How Shaytan Destroys Family Relationships - Yaseen Media
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ส.ค. 2014
- MERCIFULSERVANT MEMBERS: / mercifulservant
MS Facebook: / mercifulservanthd
MS Twitter: / mercifulservnt
MS Instagram: / mercifulservant
MS SoundCloud: / mercifulservant
Personal Facebook: / mercifulservant ► www.gofundme.com/MercifulServa...
A brief discussion on the tricks that Shaytan uses to destroy our relationships with our family and our parents. A must watch for Muslim Youth.
Produced by: Yaseen Media
TH-cam: goo.gl/9jIfdM
Facebook: goo.gl/CzId0Y
Twitter: goo.gl/3XJGnC
Speaker: Ossama El Shamy
Official Website: www.mercifulservant.com
Donate For Our Channel: www.gofundme.com/themercifulse...
MS Official Channel: / themercifulservant
MSHD Channel:
MercifulServant FB: / mercifulservanthd
Personal Facebook: / mercifulservant
MS Twitter: / merciservant
MS Instagram: followgram.me/MercifulServant
MS SoundCloud: / mercifulservant
PLEASE NOTE:
Any of the views expressed by the speakers do not necessarily represent the views of The Merciful Servant or any other projects it may have or intend to do. The Merciful Servant and it's affiliates do not advocate nor condone any unlawful activity towards any individual or community.
Please everyone make Dua for my cousin. She just gave birth to twins and she had complications and she is on life support . Please give Dua brothers and sisters. Thankyou.
She wil always be be in my prayers inshallah
InshAllah! she will be 100% fine very soon and will be back home with her newborn twins!
don't worry we will make dua in shall ah
how's ur cousin?
How is she??
It's like Allah knew what's in my heart and suddenly this vid comes up - all the points were spot on
Exactly same thing. ?..
same here.....Allahuakbar
Wallahi! Me too! Ive had problems with my dad letely and this vid came up!
Alhamdulillahi Rabbil 'Alamin!
Tflower08 Hahaha same here! I realized its all Shaytaan and now when i thought about it i like an idiot for getting tricked!
me too
Many parents are very bad to their children. We focus on the children, but the parents teach the children. In order to raise good children, most of the time the parents have to be good. May Allah guide us.
My parents are going to divorce because our financial problems :(😭😭
I agree there. there are children who have thier childhood taken away due to abusive parents & find it hard to move on from it...
agreed
True
Pelican Fly i used to think of my mom that way too.. when i was little, she was always angry, she doesn't care, so i distance myself from her and was closer to my dad.. i love him so much, he brought out the best in me, he made me feel as if I'm unstoppable.. until i lost him. and was left with my mom. she was still like how she was before my father passed away. she didn't care about my siblings n i.. we were so little. my uncles from fathers side hated her, but i hated them as well cuz all they wanted was the will my dad left us. i who used to be good in school became a problematic child, i blame it all on my mom.. one day, I've had enough and i lashed out on her for never been there and ruining my life.. she cried, she apologized, she told me, she doesn't know how to love, her parents sent her away when she was little, she was abused by her aunts, my father is her only happiness and she lost it all when she lost him, she was grieving at the same time as we did, we all were grieving, she doesn't know what to do, we were all lost without him.. we worked our way out of it, she has changed..i was too focused on wanting her to understand me I've forgotten the fact that I need to understand her too.. there's no denying the fact that they are bad parents out there.. but they always have their reasons, but I don't know how to say this but yeah so we all need to understand each other to work things out. lol
I always envy a good family relationship which we don’t have. We are like strangers to each other
Okay so im not alone 😐 same is the case with me
Same for me. Since mum passed away dad has split family up beyond repair.
❤
I cried watching this. May Allah guide us.
Rifka Alif Rahmasari Ameen
dito 3 years after you did xd
@@belalbhai2286 Ameen
Armeen
Amin
I want to share something. I live with my parents and brother. All my relatives from both my father and mothers side have stopped talking to us completely. I basically live a life without any uncles, aunties, and even cousins. They caused a lot of grief and trouble for my family, when my parents were always nice to them and help them out in trouble times. However, despite everything we do not have. I thank Allah so many times that our family is still good and strong. I have a loving mother and caring father, and a brother who does not do things that other brothers do. We have nothing but we still have each other. Only Allah can really judge them, but they do not think that they gossip and do bad things, that they won't leave this world, what will they tell Allah then? So my brothers and sisters, don't be sad about your current family situation, Allah is watching everything.
if u and your immediate family r Muslim and the rest not, that's why shayiteens r having a field day with the relatives. same happened to me. you and your family stay close Masha Allah
We are same my relatives are bad
OishiGudiya same situation as you sis
Assalamu alaykum. Any advise on non Muslim familys? Its been around 2 years since I reverted. They asked me to leave the house. I'm still a teen. Alhumdulilah i have Allah SWT. Please make duaa that my family accepts Islam.
Walaikum Salaam. At the end of video it deals with parents who are non Muslim. You are still asked to be nice to them unless they tell you to do something against Allah (Swt) or Islam. Try to see if some of your muslim friends or local mosque can help you if they end up kicking you out of the house. May Alalh make it easy upon you and keep you on straight path. And May he also guide your parents to accept Islam. Ameen.
Sandyy Kapoor Wa'alaikum-As-Salam i heard a story of a guy who was married and his wife was still non-Muslim. he showed her how great Islam was by being a better person. She converted to Islam. :)
Stay strong and be good to your parents consistently and by the will of Allah one day they will see how Islam has made you a better person and accept you.
Sandyy Kapoor may Allah give hidaya to you family and give right path you. ameen
Sandyy Kapoor i cant feel ur pain. But islam orders u to be nice n gud towards tgem. May Allah help u n guide them also. Amen
After I heard this video me and my brother made breakfast for my mom and dad :]
Thank you brother :)
Awwww that was so sweet and thoughtful. :) May Allah bless you and your brother and may we be amongst God's honored servants whom he grants forgiveness and jannah.
This comment got me goosebumps
I just want to thank anyone related to this video cuz this vid changed my perspective on my parents love for me , from now on , i will become more patient and work harder to fill their expectations~
May God heal us all. I hope my heart heals soon. It's filed with a lot of pain, anger, disappointment and I feel like a failure. May Allah guide me to the right path. InshAllah.
Salaam Alaikum, just know that no matter where you reach at any point in your life. No matter if you feel as if the whole world is against you. Allah is always on your side and Allah (Suhanna Wa Tallah) loves you, and no matter what problems you face, Allah (Suhanna Wa Tallah) will always be there with you. You just have to try as hard as you can to remember how much He loves us, and particularly you. I need to remember this a lot myself and really struggle a lot of the time, but for the moments that I do, I really feel that Allah loves me and wants me to succeed (Alhamdulillah). So Inshallah, let's try our best to remember Allah. May Allah bless you and guide you. :)
fruityxoxo1991 inshallah
Sam Al-Haj wow you made me cry. Thak you salam.
JasakAllah for sharing this.
I was falling into Shaytan lies without even realising it.. I will try to be better now and change my behavior towards my parents in sha Allah.
Some parents are incredibly evil, I know someone whose life whose utterly ruined by them (and his siblings who took their parents' side). Witchcraft is often involved to breed hatred among them.
Last year for my dads birthday, My mother, siblings and I decided to make him a little surprise. I made a simple cute video for him with all his old photos (He doesn’t take pics a lot) and my mother offered him the Holy Book of Allah. The day of his birthday we all jumped in his room and wished him a happy birthday. We had shown him the video we’d made for him. He looked so surprised, he wasn’t expecting it. He emotionally said thank you and suddenly turned his head away, we frowned thinking that he probably didn’t like it, but then we heard him sniffing and we realized that he’s been crying. It was my first time seeing my dad cry then we cried with him. I’d never forget that day.
Salaam Sis that is very emotional happiness, that what his tears were for. So sweet of you all to surprise him. May Allah bless you for loving and respecting your parents.
😂💯💪 nice
awww May Allah give eternal happiness to all you guys and everyone ❤️ it breaks ur heart doesn’t it even if it’s tears of joy or sadness ❤️
Cute gift! But sister celebrating birthdays is bid’ah, and haram. I’m from the west too and I know these celebrations seem normal growing up here but they aren’t. May Allah guide us all
I don't want to sound ungrateful. But my mother passed away two years ago. It's alright living with my dad and brother. But Masha' Allah, it's tough. From preparing food on the table to cleaning the house to doing the laundry. It's tiring. I feel guilty, yes I feel guilty for feeling this. I try very hard to be sincere. But I don't know what's wrong with me. And every time I try to talk to my dad about my brother's bad behavior, he'd just shrug it off. And every single time i try to make a small conversation with him, he IGNORES me. I feel sad, but I still try to make a small conversation. I feel embarassed when he does that in front of our relatives. And my brother, oh my how much I shower him with my love, he always claims we don't love him and just wants to die and that he's stupid. From making his breakfast, always standing up for him and doing his laundry , he doesn't see this as my way of loving him. And he's also very rude to my father- which makes me SO SAD . And every single time , we have a tiff, he always threatens me like " oh im not gonna do it. im not joking" . I'm tired I'm tired of feeling insecure with my OWN brother. And he think IT'S OKAY or like the world revolves around him. And worst- This is probably my fault ! Astaghfirullah, I'm sorry for complaining , but I need to get it off my chest. May Allah give us happiness for all of us and our family members :)
sister, you are amazing, i wouldnt be half the person you are if my mom passed away because i am so very dependent on her even at an age of 22. Make dua, sincerely pass all your problems to allah in prayer and he will not let you down. He helps us when we need to and doesnt burden our souls with more than we can bear. This may be your test and may allah reward you abundantly for sticking through it when it gets hard. Amin!
Thank you sister. That means alot . May Allah reward you with the best !
Zahirah Hassan Every time you take care of the home and the food etc it is written down and trust me you will be rewarded inshallah. There are so many spoiled people in this world who do absolutely nothing and get anything they want and you might think its unfair but whats better than what Allah has offered you :) I am also in hardships right now my life kinda sucks so i know 100% how it feels and my family is not the best either. Just wanted to express my thoughts and I wish you the best! take care and may Allah bless you
MrMurad1234 Thank you so much sir ! Sorry to hear about your situation. And syukran for reminding me that what Allas has offered me is better. And I hope the best for you too and may Allah protect you always :)
MrMurad1234 *Allah
SubahanAllah
This is just what I needed right now
Jazakallah khair and Alhamdulillah
My mom is cheating on my dad and I’m really depressed about it. I don’t know what to do, my mom doesn’t know that I know it. I also cannot tell my dad that cause I know my parents would get divorce. Sometimes I hate my mother because of her actions, she’s becoming more unreligious and doing haram things. And the worst thing is when my dad would go to work, mom brings her lover to our home in midnight 😞 I need Allah very much plz pray for my family 🙏🏻😢
May Allah bless your family ♥️♥️
Inshahallah you be under the blessings of Allah(SWT) .❤️❤️
Each day, I treat my parents as if I have just gotten them back ❤️ I love them. #MashALLAH
Thank you!
Love you my Bro!
I am Screaming, and i want forgivenesa From My Allah and then From my Parents.....!!
Thank you once again.....!!
all these things happend to me,Subanallah...
All of what he said is 100% true
subhanAllah thanks you I'm near tears. So many people had me believe my parents didn't love me. I don't believe that anymore.. now people say I don't love my children because I push them sometimes to do better. I know they can. I'm going to stop listening to people with no understanding. jazakallah alkhair
Sabirah Malika People tell my daughter same thing. it's hurtful that she listens to them.
Omg thank you for uploading this I really needed this
Allahu Akbar...how sad shaitan doesn't need to do or say much these days to get us to sin :(
Astagfiruallah wa atubu illayhi
Bint Mohammed )£9
I love my children with all my heart no matter what! All I pray is for them to be Muslim!
Thanks for the motivation, inshallah I will start to set right the relationship between me and my parents.
I always watch islamic vids with shaytan in the title with my lights on LOL
SkeSh thanks for the advice :) I'm not saying i fear him but I never know what the vids will include because some always have pop ups and dark music and are edited in a scary way aha
Hahaha lol that's cute
I watch Bcuz I'm just curios
"if Ur parents are Muslim or not maybe religious just leave that to Allah "🌹💐❤️
that last part made me really sad i will treat my parents better
These are good points and on point but you need to realize this is easier said then done and to put it into action.
Yah he did say its going to be very hard
The best step in my opinion is to take it slow and first realise these things
Do I love my parents?
Do I skip on the little thing?
Do I hate them?
These questions in my opinion help realise what your doing and what needs to be done.
May Allah grant Firdous to all our mothers. Aameen.
Thank u so much...My dad is always upset abt him coming home late and eating by his ownself...From today onwards inshallah I promise to myself tht I my mom and him will have dinner with him...inshallah...I will try to get back my family together...Thanks fr giving me the hope!...subhanallh...May Allah bless u and everyone with families who stay united together
subhanallah this video has made tears come out of my eyes
i need this video in this moment in my life,THX u so much
Ma-shaA-Allah very valid advice for us all brother. Jazakallahu khiran
thank you you opened my eyes at this time my heart has broken into pieces about what i used to think and what do they really want from me .it is a blessing may ALLAH grant you jannah
Brought tears to my eyes...subhanallah
This video made me cry.😭
Man subhan Allah I really needed this right now. Allah hu Akbar I'm Gona take flowers for my mum next time I visit her and re connect with my dad Insha Allah
Subhan Allah... you have just opened up our Eyes & heart bro 😇
Best, beautiful and truthful fact of life.
Jazakallahuhair for the message..
Subhanallah, may Allah protect us all 🙇🏻♀️
Marshallah what a wonderful video, this has truly changed my thoughts about how I should act towards my parents. Thank you so much!
My dad left my family when I was 6 to live with his second wife he hasn’t came back till this day i am currently 16 I can’t even remember his voice subhanallah
Beautiful lecture Mashallah
I also cried while watching this it's heartwarming
Thanks you so much.this video helped me solve my problem.
MASHA ALLAH very beautiful lecture
Touched my heart
Thank you for this video
Very beautiful lecture
Masha Allah, May Allah forgive me. Please my brothers and sisters pray for me, so that Allah will forgive me. I hurt my mom 3 days ago, and am hurt. It really killing me inside. I argue her because I think she love my brother than me. May Allah forgive me, and push shatan far from my family.Ameen
I need this vid!
masyaallah..thank u for this video ya akhii..fate is so awesome since this is just the video i need to fix me n my parents..wallahi thank u
Awesome lecture
thank u for sharing
As salaamu alaikum to you All, In sha Allah what I will share will encourage us all. Our families will be a test and I surely know this. But as someone said if we get closer to Allah ta'ala we are stronger to deal with the test we have. No, it will not be easy by any means but when our imans get stronger we do too. I am a convert of 18 years and the only Muslim in my family. I have adult children who I tried to share Islam with but it is not to be so far. I say so far because we all know the Allah ta'ala makes Muslim whom he wills but I keep making dua for my family. I too have lost my mother, my dear sister Zahirah and what an adjustment that has been for me. However, our Holy book tells us with difficulty there is ease, with difficulty comes ease. We must remember that. My entire family sometimes has some trouble adjusting to me being Muslim but Alhamdullillah Allah ta'ala chose me to be Muslim. I like you have a set of guidelines to follow in regards to family, neighbors, the ummah and this world we live in. Sister Zahirah, Yasmin Mogehed has written a wonderful book, 'Reclaim your Heart.' I suggest you read it and it will surely help you with your family concerns. I recommend this book because with it's help I was able to function again after my mother's death but also learn that sometimes Allah ta'ala takes things away to give us something different but also to teach us we must rely on Him alone and no other. Remember Allah ta'ala test those HE loves the most. Please take the good from this and leave the rest. May Allah ta'ala protect us, Ameen.
Thanks alot for this video.. the advise I really wanted juzt came up . . Ol the points are absolutely corect.. May Allah reward you.. please pray for me ol ,I am struggling with these thought . . Though I know they do..but shaithan make me think so. .please dua for me to help get closer with my mom . . And remove the distance..
The ending hit me.
Helped me so much JazakAllah khiar...please make dua i pass in my results.
Did you pass walaal?
I love my family ..always did and always will..Allah knows best.
Asalam alkum, sorry to hear that, may Allah give her a speedy recovery Ameen, say Ameen every one.. 🙏
im not a muslim but i really love to watch this videos, so much relatable.
HELLO brothers and sisters inshallah Allah will guide us in the right path and may Allah protect us from stan
this video is heart touching
I love love love love his voice
Sometimes it's hard to say I love you when they make you feel so unloved. How do you deal with that? Sometimes I get worry that I'm turning into them because that is how they raise me...
The thing is obvious that we should be patient ,even our parents are wrong we have to be patient advise them in a polite manner and make Dua for them ,'coz nobody is perfect we are not perfect ,if suppose they are not good doesn't mean we should be the same ,we should try to end the bad convrsation .We too are obliged and mature to solve problems .
Don't hate ur parents they love u if they can't show u the love what u wanted then it doesn't mean they dont love u , Then are showing the same thing we can also change and strive to achieve love and bonding of Our family Inshaa Allah.
agree with you, yet this is a super hard task for some people because there are really parents that suck out the energy of you
Subhanallah im crying, I love my parents very much
Bismillah hirrahman nirrahim Authubillah himinash sheytan nirathim ameen!!
Jazak'Allahu-khair
Just because you don't know anyone whose family is bad to their children doesn't mean they don't exist. My family destroyed me. I suggest you check parents who have NPD, you'll know what I'm talking about. And for the love of God I don't need the lecture about how I should love my parents because I've been doing my absolute best to please them, but they are just so...well. Check testimonies about those who are narcissists and how they RUIN their children's lives.
I know how you feel
same i agree with you!
Allah make it easy for you. Ameen
Solidus Phoenix even if u serve ur mom for whole of ur life like a slave even than u r unable to payback the pain of 1 night tht ur mom suffered n the tension ur dad felt.
I know what you mean. But this hate is eating you alive
What about people in abusive households?
Sorry to all those who are facing trials in life,may the Almighty Allah guide us all through His right path and make our ways easier In shaa Allah.
Wonderful
it made me cry
may Allah heal her up
This is so true so
wow what a video. 100 percent true
this video may change my life
Mashallah!
Were do you get these stuff fom
Only little kids & early teens think their parents don't love them. We've all been there. If you don't think/treat highly of your kids, they're not going to think/treat highly of you.
*Program your kids before the DUNYA programs them.*
I have a sister 2 years older than me; a brother 8 years younger than me, & a sister 12 years younger than me. They're in primary school. If you have younger siblings with a huge age gap, Ma-sha-allah, you're lucky. Allah gave you such siblings so you can test & teach yourself how to be a good parent in future. But what do we *'young adults'* do? Instead we're always complaining about our younder siblings, demanding them *"Do this, Do that. Don't do this. Don't do that. Stop it. No. Go away. Get lost. Leave me alone. Muuuuuuuum/Daaaaaaad, tell them [so&so]."* This isn't programming your kids/siblings, this is arrogance. If you want to have good kids, have a *POSITIVE* response, they *PICK IT UP* from you, before you order your kids around, *TEACH THEM*.
I ahmed mashAllah very well said,and sooooo TRUE
i wish to treat my parents with better care and obey them. I hope Allah will help me be patient in my darkest because sometimes it’s hard to have patience in needed times. i hope to be the kind of children to them that i would want for myself. May we be blessed with amazing moments with our family in this life and the hereafter, together. Ameen.
sir U ChaNge my Life
This is true.....
Jezak Allah Jezak Allah khayrun
alhamdulillah
May allah protect us
My kids mom does that. She goes against everything I say just to fight me. But its our children that's losing. Smh
this true ,now we are going through this problem ,my family fighting for property ,now family going falling apart ,some people telling my sister my parents are responsible for misuses of her property with my brother . sub hana Allah is killing me inside I dont know how to save this family disruption .pray foe my family ,we have big trial .my sister now think my parents are just using her ,they don't love her they supported my brother to misused her property. I wish icould solve al of this but is difficult may allah make easy for me to solve my family problem .
Ameen
i cried
I always (please don't judge) was like this
Me: omg my mum is so annoying always saying do this so that and shouting god what mom is she? Mum? Mom? Mommy? Mummy? Honestly....
Now I watch this I went to my mum and kissed her. Hugged her and said
Me: shaytan had failed I love you mum!
👍
Please everyone make dua for my family my father haves a very bad drinking problem ever since he moved to Canada... he himself desires to stop but the shaytaan keeps getting in head because of his mother's death....... dont get me wrong hes a great father, he provides for us along with my mother.... he taught me the value of our deen and the value of this dunya and because of that I'm truly grateful ..... but hes getting old and I'm very worried for him please make strong dua for us
It already has destroyed my family relationship it to late a their a scar in my family relation ship it can never ever be fixed pls make dua for my family 😭😭😭
I am having hard time if anyone read this make dua for me
Salaam, a question, does Islam say to have hateness inside you if you don't like, or get a long with any one
Tasminas Bites no. Make dua for them and have no hatred for no one in your heart.
so true
I wish my problems were as simple as this
Love ur PARENTS and everybody else!!!!!
Assallamu Alaykum Brothers and sisters. How can I repay my parents that already died for the bad things that i had done?
Subhanallah