Notes: 1. Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. 2. Do not give him gf or wife privileges 3.Do not complain(don't give a shit) 4. Do not prioritize him 5. Do not talk about him to other people.
I talk about him to other ppl and I just started like checking in on him more in a way bc I want him to know I care lmao. I wouldn’t call it prioritizing but it could lead up to it in the future. I think nothings wrong with showing you’re serious about that person but hey I guess that ain’t cool these days.
"Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. " - horrible advice to be stuck in situationship or FWB. We as a man don't give a f... If you don't play "relation" card we will see and date other girls.
As a male watching this I am a little bit confused….Some advice are very good : like first and last one; but you have to be very careful when you use them. The dating life for me is basically trying to do things that attract women: dress good, having a grooming and skin care routine, workout but also trying to showing intent, be funny, make her feel safe around us. And for women it basically go like this: 4:35, don’t over do it. You need to understand that mans are considerate valuable when they do a lot of things and they are very good at it, imagine having a boyfriend with a jacked body, with a solid job, that can cook, play and instrument, speak more than two languages, he has his own house, car and he keeps studying to be more acculturated and also he understands you, makes you feel safe and good with him…sounds cool right? So how you can have a man like this if you keep showing him that you don’t care or pretending you don’t care? Say no when he is trying to take you in his life (going out with his friends, ecc) or never try to meet his schedule….you are dating him, so you are interested, be genuine and show it; man like teasing, maybe two or three times, I have a lot of things to do and I am not gonna waste my time on a woman that likes to play with my time and life, I am already reserving her time so girls don’t play hard to get, he his going to disappear in one moth or less, and don’t think he does it because for him you were a girl to kiss or more for one night, he leaves you because you played hard to get. Guys will chase you that much only if you are his only thing going on in his life, and I think that is a bad thing. We like balance, we like chasing you but if you like him back show it, male are more insecure than you think and becoming confident and also valuable takes time, a lot of time, we are not going to spend it on a girl that shows no interest in us.
She is giving advices to girls that are not in relationship because girls overthink so much and assume so much things that aren't even real and when the reality hits or the treatment from the other person is not what they thought would be then they get hurt and that's why these advices are needed and these are not for the girls that are in a relationship for long time or atleast more than a month
By that she means if you really want to know who really wants to get serious with you because there are so many guys out there telling you that they wanna get in relationship with you and they are not even serious about that relationship it's just a time pass for them it's pretty normal so one should be cautious to not get hurt and by chasing she didn't mean to become hard to get even when the guy is damn serious, giving importance and time and etc
@@laibamubeenali7350 as I said in my comment: the first one and the last advices are very good, I tryed to explain that you can't abuse with them, this is a video that can be very miss-interpretate in my opinion.
I’m 34 year old over here. I wish I had someone like you to advice me when I was young. What a clever big sister you are ❤. Such a sweet personality. And I’m addicted to your videos. Never ever let anyone to dull your light.
So many of these things are not going to get you women nowhere. She acts like she understands the male mindset. And if 4:34 wasn’t a red flag about what her mindset is like.. idk what is.. ladies seriously don’t take advice from the internet.
i dont want to brag or anything, but hear me out, not giving a shit is the main reason i have many admirers- they literally start thinking that they don't have any effect on you, and when that happens they try harder to get your attention and care back, and that's not playing hard to get or anything, its just like she said being mysterious and ignorant (not so much like, just be normal) so that they dont get any clues or hints on you having a crush on them, act like how you are with every other guy, normal and just go with the flow♥
Do you think this will work after you show them you care? Like ive been talking to this guy an you're absolutely right that when we don't care they care a lot but I do have strong feelings for him but I never showed it. But recently we had a huge issue , and we stopped contacting each other, although he tried to contact me initially I didn't really respond well and I finally reached out to him after 5 days (because I didn't wanna lose him) and after that I felt that he's not really putting as much effort as he used to and this is deiving me crazy and i tried putting effort. Because I appeared so damn desperate and I feel embarrassed now. So I don't know if it's possible to get back if I pull away or stop reaching out.
Omg Nimesha this is such an eye opener and i'm definitely gonna make sure i take care of these things in my next talking stage cus i've f'ed up pretty bad in my past ones. Love youuuu!!!💗
I would more than love having a best friend like Nimeshaa She is so motivating ... so mature...so beautiful ... YOU GO GURL!!!!! I love you PERIODT!!!💜
Let me tell you something, men don’t want to play any fucking games or manipulative mind tricks, we just want an equal and healthy relationship in which both partners love and respect eachother. All of us need to be more straightforward and direct with eachother and express what we want, don’t like or are going to do in my humble opinion ofcourse
She's the older sister we need❤️. People do address me as an independent and intelligent woman in world, books, academics, work but m an immature, inexperienced child when come to people, society, relationship, friends so this is my first step learning these things
Bruh my ex once literally told be they were "TRYING TO LOVE ME" like bro Y TF DO U NEED TO TRY?!?! LOVING ME IS NOT HARD. I was 17 back then and I remember being heartbroken but I cut off all ties with them. Always remember ur worth. Nobody should have to try to love u. If they have to try they are NOT THE ONE!!!! LEAVE!!!
I swear this is it. I did this I completely ignored this person who was once my priority .. We used to talk daily and me literally used to press on the fact that we keep up conversation . But then I got tired and just stopped. Now he is the first person to watch all my updates within a minute everywhere on socials doesn't matter if it's important or not for him. Yes she is really speaking truth
Yes! They always start to care when we stop! Happened with my plans yesterday with this guy I’ve been seeing. He didn’t take our plans seriously up until I went and found other plans. Ain’t no body have time for all this
So will it work if we stop reaching out? I just wanted some advise 😭 I did a big mistake of reaching out to him when he didn't. And now I feel he's taking me for granted. He's not putting the same effort he used to ever since I put the effort.
As a guy this is true this just make you seem easy even if you ain’t you’re gonna end up getting your feelings hurt by how he’s gonna react to your behaviors
i'm seriously in a talking stage😂and istg as I consider you as my sisterrr i have the same mindset like you do😂♥and thankyou once again for guiding us so well💌
can I pls take a moment to appreciate on how freaking gorgeous she looks :( It makes me wanna look at her for hours... and this video was very very helpful, thankyou sm love
Thissss. Omg this video is such a life savour. For someone like me who’s grown up in desi household and is fucking naive and did all of the opposites OUR BB told us. GURLS LEMME TELL YOU IM A DIFF PERSON AFTER WATCHING THIS!
You lost me at "he needs to ask you to be his girlfriend". ...The sooner women leave this state of mind, the sooner they'll finally achieve Equal Pay and Equal Treatment. Understand tje difference between bein treated like Princesses and being treated with Respect.
Hey gurl....we need a Q n A video about the whole story that how your wedding gone ....the new life with hubby....your new hair ...... everything ..... please make a Q n A video ....by the way you look so beautiful 😍😍😍💝💝💝💝
Is this really happening🙄🙄 Nimesha, you wouldn't believe what am gonna say. I again manifested your video to see whether the thing is really happening. Is this just a coincidence or my wish is really getting manifested🙀🙀
This video provides great advice for women looking to start a serious relationship. It covers five key things to avoid before dating, and is definitely worth watching.
I went out with this guy 3 times and already on the second date he wanted to change our plans (even though he was the one to propose to go out). And for no good reason! He just wanted to attend an extra dance class out of the blue🥴 I told him that if it's really important he can go but we will have to reschedule for next week as I had other plans the upcoming days. He admitted openly that it wasn't that important and since I'm not available the upcoming days, he didn't wanna wait for a week. I made it clear that it's not nice to bail when you have plans with someone if there's no urgency. Eventually he called me mean and strict for setting boundaries instead of going with the flow😅He insinuated that I nagged😅 So my question is, did I really nag?! I just explained I don't like it when people change plans. In overall I never complained that he took forever to text back (up to 24 hours!), never pressured him into anything and gave him space to pursue me at his own pace. (Well, at the end I got tired of him flaking out, so I ended things)
lol i broke the dont talk about him rule. it made people think we were a thing. It ended up hurting his dating life. uggghh no wonder he doesnt want to talk to me anymore.
OMG Nimeshaa!!!! girl, you are really looking gorgeous. You are gorgeous already, but trust me you are looking way more gorgeous than before. Honestly, I could not get my eyes off you 😍♥️♥️
Why did I see this after the fact I just did most of these 😭😭
after seeing all these type of vid now i wanna js go on n ghost him 😔
Right
You gave him money too 😭😂
FOR REAL 😭😭
the universe knew you weren’t going to listen, had to put salt on the wound to make you remember for next time with this video 😂
Notes:
1. Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend.
2. Do not give him gf or wife privileges
3.Do not complain(don't give a shit)
4. Do not prioritize him
5. Do not talk about him to other people.
Thank you for this ❤
I talk about him to other ppl and I just started like checking in on him more in a way bc I want him to know I care lmao. I wouldn’t call it prioritizing but it could lead up to it in the future. I think nothings wrong with showing you’re serious about that person but hey I guess that ain’t cool these days.
as a man:
1. Seems about right
2. Yep
3. You should give a shit, but not too much of a shit
4. Yes
5. Depends
"Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. " - horrible advice to be stuck in situationship or FWB.
We as a man don't give a f... If you don't play "relation" card we will see and date other girls.
Fax@@Chrzysztof
Hats off to her mindset, found something real and bold in this fake world🌟✨
That’s toxic what are you talking about
@@Obaid90 lmao
As a male watching this I am a little bit confused….Some advice are very good : like first and last one; but you have to be very careful when you use them. The dating life for me is basically trying to do things that attract women: dress good, having a grooming and skin care routine, workout but also trying to showing intent, be funny, make her feel safe around us. And for women it basically go like this: 4:35, don’t over do it. You need to understand that mans are considerate valuable when they do a lot of things and they are very good at it, imagine having a boyfriend with a jacked body, with a solid job, that can cook, play and instrument, speak more than two languages, he has his own house, car and he keeps studying to be more acculturated and also he understands you, makes you feel safe and good with him…sounds cool right? So how you can have a man like this if you keep showing him that you don’t care or pretending you don’t care? Say no when he is trying to take you in his life (going out with his friends, ecc) or never try to meet his schedule….you are dating him, so you are interested, be genuine and show it; man like teasing, maybe two or three times, I have a lot of things to do and I am not gonna waste my time on a woman that likes to play with my time and life, I am already reserving her time so girls don’t play hard to get, he his going to disappear in one moth or less, and don’t think he does it because for him you were a girl to kiss or more for one night, he leaves you because you played hard to get. Guys will chase you that much only if you are his only thing going on in his life, and I think that is a bad thing. We like balance, we like chasing you but if you like him back show it, male are more insecure than you think and becoming confident and also valuable takes time, a lot of time, we are not going to spend it on a girl that shows no interest in us.
She is giving advices to girls that are not in relationship because girls overthink so much and assume so much things that aren't even real and when the reality hits or the treatment from the other person is not what they thought would be then they get hurt and that's why these advices are needed and these are not for the girls that are in a relationship for long time or atleast more than a month
@@laibamubeenali7350 yeah but she said if you want a real relationship, one month or only dating is not a real relationship....
By that she means if you really want to know who really wants to get serious with you because there are so many guys out there telling you that they wanna get in relationship with you and they are not even serious about that relationship it's just a time pass for them it's pretty normal so one should be cautious to not get hurt and by chasing she didn't mean to become hard to get even when the guy is damn serious, giving importance and time and etc
That would really be stupidity to become hard to get when someone is really making time for you making efforts for you.
@@laibamubeenali7350 as I said in my comment: the first one and the last advices are very good, I tryed to explain that you can't abuse with them, this is a video that can be very miss-interpretate in my opinion.
It's my first time being in the 'talking' stage so I needed this thanks😭
" It's easy to move on than trying fix a situation you no control over"
I’m 34 year old over here. I wish I had someone like you to advice me when I was young. What a clever big sister you are ❤. Such a sweet personality. And I’m addicted to your videos. Never ever let anyone to dull your light.
"I couldn't care less about what they like or don't like" gurrrlllll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥
Omg the advice on not complaining is top tier! ♡ thank you girl!
This is so helpful and its like sharing tips with our girl besties. Thanks for sharing Nimesha! You slayyy queen ✨✨
So many of these things are not going to get you women nowhere. She acts like she understands the male mindset. And if 4:34 wasn’t a red flag about what her mindset is like.. idk what is.. ladies seriously don’t take advice from the internet.
these gonna change my life from now on!!!! you’re the real queen 🤍 thank you sm
Mine to. Power to us💪
What’s funny is male dating coaches say the EXACT same thing, so we’ll just never get anywhere 😂
That’s why you don’t follow those coaches
i dont want to brag or anything, but hear me out,
not giving a shit is the main reason i have many admirers-
they literally start thinking that they don't have any effect on you, and when that happens they try harder to get your attention and care back, and that's not playing hard to get or anything,
its just like she said being mysterious and ignorant (not so much like, just be normal) so that they dont get any clues or hints on you having a crush on them, act like how you are with every other guy, normal and just go with the flow♥
Do you think this will work after you show them you care? Like ive been talking to this guy an you're absolutely right that when we don't care they care a lot but I do have strong feelings for him but I never showed it. But recently we had a huge issue , and we stopped contacting each other, although he tried to contact me initially I didn't really respond well and I finally reached out to him after 5 days (because I didn't wanna lose him) and after that I felt that he's not really putting as much effort as he used to and this is deiving me crazy and i tried putting effort. Because I appeared so damn desperate and I feel embarrassed now. So I don't know if it's possible to get back if I pull away or stop reaching out.
Omg Nimesha this is such an eye opener and i'm definitely gonna make sure i take care of these things in my next talking stage cus i've f'ed up pretty bad in my past ones. Love youuuu!!!💗
I would more than love having a best friend like Nimeshaa
She is so motivating ... so mature...so beautiful ... YOU GO GURL!!!!!
I love you PERIODT!!!💜
You are an amazing 😍
Same!!! 💖💖
@@pratimabudhathoki6487 Gurl you too💜💜
@@kyra2009k ikr!!!😩✨
Your usernames are soo simmilar 😭😭
Nimesha with long hair just wow 🥰☁️
Omg I'm in the talking stage and i needed this so much !! Much love ❤️
Let me tell you something, men don’t want to play any fucking games or manipulative mind tricks, we just want an equal and healthy relationship in which both partners love and respect eachother. All of us need to be more straightforward and direct with eachother and express what we want, don’t like or are going to do in my humble opinion ofcourse
Although I must agree with you on the fact that you shouldn’t be making out if you guys haven’t determined what your relationship is
She's the older sister we need❤️. People do address me as an independent and intelligent woman in world, books, academics, work but m an immature, inexperienced child when come to people, society, relationship, friends so this is my first step learning these things
Bruh my ex once literally told be they were "TRYING TO LOVE ME" like bro Y TF DO U NEED TO TRY?!?! LOVING ME IS NOT HARD. I was 17 back then and I remember being heartbroken but I cut off all ties with them. Always remember ur worth. Nobody should have to try to love u. If they have to try they are NOT THE ONE!!!! LEAVE!!!
Omg why isn't anyone talking about how pretty this grl is !?
Because she's a woman, not a girl. Plus, we're listening to her words. Listen up dude, she's talking.
Need sooo many more girl talks like these🥺❤️
I swear this is it. I did this I completely ignored this person who was once my priority .. We used to talk daily and me literally used to press on the fact that we keep up conversation . But then I got tired and just stopped. Now he is the first person to watch all my updates within a minute everywhere on socials doesn't matter if it's important or not for him. Yes she is really speaking truth
Yes! They always start to care when we stop! Happened with my plans yesterday with this guy I’ve been seeing. He didn’t take our plans seriously up until I went and found other plans. Ain’t no body have time for all this
So will it work if we stop reaching out? I just wanted some advise 😭 I did a big mistake of reaching out to him when he didn't. And now I feel he's taking me for granted. He's not putting the same effort he used to ever since I put the effort.
I literally did each and everyone of these things in our 4 MONTHS TALKING STAGE🤡🤡🤡and then he said he's not emotionally ready for a relationship
nimeshaa with long hair>>>>😩🙇♀️💫💜
As a guy this is true this just make you seem easy even if you ain’t you’re gonna end up getting your feelings hurt by how he’s gonna react to your behaviors
i'm seriously in a talking stage😂and istg as I consider you as my sisterrr i have the same mindset like you do😂♥and thankyou once again for guiding us so well💌
You are more than an elder sister to me
This girl talk is very helping want more like these.
considering that I only attract talking stages this is so usefulll THANK YOU
She gathered my soul with the first 3 I been doing this the wrong way...time to unlearn some things.
Hlww nimeshaa ..... Pls talk about your wedding, new life,and as a married person how are you doing??? Please we are waiting for this....
IDK if anyone feels this, there's something really attractive about her 😲
You're getting prettier everyday💕
Your video pops up right when I need it the most and coincidentally on the topic that I need the most. Loved it!! More power to you.❤️
OMG Nimesha your eyes are so gorgeous 🥺❤️
That newly married beauty 😍
can I pls take a moment to appreciate on how freaking gorgeous she looks :( It makes me wanna look at her for hours... and this video was very very helpful, thankyou sm love
Woah look at your glow up after marriage
You were so pretty but now you are glowing
You look so beautiful after marriage like that snack wifey goals
You're the best big sister anybody could ever ask for!❤️
Girl has a different look now😍
Gurlllllllll u soooo pretty
U get prettier every video
ur looking so gorgeous in this video , i could watch you all day
Omgg you look sooo pretty!! The glowwww😍😍😍😍😍😍
you 're the big sis everyone wants in their loving ❤️
Ok so after marriage u really look mature n gorgeous.. Long hair sits really well on u
Nimesha your makeup was on point loved it......❤🧿🧿🧿🧿❤
Nimesha ur a life saver girl ♥️ I needed this topic so much n got the advices .thnks love
I agree no manipulation here. It’s excellent advice (sometimes we need to hear) for a potential successful relationship. Just liked & subscribed.
Legit advice. Seriously amazing 👌
Nimeshaa I’ve never met u but ur officially my bestie, older sister and guardian angel 👼 😭🫶
Her mindset is so good yaar
Thissss. Omg this video is such a life savour. For someone like me who’s grown up in desi household and is fucking naive and did all of the opposites OUR BB told us. GURLS LEMME TELL YOU IM A DIFF PERSON AFTER WATCHING THIS!
You lost me at "he needs to ask you to be his girlfriend".
...The sooner women leave this state of mind, the sooner they'll finally achieve Equal Pay and Equal Treatment.
Understand tje difference between bein treated like Princesses and being treated with Respect.
You look kinda different in this video. It's a good different. I mean you are looking sooo beautiful, pretty. I cant take my eyes of you girl🙈
Can we appreciate how beautiful shes looking😍 Half through the video i just kept looking at her 💕
omg you should've posted this 2 yrs ago😭 then I wouldn't have messed up my first relationship 🥲
sʜᴇ ɪs ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ɢᴏʀɢᴇᴏᴜs ᴀɴᴅ ʙᴇᴀᴜᴛɪғᴜʟ ᴅᴀʏ ʙʏ ᴅᴀʏ💖👑
Okiieee she raised the bar again😂😂💀 boys we girls get matured now !!! Btw love you nimesha sm🥰🥰
We want your weeding vlog please girl❤
My gooooodddd she's looking sooooo pretty 😍 💕 glowwingggggg and these long hair💯💯💯💯💫
Hey gurl....we need a Q n A video about the whole story that how your wedding gone ....the new life with hubby....your new hair ...... everything ..... please make a Q n A video ....by the way you look so beautiful 😍😍😍💝💝💝💝
nimmm whatttt?! youre looking soooo pretty in this video. that glowww>>>😍
you are freaking glowingggggg girllllllllllllll
Is this really happening🙄🙄 Nimesha, you wouldn't believe what am gonna say. I again manifested your video to see whether the thing is really happening. Is this just a coincidence or my wish is really getting manifested🙀🙀
Which one plz share the link
I always would think that she hasn't posted in a while n BAM he posts!
i was admiring her beauty in this whole video ,she is so GORGEOUS!!🥰😍☺
you're the big sis everyone wants in their lives...💖
5:25 i loved her expressions ❤😂
O la la 🔥
Makeup looks so good on you girl ♥️
This video provides great advice for women looking to start a serious relationship. It covers five key things to avoid before dating, and is definitely worth watching.
Why is not anyone talking about how beautiful she is looking 😍
Your long hair soo beautiful sis ❤
I went out with this guy 3 times and already on the second date he wanted to change our plans (even though he was the one to propose to go out). And for no good reason! He just wanted to attend an extra dance class out of the blue🥴 I told him that if it's really important he can go but we will have to reschedule for next week as I had other plans the upcoming days. He admitted openly that it wasn't that important and since I'm not available the upcoming days, he didn't wanna wait for a week. I made it clear that it's not nice to bail when you have plans with someone if there's no urgency. Eventually he called me mean and strict for setting boundaries instead of going with the flow😅He insinuated that I nagged😅 So my question is, did I really nag?! I just explained I don't like it when people change plans. In overall I never complained that he took forever to text back (up to 24 hours!), never pressured him into anything and gave him space to pursue me at his own pace. (Well, at the end I got tired of him flaking out, so I ended things)
OMG NIMESHAAAA...I love you gurl 💖
this is so helpful nimesha....you are an eye opener thankyou so much❤❤
Really needed to see this video.. btw girl you are so beautiful
Glow up brighter than the sun, the hair looks amazing on u plus d makeup too
Long hair suits you very well. Looking gorgeous and stunning 😍😍
Do a day in your life plzzzz sis💜🦋
You are looking so beautiful ❤️ and your videos are always amazing ✨✨
Omg i love this kind of videos!! i love the way you see things. you're so right. more videos like this plss💞💞😜
Thanks big sis.
I’m new to the dating scene but he already thinks I’m too into him. 🤮
Expecting a part 2 of this 🤗
I'm so glad I watched this a week after meeting him!!
I broke all of these rules. I’m so ashamed.
lol i broke the dont talk about him rule. it made people think we were a thing. It ended up hurting his dating life. uggghh no wonder he doesnt want to talk to me anymore.
Thank you soo much Nimeshaaa!!! Btw you look soo pretty 😍❤
Seems like you have spyed, i needed this video very much now🥺
This video is much needed 🤧🤍 thank u nimeeshaaa
OMG Nimeshaa!!!! girl, you are really looking gorgeous. You are gorgeous already, but trust me you are looking way more gorgeous than before. Honestly, I could not get my eyes off you 😍♥️♥️
You look soo pretty today ❤️✨
Love from 🇱🇰
I love this advice 😍, I totally just subscribed ♥
Gurl you're glowinggg😭❣♥
As ariana grande said 'I ain't ur gf' wait to be asked. If he hasn't asked u in a few months then honestly end it nicely
Youuu looook damn pretty with long hair 💞❤️ do continue it
girl you look so beautiful I can't stop seeing you through the whole vedio and the audio is just running in the back you're looking just gorgeous 🥰😍
Nimeshaa seriously u help a lot🖤..... Need more advices ❤️
This is all cap, men hate chasing women. It’s a huge waste of time and effort that can be better spent.
Okay but you look soooo beautiful in this vid!!!😭😭❤️ You’re literally glowing!❤️💅🏻
You look so beautiful nimeshaa❤️ and thank you for the suggestions