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  • @bgc2997
    @bgc2997 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Petition for Hayden to continue being in his vlogging era

    • @chandlerainsley
      @chandlerainsley  ปีที่แล้ว +46

      lmaoooo. i have some plans for him for november at the very least

    • @mariaklein9442
      @mariaklein9442 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is so much fun ! ❤

  • @KitKatSam27
    @KitKatSam27 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I actually really enjoyed this style of vlogging! I think it would be cute to have a mixture of both individual clips and group clips on the next one!! Also the chaos of the cats all throughout this video had be dead 😂

  • @Maddielovergirl
    @Maddielovergirl ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I read the title and automatically knew this would be chaotic

  • @charlottewells
    @charlottewells ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I love how you guys are just so comfortable talking about alien smut together on camera😂

  • @nelizao
    @nelizao ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I'm loving the back and forth editing it flows so well

  • @Ale-kg8rr
    @Ale-kg8rr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE this Haden vlog style so much

  • @HaleyJeanASMR
    @HaleyJeanASMR ปีที่แล้ว +12

    oh this is icon behavior!!!!
    “they just want to ooga booga, beat people over the head, and get you food” 😭😭😭😭

  • @ashtonreads
    @ashtonreads ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I love that Hayden reads these books and is now vlogging! I'd be curious to know what he thinks of an author like Grace Draven, since she writes romance but also some great fantasy worlds and her books aren't super long.

    • @chandlerainsley
      @chandlerainsley  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      oo that would be fun!!

    • @kalen9395
      @kalen9395 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I second Grace Draven here!! Specifically Radiance - it’s also sci fi but definitely more ‘civilized’ than IPB so you guys might definitely enjoy it more. Plus it’s got some hilarious chemistry because both main characters start off thinking each other look just absolutely HORRIFYING! 😂❤ but I def love GD’s writing with my whole heart

  • @Amanda-qt6lc
    @Amanda-qt6lc ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My husband listened to ice planet lover with me. After a spicy scene, he just kind of started at me in disbelief. He said well that was intense 😳🤣. (This was his introduction to "romance")

  • @dianaandthebookhunt
    @dianaandthebookhunt ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Oh, I can picture you two doing this back and forth vlogging for Morning Glory Milking Farm 😅. That would be a prime time post right here. I know when I read it my face contortated many ways over, but I still somehow liked it, which is weird... how amazing would it be for a man to read it and see their expressions 😅?!

    • @chandlerainsley
      @chandlerainsley  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      OH MY GOD we have to do it

    • @ninjaturtles12121
      @ninjaturtles12121 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chandlerainsley the second book imo is better!!! mothman 👀

  • @kyestrella
    @kyestrella ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “a little lower on the evolutionary totem pole, if you will” 💀💀💀

  • @AliT857
    @AliT857 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love this style of DBBC!!!
    The consent in this IPB book in particular is iffy. Especially the poor girl running out into the snow after the assault! But Chan explains the attraction of monster and alien romance perfectly.

  • @mammamonssterr
    @mammamonssterr ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I find it so cute that you guys have the same humor. And I loved that Hayden talked about consent, and you knew he was going to mention it. This is really out of the blue but I think you guys should read Six of Crows, it's a book that Hayden maybe could enjoy (it has the heist and everything, it gets you hooked) and you said in a vlog that you were thinking about re-reading it. I loved this video and the editing was 😘🤌🏻

  • @heathrdarling
    @heathrdarling ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Okay I'm obsessed with this format!!! Like yes more of this please! It's giving reality tv confessional vibes lol

    • @heathrdarling
      @heathrdarling ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also Haden, King of Consent 🙌

  • @o0BlackSand0o
    @o0BlackSand0o ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seeing Hayden's opinions in real time is nice since sometimes he forgets things when you two are sitting together so maybe a little of both formats wouldn't be a bad move. Vlog moments that can then be added in to the sit down discussion for more context, abd you can do it for both of you even

  • @anandsuresh6421
    @anandsuresh6421 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hayden's earrings look so good goddamn serve boy!!!

    • @anandsuresh6421
      @anandsuresh6421 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Also god the editing/cuts between you too are so great

  • @smmazz9
    @smmazz9 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    "Oh no! Coochie" Only 3 minutes in and I'm DYING lol

  • @lmf221
    @lmf221 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hayden pointing out consent is a green flag in all of these is super green flags so props to you ma'am. The fact he listened to the audiobook had me DYING. I love that he likes the sci-fi story lore haha.
    Noncon or dubcon is really only ok for me in these kinds of "fated mates" tropes. I eat that shit up. Give me a man that can't help but love me and protect me with his life *jots down notes for therapist*

  • @bugwandis
    @bugwandis ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hayden looking confused about things that happened amused me.

  • @oliviareadsalatte
    @oliviareadsalatte ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Okay this format is literally perfection. I love this vlogging era 🫶🏻

    • @oliviareadsalatte
      @oliviareadsalatte ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “Southern lady from florida” I’m cackling at the distinction 🤣

  • @carolineblueskies
    @carolineblueskies ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all’s commentary always gets me 😂 I had fun with the vlog format but also appreciate when you discuss the book together

  • @thebookishjulie
    @thebookishjulie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved the vlogging! But I also really enjoy the both of you together, the humor is just *chefs kiss*. And I get that editing can be exhausting sometimes 🥲

  • @ZephyrChaosRyder
    @ZephyrChaosRyder ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg please do more of these where hayden reads more smut with you i’m obsessed

  • @4SuperPark
    @4SuperPark ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FINLAY DONOVAN IS KILLING IT. I wanna see his reaction 😂

  • @BookswithBryn
    @BookswithBryn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A mix of DBBC and vlogging??? We love to see it

  • @charmtaduran
    @charmtaduran ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so fun to watch! would love to watch more of these!!

  • @kahvikamu
    @kahvikamu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The editing! The way you put all these clips together!! *chef's kiss*

  • @Raedrie
    @Raedrie ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love when Hayden casually roasts romance novels lol

  • @livslibrary
    @livslibrary ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baby’s first vlog. I love this so much! 🥹👏🏻

  • @Dcong16
    @Dcong16 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Screaming at Hayden’s description of the anatomy😂

  • @adsl-b6325
    @adsl-b6325 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the format of this video is literally everything

  • @annah5838
    @annah5838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chandler! I am just getting around to watching this but I love this style with your husband… More like this!

  • @jamieagnew4044
    @jamieagnew4044 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE this. i'm obsessed

  • @krystinareads
    @krystinareads ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so fun! I love both formats where you sit down or where you vlog. I don't know if you thought about mixing the two? Where you vlog your reading experience and than add on a discussion bit at the end. That way we get both your thoughts and feelings fresh while you're reading the book. Either way, I'm down for whatever 💛

  • @TheSjc8605
    @TheSjc8605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would love to see his take on historical romance

  • @ReadingMissFroggy
    @ReadingMissFroggy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this style of vlogging! Would definitely like to see more if these kinds of videos :)

  • @thedisreputabledog9139
    @thedisreputabledog9139 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Very cute. It was fun to see Hayden.

  • @Leenambw
    @Leenambw ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love watching you guys together ❤

  • @hollycox5534
    @hollycox5534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE this blog format for DBBC!

  • @kacysspace
    @kacysspace ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is the first one of these videos I’ve watched. I’m not even half way through and “Oh no! Coochie!” Is already my favorite thing about it 😂

  • @jessicar2609
    @jessicar2609 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hayden did such a good job on his vlogging portion! I always like hearing his opinion on the books for DBBC, and I liked getting that as he was reading in real time.

  • @julianamendes8802
    @julianamendes8802 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol the fact that you picked this book for Hayden's first vlog, and he went along with it, it's a testament of your relationship! #goals 🤣🤣 This book it's an absolute insane ride for beginners. Edit; So Hayden picked the book... Awesome! 😂😂 I loved this format. More please. 🙏🏽

  • @oliviastewart716
    @oliviastewart716 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your dynamic is so fun - always a joy to watch

  • @eleanorball7906
    @eleanorball7906 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the vlog format!!

  • @sarahp9284
    @sarahp9284 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it would be fun to see you both read a romantic thriller or suspense! This was so fun!

  • @crystalsbookishlife
    @crystalsbookishlife ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Icy and Spicy is the ultimate title for this vlog. And YAY HADEN

  • @ThorWantsAnotherLetter
    @ThorWantsAnotherLetter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved hearing Hayden’s side of things lol

  • @ama991000
    @ama991000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg this was hilarious! More DBBC vlogs please!!

  • @yehandratejada1244
    @yehandratejada1244 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot express how much I’m loving this video

  • @HHHilary
    @HHHilary ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This format was fun!

  • @toasted_.coconut
    @toasted_.coconut ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I read this series during the pandemic. I was impressed with the story and writing.

  • @mollywachtel329
    @mollywachtel329 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this style of video. Hayden had me dying 😂

  • @Dcong16
    @Dcong16 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really liked the format with vlogging! We got to hear reactions in real time which was cool. But I also missed the back and forth yall normally have when discussing a book. Maybe there’s a way to do both? A little bit of vlogging and a shorter than usual convo between you both at the end with some prompts? Not sure if that would be a ton of extra work though

  • @shelbycrobinson
    @shelbycrobinson ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this!!! I haven’t seen the prior format though ❤️ y’all are awesome

  • @hawkeyepierce3810
    @hawkeyepierce3810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is so funny already i love the in between editing! it’s sooo good

  • @AlliyScott
    @AlliyScott ปีที่แล้ว +1

    obsessed with dbbc and also obsessed with big blue aliens 🤌10/10 lmao

  • @clarinetteguerin
    @clarinetteguerin ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so fun! And Hayden did great!

  • @sarareads9185
    @sarareads9185 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would love to see him read the book Radiance. Grace Draven. I think he might enjoy that a lot better because there's a plot and a good relationship between the characters as well as some good smut.

  • @sulareads
    @sulareads ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the DBBC vlogs with you two! Great book pick, you guys had me rolling lol🫶🏼

  • @stephanieann2137
    @stephanieann2137 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He did great. This was fun make this a series

  • @featherwing99
    @featherwing99 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AAA this is so fun!! i hope there's more videos like this planned for the future

  • @elle1192
    @elle1192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I read IPB, the Icehome spinoff, the Corsair Brothers, and the Risdaverse last year. Apparently I'm only ace for humans. Blue people did it for me. 😆

  • @erinfox2671
    @erinfox2671 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed this style of vlog. How about Radiance by Grace Draven next?

  • @xlunadxll
    @xlunadxll ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I already know this is gonna be a banger!! 😂

  • @wandas8540
    @wandas8540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this vlogging style 😍😍

  • @cassiek67
    @cassiek67 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a delight. Y’all are such a cute couple. This made me want to reread the IPB series!

  • @jackielopez9739
    @jackielopez9739 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this style of video. I hope you do more!

  • @ffiontill5924
    @ffiontill5924 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yaaaaay!! So excited for this. Haha only a minute in and enjoying it and smiling. Could I expect anything else when it comes to a new Chandler upload and a dbbc video no less. Sending much love. Thank you for another great vid😂❤ I like new style but I do enjoy the other style with both of you discussing and debriefing your thoughts together🥰

  • @leilanibaby3975
    @leilanibaby3975 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was so fun!

  • @shannonfoster1800
    @shannonfoster1800 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I literally just finished this last night. It was fantastic in the messiest way haha

  • @PurpleKya
    @PurpleKya ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't not like this format but I do think the original format is more fun :) thank you guys both for putting out fun stuff for us :D

  • @virtuallyveronicka
    @virtuallyveronicka ปีที่แล้ว

    Book #2 picks up where this story left off. You get the story of Kira with the ear translator. I agree with many of the points that you both made.

  • @saintklara
    @saintklara ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was really fun!

  • @BOOKishbehavior
    @BOOKishbehavior ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was fun! You guys are so awesome together and hearing your thoughts kind of interwoven together was great. Hayden is really good at this, he definitely should do it more often. 🙌
    I mean, I want nothing to do with this book..."doggystyle when his 'extra piece' hits her in a certain spot..........." I'm good. Really.
    But...lol y'all are amazing!

  • @kalen9395
    @kalen9395 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I definitely commend you guys for trying out Ice Planet Barbarians! I think you guys would like her Corsair series a lot more though! Same humor, a lot more consent, and even better sci-fi world building for Hayden! I am one of those weirdos who does love IPB, but can definitely understand where others might not. However, I think Ruby is an amazing writer and definitely push for people giving her other works a try and her a second chance ❤

  • @emzlittlelibrary
    @emzlittlelibrary ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol IPB was a choice! This was so much fun to watch

  • @thisisabookchannel
    @thisisabookchannel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think IPB was originally written as a serial with chapters released weekly

  • @smmazz9
    @smmazz9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have never clicked on a video so fast!!! Can't wait to see ya'll's thoughts. 🤣🤣

  • @greenlightreads
    @greenlightreads ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Haden’s IPB era

  • @ruffoloreads
    @ruffoloreads ปีที่แล้ว +2

    why was this amazing 🤣🤣🤣

  • @FranFellow731
    @FranFellow731 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You did a GREAT job editing this but I can understand if it’s a little too much to actually have to do it! I’d say the only other thing that could be nice is for you two to read to a certain mark and then film your thoughts so far together instead of separate.

  • @neri1822
    @neri1822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i loved this style of vlogging! but maybe to make it easier for you in terms of editing and for hayden to have someone he speaks to, maybe you guys can have set times to when you update the vlog together? so first 20 percent and then 50 and then 80 or 100 (like you choose the percentages) depending on the book? so you both sit together and talk up until that point!

  • @listenwithprecious
    @listenwithprecious ปีที่แล้ว

    Innkeeper chronicles- great ebook, sci-fi paranormal

  • @ashmosphere
    @ashmosphere ปีที่แล้ว

    i had no idea this book had a plot!

  • @christireadsalot
    @christireadsalot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂 omg I love this so much! 💙

  • @rgrvrrth
    @rgrvrrth ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your big strong alien kitty laying in bed is also super cute, hehe!!❤️😊

  • @Ellereads1
    @Ellereads1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It looks like more work for you so sorry to say that🥺, but this volg style btw you two made it more engaging for me to watch from beginning to end, I like this style more 😙as a recommendation, I don't know if this is going to be his style 😂 but what if you read the Atlas Six together and then rank the characters and see if you have the same feelings about them or something

  • @MsWillowbayOrelse
    @MsWillowbayOrelse ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this!! Hope you guys do more of it.
    Also you may want to check out Nice Girls Don't Have Fangs by Molly Harper. It's a lot of fun.

  • @jaginaiaelectrizs6341
    @jaginaiaelectrizs6341 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was such a fun little change of pace-loved the way Haden actually kind of enjoyed it!!! 🤭🤭💖 🤣
    Totally fair about the consent issues..buut at least they have language/cultural differences on their side, rather than just straignt-ip disrespect? I guess?? (idekk🙃🙃)
    I do dig monster romance for the primal side of it(kinda same reason why I like proper ENEMIES-to-lovers too, like the try and fight each other to the death[ until frustration of not succeeding has to be worked off in some other way but also because eventually they realize they'd actually miss each other if they were gone] kind, maybe)-sometimes it can be fun to entertain the idea of people being able to just cut-loose physically and/or emotionally or such-but even saying that, like, consent and respect can/could/ still factor in sometimes too; all depending(..like, particularly if they're humanoid or shifters and such, it's the perfect excuse to kinda blend and/or temper it a bit...basically pick-and-choose/mx-and-match your own degree of inhuman/animalistic-ness versus more human/polite-sensibilities or whatever, there's something for almost any mood, if that even makes any sense). Sometimes, some people just wanna imagine someone else taking the wheel from time to time too, but not always necessarily in an inherently malicious way? I guess? ?? But, either way, I legit can't fault anyone who would rather see a bit more of a sweeter consent-ruled monster romance; sometimes even I wish we saw a bit more that myself as well. Buuut, I'm-a stop rambling now!. Loll
    In any case, thanks for another great video!!!
    You two are kind of _the_ cutest *goals,* honestly.! ^-^

  • @thelovelybones0521
    @thelovelybones0521 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this experiment :)

  • @heatherkirchhoffwritesya
    @heatherkirchhoffwritesya ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this video!

  • @Ashleanicol
    @Ashleanicol ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this :)

  • @kenzienagel1361
    @kenzienagel1361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this so much 🤣🥰

  • @ninjaturtles12121
    @ninjaturtles12121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    maybe a contemporary romance next. they are my least fav, I tend to read fantasy romance, dark or even KU romance but maybe he might like Emily Henry etc

  • @carolinemerriman7597
    @carolinemerriman7597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are the freakin best 😂

  • @jenhasaplan
    @jenhasaplan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    tag yourself I’m *chuckles of deep discomfort*

  • @CheyeW13
    @CheyeW13 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you two doing this together but i also kinda wanna hear abt what he reads when he chooses the books 😅

  • @juskahusk2247
    @juskahusk2247 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Reminds me of the song 'Hostiles On The Hill'

  • @hawkeyepierce3810
    @hawkeyepierce3810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    need him to make a vlog acc Now omg 😂

  • @cynthialovesbooks
    @cynthialovesbooks ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this style of vlogging. You two are so cute together. I haven't read Ice Planet Barbarians but if you're considering another alien romance, may I suggest Ensnared by Tiffany Roberts.