All these cheaters promising to love their 1st wife in their death bed because their niam yau ditched them..really would you take your wife back if the role was reversed? I don't think so
The Hmong society place so much value on a man but no value on the woman..we need to teach our children boy or girl that they all hold a value in this world..the Hmong society is still operating in the cave man era..
Thank you for sharing. My husband and I turned 50, and he left me and 6 grown children for another woman...poj nrauj. After 36 years, my whole lifetime was with him. I'm so glad to let go because now he's not my problem anymore.
Zoo siab rau koj let him go with age 50, the good thing nws tsis tsim txom koj lub siab lawm mog. YOG KUV MUAJ TXOJ HMOO NTAWM KUV LUB NEEJ KUV XUM CIA SIB NRAUJ SIB TSO, INSTEAD TXOJ KEV TUAG, VIM KUV TUS TUAG LAWM, KUV XAV KOM NYIAS MUS NYIAS, NYIAS MUS UA NYIAS LUB NEEJ, TXHOB SIB TSIM XWB, THOV NYIAS MUS NYIAS ES KOJ/NWS TSEEM YOG MENYUAM NIAM MENYUAM TXIV YUAV ZOO TSHAJ LI TXOJ KEV TUAG NAWV MOG....I WISH THAT MY HUBBY ALIVE WALK ON EARTH WITH SOMEONE, EVEN-THOUGH not with ME. KUV HLUB NWS CES XUM CIA NWS NYOB NKAUS XWB.
Niam ntsuab teev kuv yog ib tug niam tsev nyob sab los tsuas kuv nyiam noog koj heev kuv xa peb cov nyob los tsus tuaj rau koj piav vim peb cov poj niam nyob sab no tseem txom nyem tshaj nej cov tim ko vim yog cov txiv haus sthuaj xwb pheej yuav peb tua xwb
I am so proud of this woman!! Our women need to be this strong and this powerful!! I love this woman. She wins the award for self empowerment and self love.
Mloog zoo2 nawb cov txiv tsev. Nej Txhob xav tias cov niam tsev no yuav nyob ua nej qhev uv nej lawm nawb. Nim no pojniam tsis ntshaw lub neej liam nrog nej lawm
Poj niam xav tias txiv neej zoo li pojniam, es txiv neej yuav txhawj los hlub pojniam, tsis yog li no. Peb cov pojniam es mag quabyuam ua tau ib siab hlub tus txiv. Txiv Neej yog tsis hlub yus ces ibsib neej tsis txhob vam li nws!
I don’t understand these stupid ladies who’s willing to be someone’s second wife 🙄 it goes to show how us women work together. You wouldn’t want someone to marry your husband, why marry someone else’s???
Poj niam koom siab ces tsi muaj cov txiv neej zoo li no mas. Poj niam pheej kam mus ua niam yau thiab txaus siab tham cov niag txiv neej zoo li no ce txiv neej thiaj li tsi saib Poj niam muaj nuj nqis.
Zoo Heev uas 3 cov sisters muaj vaj huam sib luag nrog 3 cov txiv neej hmoob lawm thiab os yav ntuj thaum ub 3 cov sisters ua tsis tau li ko li os Amen!
Zoo kawg uas koj tsis kam yuav niag neeg lim hiam ko os koj rov yuav ces koj tshuav kev npam ua nws qhev ris nws li kev lwj siab nawb! Yuav tsum khov kho li ko xwb!
Npam sai kawg vim lub siab phem yus tsis paub tias yus laus ib yam li yus niag pojniam lawm thiab es sib hlub. Es pheej tias tseem hluas hluas li yuav mus yuav tus tshiab ces cia kom txhob muaj neeg tu es thiaj li hum nws
Cov maum dev vwm ua rua muag plias los txeeb peb lub neej peb tus txiv ces yog ib tug neeg ua nws twb tsis mus sai daim iav seb nws yog ntsi los yog neej. Tseem xuaj tshaj dej lawm nawb cov maum dev vwj no na.
Learn to love with time. I like to call it "GRACEFULLY GOLDENLY LOVE". It really just gets better and better, if learn how to fall in love with Loving.
Txiv neeg mas, thaum ua yuav thuag mas li paub, mas li rov los ua zoo rau tus niam tsev..hlig dhau lawm os, cov mi Txiv neeg aw...nej tub ua rau nej tus niam tsev mob mob saib txhaus lawm na, es thawm nej muaj mob yuav tuag mam li nco txhog nej tus naim tsev..omg too late...
Yep, this woman have some very valid points. Sadly as we aged, our bodies aged as well. Sickness regardless if physical, physical, or emotional catches up way too quickly.
I wish my husband would turn back to me. I still love him even though he left me to someone else. I know for sure that he would end up something like this or else. Men this age always end up with stroke? Listen to this story make me even love him more. But now he doesn't understand so I just let him go and face the consequences.
Again, what's so great about these cheaters that you women can't let go. Once you're divorced, move on and cut all communications. Why are you still exchanging communications with him? Your actions tell us you still care.
Sister, let me clarify your opinion. Ntawm kuv nas tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej mob ib yam xwb. Yog raug leej twg ces tsuas yog tus ntawv thiaj paub xwb. Thanks for sharing your story💙
Men did what they did to us women because we allowed them to out of no respect for us women. It's those women who knowingly and willing to be a doormat, 2nd base & homewrecker to a married man is what I don't get.
kuv tsis nkag siab this lady twb tias tsis yuav thaub lawm tabsis ua cas koj tseem get involved with your ex and why you keep calling him koj tus txiv na, nrauj lawm ces lawm ces tag li xwb koj yeej tseem khuvxim koj niag ex husband kawg
Nej cov hmoob mékas ko ruam los ntse ne ? leej twg hais rau nej tias lub tebchaws mékas no luag tso cai rau nej muaj niam hlob niam yau ma lov ? nej puas nco qab thaum peb nyob thaib teb sawvdaws xam phaj yuav tuaj tebchaws no muaj coob tus qub nom qub tswv tau ua haujlwm nrog mékas thiab GVP lawv es tsis tau tuaj mékas thiaj raug mus fabkis, canada, guyanne, thiab lwm qhov vim yog lawv muaj niam hlob niam yau tiag ! Hmoob twb haistias tuaj txog luag ntuj lawm kom yoog raws li lug txuj, tuaj txog luag teb lawm kom ua raws li luag txoj cai no cas nej cov hmoob liam no pheej yuav coj nej tej teeb meem tej plaub ntug mus rau kwvtij thiab neej tsa hais ma lov ? lawv cov ntawd puas tau kawm tawm los tu plaub ma ? tebchaws no luag muaj luag lub tsev hais plaub thiab tus neeg txiav plaub ntug tsis yog cov hmoob ruam no.
Sister, I am glad you got rid of that piece of trash. I hoped you continued your restraining order against him. Do not allow him anywhere near you or your home. Tell your kid's absolutely under no circumstances is he allowed into the house. Packed all his things and put it outside on the porch or driveway. Give him 24 or set a specific time to come get them. If he doesn't, then put it in the trash. Otherwise, drop it off at his uncle or parents. You are smart to do things your way and reasoning. Your ex-husband got exactly what he deserved. Go, sister, hold everything. Do not give him an inch in anything. Let him go married his whore. He can start fresh from scratch. He created his own karma and demise. Do not take care of him. Nope, let him die slowly and miserable. Let him live in misery. Just wait and collect his life insurance. Do not even bother communicating and stop accepting his letters. Cut him off completely, ghost and blocked, and no contact with him...goodbye period.
Hmong women need to learn and stand up for their fights and learn to let go of toxic people and relationships. Love yourself and respect yourself and put yourself first. Especially once he steps out and has shown you hold nothing to him, he has no respect or loyalty or love for you. Let him go. Do not stay with him or allow him to dictate and make your life a living hell. You'll not die because he's not there with you. Wash your hands of him. It is her responsibility to take care of him now. Let her deal with him because just like you, he's gonna get bored, and he'll turn around and do the same to her. Especially if he's no longer able to provide or give her what he was doing before she married him. She'll make his life a living hell. They both deserved each other. Smile and thank God for your sanity and sunshine. Thank him for your freedom to do as you please without restriction, most importantly your peacefulness and calming space.
All these cheaters promising to love their 1st wife in their death bed because their niam yau ditched them..really would you take your wife back if the role was reversed? I don't think so
The Hmong society place so much value on a man but no value on the woman..we need to teach our children boy or girl that they all hold a value in this world..the Hmong society is still operating in the cave man era..
Thank you for sharing. My husband and I turned 50, and he left me and 6 grown children for another woman...poj nrauj. After 36 years, my whole lifetime was with him. I'm so glad to let go because now he's not my problem anymore.
So happy for you
Amen sister. Good for you, washed your hands with shit. You are so much better off without trash.
Same here
Zoo siab rau koj let him go with age 50, the good thing nws tsis tsim txom koj lub siab lawm mog. YOG KUV MUAJ TXOJ HMOO NTAWM KUV LUB NEEJ KUV XUM CIA SIB NRAUJ SIB TSO, INSTEAD TXOJ KEV TUAG, VIM KUV TUS TUAG LAWM, KUV XAV KOM NYIAS MUS NYIAS, NYIAS MUS UA NYIAS LUB NEEJ, TXHOB SIB TSIM XWB, THOV NYIAS MUS NYIAS ES KOJ/NWS TSEEM YOG MENYUAM NIAM MENYUAM TXIV YUAV ZOO TSHAJ LI TXOJ KEV TUAG NAWV MOG....I WISH THAT MY HUBBY ALIVE WALK ON EARTH WITH SOMEONE, EVEN-THOUGH not with ME. KUV HLUB NWS CES XUM CIA NWS NYOB NKAUS XWB.
So you were married at 14? Yikes! Must’ve been hard.
Niam ntsuab teev koj koj hais lag liam mas peb xav mloog koj los hais txog cov hleb peb ntshai koj lawm
Thank God for America.
Me viv ncaus koj ua yog lawm os zoo tshaj li
Yog li yog!
Niam ntsuab teev kuv yog ib tug niam tsev nyob sab los tsuas kuv nyiam noog koj heev kuv xa peb cov nyob los tsus tuaj rau koj piav vim peb cov poj niam nyob sab no tseem txom nyem tshaj nej cov tim ko vim yog cov txiv haus sthuaj xwb pheej yuav peb tua xwb
I am so proud of this woman!! Our women need to be this strong and this powerful!! I love this woman. She wins the award for self empowerment and self love.
Good job woman and for defending yourself. I would do the same too.
Mloog zoo2 nawb cov txiv tsev. Nej Txhob xav tias cov niam tsev no yuav nyob ua nej qhev uv nej lawm nawb. Nim no pojniam tsis ntshaw lub neej liam nrog nej lawm
Yog kawg
Poj niam xav tias txiv neej zoo li pojniam, es txiv neej yuav txhawj los hlub pojniam, tsis yog li no. Peb cov pojniam es mag quabyuam ua tau ib siab hlub tus txiv. Txiv Neej yog tsis hlub yus ces ibsib neej tsis txhob vam li nws!
Yog lawm
I don’t understand these stupid ladies who’s willing to be someone’s second wife 🙄 it goes to show how us women work together. You wouldn’t want someone to marry your husband, why marry someone else’s???
😢
Because there is no other man in this world that she will fall in love to like this man
Qhov tsheeb tsis txhob qaug rau lo lus mos lus muag
Thiab thaum ntej tsis txhob pib thiaj li tsis yuam kev..
Thaum yuam kev loj mus deb lawm yeej pauv tsis tau
lub neej thaum hlaus li..mog
Niam no txiv neej ua phem ces hu police xyua kiag mas Tej tug txiv neej zoo li no xwb tsis zam zam li os.
Koj ua yog kawg lawm thiab mas 🙏
Very good story all lady please learn what she said.
Poj niam koom siab ces tsi muaj cov txiv neej zoo li no mas. Poj niam pheej kam mus ua niam yau thiab txaus siab tham cov niag txiv neej zoo li no ce txiv neej thiaj li tsi saib Poj niam muaj nuj nqis.
Zoo Heev uas 3 cov sisters muaj vaj huam sib luag nrog 3 cov txiv neej hmoob lawm thiab os yav ntuj thaum ub 3 cov sisters ua tsis tau li ko li os Amen!
Cov txiv neej siab phem lino ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb tsis tau txaus .
Ca koj zaj dab neeg yuav phim rau peb cov ua txiv tsi pab no li os
Wow! Worthy of a Hmong short movie. Lol!
Kuv kuj yog ib tus txiv neej thiab tabsi kuv lis kuv tsis nyiam nrog poj niam pwg heev2 thaum tseem hluas. Thaum kuv tseem hlub2 kuv tso poj niam pwg ib avthiv twg nruas yog lis ob peb zaum xwb lub sib hawm no kuv twb muaj 60 tawm xyoo tseem nrog tau poj niam pwg tsis haib npaum thaum hluas tabsi tseem nrog tau poj pwg. Thiab muab hais los txhob ua siab phem2 rau peb tus poj niam hlob los yog niam ib. Peb ua neeg nyob yog thaum tsis khib lawm ces yeej tsis hlub thiab yus tus txij kawg yeej tsis xav tu lawm os.
Cool
He reaped what he sowed. 👏👏👏
Vam kom koj so nws quav xwb os, tsum kiag. Thaum tsis muaj neeg so pob tw ces thaum ntawd thiaj txawj nco koj xwb os.
Leej muam cas koj yuav tham tau zoo ua luaj os kuv twb nyiam koj lawm thiab tus neeg siab zoo txawj thammaw
Zoo kawg li os
Kuv mas zoo siab rau koj heev os viv ncaus. Koj strong 💪 heev li. Cov txiv siab phem ces ua li koj ua ko yog lawm.
👏👏👏👏
Sim neej no yog leej twg tau tus txiv zoo li no mas leej twg thiaj li paub ho yog mloog xwb ces yeej tsis paub li os cov niam tsev aw
I would have loved to be a fly on the wall to watch the fight! U go sister!
Same! I'm glad she fought back physically! lol
Kuv tsis nkag !! Muaj ib cov txiv neej, Poj niam pheej tsuas hais txog qhov puag pw xwb yog dab tsi yus yuav tau txuag yus tus kheej thiab 1-2 los tsuas hais txog kev hlub hmo ntuj thov nej thiab lau !!!!
Life can not predicture future?
Zoo kawg uas koj tsis kam yuav niag neeg lim hiam ko os koj rov yuav ces koj tshuav kev npam ua nws qhev ris nws li kev lwj siab nawb! Yuav tsum khov kho li ko xwb!
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Us women do not deserve this kind of treatment 😤 I'm so proud of you. Love yourself he does not deserve you
What did she think she wss going to get marrying your husband? 🙃
Ua cas thaum es los tim hooj mom los ho tsis muab xa mus rau tim tus txiv ntxawm nes, tus es tsa tus niam tau thiab nkawv lub neej na!!!!!°°
Npam sai kawg vim lub siab phem yus tsis paub tias yus laus ib yam li yus niag pojniam lawm thiab es sib hlub. Es pheej tias tseem hluas hluas li yuav mus yuav tus tshiab ces cia kom txhob muaj neeg tu es thiaj li hum nws
Koj zaj no mas kuv mloog mas koj lub ncauj tsis hlub koj tus txiv tab sis koj lub siab tseem hlub nws heev kav tsij khaws nws mas
Cov maum dev vwm ua rua muag plias los txeeb peb lub neej peb tus txiv ces yog ib tug neeg ua nws twb tsis mus sai daim iav seb nws yog ntsi los yog neej. Tseem xuaj tshaj dej lawm nawb cov maum dev vwj no na.
Learn to love with time. I like to call it "GRACEFULLY GOLDENLY LOVE". It really just gets better and better, if learn how to fall in love with Loving.
Mloog nawb cov txiv tsev uas twb laus lawm los pheej phov phov na.
Txiv neeg mas, thaum ua yuav thuag mas li paub, mas li rov los ua zoo rau tus niam tsev..hlig dhau lawm os, cov mi Txiv neeg aw...nej tub ua rau nej tus niam tsev mob mob saib txhaus lawm na, es thawm nej muaj mob yuav tuag mam li nco txhog nej tus naim tsev..omg too late...
Know the consequences when you let your little head took control of your life instead of your big head.
Hell, no, he only wants you to slave for him now. Take care of his helplessness. Sick and disabled. He is totally absolutely good for nothing.
Cov kwvtij uas pab2 lwm tus yuav niamyau kuj lav nws mus tu.
Cov niag pog ko lam sim koj saib koj puas tseem ntshaw nws lawm xwb mas
Ua cas mloog mas peb cov txiv neej hmoob yog cov phov siav tshaj ne…..thov nawv cov poj niam tam sim no Tsi ruam thiab Tsi uv lawm nawv mog
ib tug txiv dev zoo li niag tsiaj no tsis xiam oob haj li no ces niag txawj xav txog tej no na?! dev thisj tseem mloog xwb os ntshe yog koj npam xwb
He so does NOT deserve you. I'm glad you didn't take him back.
QHUAS KOJ, YOU VERY STRONG, PEB COV POJNIAM YUAV TSUM COJ LI NO, COV TXIV DEV NO THIAJ TSIS MUAJ MUAJ PHLUS..
Peb poj Niam tsis tau tag nqi os yog cov Txiv Neej siab Pham xwb os
Thaub laus poj dab ntxaug muab koj hlwb ntshav ntxais tag ces koj txoj sia tshuav tu.
Tus txiv quav dev li ntawd ...nws tsuas zoo ntawm tus zoo Niam tsev txhais tes xwb o..yog nws tshob Cuab ces laim hlo xwb tiag lawv
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Zaj no xyov puas muaj tseeb tiag tiag
Ua licas thiaj li tsis muaj tseeb nas? Pojniam nyob tebchaws Miskas, yog nws muaj siab muaj ntsws thiab nws dhuav ib niag txiv khibxuab li no, nws yeej ua tau tiag rau qhov muaj kevcai Miskas tivthaiv nws thiab nws muaj nws nyiajtxiag los ntawm nws txoj haujlwm.
Thaum koj nyuam qhuav yuav tau nws, nws twb hais phem koj tseem nyob ne.
Yep, this woman have some very valid points. Sadly as we aged, our bodies aged as well. Sickness regardless if physical, physical, or emotional catches up way too quickly.
I wish my husband would turn back to me. I still love him even though he left me to someone else. I know for sure that he would end up something like this or else. Men this age always end up with stroke? Listen to this story make me even love him more. But now he doesn't understand so I just let him go and face the consequences.
Again, what's so great about these cheaters that you women can't let go. Once you're divorced, move on and cut all communications. Why are you still exchanging communications with him? Your actions tell us you still care.
Gosh I wish my have an affair
Sister, let me clarify your opinion. Ntawm kuv nas tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej mob ib yam xwb. Yog raug leej twg ces tsuas yog tus ntawv thiaj paub xwb. Thanks for sharing your story💙
Men did what they did to us women because we allowed them to out of no respect for us women. It's those women who knowingly and willing to be a doormat, 2nd base & homewrecker to a married man is what I don't get.
kuv tsis nkag siab this lady twb tias tsis yuav thaub lawm tabsis ua cas koj tseem get involved with your ex and why you keep calling him koj tus txiv na, nrauj lawm ces lawm ces tag li xwb koj yeej tseem khuvxim koj niag ex husband kawg
Nej cov hmoob mékas ko ruam los ntse ne ? leej twg hais rau nej tias lub tebchaws mékas no luag tso cai rau nej muaj niam hlob niam yau ma lov ? nej puas nco qab thaum peb nyob thaib teb sawvdaws xam phaj yuav tuaj tebchaws no muaj coob tus qub nom qub tswv tau ua haujlwm nrog mékas thiab GVP lawv es tsis tau tuaj mékas thiaj raug mus fabkis, canada, guyanne, thiab lwm qhov vim yog lawv muaj niam hlob niam yau tiag ! Hmoob twb haistias tuaj txog luag ntuj lawm kom yoog raws li lug txuj, tuaj txog luag teb lawm kom ua raws li luag txoj cai no cas nej cov hmoob liam no pheej yuav coj nej tej teeb meem tej plaub ntug mus rau kwvtij thiab neej tsa hais ma lov ? lawv cov ntawd puas tau kawm tawm los tu plaub ma ? tebchaws no luag muaj luag lub tsev hais plaub thiab tus neeg txiav plaub ntug tsis yog cov hmoob ruam no.
Thaum koj twb txawj kho tsev ua tau txhua yam lawm es koj tseem yuav khaws niag txiv dev khib nyawb ntawv cua sw tsev ua dab tsi na. Tsis yog poj niam txawj tag nqi rau txiv neej xwb. Txiv neej haj yam tag nqi os. 50 xyoo rov sauv ces niag kwv twb tsa tsis taus li lawm. Yeej meem houb rus uas hlub yus hwm yus xwb. Tus uas saib tsis tau yus ces muab dov kauj vab mus ib yam li txiv neej ua rau poj niag kiag lawm xwb mog. Kho kho li koj ntag ov.
You don’t like him having a 2nd wife, but still want to worship the dab that approves them marrying? You’re just all talk bc you’ve never left him smh
Sister, I am glad you got rid of that piece of trash. I hoped you continued your restraining order against him. Do not allow him anywhere near you or your home. Tell your kid's absolutely under no circumstances is he allowed into the house. Packed all his things and put it outside on the porch or driveway. Give him 24 or set a specific time to come get them. If he doesn't, then put it in the trash. Otherwise, drop it off at his uncle or parents.
You are smart to do things your way and reasoning. Your ex-husband got exactly what he deserved. Go, sister, hold everything. Do not give him an inch in anything. Let him go married his whore. He can start fresh from scratch. He created his own karma and demise. Do not take care of him. Nope, let him die slowly and miserable. Let him live in misery. Just wait and collect his life insurance. Do not even bother communicating and stop accepting his letters. Cut him off completely, ghost and blocked, and no contact with him...goodbye period.
Agreed 💯
Lmao I can not anymore with these stupid homewreakers. The audacity to call back the first wife and be like “take yo dumb husband back!”
Hmong women need to learn and stand up for their fights and learn to let go of toxic people and relationships. Love yourself and respect yourself and put yourself first. Especially once he steps out and has shown you hold nothing to him, he has no respect or loyalty or love for you. Let him go. Do not stay with him or allow him to dictate and make your life a living hell. You'll not die because he's not there with you. Wash your hands of him. It is her responsibility to take care of him now. Let her deal with him because just like you, he's gonna get bored, and he'll turn around and do the same to her. Especially if he's no longer able to provide or give her what he was doing before she married him. She'll make his life a living hell. They both deserved each other. Smile and thank God for your sanity and sunshine. Thank him for your freedom to do as you please without restriction, most importantly your peacefulness and calming space.
Me niam tsev aw kav tsij zam txim rau koj tus txiv es rov tos nws los nrog koj nyob los mas😊