First Date Rules || Make Him Fall For You 😍

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  • I am back with another girl talk video !
    In this video, I covered things you should and shouldn’t do on a first date 😍
    I hope these tips will help you girls!
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  • @shelbybrown04
    @shelbybrown04 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    I’m literally going on my first date in 15 mins😂

    • @brownasiangirl3794
      @brownasiangirl3794 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      All the best gurlll ✨🤍

    • @shelbybrown04
      @shelbybrown04 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@brownasiangirl3794 thank you :)🤍

    • @cloudxarepretty
      @cloudxarepretty ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You posted this literal 6 min ago which means you're going there in 9 mins..Best of luck! 🖤 Tell me how it goes 💕

    • @Pujarxy
      @Pujarxy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck gurl💕

    • @shelbybrown04
      @shelbybrown04 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@cloudxarepretty he’s on his way to pick me up now haha and I will do :)💕

  • @Mickeymous7174
    @Mickeymous7174 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    Revision notes
    1. Never plan the first date (don't ask him to go on the first date)
    2. Look presentable(nails, stains, perfume)
    3. Be Mysterious
    4. Do not do anything intimate.
    5. Do not obsess over him.

    • @bluebellbeatnik4945
      @bluebellbeatnik4945 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      lol I asked him out for a drink and he said yes. the rest I agree with.

  • @Poisedblood
    @Poisedblood ปีที่แล้ว +98

    As a medical student I save this video for future bc I am currently focused on upcoming exams date lmao😭😂

  • @kiwiwooq
    @kiwiwooq ปีที่แล้ว +220

    For rule #1, I 100% agree.
    I was in a very serious long term relationship and this was my first mistake. I consider myself as an independent and strong women so at that time I asked him out. But overtime, I kept thinking what would have happened if I never asked him out. That was the beginning of this insecurity that I never thought I would face. Well as you can assume, that relationship did not last at all. Now I know where I went wrong lol.
    LADIES, LADIES, LADIES your dream guy will come to you. If somebody is showing a hint that they like YOU, trust me, THEY WILL COME TO YOU. Keep up the feminine energy ✨✨

    • @smashh2152
      @smashh2152 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💜💜💜💜

    • @beingaesthetic7402
      @beingaesthetic7402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with you. I totally appreciate it

    • @ashalmenezes2048
      @ashalmenezes2048 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I violated the Rule 1, what do I do?

  • @raunaknarayan4092
    @raunaknarayan4092 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Basic rule of life: if you want something good in your life then just sitting back and waiting for things to happen miraculously then thats the worst strategy you can use.
    My wife asked for the date… she was waiting for a very long time for me to make the first move
    I was in delusion that she has a boyfriend, if she would have never asked me we would never be together, she is a very strong woman

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      agreed lol. Sorry but if a woman shows no interest in me by never approaching nor starting convo, im going to assume she's not interested and will not ask her out on a date.

    • @ZuriBirmingham
      @ZuriBirmingham 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's not saying never approach or never start the conversation. She's specifically saying "ask for the first date". I believe in showing interest, and then letting him make the next move from there

    • @raunaknarayan4092
      @raunaknarayan4092 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ZuriBirmingham
      Boys already have a lot of things to deal with on priority (way our society is structured) don’t play so many games or you may stay single forever.

  • @tasnimaesha5940
    @tasnimaesha5940 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    GO girls GO!!!!
    All solid facts GIRL! Love you so so much sis

  • @shwetaphansalkar2525
    @shwetaphansalkar2525 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Nimesha just keep doing videos on these topics...you explain it so well and you have valid points❤️

  • @ilajyrwana6374
    @ilajyrwana6374 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I get motivated alot watching her videos and hearing her povs. As an impact of her video I become automatically productive and positive as a girl.

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awww that’s nice to hear ❤️

  • @riyakaria619
    @riyakaria619 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this series!!! 💁‍♀️

  • @dancewithme7435
    @dancewithme7435 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how u tell exactly what I wanted to hear thank u ❤️

  • @hanariaz784
    @hanariaz784 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I know its weird….but please give us tips on long term relationships.(currently in a long term relationship) What to do and what not. THANK YOU GIRL… I LOVE YOUR ADVICES.

  • @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss
    @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is making valid points here

  • @madhu466
    @madhu466 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hey namesha, I'm also one of the brown girls, wanna say I love your facial features . Girl you're always there to heal me up whenever I'm at my lowest phase , I love the way you use your hands to express your words. Love from India ❤

  • @samiajerry9431
    @samiajerry9431 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    After wedding u look more gorgeous 😍

  • @Aloo371
    @Aloo371 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Im not going on a date but I definitely needed these advices as my relationship is falling apart due to my extreme attachment.

    • @beingaesthetic7402
      @beingaesthetic7402 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please don’t show extreme attachment. It’s not only ruin your relationship but also it will destroy you. Give yourself priority first trust me

  • @Ceylon727
    @Ceylon727 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    For me I feel like its so earthly and natural to date someone after having them in our life as a friend prior to date or being around a circle of friends for some time..Its so familiar about eachother and no anxiety or too attached of the outcome ❤.. 😊😊

  • @mahayaqub157
    @mahayaqub157 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    girl looks exactly like a doll 😫❤

  • @sefjung99
    @sefjung99 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I looovveeee your perspective on being high value woman ❤

  • @narutomagar
    @narutomagar ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks nimeshaa Di all the rules were accurate to the point

  • @HJ-rj6lx
    @HJ-rj6lx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I already broke the first rule.😥 please wish me all the luck in my relationship guys . I really really like him.

    • @buse8068
      @buse8068 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too sis :))) don't worry

    • @Unhappysunshinez
      @Unhappysunshinez หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah me too

    • @Bite4you
      @Bite4you 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fucking right girls it happend with me too

  • @noone_____
    @noone_____ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Though I'm single and never going to get into a relationship. But still watching it, because I like Nimeshaa

  • @rathnayakasalma8796
    @rathnayakasalma8796 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm still single and I feel like I'm still not ready to have a relationship or dating...But I'm watching this vedio whenever it will be helpful to me😊 Nimesha my sister you are my motivation girl...Thank you so much and love you so much💓

  • @roopshukla5150
    @roopshukla5150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How to manifest a loyal, trustworthy basically an actual MEN ... Nd dude i swear you're really the queen nd you motivates me alott

  • @purplediary9260
    @purplediary9260 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    he asked me for a date, and we will go tomorrow.. so i think i passed rule number one...😁 and i got the right video on the right time love you sis😊

  • @manpritkaur9944
    @manpritkaur9944 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very well said good advice 💯👌🏻❤️

  • @ilmanaw132
    @ilmanaw132 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Youuuu loookkk damnnnn prettryyyyy 🥰🥰 so obsessed with ur videos gurl 😍😊

  • @jennifernyarko6779
    @jennifernyarko6779 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My date was canceled a while back ...glad I'm watching this now

  • @sivasakthithangaiah596
    @sivasakthithangaiah596 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most needed at this time. Thanks nimeshaa ❤️

  • @englishliterature8581
    @englishliterature8581 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You know sometimes I think if we gotta pretend or hide so much from the person we're aiming to spend our life with, then what's the point meeting that person in the first place? In my opinion, before anything else we must be genuine because that's something this world is currently deprived of. 😊

  • @sutcheez3152
    @sutcheez3152 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came here fir your looks and im finishing watching your video

  • @calmcatto
    @calmcatto ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Okay but not oversharing is so important. Once I went on a date with this girl and we were having those "deep talks" ye know and then she really ended up crying and it got so awkward :/// And if ur lesbian/bi/pan/queer go ahead and ask the girl out. One of u have to and she/they might be too shy to ask so just do it LMAO.

  • @infinitetimer27
    @infinitetimer27 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:00
    He ask me on a date and he said I could pick the place. I pick Applebees because their is nothing else I could think of. 😅 may I add, this is the first time we both have ever dated so.

  • @harshithasuresh130
    @harshithasuresh130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey nimishaa... We need more dating advices from youuuuu😭😭😭😭

  • @kmpwick
    @kmpwick ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you nimehsa, you are our Queen ❤

  • @lakshmipriyam9600
    @lakshmipriyam9600 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I liked your long hair version ❤️ than that before 2 years... It really suits u sis😍

  • @anjalipaswan6409
    @anjalipaswan6409 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    More videos like this please 🥺👉👈❤️

  • @KomalSingh-bi9fd
    @KomalSingh-bi9fd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey nimesha...
    Please tell me which hair colour you applied please please tell me the shade name ???

  • @Aradhyagurjar865
    @Aradhyagurjar865 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Nimesha you r my favorite😍💕 one

  • @RezaRahimzadeh-kx2db
    @RezaRahimzadeh-kx2db 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said, but girl has to be honest and tell the true if asked

  • @Karinalakhia
    @Karinalakhia ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nimesha you helped me moving on from my ex thank you so much

    • @zuuzuumahad3118
      @zuuzuumahad3118 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm late but happy for u❤

  • @fathima5774
    @fathima5774 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank u nimesha ♥️

  • @user-rz7tt8ue8v
    @user-rz7tt8ue8v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I m seriously in love with ur thoughts ❤

  • @Richgirlshana305
    @Richgirlshana305 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yess ma’am

  • @thelioness5840
    @thelioness5840 ปีที่แล้ว

    This suggestions definately helps me in future.
    But I like the sound you make " Don't do that" ❣️

  • @thesaltypineapple7663
    @thesaltypineapple7663 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I totally agree with being feminine and having the guy ask you out, which is what I would have wanted but the guy I’m into is kind of a wimp so I had to casually ask him out

  • @LegalBird369
    @LegalBird369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ❤️😊

  • @o046
    @o046 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nim your voice just calm us sis

  • @nabamitaghosh1134
    @nabamitaghosh1134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤love you nimesha !!!! Your woman arge is 🎉🎉🎉amazing

  • @lovelyvats6926
    @lovelyvats6926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much nimeshaa sis love you ❤️😘😘

  • @putul243
    @putul243 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked the vibe you give every time..

  • @bluebellbeatnik4945
    @bluebellbeatnik4945 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    would you wear the outfit you're wearing now on a first date?

  • @celestyclarke6748
    @celestyclarke6748 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz share a vid on kinds of hair treatments

  • @achumonish7968
    @achumonish7968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love this kind of topics and I'm waiting for ur apartment tour for a sooooo looooongggg..pls upload it..

  • @Namiha-
    @Namiha- ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep shining babe❤️😘😘

  • @kavikavita6801
    @kavikavita6801 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you dr... It helps me

  • @yashikagulati2316
    @yashikagulati2316 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved this video

  • @MonuGupta-li4fp
    @MonuGupta-li4fp ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you tell me foundation shade in your skin color

  • @carmenamy123
    @carmenamy123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nah, either person could ask first, it takes courage to make a move on either side

  • @aiculture555
    @aiculture555 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU LOOK SOO SOO GORGEOUS MAN😍

  • @simarvishwakarma6193
    @simarvishwakarma6193 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ily gurllll❤ you're a good advisor

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this, I'm a guy who just went on a date with a guy for the first time, I was so nervous someone would catch us on date that I knew

  • @sheki611
    @sheki611 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do these tips personaly ..and yeah..those are true✋

  • @youtubedotkom6285
    @youtubedotkom6285 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:56 bestt🤣🤣🤣

  • @Harinik-ys7pw
    @Harinik-ys7pw ปีที่แล้ว

    i love nimeshas girl talkss

  • @aditirandhe2913
    @aditirandhe2913 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl has point

  • @deihnu8190
    @deihnu8190 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love your advice 😘😍

  • @mohibrashid1859
    @mohibrashid1859 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tip's thanks for sharing 👍

  • @reyrzreyrz8494
    @reyrzreyrz8494 ปีที่แล้ว

    What colour are you using?

  • @pmu_2723
    @pmu_2723 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thnkuuu Thnkuuu Thnkuuu nimeshaaaa❤️

  • @Hafsatunnesarekmuna
    @Hafsatunnesarekmuna 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm going on my first date at 1st November, I came to rewatch... It'll help me soo much😭

  • @dulakshanasrimal1717
    @dulakshanasrimal1717 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U become more and more beautiful day by day. Lots of love form Sri Lanka 💕😍😍

  • @unknown_too
    @unknown_too ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk I'm just getting obsessed with yo videos 😢❤

  • @shamriaquoreshi3298
    @shamriaquoreshi3298 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ahh why didn't you post this video one month ago. I went on a date with this guy and did everything the things that you forbade to do in this video. Lomg story short now he says he doesn't want to be with me. He says that he doesn't want to be romantically involved with me . He wants to be friends with good terms. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @vl180
    @vl180 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m going on my first date in 4 hours. Hope it goes well. Also, he asked me to meet him and I planned an ice cream date. Is that wrong?

  • @sukanyasadhana
    @sukanyasadhana 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for this 🥺🥺🥺

  • @pastelmoon2705
    @pastelmoon2705 ปีที่แล้ว

    QUEEN ENERGY>>>>>

  • @nadira1258
    @nadira1258 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG she is such a good person ❤❤❤❤

  • @shwetaghosh6193
    @shwetaghosh6193 ปีที่แล้ว

    Part 2 please??

  • @ip3931
    @ip3931 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God, I wish I could relate to the privileges of young women my age and younger like you! I don't even have afamily or friends never mind a date never mind a partner!
    You're so young and have achieved so much!
    I cannot relate at all!
    How on earth do you have it all!?

  • @__Onss__.
    @__Onss__. ปีที่แล้ว

    Pov : I have never gone on a date but I'm still here

  • @btsgalaxy6315
    @btsgalaxy6315 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Gurlll
    Me who's never been on a date
    But still watching it because of nimesha
    But thank you for all the tips
    U are really like my elder sis for me
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sutcheez3152
    @sutcheez3152 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look really beautiful

  • @shamriaquoreshi3298
    @shamriaquoreshi3298 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you please make self care videos? You used to post that sort of contents more. I loved watching those videos of yours.

  • @ashubrilliant3538
    @ashubrilliant3538 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Going on my first date in 30mints 😊

  • @deezzgurung588
    @deezzgurung588 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way you said "Split the bill" 🤣🤣🤣 OMG!!

  • @user-fs9zl5wh6b
    @user-fs9zl5wh6b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love u!!! I've failed most rules in past. But I'm listening now. Question: I am going on 1st date!!! He showed his interest via messenger ... I initiated the date. We have known each other for quite some time .We really do not know each other at all, ""acquaintances"". Am I screwed since recommending "not asking him out" is already gone????

  • @alecitacc
    @alecitacc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait please someone help, my first date is tomorrow. We have been talking for a week and he made a reservation for dinner tomorrow. He is picking me up from my house, he has shown interest and we have a good connection. We are meeting up for the first time tomorrow. He texts me everyday with good morning and good night, we have good communication and all, anyway my question is SHOULD WE KISS ON THE FIRST DATE

  • @Anna-zu9cq
    @Anna-zu9cq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On the first tip I already realized that I messed up. I asked him first cause he’s taking FOREVER to say something about meeting up, but he acts like my boyfriend over the Texts. What do I do ?

  • @lakshmibishukarma976
    @lakshmibishukarma976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My crush said yes to go on a date with me guys😢😢😢 if you have any do's and don'ts please let me know😚

  • @Namiha-
    @Namiha- ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lemme expose a Truth..... I'm eagerly waiting for your Video..... Btw happpy married life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

  • @romatailor1367
    @romatailor1367 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what if he travels 3 hours to come see you but doesn't know the area well, is it okay to guide him, he told me he was researching things to do but he couldn't find anything.

  • @gracesplace3449
    @gracesplace3449 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So pretty 😍
    Girl where were you before I made a fool of myself 100 thousand times before 😳

  • @prachigirass8691
    @prachigirass8691 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching it before going on 2nd date 😭

  • @chroniclesofice6563
    @chroniclesofice6563 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ur hair color name?

  • @echomridha4694
    @echomridha4694 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    6 November my exam will be start. And 4 novembers i am watching "tips for first date" 😂😂😂😂.Though its not for me but i love watching your video 😅😅😅😅😅😅.Wish me best of luck for my exam nimmy😘😘😘😘.

    • @dancewithme7435
      @dancewithme7435 ปีที่แล้ว

      all the best 😂

    • @canidiehuh741
      @canidiehuh741 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      6 November? A HSC examinee?

    • @canidiehuh741
      @canidiehuh741 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@l.e.m.o.n3499 in Bangladesh Sunday is not weekand it's working day lol

  • @autoshisen183
    @autoshisen183 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going on a date in 4 hours

  • @himasharasanji910
    @himasharasanji910 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Nim ❤️🤭

  • @samanthahussain4219
    @samanthahussain4219 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm going on my date today. First date everr. I'm so nervous. I like him alot. He asked out??? How the hell do that happened idk how he asked. I thought it was just me having feelings lol. But yea. In a few hours I'm going. So I'm here. Getting tips

  • @Rivaiye
    @Rivaiye ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Me literally on the first date: *sees him* "okay when do we want to marry and how many children do we want" 😭 why am I like this

  • @shelleykris30
    @shelleykris30 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being a female is just a gender my mom told me if you want them that bad if he makes you happy you should ask him it's your life you're choice don't listen to her it's your life if you don't mind to ask him do it women should have love in there future I never been asked in my life if I want to go on date so if you don't ask the guy may not know you care that much about him so it's your choice your life My crush asked me out first but you still have a choice us Women should find love like every body else if you want to Women be strong just go for it women work very very hard to find a lover and respect

  • @sashaenglish2755
    @sashaenglish2755 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your message ❤️ Let men be men. In a world where men feel they can't be men cause women are equal.. Bollocks.. We love men just the way they are and treating a woman like a princess and taking her/ asking her out and paying for the date is a good thing not a bad thing.