I am always walking on egg shells, any remote independent identification I have in myself is looked at like a cancer. Every move every word is criticized. She is perfect and needs zero Changes. In fact I should be punished for even having these thoughts.
I am dealing with the exact same personality. She seems to believe that it's ok to express herself disrespectfully once she's justified it in her head. When I'm pulling my wallet out, I'm the best provider in the world. When I'm expecting her to follow through with her word, I'm everything but a child of God. She doesn't know how much I resist the urge to let this go and continue with my life as if she never existed.
So mine is my Girlfriend, but we have a newborn , and she was very grumpy during pregnancy, I thought it wpuld go away , but her 12 year old didn't seem surprised she was acting angry about everything, today I told her to stop being so mean to me and her son and she snapped started throwing things , not at me , but broke alot of stuff , which is ironic because she was so angry bc the house is not clean enough for her , yet she made the biggest mess the house has ever seen. I cleaned it up and now watching how to help her or myself or both. Yes my house needs some work , I inherited it and it has alot of damaged. Which I'm working on , I've already remodeled 3 rooms and a bathroom , but it takes time to save the money for the repairs. I'm just lost , I love her. And my daughter deserves a loving family , but I feel like I'm walking on eggshells most the time , I'm always cooking or cleaning the house, she just has unrealistic expectations from everyone , her son literally vacuums and takes out the trash and makes her bed and does the laundry and cooks when I don't and does the dishes every day often 2-3 times a day , has straight As in school and she is still very hard on him , I try not to interfere but sometimes I have to remind her how helpful her son is , I've never seen someone so young with so much responsibility I would love some advice other than a rope, brick , and fishing boat ( joking of course)
First, let her know she is the love of your life even as she is freaking out, shift the "conversation" then go deep into your heart and stay there. your 'wife" and it would be better if you make her your wife, needs love in all ways.,,,get the course for men, too.
I am always walking on egg shells, any remote independent identification I have in myself is looked at like a cancer. Every move every word is criticized.
She is perfect and needs zero
Changes. In fact I should be punished for even having these thoughts.
Ouch! Learn to love unconditionally and you will be fine
@@TheMarriageFoundationwhat?!?!,
@@TheMarriageFoundation 🙌🏼
I am dealing with the exact same personality. She seems to believe that it's ok to express herself disrespectfully once she's justified it in her head. When I'm pulling my wallet out, I'm the best provider in the world. When I'm expecting her to follow through with her word, I'm everything but a child of God. She doesn't know how much I resist the urge to let this go and continue with my life as if she never existed.
So mine is my Girlfriend, but we have a newborn , and she was very grumpy during pregnancy, I thought it wpuld go away , but her 12 year old didn't seem surprised she was acting angry about everything, today I told her to stop being so mean to me and her son and she snapped started throwing things , not at me , but broke alot of stuff , which is ironic because she was so angry bc the house is not clean enough for her , yet she made the biggest mess the house has ever seen.
I cleaned it up and now watching how to help her or myself or both.
Yes my house needs some work , I inherited it and it has alot of damaged. Which I'm working on , I've already remodeled 3 rooms and a bathroom , but it takes time to save the money for the repairs.
I'm just lost , I love her. And my daughter deserves a loving family , but I feel like I'm walking on eggshells most the time , I'm always cooking or cleaning the house, she just has unrealistic expectations from everyone , her son literally vacuums and takes out the trash and makes her bed and does the laundry and cooks when I don't and does the dishes every day often 2-3 times a day , has straight As in school and she is still very hard on him , I try not to interfere but sometimes I have to remind her how helpful her son is , I've never seen someone so young with so much responsibility
I would love some advice other than a rope, brick , and fishing boat ( joking of course)
First, let her know she is the love of your life even as she is freaking out, shift the "conversation" then go deep into your heart and stay there. your 'wife" and it would be better if you make her your wife, needs love in all ways.,,,get the course for men, too.