Why Children Don't Listen! How to get children to pay attention when you speak!

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  • @shareineveniffaith5548
    @shareineveniffaith5548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a mommy of four! These tips are so wonderful!

    • @MommyAnswerLady
      @MommyAnswerLady  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Share In Even If Faith
      Thank you for your encouraging comment. I hope they work well for you! Check out the other videos on the channel. They are for moms just like you!

  • @sarahsmith9619
    @sarahsmith9619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The training portion is really practical and helpful

  • @a.brownlee2775
    @a.brownlee2775 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How would i apply this to a 2 year who still learning words? Thanks for all of your great work!

    • @MommyAnswerLady
      @MommyAnswerLady  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for asking. I would like to answer your question, but please clarify. What is happening when you say something and you believe your child "isn't listening?"
      Are they just ignoring you? Are they openly defying your instructions? Are they throwing a fit? Please explain.

  • @sheseeks-shefinds
    @sheseeks-shefinds 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can we help when they’re in school? My daughter gets in trouble for talking too much.

    • @MommyAnswerLady
      @MommyAnswerLady  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old is s your daughter?

    • @sheseeks-shefinds
      @sheseeks-shefinds 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MommyAnswerLady she is 5, turns 6 in august

    • @MommyAnswerLady
      @MommyAnswerLady  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sheseeks-shefinds
      If she is just talking when she shouldn’t, I have to tell you…that was my problem in school. I was always getting in trouble for talking!
      Have you considered homeschooling? That’s my first piece of advice. Not just because of this, but generally. There are numerous reasons to consider it.
      If that’s not possible, it’s important to find out exactly what the teacher is saying that’s going on before I could give a specific answer.
      Is she talking during class when teacher is trying to teach? Is she interrupting the teacher? Or just whispering to other students?

    • @sheseeks-shefinds
      @sheseeks-shefinds 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MommyAnswerLady i would LOVE to homeschool. But right now financially I’m of able to and she also LOVES going to school 🥺 she’s so excited to just be with her friends and learn new things.
      She’s talking with her classmates not so much over he teacher.

    • @MommyAnswerLady
      @MommyAnswerLady  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sheseeks-shefinds
      I would work on making sure you are doing eye to eye time with her twice a day. You don’t want her to become friend oriented. Especially in todays world.
      Talk to the teacher and get details about their day and how it is happening that she is talking when she shouldn’t. Then I will send you a video that is actually about a child hitting--but the reward system in the video could be adjusted to anything.
      Then…my suggestion is…
      If you have to, adjust lifestyle and sacrifice to homeschool. That is the best thing. And she can have plenty of time with friends even when homeschooled. I really hope you can do this.
      Is she in a private or public school?
      Here is the video. Watch it and use the bracelet reward to work on talking instead.
      th-cam.com/video/k6eY3qR3EZc/w-d-xo.html

  • @Heather-xm9ul
    @Heather-xm9ul ปีที่แล้ว

    No, when I say they don't listen, I mean they literally do not listen. If they are FORCED to use their ears and brains, suddenly they're super cooperative and obedient. I literally mean that they DO NOT LISTEN. One of them literally just came and asked if they were grounded from trespassing, and why they can't do it. We have talked about trespassing at least once a week for 6 months! We have covered it from every angle, and she listened to none of it.
    That's just the biggest example during the past week. Neither of them listen, but the younger one literally never listens, never pays attention, and is perpetually oblivious. She is in serious physical danger at least once a week because she refuses to listen, ever.

    • @MommyAnswerLady
      @MommyAnswerLady  ปีที่แล้ว

      What are the consequences given for not listening?