How I Became Confident

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ความคิดเห็น • 761

  • @NateOBrien
    @NateOBrien  3 ปีที่แล้ว +503

    Beware of scammers in the comment section impersonating me! I will never solicit you for money or ask you to join some sketchy crypto scheme :)

    • @M4RANDHAWA
      @M4RANDHAWA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What a legend

    • @martins4118
      @martins4118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They're impersonating many TH-camrs, not just you

    • @edgonzalez186
      @edgonzalez186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THANK YOU SO MUCH! I'll share this.

    • @Neil.Denize
      @Neil.Denize 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This a great video, excellent filming and editing with some solid tips love your work mate.

    • @moaydshagaf9419
      @moaydshagaf9419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I highly recommend you to delete their comments, I wish that if TH-cam had an AI algorithm to ban those types of comments.

  • @Ellaa9905
    @Ellaa9905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    "Confidence isin't walking into a room with youre nose in the air thinking youre better than everyone else, it's not having to compare yourself to everyone else in first place"👊🏞

  • @SY-sp8uo
    @SY-sp8uo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    Confidence is not *they will like me.*
    Confidence is *I will be fine, if they don't.*

  • @LanaBlakely
    @LanaBlakely 3 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    "The sun's gonna blow up one day and we might all die. That sucks, right?" Haha 😂

    • @andjela9413
      @andjela9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My two favourite people. Introverts unite separately! 😅

    • @Regina-wu6hq
      @Regina-wu6hq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Please collab, you two! 🥺🙏

    • @wxwclip6181
      @wxwclip6181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Collab 🔥🔥

    • @Jacob-ic8nb
      @Jacob-ic8nb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prettiest TH-camr ever

    • @cookingthebooks901
      @cookingthebooks901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ugh start dating already.

  • @CharlieChang
    @CharlieChang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    DUDE THIS VIDEO IS EPIC

  • @اقرألى_كتاباً_سميرة_عبدالغنى
    @اقرألى_كتاباً_سميرة_عبدالغنى 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Self-confidence is the basis of any success that a person may have in life🤚

    • @mohamedelhabib2485
      @mohamedelhabib2485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      أنت في كل مكان 😅

    • @hicham4440
      @hicham4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Algeria power bb

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thanks for nothing

    • @aabelmendoza
      @aabelmendoza 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for nothing

    • @onrjs
      @onrjs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for nothing

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Confidence is an invaluable skill. If you don’t believe in yourself, who will?

    • @nathanhunnisett6199
      @nathanhunnisett6199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      jesus will

    • @realchiknuggets
      @realchiknuggets 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Flawed question to add to what you already were saying, but A for effort.

    • @realchiknuggets
      @realchiknuggets 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nathanhunnisett6199 Exactly, brother. I don't even believe in any religions, but that question was pretty bad lol

  • @icytmedia
    @icytmedia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    "Get comfortable being uncomfortable" - Jeff Cavaliere

    • @edelconnaughton790
      @edelconnaughton790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great Quote!

    • @reginanogueira9167
      @reginanogueira9167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!

    • @jamesevans2507
      @jamesevans2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jeff cavaliere is a scammer lol

    • @realchiknuggets
      @realchiknuggets 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamesevans2507 He is? Who is he?

    • @jamesevans2507
      @jamesevans2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@realchiknuggets Supposed elite fitness coach who fakes his lifts with fake weight plates. He also took a guy personally under his wing to coach him for years for his channel, with his advanced top tier diet and training techniques, and the guy still doesn't look like he lifts and his numbers are complete dogshit. lmao.

  • @anthonyllido9720
    @anthonyllido9720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Every parents having this kind of kid ...they would be so proud.
    😇❤️🙏

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My son is this age and I try so much to direct him the right way but it ends up being down to the people he spends time with, as he works more than they do. I hate seeing so much money slip through his hands. I've explained over and over that I don't want him to make my mistakes. Sad. He thinks 'things just work out' for me, but doesn't realise what goes into that.

    • @anthonyllido9720
      @anthonyllido9720 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll pray he'll see the right path . Have Faith Ma'am.
      God bless you ❤️😇🙏

    • @nickk.5661
      @nickk.5661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Chahlie Well, I hope that you can subtly guide him to where he understands how to minimize his expenses and that everything takes work. Most of the times, you can’t force somebody to change completely since they have to come to that conclusion themselves that it’d be the best thing for them. And even then, they must truly work in changing their habits. I recommend you to stop being the enabler of his bad habits because people usually don’t learn if things are already accessible to them cause there needs to be a reason to change. Also provide him the information he needs to become successful and just let him do it on his own. If you completely force things on people, they’ll automatically react with high resistance so just do it subtly if necessary. I hope that everything goes well and that he also has a great father figure to guide him. Good luck

  • @medtown
    @medtown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love how Nate's content always got that cinematic feeling. B roll makes such a difference in a video.

  • @MrKevo123
    @MrKevo123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I just got done with a phone call with my therapist and we talked about this for an hour. Your video couldn't have come at a better time.

  • @JackDuffley
    @JackDuffley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    That B roll was Christopher Nolan quality lol

  • @renloh0775
    @renloh0775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This guy is my hero and he is like 15 years younger than I am LOL

  • @cryptoflippodcast
    @cryptoflippodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    *I love the fact that this is filmed in a cinematic way*
    Who else is inspired 👇👇

    • @namistudioca
      @namistudioca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me! Love this style. 🤟

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!! Glad im not the only one admiring all the b-roll 🤩🤗

    • @cliffdariff74
      @cliffdariff74 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ahh... for me, no difference.

  • @Omar31587
    @Omar31587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Confidence is silent, insecurities are loud.

  • @paddygalloway8780
    @paddygalloway8780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Great video man, so true that it doesn't come from external validation. I used to be super shy but made an effort to change that a few years back.

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s quite the journey to get to that conclusion... one gains some skills along the way :)

  • @rebeccaparker9703
    @rebeccaparker9703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just found your channel this week and it’s spurred me on so much to give my kids the best start in life.
    I’m 35 and it’s been a struggle with 3 kids to get by, I have taught them how to be frugal and to always make sure your getting the best deal on everything but we still live month to month.
    I have shared your channel with my nearly 16 year old son who is very interested in numbers and money. Hopefully you will inspire him as you have me.
    I’m at the stage in my life that my kids are having to make decisions and I just hope they are able to be more successful than myself.
    I am going to be much more proactive and not just make excuses why people I see are more successful than me.
    Thank you and I wish you continued success in whatever that looks like for you, whether that be continuing to grow, so taking a step back and really living a fulfilling life!

  • @intentionalliving7326
    @intentionalliving7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Limiting your fears” by facing them!! 👏🏻that puts the responsibility right where it belongs: us!! Its not anything external! Beautifully explained!! 🤩

  • @shess1640
    @shess1640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In my early 30s my confidence developed as I realized that I was ok with not knowing everything but having confidence in my ability to acquire learn and acquire knowledge, ask questions, follow through, and be accountable to myself.

  • @Quickonomics
    @Quickonomics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    A quote that helped me more than I sometimes like to admit:
    "Is there something you can do about it? Yes? Then there is no reason to worry. No? Then there is no use to worry."

    • @alvaro8914
      @alvaro8914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      - Bob Marley, 2021

  • @mariareis6831
    @mariareis6831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don’t know how you were before, but now you’re an excellent speaker; I enjoy listening to you very much.

  • @aixan1666
    @aixan1666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you really hit the nail on the head about the fear of the negative outcome causing lack of confidence. it resonated and made more sense to me than all the other explanations of where confidence comes from.

  • @Business.Lounge
    @Business.Lounge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This man is way younger than me yet I look up to him. Smart kid, keep the content coming, you've even inspired me start my own TV. Hope to be as big as you one day.

    • @reta7896
      @reta7896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will I believe

  • @humphrey
    @humphrey 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video NATE!

  • @NatalieHawkinsMusic
    @NatalieHawkinsMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That TED talk was incredible! Thanks for sharing, Guru Nate ✨

  • @lauralarisma
    @lauralarisma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m loving these lifestyle videos you’re coming out with. The videographer is doing such an amazing job! Thanks for the content Nate!

  • @hannahmathilda7101
    @hannahmathilda7101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nate, I love the cinematography feel, especially of all the pretty places in Philly--but more than that, I appreciate your continual authenticity and underlying message. Thank you!

  • @elianluviano1271
    @elianluviano1271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    me after lifting my hand up and answering in math class in the second grade

  • @KeithJones31
    @KeithJones31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Being comfortable with who you are , leads to confidence.

  • @HiKasandra
    @HiKasandra 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!! Really useful tips and relatable!! Happy 2021!!

  • @onetwo8932
    @onetwo8932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really respect you for just posting when you make great quality content and not washing down your message just to stick to a posting schedule

  • @romanjanorabe4568
    @romanjanorabe4568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you use examples that are timely and relevant. Great job!

  • @agneslistiani8260
    @agneslistiani8260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you are so honest about yourself...thank you for motivating words.

  • @harrymorrissy6681
    @harrymorrissy6681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You killed this man, really good advice and a very good reminder. The music in the background is a great touch!

  • @JackDuffley
    @JackDuffley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Nate back at it again with the mountain / hilltop deep thinking

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is a how I spend the majority of my days

  • @huzafah
    @huzafah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    videos like these really help thanks nate

  • @alessaray6050
    @alessaray6050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For long time I wanted to hear you talk about this topic. You’re I really appreciate you sharing your vulnerability with us.

  • @alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730
    @alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Keep up the grind brother! Suoer authentic and real!!

  • @ericgonzalez6686
    @ericgonzalez6686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the work you do

  • @specsNsarcasm
    @specsNsarcasm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations for you have gotten better 🌻🌻🌻 you have come such a long way ✨ ✨ ✨

  • @nategarcia5501
    @nategarcia5501 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The production value/cinematography is rlly special in this one. I also love these mental health kind of videos too. Good balance with the financial stuff. Keep em comin!

  • @NeekoFreeman
    @NeekoFreeman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your shift in content is great! I love the productivity aspects of your channel now. Fantastic work, Nate.

  • @SamTechWorld9
    @SamTechWorld9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nate, thanks for the sincerity with which you speak. Great advice!

  • @austinfinance3447
    @austinfinance3447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the cinematic intro and b-roll, and great advice on becoming confident!

  • @1headfirstforhalos1
    @1headfirstforhalos1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent points that I’ve adopted myself that’s made a big difference in my life. Love your videos 👍🏼

  • @austinhochstetler5887
    @austinhochstetler5887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Face your fears and confidence follows. And facing your fears is a much bigger issue than confidence for a lot of people. Great stuff Nate, this is stuff I need to hear and I'm sure lots of others will agree. ✌

  • @alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730
    @alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love the edits and shots my man, amazing quality video! Love seeing the growth and improvement!!

  • @stefanberger2421
    @stefanberger2421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    GOOSEBUMPS - if I only had one word to describe this video! awesome job and thanks for sharing your story and spread hope and empower others :).

  • @neilschipper3741
    @neilschipper3741 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Longtime viewer here... yes, your videos have come a long way, and your camera person is also doing a great job. Have a happy safe and prosperous New Year and thanks for sharing your videos.

  • @Larrygu
    @Larrygu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Liking the new cinematic videos!

  • @theycallmeBURCL
    @theycallmeBURCL 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are getting better and better. Keep it up Nate!!!!!! I love your content😍

  • @crashtestjustin
    @crashtestjustin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn dude your videos just keep getting better and better

  • @adelearmour1564
    @adelearmour1564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this. Watching from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿. Your videos have helped me a lot in the short time I have been a subscriber. Appreciate the hard work and great content.

  • @harshilsolanki8741
    @harshilsolanki8741 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    NIce information buddy!!...Helped me a lot!

  • @kshitijpatil9015
    @kshitijpatil9015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Nate for making a Film like a video, just loved it! and Confidence that you transferred from your video .

  • @BowOnlyOutdoors
    @BowOnlyOutdoors 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great video Nate! Keep up the great work! Your video production has really been getting a lot better recently and I appreciate that as well!!

  • @astronomikalac
    @astronomikalac 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video didn’t go where I was initially expecting it to, so I did find value. Preciate the vid Nate

  • @suarezwellmary7125
    @suarezwellmary7125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best confidence vid advice ever!

  • @hansonel
    @hansonel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really great things to keep in mind for gaining confidence, it is a life long skill. Confidence is cultivated from within ourselves. Confidence from external validation does not last.
    Loving the beautiful cinematography in this

  • @melanie9860
    @melanie9860 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for sharing!

  • @elohimmatinyhouse6944
    @elohimmatinyhouse6944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    damn man so genuine, thanks!

  • @stockstrategyexplained5743
    @stockstrategyexplained5743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! Confidence is really about "faking it til you make it" -- it's all about your own mindset and what you yourself believe (which isn't easy to be clear)

  • @stayblessed7589
    @stayblessed7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your videos have really helped me to think differently in my life and that you so much nate....

  • @nursaiful9289
    @nursaiful9289 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your concept is so simple n yet relatable. Thanks Nate O'Brien. This video just made my day.

  • @3crforest
    @3crforest 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks,
    Nate, good info!

  • @mynameismatt9718
    @mynameismatt9718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're an amazing person to listen to! Thank you for the tips!💖

  • @scottscriticalmass
    @scottscriticalmass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent message Nate... I've gone through many of the self-inflicted challenges that you discussed at various stages of my life (still do at times) and I commend you for understanding what it takes to get past this and build confidence earlier in life than I have/did. I think most of us are much too hard on ourselves and learning a bit of self-encouragement can go a long ways towards making ourselves more confident and better people overall. You're an inspiration.

  • @ASXInvestor
    @ASXInvestor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video production & insights quality continue to improve with each and every video mate.
    Keep lifting the bar Nate on the pathway to 1 Mil subs in 2021 💪🚀

  • @creativecorner4715
    @creativecorner4715 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you for this

  • @gregwolf8152
    @gregwolf8152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Having confidence is the best gift you can give to your self!

  • @timothychunguofficial8653
    @timothychunguofficial8653 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nailed it man

  • @tht140ixx
    @tht140ixx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Strength and focus come from within! Takes time but utilise it well and it becomes exponential 🙏🏾

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the content and transition to show the meaning of life. Good stuff Nate

  • @skwinglesushi
    @skwinglesushi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its good to know the person that I think has my version of success was in the same mindset as me. Maybe I do have hope to be confident and financial comfortable too.

  • @joeverrall6932
    @joeverrall6932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video nate, man you always pick the best scenery for your videos I wish I could visit philly one day

  • @louisdicarlo8569
    @louisdicarlo8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! I love your perception on confidence. I also love the idea of actually breaking it down instead of posting a "motivational video" without any concrete steps to improve. Looking forward to more personal development videos like this in the future. You're an inspiration especially since we're both from PA it makes me have even less of an excuse to better myself. Cheers to 2021! Looking forward to seeing how it unfolds!

  • @shawnej7013
    @shawnej7013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To me, confidence is being comfortable with the uncomfortable. The willingness to commit to the things that make me nervous or uncomfortable will build confidence through repetition and experience - maybe not straight away, but eventually.
    Great video, & nice B Roll!

  • @Therealmattchong
    @Therealmattchong 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1 millions subs coming up Nate!
    Well done!!!!

  • @hecgar1016
    @hecgar1016 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your videos and your attitude in life, I think you are sharing valuable stuff, thanks for sharing dude.

  • @JakeCarlini
    @JakeCarlini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heyyyy I got that same Webull mask! Twinsies dude! Also powerful video man! Love it

  • @XiaoxuSmallWorld
    @XiaoxuSmallWorld 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR VIDEO. For me confidence is the attitude to confront the unknown, or fear.

  • @iamprince6670
    @iamprince6670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea, I like that you gave us a video while out of the house! And the camera thing you were doing while at it, me liky.

  • @muratbayral
    @muratbayral 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not only you that get better also I like the fact that your videos look way better than the previous versions. So keep the good work.

  • @GabrielaNicol
    @GabrielaNicol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Love the cinematic filming and all the warm colors. Thanks for the valuable content again. 😊

  • @ma.kristinadira4377
    @ma.kristinadira4377 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the tips! looking forward on your videos.

  • @davidkunau
    @davidkunau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow great video!!! Love how you got personal with it and I also found the TED talk helped change my perspective as well.

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This video is cinematic af😲

  • @julezstreams5603
    @julezstreams5603 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much. Glad I found you

  • @stayblessed7589
    @stayblessed7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been watching your videos since 2019 and you really inspire me. Tha you so much and keep going.

  • @dogcookies
    @dogcookies 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your valuable wisdom.

  • @nursevirginiairene
    @nursevirginiairene 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the new lifestyle content!
    Thanks for addressing what most of us are feeling! 👌🏼

  • @GrowYourWealth101
    @GrowYourWealth101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Tough times dont last. Tough people do! 💪

  • @GrowWithWill
    @GrowWithWill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dang - Nate has leveled up his videos these last few releases.

  • @taviyo
    @taviyo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice perspective. Great video and very naturally done.

  • @vajidalishah3595
    @vajidalishah3595 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has come to me at the right time.
    Thanks Nate and happy new year!

  • @BlackQueenC
    @BlackQueenC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said !!! 👏🏾

  • @elvansenorer9878
    @elvansenorer9878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very clear and practical. İts like fresh air in my brain to watch your videos.thanks a lot!

  • @FreeyourFinance
    @FreeyourFinance 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your channel has just gone from strength to strength, Nate. It’s all well deserved and I wish you every success in 2021! Gary.

  • @mikejoseph3661
    @mikejoseph3661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love the 2 examples you used at 4:38, keep up the great work brother

  • @sonofabear
    @sonofabear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always enjoy your videos, Nate! I hope you start that Mushroom business one day