Black Women Are Not At Fault For A Black Man's Poor Decisions.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- In this video, I double down on my position that men have choices and that they should be intentional when dealing with women.
This video is in response to a comment left under another video. To view that video, hit the link.
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I’ve been saying this why is why I don’t even blame the women anymore, there too many simps out there that don’t properly vet the women they meet then act surprised/angry when they find out the woman was for the streets
Well said. Basically hold men accountable for the mates they choose. So glad you pointed out that men need to be more mindful of the woman they choose to have their kids with and grow old with.
Been saying this for a min. There's so much blame shifting. The answer is us.
Being intentional in choosing a partner is crucial. Waiting for chance encounters is not effective; actively seek a compatible mate.
Finally 😢whew ❤. Sending you so much love and hugs and respect 😅. Yessir!!!! Thank you 💘
Brother, you hit the nail on the head. As an older man I can testify to everything you said in this video. She may be a 10 but you may not be able to live with her. Keep on keeping on!!!!
Most do not, though. cost too much to leave.
...so it's not that Brotha's don't want to leave, its just that most can not _afford_ to leave?
Some Black men choose the worst sisters and then complain sisters are bad just as some sisters choose the worst men and say there are no good men. My wife is beautiful, intelligent and soft spoken and I almost couldn’t get her because I had tattoos and my image was street. I was used to that being what women wanted but she’s not into bad boys so I quickly had to show her the real me. The good ones are out there they just aren’t as loud on social media and don’t get highlighted in black manosphere spaces.
By the time men figure out how pointless time spent on women and sex are they're usually married and or have children. This will be even more clear as the years pass.
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Just because a woman is a 5 or 6 does not mean she will treat you better.
😂🤦🏿 That's not what was said.
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Thank you for this reminder. This needs to remain to be considered in one’s pursuits
Fair enough. I would ask for a part-3, but lets see how this goes down.
Keeping in mind Reality is Undefeated's mission statement is to (paraphrasing) be a conduit to better the Black Community - and please correct me if it is something else - I beleive we share some basic common ground in furthering this goal, and i would think most agree with the major issues faced by the Diaspora in _America.:_
1.) The "Black" *traditional* family has disintegrated over the past 2 generations.
2.) The "Black" wealth and income gap
3.) The "Black" relatively short life expectancy
4.) The "Black" Male incarceration rate
5.) The "Black" Health care disparity
I suggest that both part-1 and part-2 of this video series seeks to identify "Black" Male/Female relationship concerns as an Important underlying cause of item #1 above. And correct me if I am misunderstanding your position; where you posit that "Black" Men must expand their (our) choice horizons with respect to many aspects of identifying, appealing to, and engaging a qualified "Black" Woman who is, or has the potential to be "in order". Its important to note that in previous presentations, you have admonished "Black" Women for some of their shortcomings as well.
If I am accurate regarding the above so far, I think we both have the same positive goals in mind.
I generally like to traffic in Facts, especially when the consequences are so severe. I read two superb, engaging, and very articulate comments in Part-1 from a couple of our beautiful Queens. Both invested the time to share their thoughts from _Their_ perspectives. They struck me to be just as frustrated as Men regarding the subject matter. I thought about asking them both a straight forward question. Revolving around the Facts of "Black" relationships. I will pose the question _To You_ here, which is germane to the overall discussion. I hope that you can provide your answer to the question in a future video, along with any supporting info that led to your position. I hope the question will also spur a spirited follow-on comment section, where I hope to hear from many more of our Queens.
I also ask that if you decide to create a presentation in response to the question, that you place the following two statistical graphics besides you (one at a time as you address these FACTS) in the video:
--> blackdemographics[dot}com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Black-Women-Historical-Marriage-1890-to-2010.jpg
--> blackdemographics{dot}com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Black-Men-Historical-Marriage-1890-to-2010.jpg
The question - which _Assumes_ issue #1 above is important - because if its not, then both you and I are wasting our time discussing "Black" relationships:
*What is the cause of the utter collapse of the concept of **_Traditional_** Marriage in the "Black" community in America over the past 60 years?*
Optional Bonus question: ...And could you proffer a _Viable_ and _Actionable_ solution - other than more terse reprimands of the community from RIU?
The sole reason my blanket "solution" is out-migration, is due to my answer to the same question.
I won't do a full part 3. However, I will address some of this in an intro to another video that leads to a different topic.
@@shotelco great information. Thank you, I got it
Are these men the type of man a women would want. All men are not meant to be husbands. I did not hear you mention what the man would bring to the relationship, you just talked about how a women should cater to a man.
I did not talk about how a woman should cater to a man. If that's what you heard, I suggest you approach it again, with a more objective ear. This video encourages men to pursue women based on their needs from her rather than their wants. The "type of man a woman would want" is subjective and solely dependent on what each woman needs from a man. I imagine it's not the same for all women. And while the same can be said for women, I chose to speak directly to men in this video.
I am not the type of man women want. I am the type of a man ONE woman wanted and after 36 years she still want me. Methinks that's what Mr. Gatewood was saying.
Mr Shotelco is an academic. He uses quantitative and qualitative data to make his point. You use empirical data to make your point. We live in an empirical world. He quit responding to me when he learned I was not a Black Queen but an old white man. Even though I am not your audience I appreciate your tolerance of my comments. Many of your topics are race neutral. A six looks good to you if you are a five.
I must protest your indication that " He (I) quit responding to me when he learned i was not a Black Queen but an old white man."
@@shotelco Yes sir I was referring to you. I thought we did too. Since you did not dispute what I said, I must infer you agreed. Hope to hear from you.