the journey to embracing disability with confidence, finding comfort in your uniqueness, and liberating yourself from the constraints of societal judgment
God also has a purpose for you & your sister to be reunited when Jesus brings her back to life like he did to Lazarus. John 5:27-29 And he has given him authority to do judging, because he is the Son of man. 28 Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice 29 and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, and those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment. John 11:11 After he said these things, he added: “Lazʹa·rus our friend has fallen asleep, but I am traveling there to awaken him.” John 11:23-27 Jesus said to her: “Your brother will rise.” 24 Martha said to him: “I know he will rise in the resurrection+ on the last day.” 25 Jesus said to her: “I am the resurrection and the life.The one who exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life; 26 and everyone who is living and exercises faith in me will never die at all. Do you believe this?” 27 She said to him: “Yes, Lord, I have believed that you are the Christ, the Son of God, the one coming into the world.” Acts 24:15 And I have hope toward God, which hope these men also look forward to, that there is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous. Revelation 21:4 And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” Psalm 37:4 Find exquisite delight* in Jehovah, And he will grant you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:29 The righteous will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it.
@@Blakerinker2012 because lots of people in this world can be shitty & cruel... you should know that... unless you have been living under a rock your whole life or was very sheltered growing up.... no offense.
My grandma was disabled the moment she was born with arthritis the doctors said she wouldn’t live past 4 and if she did she would never have kids she is 61 has 7 kids and besides all odds she achieved what the doctors called impossible
I believe what she's saying. But on the other side of it, if your disabilities are genetically passed to your child, you're not giving your child a choice. Living with disabilities is hard enough but knowing your child will also is not an easy choice.
Yeah if you have a disability like that live and be happy. But why have a kid knowing most likely he is going to have disabilities and can’t just live a normal life? Kinda selfish imo
its her opinion to have a kid. its not yours you cant decide an opinion for someones child or their disability. its like saying “if your gay and your kid is too it on your kid you dont deserve one.” such a big mouth for a dumb mind.
Ну что вы пишите!! Мама красивая, ребенок красивый. У мамы явная патология, рожать заведомо больного ребенка это не героизм, это безумие. А помрет мама каму этот ребенок будет нужен. Люди не лгите сами себе. Жестоко пишу? Зато не лицемерю.
Good for you…but good for this woman too…to each their own! There is no right or wrong in this scenario, nobody can decide that for other ppl. It’s a matter of opinion! We can’t expect every person to think alike…that’s the glory of being “human”!
@@LittleBittySaidityou are such a good person just by saying that I was thinking the same.. I have a daughter and after divorcing the father of my child I really wanted to adopt but my other half doesn’t really want, he just wants one of it’s own, this doesn’t make one or another bad
as a disabled person, i hate this kind of thing, some of us are born with broken bodies and instead of ending this line right there, some decide to spread the curse to their children which will suffer as much as we did To you healthy people, this is not any kind of positivity, this is pure pain and suffering
Thanks for speaking the sad truth. Most People won’t understand that what you’re saying is an unfortunate truth and most people don’t want to accept the reality of it.
Yeah, it may sound better coming from a disabled person but most will still disagree. People too focused on "positivity" and "be you" but all I see is a person hung up on doing what we're told we're supposed to do which is procreate and not at all thinking about what shes passing down. Maybe she thought having some viral Tik tok would be worth it, I don't think baby would agree.
this comment made me giggle or even chuckle at some times every time i feel sad i look at this comment even some times i think i discharge over this comment this is totally amazing .When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
God have made them and loves them his plan is greather and fare more complex then you can understand. Just Becuse the egg has an imperfekt shell,the eagle that was inside could fly higher then any of his broders did before him....
You only get one life to live. You didn't ask to be born with a disability so you shouldn't have to be punished. You are entitled to enjoy all life has to offer. Thank you for your beautiful message
My whole childhood I had a weak muscle in my eye and a minor cyst in my eye which made my eyelid droop down, son I was very self conscious about my face and always wondered what it would be like to have a symmetrical face. When people would ask I'd just ignore them and try my hardest not to cry because of how insecure I was. So even now when people stare at me weird I try to hide my face, so thank you for this. I hope I didn't waste your time reading this. Have a great day ❤
U should just make up more and more absurd stories as explanations. I had a friend that started balding at 14. Sometimes people would ask and he’d grab his head and be like “shit what did happen?!?!”
You are beautiful and God made you as you embrace yourself and everyone who is rude, they're so sad in life and miserable is that in order to make themselves happy they like to pick on other people.
You got that right. You’re not disabled. Everyone around you may be but you. No way girl. Thanks for posting. You make my day better every time I see you.
я восхищаюсь русскими людьми, все американцы что тут пишут они в основном называют ЕЁ и ЕЁ дочь УНИКАЛЬНЫМИ, УНИКАЛЬНЫМИ БОЖЕ. меня отталкивает то, что она испортила жизнь своей дочери, которая в след. чего точно не будет благодарна своей мамочке в будущем.
@@maxxitee4761STUPID MORTAL. GET LOST WITH YOUR TO EACH IS OWN.. NO CHILD DESERVES THAT AND THIS WOMAN IS SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION, ANXIETY AND MUCH MORE AND KIDS WILL MAKE FUN OF THE CHILD.. IT'S A COLD WORLD AND THIS THING IS EVEN COLDER
@@yokfreshorange4747I’d argue if you have horrible genetics that you can probably put one and two together. It isn’t like Superman would give birth to a child with diabetes
What does this even mean. So because she disabled. She not allowed to have children. This world. 🌍🙏sad 🤔🤔😞 God loves her & her baby & they are here like everyone else for a reason
@@dogloveer9785 There is a difference between being disabled and knowingly passing on genetic diseases to your children that can lead them to a life of suffering. This may not be her child. Just because you want a biological child, doesn't mean you should. However, a lot of people will have children with disabilities that they never expected, a big difference between that, and knowing that you have the gene that carries serious disabilities and diseases. Who would want that for any child.
My opinion may be unpopular, since many people are all about unconditional love and acceptance and stuff, but i don't think this mother should have brought this baby to the world. I think it is the responsibility of the parent to ensure that their children will be healthy and if there is such a high chance of the child being disabled/deformed then you shouldn't get children.
Thank you for your honesty. As beautiful as her message is, we know that there are cruel people in the world who will say things to both mom and child that will hurt them. I personally wouldn't choose to bring a child into the world if I had a deformity or disease that would be passed on to the child. Life is hard enough for a healthy person. Best of luck to the Mom and daughter. ♥️
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Where l come from we have a prevalence of Sickle cell disease. Most modern families in this place are having not more than 2 children, others are choosing not to have at all. It's selfish to bring a child in this world to suffer. Her love isn't enough to cushion the baby from the harsh realities of life
@@sonjalivingston8241 i don't see any reason to believe in any god. Seems to be just a post hoc rationalization for everything. The child wasn't born because of the doing of some supernatural being, but because this woman decided so.
I had a disability. When I was born they said I would live for 8 to 10 days. But I'm 11 right now . And keep growing strong. I have hole in my neck, a G-button in my stomach, I can't walk so I'm in a wheelchair, and My spine in a S shape because I got scoliosis.
Yes but we don’t know how that baby came to be. Maybe her birth control failed, maybe something worse happened, … we can’t judge her on this without knowing and it’s not our business to know unless she wants to voice that.
she didn't ask to be born either but clearly she's strong in other areas which helped her pass on her genetics, whether it's for the better or for the worst doesn't really matter as nature doesn't give a fuck, it's not survival of the fittest, it's survival of the good enuf. and for someone she was good enuf.
Some things may be genetic passed down yet that's not ALWAYS the case. I have a beautiful grandson with Dandy Walker malformation. The chances of that were so little but it happens. My daughter is such an amazing mother and he may the smallest but he is a big brother to 2 more beautiful boys that are so good with him and neither of them have a disability. I stayed with my daughter at the Ronald McDonald house when he was born. This sweet baby in the video reminds me of a little girl that was there named Maddie. She was older tho like 10 or so I think and she was a ball of fire I tell you. Her mom has no disabilities. It was a rare thing that happened as well. But honestly, either way, I think people with disabilities deserve happiness too. The woman and baby in this video could be the happiest people ever. Most people that consider themselves "normal" can be so cruel with words sometimes. We all have things we're insecure about way I see it. What's the difference? We're all human.
Look , I’m 33 and starting to loose all my teeth due to being a recovering addict and not taking care of myself so confidence is one of those things Iv been struggling with for years now. I applaud you mam for being so brave . Hope everyone who is dealing with this issue can work through it.
Your amazing and it takes courage to help yourself 👏 what's your motivation to take the steps to recover ?what can you say for other people that having a hard time to take step ?
@analiza329 Hi there. Good question!! God speed to all of you trying to fight the relentless demons of addiction. It's a long road, but with praying and praying every day and throughout the day, I'm hoping (and praying too!!) you all will have continued success. May God bless all of you and your families and friends too. They are all on this difficult ride with you too. Thx for sharing your stories. 🐾🕊🙏
@@PUKEYTATTOOShow is it knowingly bro. Having a disability is a roll of the dice. My both of my closest friend’s parents have schizophrenia, and the friend is question doesn’t. I have Autism, and nobody in my bloodline does. Your comment is meaningless. Besides, they were talking about the kindness of the comment section, and how coming across a comment section this nice to someone who looks like her is very rare in this day and age of the internet
@@murdocsmurcock She knowingly pushed out a faulty baby because a PHISICAL deformity as severe as hers are ONLY caused by major genetic defects. Think about it, we look like an intermediate between our father and mother Physically. Now if the mother physically looks like this it's inevitable that the child will inherit her physical traits. It's far different from mental disorders.
I 🙏 pray you are never separated. Your daughter will be in a circle of love listening to your Mother of Confidence voice. Keep speaking, she's listening. God keep you forever strong❤ ✝️
Thank you Lord for making us in your image and likeness. Thank you Lord, that every Good Perfect Gift Comes From The Lord The Creator Of Heaven and Earth.Amen Thank you Lord, continue to bless this Mother and her child and complete healing in the Name of Jesus!! Amen ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
I don't understand why someone would want to pass a genetic condition like this to their child. 1st step in being a mom is protecting your child from harm and say what you want... Sorry, you come on here, you ask for other opinion. I wish you and your baby the very best. ❤
That's what i was thinking, I have Autism, I have to live with it my whole life, and sometimes having it makes others think I'm weird, it took me a long time to not care what others think, I don't want to relive the hard times of my disability with a baby or kid, I rather adopt ❤
Sounds like you’d rather people end their lineage because you see them as lesser or incapable, it’s like believing people with dwarfism shouldn’t have kids, when in reality these people are very capable of existing and having happy lives. Someone superior to yourself may look down on you for having less than them, and wonder why you’d bring a child into the world and give it a poorer quality of life than they have, when in reality it’s all subjective. Let people be.
As someone with an autoimmune disease that is passed genetically, I choose not to have kids because I know they will either suffer the same fate I had to and somehow survive, or they simply they won’t make it past 20. Just my thoughts
@@Tempo50The things they can do nowadays. I have two metal knees. I wonder if they can make the eye sockets (behind the eyes) bigger for this childs eyes? It seems that is the problem.
I have one word today, it’s called responsibility. When I found out I have a rare genetic condition, that has a 50/50 chance of being passed on to a child, I didn’t have kids. I couldn’t bring someone into this world just to suffer.
There's so much hate if you go to the "newest first."It's really rude and it can make people feel bad about themselves, which isnt cool AT ALL. Please try to be a better person. And if ur reading this and have a disability, ypure awesome dw :) if you dont, ur also awesome. Even if you hate, just remember. Dont be hard on yourself if you cant help yourself.
If you know your disability would be passed down to your child, don't have children who will have to suffer because of you. Adopt a child instead if you want a kid so badly. I feel bad for this child
@cookiec00 I agree i could not become a father if i or the woman that i am with have a disability passed that illness down to my child no matter how much i and/or the want that i was with wanted to be a parent. However both mother and baby are cute.
She didn't ask for judgement. She is speaking to people with disabilities. Millions throughout time have had disabilities. Doesn't mean they have any less right to have a life, a body and go through this mortal experience. They were the most elect of heaven that chose to enter this life to teach US about compassion, empathy, patience and true love without judgement ❤
“People who came to make sure there’s no bullying! 👇👇” That’s just as bad as bullying 😭 they’re both beautiful in my opinion, the baby’s breathing made me smile, I love kids. The mom is great for sending out good messages, hope they have an amazing life.
@@KraysenBailey why are you being immature? Grow up. If I were joking I wouldn’t even smile at that, you’re just unfunny. I’m being serious, why can’t you? You didn’t have to respond to this. Please be mature.
I've always felt this way until just became a mom. And being 8 months pregnant now, I would love my baby however she comes. But if I had a disability that was guaranteed to be passed down to my daughters, I absolutely wouldn't have babies. I love them enough to know I never want them to suffer.
Sorry, there is no "knowingly" unless she had undergone IVF and pre-implantation testing. This is an aurosomal dominant disorder that is compatible with life. Everyone of her children ave 50% chance carrying this condition.
I have a multiple disabilities and am a firm believer those of us with disabilities should not procreate as it’s unfair to the child, there are many children who would love to be adopted and given a home.
So you're saying if your parents had known u would be disabled - u wish they would have aborted or just not had you? Right? Just making sure I'm understanding your perspective
You might want to check that self righteousness at the door. If you believe what you wrote, that would mean the majority of people wouldn’t procreate as the ADA lists things such as fibromyalgia, depression, anxiety, autism (the WHOLE spectrum), emotional disturbances, hearing impairment… the list goes on. Pretty sure God said to love thy neighbor as thyself, not judge thy neighbor.
No she did not say anything about what you wrote, she stated that her knowing she HAS disabilities and multiple she would make the choice to not have children, and feels that it’s the more responsible choice in general . Just because she was born with disabilities also does NOT mean automatically her parents also had disabilities either. Intentionally she would not want to risk creating a child with disabilities, which chances are greater in her case is what she’s saying.
Passing disabilities onto children who have no say should be a crime. Feel free to adopt, take advantage of any invitro technology that allows your child to live a normal life, or involve yourself in a career that allows you to be a positive role model for children. Confidence is one thing, but knowingly hindering your childs quality of life and well-being is fucked up. *Obviously i meant knowingly, this woman wasn't caught by surprise when she gave birth to a disabled child
Jesus loves you so much and He wants a relationship with you!! He died on the Cross for all of our sins we’ve committed and rose again! He is bigger than your worries, fears, and anxieties! Romans 10:9 - “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” He came to give Eternal life to those who believe! He cares for every detail of your life! He will fight your battles! “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes In Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16 He wants you to go to Heaven! Repent and put your trust in Him! He is coming back ❤❤❤
Most genetic disabilities are passed unknowingly. My take on this is different than yours: it is not about the disability that determines quality of life. It's about having a loving family who will take care of you no matter what. Some kids who would be considered "normal" have an even worse quality of life because they weren't born into a loving home. I personally want to foster or adopt children and teens with special needs because I would love to provide a loving home for them. I don't care what their needs are, I would just love them unconditionally. That's what children need most. Having a baby who can't grow up loved should be a crime.... You shouldn't be a crime because you were born different.
I love her motivation. I am a grown fat man who is very insecure about who I am, how i sound, and what I look like, but I that this young woman has a confident, godly spirit to perservere with such confidence and self assurance. That's so beautiful. May Abba Father bless her tremendously for her confidence and boldness. I aspire to be that bold in my life.
If you know Abba, you are already in His image and likeness. You are not a product of your appearance, none of us are. All of that does not determine your worth. You are worthy of love, care, and respect. 🤗💛
Hey TH-cam ready !!,More people are over weight now then not !! The additives in our food and drinks cause alot of it. !! GOD bless you and stay strong tgrough Jesus Christ Amen !!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
If you would like, I would recommend learning how to cook; (if you don't already know how to cook.) Then, you can learn how to make homemade recipes and make it with healthy ingredients if you tend to eat fast food frequently. I would also recommend going for a walk for around 30 minutes everyday. It might make you happier. Thank you so much, and may God Almighty bless you and may his plan, will and destiny for all of your lives prosper quickly and tremendously. ♡ Stay happy and healthy brother in Christ. ☆
I have disabilities that are genetic, and I absolutely refuse to have children because as a mother, your first thought would be protecting your children. If you brought them into this world knowing they were more likely than not going to be sick and/or disabled is messed up. I would never want this pain and the weariness to afflict my worst enemy, let alone someone that is genetically a part of me.
Okay. You can’t make that decision for everyone. It’s not messed up. She wanted a child like everybody else want one that she grew in their womb. She speaks well assuming this is her speaking in the video. She can hold her baby, and I feel like she can walk, she might not even have a physical disability that affects how she does stuff. She spoke in full sentences, I’m sure her child will be fine. Don’t be hateful when sharing your opinion. 🫶🏻🤷♀️
@@lalyahpalma2137 I never claimed to be able to make that decision for everyone - I do, however, have the right to express my opinion on a *public* video. Nothing in what I said was hateful. This world is hard enough to navigate through without deliberately passing on stuff to make your child's life harder. She could have adopted or had an egg donor - there are myriads of ways to become a mother without passing on genetic issues to your offspring.
@@js9248My first thought seeing this video was wondering why anyone would want to have kids they could pass a disability to, unless it was an accidental pregnancy. It's not because I'm ableist or hate people with disabilities, it's just that once that child is born they have to go through the same struggles and hardships, and like you said, I can't imagine seeing my kid go through that.
@Spider-Rat77 Exactly. As I said, I have a ton of disabilities myself, and some days, I can't even get out of the bed because of pain. The pain meds barely touch it, but they also have their own side effects that can be debilitating. Also, another somewhat controversial opinion I have - unless it's truly a miracle, "accidental" pregnancies these days are hard for me to accept - I am essentially Fertile Myrtle (I can get pregnant, but cannot carry to term). After having several miscarriages, and then finally being diagnosed with a bunch of disabilities, I stopped trying. I got on birth control and asked my husband to get snipped. Until his sperm was clear, we used condoms, as well as birth control to prevent anything.
shes probably one of them weirdos that think having a biological child makes the child worth more, if you wouldnt love your child even if you werent related then you do not love your child.
What does that mean????? It's not contagious and if your saying she not allowed to have kids that's what Hitler said during WW2 disabled people shouldn't have kids so your basically agreeing with Hitler
@@codydiffinity3640the baby will not have a normal life you never know what could happen down the road….in the beginning off 2016 my little brother on my dad side had a stroke and was on life support flatlined two times they did surgery on his brain now he's a vegetable for the rest of his life. He's 19 now…when he was born he was only projected to live to the age of maybe 2 because he was born deformed with problems due to his mom having a lot of health problems including she was like 40 on lots of medications plus she was obsess….it was cool when when my little brother could talk because jit was funny only thing was that growing up he couldn't play like the other kids because of how he was….
@@codydiffinity3640im pretty sure you saying what you saying because you don't have people born with disabilties in your family especially nothing that severe that's why you saying that but you only have your opinion. Nothing that's first hand
@@lyunboiss lol I'm a nurse I work with people with disabilities daily don't need to have someone in my family to have an say on the matter the fact is people with disabilities have a choice just like the rest of us you can't decide whats right or wrong in their lives that's up to them
@@israelkonan777 If ultrasounds exist where she's from it is 100% the mother putting the burden of physical deformities onto the child. Diabetes and alcoholism runs in my family so I'm probably not having kids. I understand not to burden others with my problems and my problems aren't a quarter of this ladys. She's selfish plain and simple
I love how strong people with disabilities can be the fact that we see it as a disability and they see it as their everyday normal life. THEY'RE WONDERFUL❤
@@SiennaArtsandCraftsBro the fact u js proved how simple minded your brain is the person is saying they because they can be anything anything living they legit said they're wonderful read and understand stuff before trying to insinuate something 😒
THANK U! It is selfish evil and hateful towards an INNOCENT! Soul. And she should called out for it Cause she 100% knew that the child would be born like her.
I have a daughter with Down Syndrome. She’s non-verbal, cross-eyed and missing teeth. She’s forty-two, and she’s still my beautiful baby. Your daughter is adorable with her big eyes! She will be loved because you are raising her with love!
Imagine if this was posted in TikTok everyone would probably say “how is nobody hating?” Or something but in TH-cam everyone has the courage to speak their truth
IF YOU HAVE A DISABILITY LIKE THIS, BY ALL MEANS DON'T HAVE CHILDREN AND PASS THESE TRAITS TO YOUR CHILDREN. THINK ABOUT WHAT THEIR LIVES WILL BE LIKE.
Our creator loves individuality! We know by the volume of different animals He created. I don't mind being identified as a human (usually) but I don't pattern myself after another person.😅
I don’t know if Im sick you guys tell me but, I feel like when you’re born with this kind of disability and then you know your children are gonna get something similar, I find it kinda selfish and fcked up to have kids and potentially make them suffer. I mean that’s my pov
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My sister was disabled, doctor's told my mom that she would die at 16,but God had other plans she lived until the age of 51 God bless her soul❤
God also has a purpose for you & your sister to be reunited when Jesus brings her back to life like he did to Lazarus.
John 5:27-29
And he has given him authority to do judging, because he is the Son of man. 28 Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice 29 and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, and those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment.
John 11:11
After he said these things, he added: “Lazʹa·rus our friend has fallen asleep, but I am traveling there to awaken him.”
John 11:23-27
Jesus said to her: “Your brother will rise.”
24 Martha said to him: “I know he will rise in the resurrection+ on the last day.” 25 Jesus said to her: “I am the resurrection and the life.The one who exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life; 26 and everyone who is living and exercises faith in me will never die at all. Do you believe this?” 27 She said to him: “Yes, Lord, I have believed that you are the Christ, the Son of God, the one coming into the world.”
Acts 24:15
And I have hope toward God, which hope these men also look forward to, that there is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous.
Revelation 21:4
And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
Psalm 37:4
Find exquisite delight* in Jehovah,
And he will grant you the desires of your heart.
Psalm 37:29
The righteous will possess the earth,
And they will live forever on it.
Praise God
oh yes . God had other plans ❤
These people aren't God only God got the last say so these doctors think they above god
God Bless You My Sister !! Thanks For The Encouragement !
People who came here to makes sure shes not bullied
I,M GOING TO SUPPORT HER
Why would she get bullied? She’s beautiful and very sweet. God bless her and her baby heart!
Not me
@@Blakerinker2012 because lots of people in this world can be shitty & cruel... you should know that... unless you have been living under a rock your whole life or was very sheltered growing up.... no offense.
She is disabled and black....she must have it hard lol
Being disabled doesn't mean ur ugly it means ur unique. God bless u and ur child❤ stay confident!
yeah even if u think your ugly but your not ugly everyone knows your pretty
Урод- значит урод, и не надо притворяться, что это уникальность.
My grandma was disabled the moment she was born with arthritis the doctors said she wouldn’t live past 4 and if she did she would never have kids she is 61 has 7 kids and besides all odds she achieved what the doctors called impossible
I believe what she's saying. But on the other side of it, if your disabilities are genetically passed to your child, you're not giving your child a choice. Living with disabilities is hard enough but knowing your child will also is not an easy choice.
Finally, a sane comment.
Ok then take it to the extreme let's put everyone in separate groups depending on genetic risk of mutation. Jews, need to go.
Finally someone had the courage to say the truth
💯 agree with you
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People who came here to make sure no one was bullying
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Oh wow we're shaking in our boots😂
backhanded asf
Yeah if you have a disability like that live and be happy. But why have a kid knowing most likely he is going to have disabilities and can’t just live a normal life? Kinda selfish imo
Real
its her opinion to have a kid. its not yours you cant decide an opinion for someones child or their disability. its like saying “if your gay and your kid is too it on your kid you dont deserve one.” such a big mouth for a dumb mind.
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Baby’s are blessing despite them having disabilities God wanted that baby to be born now hush
@@kyathomas8887 having baby is your choice not god choice
Ну что вы пишите!! Мама красивая, ребенок красивый. У мамы явная патология, рожать заведомо больного ребенка это не героизм, это безумие. А помрет мама каму этот ребенок будет нужен. Люди не лгите сами себе. Жестоко пишу? Зато не лицемерю.
I have a horribly mutated spine, I chose to adopt and not have congenital mutated kids of my own, and it was the best decision of my life.
What is it about 😢😮
Good for you…but good for this woman too…to each their own! There is no right or wrong in this scenario, nobody can decide that for other ppl. It’s a matter of opinion! We can’t expect every person to think alike…that’s the glory of being “human”!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤omg god
@@LittleBittySaidityou are such a good person just by saying that
I was thinking the same.. I have a daughter and after divorcing the father of my child I really wanted to adopt but my other half doesn’t really want, he just wants one of it’s own, this doesn’t make one or another bad
Yes. Yes. YES now YOU deserve all the honor and admiration in the world. You made a selfless and RIGHT decision.
as a disabled person, i hate this kind of thing, some of us are born with broken bodies and instead of ending this line right there, some decide to spread the curse to their children which will suffer as much as we did
To you healthy people, this is not any kind of positivity, this is pure pain and suffering
I thought the same too. Have a blessed day.
ty...somebody needs to say it..
Well we didn't know if both disables are genetically related or if she was aware of it
Thanks for speaking the sad truth. Most People won’t understand that what you’re saying is an unfortunate truth and most people don’t want to accept the reality of it.
Yeah, it may sound better coming from a disabled person but most will still disagree. People too focused on "positivity" and "be you" but all I see is a person hung up on doing what we're told we're supposed to do which is procreate and not at all thinking about what shes passing down. Maybe she thought having some viral Tik tok would be worth it, I don't think baby would agree.
Mom: be confident and love your self
Baby: 👁️👅👁️
this comment made me giggle or even chuckle at some times every time i feel sad i look at this comment even some times i think i discharge over this comment this is totally amazing .When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
When I feel unsure or face setbacks, I remind myself of my goals and the reasons why I started. Every step I take, no matter how small, brings me closer to success. I embrace the journey, knowing that each effort counts towards my growth and development. With determination and persistence, I can overcome any obstacle that comes my way. I believe in myself and my abilities, trusting that I have the strength to reach my aspirations. Today, I choose to focus on progress, knowing that every effort brings me closer to my dreams.
Poor baby. I get she wanted to be a mom but that baby didn't ask for these issues
I agree! Poor baby… her eyes are huge almost popping out, must be painfull. She did not asked for thiis. Selfish choice from the mother.
The mom did nothing she was born that way
God have made them and loves them his plan is greather and fare more complex then you can understand. Just Becuse the egg has an imperfekt shell,the eagle that was inside could fly higher then any of his broders did before him....
@@Marlee-pc5ly u Are right.
@@Marlee-pc5lybut she purposely passed on bad genetics to a child that is going to have problems its whole life.
You only get one life to live. You didn't ask to be born with a disability so you shouldn't have to be punished. You are entitled to enjoy all life has to offer. Thank you for your beautiful message
🥹This is the sweetest comment and I concur!!
I totally agree. :)
Nah she shouldn’t have put a kid through that, that’s very inhumane and selfish
I’ll pray for her but at the sametime y’all have to be honest of what she did
@@mrlaybackvevo264 I'm unaware.. what did she do??
My whole childhood I had a weak muscle in my eye and a minor cyst in my eye which made my eyelid droop down, son I was very self conscious about my face and always wondered what it would be like to have a symmetrical face. When people would ask I'd just ignore them and try my hardest not to cry because of how insecure I was. So even now when people stare at me weird I try to hide my face, so thank you for this. I hope I didn't waste your time reading this. Have a great day ❤
U should just make up more and more absurd stories as explanations. I had a friend that started balding at 14. Sometimes people would ask and he’d grab his head and be like “shit what did happen?!?!”
@@Lull0fSkyyou definetly skimmed their comment, be nice
😢😢
You are beautiful and God made you as you embrace yourself and everyone who is rude, they're so sad in life and miserable is that in order to make themselves happy they like to pick on other people.
@@Lull0fSky why are you saying that comment?
You got that right. You’re not disabled. Everyone around you may be but you. No way girl. Thanks for posting. You make my day better every time I see you.
Просто страх, и волосы дыбом!!!!куда ты рожать то поперлась ,дала жизнь человеку изуродованную!!! Дай Бог дитёнка ,да дай Бог хорошего!!!!
я восхищаюсь русскими людьми, все американцы что тут пишут они в основном называют ЕЁ и ЕЁ дочь УНИКАЛЬНЫМИ, УНИКАЛЬНЫМИ БОЖЕ. меня отталкивает то, что она испортила жизнь своей дочери, которая в след. чего точно не будет благодарна своей мамочке в будущем.
Да уроды то те мужики что на таких женщин ползут.
I will never understand why anyone with genetic issues would ever want to reproduce and make a child suffer. Its just cruel .😢
The lives of people with disabilities are as valuables as anyone else's. 😕
Of course you wouldn't, because you don't have genetic issues that's why.. she does but guess what, she doesn't give af how you feel.
Your mean
@@paigecook8487Well maybe she should give a fuck about what her child is going to go through hmm?
Probably for the same reasons everyone else wants to have children.
Honestly, if I were her and I had a genetic disfigurement, I wouldn't have kids because why put an innocent child through the same hell?
Exactly 👍
But your if is so operative …to each his own
@@maxxitee4761STUPID MORTAL.
GET LOST WITH YOUR TO EACH IS OWN..
NO CHILD DESERVES THAT AND THIS WOMAN IS SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION, ANXIETY AND MUCH MORE AND KIDS WILL MAKE FUN OF THE CHILD..
IT'S A COLD WORLD AND THIS THING IS EVEN COLDER
As much as I think this is sad I can’t help but agree.
It's her choice, PERIOD!!!! ❤❤
if you have a disability make sure you adopted kids if you wants but having your own is insane 😢
The guy that got her pregnant needs to be jailed .
What about her😭
The Dr that didn't sterilize her at birth should be jailed as well.
Loving yourself is one thing. Knowingly giving birth to a child who would have the same disease is beyond selfish.
how would she know her baby was gonna have the same disability?
@@yokfreshorange4747 are you retarded or something?
This was unkind and showed the type of person you are! Good thing your mom didn’t think that about you and your disability!
@@yokfreshorange4747I’d argue if you have horrible genetics that you can probably put one and two together. It isn’t like Superman would give birth to a child with diabetes
@@yokfreshorange4747 it's not like there are predictions of passing down diseases and syndroms
Shes right 1000%... But if i knew my child would go through the same bullying and harassment and struggle, i wouldn't have a child.
Id adopt
Fr
agree
this is fake they using filters
If you have something Mean to say, don’t say it at all
@@scottfay3553wdym it’s fake? The video isn’t fake
In my opinion she doesnt hasnt disability she has beauty❤
She does though and purposely passed it on to a child, not hate towards her but what she did was selfish and wrong.
God loves everyone ❤️ 💕 💖 💗 💓 ♥️ ❤️ 💕 💖 💗 💓 disabled team
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I checked the comments and realized I’m the issue 💀
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I honestly could never spread a disability to my child, I wouldn’t want them to suffer.
So don't have kids. 🤷
@@TomikaKelly I don’t have a disability so I’ll have kids.
@@NerdIsMean Your kids still might develop a disability. And your kids will suffer like the rest of us.
I agree 100%. I would adopt.
That's why abortion would ben an option
When god punishes you twice
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The mom looks like a puppet 😂😂
Shut yo ass up I bet u built like the Michelin tire company logo goofy mf
Do you believe in god?
@@tracyweeks2909 I believe that bitch belongs in sesame street
@tracyweeks2909 in a Cristin ✝️ so I do and god made everyone special
Boy, what about your mom? Does it look like that?
Dont let your confidence lead to your child suffering. Being responsible is far more important
Yup
Not her child
@@torturedsoul5235 so she just borrowed a random kid for a video?
What does this even mean. So because she disabled. She not allowed to have children. This world. 🌍🙏sad 🤔🤔😞 God loves her & her baby & they are here like everyone else for a reason
@@dogloveer9785 There is a difference between being disabled and knowingly passing on genetic diseases to your children that can lead them to a life of suffering. This may not be her child. Just because you want a biological child, doesn't mean you should. However, a lot of people will have children with disabilities that they never expected, a big difference between that, and knowing that you have the gene that carries serious disabilities and diseases. Who would want that for any child.
My opinion may be unpopular, since many people are all about unconditional love and acceptance and stuff, but i don't think this mother should have brought this baby to the world. I think it is the responsibility of the parent to ensure that their children will be healthy and if there is such a high chance of the child being disabled/deformed then you shouldn't get children.
Thank you for your honesty. As beautiful as her message is, we know that there are cruel people in the world who will say things to both mom and child that will hurt them. I personally wouldn't choose to bring a child into the world if I had a deformity or disease that would be passed on to the child. Life is hard enough for a healthy person. Best of luck to the Mom and daughter. ♥️
Where l come from we have a prevalence of Sickle cell disease. Most modern families in this place are having not more than 2 children, others are choosing not to have at all. It's selfish to bring a child in this world to suffer. Her love isn't enough to cushion the baby from the harsh realities of life
Sometimes I think like that and then I remember Beethoven’s story🤷🏽♂️Besides, God does NOT make mistakes!
@@sonjalivingston8241 i don't see any reason to believe in any god. Seems to be just a post hoc rationalization for everything. The child wasn't born because of the doing of some supernatural being, but because this woman decided so.
@@sonjalivingston8241 no, we have free agency and most of our behaviors are done outside of God's cosmic hand. Things are automated from causality.
The child is so cute holding it hands!
yall are actually gorgeous so if anyone says yall ain’t just know that ain’t true
Yeah be an enabler, sane people know what she did was wrong.
I had a disability. When I was born they said I would live for 8 to 10 days. But I'm 11 right now . And keep growing strong. I have hole in my neck, a G-button in my stomach, I can't walk so I'm in a wheelchair, and
My spine in a S shape because I got scoliosis.
keep going 🎉❤
Do not trust them they are lying to you
Keep going my bro, stay strong, you must never be defeated by life's challenges 🎉❤
Dios te Bendiga mucho siempre. Para EL nada es imposible
Lmao
I 100% agree, but if its genetically passed, you are forcing your child into the same hard life you have lived.
Yes but we don’t know how that baby came to be. Maybe her birth control failed, maybe something worse happened, … we can’t judge her on this without knowing and it’s not our business to know unless she wants to voice that.
she didn't ask to be born either but clearly she's strong in other areas which helped her pass on her genetics, whether it's for the better or for the worst doesn't really matter as nature doesn't give a fuck, it's not survival of the fittest, it's survival of the good enuf. and for someone she was good enuf.
I agree why make another life suffer like you i feel sorry for the kid in the future
I recommend listening to Death- living monstrosity. A classic 90's metal bands take on the issue.
Some things may be genetic passed down yet that's not ALWAYS the case. I have a beautiful grandson with Dandy Walker malformation. The chances of that were so little but it happens. My daughter is such an amazing mother and he may the smallest but he is a big brother to 2 more beautiful boys that are so good with him and neither of them have a disability. I stayed with my daughter at the Ronald McDonald house when he was born. This sweet baby in the video reminds me of a little girl that was there named Maddie. She was older tho like 10 or so I think and she was a ball of fire I tell you. Her mom has no disabilities. It was a rare thing that happened as well. But honestly, either way, I think people with disabilities deserve happiness too. The woman and baby in this video could be the happiest people ever. Most people that consider themselves "normal" can be so cruel with words sometimes. We all have things we're insecure about way I see it. What's the difference? We're all human.
I can’t speak nicely and many people have been criticizing me but now I know the power that will help me confidence
Ma’am you’re already living a life . We have a lot to learn from you. There is hope we can be and do better with ourselves
All I learned is people are selfish. That baby is going to have a hard life.
Look , I’m 33 and starting to loose all my teeth due to being a recovering addict and not taking care of myself so confidence is one of those things Iv been struggling with for years now. I applaud you mam for being so brave . Hope everyone who is dealing with this issue can work through it.
I applaud you for being a recovering addict 🙏🏽 i am as well, 3 years clean off fent pills 🤞🏽
You are not alone. Im in recovery and all my teeth r done for. I hate it
15 year IV opiate addict. 10 yrs clean...and it looks like a helicopter crashed in my grill. God bless all of us. Others didn't make it.
Your amazing and it takes courage to help yourself 👏 what's your motivation to take the steps to recover ?what can you say for other people that having a hard time to take step ?
@analiza329
Hi there.
Good question!!
God speed to all of you trying to fight the relentless demons of addiction.
It's a long road, but with praying and praying every day and throughout the day, I'm hoping (and praying too!!) you all will have continued success.
May God bless all of you and your families and friends too. They are all on this difficult ride with you too.
Thx for sharing your stories.
🐾🕊🙏
TH-cam is so wholesome compared to Instagram.
A woman knowingly giving her child severe birth defects and deformities is so wholesome
@@PUKEYTATTOOShow is it knowingly bro. Having a disability is a roll of the dice. My both of my closest friend’s parents have schizophrenia, and the friend is question doesn’t. I have Autism, and nobody in my bloodline does. Your comment is meaningless. Besides, they were talking about the kindness of the comment section, and how coming across a comment section this nice to someone who looks like her is very rare in this day and age of the internet
SOME people on TH-cam you mean… literally look at the newest comments and scroll down… I’m disappointed of society:(
ikr
@@murdocsmurcock She knowingly pushed out a faulty baby because a PHISICAL deformity as severe as hers are ONLY caused by major genetic defects.
Think about it, we look like an intermediate between our father and mother Physically. Now if the mother physically looks like this it's inevitable that the child will inherit her physical traits.
It's far different from mental disorders.
I totally i agree with her, but i prefer not having kids to prevent them from suffering.
Thought about commenting, but remembered I'm not a good person so i shouldn't say anything else but this
I 🙏 pray you are never separated. Your daughter will be in a circle of love listening to your Mother of Confidence voice. Keep speaking, she's listening. God keep you forever strong❤ ✝️
God heal that sweet baby. Be with them both. ❤
Thank you Lord for making us in your image and likeness. Thank you Lord, that every Good Perfect Gift Comes From The Lord The Creator Of Heaven and Earth.Amen Thank you Lord, continue to bless this Mother and her child and complete healing in the Name of Jesus!! Amen ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Amen in Jesus name
AMEN🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Man this thread just made me cry 🥹 AMEN! Glory to God! 🙏🏾
I don't understand why someone would want to pass a genetic condition like this to their child. 1st step in being a mom is protecting your child from harm and say what you want... Sorry, you come on here, you ask for other opinion. I wish you and your baby the very best. ❤
That's what i was thinking, I have Autism, I have to live with it my whole life, and sometimes having it makes others think I'm weird, it took me a long time to not care what others think, I don't want to relive the hard times of my disability with a baby or kid, I rather adopt ❤
I think it's selfishness. There's not that much confidence in the world. I'd really like to see the man behind this. 🤮
Sounds like you’d rather people end their lineage because you see them as lesser or incapable, it’s like believing people with dwarfism shouldn’t have kids, when in reality these people are very capable of existing and having happy lives. Someone superior to yourself may look down on you for having less than them, and wonder why you’d bring a child into the world and give it a poorer quality of life than they have, when in reality it’s all subjective. Let people be.
What in the eugenics
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Shatap
U AND UR BABY ARE SOOOO CUTE 🥰 idk why but I kinda think that having a disability is making you look more cute 😂😂
Anyways girl u slay and UR BABY!!!
Il faut qu'elle arrête d'avoir des enfants
As someone with an autoimmune disease that is passed genetically, I choose not to have kids because I know they will either suffer the same fate I had to and somehow survive, or they simply they won’t make it past 20. Just my thoughts
With you 100% on that
I agree with you. You are responsible person!
Well if you don't want then maybe adopt then
If you want to have them
Climate change means having babies at all is pretty selfish. We can’t promise them their world will be liveable when they are adults
I would never procreate if I thought for one moment that my disability would be inherited.
And worse!! That baby is going to have a hard life.
@@Tempo50The things they can do nowadays. I have two metal knees. I wonder if they can make the eye sockets (behind the eyes) bigger for this childs eyes? It seems that is the problem.
I have one word today, it’s called responsibility. When I found out I have a rare genetic condition, that has a 50/50 chance of being passed on to a child, I didn’t have kids. I couldn’t bring someone into this world just to suffer.
They obviously are not suffering u morons . They r happier than you
@@Tempo50obviously this is not for you and that is why the Lord blessed this kind beautiful woman with this gorgeous gift
My sister passed at 14 because of lukiema and 🕊🕊🕊
Rest in peace sissy 💔
Ok the eyes got me thinking it was a filter for a sec
I would not have a baby if I was in that condition I wouldn't like to put a child through that
Exactly
Perhaps you shouldn't have a baby at all...🤷
@@TomikaKelly?
@@TomikaKellyi dont understand your comment,can you explain it please
@@TomikaKelly bro had to reiterate the point for us LMAO
I beg to PLEASE protect this woman and her baby from IG reels 🙏 😭
Edit: turns out she's already on there.... ggs.
Fr shes too kind
Bruh really. ? You can’t stop pandora’s box !
Fr i had to keep my self from saying sum
So cringe god dam
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My dad is disabled but he still is happy and proud i love him😊❤
There's so much hate if you go to the "newest first."It's really rude and it can make people feel bad about themselves, which isnt cool AT ALL. Please try to be a better person. And if ur reading this and have a disability, ypure awesome dw :) if you dont, ur also awesome. Even if you hate, just remember. Dont be hard on yourself if you cant help yourself.
If you know your disability would be passed down to your child, don't have children who will have to suffer because of you. Adopt a child instead if you want a kid so badly. I feel bad for this child
Right I just know that little girl is gonna get called a bug eyed freak
That ain’t a disability, that child got increased FOV.
@cookiec00 I agree i could not become a father if i or the woman that i am with have a disability passed that illness down to my child no matter how much i and/or the want that i was with wanted to be a parent. However both mother and baby are cute.
I agree 💯
How innapropriate, people with disabilities are allowed to live normal lives which includes procreation. What you are asking for is eugenics, how sad.
The way the baby holding the hands together is adorable
Is you okay 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Probly askin God to smite the beacht and cure him
No its not
Okay that’s you. Ima do me 😂😂
He's praying for her to stop taking.
Why is the baby's eyes like that and why Cookie monster here😂😂
ITS A DISABILITY FOR THE LOVE OF GOD LISTEN TO THE Video!!
No one be mean to them. They are pretty the way. Jesus made them be kind.❤
She didn't ask for judgement. She is speaking to people with disabilities. Millions throughout time have had disabilities. Doesn't mean they have any less right to have a life, a body and go through this mortal experience. They were the most elect of heaven that chose to enter this life to teach US about compassion, empathy, patience and true love without judgement ❤
When you post to public forums you open the door for scrutiny. I mean if she's confident what any of us say won't matter right.
Beautifully said. Thank you.❤❤
Elect of heaven?
Evidence of Heaven needed!!!
Uh oh the 5G cooked this one
BS, someone is gonna have to take care of that kid for the rest of his life,, she did that😔
“People who came to make sure there’s no bullying! 👇👇”
That’s just as bad as bullying 😭 they’re both beautiful in my opinion, the baby’s breathing made me smile, I love kids. The mom is great for sending out good messages, hope they have an amazing life.
Bro said "I love kids" 💀
@@KraysenBailey why are you being immature? Grow up. If I were joking I wouldn’t even smile at that, you’re just unfunny. I’m being serious, why can’t you? You didn’t have to respond to this. Please be mature.
@@KraysenBailey dang, just joined yt a week ago and you’re already starting beef with people lol
@@Sourbddh37most likely he’s a little kid that didn’t get smacked in the face by life
@@PeytonSlay-z2y he’s boutta get slapped by someone Istg he’s so frustrating
Word of advice: don't post this to Instagram reels. Love you all😘😘😘
Wer hat auch die ganzen comnetare abgeszcht damit siw nicht gemobbt wird
Absolutely!!! Thank you so much for this. We all need to hear this. God bless.
Beauty is in the eyes of the behold stay positive and prayed up much love to you and your family kelelah
Yes we do!❤❤
Aman And Aman God Bless You Queen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😇😇😇😇😇😇😇💯❤️
Now you sent the Best Message All year ❤❤
Exactly. Always be proud . Of yourselves ❤❤
Knowingly having children that will be severely disabled is wild. This is one of the most selfish people I’ve ever seen you know. Shocking behaviour
I thought I was bugging and thinking that but your right 100%
I've always felt this way until just became a mom. And being 8 months pregnant now, I would love my baby however she comes. But if I had a disability that was guaranteed to be passed down to my daughters, I absolutely wouldn't have babies. I love them enough to know I never want them to suffer.
Anything can happen in your life, but deliberately condemning your children to suffering is cruel and selfish.
Yes exactly. If they want to have a kid they should just adopt one. There are lots of healthy kids that need a family
Sorry, there is no "knowingly" unless she had undergone IVF and pre-implantation testing. This is an aurosomal dominant disorder that is compatible with life. Everyone of her children ave 50% chance carrying this condition.
Don’t hate she is being kind to all ❤❤
Bro my heart stopped for a second then i remembered this isn't instagram.
I felt like im the only one💀
Fr
Fr I was fully expecting some disrespect
😂
Frfr
I have a multiple disabilities and am a firm believer those of us with disabilities should not procreate as it’s unfair to the child, there are many children who would love to be adopted and given a home.
Thank you for saying it as it should be.
So you're saying if your parents had known u would be disabled - u wish they would have aborted or just not had you? Right? Just making sure I'm understanding your perspective
@@louisebrown4599😊😊😊1😊
You might want to check that self righteousness at the door. If you believe what you wrote, that would mean the majority of people wouldn’t procreate as the ADA lists things such as fibromyalgia, depression, anxiety, autism (the WHOLE spectrum), emotional disturbances, hearing impairment… the list goes on. Pretty sure God said to love thy neighbor as thyself, not judge thy neighbor.
No she did not say anything about what you wrote, she stated that her knowing she HAS disabilities and multiple she would make the choice to not have children, and feels that it’s the more responsible choice in general . Just because she was born with disabilities also does NOT mean automatically her parents also had disabilities either.
Intentionally she would not want to risk creating a child with disabilities, which chances are greater in her case is what she’s saying.
Please Please like and share to her channel.❤
YES BE CONFIDENT IM SO PROUD STAY CONFIDENT AND LISTEN TO GODS WORDS AND FOLLOW THE RIGHT PATH!!! 💜💜💜
Passing disabilities onto children who have no say should be a crime. Feel free to adopt, take advantage of any invitro technology that allows your child to live a normal life, or involve yourself in a career that allows you to be a positive role model for children. Confidence is one thing, but knowingly hindering your childs quality of life and well-being is fucked up.
*Obviously i meant knowingly, this woman wasn't caught by surprise when she gave birth to a disabled child
Dude literally get a type writer cuz this is fax.
Jesus loves you so much and He wants a relationship with you!! He died on the Cross for all of our sins we’ve committed and rose again! He is bigger than your worries, fears, and anxieties! Romans 10:9 - “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” He came to give Eternal life to those who believe! He cares for every detail of your life! He will fight your battles! “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes In Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16
He wants you to go to Heaven!
Repent and put your trust in Him! He is coming back ❤❤❤
I agree
Most genetic disabilities are passed unknowingly. My take on this is different than yours: it is not about the disability that determines quality of life. It's about having a loving family who will take care of you no matter what.
Some kids who would be considered "normal" have an even worse quality of life because they weren't born into a loving home.
I personally want to foster or adopt children and teens with special needs because I would love to provide a loving home for them. I don't care what their needs are, I would just love them unconditionally. That's what children need most.
Having a baby who can't grow up loved should be a crime.... You shouldn't be a crime because you were born different.
Absolutely!
Oh my … I have a disability but I carefully weighed my options before being a mom
Well said.
Smart thinking ❤
Very wise of you!
I think that’s wise. It’s unfortunate that people will let their pride make a child with no choice suffer.
Smart person
I’m not trying to be rude but please don’t try to post this video to instagram. Trust me it’s not gonna go well.
Don't bully this child and mother because everyone is beautiful don't bully some one because of the way they look❤
I love her motivation. I am a grown fat man who is very insecure about who I am, how i sound, and what I look like, but I that this young woman has a confident, godly spirit to perservere with such confidence and self assurance. That's so beautiful. May Abba Father bless her tremendously for her confidence and boldness. I aspire to be that bold in my life.
If you know Abba, you are already in His image and likeness. You are not a product of your appearance, none of us are. All of that does not determine your worth. You are worthy of love, care, and respect. 🤗💛
Hey TH-cam ready !!,More people are over weight now then not !! The additives in our food and drinks cause alot of it. !! GOD bless you and stay strong tgrough Jesus Christ Amen !!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Don't be insecure about who you are everyone has something wrong with them I don't care how beautiful they are
If you would like, I would recommend learning how
to cook; (if you don't already
know how to cook.) Then, you
can learn how to make
homemade recipes and make it with healthy ingredients if you
tend to eat fast food frequently.
I would also recommend going for a walk for around 30 minutes everyday. It might make you happier. Thank you so much, and may God Almighty bless you and may his plan, will and destiny for all of your lives prosper quickly and tremendously. ♡
Stay happy and healthy brother in Christ. ☆
Being fat is not a disability, ur lazy and gross fix it
I have disabilities that are genetic, and I absolutely refuse to have children because as a mother, your first thought would be protecting your children. If you brought them into this world knowing they were more likely than not going to be sick and/or disabled is messed up. I would never want this pain and the weariness to afflict my worst enemy, let alone someone that is genetically a part of me.
Okay. You can’t make that decision for everyone. It’s not messed up. She wanted a child like everybody else want one that she grew in their womb. She speaks well assuming this is her speaking in the video. She can hold her baby, and I feel like she can walk, she might not even have a physical disability that affects how she does stuff. She spoke in full sentences, I’m sure her child will be fine. Don’t be hateful when sharing your opinion. 🫶🏻🤷♀️
@@lalyahpalma2137 I never claimed to be able to make that decision for everyone - I do, however, have the right to express my opinion on a *public* video. Nothing in what I said was hateful.
This world is hard enough to navigate through without deliberately passing on stuff to make your child's life harder. She could have adopted or had an egg donor - there are myriads of ways to become a mother without passing on genetic issues to your offspring.
@@js9248My first thought seeing this video was wondering why anyone would want to have kids they could pass a disability to, unless it was an accidental pregnancy. It's not because I'm ableist or hate people with disabilities, it's just that once that child is born they have to go through the same struggles and hardships, and like you said, I can't imagine seeing my kid go through that.
@Spider-Rat77 Exactly. As I said, I have a ton of disabilities myself, and some days, I can't even get out of the bed because of pain. The pain meds barely touch it, but they also have their own side effects that can be debilitating.
Also, another somewhat controversial opinion I have - unless it's truly a miracle, "accidental" pregnancies these days are hard for me to accept - I am essentially Fertile Myrtle (I can get pregnant, but cannot carry to term). After having several miscarriages, and then finally being diagnosed with a bunch of disabilities, I stopped trying. I got on birth control and asked my husband to get snipped. Until his sperm was clear, we used condoms, as well as birth control to prevent anything.
@@lalyahpalma2137do you see that shit it fuked up just adopt if you want a kid wtf
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Like If you support her
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I walked around with my head down all my life because my mother always said I was ugly. My disability was my parents. You're amazing ❤❤❤
This comment hurts me. I hate to hear that fam God bless you.
I was also abused verbally and emotionally by ny parents. I hated my life, I was just a child.
I have the same disability 😢
😮 Oh my! That's heartbreaking. I'm glad you realized it's NOT you, it's her. I bet you're gorgeous ❤
Everyone is beautiful in their own way ❤️
I couldn’t bring a child in the world if I had such disability. It’ll be hard on me and the child 😢😢
Exactly why do that to your child.
I KNOW HOW COULD SHE DO THAT KNOWING THE LIFE SHE HAS & ALL THE COMPLICATIONS THAT COME WITH BEING DISABLED!!!
shes probably one of them weirdos that think having a biological child makes the child worth more, if you wouldnt love your child even if you werent related then you do not love your child.
Yup
...but this isn't your child...🤔
The baby is so cute bro. It’s fine to be like that and Mom made her so in the name of Jesus don’t be bullying a man.
OOooohh my goodness who else when straight to the comments😂😂😂
If you have a disability like this peace don’t inflict this pain on someone else
What does that mean????? It's not contagious and if your saying she not allowed to have kids that's what Hitler said during WW2 disabled people shouldn't have kids so your basically agreeing with Hitler
Its selfishness on one side and love on the other. Hard to think about this subjects
@@codydiffinity3640the baby will not have a normal life you never know what could happen down the road….in the beginning off 2016 my little brother on my dad side had a stroke and was on life support flatlined two times they did surgery on his brain now he's a vegetable for the rest of his life. He's 19 now…when he was born he was only projected to live to the age of maybe 2 because he was born deformed with problems due to his mom having a lot of health problems including she was like 40 on lots of medications plus she was obsess….it was cool when when my little brother could talk because jit was funny only thing was that growing up he couldn't play like the other kids because of how he was….
@@codydiffinity3640im pretty sure you saying what you saying because you don't have people born with disabilties in your family especially nothing that severe that's why you saying that but you only have your opinion. Nothing that's first hand
@@lyunboiss lol I'm a nurse I work with people with disabilities daily don't need to have someone in my family to have an say on the matter the fact is people with disabilities have a choice just like the rest of us you can't decide whats right or wrong in their lives that's up to them
There is no need for cruelty over physical differences. Friendly compassion is a powerful attitude with anyone.
I agree but it's just cruel to put that burden on your child just for your own self confidence.
I think she just wanted to have a child...
She didn't try to put any burden on her baby
@@israelkonan777 If ultrasounds exist where she's from it is 100% the mother putting the burden of physical deformities onto the child. Diabetes and alcoholism runs in my family so I'm probably not having kids. I understand not to burden others with my problems and my problems aren't a quarter of this ladys. She's selfish plain and simple
@@wordman2537agree 👍.
Poor child. 😢
How on earth have such big eyes?!
Its human nature, if something looks funny we laugh, but yes, i did laugh, but i still respect here for her confidence
Let the radiance of the uniqueness of your beauty shine even brighter !!
Luckily this wasnt posted on IG reels 😭💀
Ive been looking for this comment
I love how strong people with disabilities can be the fact that we see it as a disability and they see it as their everyday normal life. THEY'RE WONDERFUL❤
I agree 💯 but also how weak people who are .
oh you think it's wonderful that people with bad genes pass it on to their kids?!
Except the fact that she ruined that child’s life
@@SiennaArtsandCraftsBro the fact u js proved how simple minded your brain is the person is saying they because they can be anything anything living they legit said they're wonderful read and understand stuff before trying to insinuate something 😒
@@SiennaArtsandCraftsThey is used when you don't know someones pronouns, so you say "they".
That’s wild to willingly have a child that you know would also be sick
THANK U!
It is selfish evil and hateful towards an INNOCENT! Soul.
And she should called out for it
Cause she 100% knew that the child would be born like her.
Yup
Dat baby is takin a massive shit
who tf the dad is the question I have
I guarantee you the taxpayers are funding their livelihood. We carry the burden. Damn shame to do this to a child.
Aaj lagta hai Mummy bhi baccha ban gai aur baccha bhi mummy ban gaya aankh bahar nikaalo
Gode bless you
Looked at the comments and realized i was the problem💀
fr😭😭
Me asf 😭🙏
i forgot this wasn’t ig😭
I laughed so hard at this bc I thought it was a filter 😭 I swear it went away when I saw she was serious I hope I don’t go to hell😓
Bruh, what you think the baby daddy looks like?? Seriously curious...
Disabled people are almost always the kindest, noblest, and most giving people I ever meet.
Kind yet she knowly passed on her condition to an innocent child... that's not very kind, in fact it's down right horrible.
@@epicray8434Wait what?
No. Don't group individual people who are disabled like they're a dog breed.
@@epicray8434 I agree
@@mexicancandytastegood2716 I'm paralyzed and i don't think what they said was offensive lol they're not wrong
The baby’s big eyes are soooo cute 🥰
❌Eugenics❌
✅Dysgenics✅
I have a daughter with Down Syndrome.
She’s non-verbal, cross-eyed and missing teeth. She’s forty-two, and she’s still my beautiful baby. Your daughter is adorable with her big eyes! She will be loved because you are raising her with love!
You are doing well Mama❤️ God bless you soo much 🙏
Womp to a fucking womp
You're beautiful
@@AhdwoaCapello-fl4dl Thank you! I’m trying, anyway!
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Thank you ! My mother was a paraplegic from polio when she turned 4 . Raised 4 of us to also be independent and strong !
AlHummduAllah
Thank you very much
She had polio when she was 4?
❤@@LarryHoover-wv1kt
Awesome ❣️🙏
The woman is so Pretty and The baby is so cute ❤
Like this comment if you bleve in god
Imagine if this was posted in TikTok everyone would probably say “how is nobody hating?” Or something but in TH-cam everyone has the courage to speak their truth
💀💀💀💀 shush ur irrelevant
Or instagram, instagram is absolutely nasty with hate comments,.
@@Yarmendoesst4ff that is so true
Whomp whomp maybe just don’t post there lmfao
TH-cam also censors comments like crazy
IF YOU HAVE A DISABILITY LIKE THIS, BY ALL MEANS DON'T HAVE CHILDREN AND PASS THESE TRAITS TO YOUR CHILDREN. THINK ABOUT WHAT THEIR LIVES WILL BE LIKE.
I didn’t wanna say anything
I have to agree 💯
I agee. I look at this and get sad for the kid.
Son of a bitch, keep your robot thoughts to your self.
Yup
Our creator loves individuality! We know by the volume of different animals He created. I don't mind being identified as a human (usually) but I don't pattern myself after another person.😅
Don't let this video go on instagram reels....
YES THATS A GOOD IDEA ILL GO POST IT NOW
I don’t know if Im sick you guys tell me but, I feel like when you’re born with this kind of disability and then you know your children are gonna get something similar, I find it kinda selfish and fcked up to have kids and potentially make them suffer. I mean that’s my pov
You're right.
Yep
The nazis believed the same thing lol
That's why they forbid certain people to reproduce and ended up sterilizing people with different disabilities.
I agree
I agree