3 Reasons People Don't Stay in Africa
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- Videotaped in Kigali, Rwanda! People are returning to Africa from all over the world - but some don't remain. Why don't they stay? Dealing with a change in culture is one of the most difficult challenges a traveler will face. We discuss experiences that we've had and some others have shared. This journey has not always been a 'bed of roses.' You will learn the critical areas and what to do about them. The 3 critical areas are 1) $ Spending, 2) Income or Job, & 3) Building Community. #diaspora #africa #eastafrica #africanamerican #blackexpat
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What a lovely solid couple! It was so refreshing just watching the dynamics of your interactions when communicating.
You both seem very sound, relaxed, peaceful, patient and methodical in your mindset - this gives for a great partnership/relationship - and the ability for great Family upbringing qualities.
Great info about when one is thinking of moving to another part of the world, I find that how I evaluate another country is by first visiting more than once, check out lifestyle things like, supermarkets, buses, clothes shops etc, Look and compare things you like and would being doing, like gyms, spas, swimming pools, Art classes, places to shop or walk, and places of interest that you would like to visit etc,.
If you feel the new place has alot of lifestyle you like, choose an area you like and come back and rent a place for 2 months or more to get a real feel if it's somewhere you would like to live long term.
Thank you 🙏🏾 for watching and the compliments.
These are great tips that you have shared. Others who take your advice to heart will be further ahead in their journey.
As an african, who have been to America and lived there and travel around the country, the number one thing that I didn't like in US, is the treatment of African Americans,in AA neighborhoods poverty level is heartbreaking, but yet my AA brothers and sisters embraced me as as one of their own!
Like what treatment? What exactly do you mean?
Everything in Africa is built and owned by others some Africans still live in mud huts black ladies in Nigeria are selling their bodies for clean drinking water black Africans are still being enslaved by the Arabs in Africa right now black Americans are just fine
The racism towards African Americans is horrible! Police brutality against African Americans is horrible too!
@@honeychick4ever280 its so true 👍🏾
you're Africa American stop lying to us. African Americans don't like Africans I lived in USA for 7 good yrs. they try to talk to you once they will hear your African accent they will avoid talking to you. to my opinion I never got any love from any African Americans but I got love from other people like Mexican, Jamaican, and some whites
People are so busy romanticising the Continent' they forget this IS a profound life changing event.
Well said.
@We the "People of the Sun". We understand both of your comments…respect.
True. I suggest just visiting for a few years first.
Well the USA and UK have romanticised war, colonisation, displacement and genocide in films, books and on telly.
I always believe in the roman metaphor:if you choose to live in Rome, you must follow the Romans's ways of life.So far, I heard from the couple is artificially ways of thinking.
I think that some African countries might not be a good fit for all African Americans. I have seen many African Americans go to places like Ghana, Gambia, Tanzania, Rwanda, and others, but some end up leaving for different reasons. One funny reason I heard from a couple that left Ghana was that the wife couldn't find American snacks. However, I have also seen many African Americans who are doing well in Africa because they learned to adjust to the local lifestyle and culture. They don't complain about things like how people drive or ignore stop signs. There is no perfect country or continent in this world. I know many friends who feel very sad in the US and want to leave. At the same time, many people want to go to America because they think it's an easy place to make money.
It's not easy to make money.
America don't need anybody now.Unfortunately they are flooded from unskilled immigration from South America.Too much violence in USA and drug.
You need to ban drug use and gun in home use.
Thank African Business News.
You sum it up perfectly when I see how beautiful these non American countries are I marvel at the beauty and simplicity. Yes you need money anywhere you live however, there are less stress people are more relaxed once you adopt to wherever you choose to live out of North America. Before, you make that decision visit that countries you have in mind, spend sometimes with the locals and see how much it would cost to live there. There a few places I admire when I watch David’s youtube and the countries and places he visited. The lushness I don’t like the cities the countryside once there’re proper facilities and amenities eg. like good running water that all life is about simplicity.
Hi edagdwg God bless this man for sharing the truth about what happens when you leave were you are living now pay attention to what you want to what you need life is soooooo real don't follow other people go because you really want to. Not just because you are black pay attention think about your own family .pray about it talk to God ask questions he's waiting to hear from you Linda j. Peace
I'll admit I'm one of those Africans who thinks it's easy to make money there.
Breaking the stop light is not a petty thing it's dangerous
So interesting, my husband and I lived in Europe for 3 years and had some culture shock.
This video does make me feel like as African Americans we don’t have a home😢 We sometimes don’t feel wanted in USA and we realize ( because we are well traveled) that Africa is not our home either even though it’s our homeland. Thus is the plight for many African Americans.
Well said thank you 😊
I feel great in America and bless God for this country. If you can't be at peace anywhere it is something inside you. Teddy Pendergrast had a song that went "...you can't run from yourself. Everywhere you go, there you are".
@@monember2722 That’s not necessarily true. The fact of the matter is that America has been very hostile towards Black people, and I can’t see how you can blame someone for not feeling at home here.
Home is where you make it.
This is our country that our ancestors built we don’t have to go anywhere. Immigrants are dying in the oceans to get over here
they should run a radioshow, very calming voices ♥️
Fi real inoh.
Making me get drowsy at work while I'm piloting this helicopter.
Facts dude could legit host a podcast talking about this topic alone.
Would love to see it!
I agree
The problem is that People coming to Africa paint the whole continent with the same brush. Africa is diverse and there are more advanced counties in Africa, counties will never be the same. It will good to speak about the country you have relocated to not about the whole continent
Tell them again.
That’s true too.
Your energy and vibration as a couple is admirable. Continued success!
🙏🏾
i just wanna say as someone who lived in uganda for 2 years and plans to live and teach in ghana, thank u for saying 'east africa' and 'the continent of africa' because people at my school keep on saying 'africa' like it's a country and dont even take the time to figure out the region theyre talking about.
Hi 👋🏽. LoL you got it. Trying to combine western thinking with reality. Purest here don’t realize how “we think”. Check out our “Do You Say Rwanda or East Africa?” video. I just wish folk would consider the continent. All the best.
Wow, the respect these two have for each other is admirable and refreshing. Such a lovely couple.
Definitely great to see Black couples with God in their lives - setting a powerful example!
Actually, the selection of a God-fearing spouse who is supportive and equally yoked is the most important and most valuable investment you can make!
Period!
I noticed that too!
Yeeeeees I love how they listen to each other without interrupting.
@@geatodaoz6043 There are many AA people similar to these two still living in America. But if we all focus on what the media want us to see we will think differently
Very sweet taking notes want to do better with this with my spouse
I'm Ugandan but moved to US . I faced the same challenges like you when I got to the US but I can tell you the social challenges you face in the US as an immigrant are the worst compared to anywhere in the world especially if you're black. The only advantage I had was that in Africa, they teach us to always appreciate who we are and where we come from. That self appreciation and esteem is so powerful that even when we face any challenges outside Africa, we're always relaxed and have a sense that we can always bounce back anytime we wish to.
It's so easy to go back to Africa if you're originally from Africa than it is to bounce back to any other continent financially.
But like they said , if you don't have a stable source of income flowing in, don't even think of moving to Africa especially if you come from a rich developed nation like the mighty United States of America. 😊 The disadvantages of making that move out weigh the advantages if you don't have a source of income.
That's the main reason why even Africans leave Africa. To look for better sources of income otherwise Africa is by far the best continent to live if you have money to sustain your life style. Organic food, good people, beautiful weather, less taxes, more social life as opposed to working all the time like in the US, peace of mind etc. The list goes on and on. But bottom line is you need to have a stable income just to sustain an average life style.
Investing in real estate would be the easiest way to create a stable income when you get to Africa. Success guaranteed 👍🏿
You said it. That's why so many Africans leave Africa 🌍 and why so many of us don't move to Africa because job opportunities are not good at all. Having money and a good income is key to living and having a good life 😌. These two people have worked and saved their money and are now older and retired and living on Social Security. They now have a steady income that enables them to live in Africa. They don't have to work anymore and try to make a living.
Keep in mind this couple is not too old. They are living off their military benefits. Which is a good thing. However, most AAs are not in the same situation as they. If not all but some AAs have to keep working for many years to get some where financially past 62 years old. Please correct me if I'm wrong.
@@mariecarr3344 True. Thats a BIG DEAL when you have those military benefits. They go a long way. If you have to keep working past 62 by the time you're able to retire your body is usually acting up.
One extended family member did 20 years miltary=pension; then did 20 years at va hospital in d.c. by then he was 67 so he took social security AND retired from va hospital with a federal pension as well.
Sadly, this person is a boring, stuck in the mud type. Money cant help him here, in Africa or elsewhere.
@@user-eu3qy8uf7f that is what I don't want for my life. Working til ag 67 is crazy because you are playing the lottery. You are usually sick or developed some type of sickness physical or mental working in the federal government that long. Ask me how I know. There is no amount of money in the world worth staying in the federal government that long.
@@mariecarr3344 Thanks for your comment. We’re not military, nor were we a 2-salary household. I do not receive SSI, my wife does for the few years prior to her homeschooling for 24 years. We pray a lot and are grateful to God. We respect other’s situation and where they might be financially.
I just came across this channel and subscribed. I was born in Kenya 🇰🇪 and moved with my family to the US more than 20 years ago and now,my husband and I are actively planning on retiring in Kenya!I dare say that when we moved here,we never thought that we would be making this move!Somehow, the mind blocked this thought and all we concentrated on was taking care of our kids. We're really looking forward to retiring in Kenya 🇰🇪 It's very exciting and relaxing because we've been visiting Kenya every year, so,we're familiar with the changes that occurred while we were away 😀 Thanks for sharing your experiences, I'm sure many people will benefit from this ❤🙏
Thank you for subscribing 🙏🏾. Blessings to your family‼️
Just saw this video, as a Kenyan living in the diaspora but still traveling to Kenya every year, I have to say living in Africa IS EXPENSIVE if you are not ready to live as the locals do.
Even cornflakes cost more in Kenya than in SWITZERLAND (a place people consider to be expensive).Nutella? an affordable for a regular Kenyan.
I have lived abroad for a longer period of my life than I have lived in Kenya,but I have to admire people like you who can do it, because even having family in Kenya, thinking of going to settle in Kenya seems confusing because I can`t figure out how things really work.
As you mentioned,I think anyone planning to move to Africa needs Residual income. Instead of thinking they`ll start a business when they get there.
Thanks for your opinions
I noticed this at the main local convenience store, on returning to Ghana after many many years.
Shame how they gouge us.
@@thetrickisirarelyrespond5945 well cornflakes and nutella are imoorted good and they will be expensive because of the taxss on them. I est locally anyway. Much healfhiee
@@senecagoes6595it's expensive for everyone.
So I think one of the biggest takeaways involves knowing WHY you are going, understanding WHAT you are leaving behind (“running” from), WHAT you are seeking (“running” to). And realizing there is a cost to every decision.
Say it loud for the people in the back of the room.
@@southafricaismyhome814 Respect ✊🏽 I’ve seen the vids. We hope to own a little something something there too.
I’m just exploring for people. Some may not want the ATL/NY of the east side of the Atlantic. Some want less metropolitan, hills vs ocean, perfect climate year round, top notch safety & security, clean streets…people have options - we can’t decide for them. Each individual goes for what’s salient to them. Respect.
@@southafricaismyhome814 I watched Drone Snap (March 2022) and enjoyed it. This is on my list, meaning my son had called the SA embassy here for proper information. Let’s stay connected‼️🙋🏾♂️
@@awakenwithmark Africa is a large continent with more than 1.2 billion people and 54 countries don't generalise on your video topic
💯 enough said... you forget your purpose YOU still remain amongst the LOST!
The deal is “when you go to Rome, live like the Romans”. You move way out there and try to import everything you’re used to from wherever you come from will be a little… expensive 😏
I remember listening to a testimony of a teacher here in the US becoming disenchanted with where she was living. She decided to move to Alaska. She was a single mother with a young daughter of about age 10. She arranged before arriving in Alaska to have a teaching job already lined up. But she was struck by the prices being so different in Alaska. She said one grapefruit costs nearly $5.
Africa is a good visit. Living amongst my people is wonderful. I am staying where my foundations began East Sioux.
When Americans go to Europe they do say I'm going to Germany,France,UK , Spain etc but going to Africa you look at us as east and west,north south,central yet we have countries
EEEEEeewwwwwww, ugh!
Don't forget the islands such as Lamu (Kenya), Sao Tome e Principe, Cape Verde, Madagascar, Reunion, Mayotte and couple of others.
The major issue in Africa is health care. This is a major problem on the continent.
Wonderfully said and that is to be in charge of your finances.
I just finally became in charge of my finances and this is the best I have felt in my adult life.
I am fifty eight years old and it took me fourth years to learn the finance game.
Because of trying to buy love from family and then friends this lesson became hard to break free and learn from my bad financial decisions.
To sum it all up and that is this is the best I have felt internally and it’s all because I am in charge of my finances.
Thank you.
Your video reminds me of my family's transition from military life to civilian life when my father retired after 20 years in the army/navy. I was only 12, but I was sooo angry and frustrated because I could not adjust to life off the post, the people I encountered and living in a segregated black and white world. There were numerous differences I saw between my military brat life and the way my cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents lived but having to start living that life and adjust to certain mindsets that seemed inferior felt like someone was beating me every day. Eventually, I had to learn that if I looked down on the way people lived and thought around me then I was keeping my struggle current and alive. When I finally decided to look at things as different and not lessor I had was able to move into what had been set before me. I had to stop comparing every single thing and stop resisting the changes I needed to make in my thinking. You will never be happy with new surroundings if you hold onto old memories and mindsets.
I don't know if you thought that I would respond. I totally receive what you are saying. Thank you!!!
Thank you for the comment, yes, we are reminded of this truth everyday since we first got here: we have to adjust our mindset and focus on the positive 💡
@awakenwithmark Actually, I didn't consider whether you would respond or not. Your video brought to mind the struggle I experienced in such a strong way. I had actually forgotten a lot of the specific feelings and thoughts I was having back in 1980. Writng my comment was cathartic and revelatory concerning how much I have grown and how much I have learned about not allowing emotions to guide my choices. Blessings on you and your family.
Totally agree with the sentiments here. I am Jamaican first African second. My ancestors were brought to Jamaica as slaves so I still hold Africa close to my heart. The most common reasons people migrate to America is economic opportunities period. I would go back to Jamaica tomorrow. However to survive in Jamaica as in any other place you must have money coming in or have money set aside. There is no other place where we as black people will feel accepted other than our homeland. The disparity in wealth and education make it harder for us than others. If only we could join togather our resources and build our own instead of building others. I am proud of my people regardless we are not the worst.
@Paulette Wright Thanks for your comment. AADOS, African American Descendants of Slaves, have great difficulty in the US because we do NOT have a solid connection with a homeland. I am torn to define us because my one mind knows we AADOS began as US slaves under the absolute worse slavery system ever anywhere followed by Jim Crow & other overt and covert systems of oppression. These experiences bred a people who struggle to join other Black folk who come from communities that encouraged pride. Understand with empathy that AADOS were taught and learned very well that Black people are not worth much unless they are working for low wages or are entertaining. That is, however, why we were brought here. I expect immigrants to achieve goals faster than AADOS because it is engrained in our psyches to exist without hope, dreams & self-worth. Our past successes have been met with burned & flooded townships, systems that end our Renaissance period, yt folks pulling/severing our best & brightest from us. I could go on and on. Requesting your prayers and patience. Love and respect to you.
So the millions of killings in Africa by Black run Governments is acceptance???
@mike James I am hoping you did not think I was in any way turning a blind eye to millions of death in Africa. killings anywhere Africa or elsewhere is unacceptable. Corruption and power is the main reason outside of natural disasters. Poverty play a huge part and is man made. Get rid of those two and maybe things can change for the better. However I don't see any changes anytime soon. These are the reasons people leave. Africa is the most beautiful continent let's say place on the planet. Erase poverty and who would leave? Tell me who would leave except those who were stolen.
african first jamaican second, get it right fool [slave]
@@gdcskates WHY??? My people came from Eastern Europe. They were running from slavers and death. I am an AMERICAN!!!
I'm currently in Namibia, Africa and the cost of food is not cheap, but the quality of some food items is so much better than in the USA. I gave up Ice cream I. The USA because it made me sick, but here I can eat it everyday because it's natural, like you said, real fruit and no chemicals in the ice cream I found. Thanks for sharing!
What’s the COVID-19 situation
STOP LYING.. AMERICA HAS THE BEST QUALITY FOOD MORESO THAN ANY COUNTRY IN AFRICA. STOP THIS ROMANTICIZING AND MISLEADING AMERICANS
Welcome to Namibia Sis. Welcome.
In the US, you simply needed to read labels on food and ice cream. Buy organic and non GMO products ( and food with no pesticides) which are massively labeled now in the US. that is how you dont get sick when eating in US. US offers everything to consumers do you have to be more educated and more smarter consumer buyer in order to eat healthier..that is all.. In the US, there are even grocery chains that offer only organic and non GMO products as well as Hispanic food chains Asian chains , international food markets etc that offer the same products that find overseas and Africa. You might need to explore the difference culture of the various demographics of the 50 states of America more ( especially the African, Hispanic, Asian, neighborhoods and communities of there larger southern cities of America and even if you go Canada you can experience more cultures) and you will see what I am referring to..And you will be surprised that you have relocate overseas to get experience the same culture and foods as you are finding in Africa .
Namibia is a beautiful place
I moved from California to Mississippi and it's a culture shock 🤯
Where in California? Mississippi made me nervous.
@@awakenwithmark I lived in the San Fernando Valley, Tarzana to be exact. I loathe living in Mississippi, I live in North Central Mississippi now. I've been watching alot of videos on Ghana 🇬🇭 the good and the bad. I am interested in going for a trip possibly. Thanks for this upload.
@@smoothflight3090 Your very welcome 🙏🏾. We enjoyed SoCal which was way different from DC.
Sadly, many folks are worried about banking, cars, etc., not many people are considering the mindset which is everything - pay attention to the cultural impact. Hope this makes sense. Best to you.
@@awakenwithmark I love LA I understand it's a bit much, I was born there, it's all I know. Yes, I have to be mindful of the cultural differences. Blessings to you both. All Praises to TMH YAH Forever 🌺
@@smoothflight3090 APTTMH
I don't know how I found this, but I thank you for letting me and others into this special moment of your life. I laughed, I cried, I cheered you two on. It was wonderful! I'm in the hospital recovering from surgery and this truly lifted my spirits.
Thanks. We hope that you recuperate and are back on your feet soon. 🤗
I hear you fam, I'm from North Carolina, now living in South Africa. Still wrapping my head around the higher prices here, considering alot of people don't earn a lot here. I too am retired military, and turning 62 next month. So with my military pension, and my SSI, I'm well.
I thought I was losing my head how no one can keep track of their money anymore. Everything went up exponentially and swiftly with nothing to show for it. Even the VAT went up but no other taxes went up. Nope, we've been sold out by our president
We will check out SA and other countries.
No wonder why you people are doing well in Africa as compared to other AAs. You people are veterans/military retirees who are benefiting from the fruits of your labor. There is nothing wrong with that. Good for you people. However, you people need to keep in mind some AAs are not you (veterans/military retirees). Hence, you need to come from a different angle so that some AAs can relate, not all.
@@mariecarr3344 We are not veterans/military, just regular folk who could not afford US retirement. We also were not a 2 salary household.
Ok. Good for you. I'm referring to those people who are living in Africa (US veterans/military retirees) who receiving monthly retirement income from America. Some AAs are not in that category. That is why the word some and not all are used in the statement.
I’m a Mexican brought here to the US as a child and am planning on moving back to Mexico. I have thought about it heavily and it’s not even another continent.
I’m imagining my worry and concerns about moving back because if you don’t move back with money or a retirement income, you’re jacked, although there’s work around the world, it’s not good work and probably not what you did in the states and def not the same pay.
My brother moved back and told me to take my time, save, and have enough to buy a small home and start a small business.
I have thought that I would give up everything once I got there and go down to be a bare minimalists - but you don’t think of the boredom or anxiety built up because of that.
So I’m saving, working on having an income I can rely on while I establish myself in Mexico, and taking it day by day from then on.
I’ve even thought of moving to Africa , lol , and I only laugh because I have worries about moving next door.
But if I can make it in Mexico, I believe I can make it in Africa and I would want to live in an African nation once in my life time, establish a business so that we as indigenous people of our continents may work together, at the grassroots levels.
Maybe you’ll see me walking around ten years from now 😁
Excellent view points
@@daphneytennard3267 Thank you 🙏🏼
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@@thedangerousbeauty 🥰🙏🏽
That was good to hear you say that. 👏🏽
This interview has proven to be very informative. I have been to West Africa in 1976 in my younger years. I noticed the culture shock I experienced. I like many of my peers we romanticized about Africa. First of all, Africa is a continent, not one country. And there are many different languages and lifestyles in various countries. This interview raised many issues that need to be considered before making that move. Here in the U.S. our thinking and bodies are commercialized for certain foods and medicine. A stream of income is vital. That's why so many people are coming to America, looking for job opportunities or economic growth. My suggestion in the future is for African Americans to build a base in our communities to sustain those of us who wish to take up residence in whatever country we chose to visit on the continent of Africa. I know that is a tall order and anything worth having is worth building.
If indians and the Chinese,who can be racist as hell, can build foundations in the continent Black americans can also do the same.
Africa is beautiful. I visited and met some wonderful people but some of them are very slick. You need to make sure you have backup. Culture shock can be something to think about. You need to visit before you think of a move there. Happy for you guys.
I’m from Kenya & live in the US. I’ve lived in different states here. From personal experience, I can imagine how weird it would get for an American to move down there. That culture shock would certainly be too much for someone to easily get into on a permanent living basis. Easy to visit temporarily as a tourist but becoming a long term resident would be difficult because of the reasons you’ve mentioned.
The conveniences like getting goods delivered would be hard to swallow because in the US there’s a designated home address countrywide but in Kenya, a little hard to receive goods at home since most established folks have a Post Office Box where they can pick up their packages/mail.
Most people who make these videos already have established businesses in the US, have wealthy families supporting them financially abroad, are retired and have stable fixed incomes or are ‘social media influencers’... NOT your average Joe. Meaning it’s not that easy to simply move to another country in a different continent (especially in Africa/Asia/South America).
Foreigners probably work in private sector businesses like in tech too. In the continent of Africa, don’t walk around telling everyone that you’re a FOREIGNER because locals AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT YOU HAVE PLENTY OF MONEY & things will cost you a premium price- some folks might expect bribes or tips. You’re expected to have some foreign currency coming from abroad because struggling locals won’t understand you claiming to have given everything to ‘move back to the motherland’ when some are trying to get out for better opportunities. Always think about that. I’m not saying everyone will be jealous or negligence of your whatever situation but be cautious. Most people will love you but there will also be many opportunistic folks lurking around. A very informative video fam. 👏
but yet you were able to leave Kenya and face the cultural shock in America
I believe you and also agree with you. Same in Jamaica, some foreigners are even killed because people think they’re rich.
I made a comment above. You’re on point. I agree with many of the things you stated.
Thanks for your authenticity and candor. I have lived abroad. It would’ve been quite rude and disrespectful to assume that one’s culture or language is superior. Both of you seem to have embraced where you are instead of trying to remake your new society/community.
I missed Jiff peanut butter when I was living abroad. 😊 it’s amazing what we may miss. Thank you.
I have a friend that lives in Nigeria and she years everyday to come to America. I agree that an American has to come there with some sort of residual income in order to move there and live comfortably.
Interesting.. I remember watching a YT video of a sistah , husband, kids from Midwest, moved to West Africa to open a hair salon..She complained about power outages, non brand names, and snacks, people charging much more when they know you have American accent.. They were fed up and planning to move back to USA We need more examples of those that give their experience, good and bad..
Their governments are unstable too. But,
*Look at the pictures of slaves on those ships?*
Look very closely.
*How many you think could live that way after three to four weeks chained together like that?*
Piss, Shit, Eat, and all other body functions.? No windows.
*A Double Decker Ship?*
How large a crew, Where will the crew sleep, eat, row the ship?
*We didn't come from Africa!*
African slaves was brought over, but not the numbers we was told.
20,000 accounted for only.
Cause the hardest thing to accept is, just because people are you're color doesn't mean they're your kind. Africans know who black American are and they treat them as such when they come to their continent, black Americans just dint know...
I remember that. Especially when she said snacks 😆 🤣 😂
Is that the lady from Atlanta? I remember her
tell them to stay there
As someone of Nigerian heritage who has recently downsized, semi retired and relocated to Abuja, Nigeria all the advice you two gave in your video I feel is spot on.
I thing much of it comes from your maturity and life experience.
I think a lot of younger people come to live in an African country from abroad or even returning to their African country of heritage come too stary eyed.
Flexibility is key to successful living in the continent.
🙏🏾
How is Abuja?
At 14:00......it is very different in the states bc people from other countries can come here (US) and get hired before a citizen of this country.
There are 54 countries in Africa. They each have their own languages and cultures. It depends on where you live on the African continent.
What kind of Law Enforcement is in Africa? What are their laws etc. For living in Africa.
@@malakahbanathyasharahla2302 Africa isn’t a country
Damn I didn’t even know that. Sheesh, 56? That’s big.
@@tpmash We know it’s a continent American we use to saying country. continent. Country. City. Road. All the same
You guys are so calm and full of wisdom. Such important factors for consideration. Thank you 🙏🏾
Blessings. We’ve been through a lot and we thank God 🙏🏾.
@@awakenwithmark Hello I'm from guinea bisssau,I watch you for the first time today and I like your advices
As someone who immigrated to the US back in the late 1970s from Pakistan, this was very good common sense advice. Americans in general have become so used to living on credit cards to the point the word "budget" (as you mentioned) does not exist in their vocabulary. If your income is there, there is nothing like moving to another country after doing your due diligence/research. You may not get everything that you were used to in the West but if you change your mindset, it is not that difficult. Great video!
You are not correct. Everyone doesn't qualify for credit in the West. You have to have good credit to qualify for credit here. Some do, but most don't for various reasons. If you don't qualify for credit, you can't live off of it.
@@anniemouse1739 accurate about what?
@@anniemouse1739every in the US don’t have a high credit score, or have a lot of things.
Great video with lots of applicable info. I have a friend who lived in Africa for about 5 years (Malawi and Uganda). She said some of the good things was the fresh food off the trees, and this made the locals very healthy. Downsides as you mentioned were electricity and other conveniences, which cost much more. She learned to appreciate things and not to waste as much.
I think it depends on the person whether they would like and do well in Africa. There are so many factors, so whomever has this dream to live there, best of luck and may it be a good journey.
I hope others read your comments.
You and your wife gave excellent advice whether they are moving to Africa or staying in America especially get out of debt.
The issue w/ money should get placed at the top of priority when relocating to Africa (or any other part of the world). I'm also lucky to receive retirement income, that's why I refuse to dive feet first overseas. In fact, I'm probably going to live as a part time expat to get acclimated. Because living somewhere and spending time on vacation in The Motherland are two different things
Very strategic thinking!
That's the issue anywhere.
Love these two! They're so respectful of each other and don't interrupt or raise their voice. I could listen to them giving me advice all day every day! Much love xo
I really appreciate y’all taking the time to make this video. It was very informative and enlightening. I been thinking of making that move and y’all gave me some things to consider. I have done my due diligence but y’all have even gave me more perspective. I hope y’all do another and include things like health care and housing. I have lived in different countries so its not totally new to me but that was military. Also things like the banking system and the different laws and customs. Thanks a lot and I hope the most High continues to bless you both
There's a LOT of negatives about moving to Africa which the youtubers who are promoting how nice it is, never mention for some reason. That's my biggest gripe with those youtubers because it doesn't give an impression that is balanced and many people will actually move and find out later it's not what they thought it would be. One has to be very adaptable when moving to Africa from a highly developed country.
@earlymann1954.....you are absolutely correct. The UTubers always want people to believe that the move to Africa is mostly positive. however; most people moving to Africa are moving because of their "emotions." They use terms like the motherland to make people believe that they're moving to paradise. As far as finances are concerned Africa will not help you if you go broke. There is no unemployment, social security, or welfare help if you really need it. The infrastructure is not reliable. Black outs of electricity are the norm. The people can be very unreliable and will think nothing of cheating you with a smile on their face. Another thing is that many African countries are politically unstable. You never know when things are going to jump off and you have no safety net anywhere.
100%FACTS!👏👏👏👍
So few of those who want to go to Africa
talk about the grinding poverty!
Earlymann1954 did talk about the
infrastructure. I have a lady friend from
Nigeria. The power outages are ridiculous. Only the rich has medical
insurance. And the extreme corruption
Actually, I find TH-camr presentations cover the spectrum of rationales for going to The Continent. The main take away is to have a purpose and build toward your goals....💯
There's no negative with healers and builders.....💯
The two things I think I need for a successful transition is, 1. My money (income) has to be right. And 2. My reason for coming to Africa has to be more important than any reason I have for staying in the US. I have to really want it. If those two things are right, I'll overcome any inconvenience, or obstacles, as long as I can gain a long term residence. I've been to Ghana for 1 month. I plan to return to Ghana in December to really begin to make myself a new life there.
That's interesting, I hope you do a blog, because im thinking about moving there. 😊
Congratulations 👏
This is such a blessing to hear...Thank you for sharing ❤️
Stumbled across this video and I'm so glad I did! You shared some truly valid points and although I have no plan to relocate (I'm of African Caribbean heritage, born and raised in the UK) the pearl's of wisdom you both shared work well for me in the life I have here. I wish you both well with blessings all round.
I started coming to East Africa about 7 years ago, I used that time to make friends there, learn how to live, and recently got an apartment of my own there to experience what it's like to live there as a resident. I agree with all you said, Biggest thing is that people need to embrace the differences in culture and way of life and doing things. Also, make local friends and you won't feel as lonely away from home. I find that I miss being in Africa when I am back in USA for short periods.
Strategic!
When you're in Africa you notice the simplicity of living. I experienced the same in my first visit.
@@shaddyraddy92 Deep 👍🏽
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I heard many African Americans who moved to South Africa say that it is easier to transition to South Africa. No language barrier, because South Africans speak English, grocery and other things that you need are cheaper if you have the American dollar, you won't miss anything that you were used to in the US because everything is here. The other thing is that South Africans and African Americans share similar history and struggles. Perhaps if you can try to make a research on South Africa.
South africans have too much problems please leave the country alone. Let the South African recuperate first then you can come. Eish give us a break
😅😅😅this is so funny to me
We AA are struggling with racism here; why go somewhere and have to deal the same thing?
Transitioning in a more formal economy like South Africa with malls and Dilivery services Formal economy property rights and good private medical care is better there is no language barrier and expectations for tip
Always visit first…..if you can’t last a few weeks you might wanna stay in America…..there’s no social services to fall back on or regular bus taxi services like the states.
Very informative. Thank you both because this hits so many things that excitement may make one overlook. One could surely make a checklist off this insert. 🙏🏽 thanks
What I see is the main issue in the continent of Africa is it lacks oneness. There is no singular language connection as well as still internal tribal strife throughout the continent. The analogy you used about language moving to different parts of the United States is really not comparable. In the United States we all speak English with different dialects. The costs of food is due to the lack proper infrastructure. First time watching your video so I may be getting ahead of myself. I am very curious what type of healthcare is in place. That would be the most important thing more so at your age.
I am not planning on going to Africa, but I really enjoyed this so much.
I'll stay here in the us where I was born...i keep telling our people its nothing there for them if you are not rich...why do you think they come here? NO jobs there are easy money if you want to live decent.
Thank you for sharing. I am glad you both are being transparent and do hope many appreciate what you are sharing. There is a lot of stuff we have in North America that we do not need. Blissings to you both!
This was so helpful. Thank you!!!!
Being an expat myself I understand every word. The life of seeing such vast difference in the world changes the corridors of your minds mental agility. You eventually are only able to engage in conversation with travelers 🧳 who know how vast life is. Those who aren’t well traveled think very limited only they don’t know it so when they speak with such authority yet aren’t aware that they are so inexperienced in the vastness of life is a whole level of patience you better have equipped. Otherwise it’s very frustrating and seemingly stunting to converse too long.
So these kinds of videos are so useful to those preparing to go abroad. Travel with the most opened mind you can.
Prepare for DIFFERENCE. Lots of it!
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Wonderful comment
great way to put it.. totally agree.
some of those who aren't well-traveled think only their world exist, but being well traveled or not, to understand that there is a vast world out here beyond what is seen is important and to understand everyone and everything isnt the same.
@@sirletanedd1771 That's exactly what Dizza said
This is one of the best videos of living as an expat on the African continent. Loved the honesty and advice.
Yes Indeed!
What a beautiful couple the 2 of you are! Very genuine and open minded. Everything you said is true. I just want to add that one of the reasons why imported items are sometimes very expensive in Africa is that governments take a huge cut in customs tariffs.
Here in Africa and can concur and attest to these reality checks especially in landlocked African nations. Being a business administration grad specialized in marketing with a book keeping & computerized accounting diplomas, and worked in sales for some years, budgeting is keep part of every plan and initiative taken personal or business; Africa in generals biggest problems are a result of mismanagement, so nipping it in the bud with discipline and good planning is key success factor.✊🏿🙏🏾
Medcal, hygienic, credibly, and security is what I need! Not Afrca, I’m still looking!
I can resonate because its like relocating from Nigeria to US, African foods here is like thrice the price or more. The answer is to try to become localized in your lifestyle and resort to local alternatives. Thanks for sharing y'all. I'd definitely go back when I retire in a few years.
Thank you for imparting your knowledge of the continent. I've enjoyed my time in West Africa and what you said definitely resonates there, as well. All the best to you!
I have a cousin, and a very good friend who are both retired US military one lives in South Africa and one lives in Tanzania. They love it.
Hi, I came to Tanzania a year ago, it wasn't a culture shock but I was surprised at the quality of things was less, that's why I shipped my own furniture, yard supplies, appliances, cosmetics, clothing, and a few medical supplies. I also had things in my shipment that were broken and stolen by people here and I am in litigation about that now.
Love Tanzania 🇹🇿 be back soon
Spent 3 months
Sorry to hear. What kind of permit did you acquire (student/business/etc.)?
I'm from Kenya and lived in the U.S since my college days in 1990. I abruptly moved back to Kenya briefly for a couple of years in 1998 when my Dad passed on. Even though that was home , most of my family lives there and I speak Swahili, it took awhile to adjust to the way business and things work over there. I've been back in the U.S for over 12 years now and looking to retire back to Kenya coz I love my motherland and there's no place like home. However, I will have to have a major plan on what I want to do ( Farming)when I get there, I have to research and I plan to start off by slowly transitioning ( 6 months there,6 months here) before completely moving. There will be challenges in some conveniences that I am used to and learn patience in services offered...in hospitals, government offices etc.
I am currently in Malindi, Ke . 2 years + kids , Patience is a real virtue , trust me you need lots of it . Kenyan mentality reminds me of southern italy in that the second -people realize you are out of town . they overcharge you on basic commodity. i learned to be vigilant in italiy and i took the skill to Kenya . I am ruthless, i haggle all the time.
@@PHlophe - Is there a way that I can contact you as I am planning to move to Kenya next year.
@@PHlophe this is just every country. Has nothing to do with Kenya. The first thing you do when you move to a new country is get yourself "assimilated". Don't act foreign. If you act foreign, everyone will treat you as a foreigner
bottom line: Go to Rome, do what romans do
Partnerships also go a long way in ensuring that you make the right connection and decision...
All the best in your endeavours..
Yall always say your going back to Africa but never do.
Love this informative vid, it will help people all over, not just for Africa, but for other countries too, i agree with them totally, i have been going back and forth from the caribbean from 1971, and i have learnt allot since, please spend some time in the country you wish to settle in first, you can up and leave, but the best thing to do for most people is to spend time first.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It was a lot of help in letting someone know what it’s like living in a another country.
Thank you for sharing. 1research where you would like to visit/live . 2 get your passport and visa if needed 3. go visit for three weeks or more. 4 write down what you want to take sell and donate 5.save for your move including shipping . 6 sell your house or get a property manager . 7. Check off as you complete .8. Say goodbye to family and friends. 9 download whatsapp so you can talk to your family and friends. 10 relax and enjoy life in your new rental while your mansion is being built with guest house and a pool in Africa.
It takes a while to get used to a different environment. Loneliness is definitely something to consider, building relationships takes time in one's native country, let alone oversees.
Yes, and sadly people don’t give this area the amount of planning that it should have. Folks think that they can ask others where they should live, it doesn’t work like that. One must be accountable for their own happiness.
This was a very articulate, well thought dump of information, and I realize now that my people aren't ready for a move like this
I really enjoyed listening to you talk about the various experiences that you learned while living in a foreign country. And how planning and preparation are essential in order to make a successful transition. There's so much to consider, money being the primary consideration, because you have to be able to sustain yourself. Get to know others. Good advice.
Alot people don't last in Africa because they have unrealistic expectations of what life will be like. #Afrikansuperstar
I found in my trips to Ghana, that the shopping centers, restaurants and hotels are priced for tourists and the wealthy, several items was similar priced or higher than the USA.
Facts
I love this video You and your wife did Mark. People need to know these things before packing up and moving to the continent. This your neighbor Troy. One Love!
Thank you both for keeping it real!!!
Ppl should learn local language,culture, and economy. Many folks move on a whim and never been to the country. Yet open a business and failed.
I hope people see your comment.
I believe a specific type of AA moves to Joburg, South Africa. Some are retired, while others work remotely for US companies and live in Joburg or Cape Town. The trend is your Ph.D./ Business type of individuals, Realtors, etc., giving very positive feedback.
@Ricky V28, if some Countries such as Gambia would focus on improving their infrastructure, electricity, sewage and drainage, roads, and poor internet issues perhaps more people in the Diaspora would consider moving. People who have jobs in the Tech industry would be at a disadvantage if they move to countries with frequent power outages and poor internet services,
Infrastructure development is so important.
@@bslat10 I agree 100%. South Africa 🇿🇦 faces the challenge that USA faces with caravans over the years entering. We have so many people coming over the border to use our state hospitals. Infrastructure development is so important. Our neighbouring countries Governments are really not making it easy for South Africa. So a huge influx illegally from our neighbours, no critical skills, mostly general labour to come and look for work just to put bread on the table. Some now rape South African women and kill them, it is all over the news at the moment. Criminals are entering it is a headache 🤕
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@@bslat10 The number 1 issue is corruption imo. Money is chipped away at every level of government.
Thank you for sharing your experience and pros/cons of moving to Africa
Great discussion. I love this. Thank yall ❤
Welcome to Africa,Sir and Madam,hope u enjoy your stay in the motherland, but I'm wondering which African country are u at,?I hear u complain about high prices of goods being.🇿🇦❤️.u know u can also visit the Southern African countries,they don't charge too high,like my country South Africa ,we have everything u might like in terms of food, accomodation, good transport system,goods that are similar to what u have in yourself western country.
My West Indian background, specifically Trinidad and Tobago which I continually visit for months at a time has me prepared to a good extent to make that transition in my soon retirement. I'm excitedly looking forward to making that visit and eventual settling down. Thanks for sharing.
People should travel abroad first before moving to any country. There are too many basic, but important things you won't realize if you've never traveled internationally.
Great video, guys. Love the info
This was so helpful, thank you both.
it's fine..the whole earth belongs to our Almighty CREATOR so feel at home whenever wherever
You are a lovely couple! I subscribed after hearing/ for 5 minutes. Sound and logical advice from the prospective of people LIVING there. Passing on wisdom learned from experience. Thank you!😍
Very informative. I glad you summarized. Very well done.
This video is very informative. Great job to the both of you 🙂
I moved from Los Angeles to Detroit. I was *shocked*. When I visited Rwanda and TZ, I realized that there were huge differences between the two countries! You’re so on point with every point in this video. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Can you elaborate more?
Who moves to Detroit except thugs tryin to blend in?
@@biggdogg19 professionals who work in the automotive industry 🫠
Off topic- the two of you have the most gorgeous skin tones. Thank you for giving us a sobering point of view on living in Africa. This is one of the best videos I’ve seen so far
Thank you we appreciate the interest
Excellent, comprehensive and insightful review. Thank you for posting this.
Thank you for being as honest as you can. I know others needed it. Because practise always help!!!
Family thank you so much for yiyr comprehensive explanation of the situation in Africa. I'm Rwandese professional living and working in UK. Many Rwandese are welcoming to ther African Americans back home. Our Brothers and Sisters from America must define what exactly they want to achieve in Africa. I have been to America once in College but the treatment of AA i was Appaling that I had to leave the country before I could commit a crime. So annoying. Rwanda is not a rich country but people are generally kind. For those AA wanting to permanently move to Rwanda there is opportunity for free land where you can grow your foodif it is your plan.
I've been hearing really good things about Rwanda. Can I get more information on free land? I'm in SA now trying to figure out where to settle.
This sounds like a great opportunity for my family. We have several businesses in America and have been looking at branching out. Are they LGBTQ friendly? I've heard in the continent that the hate is the same as the KKK in America if not worse.
@@jaqoncee6670 In many African countries, homosexuality is a crime. I would do more research on the issue of human rights and corruption in Africa.
The financial aspect is what's mainly important
In certain countries, the pricing for goods, services and housing adds up. The first time I went to Monrovia Liberia, I was appalled how expensive the grocery store items were. 9$ for a box of Honey nut cheerios? Here in the U.S. that's a fraction of what it costs. Much of circumstance is due to inflation and poverty.
Because it is an imported item. Do you need to have Honey 🍯 nut cheerios?
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Your video is very informative. These are things that often are overlooked when considering to relocate. The nature and nurture play a big role in your happiness. You point out some great things to consider when going anywhere whether its another city in the place you currently live or BFE. Keep up the good work and providing useful data
Appreciate Y'all's clear perspective of facts!
I Like your calmness
In talking.
Lovely show 🎩
Thank you 🙏🏾
You guys are so right about consumerism! Advertising (propaganda) really does work.
Thank you for sharing your experience.
Thank you for your honestly and sincerity!! Much appreciated!!🥰
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I enjoyed watching. So transparent and true full about moving to Africa. I usually don't pay attention, but you guys were very good, for explaining how the adjustment and real life issue.
Ghana 🇬🇭 is one of the best place to be.Ghana is the 4th country after Lisbon (Portugal), Vanezuela,Belize where most AA are relocating daily.Try Ghana and you will thank me later.🇬🇭🇬🇭👌🏽✔️
Stop that brother brother , Ghana is very expensive, inflation is at an all time high… Akuffo Addo
@@moveinsilence7543 who said GHANA is very expensive I guessed you stayed in the expensive place in the city of Accra like Osu,East Legon, Dzorwulu, Airport Residencial,Labone,North Ridge right ? Look for a Ghanaian friend who will connect you well and tell you everything and anything. Ghana is not only in the City of Accra please try the countryside like Adukrom Hills, Tutu,Dodowa, Akwepem valleys, Oyibi Shai Hills and live life to fullness as everything here is so affordable and relieving aside the fresh breeze and nature.I have lived almost every in the city of Accra but I choose nature and affordable here at the countryside.
@@fredkofiodoom5499 loved being in Dodowa. The air was so clean!!!
@@sebentilezanini1085 oh wow you have been here in Dodowa before ? What a small world ! Yeah clean and fresh air here as usual. So where you located now?
Thank you for sharing your experience and advice. I spent two weeks in Africa and fell in love with the country! My plan is to move to Africa in four years, after I retire. Your video gave me a lot of food for thought. Thank you.