I was born to one Narc and one psychopath, and I have finally woken up to the truth (EXTREME gaslighting and scapegoating). So when I heal, it will be me seeing myself for the first time ever 🙏🏻❤ your channel helps so much
I was incredibly exhausted after dealing with the narc. It took me about a month to get some of that energy back. It's been 5 months now and the amount of energy I have now is amazing! I'm sleeping better. I'm eating cleaner. I'm meditating more. Peace! Peace! Peace!
I’m feeling so much lighter and happier each and every day. I’m finally experiencing more wins along my healing path. We will all have our moments of struggle. I’ve come to realise that if I just hold on and push myself through the tough days I feel empowered and proud of myself. Hang in there! It’s so worth it! Thank you Andrew!! 💙🙏💪🏽💙 Great content today.
I am doing so much better, been free since 10/31/2022 I am Sleeping better eating better losing weight and dressing better all areas of my life is getting better 🙂
@@alexahoule5501 it was my sister, and Grandmother. I am healing and getting better for almost seven years away from my "sister", and when my grandmother passed on, it has been twenty five years. Sending love and positivity, you are on your way to more beautiful days ahead, each moment, keep positive, and stay strong, while still being you 💌🌅
My ex narc of 36 years noticed when my energy was not only gone for me but I had nothing left for him. Amazing how he took note only when he wasn’t getting anything from me anymore. Said I wasn’t “fun” anymore. I wonder why. duh.
In the middle of the relationship you already have the knowledge about narcissism , but the detachment still takes some time. For some it takes years and that is sad.
God. This... I felt so ashamed and lazy but I just wanted to sleep sooo much, and yet sleep was difficult to achieve as well. A nightmare. I havent fully recovered from that aspect either but I am seeing small improvements in my energy now.
My mom did this too for a month.i can't do that I have to give myself to get up or I get that constant critic in my head about me becoming like my mother who laid in bed as a child all my childhood but wh she finally left she slept for a whole month.she barely even ate.he destroyed her and mine destroyed me but I don't ever want to get to that point.she had a complete mental breakdown
After my divorce over a year ago I started jotting down thoughts in my head in a journal. I wrote for about 2 months. Then I put it away and avoided reading it until a few months ago. By doing so, I recognize how much I’ve healed since those darker days. Bless all of you still fighting your way back. It can and will happen….all in your own time.
This video is right on! Narcissist abuse is sooo evil-But the epiphany of it wakes you up!!! The healing journey and lessons learned make us all stronger.
That first video “Glad you made it” was good and I’ve seen a beautiful healing energetic progression as the months rolled by. You ARE living proof Andrew and so is every amazing person here - we made it. We continue to grow stronger and I pray healthier and more joyous in our hearts and lives. God bless you Andrew and everyone 🙏❤️
Hey everybody 🖐🏾 Blessings 💯 love the video. Andrew you nailed it. Energy was one thing I ve always had plenty of so am sure I kept him well supplied, unknowingly when we were together. Since I discarded him, he's running really low on energy. I think he must have gotten desperate for energy so he came to my house with drama. I responded by calling the police. Narcissist are very evil and just because they are out of your sight and being quiet doesn't mean you are not on there mind. My X was somewhere staging his next move. One thing I saw in him was the hatred he has for me in his tiny tiny little heart. I will stand up for myself and refuse to be bullied. I have no problem calling the men in blue. Let them handle it. Now I continue merrily on my way ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽
Hi Ruthie, I'm so glad you are empowered to handle your ex with your inner strength and your deep faith and you continue to live your life. Very empowering beautiful message, Ruthie. I hope your ex gets your message loud and clear soon and doesn't add anymore drama in your life. Sending you love and peace and prayers for safety today and always, Ruthie. Have a peaceful night, my friend. ❤️ ✌️ 🙏
Andrew, your wisdom to create this channel 2 years ago is so inspiring, and you can be proud of yourself, knowing that your teachings have literally saved many lives. Certainly, your teachings empowered me to find myself again, on the road to heal from a 17-year abusive marriage. Yes, it is a difficult road to walk, but with your inspiring words, I'm getting there. I stand astonished to see how many people have been along this road and find the comments so valuable as we are blessed to have this channel to share our experience with you and others. Thank you for your teachings. Namaste and God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️
It's been a year...and what I have now is PEACE. I never knew where I stood. It felt as if the ground underneath my feet was unsteady. I've found solid ground, and I've found my peace...Thank you Lord 🙏
Good video Andrew. Yes very true, my ex narcissist tried to take every ounce of my energy, everyday more and more. Nothing was ever enough he almost destroyed me. When he discarded me, he didn't expect me to bolt. I quit everything left everything moved and not one person knew where I was or if I was even alive. It's been a year since I was discarded and I'm still recovering my energy. But I'm in a much better place right now for sure. Thanks everyone and thank you Andrew
127 K followers!!! Let’s get you to 200,000!!!! Let’s share your videos with our friends on our social media. The more we share, the more people will learn about this abuse- the more lives that will be saved!!!
Bandwidth- you are so correct! Love that descriptive Andrew. And so it is 💓 We will all rise above once again - The process takes time as our 'inner chats' with the perpetrators has to be completed.We were tired. We are all different. You can reach them with your thoughts - questions are fine, but do not send nasty intention as it will come back to you- as a mirror! Be aware. Love & light to all empaths.
I thank God, that you are too, and all of us, that made the escape out. They are passive aggressive, and wicked, and they know exactly how to obtain what they want, without appearing guilty of anything. Hope you are doing well❤🙏
Re Focusing our minds. Finding the good things in life, & continuing to focus on them. A lot of praying. Staying away from all toxic people. It is an ongoing job. Re New-ing our minds is peace. Thank you Andrew for the message. May peace be with you always. ✌
100% true. Journaling is very helpful to process you feelings, experiences, thoughts and has helped me to find my way through the process of healing. My energy will never be like it once was, but some days, like today, I feel stronger, and had enough energy to accomplish a lot of things that I wanted and enjoy doing. Thank you Andrew, for creating this channel. It has helped me more than you may ever know. God bless you. 🙌 🙏✌❤🤓😎
I also left my exhusband on March 21 2021! It is a battle to find good people years later but with people doing work like yours, I am now educated and know what to stay away from. Thank you Andrew.
It’s so good to not have to walk on eggshells anymore and being in fight or flight mode…. It’s so peaceful and good now. The stress caused me to physically hurt now life is so good again.
I rewatched your first video. Quite an amazing difference in your energy for sure. I’m so glad you decided to start your channel that night to educate us like a college course as you said. I appreciate and thank you for all you do and I look forward to celebrating your 2 year anniversary with you. 💞💪🏻
I was devalued when his Sister came to visit from a distant state. Before and after that too, but her visit was all I could handle. Too much pain. The end of our marriage started there, so I stayed with him another six years. 😢 Long years. Now I put myself “ first, second and third”. Thank you Andrew, for this place to tell the truth.
Hi Andrew..The narcissist is an ENERGY thief! That's why you feel so weak when you start recovering, and your energy slowly comes back. It took me MONTHS, incl hospitalization to get my health back. They know when you're used up, then they find someone new. I left him nearly 12.8 years ago, and never looked back. However, you NEVER forget where you came from and your energy returns. TERRIFIC TOPIC, ANDREW ❤❤
Was very stubborn Andrew so the Divine flicked the switch for me ,and my intuition kicked in ,never said anything just walked out that was 3yrs ago ,being guided eversince ,just blocked members of her family on Facebook woke up this morning feeling the best I have in quite a while ☺️ but I feel my energy coming back .thankyou for your insight and for sharing your experience ,so that we can all learn and heal from traumas created ,by others .Anyway mate, you have a good night God Bless Love and Light from Australia .🦉☺️👌
Congratulations on two year anniversary, dear Andrew! We are so grateful for you and for you sharing your true life experience and wisdom. We appreciate! 💕🌈
I was just commenting on this in yesterday's video.. in almost 3 decades my energy has been taken for granted by the narcissist. Now that I'm ageing rapidly and my mind can't handle things to the point where it's a real struggle to concentrate, this person is showing no mercy. It's the narc in his glory., He's finally got true and valid things to cut me down about.
Im a woman and my former boyfrirnd who is litle narc.... well he lost 1 brother 7 years ago....and another one 5 days ago....well I give him my bests.... guys a should say something more? I dont know how to act..thank you guys for help!!! Love all
After years being of drained of my resources and time and energy, it's been a year of leaving my narcissistic aunt, limited contact with my toxic dad and some more flying monkey family members, I'm now so much happier, married and have a beautiful home, but I'm now trying to recover from this imposter syndrome, where I don't feel like I don't deserve my own positive energy , happiness, calm and relaxation, for years after being used to make everyone around me lives better whilst sacrificing my peace, for feeling selfish and guilty that I would dare think about myself over any/everyone else in every situation (especially financially), I'm trying hard to feel like I deserve to make my own success and peace for once, but everyday is getting better, and watching these amazing videos have been so incredibly helpful and encouraging!!!
I cut off the ex, flying monkeys and more. It was as if an emergency signal went off and the triple sealed doors rolled down & locked up then, main doors dead bolted closed and the house was completely guarded. We were closed in & safe. 3 of the most intense months of my life felt like years. I had to keep strong cuz my son & daughter were suicidal, as was I for a short time. I completely fell apart, I can’t remember details. Kinda like a blocked trauma. I don’t care if good people we’re trying to contact me, I had NO TRUST so I changed my # and deleted my phone. I had work to do, our lives were about over the edge and the kids needed a role model that kicks ass! I kinda love being a Greek bitch. My favourite word is NO. I had a friend that literally nick named me her “yes bitch”. Now I can see everyone for who they are.
He showed up on my doorstep at 1am, I didn't let him in &called the cops. I watched as he was arrested and taken away. His car was searched and he had 3 large bottles of strong home brew alcohol and his compound crossbow. I don't even want to know what he had planned for me. I am happy that I was strong enough to not let him in the house, but I'm still shaken up about it. I look forward to the day when he gives up trying to get me back because I am not going. I am no longer his fool! Peace and love to you. Thank you
You will heal. Time. Hang in there! Process. Journal. Get it out of your head and onto paper. I'm SO excited for you Andrew to be reaching the 2 year anniversary of your channel!! I hope you plan something extra special for that day! I'll be watching. You have helped so many people! Namaste. 🥰
Even though I'm a little achey today I feel fantastic otherwise and a positive attitude how about you Andrew and everyone else here hope everyone is doing well and is having a wonderful day
So true. You definitely become a drained individual whenever they are in your space, on the phone. Just depleted totally. Even when they don't talk they drain you, the energy that they let off is very toxic. You will go from feeling grate motivated energetic to just depleted.❤️🗣️🎯🙏
From the moment I went no contact my energy returned. My energy has not left me, fourteen months later. No more depression. A miracle for me who I has been prone to lifelong depression. Thank you thank you. Stay at it.
Yes, journaling helps so much. I use it as a brain dump so that I don't keep revisiting the events that drained me. I can't thank you enough for your education ❤️
I thank God for progress, and hope for the day of no more rumination. A year ago I was so scared and sad because my spirit was broken, something I didn't know could happen and don't ever want to happen again.
Thank you for yet another video ! Thank you for telling the truth, for validating the trauma and for helping us to put ourselves first. You literally saved me from the abuser. Thank you!!
It's been 5 months of no contact since i was discarded by the Narc and i'm feeling like my energy levels are now above fifty percent and still slowly rising. I'm ruminating less about the Narc and focusing more on living a good, healthy lifestyle. I'm at a stage where i can genuinely laugh and smile again and not fake it, when i'm around my friends and family who have no idea of the abuse i've been through.
Thank you Andrew! I am now narcissist-free and celebrating this new and peaceful chapter of my life, taking time to get to know myself and all the wonderful things God has given me. Your channel has helped so much. God bless you.
Yep it took me 3 months after I left him to even realize that he could possibly be a narcissist only through a friend that was married to one for 35 years was I brought into the light about it. I was very blessed meeting her she helped me a great deal.
I am shocked and amazed at the accuracy of what you've shared. You have literally described my relationship with an evil, joy-sucking narcissists. I have been his employee, his servant for 13 years, not a wife. I made the mistake of devoting all of my energy into building him up. Now, I am left with nothing, no friends, no family, no car, no job, no money, nothing, zero, no sense of self, always in a state of confusion. I often asked myself, what happened to me? I use to be a truly joyous, happy person. Where did she go? I am left depressed, empty and hollow.
I’ve seen the changes I’ve been along side of you with many others since Costa Rica you’re amazing with what you are doing sharing your journey. 💯 your energy returns doing more for myself these days & not as much for others except the few beautiful people around me,I’ll be here to help celebrate 😊
I've always thought this is something that SHOULD BE taught in primary school. I've went thru all this agoraphobia stuff, holy toledo I feel for everybody on that track right now. Unfortunately I took a job with yet ANOTHER narcissist. They go to lengths to control TRANSPORTATION, MONEY, FOOD, CLOTHING and anything else they can while they try to become some weird version of YOU because they have NO IDENTITY!
2 Thumbs up today! Excellent content. I agree you can see a big difference in you from your early videos to now. Thank you for helping so many of us with your educational videos!🙏🏻🦋
I am so grateful for Andrew and channels like this that have made me aware. I feel good and indifferent now. I changed my phone number to make sure that I do not receive any unexpected messages. Its almost the weekend! Hang in there... Namaste 🙏
Yay! Just yesterday I deleted contact and 5 1/2 years of texts with him. Awoke today (already!) with a sense of renewal and I am feeling lighter and energized! I spent 2 solid weeks listening to everything you had to say, Andrew! I am an Educated Empath! ❤🎉
It's really interesting how I felt after spending the day with him. I was always feeling like I was ill or something like that. No energy! When I finished with him I started to feel free again. Thanking God for being myself again 🙏 Sorry for my english 💓
Dear Andrew Thank you for your videos. My harsh, humiliating, cruel discard was about 2 years ago and your videos appeared at this time. Your wisdom and sharing has given me such strength, many aha moments and such valuable knowledge. I am deeply truly grateful to you for. This video really hit home as skin problems have finally disappeared as I am feeling such peace, promise and self respect. My energy has returned! The third best version of myself, as you suggested. The dark night of the soul was the most excruciating, painful time of my beautiful life to go through alone. The ruminating, the brain fog, the sadness has finally lifted. I thank you for your constant kind support and dedication to sharing the knowledge. Iit helped to save my life at the most critical time. Namaste to you, thank you for your work in this world.
I discovered your channel a few weeks ago. It’s been an incredible source of hope and strength. The weirdest thing is your videos are reaching me- or being made (like this one) right as I needed the exact info/wisdom you are sharing
Hi Andrew yes your right your energy does return . Narcs are full of bull and yes breadcrumbing you too feed on you when they need too. Such a great feeling when its finished And enjoy life again . Thank you Andrew for all your help x
You are absolutely right on this subject....energy does return💗I am investing so much time & energy in myself💗 I am strong & resilient! I admit I still have some challenges but I'm able to brave it with self love, self control & seeing the healing path for me.💗 Thank you Andrew for all your insight & wisdom💗 I'm so grateful for listening to your channel. Nameste my friend...we are stronger than ever before. Our characters are true & authentic.
My energy is coming back 😌 I love walking my little doggy 🐕 every day. My life is becoming filled with positive and creative ✨️ goals. I am grateful to have gotten out alive.
Great video Andrew❣️. I am grateful every day for no contact. I watched a video on another channel this morning on why a narcissist s eye turn black. I witnessed it, and told my mother months ago. She didn't actually believe me. I can assure you it is real, and the closest I ever care to be to evil again. Forward. Way to go on two years. Wow. Thank you for creating such a strong informed community. 🤓
Yes the black eyes are real unfortunately. Many other victims of Narcissistic Abuse report it. It's when you realise that they are empty shells and feel their evil. Hugs to you 🤗
That trauma bond is something fierce! Some days are HORRIBLY difficult!!! 51 days no contact today! 😊
I was born to one Narc and one psychopath, and I have finally woken up to the truth (EXTREME gaslighting and scapegoating). So when I heal, it will be me seeing myself for the first time ever 🙏🏻❤ your channel helps so much
You can do it!
Bless you.
Good luck to you! You will like what you see. Blessings
Same. The abuse was indescribable and has taken a long time to heal.life keeps unfolding in beautiful ways, better and better!
Thank you for sharing.
This.
I knew about energy vampires, but I didn't know there were narcissists.
I was incredibly exhausted after dealing with the narc. It took me about a month to get some of that energy back. It's been 5 months now and the amount of energy I have now is amazing! I'm sleeping better. I'm eating cleaner. I'm meditating more. Peace! Peace! Peace!
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Never give up, Valerie.
Go, Valerie!🎉
5 months out too!☺️
I'm only 5 weeks in, can't wait for that energy rush 😂 bring it on
I’m feeling so much lighter and happier each and every day. I’m finally experiencing more wins along my healing path.
We will all have our moments of struggle.
I’ve come to realise that if I just hold on and push myself through the tough days I feel empowered and proud of myself.
Hang in there!
It’s so worth it!
Thank you Andrew!! 💙🙏💪🏽💙
Great content today.
Thanks, Veronica!
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I am doing so much better, been free since 10/31/2022
I am Sleeping better eating better losing weight and dressing better all areas of my life is getting better 🙂
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Congrats! I’m just still in the very beginning stages. Narc is moving out on Saturday.
@@leynadog1 blessings and good luck! May there be little or no drama ❤❤❤
@@leynadog1 WooHoo!🎉You will be free!
Great news, Laura! 🎉
No contact is definitely the key to start healing and getting your energy back.
Yes he did !!! Totally drained my energy …. Thank You Lord for deliverance 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻. Thank you Andrew … this is good !
You are so welcome💯🙌🙏
It’s my mother who drains my energy…
@@alexahoule5501 it was my sister, and Grandmother. I am healing and getting better for almost seven years away from my "sister", and when my grandmother passed on, it has been twenty five years.
Sending love and positivity, you are on your way to more beautiful days ahead, each moment, keep positive, and stay strong, while still being you 💌🌅
My ex narc of 36 years noticed when my energy was not only gone for me but I had nothing left for him. Amazing how he took note only when he wasn’t getting anything from me anymore. Said I wasn’t “fun” anymore. I wonder why. duh.
@@AlexaCBrown thank you for the encouragement
In the middle of the relationship you already have the
knowledge about narcissism , but the
detachment still takes some time. For some
it takes years and that is sad.
I went into a sleep state for about a month after the narc. I was completely depleted. You are awesome Andrew and I'm so glad you're here!
God. This... I felt so ashamed and lazy but I just wanted to sleep sooo much, and yet sleep was difficult to achieve as well. A nightmare. I havent fully recovered from that aspect either but I am seeing small improvements in my energy now.
My mom did this too for a month.i can't do that I have to give myself to get up or I get that constant critic in my head about me becoming like my mother who laid in bed as a child all my childhood but wh she finally left she slept for a whole month.she barely even ate.he destroyed her and mine destroyed me but I don't ever want to get to that point.she had a complete mental breakdown
@@shaniecegullisonI admire your strength. Be kind and gentle with yourself. You deserve it.
@@QuintessentialKeygirl thank you 🌺🙂
Escaping the trauma processing the trauma healing thru sleep is restorative to heal your mind body and soul 😊
After my divorce over a year ago I started jotting down thoughts in my head in a journal. I wrote for about 2 months. Then I put it away and avoided reading it until a few months ago. By doing so, I recognize how much I’ve healed since those darker days. Bless all of you still fighting your way back. It can and will happen….all in your own time.
they are like vampires ….. they suck everything out of you ….. I hope you are having a wonderful day thank you for your videos ❤️🇨🇦❤️
Welcome 💯🙌☀️
This video is right on!
Narcissist abuse is sooo evil-But the epiphany of it wakes you up!!!
The healing journey and lessons learned make us all stronger.
My energy was low but now it's good because I'm no longer living in the narcissist shadows I'm my own shadow
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That first video “Glad you made it” was good and I’ve seen a beautiful healing energetic progression as the months rolled by. You ARE living proof Andrew and so is every amazing person here - we made it. We continue to grow stronger and I pray healthier and more joyous in our hearts and lives. God bless you Andrew and everyone 🙏❤️
Amen to that!
Yes same … Andrew has done some amazing work on himself and I also Strive to be feeling like him soon 👍
@@lynnfincham6839 amen 🙏 🙌
It HAS been ABSOLUTELY AMAZING to see Andrew’s transformation since he began the channel! ♥️♥️♥️
@@jennifernewton4637 AMEN 🙏 🙌❤️❤️❤️
Yes !!! Had nothing to offer in the end. Didn’t even want to offer anything !
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I went through dark knight of the soul in September 2022 it was hard and scary,but it woke me up it was worth it!!
Healing comes from truth.
Namaste'
The draining is so weird. Amen. The energy comes back. You are not alone
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Hey everybody 🖐🏾 Blessings 💯 love the video. Andrew you nailed it. Energy was one thing I ve always had plenty of so am sure I kept him well supplied, unknowingly when we were together. Since I discarded him, he's running really low on energy. I think he must have gotten desperate for energy so he came to my house with drama. I responded by calling the police. Narcissist are very evil and just because they are out of your sight and being quiet doesn't mean you are not on there mind. My X was somewhere staging his next move. One thing I saw in him was the hatred he has for me in his tiny tiny little heart. I will stand up for myself and refuse to be bullied. I have no problem calling the men in blue. Let them handle it. Now I continue merrily on my way ❤️✌🏽🙏🏽
Hi Ruthie, I'm so glad you are empowered to handle your ex with your inner strength and your deep faith and you continue to live your life. Very empowering beautiful message, Ruthie. I hope your ex gets your message loud and clear soon and doesn't add anymore drama in your life. Sending you love and peace and prayers for safety today and always, Ruthie. Have a peaceful night, my friend. ❤️ ✌️ 🙏
I look at the clouds and watch them change and think coming and going
Thank you, Andrew, for always educating us with the TRUTH, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth! NAMASTE ❤
Welcome 🙏😌💯❤️
Andrew, your wisdom to create this channel 2 years ago is so inspiring, and you can be proud of yourself, knowing that your teachings have literally saved many lives. Certainly, your teachings empowered me to find myself again, on the road to heal from a 17-year abusive marriage. Yes, it is a difficult road to walk, but with your inspiring words, I'm getting there. I stand astonished to see how many people have been along this road and find the comments so valuable as we are blessed to have this channel to share our experience with you and others. Thank you for your teachings. Namaste and God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️
It's been a year...and what I have now is PEACE. I never knew where I stood. It felt as if the ground underneath my feet was unsteady. I've found solid ground, and I've found my peace...Thank you Lord 🙏
Good video Andrew. Yes very true, my ex narcissist tried to take every ounce of my energy, everyday more and more. Nothing was ever enough he almost destroyed me. When he discarded me, he didn't expect me to bolt. I quit everything left everything moved and not one person knew where I was or if I was even alive. It's been a year since I was discarded and I'm still recovering my energy. But I'm in a much better place right now for sure. Thanks everyone and thank you Andrew
Carlos ur right,👍🤗❤️🙏
I'm in my third month off from the abusive relationship and thanks God things are going way better by his Grace 👋 🙏 🙌
127 K followers!!! Let’s get you to 200,000!!!!
Let’s share your videos with our friends on our social media. The more we share, the more people will learn about this abuse- the more lives that will be saved!!!
Bandwidth- you are so correct! Love that descriptive Andrew.
And so it is 💓
We will all rise above once again - The process takes time as our 'inner chats' with the perpetrators has to be completed.We were tired. We are all different.
You can reach them with your thoughts - questions are fine, but do not send nasty intention as it will come back to you- as a mirror!
Be aware.
Love & light to all empaths.
I had to file disability. I just Thank God I’m alive
I thank God, that you are too, and all of us, that made the escape out. They are passive aggressive, and wicked, and they know exactly how to obtain what they want, without appearing guilty of anything. Hope you are doing well❤🙏
For 13 year I have and I'm fixing myself. Thank you so much for bless you.
Re Focusing our minds. Finding the good things in life, & continuing to focus on them. A lot of praying. Staying away from all toxic people. It is an ongoing job. Re New-ing our minds is peace. Thank you Andrew for the message. May peace be with you always. ✌
100% true. Journaling is very helpful to process you feelings, experiences, thoughts and has helped me to find my way through the process of healing. My energy will never be like it once was, but some days, like today, I feel stronger, and had enough energy to accomplish a lot of things that I wanted and enjoy doing. Thank you Andrew, for creating this channel. It has helped me more than you may ever know. God bless you. 🙌 🙏✌❤🤓😎
Journal yes great idea! I noticed I am mostly sleeping better at night now. Not on the edge like before. Each day gets better and better. 😊
I also left my exhusband on March 21 2021! It is a battle to find good people years later but with people doing work like yours, I am now educated and know what to stay away from. Thank you Andrew.
Welcome..😌🙏💜
It’s so good to not have to walk on eggshells anymore and being in fight or flight mode…. It’s so peaceful and good now. The stress caused me to physically hurt now life is so good again.
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This is beautiful story this is your mission your out reach to many people congratulations you were a god send let’s celebrate 🎊 🎊 🎉🎉❤
ABSOLUTELY 100% CORRECT!!
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I rewatched your first video. Quite an amazing difference in your energy for sure. I’m so glad you decided to start your channel that night to educate us like a college course as you said. I appreciate and thank you for all you do and I look forward to celebrating your 2 year anniversary with you. 💞💪🏻
I was devalued when his Sister came to visit from a distant state. Before and after that too, but her visit was all I could handle. Too much pain. The end of our marriage started there, so I stayed with him another six years. 😢 Long years. Now I put myself “ first, second and third”.
Thank you Andrew, for this place to tell the truth.
Helllooo Andrew
By restoring our soul … big part ..
Yayyy anniversary!!!
Hugs
All true
Hi Andrew..The narcissist is an ENERGY thief! That's why you feel so weak when you start recovering, and your energy slowly comes back. It took me MONTHS, incl hospitalization to get my health back. They know when you're used up, then they find someone new. I left him nearly 12.8 years ago, and never looked back. However, you NEVER forget where you came from and your energy returns.
TERRIFIC TOPIC, ANDREW ❤❤
Thank you for sharing 😌🙌💯🙏
Was very stubborn Andrew so the Divine flicked the switch for me ,and my intuition kicked in ,never said anything just walked out that was 3yrs ago ,being guided eversince ,just blocked members of her family on Facebook woke up this morning feeling the best I have in quite a while ☺️ but I feel my energy coming back .thankyou for your insight and for sharing your experience ,so that we can all learn and heal from traumas created ,by others .Anyway mate, you have a good night God Bless Love and Light from Australia .🦉☺️👌
Yes true they Drain your energy, I was not on my full power any more, my energy Reserve was almost gone, ❤️❤️🙏
Congratulations on two year anniversary, dear Andrew! We are so grateful for you and for you sharing your true life experience and wisdom. We appreciate! 💕🌈
I was just commenting on this in yesterday's video.. in almost 3 decades my energy has been taken for granted by the narcissist. Now that I'm ageing rapidly and my mind can't handle things to the point where it's a real struggle to concentrate, this person is showing no mercy. It's the narc in his glory., He's finally got true and valid things to cut me down about.
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We certainly are getting stronger 😁 thank you so much Andrew 💚🌷
Thank you so much for the videos you do. I honestly thought I was alone in this struggle.
You are so welcome!🙏💯🙌
Me too! It's so bizarre!
Thank you,Andrew. So inspiring.
Im a woman and my former boyfrirnd who is litle narc.... well he lost 1 brother 7 years ago....and another one 5 days ago....well I give him my bests.... guys a should say something more? I dont know how to act..thank you guys for help!!! Love all
After years being of drained of my resources and time and energy, it's been a year of leaving my narcissistic aunt, limited contact with my toxic dad and some more flying monkey family members, I'm now so much happier, married and have a beautiful home, but I'm now trying to recover from this imposter syndrome, where I don't feel like I don't deserve my own positive energy , happiness, calm and relaxation, for years after being used to make everyone around me lives better whilst sacrificing my peace, for feeling selfish and guilty that I would dare think about myself over any/everyone else in every situation (especially financially), I'm trying hard to feel like I deserve to make my own success and peace for once, but everyday is getting better, and watching these amazing videos have been so incredibly helpful and encouraging!!!
I cut off the ex, flying monkeys and more. It was as if an emergency signal went off and the triple sealed doors rolled down & locked up then, main doors dead bolted closed and the house was completely guarded. We were closed in & safe. 3 of the most intense months of my life felt like years. I had to keep strong cuz my son & daughter were suicidal, as was I for a short time. I completely fell apart, I can’t remember details. Kinda like a blocked trauma. I don’t care if good people we’re trying to contact me, I had NO TRUST so I changed my # and deleted my phone. I had work to do, our lives were about over the edge and the kids needed a role model that kicks ass! I kinda love being a Greek bitch. My favourite word is NO. I had a friend that literally nick named me her “yes bitch”. Now I can see everyone for who they are.
He showed up on my doorstep at 1am, I didn't let him in &called the cops. I watched as he was arrested and taken away. His car was searched and he had 3 large bottles of strong home brew alcohol and his compound crossbow. I don't even want to know what he had planned for me. I am happy that I was strong enough to not let him in the house, but I'm still shaken up about it. I look forward to the day when he gives up trying to get me back because I am not going. I am no longer his fool! Peace and love to you. Thank you
You will heal. Time. Hang in there! Process. Journal. Get it out of your head and onto paper.
I'm SO excited for you Andrew to be reaching the 2 year anniversary of your channel!! I hope you plan something extra special for that day! I'll be watching.
You have helped so many people! Namaste. 🥰
Even though I'm a little achey today I feel fantastic otherwise and a positive attitude how about you Andrew and everyone else here hope everyone is doing well and is having a wonderful day
You have a become a blessing Andrew ❤️. Thank you
😂Driving your car without having a panic attack 😂😇💕
So true. You definitely become a drained individual whenever they are in your space, on the phone. Just depleted totally. Even when they don't talk they drain you, the energy that they let off is very toxic. You will go from feeling grate motivated energetic to just depleted.❤️🗣️🎯🙏
From the moment I went no contact my energy returned. My energy has not left me, fourteen months later. No more depression. A miracle for me who I has been prone to lifelong depression. Thank you thank you. Stay at it.
I saw my mother when I moved out and left the narcissist. She said I looked incredibly ill, gaunt and stressed
Our light is so beautiful when it shines
Yes, journaling helps so much. I use it as a brain dump so that I don't keep revisiting the events that drained me. I can't thank you enough for your education ❤️
Please pray for protection from cult bullies....
I thank God for progress, and hope for the day of no more rumination. A year ago I was so scared and sad because my spirit was broken, something I didn't know could happen and don't ever want to happen again.
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Thank you for yet another video ! Thank you for telling the truth, for validating the trauma and for helping us to put ourselves first. You literally saved me from the abuser. Thank you!!
thank you ❤❤❤❤
It's been 5 months of no contact since i was discarded by the Narc and i'm feeling like my energy levels are now above fifty percent and still slowly rising. I'm ruminating less about the Narc and focusing more on living a good, healthy lifestyle. I'm at a stage where i can genuinely laugh and smile again and not fake it, when i'm around my friends and family who have no idea of the abuse i've been through.
Thank you Andrew! I am now narcissist-free and celebrating this new and peaceful chapter of my life, taking time to get to know myself and all the wonderful things God has given me. Your channel has helped so much. God bless you.
You are a great Human!
I'm so grateful to have you along with me on my healing journey, Andrew, thank you for your wonderful, encouraging content.
Thank you Andrew for putting yourself out there and opening up has helped me in ways i can not describe much love, light, and peace to you all.🥰
Thanks Andrew ❤great video I feel like narcissist
Are the new zombie generation destroying people
Yep it took me 3 months after I left him to even realize that he could possibly be a narcissist only through a friend that was married to one for 35 years was I brought into the light about it. I was very blessed meeting her she helped me a great deal.
It has been a full year experiencing the return of my energy. Grateful for this.
I am shocked and amazed at the accuracy of what you've shared. You have literally described my relationship with an evil, joy-sucking narcissists. I have been his employee, his servant for 13 years, not a wife. I made the mistake of devoting all of my energy into building him up. Now, I am left with nothing, no friends, no family, no car, no job, no money, nothing, zero, no sense of self, always in a state of confusion. I often asked myself, what happened to me? I use to be a truly joyous, happy person. Where did she go? I am left depressed, empty and hollow.
I’ve seen the changes I’ve been along side of you with many others since Costa Rica you’re amazing with what you are doing sharing your journey. 💯 your energy returns doing more for myself these days & not as much for others except the few beautiful people around me,I’ll be here to help celebrate 😊
I've always thought this is something that SHOULD BE taught in primary school.
I've went thru all this agoraphobia stuff, holy toledo I feel for everybody on that track right now. Unfortunately I took a job with yet ANOTHER narcissist. They go to lengths to control TRANSPORTATION, MONEY, FOOD, CLOTHING and anything else they can while they try to become some weird version of YOU because they have NO IDENTITY!
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Yes One does heal over time. And we do appreciate you and your emotional understanding. Thank you 😎🇭🇲🙏
2 Thumbs up today! Excellent content. I agree you can see a big difference in you from your early videos to now. Thank you for helping so many of us with your educational videos!🙏🏻🦋
All truth..
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I am so grateful for Andrew and channels like this that have made me aware. I feel good and indifferent now. I changed my phone number to make sure that I do not receive any unexpected messages. Its almost the weekend! Hang in there... Namaste 🙏
Namaste 🙏
Yay! Just yesterday I deleted contact and 5 1/2 years of texts with him. Awoke today (already!) with a sense of renewal and I am feeling lighter and energized! I spent 2 solid weeks listening to everything you had to say, Andrew! I am an Educated Empath! ❤🎉
They want hour Life. They want to steal your life . They want to be you so bad. These are evil wicked entities
True, the energy is returning, slowly but steadily, we must be patient and loving to ourselves. Thank you Andrew. God bless you❤
YES! 🙏🏻 TY Andrew and tribe! 💙
You have been a lifesaver with your videos. I truly believe that listening to you has kept me from going to total loss of control.
Wonderful!🙌😊🙏
It's really interesting how I felt after spending the day with him. I was always feeling like I was ill or something like that. No energy! When I finished with him I started to feel free again. Thanking God for being myself again 🙏
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Yes, they are void , hollow & broken! Nothing there; very pained, sick individuals! Hell ; there’s no replacement for me!
In other words, they need energy from bright lights and sunshine like us
Dear Andrew Thank you for your videos. My harsh, humiliating, cruel discard was about 2 years ago and your videos appeared at this time. Your wisdom and sharing has given me such strength, many aha moments and such valuable knowledge. I am deeply truly grateful to you for. This video really hit home as skin problems have finally disappeared as I am feeling such peace, promise and self respect. My energy has returned! The third best version of myself, as you suggested. The dark night of the soul was the most excruciating, painful time of my beautiful life to go through alone. The ruminating, the brain fog, the sadness has finally lifted. I thank you for your constant kind support and dedication to sharing the knowledge. Iit helped to save my life at the most critical time. Namaste to you, thank you for your work in this world.
YES 💞
I discovered your channel a few weeks ago. It’s been an incredible source of hope and strength. The weirdest thing is your videos are reaching me- or being made (like this one) right as I needed the exact info/wisdom you are sharing
Welcome to the community 🙏🙌💯😊
I had no idea what it felt like to be without them. A family member. But holy cow its like a weights lifted and I feel a sense of ownership.
Hey also. It might not be a narcissist. The enabler and flying monkeys enforce the structure the narc created.
You will always have my gratitude!
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Thank you for your knowledge very healing
Welcome 🙏
Thank you for putting this online. K. Gabriel
Hi Andrew yes your right your energy does return .
Narcs are full of bull and yes breadcrumbing you too feed on you when they need too.
Such a great feeling when its finished
And enjoy life again .
Thank you Andrew for all your help x
Welcome 😊🙌💯
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You keep me strong Andrew .
I dont feel so alone x
You are absolutely right on this subject....energy does return💗I am investing so much time & energy in myself💗 I am strong & resilient!
I admit I still have some challenges but I'm able to brave it with self love, self control & seeing the healing path for me.💗
Thank you Andrew for all your insight & wisdom💗 I'm so grateful for listening to your channel.
Nameste my friend...we are stronger than ever before. Our characters are true & authentic.
My energy is coming back 😌 I love walking my little doggy 🐕 every day. My life is becoming filled with positive and creative ✨️ goals. I am grateful to have gotten out alive.
Great video Andrew❣️. I am grateful every day for no contact. I watched a video on another channel this morning on why a narcissist s eye turn black. I witnessed it, and told my mother months ago. She didn't actually believe me. I can assure you it is real, and the closest I ever care to be to evil again. Forward. Way to go on two years. Wow. Thank you for creating such a strong informed community. 🤓
Yes the black eyes are real unfortunately. Many other victims of Narcissistic Abuse report it. It's when you realise that they are empty shells and feel their evil. Hugs to you 🤗
@@JH-td4mn thank you❣️ the less crazy I feel the better 😊