I've started this journey last January. In one year ive decluttered 5,000 items. Result Spend less money. Can find things easier in my home. Own 40% less clothing. Easier to get dressed. Spend more time 📚 Do things outside instead of go shopping for fun. Have more money to invest. Its been wonderful ❤
What do you have instead, what did you substitute it with ? I am still in the stage that i love my stuff but see that its too much but rather wish i had more time than get rid of it - for what ?
Thank you for this! For me, it's not about wanting 'more'; it's about wanting the 'perfect' thing that will eliminate the need for any other version of that thing. But in this quest, I accumulate so many imperfect things without realizing that the perfect thing likely doesn't exist and I need to learn to be satisfied with one of the things I already have.
I just screenshotted this to put on my list for why I’m doing a no buy year. You are so right-the perfect thing does not exist, we must stop the search!
Perfect timing as I embark on my first time ever no buy/low buy year. I have been mentally preparing for a month as I am seriously wanting to accomplish this for 2024. After my first week, which was not without temptation (I bought something but returned it the next day with renewed resolve to only buy replacements and what I really need and not what I just want), your 4 part series will be just what I need to get through the first month. Thank you in advance!
We are 74 and 77 years old and I’ve been on a simplify my life journey for years. Now in retirement one of the many benefits is that i don’t have to ask the kids or grandkids to help us with stuff (I.e. taking down decorations from attic, etc.) everything is within easy reach in our small home. We can take take care of out basic needs with ease and have more time and money to do the things we really enjoy.
To change your relationship with stuff, begin to realize how much you've hung onto out of habit, emotion, guilt rather than practicality. Belongings should suit stage of life you're currently at.
Wow, just what I needed! For the past 17 years of being widowed, I think the "stuff" has been replacing the loss... Clothes, supplements (trying to heal a 35 year chronic illness), art supplies, etc. Making my written list of reasons to let go, and not replace "stuff"! Working on kitchen cupboards this weekend.
In 2017, I knew that I would be moving overseas in early 2018. And international move is extremely costly. This is what I did to prepare. Now, I know that not everyone can do this, but I think some can or adapt the strategy. I first did a heavy declutter: keep, donate, toss. And I sold or donated a lot of extra furniture that I knew served little or no purpose. Then, I packed everything up in totes and boxes, except 1 set of bed and bath linens, toiletries and 1 change of clothes. Over the next several months, if I needed something, then and only then did I go get it from the tote/box. After I used it, I put it back. If it came out of the box twice, I left it out. At the end of six months, I evaluated again. I sold or donated most of the remaining furniture that wasn’t worth the cost of moving or storage fee. Most of the stuff was still in the totes/boxes. It was work upfront, but little to no work on the back end when I was crushed for time. Moving was much easier, less costly and my tiny house wasn’t over full once I got to my new home. I had exactly what I needed. I repeated the process in 2020 when I returned to the USA. It really showed me how much I can do without and be very content.
Fantastic. I just moved from the US to the UK and I so wish I had read this and discovered Joshua Becker prior to spending $15,000 on shipping. I even shipped my kitchen trash can of which there is no space for. I just had to have all my beloved stuff that I will probably need to get rid of now. I will need to move back to the US in a year or so and there is no way all this stuff is going.
Sharing my journey: I saw a full matcha set today for $28. I put it in my cart and then walked around the store. I went to grab some matcha and then, realized I did not want to have to spend another $25. Then I walked around for another minute debating the fact that now I would need to pay $55 for an impulse purchase matcha set. I put the matcha set back and I have no regrets right now. If I still want the matcha set later, I can put it in my budget.
I am a presentation coach and I want to say that your delivery is excellent. The pacing is perfect. The logic works and your examples are crystal clear. Great job!
My Hubby & I decided to do a "no buy" (except groceries) in January. I've put groceries in my online cart & even thought, could we get by with not even buying groceries. I think we could. I've mentioned our minimalism journey to all of my family & over Christmas, I talked in depth with my Mom. I gave her permission to get rid of anything I had given to her & my Dad. She decided to go through some items while I was home. What I wasn't prepared for was my reaction to her getting rid of items & letters I had given her. It was hard & I cried a few tears. The next day, I told her how proud I was of her for letting go. I hope she keeps it up. 😊
This is the series that I didn’t realise I needed until recently. I’ve only just begun my decluttering journey and I’m faced with some ugly truths about myself, not least of all my compulsive spending habits. Decluttering is not only physically challenging, but also psychologically difficult. I want to live with less AND want less. Thank you for these practical steps I can take to achieve this.
Decluttering WILL make you want less as you see new items as just more future clutter. Also everything important in life is hard. Just take it slow and steady. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.
Been following you for 2+ years. I really think I've mastered how not to fall for the consumerism trap. Trying to remind myself what clothing I purchased in 2023 - 1 pair of replacement running shoes and a winter parka to replace the 1 I gave to my daughter. Less stuff, less organization!
I never comment but we always watch your videos. They are always relatively short and packed full of inspiration and information And, we appreciate the lack of commercials
Yes!I love that too! I so want to join his Becoming Minimalist but just can't afford it right now. I hope he does it again soon. I just got two other books of his to read. Hoping I can declutter while waiting on the next time.
I do believe that DAILY voicing my gratitude for what I already have - right out loud; where my own ears hear it coming from my own mouth- MUST be my first & foremost defense…
My wife has finally taken her first steps in this journey. I consciously make every effort to encourage her and compliment her efforts, as I see the positive results for her beginning to manifest. We have a ton of "memory junk" (useless stuff picked up on travels, or from events) in the house that needs to be eliminated, and the process has begun. I look forward to the coming months.
My problem has never been with shopping and buying too much personal stuff. The problem is with getting rid of things that I haven't used in years, and really don't need. I think I can still use that item, or wear that item, but then I never do. I have been selling things on Ebay for 17 years and recently started to list and sell on Facebook Marketplace. At first it was items from my brother's estate who was a hoarder. Then it was unsold merchandise from my retail brick and mortar store. Now that I am retired there is so much unsold left over inventory, and my personal stuff that it is overwhelming. Selling is very slow and I have been donating on a regular basis. My plan this year is to finally put an end to the excess clutter. If it means donating everything, that is what it will have to be.
There are people out there who could really benefit from the things you are holding on to. Let these things go to charities who will also benefit from selling your old items. My personal trick is to put stuff I'm not sure about eradicating into a box. I put the date on it. If I don't go into that box for 6 months, then the box gets donated WITHOUT me opening it first "just to check". ❤
@@grooviechickie As someone who is retired and uses Social Security and savings to live on I consider myself lucky to still have a lot of this stuff that I can now use or sell to supplement my income. Getting $1000 per month extra really helps. I am also using things now that I stored away in my closets and basement and really have no need to purchase much of anything because of things I squirreled away. My savings and the extra money means that I can travel and do the things I want to do, instead buying stuff with it.
That’s great! How are your decluttering challenges going? I’ve been waking up early and decluttering one thing. I also practice setting a timer for 25 min and resting for 5 while doing chores
I went to visit a friend in Thailand in 2016, and it struck me how much happier they were even though they had so much less. I have been on this journey ever since, and it has completely changed my life.
Recognize and articulate the benefits of owning less. 1. Observe and reflect where you have had a positive impact. 2. Share the benefits and the why about owning less. 3. Create a list of benefits and add other benefits as you discover them.
Just what I needed to hear today. I've been debt free several years now and at the "maintain" stage of minimalism. This month I am participating in "no spend January" but have found myself more tempted than ever to buy things I absolutely do not need. When I was at full intensity in my debt-reducing journey, I talked my friends and family to death about Dave Ramsey to the point they became sick of hearing me. I'm afraid the same thing would happen if I shared with them about my minimalism journey so I will just let them see how I live and if they have questions, then I will share.
I’m looking to reduce my spending and save more this year. I’m debt free, but have been dipping into my savings every few months, despite having gotten a significant raise last year… well, significant to me, anyway. I got my January budget going on Dave Ramsey’s Every Dollar app, and am determined to stick to it and grow my savings account this year.
I worked for the Albany Times Union for nearly 45 years. The fact that they recognized what you were doing was important enough to report doesn’t surprise me. For anyone reading this that is new to minimalism please know that you never miss what you part with and your life will be better in ways you can’t imagine!
I disagree with the saying "you never miss what you part with". Twice during my 70 plus year life I let some things go and both times I have regretted that decision and I still wish I could have them back. I think this is what stops me from trying again.
I have been slowly going through my house decluttering for 3-4 years. I have always been an organized person but think about what my children will have to deal with when I pass away. My brothers and I were left with a huge job when our parents died. I didn’t think it was right to leave us to deal with all their “stuff”. So i have been whittling away at my “stuff”. My husband even packed up 2 cargo trailers of stuff that he had had for years in our barn and donated it all to a thrift store. That was huge and he felt a burden lifted off his shoulders. I agree with what you talk about and will continue to follow this new series to keep downsizing. It does make a person feel better having less. At least, that’s how I feel.
This video fits my current situation perfectly - I‘ve been decluttering here and there for a couple of years now and since December, since I have adjusted to life with two little ones a bit and we know we won‘t have more children, I‘ve been getting rid of things rigidly. It started with one drawer of sweaters which could be shut easily after decluttering (and selling) all the ones I didn’t wear anyway. Then I got rid of some mugs and now I can unload the dishwasher even quicker as there is plenty of room for the ones we have left. Changes might seem small, but they add up and the impact of the tiny perks added up is just incredible. Thank you for your inspiring work!
Very timely! I just started my first low buy year. I’m trying to only buy refills of personal and household items and few specified “want” items. I also am keeping track of how many non - refill items I buy and how many items I declutter, to keep myself in check. I definitely want to want less, I’m so sick of having the urge to spend any extra money on frivolous things just because I can.
When I began decluttering I found so many of the same type of cleaner under my sink (which was crammed and not functional) I put them aside and have vowed to use them all before I invest in any other concoction! I prefer vinegar, dish soap and water tbh 😂
What a timely TH-cam gem of a find. I am 100% debt free, then sold my farm last week and the desire to spend money is so huge. I keep scaling back on things I want to get though.
I decided to declutter first and only buy organizers/dressers/etc after I was done making decisions about what I really wanted to keep in my life. I've got a growing pile of EMPTY CONTAINERS, growing bigger every week, not only don't I need more organizers/storage, but I gave away a few! And I'm declutterring and making decisions about each and every item in "layers ". I'm going through an area, taking out some things, then moving on to something else, and I'm surprised to find even more things that I don't want or used in a VERY long time, that I can let go of. I've sold some things and made some of my money back. I rarely set foot in a physical store anymore and when I do I realize that I don't need or really want anything. I'm more window shopping or just touching things and thinking realistically about if I need it. I decided that if I drop dead in a week, I don't want my daughter having to make decisions that I didn't want to make. I'm forcing myself to make decisions now rather than "tomorrow ". I've got so much room in my house now that I'm shocked
Wonderful plan. I decluttered 2554 items last year. I had a slow start but I'm committed 😂. Writing things down reinforces your thoughts. I will definitely do this plan. Thank you so much. Note: I'm doing the no spend January too. Tough but exciting.
Found your videos this last year. Now I am reading your book Minimalist Home. I am amazed at the freedom we have now that we have gotten rid of so much stuff. Thank you for changing my life. Took my husband longer to get on board but he just let go of over 2000 books, 8 book cases, and close to $4,000 in power tools. Yahoo
I started my decluttering journey with Dawn from The Minimal Mom, who led me to Dana from A Slob Comes Clean and Cas from Clutterbug. I've made massive progress in short bursts and tackled 10+yrs of dreaded paper clutter 🙌 I've shared my progress with about 12 friends on a WhatsApp group and so many began their own decluttering journeys too! It's quite contagious 👏
Looking forward to this series! “Wanting less” has stuck in my head since watching this video. I believe if we could ever get to the pointing of wanting less, minimalism (a way of life) would just naturally happen. I know it sounds so simple but really getting to the point of wanting less is a hard journey for some. Thanks for this video❤️
The two (wanting less and minimalism)go hand in hand. As you remove items from your home and enjoy the peace and free time, you will start wanting less. It is such hard work decluttering, why would you want to bring in more stuff? You start to detach from things as you discover the hidden gems you already have. Good luck. It does get easier as you strengthen those decluttering muscles.
Yes!! Finally, we're getting to the root cause of this. I've spent about 10 years feeling like I'm in a cycle because of my spending behaviors. I go through it in phases though; spending the most when the holidays come around. However, I have improved drastically over the years. I'm excited for this series!
Happy new year! I committed to a no spend Jan. I am cleaning out and committed to using what I have, and I have a lot. I’m writing on a list, a wish list, of whatever I’m tempted to buy. If I’m still wanting it later, I’ll treat myself, but if the want passes, even better. You are right, eliminate the want. ❤
Thank you for this series! I am pretty good at decluttering but this is what I really need to work on.I am also doing a shopping fast for each quarter to help with this. Watching this series on repeat as reminders are always good.
Great video and things to think about! I already share with friends and family about how much easier life is with less. One friend has even started her journey to having less!
Decluttering was relatively easy for me ..... a lot of things I owned had no attachment for me, so easy to get rid of, however it is more of a struggle with not buying things, so I keep to the one in, one out rule. But I do wish I could not get caught up in the consumerism trap of buying stuff. It's when it's a decision made 'in the moment' when on holiday for example, that is the problem, as you don't have much time to think about it or you can't leave it and come back the next day. I recently bought something on holiday that I regret, not too expensive, so will try and resell. Good thing about it is Lesson learned, ~ stop and give each decision Time and Thought, if you can't do that, then don't buy it!
I was on holiday in Malaysia and bought a small ceramic tea set. Got it home (UK), put hot water in the teapot and it cracked all the way down. No!!!!!!!!!!! Total waste of money plus the time I spent carefully carrying it around on holiday and the flight so it wouldn't break Ha Ha.
What a great subject to address. I follow many minimalists and have become aware of the American way of consumerism, with lives full of excess, comfort and convenience. I am often disappointed to find self-professed minimalists falling for the consumerism marketing tricks and just buy buy buy, requiring regular decluttering. I am aware yours is a culture that has been created to radiate wealth and comfort, but it only screams land-fill and pollution to me. The key to minimalism is not only in having less, it’s also in consuming less. I am so happy to see you get to the root of the problem
The key to minimalism is to be happy with less. It is hard to go into someone else's home and not be envious. There is a balance though, where some homes have too much stuff. I have gradually uncluttered my home and a few Christmases ago spent it at my In-Laws home. Their home is full of souvenirs from global travel. All neat and tidy but a lot of it. Then the Cristmas tree and decorations went up, which conflicted with their global traveller look, plus dozens of cards everywhere from friends. I found it so overwhelming, there was so much and sat there and thought "I feel like I am sitting in a rubbish dump with all this stuff around me". They retired early 50's so had the time and pensions over 30 years to shop for it all. Sadly my MIL passed away not long after and it took my FIL a long time to go through her clothes, she had so many and it made it harder for him as there were so many memories attached. I am dreading when he goes as he has hundreds of books and vinyl records.
Very glad to have had this video show up today. This is my year to get focused on living consciously and conscientiously within my retirement means. My wish is to maintain my level of charitable donations which means reducing frivolous consumption.
Thank you Joshu for the support in our minimising journey. It's so easy to fall back into cluttering up our spaces and this is a much needed perspective on resisting the temptations to do so. I've been aware of the consumerist traps for many years but looking round our home, it is still surprising to see the amount of new and unwanted items. Knowing that we have let them into our lives both intentionally and unintentionally feels discouraging at times. So we'll be endevouring to follow this series and make the improvements in the areas that we struggle with the most. God bless you for all the resources you share to help others!
This is great. I have been dec!uttering for several years and definitely spending less too. Generally I want less, but I have overspent on online courses and tools for my digital design work. I have debt to pay off again, which will take about 6 months. We are also moving house this year. I need to work on wanting less, so that 2024 is my year for getting debt-free and starting afresh in a new area.
Let's start the list! Less dusting, less pressure ( as in ' I really ought to get around to reading that book/ starting that hobby/ trying that recipie), easier to find things, saves folks money, less nasty surprises of seriously out of date stuff in your pantry/ fridge.... anyone else join in/ can add to this list??? Thanks Joshua!
I used to track my wardrobe spending for over 10 years thus minimized duplicate items and unnecessary items. I stopped in 2018. The spending slowly got out of control. I bought more things as a result. I retired 3 years ago. Finally I purged the ft work mindset to realize I don’t need new clothes shoes and accessories. I have enough to last me the rest of my life (also my craft supplies). I began to write down every cent I spent starting this year. Boy what a difference!!!!! Not only I stopped buying stuff, I started to be aware of grocery bills, annual bills (like insurance and membership), and where to trim fat. If I spend $ or pay a bill, I write down at night. It is less a chore than doing so at end of month.
I absolutely love your videos! Since last March I have purged so much stuff that I had kept in the garage for many many years from a much larger home but I never opened any of them - probably like up to 40 boxes. I donated all of the items to animal shelters, homeless shelters & to charity shops. I know some of these items would be worth so much to sell but I just do not have the patience to do so & thus gave it away. I am now going to sell this home & have started purging & again have purged much stuff. Going through books now which is hard for me but already have a huge pile for the homeless shelter and/or library. It feels so great to get rid of so much stuff! I will continue this journey until I am satisfied I don't have anything I don't need. Thanks for the inspiration🙃
You gave me the best advice .I no longer need things to be happy. we donated clothes, toys, furniture and much more decorations. Thanks for the good advice!😊
I started with shopping bags. I bought a few reusable bags in 2019 and I still use the same ones now. Everytime I go to Target, Walgreens, any store I bring them. They look old but I will use them until they get holes or something
My biggest bugaboo is having for the sake of having. This likely stems from a childhood of poverty, but I really do no need to keep trying to fill that void!
Thank you for this. I have been decluttering for a while. Working on spending less. Benefits I see everyday…. My kitchen! It. Is so much easier to clean and for the first time in years I am enjoying baking again. Thanks
Joshua! This is something I really look forward to. “Embracing the philosophy of Wanting Less!” Because I think it precedes my wish to Own Less, To want less! If I may summarize this week’s strategy: The First strategy to changing our spending habits and overcoming consumerism: 1. Recognize and Articulate the Benefits of Owning less. 3 Application Steps to put into practice this week: 1. Observe and reflect! List down the benefits of owning less, as you observe them. 2. Share your journey with another person. 3. Create a benefit of ‘owning less’ list.
You couldn’t pay me enough for me to take back the stuff I decluttered. It would be like putting on an extra 100 pounds. I heard someone say that having less clothing gave her more choice. She could finally see the gems hidden in the rubble. I didn’t realize that one of the best benefits of decluttering was detaching from wanting ‘more’. I now see things in the store as items in a museum - nice to look at and appreciate but not something that I would be taking home.
WOW Joshua - this so perfect - thank you - so good - I'm recognizing all the time. However, our Vancouver Island wide library system is giving away hundreds of non-fiction books every week.. That area is not minimal - but I have gifted, given away or donated at least 60 books in the last year. WE are planning to move the the next 18 months - so things are going to fly away at speed. And you will be part of our journey.
I started this journey after discovering you online nearly 4 years ago. I can now deep clean ( and that includes cleaning and tidying EVERY cupboard, wardrobe and shelf ) in my whole home in 2 days. Obviously this isn't my weekly clean that only takes 2 hours! Looking forward to the next videos. 🇮🇹 🇬🇧
Hello Joshua, this series is so timely for me. I am doing a low spend 4 months to start because I have never did a low spend or no spend time before. Thought I would start with a low spend. I’m 62 years old and just started my own TH-cam channel for fun and to keep my brain learning something new. Wow tech is certainly something new when it comes to editing and uploading 😊. Anyway, I also own a couple of your books. And this weeks video I will be sharing that I plan to re-read Things that Matter since is been awhile and it will help me get through the low spend months. Now I will also be following your series and plan to recommend in my video. I don’t have many followers yet but I’m having fun. Only been 3 months and so much to learn along the way. Thank you so much for your videos and lessons.
since the pandemic i have been on purposeful spending but sometimes i forget the resolve and fall into old habits. would like to thank your channel for reminding me why i need to be consistent. this video is just what i need today to start the year on the right foot.
Thank you Joshua. It's great to start another year with you. This year I'm going to be brave and have my husband listen to you and this will be the perfect starting point.
Superb video, as usual, thank you so much for this series. I don't know if it's me or my computer (I don't think it's my computer, as everything else sounds clear), but your voice seems to have a muffled, or fuzzy quality. It doesn't seem as clear as it could be. Maybe it's me, but I thought I'd give you a heads up in case your equipment is off a little. Cheers!
Thanks, Joshua! I like this fresh new angle. I made a list of seven benefits before you assigned it. The benefits are clear, and I should review it before I go to purchase anything.
I love all your ideas. I have long been a fan of minimalism, even before "it" had a name. Living in the minimalist manner always brought peace and lightness to my life. The rest of my siblings are hoarders, and i literally feel ill when im in their " homes" ( if you can call them homes). I refuse to go to my sister's place, and i really feel horrible that she is leaving all her stuff for her kids to have to go thru. I think this is so selfish! Her house cannot even be cleaned, there is so much stuff! ( can i say crap?) Thank you for all your videos. I 'd get your books at the library- are they in libraries?- as i dont buy books anymore. I borrow from the library- less clutter.
I've started this journey last January. In one year ive decluttered 5,000 items.
Result
Spend less money.
Can find things easier in my home.
Own 40% less clothing. Easier to get dressed.
Spend more time 📚
Do things outside instead of go shopping for fun.
Have more money to invest.
Its been wonderful ❤
Good for you. Took me 4 years to declutter that many items. Well done.
Hate wandering in stores looking at crap, but I still go to look once in a while. People buy this stuff?
From anxious shopaholic to minimalist has been a journey of self discovery that took me 10 years. But it was worth every second and now I am free.
That's awesome! Congratulations.
What an inspiration you are for me🎉🎉
What do you have instead, what did you substitute it with ? I am still in the stage that i love my stuff but see that its too much but rather wish i had more time than get rid of it - for what ?
Thank you for this! For me, it's not about wanting 'more'; it's about wanting the 'perfect' thing that will eliminate the need for any other version of that thing. But in this quest, I accumulate so many imperfect things without realizing that the perfect thing likely doesn't exist and I need to learn to be satisfied with one of the things I already have.
Wow! I couldn't have said this better myself!
Yep! Same here! Well said, just what Im thinking 🙏🏻
I just screenshotted this to put on my list for why I’m doing a no buy year. You are so right-the perfect thing does not exist, we must stop the search!
I agree. I have been decluttering and de-owning! I try very hard not to buy anything else. It’s hard to do indeed!
What a great realization!
Perfect timing as I embark on my first time ever no buy/low buy year. I have been mentally preparing for a month as I am seriously wanting to accomplish this for 2024. After my first week, which was not without temptation (I bought something but returned it the next day with renewed resolve to only buy replacements and what I really need and not what I just want), your 4 part series will be just what I need to get through the first month. Thank you in advance!
Looking forward to this series.😀
Good luck. I am
Doing no buy January 😀
@@Marsolan good luck to you as well! The struggle is real. lol
Sending good vibes for your no buy/low buy year! ✨
It's an addiction. It does get easier
We are 74 and 77 years old and I’ve been on a simplify my life journey for years. Now in retirement one of the many benefits is that i don’t have to ask the kids or grandkids to help us with stuff (I.e. taking down decorations from attic, etc.) everything is within easy reach in our small home. We can take take care of out basic needs with ease and have more time and money to do the things we really enjoy.
This is a great life lesson! I'm inspired.
I would not have considered this, so I appreciate you sharing.
That’s great. Very inspiring.
To change your relationship with stuff, begin to realize how much you've hung onto out of habit, emotion, guilt rather than practicality. Belongings should suit stage of life you're currently at.
Wow, just what I needed! For the past 17 years of being widowed, I think the "stuff" has been replacing the loss... Clothes, supplements (trying to heal a 35 year chronic illness), art supplies, etc. Making my written list of reasons to let go, and not replace "stuff"! Working on kitchen cupboards this weekend.
Good for you. Keep up. Awareness is key.🎉
In 2017, I knew that I would be moving overseas in early 2018. And international move is extremely costly. This is what I did to prepare. Now, I know that not everyone can do this, but I think some can or adapt the strategy. I first did a heavy declutter: keep, donate, toss. And I sold or donated a lot of extra furniture that I knew served little or no purpose. Then, I packed everything up in totes and boxes, except 1 set of bed and bath linens, toiletries and 1 change of clothes. Over the next several months, if I needed something, then and only then did I go get it from the tote/box. After I used it, I put it back. If it came out of the box twice, I left it out. At the end of six months, I evaluated again. I sold or donated most of the remaining furniture that wasn’t worth the cost of moving or storage fee. Most of the stuff was still in the totes/boxes. It was work upfront, but little to no work on the back end when I was crushed for time. Moving was much easier, less costly and my tiny house wasn’t over full once I got to my new home. I had exactly what I needed. I repeated the process in 2020 when I returned to the USA. It really showed me how much I can do without and be very content.
I love this.
Fantastic. I just moved from the US to the UK and I so wish I had read this and discovered Joshua Becker prior to spending $15,000 on shipping. I even shipped my kitchen trash can of which there is no space for. I just had to have all my beloved stuff that I will probably need to get rid of now. I will need to move back to the US in a year or so and there is no way all this stuff is going.
I can understand everything except only one change of clothes. I would have had to have at least 5 changes.
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Sharing my journey:
I saw a full matcha set today for $28. I put it in my cart and then walked around the store. I went to grab some matcha and then, realized I did not want to have to spend another $25. Then I walked around for another minute debating the fact that now I would need to pay $55 for an impulse purchase matcha set. I put the matcha set back and I have no regrets right now. If I still want the matcha set later, I can put it in my budget.
I am a presentation coach and I want to say that your delivery is excellent. The pacing is perfect. The logic works and your examples are crystal clear. Great job!
My Hubby & I decided to do a "no buy" (except groceries) in January. I've put groceries in my online cart & even thought, could we get by with not even buying groceries. I think we could.
I've mentioned our minimalism journey to all of my family & over Christmas, I talked in depth with my Mom. I gave her permission to get rid of anything I had given to her & my Dad. She decided to go through some items while I was home. What I wasn't prepared for was my reaction to her getting rid of items & letters I had given her. It was hard & I cried a few tears. The next day, I told her how proud I was of her for letting go. I hope she keeps it up. 😊
How kind of you to give your mother the blessing of less.
That’s amazing. How are your no buy challenges going?
@@avalonandon It went well. Will definitely be doing it again soon.
This is the series that I didn’t realise I needed until recently. I’ve only just begun my decluttering journey and I’m faced with some ugly truths about myself, not least of all my compulsive spending habits. Decluttering is not only physically challenging, but also psychologically difficult. I want to live with less AND want less. Thank you for these practical steps I can take to achieve this.
You got this. Same boat
Decluttering WILL make you want less as you see new items as just more future clutter. Also everything important in life is hard. Just take it slow and steady. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.
Been following you for 2+ years. I really think I've mastered how not to fall for the consumerism trap. Trying to remind myself what clothing I purchased in 2023 - 1 pair of replacement running shoes and a winter parka to replace the 1 I gave to my daughter. Less stuff, less organization!
I never comment but we always watch your videos. They are always relatively short and packed full of inspiration and information And, we appreciate the lack of commercials
Yes!I love that too! I so want to join his Becoming Minimalist but just can't afford it right now. I hope he does it again soon. I just got two other books of his to read. Hoping I can declutter while waiting on the next time.
I do believe that DAILY voicing my gratitude for what I already have - right out loud; where my own ears hear it coming from my own mouth- MUST be my first & foremost defense…
Very well said! Thank you!
My wife has finally taken her first steps in this journey. I consciously make every effort to encourage her and compliment her efforts, as I see the positive results for her beginning to manifest. We have a ton of "memory junk" (useless stuff picked up on travels, or from events) in the house that needs to be eliminated, and the process has begun. I look forward to the coming months.
My problem has never been with shopping and buying too much personal stuff. The problem is with getting rid of things that I haven't used in years, and really don't need. I think I can still use that item, or wear that item, but then I never do. I have been selling things on Ebay for 17 years and recently started to list and sell on Facebook Marketplace. At first it was items from my brother's estate who was a hoarder. Then it was unsold merchandise from my retail brick and mortar store. Now that I am retired there is so much unsold left over inventory, and my personal stuff that it is overwhelming. Selling is very slow and I have been donating on a regular basis. My plan this year is to finally put an end to the excess clutter. If it means donating everything, that is what it will have to be.
There are people out there who could really benefit from the things you are holding on to. Let these things go to charities who will also benefit from selling your old items.
My personal trick is to put stuff I'm not sure about eradicating into a box. I put the date on it. If I don't go into that box for 6 months, then the box gets donated WITHOUT me opening it first "just to check". ❤
@@grooviechickie As someone who is retired and uses Social Security and savings to live on I consider myself lucky to still have a lot of this stuff that I can now use or sell to supplement my income. Getting $1000 per month extra really helps. I am also using things now that I stored away in my closets and basement and really have no need to purchase much of anything because of things I squirreled away. My savings and the extra money means that I can travel and do the things I want to do, instead buying stuff with it.
You are doing the right thing you will be free soon and you will sleep well
Let it all go.......you will feel free.❤
That’s great! How are your decluttering challenges going? I’ve been waking up early and decluttering one thing. I also practice setting a timer for 25 min and resting for 5 while doing chores
I went to visit a friend in Thailand in 2016, and it struck me how much happier they were even though they had so much less. I have been on this journey ever since, and it has completely changed my life.
I’m doing a no buy year. Wish me luck 🍀 🤞😊
Thank you for a soft reminder to start 2024 thoughtfully.
Recognize and articulate the benefits of owning less.
1. Observe and reflect where you have had a positive impact.
2. Share the benefits and the why about owning less.
3. Create a list of benefits and add other benefits as you discover them.
Thank you for summarising! 😊
Just what I needed to hear today. I've been debt free several years now and at the "maintain" stage of minimalism. This month I am participating in "no spend January" but have found myself more tempted than ever to buy things I absolutely do not need. When I was at full intensity in my debt-reducing journey, I talked my friends and family to death about Dave Ramsey to the point they became sick of hearing me. I'm afraid the same thing would happen if I shared with them about my minimalism journey so I will just let them see how I live and if they have questions, then I will share.
Good luck! I sincerely wish you to achieve your goals this month!
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I’m looking to reduce my spending and save more this year. I’m debt free, but have been dipping into my savings every few months, despite having gotten a significant raise last year… well, significant to me, anyway. I got my January budget going on Dave Ramsey’s Every Dollar app, and am determined to stick to it and grow my savings account this year.
I worked for the Albany Times Union for nearly 45 years. The fact that they recognized what you were doing was important enough to report doesn’t surprise me. For anyone reading this that is new to minimalism please know that you never miss what you part with and your life will be better in ways you can’t imagine!
Naomi Seldin was the person who interviewed me.
I disagree with the saying "you never miss what you part with". Twice during my 70 plus year life I let some things go and both times I have regretted that decision and I still wish I could have them back. I think this is what stops me from trying again.
I have been slowly going through my house decluttering for 3-4 years. I have always been an organized person but think about what my children will have to deal with when I pass away. My brothers and I were left with a huge job when our parents died. I didn’t think it was right to leave us to deal with all their “stuff”. So i have been whittling away at my “stuff”. My husband even packed up 2 cargo trailers of stuff that he had had for years in our barn and donated it all to a thrift store. That was huge and he felt a burden lifted off his shoulders. I agree with what you talk about and will continue to follow this new series to keep downsizing. It does make a person feel better having less. At least, that’s how I feel.
This video fits my current situation perfectly - I‘ve been decluttering here and there for a couple of years now and since December, since I have adjusted to life with two little ones a bit and we know we won‘t have more children, I‘ve been getting rid of things rigidly. It started with one drawer of sweaters which could be shut easily after decluttering (and selling) all the ones I didn’t wear anyway. Then I got rid of some mugs and now I can unload the dishwasher even quicker as there is plenty of room for the ones we have left. Changes might seem small, but they add up and the impact of the tiny perks added up is just incredible. Thank you for your inspiring work!
Immediately when I said The benefits of owning less, I said out loud so I can Trust God more! Love Ruthie
Very timely! I just started my first low buy year. I’m trying to only buy refills of personal and household items and few specified “want” items. I also am keeping track of how many non - refill items I buy and how many items I declutter, to keep myself in check. I definitely want to want less, I’m so sick of having the urge to spend any extra money on frivolous things just because I can.
When I began decluttering I found so many of the same type of cleaner under my sink (which was crammed and not functional) I put them aside and have vowed to use them all before I invest in any other concoction! I prefer vinegar, dish soap and water tbh 😂
Me too, my first low buy year. Good luck to both of us! 🙂
What a timely TH-cam gem of a find. I am 100% debt free, then sold my farm last week and the desire to spend money is so huge. I keep scaling back on things I want to get though.
I got a notebook and took notes… and wrote down my 3 homeworks for the week! 🙏🏼💪🏼
I decided to declutter first and only buy organizers/dressers/etc after I was done making decisions about what I really wanted to keep in my life. I've got a growing pile of EMPTY CONTAINERS, growing bigger every week, not only don't I need more organizers/storage, but I gave away a few! And I'm declutterring and making decisions about each and every item in "layers ". I'm going through an area, taking out some things, then moving on to something else, and I'm surprised to find even more things that I don't want or used in a VERY long time, that I can let go of. I've sold some things and made some of my money back. I rarely set foot in a physical store anymore and when I do I realize that I don't need or really want anything. I'm more window shopping or just touching things and thinking realistically about if I need it. I decided that if I drop dead in a week, I don't want my daughter having to make decisions that I didn't want to make. I'm forcing myself to make decisions now rather than "tomorrow ". I've got so much room in my house now that I'm shocked
This is wonderful! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much Joshua for your fantastic , inspired content ! Continued blessings to you and your family in 2024 ! 💕💕💕
so helpful also clearing my mind. thank you.
Wonderful plan. I decluttered 2554 items last year. I had a slow start but I'm committed 😂. Writing things down reinforces your thoughts. I will definitely do this plan. Thank you so much. Note: I'm doing the no spend January too. Tough but exciting.
I'm doing a no-spend January too.
I am happy that I have followed your philosophy for many years!
Great video, Josh! Thank you for this valuable information into owning less, wanting less, and having more fulfillment in life.
Found your videos this last year. Now I am reading your book Minimalist Home. I am amazed at the freedom we have now that we have gotten rid of so much stuff. Thank you for changing my life. Took my husband longer to get on board but he just let go of over 2000 books, 8 book cases, and close to $4,000 in power tools. Yahoo
Thank you for your wise thoughts
I started my decluttering journey with Dawn from The Minimal Mom, who led me to Dana from A Slob Comes Clean and Cas from Clutterbug. I've made massive progress in short bursts and tackled 10+yrs of dreaded paper clutter 🙌 I've shared my progress with about 12 friends on a WhatsApp group and so many began their own decluttering journeys too! It's quite contagious 👏
I have given away so much to Goodwill in Mesa,,, and I feel so much more fluid in my living space.
You might want to know that the Goodwill is not a nonprofit organization, and gift to those that are.
Looking forward to this series! “Wanting less” has stuck in my head since watching this video. I believe if we could ever get to the pointing of wanting less, minimalism (a way of life) would just naturally happen. I know it sounds so simple but really getting to the point of wanting less is a hard journey for some. Thanks for this video❤️
The two (wanting less and minimalism)go hand in hand. As you remove items from your home and enjoy the peace and free time, you will start wanting less. It is such hard work decluttering, why would you want to bring in more stuff? You start to detach from things as you discover the hidden gems you already have. Good luck. It does get easier as you strengthen those decluttering muscles.
Yes!! Finally, we're getting to the root cause of this. I've spent about 10 years feeling like I'm in a cycle because of my spending behaviors. I go through it in phases though; spending the most when the holidays come around. However, I have improved drastically over the years. I'm excited for this series!
❤️ this video!! It always comes down to changing our habits whether we're talking spending, eating or consumerism!! ❤
Happy new year! I committed to a no spend Jan. I am cleaning out and committed to using what I have, and I have a lot. I’m writing on a list, a wish list, of whatever I’m tempted to buy. If I’m still wanting it later, I’ll treat myself, but if the want passes, even better. You are right, eliminate the want. ❤
Thank you for this series! I am pretty good at decluttering but this is what I really need to work on.I am also doing a shopping fast for each quarter to help with this. Watching this series on repeat as reminders are always good.
Great video and things to think about! I already share with friends and family about how much easier life is with less. One friend has even started her journey to having less!
Decluttering was relatively easy for me ..... a lot of things I owned had no attachment for me, so easy to get rid of, however it is more of a struggle with not buying things, so I keep to the one in, one out rule. But I do wish I could not get caught up in the consumerism trap of buying stuff. It's when it's a decision made 'in the moment' when on holiday for example, that is the problem, as you don't have much time to think about it or you can't leave it and come back the next day. I recently bought something on holiday that I regret, not too expensive, so will try and resell. Good thing about it is
Lesson learned, ~ stop and give each decision Time and Thought, if you can't do that, then don't buy it!
I was on holiday in Malaysia and bought a small ceramic tea set. Got it home (UK), put hot water in the teapot and it cracked all the way down. No!!!!!!!!!!! Total waste of money plus the time I spent carefully carrying it around on holiday and the flight so it wouldn't break Ha Ha.
PERFECT timing!!!😃
I can’t wait for the other episodes!!!
Thank you for sharing!!😊
What a great subject to address. I follow many minimalists and have become aware of the American way of consumerism, with lives full of excess, comfort and convenience. I am often disappointed to find self-professed minimalists falling for the consumerism marketing tricks and just buy buy buy, requiring regular decluttering.
I am aware yours is a culture that has been created to radiate wealth and comfort, but it only screams land-fill and pollution to me. The key to minimalism is not only in having less, it’s also in consuming less.
I am so happy to see you get to the root of the problem
The key to minimalism is to be happy with less. It is hard to go into someone else's home and not be envious.
There is a balance though, where some homes have too much stuff.
I have gradually uncluttered my home and a few Christmases ago spent it at my In-Laws home. Their home is full of souvenirs from global travel. All neat and tidy but a lot of it. Then the Cristmas tree and decorations went up, which conflicted with their global traveller look, plus dozens of cards everywhere from friends. I found it so overwhelming, there was so much and sat there and thought "I feel like I am sitting in a rubbish dump with all this stuff around me".
They retired early 50's so had the time and pensions over 30 years to shop for it all.
Sadly my MIL passed away not long after and it took my FIL a long time to go through her clothes, she had so many and it made it harder for him as there were so many memories attached.
I am dreading when he goes as he has hundreds of books and vinyl records.
Very glad to have had this video show up today. This is my year to get focused on living consciously and conscientiously within my retirement means. My wish is to maintain my level of charitable donations which means reducing frivolous consumption.
Thank U soooo much❤Greetings from the BLACKFORREST🌲 in GERMANY🙋🏻♀️
This may be just what I need to put minimalism permanently in my life. Thank you ❤
I’m walking around IKEA repeating I want to want less, I want to want less 😂😂😂
Thank you Joshu for the support in our minimising journey. It's so easy to fall back into cluttering up our spaces and this is a much needed perspective on resisting the temptations to do so. I've been aware of the consumerist traps for many years but looking round our home, it is still surprising to see the amount of new and unwanted items. Knowing that we have let them into our lives both intentionally and unintentionally feels discouraging at times. So we'll be endevouring to follow this series and make the improvements in the areas that we struggle with the most. God bless you for all the resources you share to help others!
This is great. I have been dec!uttering for several years and definitely spending less too. Generally I want less, but I have overspent on online courses and tools for my digital design work. I have debt to pay off again, which will take about 6 months. We are also moving house this year. I need to work on wanting less, so that 2024 is my year for getting debt-free and starting afresh in a new area.
Best channel on, TH-cam!!❤
Continuing to move forward on my journey! Thanks for the inspiration and concrete guidance!
Let's start the list! Less dusting, less pressure ( as in ' I really ought to get around to reading that book/ starting that hobby/ trying that recipie), easier to find things, saves folks money, less nasty surprises of seriously out of date stuff in your pantry/ fridge.... anyone else join in/ can add to this list???
Thanks Joshua!
I used to track my wardrobe spending for over 10 years thus minimized duplicate items and unnecessary items. I stopped in 2018. The spending slowly got out of control. I bought more things as a result. I retired 3 years ago. Finally I purged the ft work mindset to realize I don’t need new clothes shoes and accessories. I have enough to last me the rest of my life (also my craft supplies). I began to write down every cent I spent starting this year. Boy what a difference!!!!! Not only I stopped buying stuff, I started to be aware of grocery bills, annual bills (like insurance and membership), and where to trim fat. If I spend $ or pay a bill, I write down at night. It is less a chore than doing so at end of month.
Thanks, Josh. I'm a minimalist for just over 4 years now, and I truly enjoy the journey.
My new mantra is: Do i want to be rich or look rich?
Very good 👍
I absolutely love your videos! Since last March I have purged so much stuff that I had kept in the garage for many many years from a much larger home but I never opened any of them - probably like up to 40 boxes. I donated all of the items to animal shelters, homeless shelters & to charity shops. I know some of these items would be worth so much to sell but I just do not have the patience to do so & thus gave it away. I am now going to sell this home & have started purging & again have purged much stuff. Going through books now which is hard for me but already have a huge pile for the homeless shelter and/or library. It feels so great to get rid of so much stuff! I will continue this journey until I am satisfied I don't have anything I don't need. Thanks for the inspiration🙃
You gave me the best advice .I no longer need things to be happy. we donated clothes, toys, furniture and much more decorations. Thanks for the good advice!😊
Changing my spending habits will help me achieve my goals for 2024. Thank you Josh for your hard work and dedication.
I started with shopping bags. I bought a few reusable bags in 2019 and I still use the same ones now. Everytime I go to Target, Walgreens, any store I bring them. They look old but I will use them until they get holes or something
Thank you, Joshua🌷
My biggest bugaboo is having for the sake of having. This likely stems from a childhood of poverty, but I really do no need to keep trying to fill that void!
Helpful information. Hopefully i will succeed in this journey. I have alot of decluttering to do.
Thank you for this. I have been decluttering for a while. Working on spending less. Benefits I see everyday…. My kitchen! It. Is so much easier to clean and for the first time in years I am enjoying baking again. Thanks
Joshua, I am so passionate about financial integrity and contentment. Thank you, thank you for providing this valuable content.
Joshua! This is something I really look forward to. “Embracing the philosophy of Wanting Less!”
Because I think it precedes my wish to Own Less, To want less!
If I may summarize this week’s strategy:
The First strategy to changing our spending habits and overcoming consumerism:
1. Recognize and Articulate the Benefits of Owning less.
3 Application Steps to put into practice this week:
1. Observe and reflect! List down the benefits of owning less, as you observe them.
2. Share your journey with another person.
3. Create a benefit of ‘owning less’ list.
You couldn’t pay me enough for me to take back the stuff I decluttered. It would be like putting on an extra 100 pounds. I heard someone say that having less clothing gave her more choice. She could finally see the gems hidden in the rubble. I didn’t realize that one of the best benefits of decluttering was detaching from wanting ‘more’. I now see things in the store as items in a museum - nice to look at and appreciate but not something that I would be taking home.
I love your last sentence. It is making sense to enjoy looking at things without having the need to fill them in your house.
Thanks Joshua! Looking forward to this meaningful series!
WOW Joshua - this so perfect - thank you - so good - I'm recognizing all the time. However, our Vancouver Island wide library system is giving away hundreds of non-fiction books every week.. That area is not minimal - but I have gifted, given away or donated at least 60 books in the last year. WE are planning to move the the next 18 months - so things are going to fly away at speed. And you will be part of our journey.
❤ your videos. Everything you say is so true. You are a positive influence on the way i live.
I started this journey after discovering you online nearly 4 years ago. I can now deep clean ( and that includes cleaning and tidying EVERY cupboard, wardrobe and shelf ) in my whole home in 2 days. Obviously this isn't my weekly clean that only takes 2 hours! Looking forward to the next videos. 🇮🇹 🇬🇧
I have not cleaned every shelf in decades. But if you enjoy cleaning for hours, there are stranger habits that that.
Hello Joshua, this series is so timely for me. I am doing a low spend 4 months to start because I have never did a low spend or no spend time before. Thought I would start with a low spend. I’m 62 years old and just started my own TH-cam channel for fun and to keep my brain learning something new. Wow tech is certainly something new when it comes to editing and uploading 😊. Anyway, I also own a couple of your books. And this weeks video I will be sharing that I plan to re-read Things that Matter since is been awhile and it will help me get through the low spend months. Now I will also be following your series and plan to recommend in my video. I don’t have many followers yet but I’m having fun. Only been 3 months and so much to learn along the way. Thank you so much for your videos and lessons.
Would like to know more about your
channel. What's the name of it?
My Cozy Retirement. I’m very new and having fun with it. Thanks for asking 😊
@@jeannelenz2418 😀
What you said is so true for me❤
Awesome Part I. I will rewatch again to get all info from this video. I can't wait for Part II.
Clear space, clear mind!!
I agree with everything you said! So glad I figured it out years ago and have been able to enjoy the freedom this lifestyle provides!
Thank you Joshua, great video! Love all your video,s.
Great series! This will help many people who struggle with this. Thank you! 😊
Motivated to continue my decluttering journey
I like this idea so much to deep dive in this process! Thank you and see you next week!
since the pandemic i have been on purposeful spending but sometimes i forget the resolve and fall into old habits. would like to thank your channel for reminding me why i need to be consistent. this video is just what i need today to start the year on the right foot.
I so appreciate you!!! Thank you Thank you Thank you!!♥️
Thank you🎉🎉🎉
I am fully commited to minimalism, it made my life so much better😊
I’m looking forward to this series! Great video & very inspiring.
Thank you, Joshua! I hope these series will become your next book soon!
Thank you Joshua. It's great to start another year with you. This year I'm going to be brave and have my husband listen to you and this will be the perfect starting point.
Superb video, as usual, thank you so much for this series. I don't know if it's me or my computer (I don't think it's my computer, as everything else sounds clear), but your voice seems to have a muffled, or fuzzy quality. It doesn't seem as clear as it could be. Maybe it's me, but I thought I'd give you a heads up in case your equipment is off a little. Cheers!
Thanks, Joshua! I like this fresh new angle. I made a list of seven benefits before you assigned it. The benefits are clear, and I should review it before I go to purchase anything.
That's wonderful.
Thank you for this. I'm slowly decluttering, and it is great! Greetings from England.
I truly need this 😢
Thanks for your work. I live in France and started decluttering a year ago.
I love all your ideas. I have long been a fan of minimalism, even before "it" had a name. Living in the minimalist manner always brought peace and lightness to my life.
The rest of my siblings are hoarders, and i literally feel ill when im in their " homes" ( if you can call them homes). I refuse to go to my sister's place, and i really feel horrible that she is leaving all her stuff for her kids to have to go thru. I think this is so selfish! Her house cannot even be cleaned, there is so much stuff! ( can i say crap?)
Thank you for all your videos. I 'd get your books at the library- are they in libraries?- as i dont buy books anymore. I borrow from the library- less clutter.
Yes, to all of this! I've been decluttering but need to learn to buy and want less. Looking forward to your next video!
Ready to embrace owning less!
LOVE THIS!!! I started about a year ago and have read all your books. This is perfect timing since I’m struggling with online shopping still!!!
You presented the information in a very compelling, meaningful way. I’ve decided to embrace the challenge. Thank you.