Losing our child turned everything around for us and we are glad we held on to each other | LNN
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 พ.ค. 2024
- It takes a lot to hold on to God even when everything in your life is going South but Pete and Julie kariuki always knew a brighter day would come and it sure did
On today’s episode of LNS, Rebuilding series, this beautiful couple walks us through their love, loss, grief, Rebuilding and Restoration series in the hope of encouraging and inspiring someone who might be going through a difficult phase
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Good morning team LNN
What is your take home from today's conversation with Pete and Julie?
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Thank you for watching ❤❤
This is an unbelievable interview 😭 what amazing people and what a story and I'm only halfway. Wahhh. ❤❤❤❤❤
Amazing interview,Mr Ngige was our photographer at our wedding many years ago! He was an amazing photographer,great seeing his son turned out to be such an amazing person.
Wishing them well 🙏
Thank you for having us Lynn 🎉
Good job
If someone wants to reach you how can that be thank you@@iamjulie.k
It feels so good seeing married people winning in the institute of marriage and it gives encourage to us who are hopping to enter into it but as Lynn said "Marriage works but it takes work"
Indeed it does wishing you well in your next beautiful life of marriage
@@judwmbiyu Thanks 🤝🤝🤝
With 30+ years of covenanted love, 6ceasareans,3 v/b ,9children and 10 grannies & counting ,,I hope to share my life's journey one day,,God's time is the best.
did you say 6 caesareans hats off mum
Waiting
please do we waiting
A0wsass8q0😊😊@@stellahmaweu2594
Hugs mum waiting...
This man eeeeh!! God help every woman carrying a baby to deliver safely. Help those yearning for childs cry. Carrying pregnancy to term and giving birth to a healthy baby and healthy mama it really takes God's hand
This man is a man .Beautiful Marriage .A true definition of ups and down.Through happiness together through griefs ,pain together.
This man is a man 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 you have said it perfectly!
well put
I tell you
God bless this man who understands his role as a man loving your wife is not being weak
When Pete appreciated the things that women go through, I Wept like a child ,something healed in me. So thankful for this couple ,thank you LNN for inviting them❤
That point when she said,"A woman never forgets how she is treated during and after pregnancy. That in most times when treated badly, she will leave."....this I resonate with so much. This couple makes me believe that even I have a chance to have a beautiful marriage. Thank you so much for this episode LNN....It was needed.Damn!!!
Me too, unfortunately. I remember how my husband treated me to this day. Our marriage didn't survive that experience
Love this
True ,
Weeeh , wacha tu. My sister inlaw told my mum"na umwongeleshe asipate mtoto mwingine sahii"mind you sijaheal from loosing my baby😭😭😭
I can imagine how I was treated during and after pregnancy.....and I left when my baby was 2 months old. I'm happier now. And I believe for a beautiful marriage someday.
This is one conversation that has made me thirsty for God.This was a life changing conversation.
In America, when you lose a newborn, they bathe them,
dress them well, and present them to you in a very sensitive manner. They let you hold them as long as you like and even take photos. I don't know why we fail patients and new mothers in Kenya. When your Healthcare job becomes routine and you become insensitive its time to change your career.
I lost my son and the grief is real especially when I meet his age mates
Health care jobs become routine because you are overworked and underpaid. Health care workers in Kenya encounter desperate situations in a broken healthcare system. Even the most caring of them eventually caves in .
Waaw
@@julietokoth this is so sad 😞.. when I come back to Kenya, I'll advocate for change. They're insensitive to death and that's not good
@@joycengari8631 I'm so sorry. Even just imagining it is hard. I've lost both parents siblings and a husband but I think losing a child has to be the most difficult experience
My late husband loved cooking for us.He even taught our daughters..
So its true families are different
Many interviews have been done but this one has greatly settled in.. i have cried all through😢 God's healing is all we all desire
Proverbs 18:22..He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD..
No body is talking about the lady's outfits, it looks so beautiful ❤️
She’s also very beautiful
@@eunisonc7494 that's true❤️❤️
The same grief we went through with my husband after loosing our awaited son🥹😥😥am thankful that we stood with each other and still going strong.
Therapeutic to have this 2 beautiful people talk about doing life together......marriage works if u put in the work and God in it🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
True
I love it when a man takes charge in marriage
For a long time I have met a wonderful couple who are not forcing it. I had to flow with the story from kitchen to the sitting room holding my phone atleast away from my Tiktok.❤Awesome
I love julie, this lady has a heart of gold and i also love how she loves God
Their marriage gives me hopes that beautiful marriages still exists
I just break down when Peter says don't ever mistreat a woman,I have been mistreated so much I am filled with wounds so much I don't know if I will ever be healed, may God restore my heart,make me stand again
Am very sorry for your pain. hugs and just know heavenly father loves you
Your prayer has reached the table of Heaven
hugs salome.... one day healing shall happen
It takes time but healing really comes. Just one day ... One day
It will be done. May God restore your healing
The Kariuki's ,this is deep.Thank you for speaking to me.This is the first time am seeing you 2 and I already love you.Julie I have subcribed
Watching this one give me alot of hope.I have gone through losses but we are grateful we have a son named Emmanuel we will still have more children when it's God's time
Amazing couple i admire men who genuinely love their wifes.
Hi Lynn, I just want to appreciate your level of proffessionalism and wisdom in all the interviews that you conduct. Your engagement with your guest is at another level. Keep up the goid work my dear. You are truly appreciated ❤
Yes exactly what a brave lady full of wisdom ,,the questions are on top notch 💪💪💪
NOW I understand why my marriage failed. During my pregnancy, birth and postpartum, my husband was so indifferent. He wasn't working, so I took care of all the maternity bills, but even on the day I gave birth, he was blacked out. He had to be awoken several times. When we went home, he didn't want to do anything for me. We're in America, so we don't have any relatives around. He complained about bringing me a cup of tea or even making me food. So from day one, I did everything myself. My feet were swollen, I could walk properly, I wasn't sleeping, my birth wound hurt and my blood was out of control. Still, he said he's a Kenyan man and didn't do that kind of stuff. I Became resentful from then on and our marriage went downhill from there.
So sorry about what you went through Hun❤. I pray that you got closure. The man didn't deserve you. Your worth is more than that❤❤
Sorry for what you through. You deserve better swty ♥️
That's just a terrible Kenyan man and a human being. There are Kenyan men who are good and will take care of their spouses when sick and when pregnant. My husband has done that from cleaning me to helping me in the hospital.
Mine too failed because of my partner then was the kind
Our men need to change their mindset.
Pete has just reminded me of when I was newly diagnosed with breast cancer in August 2021, I woke up one day, shook up myself and decided to brave it, I could listen to Wanjiku stories on this channel and realize that people are going through tougher times than myself, even one time during that season I took some food to someone in Kawangware I had seen on the show... What am saying is that someone's tough times may just encourage you to rise up and keep going!
One day i will come on this show and testify... You save this. Take Home God restores; God can fast track miracle.
Hey koinonia
@@maureenjoshua4292 hey Maureen
When she talked about being in private wing and not maternity was all i wished for... I had my baby but in the nursery for 3weeks and i had to watch other women give birth, go home and leave me in the hospital, i would cry everytime till i even started helping the women without milk to position their pumps and produce milk.... I would see them wonder why i was alone in my bed.... Thanks God my baby and i went home and this story you gave made me cry.
Your story is similar to mine. Kwanza she is my first born.
I thank God for her life.
Hugs Mama
I never thought I will talk about my situation in public but Lynn, Thank you
I have had a very tough 1st first delivery, postpartum stress, grieve of my dad and divorce all at 5 months postpartum. thank you for this interview; so uplifting and healing
Pastor Pete and his wife Julie came across as very practical and grounded. Not just this up in the air of its gonna be fine; they actually give examples of what they went through and how they overcame. They are so relatable and lovable. May God bless them more. Sure.. bring them back please😊
God please bless me with this kind of man,he has everything that I need in a man,,,,,,I love this show may God bless u Lynn abundantly ❤❤❤
Shout out to my beautiful tribe Borana...that cocktail is amazing, Borana+kikiyu ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Cocktail moto kama pasi..my bro from Moyale Suburbs!Arda???
Wow wooooow. what a couple!! I just love the way Julie acknowledges the work of the Holy Spirit. Mind-blowing mehn! Thats why their marriage is strong. They've gotta the Helper(Holy spirit) in their lives. Pongezi. Great listening
Glory be to God! Love to Pete and Julie. Lynn, I’m one of your subscribers and I must admit here and now that I am glad I am. I don’t follow TH-cam channels as they are way too many and we also need to have our lives! Pete, there is something you need to do: Talk to society and men about dealing with grief. Julie, you are blessed beyond measure. Moremogolo( South Africa)Let us give Lynn and her team their 🌺 🌺
When Pete started saying all the things women go through in life from changing there names to doing marriage ,to carrying and taking care of kids I literally cried with Lynn there. May God continue blessing this family. ❤
Julie is so wise ❤. I love how she gives credit to the Holy Spirit.
I went through the same loss of my first child, it is very traumatizing how medicals practitioners bring our babies when dead...up to know i cry a river......thank you to God am blessed with two beautiful kids .....
They are also in pain,no sane doctor wants a dead patient.
May God Continue to uphold you as you Serve him in every way all the days of your Lives psalm 91 :14b. May your children grow up to call the Lord blessed. .
I love this couple! God is hope and salvation. Guys, a man that loves God is a blessing! God bless Saint Julie and Saint Peter! I have hope for my future pregnancies! And may your child rest in eternal peace
thank you Lynn for having such a conversation. I lost my baby last year and still in the grieving period but this conversation is a life changer am crawling towards the healing.
Pete is so wise and the whole conversation was meaningful, Men should not mistreat women, they go through a lot .
It's my prayer that that health workers should be trained on loss and grief especially in that case ,a mother who has just lost a baby ,it should be handled with dignity,the cause of death, should be wrapped properly and decently,present the baby to the parents let the parents mourn and just supporting the parents it's very necessary.
Very true.
No books can teach that..but you are forced to learn that by situations😢..i am a nurse and some things you will never understand unless you find yourself there and yeah its never easy
I admire Pete and Julie..such a powerhouse
Woow i wish all men can listen to these wonderful words from a fellow man and also put them into consideration. I pray for everyone one of us who are not yet married for God to bless us with husbands who will understand us genuinely
Such beautiful people and a wonderful session. May God always shine his torch on Pete and Julie and to Lyn, kudos.
Handsome,Loving,caring, respectful,Godfearing Man, everything good in this Man, lucky woman who married you
This interview is WOW🎉🎉🎉 . THE COUPLE JUST MODLED THE GOD ORDAINED MARRIAGE TO LEARN FROM. Julie my dear, you are blessed, infact you have a beautiful marriage. Thank you for touching on support for our men which is something we always overlook. The closing statement from Pastor was just a jelly on top, thank you for reminding us about the meaning of Joseph's sons.
This interview has to be documented.
I Pray that this lovely couple write a book for this generation and the coming generation to learn from.
Truly this marriage is "GOD ORDAINED".
Proud to listen to you both , a great testimony of happy& working marriages, the God way. Many more blessings upon you two as you open up to pass on God's help for those who live for him..Baraka Tele
Lynn,this is couple is God sent. Thank you. I experienced loss the same year they did. Nimelia, God is doing his thing through them . Asante.
this guy was my school captain pale ditchez 2006 if my memory serves me right.he was a smart n good guy.
True.I was your teacher😊
Md Sayo
This man is a preacher...here saying yes yes to the ice block meltings, aah Julie you are blessed....your story has made me shed tears of joy and sadness
When God is the center of it all,nothing can shake a spiritual marriage and what a man and a husband. Much respect for him and I hope many more men learn from this story. Lynn keep on doing what you do.
Much love at LNN
This man is one in a million,thank you Julie,this couple is very encouraging, thank Lynns team
This was an amazing story from an incredible couple. It is always good to appreciate people and their roles in our lives. To all the women out there, you are wonderful people.
What a show. I am so blessed an old Mama as I am.... What a couple. Indeed the LORD has and is doing something very special with this couple.❤🎉
Amazing show Lynn. Loved the couple. I loved the fact that he acknowledged what women go through and how important it is to be empathetic to each other. Thank you Lynn.
Nimefika wa kwanza nipeeni likes zangu 😅🙏🙏🙏🙏
I love these guys. They are friends and soulmates. I love the fact that you can only be successful if you know what you are running from.
Am blessed ,thank you for sharing your story ,may God keep using you 🙏
Inspiration!
Inspiration!
Inspiration!
Holding on to each other, especially during difficult times is so important
To us who never had anybody to share our pregnancy journey from day one God bless you i dalut you your all heros❤❤❤❤❤
God strengthen women
Wow wow wow what a couple!! I have learnt alot l highly appreciate you guys for sharing your story. My faith in God has grow 🎉
I love the way Lynn's voice changes with the story....you flow so well, your questions change to that moment of the depth of a story🤍
Twice... I was brought my babies in buckets... sooooooo inhuman..... and in the so called best hospitals.... then I wake up to moms handling their babies and sweet baby cries... I tell you... this is the worst nightmare. I started praying to God to protect the babies I could hear. God is so faithful.... my daughter and son who God so graciously gave me are all good and grown.
I saw my baby girl being put in the black waste paper. I had to tell the nurse to wait so that I can have a glimpse of her.
@@beatriceottawa6363tight hugs Mami. That was very painful. May God continue comforting you. 🤗
Buckets....I am sorry,but that was inhumane .I believe their should be training for handling still born babies .
🫂🫂🫂🫂❤️🩹
Tight hugs to all of you mamaas, more grace to you, the precious soul continue resting in eternal peace.
The way these Kenyan stories on LNN want me to shift from Uganda and become Kenyan 😮 I love love the stories U are a sign of change for sure stay blessed.
I love you the hearty laughs... A really enjoyable conversation. Thank you Lynn.
I am crawling, i am limping to God " good store energy, there is hope for tomorrow i will not give up because my God is not done with me yet.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
God bless this couple and keep them filled with His goodness daily in Jesus name amen
Thank you Pete and Julie. Listening to your story was really helpful, thanks for sharing. I have an idea how losing a child you love affects people even when we aren't the immediate parents so being the immediate parent must be hard but as you said, God always has a plan, we just need to trust him so I pray for God to continue restoring you.
I love this couple. They have gone the same experiences like we have. We lost our 2nd child like that. It was a very difficult experience even though the hospital doctors and nurses in the US were very good. The experience is horrible. But there is a God who heals and restores his people. He did it for us just as this couple.
This is one of the most powerful testimony I've ever heard especially healing and rebuilding.God bless you and come again 🙏
Always learning from Lynn show thank you for bringing them on such a lovely couple God bless them
This couple is talking to me,l and my husband have gone through rough times during our childhood, gets married and our first born diagnosed with blood cancer in India for treatment and trusting God that we will come out strong,one day we shall use our past to encourage others,I believe that God will bring some lights on our way one day
Hugs to you ❤
We beleive and trust in our Lord to heal your baby. In the mighty name of name of Jesus we celebrating already. We beleive in our powerful God
@evelyn. Take heart and by the power of the Almighty lord you shall overcome this. Am inthe same shoes with you but God has been faithful to us and my daughter got her treatment now cancer free and road to this phase to be a past. So I do understand what you are saying. I.may be on a different continent but illness knows no gender, class, wealth. But most important may God continue to walk with u and your baby. Passing my love and prayers.
Thanks for encouragement
Hugs mama,,,you guys will come out of this strong🙏🙏❤️💯
I love them so much..changed my life a lot God bless you
God bless this beautiful couple and their family. They are a reflection of God's love ❤❤
Never been this inspired as a wife and a mother... Great conversation. I wish it could last a while day...wisdom after wisdom
Dear fellow ladies these are some of the things that men want from us in a marriage: Conventional respect ✊, peace ✌️,Love, tenderness, warmth, be caring in your conversations ,being spoken to nicely ,pleasant tone,kindness, supportive among others because when they come back home from work they need a wife not a board member✌️.Note; Dear men if you want to be treated like a 👑 make sure that you also treat your wife like a queen 🤴
it's a two way traffic !
@@bellaash2510Exactly
Wueeh... all the best 🤭
😂😂😂pea wako hiyo,wa wengine achana nao😂😂, nipitieni guys pale kwangu
Hehe wooi 😅😅
Amen 🙏🙏 thought have seen you somewhere Remah Fest i got blest and encounter there First one i miss it was in hospitality team serving all you pastors, and warship leaders and indeed God open doors for me and my family we are all here in the UK
Quite a touching story. Mad respect for this couple. They are quite an inspiration to the couples who are going into marriage. May God continue blessing their union.
Wow that part of good stored energy we remain hopeful n hiyo part ya Manasseh wow God atacheza kama yeye bring them back this episode was so wholesome❤❤
Wow amazing show ❤
Beautiful couple, powerful testimony
Very encouraging
Be blessed all of you.
Watching from doha
Thanks a lot for this take. It has made me cry especially when I look into my life and I've seen where I've failed and need to wake up. Thanks Pete for appreciating women,God bless even for the examples both of you have given.
The world would be the best place to live in.I wish all men can be like this man,just appreciating women and be sensitive for once.The world would b
Such a sweet couple. Loving this so very much. You guys are blessed.
My prayer change the scale of my life that's my life one day Lynn I will come to the hot seat in Jesus name
I'm so blessed by the story of this couple. Thank you beautiful people and thank you, Lynn
I love this beautiful couple. Pete is full of humor telling their story. Blessings
Lyne continue doing this, lots of love from Uganda, we love you, at my darkest you keep encouraging me, some of us think there are no such good people, we have lost hope we, have been betrayed abused, we are shattered. May the almighty God bless the work of your hands Lyne and keep doing this for us.
Wow wow wow.....to God be the glory. Thank you Lynn and the beautiful guests today.
Iam here representing housekeeper n villa managers in making ❤
This has been such a blessing. Thank you so so much for your bravery and sharing your pain with us and for us. Thank you for your messages of healing and hope. Thank you Lynn for this and for them
My cousin lost her baby of two weeks due to kidney problems 😢 it's even more sad kos that was her second baby to pass away. her first passed away in one week. 😢😢
Am not the person who knows what to tell someone in such a position. May God give her peace.
She should pray, before it becomes a pattern.
Lynn, you should air more of these stories, stories that are uplifting with good endings! Very encouraging
This was a great interview...learned a lot. I didn't loose a child and their pain is palpable. Wishing them continued healing. Tragically lost my brother in 2019...I have not stepped into a church or prayed since and religion has been out the window but for some reason, I'm always listening to gospel music which somehow soothes me. It is interesting to hear that that is a normal part of grieving. So many nuggets from today but my takeaway today is grief isn't linear, healing is a decision, and the other side of healing is beautiful...
Wow,God bless you Pst.Peter and Julie.l went through the same many years ago and totally healed.God can never mismanage our lives.....thats my take home.Lyn your shows has brought alot of healing to my soul,a big God bless you.
This brings back alot of hope ❤. Good job Lynn. To the Kariuki's thank you for sharing.
wow, wow ,wow I loved every bit of this conversation. Thank you so much has spoken to me personally in so many aspects
Woooow!! What a wonderful show.
I look forward to watching Peter and Julie again on the LNN show.
One much needed conversion..............thanks so much
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This was amazing! much needed. You are a wonderful supernatural couple! Thank you for increasing my faith. I claim Manasseh and Ephraim as my story!
I love that Pastor Pete said there is no other option. We have to trust in this God. I love this couple. I love Julie's honesty . She has taught me I can ask God questions. I love their marriage and family ministry. This was a beautiful interview.
May God continue to bless this couple who are one of the best definition of what a Godly marriage is all about. Taking their vows very seriously. ❤