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- The number of young people who identify as transgender has nearly doubled in recent years. Some people say this is because the transgender community is more embraced, but others say teens are rushing to get medical treatments without counseling or knowing the facts. In some extreme cases, this can even lead to what’s called “detransition.” As a teen, Ryan transitioned from a female to a male but says she then realized she made an epic mistake, reversed her decision, and detransitioned to be female again. Over 20 years ago, Kara had medical treatments and later gender reassignment surgery and says policy has greatly changed. She says it's concerning that today, there are far less requirements for children seeking puberty blockers, hormone therapy, and surgery. However, Reece says he knew he was male as a small child, and these medical treatments saved his life as a teen. He says denying teens the right to these procedures is “trans genocide.” Eli Erlick, Founder of Trans Student Educational Resources, adds that the percentage of people who detransition is small and the number one reason for detransitioning is transphobia. Neurologist and author of “The End of Gender” Dr. Debra Soh studies this issue and says social acceptance is good, but the number of transitions have reflected people’s skewed thinking. And, NewsNation Correspondent Rich McHugh weighs in to discuss what he has found after a lengthy investigation on the increased numbers of teen transitions in recent years. (21107)
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Valid criticism is not transphobia. If you are ignoring valid points and arguments. That would make you the one with the irrational fear. Fear of confronting criticism.
Someone put this on a T-shirt!
Critiphobia
Or fear of the truth..
Bro 2 y ago no one even knew whatbtransphobia is ?? Its all circus and wecare animals in spot light
Wake up !!! Resist!!! Stop participating !!! Ignore the system !!!
@@familylifetoo9541 adult is adult. 18. If you can blow yourself up in a war, you can do what you want with your body. Why does 21 matter
We’ve been there with our daughter. She stopped before top surgery too. Thank God. She got help, mostly from us, her parents, and detransitioned. Today she’s a beautiful, happy young woman!
Thank God 🙏🏽 I'm praying for my daughter. Thanks for the hope. Love my child so much. Alienated herself, then was in Canada alone.
Social media encouraged everything. And she's an actor...anyhoo. Thank you. Lisa NZ
@@mariannezwicker3304 ❤️
@@lisachilman6868I’ll pray for your daughter too. I pray for all girls who are being targeted, I have a teenage daughter too. And for the boys, and my son is in only 6. The world really wants to take our babies and have them mutilate themselves. Which then leads to not being able to reproduce. That’s the biggie right there.
Same here. So sad that some parents aren't allowed to parent their children.
Iam going through exactly that. And I pray so hard that my daughter comes to a place where she likes herself and accepts that she is and always has been a wonderful girl. Thank God your daughter accepted her self
This is so cruel that this has been pushed upon children who haven't fully developed mentally or physically.
Even the tattoo artist I spoke with suggested that I try wearing a piece of leather with the tattoo on it first before actually having it done.
It isn't exactly possible to test out being the other gender without transitioning...
@@kareng544 People "socially transition" all the time to "test" it out (but of course it's not the same)
Edit: I'm not pro-transitioning
@@kareng544 Just like you aren't actually a person with a tattoo because you wear a piece of leather with a picture on it? It isn't possible to "test out" the other gender anyways because trans men are not men and trans women are not women, you can pretend and hope and dream all you want but everyone knows you are trans, that's why they are called trans and not just women or men.
so you never tried a cheap one, and ended up with blood poisoning, a horrible smudge that even an expert said is impossible and possibly fatal to remove???
Or you liked the leather clothing nothing wrong with that
I’m the exact same as her. I took hormones at 18 because I identified as FTM. I’m 24 now and detransitioned back to female. People hate detransitioners for no reason and it’s so dystopian. I transitioned because I was a severely depressed and alone teenager and I felt that I didn’t fit in anywhere in life, so I found solice in the online trans community where everyone praised you for being unique and weird. I was chronically online. I strongly believe that if I wasn’t so alone and lived and breathed social media, I would have never blamed my gender for my problems.
This! This is my exact experience also. I was on T for almost two years. Currently detransitioning now
You will never get back to what you once were. This is your punishment for going against god!
Thank your for speaking up ❤
I have a friend who works in a public school and he sees examples like yours every day. It's hard enough for kids to be kids in todays world without all the external influences. I'm glad that you were finally able to find your authentic self. Best of luck to you and your future.
I'm sorry for all that you went through and are currently going through. I'm not trans, so I can't say that I know exactly how you feel, but I do understand about being a loner kid not fitting in. I just want to say that your very brave, and that your experience and your pain matters to others. And I hope things get better for you. Consider me a friend should you ever need one. 😊
I was so relieved when she said she didn't perform top surgery. That would have been awful.
Same
Or had a toe grafted on down below
@@MrDsturman😂
@@amandak3198It's funny but in reality it is horrible. You can search pictures if you want, their fake male organ is litteraly just a piece of meat that look like what the Frankenstein monster would have...and they even go to the extend of transplanting a plastic pump to simulate the male erection by pressing on a button, like imagine how ridiculous this would be in the bed...worst mistake a woman can make.
Me, as well.
I felt my stomach clench thinking she was going to say that she had a double mastectomy.
Here in Australia it's virtually impossible for a man with low testosterone to get prescribed TRT and yet a girl who identifies as a man can get testosterone no questions asked.
female privilege
It's remarkable how easily patients with these spurious conditions can have their meds fast tracked to them & in direct contradiction to policies of the Medical Association.
Australia, like most feminized countries in the West", have a festering hate for men and boys.
@@alienteknology5390 Try using the woke r3tardation AGAINST itself. Get a female friend to go to the same doctor and say she is a man. Then she can get the testosterone and give it to you.
Just say you no longer feel like you're a women (as a man) and get proscribed testosterone. Easy.
People like her need to continue to speak out. It's very, very brave of her. People speaking out like this will save more kids than we can imagine
Are you kidding me? This is a M-to-F transgender PRETENDING to be a F-to-M transgender!
Him. He can't undo it. That's a man sorry.
Detransitiners are a really small group of people so you are probably end up hurting more people by having more strict laws anyways it's almost impossible to get any serious medication under 18 so what is with the "save the kids" stuff?
@@Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa669 She was born female and is female now, what makes her a boy at all lol
@@Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa669i mean, no its not. They took her breasts off. She transitioned back to female and she she likely still has phemale genitalia if she only had top surgery
I am 35 years old, and was a Tom boy as a kid. I suspect if I was born 20 years later than I was, I would have thought I was trans based on the media, and I might of done something I would regret.
Yeah media shouldn't promote it. A lot of girls were just Tom boys.
I always say this! I was a huge Tom boy as a kid. Was the only girl in class to wear trousers all year round because I hated dresses and skirts, preferred “boys toys” etc. but now I love being a woman and wearing girly clothes. It’s scary that some children will think they must change gender because of personal preferences.
You would have removed your top?
@@marksc4636 that's scary 😨
There should be a more serious psychological evaluation done for people requiring trans gender surgery or medication for transitioning , especially minors. if thats not being done then we’ll surely have more cases like this. I’am under the impression that money is the motive for doctors Therapists , and insurance companies. It’s lack of Diligence and care going on in my opinion
I am Happy their showing the other side of changing gender. A lot of ex trans ppl go through this and are shamed by the community. We need more people to speak up about how doctors are allowing ppl to change gender without the proper therapy and time so they won’t regret it in the future.
No, they're not shamed for detransitioning. They're shamed for grifting and ATTACKING the community because their experience didn't go well.
Transition has less than a 2% regret rate, and republicans are attacking the community HARD -
I support all detransitioners but if you're on TV pushing anti trans propaganda during ongoing genocidal rhetoric from republicans, you're being a problem. No matter what you've been through.
We can all see what the Republicans want to go through with, all you have to do is listen to them. This detransition conversation is important to have, but not until republicans get their heads out of their genocidal asses
👉 It's literally *impossible* to change ones gender.
@@Llamp99
🤷♂️ I could decide to "identify" as a penguin...
Doesn't mean it's "true" though.
You're a *female* learn to live with and accept who and what you are rather than your imperfect "feelings".
You can't change genders like changing clothes and you'll *never* know what it is to be a male, no matter what you think you may "feel".
The reality is all Trans people will inevitably end up detransitioning, or committing suicide. Whether people want to admit it or not gender dysphoria is a mental illness, and the individual suffering from it (and being pushed by society to transition) will either manage to work out their problems on their own... and detransition... or they don't and they end their suffering.
Society needs to stop treating mental illness like a trend to be exploited for money.
@@teamexpress851 You people identify different species like dogs and cats as humans, children or babies, and call yourselves their parents, siblings, and relatives so transgender people most definitely can identify as a different gender of their own species.
Applaud this woman for speaking the truth.
De transitioned trans women are women 🫡🫡
@@chiragraju821 yeah but she was never a man and she never will be. she likely realized that and hence the “de-transition.” you cannot magically change your gender, sorry folks.
I second that!❤
It's his her fault this has happened u are not a kid at 18 legally
Speaking HER truth. But what about the 99% or other transgenders who don’t regret it? Does that make their truth any less?
the last point where she was uncomfortable with people sexualizing her womanly body is sooo true.
I had body dysmorphia going through puberty and many kids do. Its a difficult time. Also painful when breasts grow. Plus with unwanted attention and the oppurtunity to prevent or reverse that I dont blame some kids.
She has certainly changed her tune about that, hasn't she?
@@DarkAngel2512yeh nah I’d rather deal with obnoxious people than put my health and safety at risk
I recognized her right away from the thumbnail. I saw her old videos of breaking it all down. Much respect and I'm glad she found herself.
Who is she?
Her channel is supervsalt
@@DystrophicEvolution Her channel is called "The Monologue"
She tried being a man and was like NOPE! This sucks! I’m playing on the hardest difficulty settings now!!😭🤣
Right on brother. @@BD-1-And-Only
thanks for sharing this. detransitioners are silenced in the world today. this woman’s voice needs to be heard, because there are many who are too afraid to speak up who may be experiencing or have experienced this
Silenced? What planet are you on? This network alone has thousands of their accounts, and this woman is on Dr Phil ffs!
No one in the West is silenced, except for pro-Palestinian sentiments. There's idiots and bullies in all walks of life, to try to generalise and label everyone, is factually incorrect. Everything is binary in America and now it's seeping into European culture, where we're used to grey and nuanced debate.
Dunno, we have freedom to put things in our bodies in a democratic society. There is toxic fast food, insane plastic surgeries, cigarettes, alcohol, etc. Why is it suddenly someone else's fault that this person changed their mind? I'm certain the vast majority of people who transition have zero regrets about their decision-- it is something they HAVE to do, and that's their business.
They are silenced because they figured out the truth and dont want future clients (kids) to find out
Isn't that what's happening here? Her voice is being heard? She's in no way being silenced. Chloe Cole was the most moving to me. Her testimony in Congress was damning for greedy and unethical scumbag doctors and their horrow show procedures.
Absolutely agree. I'm sorry but someone who wishes to transition SHOULD go to multiple therapy session, etc. It's a big decision and I don't think many people, esp minors, understand that.
I myself transitioned and I fully agree. I transitioned about 10 years ago, and it was such a different ballgame.
I was 23, first off, and went to counseling for about 9 months prior to hormones (I’ve never had any surgeries and don’t plan to, except eventually a hysterectomy).
Then, I found a specially licensed counselor to do a series of personality tests and mental health screenings, before he ultimately wrote an official letter to my doctor - not confirming I was trans, per se, but confirming he believed i was making my decision from a sound mind. In fact, the counselor who wrote the letter was a Christian and I was not - but he said his job wasn’t to judge or have personal opinions about my decisions: his job was to assess my mental and emotional competence, and that’s what he did.
I wouldn’t change how I did things for anything. Even now, years later, it gives me such peace of mind knowing FOR SURE that I made the decision on my own. I think I would always question it if I’d gone to an informed consent clinic, or seen a “gender therapist” (both of which were options, options I’m thankful my gut told me not to take).
I am reminded of a story by a pediatrician who was presented with a young girl who identified as trans and wanted to transition to become a boy. The pediatrician interviewed both parents to try to get to the meat of the matter as he didn't want to rush into mutilating the girl. At some point the father revealed it had come on suddenly and out of the blue after he remarried.
The peditrician paused and dug further into it and discovered that the parents of the girl were divorced and that the father later remarried. Their daughter had then been forced to become a bridesmaid at the wedding against her will, and the whole affair traumatized her so much she never wanted to wear dresses again which sparked the trans identity.
With this info the pediatrician prescribed proper child counselling and therapy and the girl NOT go through with the transition thank the Lord.
I have nothing against well informed decisions to transition but i am against young immature children doing it. Let them grow and go through puberty FFS and mature abit before they made decisions that could irreversibly alter their lives and bodies forever.
This is how it used to be 10 years ago--just to go on hormones required several sessions with a mental health counselor, gender therapist, medical doctor, etc. But with the shift in the LGBTQ+ social justice movement over the past decade, all of those requirements can now be bypassed. It's a huge problem, and these important checkpoints need to be restored to prevent confused non-trans people from mutilating themselves.
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Many people do actually its just very costly and time consuming typically it takes years to get a diagnosis which can worsen the person's patience and mental state. This is why i think we need to teach about lgbt and gender identity to kids at a very young age around 7 or so so they can better understand those things and about themselves (yes they can understand it perfectly fine those who disagree dont and no its not indoctrination i watch straight characters kiss on tv all the time and i was taught that boys and girls liked each other did that make me straight? No.)
I had an uncle who would go through phases where he'd think he was Napoleon. We got him help. We didn't buy him a funny hat and call him Your Excellency.
😅😅😅 I love this
But even if you had robertcollinsworth, just a change in wardrobe would have fully restored him.
Like many in their 50's or 60's now that still wear a mullet. 10 minutes in a barber chair and they enter the 21st century! [and yes, I have seen a few young people wearing one hoping to bring it back, but so far they're unsuccessful]
This girl is so brave to say this on tv to help other people with the same problem she doesn´t deserve hate at all ❤
💀💀
She litterally has onlyfans
@@cyberreality7774 what is it?? Asking for a friend.
@@cyberreality7774 who cares?
@@weaponbride thesaltyalty
I’m so proud of her bravery to speak up about this!!!
She's changed and she will never get back what she once had. This is retribution for going astray against god!!!
Why are women so mentally unstable?
Meaning most of the people who identify as trans are women. And most who detrans are women.
It is women who are supporting this movement.
Makes no sense.
Tiktok has women self diagnosing themselves with autism & whatever else.
Someone needs to explain why.
@@lzbhcvm6747. God is imaginary
When she said she was a man - she didn’t look like one. She looked like a manly lesbian, now she looks like a trans woman, she messed with her voice and facial structure.
@@lzbhcvm6747u are sick
She woke up from the delusion, good for her.
Sadly others aren’t so lucky
She has a marker tattoo! Do not trust her! Brother moons are awake!
Minors should not be able to do this. With or without parental permission
they can without parental consent in california now. right as they shut down the biggest gender care center in the UK after finding out that puberty blockers cause bone density issues.
gender therapy saves lives, but even so i think there should be a lot of process for minors to go through this.
18 year olds aren't minors.
@@skrittle555 this isn't true. They shut the big GIC because they're opening smaller regional GICs in its place to serve more people
@Lala Emm 18 is an adult and old enough to know the consequences of their own actions. It's on them if they do something stupid and regret it
Thanks to her for speaking out, and to Dr Phil for having such a stage to speak out from.
So I guess there’s no such thing as simply being a tomboy these days? I don’t understand the immediate need for drugs and surgery for children especially.
Sometimes there not a tomboy, there's plenty of people who are Tom boys, but there are also many who are just simply trans
@@-dtuyhnjhggvjjjn children aren't the ones getting surgury. It's the adults who spend money and decide that is what they want to do with themselves. If you want to try come ting trying to argue im wrong or sm don't even bother bc im not responding to any more comeths
Thank you Dr. Phil for putting this out.
All this insanity will stop once the lawsuits start stacking up.
@Juñ ski for real! I always ask these people who get super upset at it, how does it effect them personally.
@Juñ ski like I’d love to see a lawsuit against a doctor who was asked to perform the services they did😂 I’m not saying I don’t have sympathy for detransitioners. But I think most of them ( as I’ve read multiple studies) detransition due to fear of not passing/being accepted or actually not being accepted by their loved ones.
It also has a lot to do with personal love and confidence. If you don’t tackle that before a transition or at least factor that in it’s going to feel almost traumatic. I’m a trans woman myself and I do personally wish I could have started a medical transition at an earlier age but I know that I would’ve regretted it because I hadn’t accepted myself yet.
I think puberty blockers are the answer. They have no irreversible effects and they basically put a pause on puberty and gives the teen time to think of what they really want while receiving professional guidance
@Juñ ski because we have children!!!
I'll be there with my popcorn. The tide is shifting.
Male and female is biological reality and it’s not feeling. Masculinity and femininity are feelings ❤
I was saying this from the beginning - children are impressionable - they fully don’t understand the world they are in - they live in it and only want to be loved and accepted by their peers. The only way to know who you are is after you’ve lived your life the way you came into this earth and even then you’re constantly changing.
Sadly it seems that the vast majority of adults are also VERY impressionable (confused and lost).
that is why they have to go through puberty and fully develop their gender features. Agreed
I always feel that if the kid isn't smart enough to NOT put a fork in the wall socket, they don't have any capacity to think about their futures.
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I wanted nose surgery to a white person nose like Michael Jackson did my mom told me be happy with your flat nose because changing it won't change your skin color then you will never be happy. I'm 32 and I'm not happy all the time with myself but I'm happy I can be okay with myself
Testosterone is illegal for body builders but legal for anyone suffering from mental health issues. Insanity
It’s not “illegal” it’s just against competition rules lol
@@datman3416So it is illegal to the rules of the competition.
@@alexei3755 I thought you meant by law
Transphobia isnt cool
@@alexei3755thats completely different because its giving you an advantage against others lol
I will never EVER give my child hormones to change their gender. That’s full on abuse. Huge support for this woman for speaking out against this narrative.
So parents and the child and the doctor have a triple consent system to put a child on hormone blockers. Usually hormone replacement therapy is done between about ages 16 to 18. Children are not directly brought onto hormone replacement therapy. The process is hormone blockers, the child then has years to commit to the gender identity before HRT is administered. The success rate for this is extremely high and it's absolutely saved so many people's lives. It might be easier for you to think about something like anorexia where the mind sees the body as a huge lump of fat even though a person is at a healthy weight. A trans person with gender dysphoria sees themselves as incredibly out of body. Trans people that are able to get help as children have to do a lot less medical work later down the line to achieve the bodies that they want. I've heard from other people that have detransitioned and both of them are still extremely positive towards trans healthcare. Medical transition just wasn't right for them. Luckily children that come out as nonbinary and don't have gender dysphoria or any problems with their bodies can just undergo therapy and social transition
It's realy not abuse, be so fr
It's USA. Apparently they don't need your permission? That's the tragedy. (Not sure from what age). 😢
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@@kdjetsParents don't need to be informed in many places. Hormone replacement shot way up for preteens; for kids BEFORE puberty would even begin. Hormone blockers cause permanent damage in kids, teens, and adults. It turns people into permanent patients. You're ignorant of human development and medical interventions.
This isn't transphobic, people. This is someone with a different opinion!!!!
3 out of 4 children who question their gender will grow out of it. that's 75%. not to mention, the biggest gender care center in the UK recently shut down because they found that *puberty blockers cause bone density issues* and the affirmative care model is problematic because of the rate of detransition. THANK YOU for talking about this. we are not transphobic. i'm bisexual myself. we are WORRIED about the kids.
Source?
source? the studies i’ve seen say less than 1% of trans people detransition wtf are you talking about💀💀
@@user-jo1tt5qr4p Nobody is telling you that you have to believe them, you have a computer in front of you that has the internet. Search and look yourself. Stop having stuff spoon fed to you.
@@user-jo1tt5qr4p Google is free
@@user-jo1tt5qr4p they remove links on youtube because they flag as spam. the current studies are showing between 64% and 94% of children with gender dysphoria will grow out of it. maybe do your own independent research and stop listening to anyone with an agenda. people are biased. numbers aren't.
Like most young women, I was on "the pill" for years. It caused me to develop an autoimmune endocrine disorder. I was in my mid-twenties needing to get vitamins through an IV drip. With every hormonal prescription I got sicker and sicker and it started to threaten my fertility. I'm so fortunate I figured it out in time. I threw away every prescription and found natural options that allowed me to be healthy again. Today I have a 1 year old baby girl and no trace of an endocrine disorder or autoimmune disorder. I think its INSANE when people say hormone treatments are "safe and reversible" and "not permanent". That poison will destroy you.
Thank you for sharing this. I also developed an auto immune disease from birth control treatments however mine was the shot but instead of my body attacking glands like yours did mine attacked my muscle tissue and eyes, i nearly went blind by age 22 due to mis diagnosis and places not accepting my insurance, but thankfully i found a wonderful eye doctor who was able to see me despite not accepting my insurance and was able to see that something larger was at play , ordered labs, saw i had a false positive syphilus result and instantly referred me to the doctor i have now who specializes in auto immune diseases, if it werent for him i would of lost my eyesight and probably wouldnt be here today i am alive and can see okay, but i am infertile, i do not get periods anymore : people REALLY need to hear these things because nobody speaks about it. i was perfectly healthy pre birth control but that one decision had a domino effect on my health. please please do your research and do not take these medications if you do not need to!
Most women detransition because they find out being a man is way way way worse than being a woman 😂. Maybe all women should transition so they can respect men more.
I was on the pill for 20 years with no side effects other than good ones. It made my period predictable and manageable. Coming off was terrible and I’d still be on them if I could be.
All medication is the same story…it can help many but always seriously harms a few. Everyone is different and some will react to things that others don’t.
The problem is that we don’t take the warning labels seriously enough and doctors will never take the time to sit down and go through all of the possible side effects. Especially for things like birth control pills that are so common and don’t negatively effect most.
@@user-st5px9ot6vI’m starting to show signs of thyroid eye disease, ocular migraines and tested positive for antibodies, I had to ask my doctor to take me off the combined hormonal contraceptive pill
@@supernova11711 drugs are poisons, there's alternate things people can use....
I'm so proud of this woman and others speaking up. I'm not anti-trans, however, I do believe counseling should be mandatory and children absolutely should not be allowed to 'transition'. When I was 18 many years ago I made the regrettable decision to abort my first child. I didn't know what I was doing. I was scared. I didn't have counseling and it was unbelievably easy at that time to do it. Nobody talks about the depression that follows years later. I had to seek counseling to overcome the deep regret of that decision.
I cannot believe how easy it is to get access to puberty blockers and surgery to 'transition' to another gender, but it is unbelievably difficult to get the medications and medical necessities for other health issues. I know someone with vitiligo. Maybe 80% of their body is covered and their insurance won't do a thing to cover any treatments or medications. This world is a joke.
She is such a beautiful woman so glad she didn't go thru with the permanent surgery
Sounds like the testosterone and puberty blockers may have permanently altered her voice. Hopefully she doesn't suffer from any of the other side affects, like osteoarthritis and reproductive dysfunction.
@@americandevil she could get voice feminization surgery to reverse it i think
@@aaron8756 I saw her detransition from the start and what you hear here is actually an improvement. She had a deeper voice.
She is such a beauty but that voice is so weird with that body. Thanks alot liberals for ruining another life.
@@americandevil It's not permanent.
What's crazy but not mentioned here is that if a man has low testosterone, it is often incredibly difficult for them to get testosterone treatments in comparison to a woman who merely wants it.
@@l.b7298 I partly disagree. We should have to struggle to get hormones, but transpeople should struggle at least the same. They're not "our own hormones", they are artificial. That means, that could have plenty of serious negative effects on your whole body.
@@l.b7298 :
*Tell them you are transitioning.*
That is such a big problem. I live in the Netherlands and it might be even more difficult here to get normal hormone treatment than in the USA
Same here in the UK. My mum was on a waiting list of 2 1/2 years for HRT after menopause. She couldn’t function with such a stark deficit so she went private and had instant access. The trans lobby is destroying the NHS.
Indeed...
I have a friend who's been struggling with detransitioning. But its insane, people who were friends an even some family cut ties with him over it. He was effectively bullied offline after relentless smear campaigns, death threats and even had someone find where he lived an spray painted the house he was renting an was basically forced to move. He actually went to visit his grandma in Germany to decompress and build a life again. It was heartbreaking to watch.
It's maam
Yet the alphabet mafia keeps claiming how persecuted they are. Well, people are finally starting to push back against them, esp. the trans kid insanity. It's going to be too late for so many of these de-transitioners, who realize they near to ruined their lives. Hard enough to deal w/ all the damage, esp. if you've had surgeries to remove body parts or alter them. The complications from those surgeries is insane. Plus how most can't go back to being as pretty as this girl is. Her voice is altered, but she's one of the lucky ones. Then they get persecuted and bullied like your friend, by a bunch of activist bullies.
The least accepting people in this world are the ones screaming for everyone to accept them.
@@saintejeannedarc9460she can still undergo a voice feminisation surgery.
Why can't they support him in whatever life or identity he chooses? That's insane the way some are treating him!
I have a schizophrenic son that got approved for hormonal therapy without therapy and I’m terrified of it going wrong. It’s so scary when he’s high risk as a child of a father that committed suicide. He changes his mind about his gender frequently anyway.
Symptom of schizophrenia often overlap with gender dysphoria, yet Schitzophrenics are often delusional about it, same being with most transsexuals. I hope your son turns out OK
I’m on the same boat. I’m a DeTransitioner as well, and it is absolutely nuts as to how easy you can get access to hormones and approval for surgery. Also a strong point to make is when you tell your doctors that you want to stop taking hormones (the ones from the clinic), they kinda get a little hostile to you.
I’m not anti-trans, but I am Pro “it need to be harder to access this kind of stuff because it can definitely change your life”.
I did happen to get the surgery and find out afterwards that I needed a therapist OUTSIDE the clinic to work out deep rooted trauma (SA survivor) and realize that I was never happy transitioning.
The main thing was that I never was consistent taking hormones. So I still have my natural feminine features and voice. It’s just that I don’t have a chest anymore, which I have grown accepting of because I still very much look like a woman, also breast cancer is pretty up there within my family.
Hospitals, drug companies and dr make a fortune from all this. Of course it'll be easy
FTM is not the same as MTF the idea limits on every one is silly nearly every MTF works out.
@@Meanoldwoman2013 Nope, not nearly every MTF works out, I didn't and many many others I know don't. Stop peddling your ideological bs and be more empathetic.
That’s great! I’m in the same boat as you. After 2 years detransitioning I pass as female again but have no chest. I have a complicated relationship with it but have also come to accept, and even occasionally enjoy it. Glad you found peace ❤
@@Meanoldwoman2013 I’m aware???
I agree there are many things that contribute to a kid questioning their gender roles. Therapy should be a requirement. Things like abuse, bullying, and even depression due to not fitting into societal standards can cause children to become confused about their gender identity/oreintation. Her story is identical to someone I met a few years back. I met a girl who passed as a boy, and she believed she was born into the wrong body as a kid. Now her as an adult and already gone through the transition through insurance as a teen, she realized her thoughts came from her years of abuse and bullying. She regretted it but some of the changes were permanent. That was the 1st time I ever heard that this happens. Why society is angry at parents who want to dig deeper is something I will never understand as the aftermath that comes with making such a irreversible decision can be a harder pill to swallow.
As a person who is trans, you have no idea what you're talking about at all.
They don't need hormones or surgery, they need therapy.
How do I tell you that most trans people do go to therapy before this. Therapists have shown time and time again it’s better for most to transition.
@@formerlygavin nope, it's a medical scandal. They ask nothing about your home life or medical conditions. I swear that I could go to my local clinic and within 8 minutes, get estrogen.
@@formerlygavin It's hard to generalize or differentiate between who this may or may not benefit. Trans people are so loosely defined it's hard to know who's legit. There's also too much push back against allowing (Cis) women to give their opinion on safety concerns. Men are dangerous and can easily dress up and say they're a woman now.
@@carebear4554 Cool, though your personal grievances don’t invalidate an entire group of people. I agree, I wish trans women listened more and were less self obsessed, but that’s an internal thing people in the community have been talking about. Intelligent people have enough nuance to discern that helping trans people who are legit is an incredibly important issue.
My problem with this movement though is the kids
Kids have no idea what they want to be in life they don't know what job they want to have they can't consent they can't even drink beer
It's so bizarre to think a kid can't consent (that's a good thing obviously) but they can make life altering changes to their body when they don't fully understand the ramifications of transitioning
TG she didn’t butcher her beautiful body
I am wondering how doctors can have approval from insurances to do these treatments so fast when seniors are denied serious treatments and or medicines.
Because the healthcare system is the one pushing people to do this and convincing them that they're "trans"
because its the plan. This is literally what the ppl who make up these thinktanks, attend WEF and essentially put the things in motion that determine the direction of society want.
Listen to the conspiracy theorists. They're right a good 80%.
somethings afoot!
it actually started with Obamacare. starting to force insurance companies to support surgeries and 'medications' related to transitioning. The doctors also make a ton of money from doing it... it's not to help people, it's for profit.
Thank you Dr. Phil. I even didn’t like being a girl at the age of seven. I had trouble with my peers and was socially awkward. The people I looked up to the most were my brother and my father, and the characters in movies I best related to were usually boys. I enjoyed being attractive as a young adult, but even after marrying, I still wished I was a man. It wasn’t until I reached my thirties that I became comfortable with being female. It is by the grace of God that I wasn’t introduced to this idea and otherwise protected by family and a Christian worldview.
when you spend your whole life surrounded by men, you adopt their mannerisms and behaviours and even clothing style
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@@erssiemajor8010 hi there , did you completely miss the part where she said , not one Dr , or therapist questioned her at all??? Don't you understand the system is broken. Even in Australia it is the law that dr and counselors are not allowed to say anything but "Yes your a trans person!".... Seriously tell me how this is ok?
I'm in the same boat cause I used to hate being female when I was younger and wish I was born a guy. I had these feelings during middle and high school but now as an adult I don't feel the same way and I love being a woman now. I also grew up in a Christian household too :)
Why are women so mentally unstable?
Meaning most of the people who identify as trans are women. And most who detrans are women.
It is women who are supporting this movement.
Makes no sense.
Tiktok has women self diagnosing themselves with autism & whatever else.
Someone needs to explain why.
Now THIS is a brave woman. Not the ones that hide behind a keyboard or the ones that just scream louder than people who are trying to talk to you. Those are cowards who are fearful of the truth and confrontation. Life is a rollercoaster ride and sometimes there is no "quick fix" so you have to actually work to get out of those valleys. It helps to have good people around you that aren't just an echo chamber and give you an alterative way of looking at things. Anyways this woman is the real "stunning and brave".
How about the phrase “transmen will never be women”
Lol the gaybourhood freak
not a woman anymore, not a man either.
@@Hello-ig1px She's still a woman
Well put.
I'm a trans man and I love myself, feel fortunate that I get to take testosterone and had top surgery.
However, it's insane to me how quickly these things can be approved wherever she lives!
Potentially trans people should go to therapy first thing and see over time if they really do have gender dysphoria. This diagnosis is insanely life changing. Trans people often also have other mental health diagnoses and the therapist should really know the difference.,When I was in high school my dysphoria was mistaken for depression because I said I didn't want to keep living in my body.
Also, a person can truly be trans and choose not to go through any medical changes and they shouldn't be judged for it.
I agree except I would correct your last part that the person is truly dysphoric not trans as they have decided not to trans.
@@DarkAngel2512 I meant that someone being transgender (dysphoric) doesn't mean they necessarily choose to medically transition.
Question? How can you love yourself if you didn’t love who you were previously?
@@TeaBagOfChaos but isn't one of the main treatments medical transition to align with the gender they identify with to help ease their dysphoria?
Also I disagree with the 'potential' part of whether trans people should go to therapy first. I think they should because there are a lot of issues they may have faced growing up being trans or feelings they need to work thru. Therapy is great in general to get if you can tbh. Also I think its also important because it can catch people who will ruin their body if they aren't actually dypshoric and medically transition.
For me, I soccially transitioned (ftm), was pushing to get hormones (like mental breakdown level panic attacks at times because I wanted to transition so badly) but my psych realized it was something else and I got therapy to help with my mental health issues. I have BPD and I had identity disturbance from it which was due to the fact I was in a supportive youth group who had a lot of LGBTQ+ people in it, specifically several trans youth, and my BPD caused me to unconciouslly 'mimic' how they felt. It felt real to me at the the time but I didn't realize until I got treatment for my BPD and left the group to go to college that I realized it was my BPD caused me to mimic it as I stopped mimicing it. My psych realized this early on as he was the one who diagnosed me and help me get treatment.
I actually know 3 people who were female and diagnosed BPD and/or who had childhood trauma who were transitioning or identifying as a different gender around the same age/time as me and its only when they got treatment that they realized it wasn't that they were trans but like me is that they hated/didn't love themselves, didn't have an 'identity' or feel 'whole', didn't feel validated at home and transitioning into an idealized/other person made them feel supported/loved/heard and be able to distance themselves from those feelings about themselves as a whole and/or their trauma(s).
I was lucky and got 'caught' by my psych who put off and I was able to 'de-transition' just socially but the others? They started medically transitioning and I only saw 1 on occasion after I found all this out. We all started transitioning in late highschool/early twenties which seems to be the pattern for people who de-transition.
Also, in terms of BPD and mis-diagnosis of dysphoria, when I was looking up BPD and transitioning after being told I had to wait because my psych thought I was having an identity disturbance issue I saw THREADS of people with BPD talking about transitioning, regretting it/realizing it doesn't solve the underlying 'feelings/issues' they have and becoming more mentally unstable due to actual dysphoria and hopelessness they felt because at that time there were NO talks online about de-transitioning or what life would be like after on top of having surgery removing parts that aligned with their original gender that they now realize they were the entire time. So most only knew that they couldn't and only a few people mentioned it to them on the forums in the replies but later and hopefully not too late if you catch my drift.
Trans kids with dysphoria deserve to get help and have access to be able to transition. Their mental health matters but so do those kids who have mental illnesses, trauma or issues making them seek out support or hate themselves so much they wish to be a completely different person but don't know the difference. Most people, not necessarily only professionals, now would jump to that it is dysporia and not identity disturbance or other issues much like how you said your gender dyshorpia was not looked into further and labelled as just depression. I think that therapy is good because it helps people in general and that it can offer support to the person whether they decide to transition or not but really making sure there arent underlying reasons helps prevent someone from transitioning and that not being the best course of action for them.
I think getting therapy while also socially transitioning (not putting a stop to the social transition while getting therapy and also changing aspects of my life helped me realize that I wasn't trans and have the support to de-transition socially) helps someone who isn't trans or questioning (because not everyone who questions their gender ends up being trans) still have validation and support while also having an 'out' without long lasting physical effects and for people who are genuinely trans it helps with dysphoria while they wait to medically transition and learn coping skills to help with coping with any AHs they may face who are transphobic. IMo this helps everyone because it doesn't take away the ability to transition but allows people to explore their gender without the 'concrete' decision medically and knowing they can de-transition and not be unsupported (that was a really hard part about de-transitioning for me bc I was either used as a transphobes excuse/example to be transphobic without my consent and around this time was when it was thought that people were transitioning for attention/de-transitioning meant you were attention seeking, or at leasts thats what I experienced from my family). Had I not had the support and therapy I had I wouldn't have felt supported enough to de-transition and not feel trapped in my decision to identify as male. It may have became 'too late' for me when I realized if I fully transitioned that that wasn't 'me'. Just like the girl in the video tho I support trans people, I have seen their struggles up close being in the community, but I have seen and heard of what happens to those of us who 'slip' thru the cracks and transition without properly checking.
Why someone should be trans?🙄
A. Week. Later…….approved for SURGERY AFTER A HALF AN HOUR…..are you SERIOUS? Come on America…this ain’t right
This is woke America. So desperate to be "progressive" that we think about nothing else anymore.
Instead of banning abortion, America needs to ban giving children meds for transitions and surgeries.
@@katerinagiannioudi401 Why not both?
This poor girl, simply confused and wondered down the wrong path now has permanent damage to her body. As far as medicine today, she wont get her voice back and that alone is devastating, from this clip we don't know what else she could be dealing with. I hope more information is available to children because this world is getting really confusing.
It looks like she has a big wide neck like a man (which you can see she didn't have in her pre-transition photos). Hopefully there's a way her neck can be made thinner to look more feminine.
Is it because the opening on voice box closes permanently smaller?
Protect your children at all cost, don't let them take bad directions, a proper strong education can easly avoid all of this stuff.
Testosterone therapy causes a permanent thickening of the larynx and vocal cords, she’d have to get a tracheal shave to reverse it. ☹️
This person needs to be seen more, it would help with all the mistakes that are about to happen. I bet this person is going to be canceled for telling the truth.
@@siennad587 when I said seen more I didn’t mean by me because I could really care less for these people and I’m sick of hearing about there “rights” because this is all a joke. I’m just saying it’s nice to hear these incredibly annoying people finally hear the truth from someone who already screwed themselves up.
how would you know that this is the throuth? How about putting detransitioning into proportion with transitioning to give a fair representation? Thats why I request this video to be deleted
@@patrick5301 puberty blockers have been found to cause bone density issues and 3 out of 4 children who question their gender will outgrow it. but because of the affirmative care model, all four of those children will be put on dangerous drugs. this isn't about being trans. this is about protecting the children from themselves. children cannot consent.
She says it exactly right; you need to get the right therapy for these types of decisions. I am a trans woman. I had two years of intensive therapy before I was even allowed to take hormones. In the Netherlands, where I come from, this is much stricter. We also had the first gender clinic in the world. We are the founders. Our doctors have spread their knowledge all over the world, unfortunately not every clinic has the same strict rules
I thought Germany had the first one?
She has no reason to lie! And she deserves every credit for speaking the truth!
Let her story, and the mistake that she narrowly avoided making, serve as a
warning!!
This is awfully awfully sad. Children cannot be allowed to make these decisions.
I found this girl on YT last week.... she has been my hero, ever since.
You want beautiful, brave, intellectual honesty?
There's your girl!
oh do something really unbelievably stupid and then tell everybody about it, what a genius, and a hero to even bigger idiots than her!
If she was beautiful, brave and honest it wouldn't have happened.
hahaha true@@SuperBingo96
This is your hero??? Wow people have tremendously low standards these days. sick.
@@Thirdplace4life get mental help nut job =]
If I didn't want a medical procedure, I would simply not lie to the doctors about wanting it.
Thank you for opening up! People need to hear your story! You could be a big part of this!
I think a big thing now in the medical world is doctors let patients self-diagnose themselves on anything without them doing any testing or their JOB to figure out what’s really wrong with you before moving forward. They’re lazy and incompetent and it’s scary to witness when you’re actually mentally or physically ill and are unable to get the help you need. I don’t think many doctors care, they’ll just prescribe whatever you want. Maybe it’s new laws or regulations but it should be fixed.
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Doctors dont become doctors to help people. They become doctors to make more money and have the bonus of being able to pretend like they chose to do it to help people.
I think maybe it's not that they don't care, I think it's because they'll lose their jobs, the patient could sue and call them transphobic for not affirming.
I don't think they are lazy. They are scared of being canceled basically by a group of people that don't want to accept facts or don't want to be told their wrong. Try having your career you worked for be put in jeopardy because you didn't affirm someone's mental health issues to their liking instead of giving your professional opinion.
it's called the affirmative care model. and it's affecting the rate of detransition in the UK already so severely that they shut down their biggest gender care facility. well that and the fact that puberty blockers were found to affect bone density.
This is why we need to really talk about such things first before certain steps are taken and are unable to turn back.
You are brave. God bless you! Many young people are affected by bad media, bad education. I am so glad that you are back as a pretty girl
thank you for giving her a voice these stories need to be heard ❤️
Testosterone contributed to that voice
With that voice we be better off if they didn't give her one
@@allenhaywood9608 Testosterone permanently lowers a female's voice. It is irreversible without surgery.
Why are women so mentally unstable?
Meaning most of the people who identify as trans are women. And most who detrans are women.
It is women who are supporting this movement.
Makes no sense.
Tiktok has women self diagnosing themselves with autism & whatever else.
Someone needs to explain why.
i really hope she finds true happiness. i feel bad she had to go through all that just cause people who were supposed to help her didn't help her.
She drtransitionedd into one of the prettiest girls I ever seen
She's really beautiful. She has a TH-cam channel too. She kinda dislikes the voice she got and at times she mocks it singing very manly songs in her channel.
@@monikam9069 I think she may recover her voice, but it takes time. She's already improved by now.
@@marialeon6765 yeah salty alty is the channel name, incredibly hot as female.
@@marialeon6765 is it really possible to get thinner vocal cords back? I assumed that once you get thicker vocal cords it just stays that way. Reason I assumed that is I've never encountered anyone whose voice gets a chest voice that is higher pitched as they age and usually the other way around where their chest voice gets deeper as they age because vocal cords tend to thicken very gradually as we age.
@@idunusegoogleplus I think it's more like they learn to modulate.
Mutilating healthy organs of young and confused person just for money is pure evil
Which has nothing to do with it at all -- she never had any surgery and evaded all therapy in the first place. Money has no more to do with it than does any other health care.
What a beautiful woman, glad she found herself and decided to stay that way.
I can respect that.. leave 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️ and come to the Straight path
There's nothing wrong with being gay or trans. What matters is your heart and who u are as a person.
@@abbirezac1982 what matters and what's discussed here is not to be irrational and make life changing decisions on a whim, actually.
Both of you are wrong, it's not so political.
This 20 years ago was a mental illness and now it has been turned into a trend
@@HK00088u sound dumb lol
Thank you Salty for speaking up and sharing your experince on a bigger platform. Hope you are adjusting well.
I sent another video like this (another de transition on Dr Phil or another show) to my ex friend who called me transphobic because I said kids should not be given hormones or allowed surgery to transition. She blocked me. I said this after her brother came out as trans and their parents immediately gave him hormone blockers at 13. It’s been 4 years and he is currently detransitioning now. I think this is a very serious issue but I’m so glad I was right.
*EDIT:* Just to be clear, I am not transphobic. I know trans people exist and I want them to get the help they need (if it’s help with transitioning or anything else) but I do have a problem with kids being allowed to transition. With how common and normal it is to question and have phases, kids will be in more danger of becoming a detransitioner if they are allowed to transition so easily. I’m bisexual and polyamorous, I obviously questioned my own gender too and found that I’m lucky to be cis. I’m scared of what could of happened if I told someone I was questioning my gender and they did what these people are doing and handed be T or something.
Damn did she ever apologize or admit to being wrong?
I think it's important to let young adults and teens make the choice themselves, and support them if they detransition later or not. The most important thing is to support them regardless of their choice. Sounds like your friend blocked you because you don't think children should have a choice, and they absolutely should.
@@ms.holden1821support them regardless of their choice? Do you even realize that kids don't really understand or informed about the permanent damage and suffering they possibly have to go through? Dilating themselves for life? Suppressed attraction toward the opposite gender cause the other person sees them as the same gender? Permanently have no sexual satisfaction whatsoever? Can you see how serious it can be? It's people like you who ruins the life of their own children, thinking "oh I'm a cool, supportive and understanding parent". It's them who's going to feel all those pain later on just because you failed as a parent.
Wow
Sound like a good idea! Next time my little sister wants to run across a busy street without checking it before I will respect her choice. Sounds reasonable enough
Yes! I do have a question for you Dr. Phil : What's the point of those ridiculously big and tall chairs????? I've seen so many talk shows with the most uncomfortable chairs, stools etc. but these ones take the cake.
😂😂😂 your comment wins
You’re easier to manipulate and intimidate when you’re uncomfortable. This is deliberate. 🤷🏻♀️
They do look ridiculous, but assumed it might be so audience or cameras get a clear view of the guests, although not many other shows have to do something that strange.
They want people to be uncomfortable. You are more alert that way....NO sleeping on the show!!! 😂
😆😆😆 Thanks, I went back and watched and they totally are. I hadn't even noticed
I'm so thankful for this woman speaking out. I have started to see more and more of these stories from people. There is an interview with a man who transitioned into a woman and is trying to RE-transition back into a man on the channel Soft White Underbelly. The person they interviewed on there said almost exactly what this woman is saying.
There is also something called affirmation therapy, meaning that therapists and doctors aren't allowed to talk you "out of" the idea of transitioning because it would be considered hate speech/transphobic. This is really messed up and I hope more people get as much (real!!) pre-operative information before taking anything like hormones or surgery.
I have detransitioned.
I got my mastectomy and I have a voice just like hers.
I transitioned and told my psychologist and doctor that I was male..not realizing what I was doing. It didn't come up why I was doing it until I've already changed my name and lived as a man for 10 years.
I transitioned in order to stop men from touching me. My history of sexual assault as a child was too much to handle that I suppressed it and it didn't come up until my early 30's with nightmares and night terrors.
I went so far with this and convinced all of my family members and friends that I was male that I feel I can't go back.
Maybe I was just a tomboy. Maybe I was a girl who would do anything to stop being SA'd and stop being the one who was submissive.
I was raised by a father who never valued me and always saw me as this inferior submissive thing that I hated the idea that it was all I was in society; a submissive female under the thumb of men who always got to be better than me, treated better than me.
That's why I did it....and I deeply regret it. I ruined my life.
Was about to transition too with the same reasoning you had but I didn't realize it back then. I just wanted to be a boy because I hated the idea about the stereotypical woman because I didn't fit the box. I also was SA'd as a child. Now I realize why I felt that way. I'm just glad I decided not to go through transitioning. I would've regretted it.
Bless you, I’m so sorry for the trauma you’ve endured. I can only assume that the TRAs shunned you for detransitioning, but people like myself would never judge you for these complicated emotions, and the complex trauma you’ve stated. Sending love you, and I hope you get the support you deserve. ❤
I wanted to like to this comment to show my support, but I just want to send you love right now ♥️ thank you for even sharing this! I pray the latter days off your life are better than the former and you find stability in life even with your regret.
Social worker in a school here. In my expirience it is 4 out of 5 girls who claim to be trans but in reality have the same history of SA you described. After one year of talking to me and therapists almost all of them go back to being female. That's why in my country you have to do a lot of psychological tests before you can even consider a full transition.
@@spiderseatbaby3692 this is how it ought to be! May I ask which country you are from? The UK could learn a lot from you.
You can change your body all you want, but if your mind is still the same, nothing inside you really changes.
Proud of you for telling your story!
I wish deep therapy is a requirement if you want to transition and they should be approved by multiple therapists. I feel like in this day and age, if you deny people and tell them your doubts, they will automatically label you as homophobic or transphobic and it puts pressure on the medical system.
I think a lot of people feel like her. I once knew a gay guy and even in his 30s he was still going back and forth about whether he wanted to take hormones and have a gender change, then other days (most days) he was happy being a gay male. He never did take hormones or have surgery. He's R.I.P. now.
Bravo for speaking out. This is very serious issue and more support ought to be provided to the individual with this problem before choosing surgery as an option for the cure?
We need to push out these stories. You could be saving someone
1% of trans people ever regret transitioning. That is a staggeringly high success rate. People who want to transition should be allowed to do so as it lowers their rate of suicide substantially.
Beautiful woman, she dodged a bullet. She literally avoided a life of despair.
Facts. It would be quite sad if she didn't pass her genetics.
Some damage has already been done though, she's expressed sadness about the pitch of her voice going down a couple of times on her channel. And that doesn't go away. Not saying it's as bad as having gone through with some surgeries, but it just proves that none of this is really reversible.
@@lorena5mash
I also heard that puberty blockers and hormones can cause sterilization.
@@russellmania5349 I have no idea about that but it wouldn't surprise me at all. I find it baffling how easily professionals can give these medications to young people without fully knowing the extent of the effects it will have on them long term.
@@lorena5mashThe idiot professionals are just making easy money off of them and they know the person has some sort of condition of the mind and that transgenderism isn't a real thing.
Haven't tuned in with Ryan for a while but am a subscriber of her channel. Much respect for her sharing her journey. ❤
YES SEE A THERAPIST. THATS ALL I ASK FOR!! im transgendered & saw a therapist before I started hormones. I have NO HATE for people de-transitioning...but goes to show...you NEVER saw a therapist before starting hormones. I agree with the laws forcing the youth / adults to see a therapist before starting hormones
What therapists can you even trust anymore?
@@tashaadolph677 that is a very true statement. I just know I don't regret my transition and I don't regret any of my surgeries and I am living my best life and I am truly happy. Even if in the eyes of a religious cult tells me I'm living my life wrong, I'm living my best happiest life
@@Genielampsun and they all got rich off of your mental illnesses.
@@Genielampsunyou may be living your best life now. You ever think about what is after life? What will your response be when we meet our maker? When he asks why you felt the need to change how he perfectly made you?
@@Genielampsun the cult tells you you're happy.
Nothing wrong with having therapy first. What’s the worst that could happen , that it could help. Some will still want to transition but many will realise upon speaking to someone that it is actually something else.
Being medically responsible is not being transphobic
I worked with a women whose 16 year old daughter wanted to transition to a male. After court costs, changing her name legally and her parents paying for a lawyer she changed her mind. No kidding, she wad too young to make a decision like that
It's great that this show is touching this matter.
Absolute queen. People need THERAPY FIRST.
She's a beautiful woman. Sometimes in life, you don't have to go beyond boundaries. Sometimes, searching what completes you might already is within there, you just have to open your eyes.
Beautiful makeup and cosmetic adjustments, haha. Looks a cosplayer.
@@gamesps9562Okay,and? At least she’s trying the effort to look like a woman again. 💀
Kids should not be able to do this. Period.
The minimum age should be 26. When they can't rely on their parents insurance anymore
I think the only way this will stop is if these individuals who regret doing this lawyer up and sue. The more doctors who get sued. The less this will happen without intensive psychological analysis to make sure this is really the best thing for them
Thank you so much for sharing your story! You make such sound points and it's such a necessary conversation. There are adults that are being fast tracked and kids whose futures depend on these conversations. Thank you! No hate here for anyone. These are big decisions!
I too was convinced that I was non binary in my late teens and early 20s but being from a conservative family and not being from the west, I didn't do any medical or social transitioning. I did come out to some family members. I confused my internalized misogyny and trauma that made me feel repulsed from being desired by grown men when I was so young as gender dysphoria.
Ok they ( the alphabet and feminist cults) caught you , lost case next 😒
Genuine question: is it possible for her to change her voice back? Or make it more feminine again?
These doctors should have licenses revoked.
Your voice needs to be heard l.Thank you for speaking up and sharing your story ,I wish you happiness and contentment in your future.
She’s speaking facts!!! 💯
I am entirely against minors transitioning. However, this person was an adult who could have also signed a 6 year contract with the military. Take accountability for your actions.
She's beautiful as a woman she truly is
Right
Now she's like a transwoman 😅
Kudos! This beautiful, young lady actually makes sense. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Thank you for speaking up about your experience. We all applaud your strength and wish you all the best ❤️
She talks about it like it's kind of sad that she was able to get hormones so quickly, but ultimately it's pretty good for doctors to just do this without having to scrutinize a person up and down because there are nonbinary people without gender dysphoria that just want a bit of a different body. Hormone replacement therapy can help if a nonbinary person wants to undergo a little bit of feminization
She is so brave for speaking about this on live TV. The sad reality is there's many more cases like this than is reported, and many de-transitioners are embarrassed, ashamed, or afraid of being Epsteined if they dare speak out against this sick narrative being shoved in our faces. I respect the LGBT community, but the reality is, adolescence is a very weird time for childhood as many changes are happening as they mature into adulthood, and they are not mentally capable of making decisions that can affect them for the rest of their lives.
LGB has nothing to do with this. Why do you drag LGB into this?
I think that as a culture, we need to normalize therapy in general. Too often, I see people view therapy as something negative, or that's only a thing you do if there's something wrong with you. Therapy can help everyone, whether it's something small or something traumatic.
thank you for coming forward
The same thing happened to me! Now I have been living completely openly transgender for years and when I went into my doctor after a few years of living as a woman my doctor spoke to me for about 20 minutes and immediately threw hormones at me without any other questioning. I thought it would take at least a few months of multiple appointments for him to agree and approve me for hormones but it seemed like he just wanted to throw the hormones at me and get me out of his office. It is way too easy to get on these hormones and way too easy to get these surgeries. There needs to be better care and more investigations done by doctors and therapists before these things are pushed forward.
I’m proud that you broke free from that dangerous world. You’re a beautiful woman ❤
yeah she kinda looks like avril lavigne in some how so pretty..
@@IkeamarcosGarnado-gd7xishe looks like a princess Disney character to me lol❤
She was so sure then and no one opposed her decision. Regret is a scary thing.
I saw this girl on her TH-cam channel. So glad she is speaking out.
What is her Yt channel please?
This is a really good lesson for everyone who may be asking these questions, therapy is so so important. It makes the person who might want to transition ask the important questions to make sure they make the right choice.
Transphobia is perfectly ok
It's not fear. It's disgust