@@beefaye6861 but Tony said that we are overlooking the ones who are willing to wait. So, apparently the men who are willing to wait are overlooked 🤷♀️
@@j-tenn226 my question is to you do you usually give it up on the man who you think sexually attractive because many women do that and make that guy wait
The only reason some men hate to hear a woman is waiting is because he knows that puts her firmly in the driving seat. They can't handle the woman having the controls. When her legs are closed she can't be manipulated. Women also need to keep their purses closed too.
Celibacy has to be a personal conviction for him too. He has to want to too, not just for you because if and when you have a weak moment, y'all will end up doing something you regret. He can't protect you spiritually if y'all aren't equally yoked.
A lot of men will say a woman feels like just his friend if they’re not having sex. Ok, if the difference between a friend and partner to you is sex, get out of my life. Oh and ladies, waiting means NO PLAY. Not even foreplay
@@lis2154 tell him gettatahere maaan ! Trust me the couple guys I dated always accepted to wait with no problem. Some blamed me when it didnt work out lool !
@@beeaboutabbabusiness8738 Right?! With no sex their effort and level of expressed interest gets weak. They act like lack of sexual contact literally sickens them, and it is level of control they want to have by having us get on our backs.
@@j-tenn226 spot on! The guy l went on two dates, with told on himself saying l was in control 🤣.Yes sir coz my legs is closed.Then he tried to talk me in to going to his flat
So all these many men who magically disappeared when I said no several times, they were wasting their own time because they clearly didn’t see long term potential smh. Some of these men will use you as a placeholder.
This is true..I’m living this as we speak. Said I the first woman to ever make him wait. Said he prayed for me and God showed him I’m his wife and in time he prays I feel the same as we grow to know each other. God has said a lot to me.. watching what I’ve prayed for unfold in real time before my eyes. I DO know if a man won’t wait, he’s NOT your man. Waiting is not while you wait he indulges elsewhere. Why do women allow this? You are staying clean and kept clean while he contaminates his body to “someday” possibly give to you. NO SIR! Ladies stay prayed up and focused, and be willing to walk away. Prior to the man I’m with I was dating a guy I THOUGHT was the one, he was not. The world is not short of Godly good men, you have to be willing to choose yourself. You may go through a few frog like I did, just don’t kiss them all!
As a man, it’s doable if they stay busy and have the right friend circle. Most men are strengthened by their friend circle and if most of your male friends only talk about sex and sports it doesn’t help. We all need to learn to value ourselves and not seek outside approval.
@@kumajoey6031 I think there are some men that want to wait and can get overlooked if they are missing other things that society values(money,wealth,physical attraction). I think our society needs to shift on what’s valuable in a relationship. Most men in their heart that want a women that wants them for who they are and not just what they can bring financially. That love and belief alone can motivate a man to be a provider.
The same advice my mother told me. If a man loves you he'll wait and marry you. Thank you for this confirmation and timely encouraging word! God bless you and your family!
no diseases, no unnecessary over the top struggling with trust, peaceful sleep at night , spiritual clarity, no sexual addiction, accomplishing my passions and enjoying my single life, are great blessings of abstinence
Imagine when you’re OLD AF and dude can’t even get it up….sex is NOT everything! Lol…”True love is patient, and it purely shouldn’t be a sexual thing…Tony, you’re absolutely right‼️ this “celibacy” thing is NOT a trend….this is your livelihood. Do Not play about your Life. Your body belongs to God, so we should treat our bodies with RESPECT. Know yourself. 👸🏽
That's right Tony. An immature man will think you're playing a game if you withhold sex. A mature man is self disciplined and has a certain set of values so he will understand.
He won’t wait if 1. he’s not husband material or 2. he could be husband material but don’t see you as his wife. The thing about him not seeing you as wife is they will say stuff like but you had sex with your ex but they aren’t willing to be honest at all. Too many guys feel so obligated to woman’s body to have sex and then judge her for having a sexual past just like they do. ITS HARD OUT HERE in this dating world.
Yes! That double standard IS real. But we as woman have to know the tricks they HAVE and WILL continue to use on women to get what they want by any means they see fit. When we "guard" our heart and body. When they leave....it is their lost and our strength 😄
This is so much facts! I'm moving mountains on my own with the Lord help, and if I met a woman I like and down to wait. That mountain get thrown out the world. Felt like I had to say this. TG always looking out for us in this world we live in. I would listen to him more so if I was a woman although I still heed to his wise words.
I still can't believe people out there find it's hard to believe that a man will and can wait. It's obvious that if you give it up quickly he won't. Who doesn't like freeness time to time? Who doesn't like taking a shortcut from time to time? A man WILL wait, but this will only happen if you stay true to your standards and make him wait. I know this for myself because I've been with someone who waited. Be blessed.
I am a woman in waiting. The thing women have to understand is you'd better be set and secure as to WHY it is valuable to wait for marriage. You have to have those principles firmly in your heart bc seggs is EASY. It's easy to fall into. It's easy, the charm the vibe the spark... If you not set on waiting you will fall at first impulse. It's a lifestyle. It becomes a lifestyle after you make this decision to wait.
This is confirmation for me. Recently met a man and he told me I wasn’t being realistic and that a man will tell you he’s going to wait but he’s going to be out here cheating on me with every other woman during that wait. I said so you’re telling there’s no possible way he said well there’s always the exception to the rule. I said well that’s what I’m waiting for the exception to the rule. Never heard from him from him again.
This is better than your first video! Love it. Hallelujah. Real men do wait! I have one waiting until marriage and like Tony says he is not trying to knock me down off my stance. Quite the contrary. He respects me highly. Ladies be real 👑 Queens 👸. Men recognize value from day one. They also know from first meet who is wife material. Separate yourself. The bible says be ye separate 2 Corinthians 6:17
Extremely timely as always... This morning I go to my gym, where MTV is screening all over the place. At least 9 out of 10 songs are explicitly about sex and the video clips for most of these portray barely dressed women aggressively throwing themselves at the guys, who convey an expression of "Oh well, better give her what she wants, hadn't I?" One video showed a guy trying to get work done on a farm while the woman (the singer) would not stop bugging him with her displays of sexuality. Thought to myself, Is it any wonder of guys have naturally come to expect this of practically every woman they encounter... then getting angry when women don't just walk up to them and drop it like it's hot??
I've been wondering this myself... I'm 21, waiting till marriage and worry that a man won't wait for me.... Especially when many young women my age don't wait. I kinda feel like an outcast.
@@mayasheartdesiire A guy said that to me, even though I never had sex with my ex, or anyone. They take it personally and deflates their fragile masculinity
You’re not! Society wants you to feel that way, but society also doesn’t have to deal with everything that comes with it. I used to feel the same way-and sometimes, those thoughts still try to creep in. I’ll be 30 in July and I thank God that I never crossed that line-for spiritual, emotional, & mental reasons, of course. Keep going ✨
@@IvyElizabeth918 NO! They're not the same abstinence is to abstain from something (sex, alcohol...) Waiting is to expect or hope for something to happen. Hope l have answered your question. 😅
I Agree Tony & As A 45 Yr Old Woman Currently I'm Still Waiting After My 1st Marriage Ended Back In 2008.. My Choice To Refrain From Any Sexual Acts… So If Ladies Can I Know A Real Man That Is Discipline & Has Self Control Will Wait Too!!!
It took me awhile to recover my self-worth but now I'm on solid ground (even my soon-to-be ex still texts and when he calls me, because we are still financially bonded until divorce and still need to be discussing these matters, he will tell me how valuable I am to him but I told him the end is here, in March or April). If God holds me in high esteem even as a sinner and has loved me eternally, why wouldn't I expect to be treated the same by a man. There will not be any marriage benefits before marriage.
This💯the realest .Thank you even though I made past mistakes and on this journey now its so uplifting to hear especially with the pressure of been told I should be exchanging men as i am divorced. The devil is a liar, ain't about to be swinging&flipping and catch something. Can't be misusing God's grace.
If a woman is worth waiting to a man, he will wait. If he feels she is not worth waiting for, he won't. She cannot already be having sex when she meet a new man but expect him to wait.
Tony thank you so much for this truth that you are sharing. No one is speaking this truth on the level that you are. Continue to let the Lord use you!!
I love the gray hair in your beard. I love it that so many men are sporting their "gray and black" beards. Very hansome. I love your swag Mr. Tony Gaskins!
Hi Tony! I hope all is well. I just would like to say that your message is necessary. I know that being called by God isn’t always easy. But your obedience and tenacity is what I need and I’m sure others can say the same. Please don’t stop talking. That’s what the enemy wants you to do. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. This journey as a believer who’s dating in a society without standards makes me wonder if I should conform. However, hearing messages like this one just encouraged me to stick with my values/standards and trust God bc I was DEFINITELY getting weary in the well doing. Thanks again. May God continue to bless you and your lovely family 100 gazillion fold. 💕
A story: I met a well dressed man of 48 recently. I was really looking forward to getting to know him based on approach and initial convo in person. Contact has been slow so I reached out to say hey and he remarked that if I was the type of woman looking for a man to constantly be in Touch I will never get that but he was in the middle of a 2year drought and maybe I could help him out with that. I was completely flabbergasted. He was 48, and I'm 38. Losing. Hope. Fast.
@ Queen of Hearts hmm u 38 and he 48 men are set in there ways some will tell you up front and some want and he may be the type to where he will contact you when he's ready not for you to reach out ... Not saying you thirsty or needy .. he said you would never get the keep in touch that's a red flag right there don't nobody got time for games .. to each it's on though
Waiting is a form of self-control. A man who would be a husband needs to possess this characteristic.
👏👏👏and not make excuses.
Most men don't have self control
Yes. Discipline. Manifests in different areas of life and it's hard to fake.
💯
@@beefaye6861 but Tony said that we are overlooking the ones who are willing to wait. So, apparently the men who are willing to wait are overlooked 🤷♀️
“If he is husband material, and if he feels she is his wife, he will wait. Point, blank, periood.” TG
This makes me grateful for all the low quality men who stopped talking to me because I wasn’t giving him sex.
@@j-tenn226 my question is to you do you usually give it up on the man who you think sexually attractive because many women do that and make that guy wait
@@michaeljohnsonsr.8034 I don’t give it up to anybody. I’m a virgin
Great video!! RIP to my wife I waited until we got married and I’m glad I did. She was a pure woman of God that saved her self for marriage.
sorry about ur wife.....
Aww that's beautiful 🥰
I am so sorry! May God bless you and your family!💗 what happened to you?
The only reason some men hate to hear a woman is waiting is because he knows that puts her firmly in the driving seat. They can't handle the woman having the controls. When her legs are closed she can't be manipulated. Women also need to keep their purses closed too.
Celibacy has to be a personal conviction for him too. He has to want to too, not just for you because if and when you have a weak moment, y'all will end up doing something you regret. He can't protect you spiritually if y'all aren't equally yoked.
I am glad mine waited. He said he would wait as long as I wanted.
Amen!
@@TheChamberRoomExperience so happy for you! My beloved and I are waiting too🥰💃🏾
I needed to hear this.
A lot of men will say a woman feels like just his friend if they’re not having sex. Ok, if the difference between a friend and partner to you is sex, get out of my life. Oh and ladies, waiting means NO PLAY. Not even foreplay
Lol a guy told me this the other day. He said “It feels like we’re just friends”
@@lis2154 tell him gettatahere maaan !
Trust me the couple guys I dated always accepted to wait with no problem.
Some blamed me when it didnt work out lool !
Its interesting, coz there is no fantasy when sex , is taken out of the way you see the person for who they are in the cold light of day!
@@beeaboutabbabusiness8738 Right?! With no sex their effort and level of expressed interest gets weak. They act like lack of sexual contact literally sickens them, and it is level of control they want to have by having us get on our backs.
@@j-tenn226 spot on! The guy l went on two dates, with told on himself saying l was in control 🤣.Yes sir coz my legs is closed.Then he tried to talk me in to going to his flat
He will WAIT if he believes YOU are his WIFE!!! Ladies, *really* let that statement sit with you🤔
So all these many men who magically disappeared when I said no several times, they were wasting their own time because they clearly didn’t see long term potential smh. Some of these men will use you as a placeholder.
@@j-tenn226 Right. They weren’t husband material.
@@j-tenn226 Exactly, those men had their *own* “end goal” so they don’t like it when you switch the game up on them!
@@Dr.Elaine1 Not at all and YOUR husband will WANT to wait for YOU!
This is true..I’m living this as we speak. Said I the first woman to ever make him wait. Said he prayed for me and God showed him I’m his wife and in time he prays I feel the same as we grow to know each other. God has said a lot to me.. watching what I’ve prayed for unfold in real time before my eyes. I DO know if a man won’t wait, he’s NOT your man. Waiting is not while you wait he indulges elsewhere. Why do women allow this? You are staying clean and kept clean while he contaminates his body to “someday” possibly give to you. NO SIR! Ladies stay prayed up and focused, and be willing to walk away. Prior to the man I’m with I was dating a guy I THOUGHT was the one, he was not. The world is not short of Godly good men, you have to be willing to choose yourself. You may go through a few frog like I did, just don’t kiss them all!
As a man, it’s doable if they stay busy and have the right friend circle. Most men are strengthened by their friend circle and if most of your male friends only talk about sex and sports it doesn’t help. We all need to learn to value ourselves and not seek outside approval.
Thank you !
Not many men like Tony cause he tells the truth . I don’t know you but I’m glad to see a man on par with the truth . Thank you for commenting
As a man do you believe that the men who are willing to wait are overlooked?
@@beauphomasterpiece3795 I found him on Tasha Ks video. I love it tbh. Even if I don’t agree with everything he says it’s refreshing to hear him.
@@kumajoey6031 I think there are some men that want to wait and can get overlooked if they are missing other things that society values(money,wealth,physical attraction). I think our society needs to shift on what’s valuable in a relationship. Most men in their heart that want a women that wants them for who they are and not just what they can bring financially. That love and belief alone can motivate a man to be a provider.
The same advice my mother told me. If a man loves you he'll wait and marry you. Thank you for this confirmation and timely encouraging word! God bless you and your family!
1. If he is husband material
2. If he feels that you are his wife
no diseases, no unnecessary over the top struggling with trust, peaceful sleep at night , spiritual clarity, no sexual addiction, accomplishing my passions and enjoying my single life, are great blessings of abstinence
Amen to that sis
Imagine when you’re OLD AF and dude can’t even get it up….sex is NOT everything! Lol…”True love is patient, and it purely shouldn’t be a sexual thing…Tony, you’re absolutely right‼️ this “celibacy” thing is NOT a trend….this is your livelihood. Do Not play about your Life. Your body belongs to God, so we should treat our bodies with RESPECT. Know yourself. 👸🏽
If he can't wait, he don't qualify to be a husband. A man who can't wait is selfish, self-absorbed and lacks self-control.
A real MAN will wait !
Amen Nick
That's right Tony.
An immature man will think you're playing a game if you withhold sex.
A mature man is self disciplined and has a certain set of values so he will understand.
Or make you feel guilty for choosing celibacy
A man is also gonna lead his future wife in the correct way. He is gonna wait regardless.
If he will not wait for the right thing, he can keep walking and I'll wait for the right Man.
Amen!
A real man will always wait until his Queen is ready to receive him in that light! Great video!! 💪💪
Right....wit me....he don't have a choice....or nice knowing ya ✌
But all men will always try it ! Be strong ladies
YES!! The man who said I was his wife waited for me. Thank you for being there along the way Uncle Tony
Cool 💯
That’s amazing ❤️
He won’t wait if 1. he’s not husband material or 2. he could be husband material but don’t see you as his wife. The thing about him not seeing you as wife is they will say stuff like but you had sex with your ex but they aren’t willing to be honest at all. Too many guys feel so obligated to woman’s body to have sex and then judge her for having a sexual past just like they do. ITS HARD OUT HERE in this dating world.
Yes! That double standard IS real. But we as woman have to know the tricks they HAVE and WILL continue to use on women to get what they want by any means they see fit. When we "guard" our heart and body. When they leave....it is their lost and our strength 😄
This is so much facts! I'm moving mountains on my own with the Lord help, and if I met a woman I like and down to wait. That mountain get thrown out the world.
Felt like I had to say this. TG always looking out for us in this world we live in. I would listen to him more so if I was a woman although I still heed to his wise words.
I love this video! Don’t get discouraged ladies if he don’t wanna wait , he not your husband
I still can't believe people out there find it's hard to believe that a man will and can wait. It's obvious that if you give it up quickly he won't. Who doesn't like freeness time to time? Who doesn't like taking a shortcut from time to time? A man WILL wait, but this will only happen if you stay true to your standards and make him wait. I know this for myself because I've been with someone who waited. Be blessed.
When I am feeling hopeless, I come here. And I feel a teensy bit better
This is true 100% it’s so sad that we can’t even believe that men will wait. But like tony said, good men are being overlooked all the time!
It's so hard to believe cuz it's not many of them out there
I wonder where they are at besides church
I am a woman in waiting. The thing women have to understand is you'd better be set and secure as to WHY it is valuable to wait for marriage. You have to have those principles firmly in your heart bc seggs is EASY. It's easy to fall into. It's easy, the charm the vibe the spark... If you not set on waiting you will fall at first impulse. It's a lifestyle. It becomes a lifestyle after you make this decision to wait.
All facts I learned this after trial and error
True
Facts , exactly why I keep my values firm and I don’t allow any men to interfere with my journey.
This is confirmation for me. Recently met a man and he told me I wasn’t being realistic and that a man will tell you he’s going to wait but he’s going to be out here cheating on me with every other woman during that wait. I said so you’re telling there’s no possible way he said well there’s always the exception to the rule. I said well that’s what I’m waiting for the exception to the rule. Never heard from him from him again.
This is better than your first video! Love it. Hallelujah. Real men do wait! I have one waiting until marriage and like Tony says he is not trying to knock me down off my stance. Quite the contrary. He respects me highly. Ladies be real 👑 Queens 👸. Men recognize value from day one. They also know from first meet who is wife material. Separate yourself. The bible says be ye separate 2 Corinthians 6:17
Basically if he loves you he will do anything for you, especially respecting your wishes. Self-love is not settling for anything less. God bless! ❤️💯😊
Extremely timely as always... This morning I go to my gym, where MTV is screening all over the place. At least 9 out of 10 songs are explicitly about sex and the video clips for most of these portray barely dressed women aggressively throwing themselves at the guys, who convey an expression of "Oh well, better give her what she wants, hadn't I?" One video showed a guy trying to get work done on a farm while the woman (the singer) would not stop bugging him with her displays of sexuality. Thought to myself, Is it any wonder of guys have naturally come to expect this of practically every woman they encounter... then getting angry when women don't just walk up to them and drop it like it's hot??
Key words " if he is husband material, and if he feels this is his wife " 🎯
My wife didn't ask me to wait.....😂😂😂👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽 I ❤ you..... Brutally honest !!
Facts lol 😂
Mr Tony I’ve been with my guy for a year now and we have not had sex yet.. we shopped for rings and we will marry before sex
I've been wondering this myself... I'm 21, waiting till marriage and worry that a man won't wait for me.... Especially when many young women my age don't wait. I kinda feel like an outcast.
I’m 32 and I feel this way. Guys will always say stuff like why I gotta wait if you had sex with your ex
@@mayasheartdesiire A guy said that to me, even though I never had sex with my ex, or anyone. They take it personally and deflates their fragile masculinity
@@j-tenn226 yes l have noticed that low value men , equate sex with being wanted / desired it's sad!
Keep going on your wait see as rare jewels like diamonds, have to have the right buyer 👑
You’re not! Society wants you to feel that way, but society also doesn’t have to deal with everything that comes with it. I used to feel the same way-and sometimes, those thoughts still try to creep in. I’ll be 30 in July and I thank God that I never crossed that line-for spiritual, emotional, & mental reasons, of course. Keep going ✨
You are a blessing to the sisters brother Tony. I’ve been waiting 6 years being abstinent a total of 10 years . I repented from sin.
That's impressive. 🙏
What’s the difference between waiting and being abstinent to you? I thought that they were the same..
@@IvyElizabeth918 NO! They're not the same abstinence is to abstain from something (sex, alcohol...) Waiting is to expect or hope for something to happen. Hope l have answered your question. 😅
I Agree Tony & As A 45 Yr Old Woman Currently I'm Still Waiting After My 1st Marriage Ended Back In 2008.. My Choice To Refrain From Any Sexual Acts… So If Ladies Can I Know A Real Man That Is Discipline & Has Self Control Will Wait Too!!!
It took me awhile to recover my self-worth but now I'm on solid ground (even my soon-to-be ex still texts and when he calls me, because we are still financially bonded until divorce and still need to be discussing these matters, he will tell me how valuable I am to him but I told him the end is here, in March or April). If God holds me in high esteem even as a sinner and has loved me eternally, why wouldn't I expect to be treated the same by a man. There will not be any marriage benefits before marriage.
Waiting is God's way, anything God's way is worth it. Love waits and lust refuses to wait. ♥️
2022 is for me. He can either step up or get! God bless em either way.
Exactly 💯 🙌🏽
It’s the way he says period for me 😅
I was there & I was shocked. They do & will wait🙌🏾👑
Appreciate this message more than you know! Encouraged to tell him to WAIT!
I'M NOT PLAYING RUSSIAN ROULETTE WITH MY BODY ........U AIN'T FOR ME✌
SPEAK ON IT 🗣
Right!!!
ABSOLUTELY!!! 💯👍🏾 The right man, your God given man!
Nobody like Tony Gaskins!!!! Love this video. It is completely in alignment with where I'm at. Great video!!!
A man will wait, for the woman he loves - period. Amazing message and Stay blessed! 👍🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for being consistent
Class in session 🙏🏾
🙏🏾 needed this.
Timely. 🙌🏽
I needed to hear this today!!!!
Thank you so much for this video
You betta say it Tony💯
Love the shirt!
Thank you Tony for all your advice 🧡💜
Teach Hunni👏🏼👏🏼
So glad I got your post notifications on!
Great video! Thank you, Mr. Gaskins.
It's the Hangela for me😂😂😂 Tony thank you for keeping it 💯
This was all real thanks bro bro
God bless you Tony and family 🙏🏼
I need this shirt !
I absolutely appreciate and thank you for dropping this Valuable video Mr. Gaskins. 💯✅🥰🌺
Thanks Tony💎
Well said. Love it so True.
Nice video to watch !
Very powerful words of wisdom flowing through this video. Definitely needed to here this. Thank you Tony!
Preach Mr. Gaskins that's real truth....💯
Thank you for sharing, Tony! Another great video with motivational, wisdom!
Happy Saturday blessed tribe! I needed to hear this msg.
Tony always got our backs!! Thank you for this video 🤗
God Bless you for speaking on this! So many women need to hear this, soooo many women...and grown boyz.
Dang this was so helpful
Hallelujah Mr. Gaskins. And that's the truth! 💯
Thank you, Uncle Tony. I receive this message
IT IS SO...
Thank you for telling us the truth Tony.
Ladies...we are worth the wait!!!
I love your content, thank you for your advices it helps me a lot
Keep preaching Tony. I like your video!!!👍👍👍
This💯the realest .Thank you even though I made past mistakes and on this journey now its so uplifting to hear
especially with the pressure of been told I should be exchanging men as i am divorced. The devil is a liar, ain't about to be swinging&flipping and catch something. Can't be misusing God's grace.
My man is waiting Tony! You’re surely right!
😆😆🤭 " hunching " at least now I believe that - that's just normal ... Cause . Luv y'all man ❣️
Wow. Thank you Tony. All women need to hear that there are still men out here willing to wait.
If a woman is worth waiting to a man, he will wait. If he feels she is not worth waiting for, he won't. She cannot already be having sex when she meet a new man but expect him to wait.
Checking in for this updated Word. Remember seeing your last one on this topic.
Love it…”real men have self control”. That speaks volumes.
This is the daddy talk most of us missed Queens. I trust we are listening and learning.
The last two minutes 🥺
Tony thank you so much for this truth that you are sharing. No one is speaking this truth on the level that you are. Continue to let the Lord use you!!
🙌🏽
Good morning brother tony.
I love the gray hair in your beard. I love it that so many men are sporting their "gray and black" beards. Very hansome. I love your swag Mr. Tony Gaskins!
That's good to know on the waiting
I agree with you OG
Yassssss God Tony please teach
This was very insightful but funny. Not “loose booty” 😂 I’ll send it to the group chat so they won’t know it’s them lol
Amen🙏🏽
Hi Tony! I hope all is well. I just would like to say that your message is necessary. I know that being called by God isn’t always easy. But your obedience and tenacity is what I need and I’m sure others can say the same. Please don’t stop talking. That’s what the enemy wants you to do. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. This journey as a believer who’s dating in a society without standards makes me wonder if I should conform. However, hearing messages like this one just encouraged me to stick with my values/standards and trust God bc I was DEFINITELY getting weary in the well doing. Thanks again. May God continue to bless you and your lovely family 100 gazillion fold. 💕
Yes, thank you for sharing this message of Concern for many folks. This is Important Especially when your CELIBATE!! 👀 💯✅
A story: I met a well dressed man of 48 recently. I was really looking forward to getting to know him based on approach and initial convo in person. Contact has been slow so I reached out to say hey and he remarked that if I was the type of woman looking for a man to constantly be in Touch I will never get that but he was in the middle of a 2year drought and maybe I could help him out with that.
I was completely flabbergasted. He was 48, and I'm 38. Losing. Hope. Fast.
@ Queen of Hearts hmm u 38 and he 48 men are set in there ways some will tell you up front and some want and he may be the type to where he will contact you when he's ready not for you to reach out ... Not saying you thirsty or needy .. he said you would never get the keep in touch that's a red flag right there don't nobody got time for games .. to each it's on though
He sounds lame, as Tony would say.
Hmm with that attitude wonder why he’s in the middle of a drought..🙄
Wow
Don't give up hope but he did you favor if you want something more tell him I can't help you with that sorry maybe we will try at a better time
Amen 🙏🏾
If he is husband material, and if he feels she is his wife, he will wait. Point, blank, periood
EXACTLY WHAT TONY STATED
Real truth
Hunching 😭🤣🤣