Agree! There are good & bad poj nrauj in the Hmong community. There are homewrecker ones, the ones just like this story, and the good ones minding their own business, working hard to make money, and focusing on their children just like me.
Why do u have to label “nrog pojnrauj ces kawg nrauj”?. This labels all divorcee woman. Yog koj tus pojniam tsim txiaj ces no body can make her do anything she doesn’t want too!, Don’t blame others for her actions. She’s not a child. She’s not all you think her to be!!
My opinion, we should not blame anyone for our failure because if she loves you enough and you love her enough it’s doesn’t matter who she is with. We are all grown up 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
It's okay to have friends whether they're single, married, or divorced. It's all about setting boundaries and not being a follower. Unfortunately, some people are followers and think it's greener on the other side when it may not be. Some people have to learn it the hard way. SMH!
Yep, some people are tsis sawm zoo. All they want is fun, fun, fun and now, now, now and forget about the family! These people should have known to "party hardy" in their twenties before settling down! Your ex-wife clearly had never heard of the phrase, "Misery loves company." The ex's divorced friend may party a lot, but I highly doubt she's happy and that's why she wanted all her married friends to be divorced like her (if she's miserable, she wants them miserable too). My guess is that all that partying is to cover up the empty feeling she has in her heart and life! A person can only party for so long before it gets old and is no longer fun. When that happens, these people will look back on what they gave up and probably regret it!
Don't blame the poj nrauj. She may have influenced your ex-wife a little, but your ex-wife is an adult. She makes her own decision and thinking. Most pojnrauj are good people. They only divorced because they were in a toxic relationship. For those who purposely divorce their spouse to be free, it's ironic that as soon as they are free, they are looking for a man again. Some even go as far as being a mistress to a married man.
Peb cov txivneej mhoob yuav taur tsortseg qhov khuvxim tu neeg tsi hlub yu. Cov pojniam lo yuavtsum taur tsortseg thiab e baj lub siab raur tu neeg hlub yu. Yog tia yuav ncor ce ncor tu hlub yu xwb nawb e peb thiaj muaj kevkajsiab vim kevuarneej thiab uarneeg luv heev. Tsi petsawg xyoor peb twb yuav tsor lub ntiajteb nov tseg e ncorjoov uarzoor raur tu neeg uarzoor raur yu.
Kub yog in tug Poj ntsuam. Kuv twb ntshai ntshai tsis kam nrog yus tej Viv ncaus ua ke li. Vim tsam luag xav hais tias yus ho coj luag cov Poj Niam tham hluas nraug no os. Hluas nraug los kuv twb tsis tham nyob ib leeg ntsiag to xwb.
Not even 1/2 through but there are too many "conversations. " I'm not going to finish. I will tell you, tus txiv tsev, that you do sound a little controlling.
Tus kwv tij muab hais kiag hais tias cov poj niam coj li no ces..vim tib qho nws xav ua lub El cheater nkaus nkaus xwb..nws thiaj li tsis khuv xim lub neej os
Ib tsoom phooj ywg thaum nej muaj txiv los yog muaj pojniam khoo2 nej .nej po nej cov phooj ywg tau freedom nej xav tias mus ua poj nrauj ces yuav lom zem tshaj plaws li no tab sis txoj kev lom zem yuav coj nej mus puas ntsoog xwb nws tsis yog ib qhov zoo kiag yog tsis ntseeg los sim kiag saib ma kom nej saib muaj ib txhia xav rov los nyob yus lub qub neej tab sis lawm zoo li tus dej ntws lawm tig tsis tau rov qab lawm xwb yog tsis ntseeg kav tsij ua ntag tsam tsis tau lub chaws tuag es mus ua pog npas thiab yawg nplas xwb od.
Koj tus poj niam tsis hwm koj, tsis hlub koj, tsis mloog koj hais, thiab koj tsoob tsis txaus nws yees es nws tseem nyiag deev hluas nraug no ces koj cia li muab nws nrauj zoo dua li yuav nws vim nws pab tsis tau koj ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb nyob hauv neb lub neej. Tej yam me me li kho ib tug springler puas los nws twb tsis paub kho, ib tug ntsia tsheb qhov rooj plam los nws twb tsis paub yuav ntswj li cas, lub sink leaking los nws twb tsis paub yuav pib li cas thiaj kho tau, thiab nws lub tsheb light bulb signal tuag los nws twb tsis txawj hloov tau.
Not all but some pojnrauj yawgnrauj alike are up to no good. Honestly would you let your husband to always go hang with his divorced guy friends where all they do is drinks, party and talk about how bad their wife is? Wife in the story sure got involved with the wrong group. There are rules and boundary within each marriage. when you married your best friend and time should be spending with your spouse and children 90% of the time. If you think you should be free of all things then never ever get married. Couple in this story definitely dont love or respect each other.
Agree! There are good & bad poj nrauj in the Hmong community. There are homewrecker ones, the ones just like this story, and the good ones minding their own business, working hard to make money, and focusing on their children just like me.
Why do u have to label “nrog pojnrauj ces kawg nrauj”?. This labels all divorcee woman. Yog koj tus pojniam tsim txiaj ces no body can make her do anything she doesn’t want too!, Don’t blame others for her actions. She’s not a child. She’s not all you think her to be!!
My opinion, we should not blame anyone for our failure because if she loves you enough and you love her enough it’s doesn’t matter who she is with. We are all grown up 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Mloog ces yeej ntxim nrauj tsawv thiab as koj na 😂
It's okay to have friends whether they're single, married, or divorced. It's all about setting boundaries and not being a follower. Unfortunately, some people are followers and think it's greener on the other side when it may not be. Some people have to learn it the hard way. SMH!
Niam no mas kuv łaj ntshaw phooj ywg lawm
Txawm yog pój niam txiv Neej los kuv tsis tshaw lawm
Nyob yus zoo dua
Yog ib tug poj niam paub thab thiab know her place lawm ces it’s only take common sense not to do what the other divorced women do os.
Yep, some people are tsis sawm zoo. All they want is fun, fun, fun and now, now, now and forget about the family! These people should have known to "party hardy" in their twenties before settling down! Your ex-wife clearly had never heard of the phrase, "Misery loves company." The ex's divorced friend may party a lot, but I highly doubt she's happy and that's why she wanted all her married friends to be divorced like her (if she's miserable, she wants them miserable too). My guess is that all that partying is to cover up the empty feeling she has in her heart and life! A person can only party for so long before it gets old and is no longer fun. When that happens, these people will look back on what they gave up and probably regret it!
Don't blame the poj nrauj. She may have influenced your ex-wife a little, but your ex-wife is an adult. She makes her own decision and thinking. Most pojnrauj are good people. They only divorced because they were in a toxic relationship. For those who purposely divorce their spouse to be free, it's ironic that as soon as they are free, they are looking for a man again. Some even go as far as being a mistress to a married man.
Peb hmoob tsis muaj cov zoo niam tsev tshuav tib co niam dev lawm xwb nawb lawv aw...
Ntuj awwww.. cas dabtsi los nim tim pojnrauj. Tim koj tsis zoo txaus thiab koj niam pojniam ntshaws2 lub neej ywjpheej xwb hos.
Like people say u are who u hang out with.
Peb cov txivneej mhoob yuav taur tsortseg qhov khuvxim tu neeg tsi hlub yu. Cov pojniam lo yuavtsum taur tsortseg thiab e baj lub siab raur tu neeg hlub yu. Yog tia yuav ncor ce ncor tu hlub yu xwb nawb e peb thiaj muaj kevkajsiab vim kevuarneej thiab uarneeg luv heev. Tsi petsawg xyoor peb twb yuav tsor lub ntiajteb nov tseg e ncorjoov uarzoor raur tu neeg uarzoor raur yu.
Lesson learned, stop controlling your wives. Give them spaces. Everyone need their own personal time.
Lom zem heev
Followers will have a tendency to be more gullible.
Ua cas lub ntuj tsi txawj muab txoj kev txomnyem rau lawv es tseg txoj kev zoo rau yus naw! Tsi muaj txiv ces tsi zoo dabtsi li mog.
Peb cov poj niam Hmoob, feev coob tus cwj pwm yeej zoo li ntawv, tso muaj kev ywj pheej ywj siab tsis muaj ciam teb ces thaum kawg lub neej yeej muaj teeb meem, kev hlub tag....
Peb ua tuab neeg nyob yog tsis muaj qhov ntshai ces yeej yuav tsum yuam kev xwb xwb one day. Mark my word.😊
It's true, u are who u hang out with... luag tej laus tias nrog neeg zoo cas ces yus zoo li mas
Cov niam tsev es mus qhov twg mus ib pab ces yog tib co niag maum dev xwb ntag nawb lawv aw...
Cov pojniam hlwb tsis puv taub hau ces nrog poj nrauj ntau ces kawg nrauj xwb tiag.. cov pojniam no zoo zoo deev tsis zoo yuav os.. cov thaub yawg nrauj ntxias ntsoob xwb yeej tsis yuav ib zaug li os.. leejtwg los yeej xav ua paum xwb tsis xav yuav li os.. poj nrauj ces kawg mag muab paum pub nraug nrab tsoob xwb tiag.. kuv los yeej nyiam ntsoob poj nrauj xwb os tabsis kuv yeej tsis yuav ib zaug li vim kuv yeej xav tau lub neej zoo..
Kub yog in tug Poj ntsuam. Kuv twb ntshai ntshai tsis kam nrog yus tej Viv ncaus ua ke li. Vim tsam luag xav hais tias yus ho coj luag cov Poj Niam tham hluas nraug no os. Hluas nraug los kuv twb tsis tham nyob ib leeg ntsiag to xwb.
They are right! This is not 1975, it's time to change your mentality. Stop being controlling and toxic!
And women b wondering y some wife be getting murdered by their husband. Now u know
Not even 1/2 through but there are too many "conversations. " I'm not going to finish. I will tell you, tus txiv tsev, that you do sound a little controlling.
Hola oe no zai nrog poj hola nraaj
Tus kwv tij muab hais kiag hais tias cov poj niam coj li no ces..vim tib qho nws xav ua lub El cheater nkaus nkaus xwb..nws thiaj li tsis khuv xim lub neej os
This is what happened when you married too young. You missed aupity life.
Ib tsoom phooj ywg thaum nej muaj txiv los yog muaj pojniam khoo2 nej .nej po nej cov phooj ywg tau freedom nej xav tias mus ua poj nrauj ces yuav lom zem tshaj plaws li no tab sis txoj kev lom zem yuav coj nej mus puas ntsoog xwb nws tsis yog ib qhov zoo kiag yog tsis ntseeg los sim kiag saib ma kom nej saib muaj ib txhia xav rov los nyob yus lub qub neej tab sis lawm zoo li tus dej ntws lawm tig tsis tau rov qab lawm xwb yog tsis ntseeg kav tsij ua ntag tsam tsis tau lub chaws tuag es mus ua pog npas thiab yawg nplas xwb od.
U should've tham kiag mai hlau just to make her jealous
This guy sounds like a big whiny baby
Koj tus poj niam tsis hwm koj, tsis hlub koj, tsis mloog koj hais, thiab koj tsoob tsis txaus nws yees es nws tseem nyiag deev hluas nraug no ces koj cia li muab nws nrauj zoo dua li yuav nws vim nws pab tsis tau koj ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb nyob hauv neb lub neej. Tej yam me me li kho ib tug springler puas los nws twb tsis paub kho, ib tug ntsia tsheb qhov rooj plam los nws twb tsis paub yuav ntswj li cas, lub sink leaking los nws twb tsis paub yuav pib li cas thiaj kho tau, thiab nws lub tsheb light bulb signal tuag los nws twb tsis txawj hloov tau.
Insecure male. That's the problem!
Thaubvwm , cas kj es yuav cross the red code tabmeeg li mas , hah?.
Sorry, totally off subject, but installation is pronounced in·stuh·lay·shn 😉
Not all but some pojnrauj yawgnrauj alike are up to no good. Honestly would you let your husband to always go hang with his divorced guy friends where all they do is drinks, party and talk about how bad their wife is? Wife in the story sure got involved with the wrong group. There are rules and boundary within each marriage. when you married your best friend and time should be spending with your spouse and children 90% of the time. If you think you should be free of all things then never ever get married. Couple in this story definitely dont love or respect each other.