the REAL reason I stopped making music (the truth about the industry) STORYTIME

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  • @simplynessa15
    @simplynessa15  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

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  • @maddiejane3751
    @maddiejane3751 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    NOT THE SHAKE IT UP GUY LMFAOOO

  • @tnyamusic4769
    @tnyamusic4769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I love your song obsessed and meditate. You should seriously just get your own little set up at home with a microphone,mixer and computer with editing equipment on it and record your own music at home. Don’t let those demons stop your gift.

    • @angelshooters444
      @angelshooters444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Those two are my faves, too!!

  • @alegnaroviya8856
    @alegnaroviya8856 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    I remember being like 14 and being so excited to make lyric videos for your songs, but then you just stopped ;(
    I've always wondered why

    • @simplynessa15
      @simplynessa15  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      😩💓 aweeee

  • @Lena-ds2oh
    @Lena-ds2oh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Girl if you ever get back into
    Music, trust id support because I still play ur music. It’s sad that the world we live in, it’s sad that u don’t feel okay to even share your beautiful God given gift. It’s so sad, definitely have to protect your heart from all this. Definitely doing it on your own is a good alternative for sure!!! It’s on your own time and you can even have raw vocals and send them to ppl to have edited.

  • @TM-je5es
    @TM-je5es 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    The fact that you spent your own money just to make music and these sick freaks still pushed up on you and invaded your personal space……the nerve. The audacity. The disrespect. The industry is so gross.

    • @Acebooya
      @Acebooya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's her fault for letting it slide she never put her foot down fucking annoying your supposed to tell people how your feeling nouone knows how your feeling in your head

    • @Acebooya
      @Acebooya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like she said as an adult if you don't like something tell them and it still looks like she can't put her foot down even after kids so easy

  • @matthaughton
    @matthaughton 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    the og jhene intro music brings me back to those DAYSSSSSS omg

  • @ivyneblanca
    @ivyneblanca 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    i was so obsessed with your music, so i was waiting for this story for so long, so thanks for sharing nessa! I got into producing not too long ago and i totally think you should look into it!

  • @cuppav2806
    @cuppav2806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Unfortunately the entertainment industry remains rotten to it's core. Hope you find the right person to produce for you because you're amazing and we love to support you

  • @nichellem5400
    @nichellem5400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I LITERALLY was just thinking about your music. To this day I still listen to Meditate on repeat. You’re amazing and will go far no matter which avenue you take. ❤ Sending love from NY. 🥰🙌🏽

  • @TynearadaVinci
    @TynearadaVinci 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I understand sis this is why I started recording myself. Sexual harassment in the workplace is a thing but nothing to protect ARTISTS!! You are brave for speaking on it boo!!!

  • @avi-rai7873
    @avi-rai7873 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    hate how men with a little bit of power or status ruin shit 😔 we can’t have anything 😡

  • @truthfullytiggy5860
    @truthfullytiggy5860 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I used to play the saxophone in middle school, and I literally self-taught myself how to play Meditate….so yeah I definitely was one of the people wondering where the music was 💀, but I also think prioritizing your peace is more important and I can’t fault you for doing that after hearing the full story!
    I definitely think if music is still something you’d want to pursue, that maybe you should learn more about how to produce everything on your own so you don’t need to answer to anybody who’s acting weird.

  • @sar7202
    @sar7202 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    NESSA!!!!!!! thank youuuuu i literally listen to meditate every day not bull shit girllll. it’s in my favorites playlist😭 much love baby🫶🏻

  • @hislonelystar
    @hislonelystar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i still listen to Meditate till this day. it never gets old.

  • @mrs.graham
    @mrs.graham 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    One of my podcasts mentioned you the other day and all your Hollywood stories I was like okay den they even said “messy nessy” haven’t heard that in years 😂

  • @JaniceIcheYT
    @JaniceIcheYT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Girl, me too. Started producing my own music, I almost lost my life cause of all the abuse in the industry. Making my own music is the only way I've been able to keep being in the industry,

    • @nicestar2198
      @nicestar2198 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      tell me what happened

    • @JaniceIcheYT
      @JaniceIcheYT 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@nicestar2198 sexual abuse babe - rape and a whole lot of enablers trying to be quiet about everything

  • @crims0nchin
    @crims0nchin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    THANK YOU FOR ALL THE UPLOADS I REALLY APPRECIATE THE CONTENT LOVE U SO MUCH LOVE THE STORY TIMES BESTIEEE

  • @gemmaneri2834
    @gemmaneri2834 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Produce your own stuff, you have talent, and I love you and your music

  • @Its_tiy
    @Its_tiy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl the sound of rain in the background is soothing me so much on top of the storytime like everything I needed rn lol 🤍

  • @shadem376
    @shadem376 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The old theme song making a come back🥺❤️"cause everything is okay right here"

  • @Lookinassmalcolm
    @Lookinassmalcolm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Omg to this day I listen to “ meditate” every single day, it’s in all my most played playlist. It helped me get through a really dark time and I was in such a toxic relationship and situation but I would listen to this song while I’m smoking and it just gave me peace that I was coping in a normal way. Hands down one of my favorites. That “ smoke this blunt to help me breathe , liquor got me feeling ways, whatever puts my heart at ease “ . I guess I discovered that song at the right time but I’ve always wanted to tell you the impact that the song still has on me today. I always wandered why you didn’t go full force so I appreciate this video of you just being real . I’ve also put almost everybody in close to on the song lol ❤

  • @MissJhane
    @MissJhane 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You are one of the few who speak up about it. Women should feel SAFE when going to a studio. Happened to me too, makes you don't want to be in a studio at all, I WISH there were more exposure back then of what can happen when going to a studio or pursuing the entertainment industry. Thank you for sharing your story

  • @lolok6338
    @lolok6338 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!!

  • @Meg_andmogg
    @Meg_andmogg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I still loveee your music and honestly you helped me get through a break up after 7 years ❤❤

  • @amysocool7
    @amysocool7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    im so sorry this happened to you literally when i was younger i tried posting myself online and i remember this dude that owned a studio said he wanted me to work with him, but it scared me and plus i was extremely green as grass and grew up sheltered like i didn't know how to flirt at all and i just got the most weirdest vibes from him and then i said i want to bring my older brother and i got completely ghosted....and i had so many other weird incidences trying to become a model and singer just like Whitney Houston

  • @LeonardAlexander
    @LeonardAlexander 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    omg the intro 🥹 it brings me back to 2015 cuz i’m an og. nessa i’m so sorry about ur awful experiences in the industry :( if you ever come back do it on your terms and in a safe comfortable way! i can’t believe it’s been over 5 years since meditate. i had the music video in my rotation for months you ate that up

  • @muaabukar5827
    @muaabukar5827 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    sis be independent we wills support you are so talented, FL studio is a great engine to use if producing yourself!

  • @nevayagrace6334
    @nevayagrace6334 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ALSO GIRL UR HAIR LOOKS BOMB!! YOU SHOULD DO ANOTHER HAIR JOURNEY VIDEO ! :)

  • @jewelzofthasea
    @jewelzofthasea 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I literally have your song Bet! Running through my playlist all the time! I love your music Nessa! 💕💕💕

  • @greeenishblue
    @greeenishblue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You laugh at ‘my boy’ but girl you ate it up, i remember rewatching too and making me want to practice 😂

  • @peeyyyyton
    @peeyyyyton 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    SO EXCITED FOR TODAYS FT CALL

  • @ElizaBrownSugar
    @ElizaBrownSugar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Everything that you have been saying about the industry, I know to be true So I completely understand the need to pull back from it all. However, I hope you find your way back to the music. Not the industry, but just the music, as an Independent artist. Because your voice is Amazing and should be shared with the world. I personally really liked the vocals at the 17:40 mark. Theres a classic vibe type of element to it. Don't give up on the dream...just make your own path to reach it. Your terms, Your own way. Dont' give up on your dream. Just do it your way.✨

  • @rinlashea1414
    @rinlashea1414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m glad you were able to get out of that situation that’s so scary!!!

  • @ThePuca
    @ThePuca 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    ey mama, I have my own studio set up at home. Get yourself a condenser mic, a pop filter, an XLR cable, mic stand, an audio interface, external hard drive, and a computer. You can simply start with garage band and work your way up to any audio engineering program. Doesn't matter what program you use, just learn how to master your tracks because that's where it counts. Don't over edit your vocals, try to limit your effects from little to none and it will sound great. You can create a booth by wrapping a sheet around your mic in a square from the celling, (big enough to stand in), to cancel out the noise around you. OR record inside your closet, which most people do to get the cleanest sound. Then, all you have to do is purchase beats from producers online.

  • @erinmctague7188
    @erinmctague7188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I still listen to your songs and I still enjoy them so much. Do whatever you feel is right for you no matter what we will support you.

  • @kailamaree4402
    @kailamaree4402 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im always finding your videos right after i roll up😂 thank you for all the vids lately💛

  • @sikejae
    @sikejae 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You had so much potential and I always thought that!

    • @sikejae
      @sikejae 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I still randomly sing the chorus to obsessed all the time, it’s one of my favs 😂🥲

  • @kileylandis6204
    @kileylandis6204 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    i totally think your music could blow UP. i don’t think you should stop trying to find a reliable producer to help you with your music. you have an amazing voice and you have HELLA potential. ❤

  • @abieatsyou
    @abieatsyou 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i have the hugest dream to create music for myself and others to feel and relate to on deeper levels than just entertainment and jamming, but damn i just started watching your videos and hearing all these terrible stories about all these terrible people in the places that i would love to be in the most breaks my heart. i’m 17 years old and i’ve been sheltered most of my life, so i always pictured LA and studios and everything about the entertainment industry as exciting and soul freeing but seeing your reality opens my eyes and makes me grow up a little bit and realize i don’t wanna be put in those conditions. i’m not saying that my dream is completely crushed, but it sure has gotten a bit of reality to it. thank you for spreading awareness and you are so brave with all of your stories and the danger that you could possibly be in for talking about this stuff. you are a girls soldier 🤍 much love

  • @CapitalCH
    @CapitalCH 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Social Suicide is still one of my most played songs ever. the creepy producer story reminds me of that old married producer guy that was making out with Lia Marie Johnson in the studio when she was strung out.

  • @BlazedandCornfuzed
    @BlazedandCornfuzed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    U have the following to write and make music YOURSELF! Independent labels and music is the new wave. U have the resources and followers and I would love if you made more music. ❤

  • @TaiandLai123
    @TaiandLai123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The intro 🥺 brings me so much joy

  • @ryanadams7485
    @ryanadams7485 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I still listen to your music DAILY. Love you down!

  • @Priscillababyie
    @Priscillababyie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bc of thisss I gottt my mdhair products !!! Excited to fr tryyy I even started hair skin and nails 😩😩

  • @Natasha_-_
    @Natasha_-_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    0:01 I've truly wondered because I fw your music "bet" and "meditate" I have them on my playlist and listen to them from time to time still ❤❤❤

  • @nicemmmm
    @nicemmmm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have such an angelic voice❤️🎶 i hope one day you find the right person to help u make some more music, love u queen

  • @sebastianmartinez5500
    @sebastianmartinez5500 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nessa, whatever u do don’t stop. Don’t EVER stop bein yourself ilyyyy❤

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ayo why was ROSHON FEGAN there asdkjjlakcsj my childhood crush girl 😭

  • @sarahdanielle12
    @sarahdanielle12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i hope one day you could possibly try to get back into it! 💗💗 you deserve to live out your dream no matter what 🫶🏽🥰

  • @katt3001
    @katt3001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was literally just listening to Meditate by you. I love your music!!

  • @tyara.collins
    @tyara.collins 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl a lot of those people are weird and want people to do weird things for some change. I pray you can get back into it and find some people who are trustworthy your voice is so beautiful. But wait the makeup is gorgggg 😍

  • @BlazedandCornfuzed
    @BlazedandCornfuzed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WAS JUST About to blast you and ask why u stopped in the music industry!!! I always LOVED UR MUSIC!!! Still do and blast that shit girl ❤

  • @xorayne_
    @xorayne_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    meditate is still my song! i play it all the time

  • @kayleemichelle9775
    @kayleemichelle9775 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I still listen to meditate, such a fire song!! I hope you’re able to make music again one day, you have so many people here to support you 🩷

  • @cathyy8512
    @cathyy8512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I still listen to your music to this day 💖

  • @izzy25xo
    @izzy25xo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the intro song is so nostalgic i love the remix added to it💗

  • @ashlynnhubbard4457
    @ashlynnhubbard4457 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG YES LOVE THE INTRO. also love meditate :) sad girl songs for the win

  • @nyasimoneee
    @nyasimoneee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    girlll i never stopped listening to meditate that is my jammm

  • @Bri_nation
    @Bri_nation 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your Intro Bring Me Back To When I First Watch You😩😩.

  • @smbavuitton
    @smbavuitton 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I miss your music so much honestly!!! I listen to your music and still till this day all your songs are on my top 25 most played. I understand why you stopped but I hope one day you’ll get back into it 🖤

  • @happynae6400
    @happynae6400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Honestly I would love for you to do music again!

  • @cherrychromed
    @cherrychromed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i still listen to your music and love it

  • @johnsonebenezera
    @johnsonebenezera 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love your voice nessa 😊❤

  • @raincoathaveli
    @raincoathaveli 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Obviously always do what is best for you, your family and your mental health but I hope one day you get back into music because you are a great singer and the songs you released were fire.

  • @juliaolszewska2360
    @juliaolszewska2360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I literally love ur song meditate 😫💕

  • @_spl
    @_spl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    YOU HAVE SUCH A NICE VOICE ❤❤❤❤❤ I think u should get into it but this time, make it ur own brand I’ll support u ☹️🫶🏽

  • @ambradanielle
    @ambradanielle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Girl Meditate was my song, listened to it FAITHFULLY!❤

  • @nicoleoyejola5091
    @nicoleoyejola5091 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love her music literally stream her music all the time

  • @BlazedBaddie
    @BlazedBaddie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Before you even said the sponsor mt first thought was oh my god her hair looks so amazing and healthy!! That shit is WERKING

  • @ashlynnhubbard4457
    @ashlynnhubbard4457 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LMAO 17:01 is that hostage ???? i have the same video of a black screen and me singing it in my car lmaooo

  • @abulexa5548
    @abulexa5548 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Actually love your music and I think you have true talent, not just with singing, but also with song writing. Your lyrics are nice. You should keep going even if it’s just a hobby.

  • @brookemercedes4206
    @brookemercedes4206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl let me tell you how my local dispensary was playing one of your songs the other day!! As soon as I heard it I started recording

  • @rasheemwyattreid3351
    @rasheemwyattreid3351 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Meditate and Social Suicide is still in my 2023 Playlist.

  • @wzrdnatalia
    @wzrdnatalia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you so much💞

  • @apricatts
    @apricatts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i reallt hope you make music again one day but do it when your comfortable enough. ive been watching you since 2016 and ive seen you go through so much stuff and get knocked down but one thing i know for sure is you always get back up!

  • @cher236
    @cher236 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have an amazing voice! ❤

  • @316zaul
    @316zaul 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Yay another Hollywood story 👀👀

  • @Saaywil
    @Saaywil 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Roshon Fegan from shake it up😭😭😭

  • @harryg6967
    @harryg6967 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    social suicide was my shittt, it was in my spotify wrapped for two years straight, still one of my fav songs. i forced my friends to love it

  • @92murdah
    @92murdah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Of you look amazing girly 💕 it’s been a while since I’ve been on TH-cam too much thing I’ve been having to get done and I’m finally here clicking and watching all your videos again lol 🫶🏼 can’t believe I’ve been keeping up with your blogs since almost 2013ish 🙌🏽💕💗🤍

  • @karina2litt841
    @karina2litt841 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GIVING ME NOSTALGIA EITH THE INTROO😭😭🩷🩷🩷

  • @smodeLL
    @smodeLL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I still listen to Meditate that shits so good

  • @FlexerLexx
    @FlexerLexx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Social Suicide is such a bop 🥲 we need more music!!

  • @liiihdz7245
    @liiihdz7245 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Girl if you don’t get back into making music !!!!!! Your voice is amazing

  • @pcsout
    @pcsout 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Meditate and Obsessed are BANGERS

  • @kamnole5051
    @kamnole5051 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I still listen to meditate and I have saved to my Spotify 😩 I was recently wondering why

  • @TianiMcLoyd
    @TianiMcLoyd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My boyfriend records his own music and lets other artists come over to his house to record as well and he has a really professional setup. You have to look up videos and stuff on youtube thats how he learned but yeah. U save way more money recording your own stuff and it can still sound super professional. As long as you dont have background noise (which may be tough with the kids) all youd have to pay for aside from the mic and the programs and stuff would be someone to mix and master it. And thats def cheaper than studio time. You can def get back into it if you really want to, just would take some adjusting and in house work.

  • @NaomIXoXo
    @NaomIXoXo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    girl at this point just make your own studio! doja does it, i think she's self taught. don't have to rush it since you have the babies, but its something to think about.

  • @mercedesss24
    @mercedesss24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Nessa👋🏼🥰🥰

  • @masonstuckey1869
    @masonstuckey1869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Obsessed was too 20 most streamed of 2019 SO GOOD

  • @MissAri23
    @MissAri23 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Eating my City BBQ and watching lol ! Perfect timing

  • @DoodleDoo12
    @DoodleDoo12 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should keep making music! Ik it’s gets hard cuz weird stuff happens but, ur really good! Hope you come back to it. So many people record themselves. I do and my songs always come out better anyway that way. I have usually not gotten the results I wanted when someone else records me. Plus it’s FREE every time to do it yourself.

  • @i_am_ava
    @i_am_ava 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whatever song is at 17:45 ish… I love the style!

  • @Celiiimar
    @Celiiimar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl, I still listen to Meditate. Would be nice if you come back to music you have a beautiful voice. I been watching you for years!

    • @ashlynnhubbard4457
      @ashlynnhubbard4457 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same, it’s my favorite so good!

  • @tori.h5266
    @tori.h5266 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the Nyla tattoo 🥹

  • @inezgalore
    @inezgalore 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have been WAITING for this answer girly. and tell me why I was listening to Bet! the other day ❤️❤️

    • @simplynessa15
      @simplynessa15  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for still supporting my music ❤

  • @sirreenuh
    @sirreenuh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Missed your music meditate and bet be my daily❤

  • @aniyah.m
    @aniyah.m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    I’m sitting here trying to figure out who bossed up with the r&b singer 😂

  • @diamond3170
    @diamond3170 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LMAOOO the other long distance relationship was a TIME