I married a provider who is a Narcissist. Keep your independence and watch from afar. Don’t go living with him or marrying fast. Your health, beauty, independence and peace of mind are worth much more money than any man can give you.
I think you mean watch out for the signs of a narcissist. Look up psychology topics and educate yourselves to find how to avoid these men. Not all providers are narcissists, so it’s important to educate yourself on psychology. And if a man is a narcissist, educate yourself so you can teach them a lesson 😂🙏🏽😌❤️
@@soniaalejandra9607 You can study all you want, but you will only find out once you are already living with them, or have a child with him. Not all women are needy and desperate and unable to read signs. I think her advice is great, but pls don’t be gaslighted by the idea that money is the only thing that matters in a relationship.
@@soniaalejandra9607 I believe Sarah said you didn’t become a narcissist yourself so that you don’t feel like you’re being abused. You can do the exact same thing back to him.
When I was younger, I started reading books from the 1800s like Candace Camp and Philippa Gregory. Lol and I became hooked! I still read them, but the courtship and how the men carried themselves I engraved it into my head. 😊
Rotational dating is key ❤! I have had 2 proposals within the last 3 months 💎! Ladies, Goddess Shera knows what she is talking about! Don't let men waste your time! They know exactly what they want! It doesn't take long for them to know if you're the one. Let them chase you! Men are hunters by nature! Trust your intuition and live your best lives 💍💄👑🌸💎💋! May the best man win! Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨️!
I thought this too when I was younger. But a man who doesn't care about providing can technically never be your soulmate since he doesn't like women in the first place.
@@believeyoume-nj2mt so what Women also are stepping away from marriage You all want sex ,so we should get money in return . Nothing is free in this world.
@@MissPurple_333dude your little rally following a women who spit a married man and was a 2nd piece. 90% of u women will never be able to get that type of man.stop falling into her Delousion.
Thank you Shera for your teachings I left my dusty a year ago and now I get trips and dinners for free and now Im on a mission to get free rent and bills paid!
Shera gon say... "You kNOW, I went to the nice side of town and there was no baby hairs that day no swoopity swap😂 Whether a Woman looks ugly or not, a dusty STILL can't afford Her! ❤🎉
At some point you must be confident in yourself and know that you are valuable so that you are believing for a better why not just believe. End the caught up in your feelings on invaluable men. 🎉❤ celebrate you unless this was a fake post. Why would you wanna stay home with cats?
Cómo encontrar un WEALTH MEN - [ ] Viste femenino y clásico - [ ] Ve a los restaurantes con bares - [ ] Ve a los sitio ricos de tu ciudad - [ ] No mires el teléfono cuando estés en el restaurante - [ ] Compra, Come, Trabaja en lugares ricos de tu ciudad - [ ] Cásate con un RICO, Pero siempre ten tu propio dinero en tu banco, tu carro etc.
I've never really paid attention to your subscribers until someone said something. Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🎉 on your subscriber's count!!! Sprinkle, Sprinkle "Gurl"!! You deserve it!!!!❤ 👏 Congrats also on your new book as well "Sprinkle Sprinkle"!!❤🎉🥰😇🤑🤑🤑.
Couldnt stop thanking you shera ❤ women today so much need ua channel., this is the only meaningful channel i came across TH-cam !!! Thanks to youtube for Shera channel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
An important issue I haven't heard you speak on is divorced men. It takes time to make considerable money, so most guys with money tend to be older. And older men, if single, have a much higher likelihood of being divorced. The ones I've dated were more or less financially destroyed in the divorce (wife taking half or more) and they're so jaded from the experience that they act like they'll never trust any woman again. I guess the way to think about this is to start looking for the men who can afford a divorce, and the woman taking half doesn't mean much, because he has so much money.
What do you think of women telling men on the first date they’re ‘self-made’? My friend did this, and I told her she was insane. Anyway, she ended up buying the dusty two pairs of sneakers, and then he ghosted her 😂😂😂. She's 40+ too. SMH.
I promise you if you don’t curse & speak softly that’s 90% of the battle. Also nowadays a lot of women are anxious & talk too fast so just be sure to speak slowly & take deliberate pauses when you speak so it forces listeners to slow down & pay attention, works like a charm✨✨
@@SheRaSeven1shera help 😢 i went on vacation with my sugardaddy boyfriend and got a little tipsy when they started playing salsa music. When he woke up in the morning he said “: you where a little bit tipsy 😅 im scared he will think bad now 😢
OMG Shera! I spat out my drink when she said I don't know I'm not Hindu 😂😂Honestly this questions about Karma needs to stop. If there was Karma most evil people will be dead by now. Smh
I believe rich men want to date rich women, they don't want to look after a pauper... I would be interested to know if Shera came from a rich family? Or at least a well to do family, I'm sure she wasn't from the streets begging for bread!
But ask yourself if what you “believe” is based on actual knowledge? Do you even know any wealthy men and have you asked them if they want to date rich women? I already know the answer is “no”. 💅🏽 Talk less and listen and learn more. ✨✨✨
Being from a rich family will give u a bigger chance of getting the rich provider partner of your dreams however being educated and sophisticated will help. How you dress and your personality is important. Always speak your mind because that’s what men like.
That’s old money focus who come from generational wealth. It’s better to date men who build their own wealth whether it’s through a business or having a career like an accountant or an engineer. Be smart and pick the correct target.
What if my date says I'm too classy he took to a classy restaurant with dinner and late music, but ask me for a 2nd date but want to do drinks. What should I do to mention money. He's 58 I'm 41
You missed What if my date says I'm too classy he took to a classy restaurant with dinner and late music, but ask me for a 2nd date but want to do drinks. What should I do to mention money. He's 58 I'm 41
What happens if they have money and like you but their breath is funky? I’ve had those and I’ve tried but it’s just hard to talk to them wit that bad breath…probably the reason why he single with all his money. What I really want to ask is …is it safe to try and tell him to do something about his bad breath without hurting his feelings or wait for later on another date?
Im so confused What if my date says I'm too classy he took to a classy restaurant with dinner and late music, but ask me for a 2nd date but want to do drinks. What should I do to mention money. He's 58 I'm 41
If he starts asking for sexy photos and/or nudes, when and how should they be sent? After he starts paying you? And how much is a reasonable amount for photos? Or if he hasn't met you in person yet, are the photos necessary just so he can see how attractive you are? I'm guessing sexy photos are always preferable to nudes when you haven't even met the guy yet. Plus, you don't know whether he's showing those photos to his buddies/will use it for blackmail in the future, etc. I'm learning that this guy doesn't even own the private jet he flies. He offers his piloting skills for free in exchange for use of the plane. I'm starting to wonder if any of the yachts are his. I'm starting to wonder if this man even has a proper home or is blowing smoke up everyone's @ss.
Dont send any of that stuff EVER. Shera talks about this. U still thinking how to appease them and u not thinking right. They should be trying not to offend u and chase u away. Like cmon
The premise of this video is wrong, date provider men they do not have to be super rich or wealthy. The ones who are wealthy are busy playing multiple women. You will struggle with the unfaithfulness. Provider men will have eyes only for you.
Don't care about unfaithfulness. Use his cheating ways to get money and upgrades. Thus a woman can eventually finance her own businesses and invest in herself.
Hi Sherasevenators I need help, I haven't bagged a provider yet but I'm trying to level up and I need help with saving money to change my look to level up. I got a huge amount of money for my b'day and I need to know should I use it to buy my winter clothes but I'm tired of these clothes that I'm wearing, I hate most of them and just wanna change my style or should I wait because Spring is only in 2 months, please help?
@@SewVintageKiayeahh that's exactly what I was thinking loll! It's a stupid move to buy a whole brand new wardrobe just for a couple of months then not have the right attire from May until September!!!
@@SewVintageKiaI am not sure now because I don't have any t-shirts/all my tops are long sleeve but when it gets to the first of May it will be jeans + t-shirt weather and not shorts so do I use my money to get a couple of lighter tops that are appropriate for the weather then wait until the end of May to start purchasing summer dresses + shorts?
Get the new Book "Sprinkle Sprinkle" : a.co/d/defd193
Is there an Ebook? I live in Africa
🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 I'm definitely going to get myself a Hard Copy of this book💜💜💜It's a Self Investment for sure 💯 Sprinkle Sprinkle🥂
Mine will be here Thursday! I also have, “I bring nothing to the table”😊
@@FancyMissAmazing 🤣 Blind leading the Blind🤝
MARRY RICH💰✨️ but always have your own bank and car.
Exactly
And house
@@sbmarie 🎯
Damn, she sending y’all off 🤢
And a side stash
I married a provider who is a
Narcissist. Keep your independence and watch from afar. Don’t go living with him or marrying fast. Your health, beauty, independence and peace of mind are worth much more money than any man can give you.
I think you mean watch out for the signs of a narcissist. Look up psychology topics and educate yourselves to find how to avoid these men. Not all providers are narcissists, so it’s important to educate yourself on psychology. And if a man is a narcissist, educate yourself so you can teach them a lesson 😂🙏🏽😌❤️
@@soniaalejandra9607 You can study all you want, but you will only find out once you are already living with them, or have a child with him. Not all women are needy and desperate and unable to read signs. I think her advice is great, but pls don’t be gaslighted by the idea that money is the only thing that matters in a relationship.
@@soniaalejandra9607 I believe Sarah said you didn’t become a narcissist yourself so that you don’t feel like you’re being abused. You can do the exact same thing back to him.
I get you babe but maybe you didn't set boundaries in the beginning
100% true! Had to learn it the hard way.
Men with money wouldn't even be watching these videos. They learn how to make more money, self improvement, and focus on family.
"They learn how to make more money" hahahah that have you think there are, and that have what is really is
@@0Havianas your grammar is wrong
In the 1800s, women had four to five “suitors” vying for her attention. We need to do it like they used to, ladies sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨✨
When I was younger, I started reading books from the 1800s like Candace Camp and Philippa Gregory. Lol and I became hooked!
I still read them, but the courtship and how the men carried themselves I engraved it into my head. 😊
yes they did
Rotational dating is key ❤! I have had 2 proposals within the last 3 months 💎! Ladies, Goddess Shera knows what she is talking about! Don't let men waste your time! They know exactly what they want! It doesn't take long for them to know if you're the one. Let them chase you! Men are hunters by nature! Trust your intuition and live your best lives 💍💄👑🌸💎💋! May the best man win! Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨️!
During slavery?
Black women and women of color need to accept that we have some additional considerations and I think shera lays it out what is required today
“Two broke people do not belong together”Some programs separate them to share the wealth..while one has little to nothing to show for it.
Pls explain…
What do you mean by program?
“Why do we need to be soulmates? Just give me some money” right😭
I thought this too when I was younger. But a man who doesn't care about providing can technically never be your soulmate since he doesn't like women in the first place.
@@waggawaggaful This mindset is why men are stepping away from marriage, especially the ones who can "provide" for your lifestyle.
@@believeyoume-nj2mtsurvival of the fittest 🤷
What if I don’t have a soul?😂
@@believeyoume-nj2mt so what
Women also are stepping away from marriage
You all want sex ,so we should get money in return .
Nothing is free in this world.
“We don’t care about your opinion, YOU’RE BROKE” LMAOOOOO
Shera is the savior of us women and entertaining at the same time! Thanks for all you do!!!
Listen!!! Period...💜💜💜 Sprinkle Sprinkle. We are changing the game now, in our dust free era💃💃💃
Yesss girl!!
@@MissPurple_333dude your little rally following a women who spit a married man and was a 2nd piece. 90% of u women will never be able to get that type of man.stop falling into her Delousion.
Shera is the poster girl for why men are stepping away from commitment and you're thanking her! Guys, I can NOT make this stuff up!
@@believeyoume-nj2mt find a hobby that you enjoy!
Make sure your name is on the deed or the house. Don’t worry about the mortgage but make sure all real estate is in your name, titles to cars, etc.
Thank you Shera for your teachings I left my dusty a year ago and now I get trips and dinners for free and now Im on a mission to get free rent and bills paid!
I got me a provider
He says he’s my daddy now 😂😂😂
Sprinkle Sprinkle!! ✨
She said, Dusties need to put out a want ad. “Still trying to find myself. Looking for a provider.” 😂
So True💯 Rich Men Only..my soulmate is a provider Congrats on your new book Sprinkle Sprinkle!❤
You are and remain EVERYTHING, Shera. Teach these babies (and some of the old dogs a few new tricks)!🥰
ONLY THOSE WHO ARE DESPERATE ARE DEALING WITH DUST!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Its true tho😂
Facts and treated badly. No dusties for me.
Or simply don’t have the blueprint 😉
not only is this solid advice but i catch myself laughing as well well informed and entertained
CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎊 On the new book!! Yes expect them to provide, and they WILL TRANSFORM! Real men don't want to Disappoint women!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Girl i appreciate your candidness! You're hilarious! I appreciate you elevating our community back to its proper status!
Shera gon say... "You kNOW, I went to the nice side of town and there was no baby hairs that day no swoopity swap😂
Whether a Woman looks ugly or not, a dusty STILL can't afford Her! ❤🎉
amen
Omg!! Thank u for coming on before I popped my sleepy time pill 🤣
I'm at the point where I will prefer to 💀 alone with cats than to settle! That's what these comments from males did😊
those are dusties they do t count they are broke lol
At some point you must be confident in yourself and know that you are valuable so that you are believing for a better why not just believe. End the caught up in your feelings on invaluable men. 🎉❤ celebrate you unless this was a fake post. Why would you wanna stay home with cats?
Cómo encontrar un WEALTH MEN
- [ ] Viste femenino y clásico
- [ ] Ve a los restaurantes con bares
- [ ] Ve a los sitio ricos de tu ciudad
- [ ] No mires el teléfono cuando estés en el restaurante
- [ ] Compra, Come, Trabaja en lugares ricos de tu ciudad
- [ ] Cásate con un RICO, Pero siempre ten tu propio dinero en tu banco, tu carro etc.
I’m like 5 minutes in and already liked this video
It was a pleasure seeing you live on the later end. Your makeup looks especially gorgeous. 😍 superstar shera 🌟
8:04 never take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from
I've never really paid attention to your subscribers until someone said something. Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🎉 on your subscriber's count!!! Sprinkle, Sprinkle "Gurl"!! You deserve it!!!!❤ 👏 Congrats also on your new book as well "Sprinkle Sprinkle"!!❤🎉🥰😇🤑🤑🤑.
Your wig looks much more natural without all the “baby” hairs🖤
In Shera I trust.
Congratulations on your new book❤
next class , the danger of babytrap with dustys , stay safe girlss
Dont have sex with them. Simple.
You should not be talking to dusties.
"why do we have to be soulmates, just give me some money" 😂😂😂
Thank you for always delivering the best content Mama 💯💞👌🏾Sprinkle Sprinkle 💜
Couldnt stop thanking you shera ❤ women today so much need ua channel., this is the only meaningful channel i came across TH-cam !!! Thanks to youtube for Shera channel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
An important issue I haven't heard you speak on is divorced men. It takes time to make considerable money, so most guys with money tend to be older. And older men, if single, have a much higher likelihood of being divorced. The ones I've dated were more or less financially destroyed in the divorce (wife taking half or more) and they're so jaded from the experience that they act like they'll never trust any woman again. I guess the way to think about this is to start looking for the men who can afford a divorce, and the woman taking half doesn't mean much, because he has so much money.
I would stay away from those types because like you said, they’re jaded and probably butter with resentment towards women from their last relationship
It's her half 😂 how is he destroyed??
Don't date them! They shouldn't be considered as an option.
I married a poor guy but he loves me so much he worked to get me the money. I've never seen anything like it before.
What do you think of women telling men on the first date they’re ‘self-made’? My friend did this, and I told her she was insane. Anyway, she ended up buying the dusty two pairs of sneakers, and then he ghosted her 😂😂😂. She's 40+ too. SMH.
she was not supposed to do that
Bag securement.
When you said imagine the top women who take care of themselves and don’t need male validation…my top 2 were Beyoncé and Naomi Campbell too! 🎉
They are both mind controlled slaves of the elites. Rhianna gets passed as a sex toy by rich men
Hi sweetie I purchased your book Sprinkle Sprinkle. Will arrive 2 week in March. .
Stanley put two pieces of fish on bumble bee plate I got from dollar tree in fridge
Sprinkle sprinkle your videos always make me laugh out loud thank you
Your hair and makeup look amazing!
Watching Shera as am doing hair sprinkle sprinkle 🎉
The new merch designs look so goodt ✨
I hope y’all all date rich because at least dating would make more sense
Please make a video about how to SPEAK more feminine. I struggle with this even though I look feminine:/
She has made videos on this before
dont curse. use baby voice. speak slowly. listen more.
@@janviprakash3383I looked but couldn’t find it. What’s thr video’s title?
@@thegardener3650 search for how to be feminine, feminity attracts more attention videos, she has discussed this
I promise you if you don’t curse & speak softly that’s 90% of the battle. Also nowadays a lot of women are anxious & talk too fast so just be sure to speak slowly & take deliberate pauses when you speak so it forces listeners to slow down & pay attention, works like a charm✨✨
First half… she didn’t have to eat me up like that 🤣
sprinkle sprinkle , its all good, you know you still cool! its my tough love method!
Thank you! I needed to hear it! 💞
@@SheRaSeven1shera help 😢 i went on vacation with my sugardaddy boyfriend and got a little tipsy when they started playing salsa music. When he woke up in the morning he said “: you where a little bit tipsy 😅 im scared he will think bad now 😢
I caught Shera live ❤
Congratulations on the new book.🎉
😂this is more than financial advice it's comedy
If I had to guess, I’d say her favorite song is “21 Questions by 50 Cent”
Shera you look great!! Skin popping. I want to send a gift, but it's not on your gift list! It's coming from Kenya Africa.
Keep in mind all these men dont want to sleep with you, keep the goods locked up anyway😂
I can’t with Shera 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1:08:03 😮💨😮💨 so true!! , I’m telling this to my algebra professor.
Don’t entertain the dust 🤣🤣
OMG Shera! I spat out my drink when she said I don't know I'm not Hindu 😂😂Honestly this questions about Karma needs to stop. If there was Karma most evil people will be dead by now. Smh
Fr
“Don’t entertain the dust 🗑️ “ 😫🤦🏾♀️
Yes, your knowledge is a blessing. ❤
Miss Shera is looking better and better
This is a start..
I would like to see more of my ppl on the Internet tho
Look wise, personality changes
Time has shown me that
„Swoop-e-di-swap baby hair“🤣
You make me laugh talking about dusty!!! Dead😂😂😂😂
Thank you ❤I appreciate
I believe rich men want to date rich women, they don't want to look after a pauper... I would be interested to know if Shera came from a rich family? Or at least a well to do family, I'm sure she wasn't from the streets begging for bread!
not where i’m from lol
But ask yourself if what you “believe” is based on actual knowledge? Do you even know any wealthy men and have you asked them if they want to date rich women? I already know the answer is “no”. 💅🏽 Talk less and listen and learn more. ✨✨✨
Being from a rich family will give u a bigger chance of getting the rich provider partner of your dreams however being educated and sophisticated will help. How you dress and your personality is important. Always speak your mind because that’s what men like.
She belongs to the streets
That’s old money focus who come from generational wealth. It’s better to date men who build their own wealth whether it’s through a business or having a career like an accountant or an engineer. Be smart and pick the correct target.
The man who talks about hair and gossips identify as ‘she’ GIIIRLLLL 😂😂
Marry Rich ❤️✨💰
It's so astonishing to me that even after all these years you're still able to come up with new videos 🥹
Blessed Be to you and yours! Oh la la yeehaw!
one of the funniest lives
You look great!
I had nothing in common with this rich kid whose father paid him to ask me out.. 😂😂
No amount of “my daddy is a millionaire” could fix our incapability
What if my date says I'm too classy he took to a classy restaurant with dinner and late music, but ask me for a 2nd date but want to do drinks. What should I do to mention money. He's 58 I'm 41
Thanks!
They call you the "sprinkle sprinkle" lady 😂😂😂😂
1:48:00 baby hair down to my eyebrow🤣
“Do I look Hindu? , don’t answer that “ lol 😂
You missed What if my date says I'm too classy he took to a classy restaurant with dinner and late music, but ask me for a 2nd date but want to do drinks. What should I do to mention money. He's 58 I'm 41
1st question is can you afford the jewelry store for breakfast?
First 5 minutes in and I’m like damn 😂
What happens if they have money and like you but their breath is funky? I’ve had those and I’ve tried but it’s just hard to talk to them wit that bad breath…probably the reason why he single with all his money. What I really want to ask is …is it safe to try and tell him to do something about his bad breath without hurting his feelings or wait for later on another date?
@@IVvOOvVIthat literally sounds so dumb
He sounds like he makes less than 100k.
shera whats your chart i felt that own soulmate bit lol
Thank you, thank you, thank you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Im so confused What if my date says I'm too classy he took to a classy restaurant with dinner and late music, but ask me for a 2nd date but want to do drinks. What should I do to mention money. He's 58 I'm 41
I’m trying to see your point but there’s some holes in this plot.
Shera was a large but she’s also 5’9
Shera pls stop giving the game away like not doing baby hairs...ughhh it's already harder since you blew up I've been following you for 7 years lmao
Lmao the game has got harder for real ugh been here 5years
*If the 💰 grown*
Dusty’s tongues will fall off before they can say it!
Pink wigs are fun, not rachet.
Rachet is fun
Shera check out the song dusties by Maiya The Don.
OMG!! I've never laugh so hard!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
If he starts asking for sexy photos and/or nudes, when and how should they be sent? After he starts paying you? And how much is a reasonable amount for photos? Or if he hasn't met you in person yet, are the photos necessary just so he can see how attractive you are? I'm guessing sexy photos are always preferable to nudes when you haven't even met the guy yet. Plus, you don't know whether he's showing those photos to his buddies/will use it for blackmail in the future, etc. I'm learning that this guy doesn't even own the private jet he flies. He offers his piloting skills for free in exchange for use of the plane. I'm starting to wonder if any of the yachts are his. I'm starting to wonder if this man even has a proper home or is blowing smoke up everyone's @ss.
I heard her say no nudes!
Dont send any of that stuff EVER. Shera talks about this. U still thinking how to appease them and u not thinking right. They should be trying not to offend u and chase u away. Like cmon
1:06:30 best quote ever
The premise of this video is wrong, date provider men they do not have to be super rich or wealthy. The ones who are wealthy are busy playing multiple women. You will struggle with the unfaithfulness. Provider men will have eyes only for you.
Don't care about unfaithfulness. Use his cheating ways to get money and upgrades. Thus a woman can eventually finance her own businesses and invest in herself.
What are your thoughts on dating apps?
You won't find provider men on dating sites
Hi Sherasevenators I need help, I haven't bagged a provider yet but I'm trying to level up and I need help with saving money to change my look to level up. I got a huge amount of money for my b'day and I need to know should I use it to buy my winter clothes but I'm tired of these clothes that I'm wearing, I hate most of them and just wanna change my style or should I wait because Spring is only in 2 months, please help?
Yes, girl wait until spring unless your winters are longer where you live. You can buy a few cold weather pieces but not too many
@@SewVintageKiayeahh that's exactly what I was thinking loll! It's a stupid move to buy a whole brand new wardrobe just for a couple of months then not have the right attire from May until September!!!
@@SewVintageKiaI am not sure now because I don't have any t-shirts/all my tops are long sleeve but when it gets to the first of May it will be jeans + t-shirt weather and not shorts so do I use my money to get a couple of lighter tops that are appropriate for the weather then wait until the end of May to start purchasing summer dresses + shorts?
@@SewVintageKiaand thank you for responding so fast lol!
Buy from local or family owned thrift stores if you can!
Where do you get your wigs from ??
I could never resist beautiful Shera, and I wouldn't even try.