Can flip phones end our social media addiction? | Collin Kartchner | TEDxSaltLakeCity
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ธ.ค. 2018
- "Collin Kartchner is on a mission to save the kids. That starts with exposing the dirty underbelly of social media and how it increases anxiety for children and parents alike.
About the speaker:
Collin Kartchner, founder of Save the Kids, is a social activist spreading education and awareness on the negative effects of social media and screen addiction." Collin Kartchner is a local internet crusader, youth advocate, and social activist spreading education and awareness on the negative effects of social media and screen addiction on our mental and emotional health. In 2017, Collin started a parody Instagram account where he posed as a social media influencer obsessed with fame, likes, diet soda, plastic surgery, and used humor to shed light on how Instagram influencers perpetuate a culture of toxic perfectionism. His account grew to over 60,000 dedicated followers and he now travels across the state and country speaking to teens, parents, educators, and communities about how social media, specifically the correlation between teen social media and screen-time addiction and the epidemic spike in teen anxiety, depression, and suicide. Collin started a nationwide movement to #SavetheKids and #SavetheParents. Collin and his wife, Liz, live in Pleasant Grove with their unplugged 4 kids and an enormous dog, Tuque. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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This reminded me of once, I was eating by myself in a McDonalds and right next to me there were a father and her daughter. The father DID NOT EVEN TAKE HIS EYES OFF THE PHONE in like 25 minutes. LITERALLY. The poor child was about 5 yo, super cute, eating, and checking out her happy meal toy.
After those approx. 25 minutes, the dad finally stopped using his phone, and guys, I can't describe the face of that little girl. The joy in his face when her dad finally engaged and talked to her. I'm about to cry just remembering it. Society is addicted to a drug and we are not even aware. And kids know.
cell phones the one world drug.
He passed away today. :(
Thank you Collin for fighting for kids.
His wife hasn't shared yet why he died, but it was a natural death, she mentioned.
This is so sad, i come back and watch this video every once in a while and this is the first i've read the comments. RIP
Wow, he was young but he really made a difference in his own family's life and in other families' lives with this message.
It consumes your life. You want to be productive, you want to become successful but as soon as you touch the phone you are hooked and can’t let go.
He came to my school a while back, and it was the best thing ever. Rest in peace Collin, and may your legacy live on.
He did the same for me and, even though it took me a year, it was the first things I ever needed to hear. I am glad that his message reached more people than just me.
This needs a different title...it’s about so much more than flip phones. It’s about saving this generation from the horrors of social media. It’s about being GOOD humans.
Heather Schraedel You’re totally right.
Use social media=you're a bad person
Eat your cereal
Completely agree...it's a clickbait title to spread the good news ;)
Flip-phones are a large part of the solution though. Many parents will be too anxious to take away smartphones from their children if there is no alternative way to communicate
Rip. The world needed you. May we endeavor to keep your legacy.
I like that challenge: Never let your children see you on your smartphone. That's the childhood I had, and it was wonderful. That's the adolescence I had, and it was hard enough without being worse. I want the same for my kids.
Can’t help feeling guilty for watching this on my iPhone
Felix Lam pretend you are in the crowd, no different.
“I handed my daughter a loaded gun and did not teach her how to use it” *Collin says in his head “What? Why would you give your daughter a loaded gun?” The mother then pulls out a phone and repeats what she just said.* “I handed my daughter a loaded gun and did not teach her how to use it.”
-What a mother said to Collin that then he said during his talks at schools.
Flip phones are a good idea to end social media addiction 100%.
ive had one for 2 years its pretty rad
He came to my school, best thing of my life. Made me cry.. I could never have asked for something better in my life
same he died like 3 days ago, exactly two weeks after he came to my school. it really changed my life and made me feel like i had a purpose :((
@@syd6909 omg... that makes me really sad. you are so worth it.
Rest In Peace Collin. You will truly be missed. 🙏
Collin Kartchner came to my school. I'm in sixth grade. He made me cry and made me appreciate how my mom refuses to give me a phone or social media. Thank you, Collin!
Today he talked to our school and many kids were left in tears. One of our teaches who had been teaching for 35 years said that it was one of the best assembly's ever. I'm only 13 and I actually paid attention instead of going on my phone like most kids do. I related to many things he said. I loved how he was funny. And I wish he could come back again. Never before have I actually enjoyed an assembly. I always talk to friends, zone out, go on my phone, ect. I only have 1 social media platform. So idk how it is to have Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook but all ik is that Snapchat is enough for me. Just thought he was wonderful and actually taught me something that will stick with me.
I’m 14 and I love this. I just wish that everyone my age could hear this. Me and my peers have so much more to live for than phones! Its scary growing up in this world as a teen... but this gives me hope.
He changed my life. Thank you for the impact you’ve made on so many. RIP Collin
I love all the comments from the kids! You all are our future leaders, be the change you want to see.
I'm 25 years old.and I went back to my Motorola razr. Deleted all social media and just use my laptop to check emails. These smart phones spy on you listen to you and feed you advertisements all day. So glad to get rid of it.
Collin opened my eyes. If my mom is not willing to fight her addiction then I will do it, for my little sister. Thank you 🙏
Oh, please change the title of this Ted talk! I saw it more than once and didn't watch it due to the title. But a friend shared it today and I am so moved. This is about so much more than flip phones. Thanks, Collin
What do you think the title should be?
Many parents don't want to confront their emotions so they use social media and scroll to avoid it. -says a parent who has done so
This guy talked at my school. He’s funny and just seems like a great personality.
Chopstiks same I volunteered and got to hug him for 8 seconds
I use a flip phone. My mental state has improved substantially. I had never realized that social media and smart phones had been a severe detriment to my mental health.
Exactly!!This month i am going out only with the flip phone and i feel like a child again.All day out without social media in my pocket
This guy spoke at my school, he's amazing. Our middle school has a new rule with no cell phones and I feel much safer without having to worry about my every move being recorded. Also kudos to him bevause it's hard to have a good presentation for middle schoolers
Nice
Social media must be held accountable, for the Thousands of young lives that have been lost to it. History will look back at this moment in time the same way we looked at people believing smoking was healthy in the 50's. WE MUST DO BETTER!!
Rest in peace, Collin Kartchner! You influenced so many lives and touched many hearts!!
Your legacy will live on Collin. Thank you for teaching us to live beyond our phones. You will not be forgotten
Thank you so much for spreading the truth about smart phones Collin. Your message has impacted so many teens around the country and around the world. RIP friend and may your legacy live on
Rest in peace collin. You saved my life a few years ago, but I'm sorry i couldn't save yours. Fly high 🕊
He came to my school today and his speech was AMAZING!
Me too😃
I cannot express how much this talk means to me, as a mother. Thank you!
As a teenager, I can really relate with what he said. I'm so glad my parents aren't on their phones 24/7 and I'm so glad they taught me what I know about my self-worth before giving me a phone. Still, it was rough dealing with drama on social media. I'm so glad I was lucky enough to become a part of an online community that supported positivity and taking care of yourself. I completely agree with everything he's said - though I've found great online friends, I need to love my irl ones more. I dont want to end up as the kind of parent who values their phone over their children or friends. It's so sad to see kids who are depressed or suicidal and only have social media to depend on for help, and sometimes help isnt there. Thank you so much for giving this talk, it's really helped me check myself and my choices.
I'm so sad to hear about Collin's death. Collin, your legacy will continue on. Thank you for your honest approach and inspiration. You will be missed. Endless Hugs for Liz and the kids. I'm so sad to hear these tragic news. You're forever loved.
Thank you. Just thank you for spreading awareness. I have sent this to some of my friends, thank you for coming to schools. People just don't realize how bad it is. Thank you.
Man.....Those of us who grew up before social media, had it so great. Smart phones and social media has ruined society and our children.
Such a great presentation. Really hit a chord. He and his inspiration will be greatly missed in this world. 40 is too young to die. How nice that he was present at home with his family and not on his phone. They will at least have those memories of him. RIP Collin .
Late reply, I know. But, how did he die? Or do you know how he died? That's heartbreaking!
@@justinnaramor6050he passed away unexpectedly of natural causes. He was only 40 years old when he died (in 2020)
@@jessicakraus4983 Oh my goodness! That's sad. Especially because it was so unexpected.
Thanks for the quick reply :)
Anyone here after this amazing man has passed?
This guy gave a talk at my school
Me too
Same
Same phone addiction gang
Same here.
Me too
Hands down, one of the best TED Talks and videos I've ever watched on TH-cam. Thank you Collin. Thank you Tedx.
This is absolutely correct. We need to listen to this and we need to make changes for the sake of our children and ourselves. I hope you continue to speak to everyone you get a chance too. This is literally a Life Saving Message. Little did I know until just now that Collin died at age 40 of natural causes, possibly an aneurysm not verified. How tragic for his family and children. What an awesome father he had to be and husband. RIP and prayers for his family that they are doing well.
I stood and clapped just right at the end...Huge respect 😊
Collin I salute you and your crusade as you save the kids. Thanks for your message.
THIS IS SO GOOD! This needs to be said from every platform for everyone to hear!
I've had anxiety and depression even before smart phones. So I learned quickly to avoid most social media platforms. I have Facebook to stay connected to family and TH-cam to watch funny and educational videos or to listen to music while I color or do other things. I've learned to be a responsible user... well, most of the time. My mental issues stem from good old fashioned neuroses. Yay?
All parents and children should watch this video.
Bless you Collin!!! We are better because of you!! We are praying for those you left behind.💔🙏🏻
Saw him talk live and he was so amazing!!! Such a good message. Thank you for sharing!!!!!
My Heart ❤️ goes out to his family. Thank you for your great talks. You will be remembered. Rest In Peace.
You are just awesome Collin. thank you for sharing what we all need to hear!
Thank you, Collin, for ALL that you are doing! This is a hard message to hear because many parents/guardians feel guilty. I remind them... "You can't change what you don't acknowledge AND you certainly can't change what you don't know!" Now, they know. It's NEVER too late to change.
This guy was soooooo good. He went to my high school a couple months ago and I enjoyed the whole presentation.
Thank you for trying to make a difference. People want it to change, yet don't do anything about it. You really changed me and motivated me to not harm myself at my school.
Thank you for addressing the issue our society is too scared to talk about!
ok but this was beautiful and I'm just like tearing up right now -
it deserves so much more recognition!
I wish I could rate this as most favorite ted talk ever! I want to go completely offline/no tv no computer just a flip phone once I get done with grad school 😁
You can do it!!
I attended one of Collin's events in October. It was an absolutely amazing and life-changing experience. I love his message and continue to support it. Keep it going, Collin!
Wow! It sounds like that must have been a lot fun. Wish I was there!
This guy came to my school and taught me alot about social media
this is so true. i’m 14 and can agree with most of this. it IS an addiction. it’s the same neurological problem as to other addictions. i spend way to much time on my phone and i feel unsafe without it. i have anxiety attacks when i’m not close to my phone and i hate it. i want a flip phone because my phone is ruining my life. i want to have memories of my teenage years having sleepovers not scrolling through instagram. i simply want to live a life without my phone. i’ve tried deleting all the apps but what’s the point? i always download them back. it’s ruining my school, social and future life. procrastinating big projects or work that needs to be done is too easy and i cannot imagine all the time i’ve spent on social media. i want to have memories of talking to my crush, not texting and stalking them. my phone has ruined my grades over time and i hate it. im very grateful to have parents that don’t have social media because they are rarely on their phone. but because they are so clueless they never protected me from the dark sides of my phone. i’ve lost my innocence and i want it back. i’m scared my phone is ruining my life. and i want it to stop
Thank you, Collin...your insight is invaluable...even to us as grandparents!!!
Excellent Ted Talk. Every parent should see this.
Omg he went to my school a year ago and now I'm so shocked and sad because his speech was amazing and I've learned to not think I have to be perfect,😢 rest in peace collin love ya!
This was the best ted talk i've seen
Rest In Peace Collin. You have saved so many and helped me prepare to keep my future children safe. Thank you for all you’ve done.
RIP Collin. Thank you for spreading this message.
Being a kid is hard enough as it is these days. Thank you Collin! You da real MVP.
Thank you for everything Collin, your legacy will live on. You will be dearly missed.
you touched on many tender places. Today I bought a 'flip phone' after three years of struggle on a 'smart' phone. I probably am addicted to youtube in these 'covid' times. I remember my son in earlier years and knowing that something was wrong in the way I parented...found a super reading 'PET Parent effectiveness Training' and got some hints about better ways of being and communicating. it's been quite a journey, more focused on looking inside myself and growing better ( I hope). I feel more real with my son today and with myself. He's56, I'm 84. Thank you for caring and sharing the good stuff. Frances Pizzino still growing and painting pretty pictures.
*This guy came to my school today and was AMAZING!!!!*
I started following Collin on Instagram several months ago and because of it I regularly delete Facebook and Instagram and have someone change my passwords. I'll take at least a few weeks at a time to take a break. Of course there are positives to having social media which is why I don't delete my accounts all together.
But because I broke my social media addiction, for the first time in my life, and as a college student I might add, I got straight A's. I'm happier when I'm cut off of social media. I'm more productive. I'm more compassionate. I do more stuff like working out, reading, hanging out with friends, and writing music. People who didn't grow up with social media can't know what it does to us who did. Thanks Collin for the awesome message you're sharing.
You will be greatly missed Collin
Thank you, Collin. Just thank you.
Genuinely brought tears to my eyes, what a powerful talk! As a paediatrician, this hit close to home with the number of children who are attending hospital with attempted suicide, deliberate self harm and overdoses. Removing smartphones or barring children from social media may not solve every problem but it's a start
where?
@@healtheworld6014 the UK
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@@MrAliMcB wow!
R.I.P Collin thank you for teaching us about how dangerous cell phones are and thanks for saving me from harm. We will miss you❤️
So grateful for Colin's crusade!
This story has me in tears. Thank you!
Thank you Collin for all you are doing and saying!!!
We need to all work to continue his work. Rest in peace man
Very inspirational. This makes me want social media even less then I already did!
This guy came too my school today and it was amazing. It was the best school assembly ive ever went. He is really good at talking too middle school kids 😂. It was very inspirational and made me want to stop using my phone. Also today I hugged all my friends for 8 seconds.
I am quitting smart phone today. You will live in our hearts, Collin.
Wow this is mind blowing. This needs to be heard by the whole planet.
The volume on this video is too quiet. I am trying to project it to my middle school class but the sound isn't good. The other videos are fine, but not this one.
Must have been just your equipment. Works totally fine for me.
yup, too quiet
Collin needs to be a millionar. He speaks the true words that we need to here! He spoke at my school today and you could feel everyone feeling a little bit better then themselves! All you need to do is what he says I think it can change our lives forever!!
RIP Collin. You made a big impact for the better!!!
AMAZING AND GREAT MESSAGE!
Thank you, Collin! May you R.I.P
Living by example will convince and influence more people and your children more than you could try otherwise.
He gave a talk at my school and made everyone hug each other for 8 seconds.
Collin is a great speaker. Just saw him at Bingham High last night...amaze sauce!
Thank you Collin!
Rest In Peace Collin! You were a true hero.
Aamzing talk ! Important ! Thanks !
R.I.P our Angel🙏🌺♥️ The Lopez’s Love you🌺
awesome presentation and message!
Rest In Peace. Your light will live on
Love this message.
This guy just talked at my school. He was amazing
He just talked at my school and it was great
Thank you Colin. You helped me a lot.
What an excellent talk..