Arrrghhh! This was another like Jodi Arias, as I recall. I remember my boyfriend dumping me, that I was keen on and I just replied:."Right, okay, if that's how you feel". Walk away with dignity. But then, these women.are clearly unbalanced.
I watch Emma Kenny every Sunday before a night shift. It's like an adult version of cartoons before school. Emma, feel free to post two videos a week - a lot of us will be watching!
@@EmmaKennyTV 100% I too would love two videos/week 🙏💯 *Please dear Emma, feel free to post two videos a week* I would be highly appreciative and so happy if you’ve the time to do so. You’re an amazing story teller, I love listening to you 🙏💗 With kindness and respect, Grace 🔆
Wow, you told us so much about Ryan that I had never known and painted him in such a beautiful light. I'm sure his family would adore the way you've spoken of him. Thank you for caring about the victims and keeping their legacy alive
As a true crime fan I watched a lot of British documentaries where Emma appeared as commentator and I always found her interesting and edgy in a way, you could feel her passion for story telling and analyzing the crime and the circumstances. Sadly I also saw a lot of comments under these documentaries showing a lot of hate towards her and I never understood it back then and let aline now. People are so weird. She is so professional and has character! Subscribed!;-)
I guess I’m like Marmite 😂. There’s a lot of trolls out there but you get used to it. It’s people like yourself that make me feel warm. Thankyou . Em x
I always get the ‘she states the obvious ‘ rhetoric. With TV they want you to speak in a certain way etc but on here , I can do what I want. I never script either so I can just go for it. Thanks for being here. Em x
“I gave him the nose job he always wanted 👃” I remember being floored the first time I heard her say that!! I love the way she tries to twist “overkill” for some kind of “mercy killing” she didn’t want him to suffer... it’s scary that people like this really exist!! Her & Jodi Arias would make great cell mates!! Thanks for another great video Emma 💜🕯
Incredibly chilling seeing how every picture you showed of them together has her smiling ear to ear but Ryan looks like he is really sad/disturbed and almost fearful. Rest easy friend.
@@tinawindham6958 much like Jodi Arias! Yes, she killed Travis but (much like Ryan) stringing someone along isn't a positive character trait, imo...lying about being chaste, as a Mormon? Hm! And the fact that Ryan wanted to date a beauty queen seems quite shallow...do her augmented breasts and extremely white veneers make her the most beautiful woman in Ohio?
Her immaturity was evident in her need to keep a relationship with a man who didn't want her. Her obsession was with the relationship itself, not the man.
I’m going to start. I’m ready to leave the media and instead concentrate on TH-cam fully. It’s way more liberating and way more fun and full of absolutely lovely humans like you xx
@@EmmaKennyTV I've seen a few of your pieces of media work and I'm positive you are making the right choice. The freedom you get here is much more suited to your style.
I can’t get over how unhappy he looked in the pictures of them together and I think they told a story. Emma you’re uploads are enthralling and sensibly presented. Thank you.
I have BPD and my fiance had an affair 6 months before our wedding. My first thought wasn't to get a gun and shoot him in the face. It really angers me when killers use mental health as excuses to get off with what they did. It's the reason mental health has such a negative stigma around it.
Thank you 👏👏👏❤❤❤ The BPD aspect is particularly frustrating, because, as a psychologist, and a sufferer of BPD, it absolutely INFURIATES me when people use this particular diagnosis as a get out of jail free card. As you mentioned, your first thought wasn't to get a g@n and sh00t your boyfriend, it was to say, OK, if that's how you feel. If ANYTHING, we're more likely to harm ourselves as opposed to anyone else!!! ❤❤❤💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏
Ryan had so much going for him, seemed like a nice lad, loving family, educated and high career aspirations, the fact that he was very handsome is an added bonus ; just so sad and unfair how it can all just be taken away in a blink of an eye...
Going To Be A Very Rainy Day here in Glasgow so I Will Have My Candles on, Cat Settled, hot chocolate in hand watching Emma’s Take on This (to me) Un-known Crime Story......17hrs to go!!!!
I'm near Glasgow too and it's raining .. I'm watching in the evening with cat asleep beside me and fluffy dressing gown on 😁love watching Emma's video's
Great video! I especially want to thank you for your comments regarding BPD-as a sufferer of said disorder myself, it upsets me that so many people seem to assume I’m a horrible person, and seeing it used as a defense or even explanation for murder always makes my blood boil. It seriously means a lot to me that you took the time to point out that it just doesn’t work that way. Again, great work, and thank you!
Right 😄 She must have been deeply ashamed of her status..maybe because his family was so wealthy.. but that obviously bothered her a lot lol I'm a "hillbilly" I guess..and I've dated plenty of rich guys..their money never was intimidating for myself. She was way worse to him verbally from what I have seen..some of the messages she sent him was disgusting and not to mention he would block her so she would borrow other peoples phones and message him horrible insults. She was so abu*ive.
I've seen so many crime docs that you've been a part of and you always stood out as such an insightful and intelligent contributor to the dialogue and analysis of the psychological profile of the participants in the crime. I'm so impressed to see you continuing your work and to see you here on YT! I adore your thought processes and thoroughly poignant narrative - I wish you all the best with your new channel here! Many blessings always!
You're one of my favorite true crime channels now... I've never heard anyone describe the "It's not you, it's me" break up speech like that and I literally LoL'd. You have a new subscriber you clever girl.
I have to say I’m SOOOO glad you have a channel. I’ve been interested in true crime for YEARS and I remember you from so many TV docs but I consume most of my content on TH-cam nowadays so it’s amazing that you are here. I love the way you effortlessly tell the victims story, providing such brilliant insight into the psychology of the criminals whilst also being raw and honest. I can genuinely say you are now one of my favourite creators. Thank you.
Amazing content as always❤️... I do have an MSc in Clinical Psychology, did criminology and ended up working for Family Court so your content is everything I can relate to. I am Polish so sometimes I am struggling to express myself, but the way you talk it feels like- Ah! You say it the way I'd like to🙌😅! X
EMMA , I LOVE YOUR VIDEO'S , BUT ESPECIALLY YOUR HONEST COMPASSION. YOU GO THE EXTRA MILE TO BRING THE VICTIM'S TO LIFE. YOUR ARE THE BEST NARRATOR OF THESE CRIME'S HANDS DOWN. YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN , YET AREN'T AFRAID TO SHOW YOUR DEEP HURT & EMPATHY FOR THOSE WHO CAN NO LONGER SPEAK AS WELL AS TO THEIR FAMILY N FRIENDS. BEST WISHES TO YOU IN YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE. LOVE FROM VERMONT STATE , U.S.A
Thank you so much for explaining BPD so well. I’m not ashamed of my disorders at all, but my BPD I don’t tell too often because of the stigma. And yes with therapy very manageable. I know I’m a good person only with a war in my head, and I always win😁
I looove your videos Emma. I watch them every evening before going off to my night shifts. They're so informative and entertaining. Keep up the good work. We love you!
That statement that police read when arresting someone.. "You have the right to remain silent" is called the Miranda Warning. It was from a Supreme Court case from 1966 of Miranda vs. Arizona. Just a tid bit of American Law. 🙃☺
You provided such an amazing description of her that I can practically see a noticable eye twitch in every one of her photos as if she's about ready to lose it.
Wow a ratio of 1:100 messages. That shows a serious problem. Such a tragedy and for her to laugh about giving him a nose job so that his family most probably couldn’t even view his face after death. Absolutely appalling and so was the ridiculous sentence. She should not be eligible for parole after 20 years. Another great video Emma And you’re right about the ‘upgrades’ lol 😆
Am I the only one who finds Emma's voice and interesting stories the perfect ASMR when dealing with various problems? These stories need to keep coming. :)
I just found your channel and I am amazed at the detail, intelligence, and passion you put into your videos. It is clear this is what you are meant to do! I am so here for it! The level of depth you hit is really unmatched.
its becouse you are your self... so many youtubers try to watch what they say and try to people please. but you genuinley speak your morals and oppinions threw your crime tellings 🙌
I’ve been a true crime TH-cam binger for quite a long time and JUST found Emma’s channel. Can’t help but think “where has she been all my life?” But she’s here now, and I’m enjoying the bingefest!!!
This is what you want in true crime videos ! I am one of these people if anything ever happens they will say my internet content was full of true crime videos . There are lots of great ones but I love the way you talk about the people concerned . It’s entertaining and questions are answered . Loving it! ❤️
As someone who's sister is also an insanely talented soprano, I can attest to the cost of all the lessons and travelling and festivals. It's ridiculous how much that costs. My mum and I both worked a few jobs so my sister could carry on sharing her gift. Shayna's parents were probably working so hard so that she could do the same. She should have been so grateful at how hard they worked for her
I’m always so excited for a Sunday!!! I can’t wait for this! I never look up the cases I don’t know, as I love how Emma explains them. I looked tonight as I thought it was on, then remembered it’s Saturday 😂 day early...... but least I know I have something to look forward to tomorrow night 😊
7pm can't come soon enough 😁😁 I'm excited for this week's case especially as I've never heard of it. True crime with Emma is definitely the best way to end the week ❤❤ thank you em xx
Can't wait for my weekly dose of the dark tales of Emma Kenny. Always pleasure to watch the new content and she always has information that even I didnt know. Keep up the fantastic work Emma x
You are so welcome!! We love you here! Your channel offers so much more on many true crime cases that I’ve seen watching videos/ documentaries. I love the psychology of it and how you delve into the younger years. Rock on Emma!!
I've been binge watching your episodes for weeks now when ever I get the chance haha..I'm a proper crime lover even tho they really upset and effect me I'm always drawn to watching them..I've seen you on many crime documentaries emma and always liked you so down to earth and always talk about things with care and real detail it's very interesting..you also help me in many ways when u explain and try to explain and understand certain situations as to why they may do this.. not that there is any reason to be so cruel.. But to know the bk ground and buildup is always help full..thanks Emma for taking your time to talk to us all time is precious. Take care x
So glad I stumbled upon your channel! As an avid true crime fan I’ve watched countless shows you’ve presented and have always thought you were fantastic at what you do, would love two videos a week, from a very happy new sub. 👍🏼
Thank you, Emma. I appreciate your point of view, I agree completely! I’ve heard other podcasts victim shame Ryan, and it makes me very upset. He was a great guy, so handsome and so smart, and didn’t deserve to be murdered because their relationship didn’t work out. Her blaming his gun collection for his murder is absolutely infuriating.
@@mellisande638 she also said “I am so democrat. I never would have had guns in the house!” He apparently DESERVED TO DIE because he was interested in guns and voted differently from her? Emma really called it when she said that Shayna has “verbal diarrhea!”
@@subrosa4792 Not to mention the logic of 'he was a white, attractive, upper-class, straight male so he must be a villain and at fault somehow because women can't be dangerous amd if they are it's someone else's fault, amirite?'
So glad to see your comments about uploading more on youtube more Emma. Absolutely loved you on Britain's darkest taboos and just think your mind is brilliant and so is the way you talk about these cases. I don't comment much but I wait patiently every Sunday for your videos to go up!! My favourite true crime TH-camr 1000% xx
I am so happy that I have found this TH-cam channel!! Watching Emma Kenny in documentaries has inspired me to go back to university and study Criminal and Forensic Psychology. And seeing her on her, more laid back, rocking the band tshirts just makes me appreciate her even more! I hope that once I qualify, I can be as empathetic and understanding as she is!!
Absolutely brilliant video filled with insight, education and a huge amount of depth. Thank you Emma. The number of subscribers is a direct reflection of the quality of your videos. Your personality always comes through and that's another thing that separates you from the rest, and elevates you. Thank you for your hard work 😊
You deserve all the love and subscribers you have and more ❤. You're so talented and well educated and I love that you don't always go for popular crimes! I'm glad you came to TH-cam because I was a MASSIVE fan before that!
I have BPD, complex trauma and detachment disorder.. i hate when people try and use these excuses for being a horrible human being. People with these conditions can have a very sharp tongue and hurt people with their words when they are 'coding' as i call it. But id never dream of harming someone!
Love your videos Emma. Some are very hard to stomach but you cover every case so well, warts and all. Best crime channel EVER... Definitely a big yes from me for 2 episodes a week. Xxxx
And the fact that she said she did it because they’d both planned they wanted to be on reality tv 🤔 what?!? The only think I can think of is the show is following the police department at that time but my god, how on earth she ended up with that I don’t know. She made herself look even worse...if that’s possible!
@@tarawells1553 I know, right? “What did your husband love about you?” “My perthonality” *cackle* I know, my bad, making fun of the speech impediment of such an evil witch.
There's one thing that always baffles me about cases like this. It's one thing to kill someone in a moment of anger but I'd be traumatised by the sight of what I'd just done after that moment of anger is over. Some of these people behave as if they see heads blown off every day!!!!! I think that's the most worrying aspect of these killers!!!
You're one of the few people that cover true crime that makes content I will watch, even if I've seen the same case covered elsewhere. You just always end up adding enough, and giving insight that makes it fresh.
Emma, been following you for years now. Always loved the docs you've appeared in! I've been glued to your account since you started and you've become a part of my Sunday wind down routine. Yes please to 2 videos a week! 🙏🏼💙
I’m so glad I found your channel! I love how your insight makes me think and think hard while I watch. I like the different points of view that are brought up. I watch quite a bit of true crime and I wouldn’t say I’m desensitized by any means but it’s easy to forget how these are real stories. What I like about watching your videos is it reminds me how terribly true these stories are and it makes me feel incredibly emotional and I am able to reflect on these cases. Also, you have an amazing personality!! Can’t wait for more content :)
Got a list of really good links that will be added to description tomorrow morning. I’ve been searching for some of the best ones and there is some great channels that showcase them. Em x
It's rainy and windy in that cozy kinda way, I'm showered and snuggly, hubby asleep on the sofa (for the win!)..I've got the whole bed and I'm ready for sunday story time with Auntie Emma 👌🏼🙌🏼🥰💜☕🍪
Thank you for your statement on BPD. I have it and as soon as you started to describe Shayna's behavior I knew she had it. This happens quite a bit in the true crime videos I watch. But the fact the you said people with BPD don't go out and kill people helps destigmatize the disorder. 💜💜
@Emma Kenny I have been following true crime for a while now and you have quickly become one of my favorites. I have been diagnosed with BPD, PTSD, depression and anxiety due to childhood trauma and domestic violence that you can only imagine ( things seen in the movies- horror movies). It’s upsetting because people with BPD have been labeled as murderers, abusers etc and that really bothers me because I have never in my life would even think of such a thing. If anything I have only thought of harming myself and of course have extreme fear of abandonment and have extremely hard time dealing with people leaving me, but again never thought of harming anyone but myself because I have such self loathing. I am also an extreme empath. It’s bothersome that so many people think people with BPD are abusive and can easily murder others. I could never even think of hurting anyone else- in fact the most abusive relationships I was in (men abusive towards me) I’ve stayed among the severe physical, mental and sexual abuse and would not leave because #1 I was scared because they threatened me and my family if I tried to leave and #2 I thought I could help them, change them (which after lots of treatment I know I can never do that) and lastly, my extreme fear of abandonment I would stay no matter how awful the abuse- even when I came close to death because I believed I am/was unlovable and did not deserve anything better and no one else would want me- which my partners would repeat to me all the time until it became my truth. It just hurts because I often hear people talk about those with BPD as psychotic and murderers and I am the exact opposite- as I said I truly am an empath. Don’t get me wrong- I have many issues- extreme fear of abandonment, jealousy, devaluation and love bombing that can switch on a dime but I’ve been in therapy for a long time and have not been in a relationship for over 5 years and won’t until I can find love for myself and be a healthy partner to someone else. Thank you for saying not all those with BPD are murderers or abusers. I know in my case it came from childhood trauma and a teenage boyfriend much older and extremely abusive. In my case I abused myself and hated myself more than anyone else could. I know I hurt others with my unrealistic fear of abandonment, jealousy and my reality (in my mind) that I was unworthy of love and subconsciously tried to push others away so they would leave me and get the inevitable over with because it was torture waiting every day for them to leave me, which in my mind was inevitable. I know that did hurt others and put them on an emotional roller coaster but I know in my case it came from extreme self hatred and from events in my life that happened to me when I was young and innocent that shaped my sense of self as being unworthy of love and a therapist described my level of self hatred as that I was so insignificant in this world I did not believe I belong here. Thank you for saying not all people with BPD are murderers or even malicious abusers. I think it is a personality disorder that is very misunderstood. Also coupled along with PTSD, depression, anxiety, ADHD. All of this makes it even more difficult to believe I deserve love. I truly feel broken and that no one deserves all my baggage. That’s why I love animals like my cat who loves me unconditionally. But I don’t want to be alone forever. I’m just scared I will never know how to act “normal “ in a relationship. Can you please do more videos of women with abandonment issues or mental issues that maybe stay with abusers and something ends up happening. DV is a serious issue everywhere and getting worse. I love your content and your compassion to those involved. Fan for life! Also in your professional opinion (not in my case in particular because you don’t know me) but I’m a generalization, can people with BPD ever have a “normal “, healthy, happy, not co- dependent, lose the fear of living in a place where you constantly think you will be abandoned? I know you have to really work on it with CBT or DBT but is it honestly possible or has it been ingrained in your personality from such a young age that it’s just who you are and you can’t really change who you are, just manage the symptoms? I know this is long and I hope you do read it and have time for a short reply- but if anyone else reads this who has BPD or are a professional and can answer I would greatly appreciate it. 💛💛💛
Another amazing video and such beautiful detail! I look forward to every Sunday with Emma! I'd love to hear your input on the Michelle Carter and Conrad Roy case.
Thankyou Emma for this video. You tell these stories so well and so interestingly! If that makes sense lol. You give so much info that's hugely helpful and keeps us engaged. You're an awesome person!
Like a lot of people, I find the similarities between Shayna & Jodi Arias extremely interesting! Extremely happy to have you in the TH-cam community; your personality & talent of being extremely knowledgeable, caring, with the ability to share information about psych & criminology not only in a professional way, but also in a way that "regular" people comment on certain people & cases (ex. last week's case where you spoke on how a friend Stienkes age would've reacted if he told the his 500yr old werewolf story, it had truth & humor)! I also see the regular human & mom in you when it comes to cases involving the innocence of children, which I believe most of us share a similar anger with the most vulnerable being violated in any way.
I found your channel at the weekend, just after speaking to my mum about the same people always being on crime documentaries on the TV, and we mentioned your name!! Fate brought you to the recommendation page on my TH-cam channel. Enjoying doing lots of catching up 👍🏼 you put so much work into these videos and they’re very professionally done & enjoyable to watch.
Another great episode Emma. I'll be watching again at bedtime because I always miss little bits if I'm in the live chat. I love that part too though Emma as its full of lovely people and lots of opinions which make my Sunday nights now xx
Great presentation Emma. I’m a new person to your channel. Like the way you explained that case. I’ve subscribed. Look forward to more. Thank you 😊 your appreciated.
I just love the journey you take us through. You're so great at telling captivating stories...and I feel like I've learned so much, too. Thank you. I'll stop ranting now :)
I watched you for many, many years on various crime shows. And I loved you just as much then. Your interpertaion/style is so easy to connect with. I'm so glad you decided to do TH-cam. Would LOVE to know more about YOU & how & why you chose this line of work..to begin with. Psychology fascinates me.
Hi Emma just subscribed to your channel love the passion and great way you explaining of social behaviours in these sick people. Keep doing what your doing x
This was a real treat as I’ve never heard of this case and Emma didn’t disappoint: an in depth analysis with her unique on point perspective. I’d also love to see two a week but the quality that goes into Emma’s videos when you consider she’s also a working psychologist, we’re privileged to have the one. Emma is a national treasure and I hope TH-cam brings her the global success she deserves.
Hi Emma! Love your content, your videos are great for putting on in the background while I do things! Would you consider making a video centred around bpd? I’m in the process of being diagnosed and it would be really helpful in understanding it more and removing some of the stigma around the disorder
My fave day of the week! Love your detail and expert opinion but also that you give your personal opinion too just makes for a great true crime video....never stop plz emma x
Arrrghhh! This was another like Jodi Arias, as I recall. I remember my boyfriend dumping me, that I was keen on and I just replied:."Right, okay, if that's how you feel". Walk away with dignity. But then, these women.are clearly unbalanced.
Yes!!! Exactly xx
Jodi Arias used the self defence angle as well. She designed a T-shirt with “survivor” on the front. That should have been given to her ex boyfriends.
Didn't Jodi also sing in the interrogation room??? When i heard Amazing Grace just made me think of her.
@@Happinosis seriously! They don’t realize how lucky they are!
@@pearlbarreau5252 yes she did! I believe it’s on Stalker Ex-Girlfriend Jailhouse Gospel Favorites Volume 3.
I watch Emma Kenny every Sunday before a night shift. It's like an adult version of cartoons before school. Emma, feel free to post two videos a week - a lot of us will be watching!
Fave comment ever xx
@@EmmaKennyTV Yours might be my favourite TH-cam channel xx
@@EmmaKennyTV 100% I too would love two videos/week 🙏💯
*Please dear Emma, feel free to post two videos a week*
I would be highly appreciative and so happy if you’ve the time to do so.
You’re an amazing story teller, I love listening to you 🙏💗
With kindness and respect, Grace 🔆
@@lupinlad8951 same 🙏💗
She's the best. so down to earth. THANKYOU AGAIN Emma your amazing x
Wow, you told us so much about Ryan that I had never known and painted him in such a beautiful light. I'm sure his family would adore the way you've spoken of him. Thank you for caring about the victims and keeping their legacy alive
He was just being "Too nice" taking her+ picking her up from airport. So sad. What a sadistic little bitch. No emotion 😡
As a true crime fan I watched a lot of British documentaries where Emma appeared as commentator and I always found her interesting and edgy in a way, you could feel her passion for story telling and analyzing the crime and the circumstances. Sadly I also saw a lot of comments under these documentaries showing a lot of hate towards her and I never understood it back then and let aline now. People are so weird. She is so professional and has character! Subscribed!;-)
I guess I’m like Marmite 😂. There’s a lot of trolls out there but you get used to it. It’s people like yourself that make me feel warm. Thankyou . Em x
I always get the ‘she states the obvious ‘ rhetoric. With TV they want you to speak in a certain way etc but on here , I can do what I want. I never script either so I can just go for it. Thanks for being here. Em x
I love the fact that you have free reign here and can totally be yourself!
@@EmmaKennyTV
It’s not obvious to everyone since so many people aren’t the brightest
I just love your sarcasm Emma with the guilty and judgmental system. Real deep dives. So looking forward to seeing you on tour in May💕
“I gave him the nose job he always wanted 👃” I remember being floored the first time I heard her say that!! I love the way she tries to twist “overkill” for some kind of “mercy killing” she didn’t want him to suffer... it’s scary that people like this really exist!! Her & Jodi Arias would make great cell mates!! Thanks for another great video Emma 💜🕯
When I saw her singing in the interrogation room, I thought wow she could sing whilst Jodi does handstands… evil evil evil x
And she very
@@lauracookie83 omg literally had the same thought watching it and came here for this comment
She needed the nose job not him she knew he had a perfect nose
Incredibly chilling seeing how every picture you showed of them together has her smiling ear to ear but Ryan looks like he is really sad/disturbed and almost fearful. Rest easy friend.
He really looks miserable. Poor guy.
I said exactly the same thing!
He honestly looks like a hostage
He’s a grown man, he should’ve given up getting laid constantly and had better values/morals. She thought the sex was bonding them ,she felt loved.
@@tinawindham6958 much like Jodi Arias! Yes, she killed Travis but (much like Ryan) stringing someone along isn't a positive character trait, imo...lying about being chaste, as a Mormon? Hm!
And the fact that Ryan wanted to date a beauty queen seems quite shallow...do her augmented breasts and extremely white veneers make her the most beautiful woman in Ohio?
Her immaturity was evident in her need to keep a relationship with a man who didn't want her. Her obsession was with the relationship itself, not the man.
omg the tinder segment had me rolling laughing. I feel terrible for laughing during something so serious, but that was funny
Please do two a week I think you have a brilliant way of explaining the criminal mind but keeping it real about what they are
I’m going to start. I’m ready to leave the media and instead concentrate on TH-cam fully. It’s way more liberating and way more fun and full of absolutely lovely humans like you xx
@@EmmaKennyTV I've seen a few of your pieces of media work and I'm positive you are making the right choice. The freedom you get here is much more suited to your style.
Danny Brown, well said.
"She was asking things like if you're allowed to shower in prison or are you just left to rot in your own shit" 😂 I nearly choked on my tea!
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I can’t get over how unhappy he looked in the pictures of them together and I think they told a story. Emma you’re uploads are enthralling and sensibly presented. Thank you.
It's incredible how your coverage of cases I've heard about before is so fresh and insightful that I see things in a whole new way!
I have BPD and my fiance had an affair 6 months before our wedding. My first thought wasn't to get a gun and shoot him in the face. It really angers me when killers use mental health as excuses to get off with what they did. It's the reason mental health has such a negative stigma around it.
Thank you 👏👏👏❤❤❤
The BPD aspect is particularly frustrating, because, as a psychologist, and a sufferer of BPD, it absolutely INFURIATES me when people use this particular diagnosis as a get out of jail free card.
As you mentioned, your first thought wasn't to get a g@n and sh00t your boyfriend, it was to say, OK, if that's how you feel.
If ANYTHING, we're more likely to harm ourselves as opposed to anyone else!!! ❤❤❤💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏
Ryan had so much going for him, seemed like a nice lad, loving family, educated and high career aspirations, the fact that he was very handsome is an added bonus ; just so sad and unfair how it can all just be taken away in a blink of an eye...
Going To Be A Very Rainy Day here in Glasgow so I Will Have My Candles on, Cat Settled, hot chocolate in hand watching Emma’s Take on This (to me) Un-known Crime Story......17hrs to go!!!!
Sounds fab especially candles and cat and chocolate xxx
I'm near Glasgow too and it's raining .. I'm watching in the evening with cat asleep beside me and fluffy dressing gown on 😁love watching Emma's video's
Another Glaswegian here!
Great video! I especially want to thank you for your comments regarding BPD-as a sufferer of said disorder myself, it upsets me that so many people seem to assume I’m a horrible person, and seeing it used as a defense or even explanation for murder always makes my blood boil. It seriously means a lot to me that you took the time to point out that it just doesn’t work that way. Again, great work, and thank you!
Shayna: “he called me a fucking hillbilly”
Me: “lmfao GOOD”
Right 😄 She must have been deeply ashamed of her status..maybe because his family was so wealthy.. but that obviously bothered her a lot lol I'm a "hillbilly" I guess..and I've dated plenty of rich guys..their money never was intimidating for myself. She was way worse to him verbally from what I have seen..some of the messages she sent him was disgusting and not to mention he would block her so she would borrow other peoples phones and message him horrible insults. She was so abu*ive.
Emma says, “ don’t pick up a gun and blow your partners brains out”. I laughed when she said that. Yea, it’s good advice to be sure.
Lol, she should have said, “ don’t pick up a gun to give your partner a nose job”!
Yessss.
Blow your partner's brains out should always have an entirely different and positive meaning. ;)
Hubers: "Hi, Jodi."
Arias: "Hi, Shayna."
Hubers: "What you been up to?"
Arias: "Murdering my boyfriend. You?"
Hubers: "Same."
*The End*
So sad and true but made me laugh.
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so true, she reminds me so much of Jodi Arias
I said the same thing! These cases are nearly identical when it comes to Jodi and Shayna!
Sounds about right.
I'd love to watch your take on the Jodi Arias and Nathan Matthews/Shauna Hoare cases
I've seen so many crime docs that you've been a part of and you always stood out as such an insightful and intelligent contributor to the dialogue and analysis of the psychological profile of the participants in the crime.
I'm so impressed to see you continuing your work and to see you here on YT!
I adore your thought processes and thoroughly poignant narrative - I wish you all the best with your new channel here! Many blessings always!
Best true crime TH-camr. You deserve way more subs!!!!!❤️❤️
Ahhh love that xxx
You're one of my favorite true crime channels now... I've never heard anyone describe the "It's not you, it's me" break up speech like that and I literally LoL'd. You have a new subscriber you clever girl.
Shayna has some DIE HARD supporters who seem to believe she was wrongfully convicted. I think she Jodi Arias 2.0 and should never get out.
I have to say I’m SOOOO glad you have a channel. I’ve been interested in true crime for YEARS and I remember you from so many TV docs but I consume most of my content on TH-cam nowadays so it’s amazing that you are here. I love the way you effortlessly tell the victims story, providing such brilliant insight into the psychology of the criminals whilst also being raw and honest. I can genuinely say you are now one of my favourite creators. Thank you.
Amazing content as always❤️... I do have an MSc in Clinical Psychology, did criminology and ended up working for Family Court so your content is everything I can relate to. I am Polish so sometimes I am struggling to express myself, but the way you talk it feels like- Ah! You say it the way I'd like to🙌😅! X
That’s a lovely comment. Thankyou. Em xx
EMMA , I LOVE YOUR VIDEO'S , BUT ESPECIALLY YOUR HONEST COMPASSION. YOU GO THE EXTRA MILE TO BRING THE VICTIM'S TO LIFE. YOUR ARE THE BEST NARRATOR OF THESE CRIME'S HANDS DOWN. YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN , YET AREN'T AFRAID TO SHOW YOUR DEEP HURT & EMPATHY FOR THOSE WHO CAN NO LONGER SPEAK AS WELL AS TO THEIR FAMILY N FRIENDS. BEST WISHES TO YOU IN YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE. LOVE FROM VERMONT STATE , U.S.A
Wow. Thankyou . Sending love right back to you ! Em x
Thank you so much for explaining BPD so well. I’m not ashamed of my disorders at all, but my BPD I don’t tell too often because of the stigma. And yes with therapy very manageable. I know I’m a good person only with a war in my head, and I always win😁
Yes same here! I have BPD too and I am by far one of the kindest, honest people I know.
@@samanthaharrington8713same!!! Thank you!!! 👏👏👏
God Bless you both ❤❤❤🙏🎉🙏
I am OBSESSED with these documentaries, you talk so real x
Why Thankyou ! That’s a wonderful comment 😍 . Em x
Had to giggle at your Tinder mock up. Genius.
We are here because of you Emma and your fantastic coverage of true crime. Thanks again xx
I looove your videos Emma. I watch them every evening before going off to my night shifts. They're so informative and entertaining. Keep up the good work. We love you!
That statement that police read when arresting someone.. "You have the right to remain silent" is called the Miranda Warning. It was from a Supreme Court case from 1966 of Miranda vs. Arizona. Just a tid bit of American Law. 🙃☺
You provided such an amazing description of her that I can practically see a noticable eye twitch in every one of her photos as if she's about ready to lose it.
Wow a ratio of 1:100 messages. That shows a serious problem. Such a tragedy and for her to laugh about giving him a nose job so that his family most probably couldn’t even view his face after death. Absolutely appalling and so was the ridiculous sentence. She should not be eligible for parole after 20 years.
Another great video Emma
And you’re right about the ‘upgrades’ lol 😆
LoL 🤣🤣🤣😂 hahaha! I love that.."We want to think that WE Get the upgrade... Not them!!!😂 Emma you make me laugh so much....!!
Am I the only one who finds Emma's voice and interesting stories the perfect ASMR when dealing with various problems? These stories need to keep coming. :)
I do guided meditation videos too. Have a listen 😉🎥❤️. Em x
I just found your channel and I am amazed at the detail, intelligence, and passion you put into your videos. It is clear this is what you are meant to do! I am so here for it! The level of depth you hit is really unmatched.
That’s such a lovely thing to say Annette , Thankyou 😘. Em x
its becouse you are your self... so many youtubers try to watch what they say and try to people please. but you genuinley speak your morals and oppinions threw your crime tellings 🙌
Thankyou . This is why I love TH-cam . Thanks for being lovely . Em xx
You're honestly my absolute favourite crime channel. The way you tell the story is captivating. Please keep up the fabulous work. Loads of love xx
I’ve been a true crime TH-cam binger for quite a long time and JUST found Emma’s channel. Can’t help but think “where has she been all my life?” But she’s here now, and I’m enjoying the bingefest!!!
This is what you want in true crime videos ! I am one of these people if anything ever happens they will say my internet content was full of true crime videos . There are lots of great ones but I love the way you talk about the people concerned . It’s entertaining and questions are answered . Loving it! ❤️
As someone who's sister is also an insanely talented soprano, I can attest to the cost of all the lessons and travelling and festivals. It's ridiculous how much that costs. My mum and I both worked a few jobs so my sister could carry on sharing her gift.
Shayna's parents were probably working so hard so that she could do the same. She should have been so grateful at how hard they worked for her
I’m always so excited for a Sunday!!! I can’t wait for this! I never look up the cases I don’t know, as I love how Emma explains them. I looked tonight as I thought it was on, then remembered it’s Saturday 😂 day early...... but least I know I have something to look forward to tomorrow night 😊
I've heard of this happening but TH-cam unsubscribed me. Which makes no sense because I watch every Sunday. I've rectified it x
7pm can't come soon enough 😁😁 I'm excited for this week's case especially as I've never heard of it. True crime with Emma is definitely the best way to end the week ❤❤ thank you em xx
Can't wait for my weekly dose of the dark tales of Emma Kenny. Always pleasure to watch the new content and she always has information that even I didnt know. Keep up the fantastic work Emma x
Thank you xx
You are so welcome!! We love you here! Your channel offers so much more on many true crime cases that I’ve seen watching videos/ documentaries. I love the psychology of it and how you delve into the younger years. Rock on Emma!!
Myra does not approve of that Tinder match 😂😂😂
Lolz!!! X
I've been binge watching your episodes for weeks now when ever I get the chance haha..I'm a proper crime lover even tho they really upset and effect me I'm always drawn to watching them..I've seen you on many crime documentaries emma and always liked you so down to earth and always talk about things with care and real detail it's very interesting..you also help me in many ways when u explain and try to explain and understand certain situations as to why they may do this.. not that there is any reason to be so cruel.. But to know the bk ground and buildup is always help full..thanks Emma for taking your time to talk to us all time is precious. Take care x
So glad I stumbled upon your channel! As an avid true crime fan I’ve watched countless shows you’ve presented and have always thought you were fantastic at what you do, would love two videos a week, from a very happy new sub. 👍🏼
Thank you, Emma. I appreciate your point of view, I agree completely! I’ve heard other podcasts victim shame Ryan, and it makes me very upset. He was a great guy, so handsome and so smart, and didn’t deserve to be murdered because their relationship didn’t work out. Her blaming his gun collection for his murder is absolutely infuriating.
You are dead on, victim blaming and his gun collection? Puhleeze!! Omg🙊
@@mellisande638 she also said “I am so democrat. I never would have had guns in the house!” He apparently DESERVED TO DIE because he was interested in guns and voted differently from her? Emma really called it when she said that Shayna has “verbal diarrhea!”
@@subrosa4792 Not to mention the logic of 'he was a white, attractive, upper-class, straight male so he must be a villain and at fault somehow because women can't be dangerous amd if they are it's someone else's fault, amirite?'
Thank you for talking about bpd and for saying and explaining it the way you did.
Emma you have made me laugh so much in this episode, 'You look provocative in your trunks'
So glad to see your comments about uploading more on youtube more Emma. Absolutely loved you on Britain's darkest taboos and just think your mind is brilliant and so is the way you talk about these cases. I don't comment much but I wait patiently every Sunday for your videos to go up!! My favourite true crime TH-camr 1000% xx
L.Dorey you are beautiful 😍❤💖.
P.S. fellow EK fan here
I am so happy that I have found this TH-cam channel!! Watching Emma Kenny in documentaries has inspired me to go back to university and study Criminal and Forensic Psychology. And seeing her on her, more laid back, rocking the band tshirts just makes me appreciate her even more! I hope that once I qualify, I can be as empathetic and understanding as she is!!
Absolutely brilliant video filled with insight, education and a huge amount of depth. Thank you Emma. The number of subscribers is a direct reflection of the quality of your videos. Your personality always comes through and that's another thing that separates you from the rest, and elevates you. Thank you for your hard work 😊
"Your honour, I'd like to remind the jury that I am a middle-class white woman."
"Case dismissed."
I have BPD and I haven’t killed anyone. It’s frustrating that it is used a lot as an excuse for violence.
miriam i don’t worry, most people are smart enough to know these things come on a spectrum 💕
You deserve all the love and subscribers you have and more ❤. You're so talented and well educated and I love that you don't always go for popular crimes! I'm glad you came to TH-cam because I was a MASSIVE fan before that!
I have BPD, complex trauma and detachment disorder.. i hate when people try and use these excuses for being a horrible human being. People with these conditions can have a very sharp tongue and hurt people with their words when they are 'coding' as i call it. But id never dream of harming someone!
New sub, Emma, your channel is brilliant! I'm hooked and get to binge watch your other videos. This is a crazy case, rip Ryan 🙏
Love your videos Emma. Some are very hard to stomach but you cover every case so well, warts and all. Best crime channel EVER... Definitely a big yes from me for 2 episodes a week. Xxxx
Ooooh Em, Dalia Dippolito! You’ll love her if you haven’t seen her. And when I say love, well, you know what I mean. Dethpicable. 😂
And the fact that she said she did it because they’d both planned they wanted to be on reality tv 🤔 what?!?
The only think I can think of is the show is following the police department at that time but my god, how on earth she ended up with that I don’t know.
She made herself look even worse...if that’s possible!
@@tarawells1553 I know, right?
“What did your husband love about you?”
“My perthonality”
*cackle*
I know, my bad, making fun of the speech impediment of such an evil witch.
I died at "dethpicable"!
Is that the one who planned a hit on her boyfriend and was still asking him to help her out of jail ??
@@Jezzicar yeth 😂
Her voice is incredible, the voice of an angel and the mind of a demon
I wonder who's a better singer her or Jodi Arias who won the Christmas caroling contest with oh holy night lol look it up 😂
@@Raventooth 😂😂😂 now wouldn't that be one hell of a competition
There's one thing that always baffles me about cases like this. It's one thing to kill someone in a moment of anger but I'd be traumatised by the sight of what I'd just done after that moment of anger is over. Some of these people behave as if they see heads blown off every day!!!!! I think that's the most worrying aspect of these killers!!!
You're one of the few people that cover true crime that makes content I will watch, even if I've seen the same case covered elsewhere. You just always end up adding enough, and giving insight that makes it fresh.
Emma, been following you for years now. Always loved the docs you've appeared in! I've been glued to your account since you started and you've become a part of my Sunday wind down routine. Yes please to 2 videos a week! 🙏🏼💙
Love the way you tell these stories, well done, you are going to be massive within the TH-cam true crime sphere.
Love your insight of their relationship Emma, love your sense of humour ❤️
I can’t help it....sarcasm is in my northern blood xx
I’m so glad I found your channel! I love how your insight makes me think and think hard while I watch. I like the different points of view that are brought up. I watch quite a bit of true crime and I wouldn’t say I’m desensitized by any means but it’s easy to forget how these are real stories. What I like about watching your videos is it reminds me how terribly true these stories are and it makes me feel incredibly emotional and I am able to reflect on these cases. Also, you have an amazing personality!! Can’t wait for more content :)
Oh my god,I had no idea you have a yt. You are the reason I took psychology,because I wanted to follow you and become a criminal psychologist. ❤
One of the reasons I love your channel is because you give us links to watch the trials etc. No one else does that. ❤️❤️
Got a list of really good links that will be added to description tomorrow morning. I’ve been searching for some of the best ones and there is some great channels that showcase them. Em x
It's rainy and windy in that cozy kinda way, I'm showered and snuggly, hubby asleep on the sofa (for the win!)..I've got the whole bed and I'm ready for sunday story time with Auntie Emma 👌🏼🙌🏼🥰💜☕🍪
Me too ! I've got the dog snuggled in to me and some chocolate, love Sunday nights with em 😊
Hi Gail, lovely message, sounds like the perfect evening x
Im glad you enjoy doing this Emma, we all love what you do 👍🏻😊
Thank you for your statement on BPD. I have it and as soon as you started to describe Shayna's behavior I knew she had it. This happens quite a bit in the true crime videos I watch. But the fact the you said people with BPD don't go out and kill people helps destigmatize the disorder. 💜💜
@Emma Kenny I have been following true crime for a while now and you have quickly become one of my favorites. I have been diagnosed with BPD, PTSD, depression and anxiety due to childhood trauma and domestic violence that you can only imagine ( things seen in the movies- horror movies). It’s upsetting because people with BPD have been labeled as murderers, abusers etc and that really bothers me because I have never in my life would even think of such a thing. If anything I have only thought of harming myself and of course have extreme fear of abandonment and have extremely hard time dealing with people leaving me, but again never thought of harming anyone but myself because I have such self loathing. I am also an extreme empath. It’s bothersome that so many people think people with BPD are abusive and can easily murder others. I could never even think of hurting anyone else- in fact the most abusive relationships I was in (men abusive towards me) I’ve stayed among the severe physical, mental and sexual abuse and would not leave because #1 I was scared because they threatened me and my family if I tried to leave and #2 I thought I could help them, change them (which after lots of treatment I know I can never do that) and lastly, my extreme fear of abandonment I would stay no matter how awful the abuse- even when I came close to death because I believed I am/was unlovable and did not deserve anything better and no one else would want me- which my partners would repeat to me all the time until it became my truth. It just hurts because I often hear people talk about those with BPD as psychotic and murderers and I am the exact opposite- as I said I truly am an empath. Don’t get me wrong- I have many issues- extreme fear of abandonment, jealousy, devaluation and love bombing that can switch on a dime but I’ve been in therapy for a long time and have not been in a relationship for over 5 years and won’t until I can find love for myself and be a healthy partner to someone else. Thank you for saying not all those with BPD are murderers or abusers. I know in my case it came from childhood trauma and a teenage boyfriend much older and extremely abusive. In my case I abused myself and hated myself more than anyone else could. I know I hurt others with my unrealistic fear of abandonment, jealousy and my reality (in my mind) that I was unworthy of love and subconsciously tried to push others away so they would leave me and get the inevitable over with because it was torture waiting every day for them to leave me, which in my mind was inevitable. I know that did hurt others and put them on an emotional roller coaster but I know in my case it came from extreme self hatred and from events in my life that happened to me when I was young and innocent that shaped my sense of self as being unworthy of love and a therapist described my level of self hatred as that I was so insignificant in this world I did not believe I belong here. Thank you for saying not all people with BPD are murderers or even malicious abusers. I think it is a personality disorder that is very misunderstood. Also coupled along with PTSD, depression, anxiety, ADHD. All of this makes it even more difficult to believe I deserve love. I truly feel broken and that no one deserves all my baggage. That’s why I love animals like my cat who loves me unconditionally. But I don’t want to be alone forever. I’m just scared I will never know how to act “normal “ in a relationship. Can you please do more videos of women with abandonment issues or mental issues that maybe stay with abusers and something ends up happening. DV is a serious issue everywhere and getting worse. I love your content and your compassion to those involved. Fan for life! Also in your professional opinion (not in my case in particular because you don’t know me) but I’m a generalization, can people with BPD ever have a “normal “, healthy, happy, not co- dependent, lose the fear of living in a place where you constantly think you will be abandoned? I know you have to really work on it with CBT or DBT but is it honestly possible or has it been ingrained in your personality from such a young age that it’s just who you are and you can’t really change who you are, just manage the symptoms? I know this is long and I hope you do read it and have time for a short reply- but if anyone else reads this who has BPD or are a professional and can answer I would greatly appreciate it. 💛💛💛
Yes please for the ‘two a week’ and thank you to you too - you are wonderful to listen to !
Another amazing video and such beautiful detail! I look forward to every Sunday with Emma! I'd love to hear your input on the Michelle Carter and Conrad Roy case.
Reminder on. I've watched a video on this case. Can't wait to hear your breakdown on it 🛎🥰🥰xx
The intro music is just fantastic, so fitting. Possibly the best True Crime channel
Thankyou Emma for this video. You tell these stories so well and so interestingly! If that makes sense lol. You give so much info that's hugely helpful and keeps us engaged. You're an awesome person!
You are great describing and bringing there crimes to the public. Thankyou
Like a lot of people, I find the similarities between Shayna & Jodi Arias extremely interesting! Extremely happy to have you in the TH-cam community; your personality & talent of being extremely knowledgeable, caring, with the ability to share information about psych & criminology not only in a professional way, but also in a way that "regular" people comment on certain people & cases (ex. last week's case where you spoke on how a friend Stienkes age would've reacted if he told the his 500yr old werewolf story, it had truth & humor)! I also see the regular human & mom in you when it comes to cases involving the innocence of children, which I believe most of us share a similar anger with the most vulnerable being violated in any way.
I found your channel at the weekend, just after speaking to my mum about the same people always being on crime documentaries on the TV, and we mentioned your name!! Fate brought you to the recommendation page on my TH-cam channel. Enjoying doing lots of catching up 👍🏼 you put so much work into these videos and they’re very professionally done & enjoyable to watch.
Another great episode Emma. I'll be watching again at bedtime because I always miss little bits if I'm in the live chat. I love that part too though Emma as its full of lovely people and lots of opinions which make my Sunday nights now xx
Great presentation Emma. I’m a new person to your channel. Like the way you explained that case. I’ve subscribed. Look forward to more. Thank you 😊 your appreciated.
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Hello Sharon
I’ve watched various shows on this case but Emma tells it like no other. I’m near tears just 7 minutes in
You were always one of my favourite experts on the crime shows I watch, so I was thrilled when you started doing TH-cam 😁
EMMA YOU ARE BRIALLIANT IN TELLING THESE STORIES, AND ITS NICE TO. WATCH WITHOUT AD's, LOVE YR ACCENT☺
Love this channel..... Keep uploading.... You are so interesting in the way you retell crime. 👍
Love your passion Emma, enjoying all your videos.
I just love the journey you take us through. You're so great at telling captivating stories...and I feel like I've learned so much, too. Thank you. I'll stop ranting now :)
I watched you for many, many years on various crime shows. And I loved you just as much then. Your interpertaion/style is so easy to connect with. I'm so glad you decided to do TH-cam. Would LOVE to know more about YOU & how & why you chose this line of work..to begin with. Psychology fascinates me.
Hi Emma just subscribed to your channel love the passion and great way you explaining of social behaviours in these sick people. Keep doing what your doing x
This was a real treat as I’ve never heard of this case and Emma didn’t disappoint: an in depth analysis with her unique on point perspective. I’d also love to see two a week but the quality that goes into Emma’s videos when you consider she’s also a working psychologist, we’re privileged to have the one. Emma is a national treasure and I hope TH-cam brings her the global success she deserves.
Hi Emma! Love your content, your videos are great for putting on in the background while I do things! Would you consider making a video centred around bpd? I’m in the process of being diagnosed and it would be really helpful in understanding it more and removing some of the stigma around the disorder
My fave day of the week! Love your detail and expert opinion but also that you give your personal opinion too just makes for a great true crime video....never stop plz emma x
Love watching you Emma!! Look forward to this each week xx
OMG this just makes my day! I look forward to them so much. I love your take on their personalities! Love from Alberta, Canada
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LOL idk why that little screech in the beginning scared tf out of me 🥴🥴😂😂😂 carry on