day and be happy.😊

  • @annettebalaguer9192
    @annettebalaguer9192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real talk! Seek to know the truth and the truth will set you free! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @hopefull1857
    @hopefull1857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I have to say that this was such a beautiful blessing to hear. You two are such seekers of Jesus. You have such knowledge, humbleness and realness about your journey with the lord. May God continue to bless you and open up more platforms for you to share his truth

    • @shirleylou6085
      @shirleylou6085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In the Mighty Name of Jesus, amen.

  • @abailey918
    @abailey918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And the truth shall make you free. Continue sharing the truth.

  • @PrintAwayBernie
    @PrintAwayBernie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I thank God for coming across your channel today. I've been celibate for a year and a few months now and today I felt so discouraged as though I'm not gonna get the soft and godly kind of love I've been praying for 🙏🥺the devil really tried to attack me on God's promises for me but I know God won't ever let me fall❤️

  • @patriciamaierson6500
    @patriciamaierson6500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Bless your heart for the decisions you made in Christ. Taking your commitment to learning the deep things of God is the path less traveled. Holding each other accountable is so wonderful because there will be other areas in your life where having that accountability will be necessary. You were building your house on a solid foundation. As your marriage grows these experiences bring you closer to the Lord. Thank you for your transparency, humility, and honesty as you have shared.

  • @alicefountain8456
    @alicefountain8456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I know you feel the relationship with God inside yourself it's like in a sense of being reborn there is that peace,it is even better having someone in your life who is on this positive journey as well,this makes intimacy even better.

  • @inthisseasonoffaith9903
    @inthisseasonoffaith9903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Mo is so funny🤣🤣 and mel I love the way you so classy saying "frisky"

  • @blkgm7005
    @blkgm7005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I dont know how I stumbled across this page, but God knew. As I start my treck with online dating 🙄 after being celibate for 25 YRS/single for many yrs. Im not a fan of this way of doing things, but trying to stay open to the Lord and not my ways. This was an encouraging reminder that I just had from the Lord the other day...I will NOT have to compromise who I am for a man. Trusting God in this process is key bcuz if I look with my own eyes I get discouraged and frustrated. Yall are younger than me but its still the same God speaking to us all. Thanks for your testimony and transparency. It is refreshing in a world filled with lies, selfishness and uncontrollable desires. God is holy, pure and for our good...and that is what he wants for us. Blessings to you and your beautiful family.

  • @taetwy4026
    @taetwy4026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Speak mel speak!!!! Speak the truth "some people reside in your past more than you do" I felt that little nugget of wisdom sis! Continued overflowing blessings in Jesus name to your beautiful family! Amen!...

  • @ministermonicaamador5368
    @ministermonicaamador5368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Prayer 🙏🏾 is the KEY 🔑

  • @carolpowell8695
    @carolpowell8695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Sex is a distraction." Such a great testament to the truth of the matter. The world has such an unhealthy obsession with sex. God talks about intimacy and its sacredness. Thank you for being young (counter-cultural) examples. "Save yourselves" - great statement. It begins with "Choice". It is so important to be well-rounded before meeting someone. It is unfair to expect another imperfect human to be totally responsible for your happiness. It is important for others to know that it's OK to be single. Great job guys! God bless!

  • @tinafox1229
    @tinafox1229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was THEE BEST video in the history of TH-cam! Thanking you for sharing 🥰

    • @sacredflowspace
      @sacredflowspace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yasssss from your lips to the four winds

  • @baj41
    @baj41 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Some people reside in your past more than you do”, words of wisdom. Your story is encouraging. Stay in the word.

  • @AshlleighLynn
    @AshlleighLynn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When two people come together in marriage i feel like the devil comes hard. Saving yourself and honoring God cancel out so many issues.

    • @t.morrison4400
      @t.morrison4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, trust he does! But be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might Ephesians 6:11

  • @CC-wg8rx
    @CC-wg8rx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    GOD will provide a way out. 1 Corinthians 10:13. All we have to do is ask!! 💕 💕 💕

  • @MarieJones-eb7bi
    @MarieJones-eb7bi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have been saving myself for a husband for 15 years. I know God has a purpose for my life and all those who enters into my life. Hope n Pray me and my husband be Equally yolked. In the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will trust in his timing in the flesh we sometimes ask God when but he knows our beginning and end so keep the faith he who find you will find a good thing sis🫶🏾 in agreement with your prayer in Jesus name 🙏🏽❤️

  • @j.simonesally9803
    @j.simonesally9803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Can we get a makeup tutorial?

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol I need one myself😂(Mel)

  • @BlackDiamond8724
    @BlackDiamond8724 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been thinking about this heavily for a while now. I look at my body as a gift and it should only be for who God sends me. I am truly ok and have been finding joy in finding myself as I continue to walk with God. I believe he is revealing this as my next steps. I am so very thankful for your testimony. I am praying for more blessings on your journey.

  • @pennycopeland8792
    @pennycopeland8792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I totally understand …the feeling when you are looking for a church.
    It’s a commitment 🙏🏾 thank you for the honesty

  • @ThingsMadeEasyWithJeJe
    @ThingsMadeEasyWithJeJe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Beautiful 😍 being on the same page with your soul mate 💙 - you are so right your body is a temple and should be treated as such ❤

  • @alextownsendnailartist6637
    @alextownsendnailartist6637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so true. I have been celibate almost 7 years now, and I did it because I was so tired of that hollow feeling that came whenever I thought I possibly found a partner and in reality it was just a sex partner. I enjoy sex and when you really enjoy sex and you go into a sexual relationship too soon it blinds you. The only way I felt I could start to examine what it really was I wanted and needed out of a relationship and out of life was to go cold turkey.

    • @t.morrison4400
      @t.morrison4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God’s grace 13 years and counting…the devil sho’ been busy though!

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Some people will reside in your past more than you do.” That spoke to me 💯

  • @ashleyking2407
    @ashleyking2407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You couldn’t of said it any better. You guys are truly a inspiration and blessing! Continue to let your let do shine. As God use you as a vessel to save soul and align our spirit with God’s word and your transparency! Sending love and blessing your way.❤️❤️🥰

  • @jizzywizzy8701
    @jizzywizzy8701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mel and Mo y"all spoke to my soul. I myself have decided to abstain after a terrible breakup 2 years ago. I needed to hear this message 🙏 much love from 🇹🇹

  • @kithalie
    @kithalie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really feel bad bc my boyfriend really wanted to wait for religious reasons, I tried to help but we could only wait a year before falling into temptation. It was just 1 time, then we didnt have sex again for a couple maybe 7 months before consistently doing it. I feel like I am at fault, bc I cant take it back, I didnt care as much before I met him, but it hurts him a lot afterwards and i dont know what to do bc I cant go back into the past. It really takes strong individuals to wait.
    Edit: Thank you for this, this really helped me. I will have a serious talk with my Bf and hope we can start over, it's never too late and I know it will be a hard path but in the end it will be worth it. I felt there was no point since we've already fallen but you've made me think differently 🙏🏼 literally 5 min before I found your channel I was looking up reddit's and quoras on peoples experiences, I feel like God has been trying to reach me and give me signs.

  • @dwayneyoung7765
    @dwayneyoung7765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Very inspiring couple..great vibes showing realistic content.. Beautiful son..
    Love always wins,
    Be well.

  • @faithwalk.
    @faithwalk. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm so happy I found this channel. Im in a environment where it seems like no one believes in abstinence. I have been made fun of and mocked but regardless I will stick this through. I trust the Lord. I have hope my husband will be waiting as well. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @patbecford
    @patbecford 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how y’all put God first in y’all lives. God is the recipe for success in all you do. So continue on you journey with God.

  • @conniepositivevibe
    @conniepositivevibe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I must say Mrs. Mel, you spoken the truth about committing yourself to God and keeping God first in everything. I, myself slept around with different guys that didn't mean nothing to me or less long care about me. I am 58yrs old and I totally gave up on having sex with a man until I am totally committed to myself and most of God. Mine, Body, Spirit. Mel you hit it right on the head about different spirits to enter in your temple and now you have to remove these spirits with a lot of prayers, commitment. I pray God will continue to Bless you and your lovely family. Thank you for sharing. Most of all stay, I myself must stay positive and just be happy with ourselves, live, be happy.

  • @Akiellia
    @Akiellia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen 💯 God is indeed good and he is able to transform our lives 🙌🙌"Some people will reside in your pass more that you do" such a word 🙂 I can definitely testify about how the blessings creep up 🙏

  • @josettejohn1919
    @josettejohn1919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this video guys! I can sit and watch you guys all day! The calmness and peace that comes from you guys is unbelievable!

  • @daniellejohn9904
    @daniellejohn9904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm literally in tears right now. I just want to say thank you so much for making this video and sharing your journey and experience with us.❤❤ I definitely NEEDED to hear this and I feel like that was God's way of speaking to me and answering my prayers‼🙏🙏 Thank you so much.

  • @215February
    @215February 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mel and Mo I am glad you brought this topic because our women need to know how to cherish there temple that god gave them. I luv y’all and may god continue to bless y’all family.Sharon

  • @anorbert38
    @anorbert38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 47 and you are both an inspiration to me. I don't think I came across your channel by accident. Thank you. ❤

  • @judygilbert6919
    @judygilbert6919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    On point! Shared it with my daughter who is on her way to college after one year home with COVID. Thank you for your continual obedience to God. I hope to get to Hawaii and check out that church.

  • @ropale9730
    @ropale9730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Completely agree with everything said. I resonate with this on a deep level. Thank you for sharing your journeys on this matter. Much ❤️ from 🇨🇵.

  • @peggymorris3918
    @peggymorris3918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God is during his work by putting his people together,no matter if you are Jew or Gentile rich or poor

  • @tabathaparham9813
    @tabathaparham9813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Mel and Mo for sharing and discussing these topics. Your children and marriage will be blessed for your obedience and sacrifices.

  • @beedabee1221
    @beedabee1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This gives me hope that I will meet a partner who wants to wait as well!!!! Thanks for sharing.

  • @emoniquebrown
    @emoniquebrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you I felt this MESSAGE may God continue to bless and keep your family covered in protection Selah.... Amen

  • @corocam561
    @corocam561 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys made me cry. Being in the posture of obedience is so hard.. and its motivating when you know others are going through the same thing as you.
    Thank you

  • @gigi-gc8gu
    @gigi-gc8gu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mel, your faith is so inspiring. I’m so happy to call you my sister in Christ. God bless you ❤️

  • @datbaby67
    @datbaby67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You! I needed this conversation as I am currently practicing abstinence not a virgin but headspace now is God your Will be done in my life! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @diamonddiva2017
    @diamonddiva2017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy you guys decided to bring this subject to the table! Well needed!

  • @tinamatsimella5806
    @tinamatsimella5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much for being so honest. I’m on this journey, abstaining. Dating and getting know people is hard. The two of you give me hope. God bless. 💐

  • @akellomaureen583
    @akellomaureen583 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow am also a virgin and now am 26 years n I just pray for God to continue guiding me

    • @MelnMo
      @MelnMo  ปีที่แล้ว

      He absolutely will🙏🏻

  • @yvonnefaith3337
    @yvonnefaith3337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was a good video. God bless u 2. 🙏

  • @reneebank3791
    @reneebank3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TH-cam brought me here and I'm glad. I love hearing the story you guys tell. 💖

  • @shaniamory-claxton6707
    @shaniamory-claxton6707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you so much for sharing your heart, I greatly appreciate, respect your transparency 😊🙏🏼❤

  • @RonitaElease
    @RonitaElease 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys on the right track saving souls...

  • @debbiesmith3443
    @debbiesmith3443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was so incredible to listen too , thank you for being so transparent may God continue to keep giving y'all and abundance of blessings.

  • @listenlisten7522
    @listenlisten7522 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I AM NOTHING WITHOUT GOD". "STAY OBEDIENT". "THE BLESSINGS WILL CREEP UP ON YOU"...Facts!!!🙏🏾