When On a Date You Enchant not Interview a Man

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  • @lindsayj0415
    @lindsayj0415 ปีที่แล้ว +885

    “So even if he’s ugly just imagine yourself spending his money” I am FLOORED 😩😂😂

    • @ShaliiynSki08
      @ShaliiynSki08 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lol just be in a daze 😅

    • @halohoneydog
      @halohoneydog ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I’ve been doing this and they comment that they like how I’m looking at them. 😂
      I feel like the coyote looking at the road runner and seeing a thanksgiving turkey.

    • @bkgarr6041
      @bkgarr6041 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@halohoneydog😂😂😂😂

    • @professor.donut24
      @professor.donut24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 absolutely FLOORED ​@@halohoneydog

    • @honeysimza8205
      @honeysimza8205 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Literally power and money will do it for me every time.

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Everytime she imitates a man’s voice it SENDSSSSS meeeee

    • @fiercejo8385
      @fiercejo8385 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @bubus682
      @bubus682 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂

    • @summaiyaali6745
      @summaiyaali6745 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      SAMEEEEE

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว +3081

    Shera, in case you didn’t know you are a part time comedian. My sides hurt from laughing throughout this whole video. Your delivery is always something original, every time.

    • @auroramothergoddess
      @auroramothergoddess ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I know right I am literally laughing out loud LOL

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I'm dieing when she said slob busting!!!

    • @luwanevari7948
      @luwanevari7948 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Oh my gosh! 😂 She had me in stitches.

    • @Fancypantspurr
      @Fancypantspurr ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yes she really is! I am hollering!!!!

    • @CS-pl1re
      @CS-pl1re ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My two i was laughing in the car 😂😂

  • @GoddessKhaleesi-z2z
    @GoddessKhaleesi-z2z 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +263

    I literally studied this video before a date and I kid you not the man said “ Your eyes are so enchanting” during the date. And he brought me flowers. Talk about passing with flying colors 😂

    • @VeganLife-mn1jp
      @VeganLife-mn1jp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Wow that’s wonderful!

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Give us an update on you and this man!

    • @tinygrape
      @tinygrape 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Pov: I’m getting ready for a first date watching this exact video 😂 (I’ve already gotten $500 from him and I got him paying for the dress I’m gonna wear)

    • @thewave254
      @thewave254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yaaaas 🎉🎉🎉🎉😅

    • @navyqueen1
      @navyqueen1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep doing the same now 😂❤

  • @Ashley50144
    @Ashley50144 ปีที่แล้ว +1066

    Ladies …If he’s not “ENCHANTED” when he 1st meets you ..He’s not the target !! ..my SD gave me💰 on spot!! & 🛍️ing & dinner our 1st DATE ✨

    • @juicyy3951
      @juicyy3951 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Wow Ashley….you’re lucky gurlll ❤️

    • @juicyy3951
      @juicyy3951 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Where did you find him please?

    • @Ashley50144
      @Ashley50144 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@juicyy3951 literally walked in Neiman Marcus alone & he approached me ..I was headed inside the actually mall to shop ☺️

    • @mocalatte92
      @mocalatte92 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup

    • @dreamgirlcam
      @dreamgirlcam ปีที่แล้ว +36

      SPRINKLE SPRINKLE ✨

  • @emyd9655
    @emyd9655 ปีที่แล้ว +545

    “If you sleep with him he’s gonna loose interest. Not if you do it right girl” 😂😂😂😂😂 Sheera

    • @clauaome25
      @clauaome25 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      so true

    • @Handleitt1
      @Handleitt1 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I lost the interest, but surprisingly he didn’t loose interest. 🤯😂

    • @Princess_dio_33333
      @Princess_dio_33333 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where is she saying this ? :)))
      I can't find that .

    • @Princess_dio_33333
      @Princess_dio_33333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where is she saying this

    • @ShirtlessSimonCowell
      @ShirtlessSimonCowell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Princess_dio_333331:03:45

  • @emyd9655
    @emyd9655 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    If he’s ugly. Maybe imagine yourself spending his money 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TyraVarnado
      @TyraVarnado ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This comment got me 😂

    • @etherealdeal1792
      @etherealdeal1792 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It works and does help lol

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It won't help. Stop with the unattractive men.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesnt work..unattractive is unattractive .

    • @goldie12577
      @goldie12577 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lc-il6wr cope

  • @Digitalguru_ash
    @Digitalguru_ash ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Went on a date w a potential sd today. Was so easy to smile and look at him a certain way thinking of that Wallet 🙂😀

    • @JDVIBEZ4REAL
      @JDVIBEZ4REAL ปีที่แล้ว +33

      😂😂😂Girl...............

    • @Digitalguru_ash
      @Digitalguru_ash ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@JDVIBEZ4REAL 😂😭 he’s extremely kind. And such a gentleman and willing to spend on me.I can tell he’s REALLY into me. But he’s not the best looking. So, gotta do what you gotta do. As per momma Shera. 😆

    • @JDVIBEZ4REAL
      @JDVIBEZ4REAL ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Digitalguru_ash Wow that sounds Awesome 😲😲😲😲😻😻😻. I wish I was you😭😭😭🤣. Forget about the looks. But ain't too bad right? Cause hie purse 👛 be pretty 😭😭🤣🤗💖

    • @ChantalAlba-r5p
      @ChantalAlba-r5p ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Digitalguru_ashhow is it going ?

    • @JosDom-by4eg
      @JosDom-by4eg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yess girl

  • @brittae90
    @brittae90 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The cherry on top is when you know some info on his favorite hobbies

  • @badgalyaya2303
    @badgalyaya2303 ปีที่แล้ว +961

    See this is why I only go on dates when I’m ovulating because there’s no way I could pull this off any other time 😭. Shera you are the goat!

    • @love.1995
      @love.1995 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Lol this sounds so funny, why ovulating?

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What does it mean to be ovulating? When do you know when you are?

    • @cheyennestephens9417
      @cheyennestephens9417 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      @@j-tenn226 there’s an period tracker app that tells you when you’re on different phases of your cycle. Women are most attractive to men while ovulating. Ovulation is a time where you can easily get pregnant

    • @shelonya
      @shelonya ปีที่แล้ว +162

      me too!! when im ovulating i can tolerate entertaining a man so much better 😂

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      @@cheyennestephens9417 thank you for taking the time for explaining this to me without talking down to me and making me feel dumb for not knowing. I appreciate it

  • @nellytrophysnatchedqueen
    @nellytrophysnatchedqueen ปีที่แล้ว +1549

    This is so funny I did all of this with my current husband without even trying 😂 I've been watching you for years. I finally got a husband to pay all my bills. The last 2 paid only most smh 🤦 I still act like my husband's girlfriend only so he doesn't ever get bored. Thank you Shera ❤️

    • @luwanevari7948
      @luwanevari7948 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Hey Nelly! So happy it worked out for you. How did you proceed?

    • @nellytrophysnatchedqueen
      @nellytrophysnatchedqueen ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luwanevari7948 what do you mean?

    • @luwanevari7948
      @luwanevari7948 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nellytrophysnatchedqueen Which techniques did you use?

    • @CS-pl1re
      @CS-pl1re ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luwanevari7948Shera litterly explained lol 😂

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wooohooo! Congratulations @NellyTrophy ❤️💫🌍

  • @desdior1207
    @desdior1207 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    I love this! Unfortunately mothers and grandmothers are not teaching us younger women this! Instead negative vibes and energy. We need more experienced women to guide the younger ones for a promising future WITH a man

    • @dunianns2716
      @dunianns2716 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I have learned that, our mothers, grandmothers, great-grandmothers are/have been victims of victims... they have done the best they knew how from their state of consciousness. We have to honour them in order to be at peace with ourselves and keep working on our energy. ❤

    • @gloriarufus8033
      @gloriarufus8033 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You do not need to blame anybody

    • @desdior1207
      @desdior1207 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gloriarufus8033 just like you didn’t need to comment 🫤

    • @adameve6623
      @adameve6623 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      instead they are teaching us to cook and clean and be givers

    • @nisg9078
      @nisg9078 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dunianns2716this!

  • @ladyshenna967
    @ladyshenna967 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    Being on a date is to collect data. Enjoy each other's conversations and company.

  • @selmasvast9911
    @selmasvast9911 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The only community I came across where there are women and they support each other

  • @luwanevari7948
    @luwanevari7948 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    Follow Shera's advice! I listened and jotted down notes. Went on a date with an older man. He kept saying how "feminine" I was. That I was "very interesting, feminine, pretty and so damn sexy!"
    He already set up our next date. And asked me how my schedule looks like for the month for a trip 😂.
    It works ladies. Listen to Shera, take notes then put in practice.

    • @MilaChavez138
      @MilaChavez138 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Update 😏

    • @empress3847
      @empress3847 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Update please 😊

    • @Eshabee
      @Eshabee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where did y’all meet online or in person?

    • @caitlinsoliman1658
      @caitlinsoliman1658 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How do you do it without feeling fake and awkward?

    • @KeyonaThesweetest
      @KeyonaThesweetest ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Girl were his friends at ?? 😂😂😂 j/p I’m working on getting one.

  • @marychantel92
    @marychantel92 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Watched this right before a date. He filled my tank up after bought me a Mother’s Day gift & is planning to take me to the beach ❤❤❤❤

  • @thetruthteller33
    @thetruthteller33 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Got me 2 new tires before i even watch this. My momma taught me the game. But yall better listen up and dont be afraid to ask. They definitely not afraid to drop hints about what they want. So when he decided to move on thats fine. I didnt have to buy groceries or gas for 3 months and i got 2 brand new tires rolling to the next man 😂😂😂😂 who will buy the other 2 😅😅😅

  • @InTheBeginning83
    @InTheBeginning83 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Shera I needed you 20 years ago when I was young. Now I'm 40 and tired of working. But with makeup I can pass for 28 so I'm taking notes. Sprinkle Sprinkle

    • @user-gs1di4sk2r
      @user-gs1di4sk2r ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Girl if that’s you in your pfp I think you can pass for 25/26😍you’re looking amazing x

    • @InTheBeginning83
      @InTheBeginning83 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @N thank you love!

    • @mari-my5gr
      @mari-my5gr ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@user-gs1di4sk2r Word! She’s looking snatched an amazing 😍 hope I get to look that beautiful at 40

    • @sarahkawala
      @sarahkawala ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Dont worry, am here, joininin this journey as well. It is not too late.

    • @royalkarmaproductions
      @royalkarmaproductions ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Women look the best in their 40s ❤

  • @rollinggstonee
    @rollinggstonee ปีที่แล้ว +60

    it’s true, the more you tell them how much you like them and how special they are. if done the right way, they are putty. just BE SUBTLE and never too eager. be patient and confident but be yourself of yourself.

  • @kristamonae
    @kristamonae ปีที่แล้ว +191

    “I dont care why your not married , you finna get these bills and marry me” 🤣😭

  • @kyrareneeLOA
    @kyrareneeLOA ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I adore the title of this video. I am engaged to the most loyal sweet man, he takes care of me and he puts me first, even when I don't need him too. His family adores me. Even his mother said, he is loyal and she sees how happy he is with me. It is funny, as I wanted a man that just adores, and he found me. His last marriage was so bad... but I love that he never slammed her even to his family. He just appreciates the fact that I am the opposite in every way. Happy.

    • @professor.donut24
      @professor.donut24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awwwww I don't know you but I felt so happy for you ❤❤❤ for many many years of hapiness together to come ✨️✨️✨️

  • @iziz5691
    @iziz5691 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    For those of you who think it’s not possible - trust me it isssss. I have 2 sugar daddy’s, both over 60. And I had another one before. They send me thousands. Sure you have to sift through some losers in the process but trust me you’ll get there if you don’t give up - because they ARE out there

    • @rainacherienne1010
      @rainacherienne1010 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How did you meet them?

    • @ritasjourney
      @ritasjourney ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How old are you? Curious

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How attractive are you?

    • @otakumultifandom
      @otakumultifandom ปีที่แล้ว +55

      All the above questions pls😂

    • @idollface
      @idollface ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I need answers 😅

  • @janaywalton2935
    @janaywalton2935 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Sheraaaaa girl your advice worked so well! I just came back from my date and I tried that “Can I kiss you?” He ate it tf up 😂🥰 best date I’ve been on thus far, definitely can’t wait to see him again.

    • @EtheLocSmyth
      @EtheLocSmyth ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Omgggg i love that for you !! Where’d y’all meet ?

    • @empress3847
      @empress3847 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Update, did you get the bag?

    • @celebtingz1698
      @celebtingz1698 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@empress3847I don’t think she did

    • @Nathi-c5d
      @Nathi-c5d หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂​@@empress3847

  • @raqueltheoneandonly3084
    @raqueltheoneandonly3084 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This is straight game. Shea is giving 100% game. It's fool proof. It works everytime. She the GOAT!!!!

  • @sarahabel8967
    @sarahabel8967 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Usually I listen to longer lives when I’m cleaning but this had too many gems and had to sit down and write tips in my notebook

    • @wildhalo2769
      @wildhalo2769 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too!!!!❤

    • @blessings4life
      @blessings4life ปีที่แล้ว +7

      On God!❤

    • @blessings4life
      @blessings4life ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was successfully able to enchant 🪄 last night

    • @bubus682
      @bubus682 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂it's so funny too

    • @geggeg347
      @geggeg347 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Girl I need to see that notebook😭

  • @dianag4704
    @dianag4704 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This woman deserves an award!!!

  • @yosr111
    @yosr111 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I’m blessed as a youngster to have connected with you.

    • @tyd8077
      @tyd8077 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You really are.

    • @yosr111
      @yosr111 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tyd8077 I really am.

    • @SelenaLuvGomez
      @SelenaLuvGomez ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right! Like jokes aside I’m so grateful! What a time to be alive😂

    • @yosr111
      @yosr111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SelenaLuvGomez heavy on thattt

    • @unknownhehe3903
      @unknownhehe3903 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah our dating life bout to be great!!

  • @kourtneydouthard-becker1501
    @kourtneydouthard-becker1501 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    "when the waiter says 'what would you like for desert'? Look him in the eyes 👁️👁️"
    I'm HOLLERING 😭😭😭😂😂😂

  • @AahyiSam
    @AahyiSam ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Came back to this video after trying this out for 1 month. Ladies, this works. I did the opposite and then the correct steps on different men. Worked exactly as she said. Shera knows what she’s talking about. 💯❤ This is not magic it’s a Science & Shera is the guru 🎓literally.

  • @l.l.8022
    @l.l.8022 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    2:19:10 "rig your shoes up to break in front of him right in front of an expensive shoe store" is crazy 😂😂😂

  • @blackroze1471
    @blackroze1471 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I watched this video to prep for a date lol enchanted that man out his pockets lol he literally asked me to be exclusive with him and spent $500. Then he asked to be my sponsor when I said we need to slow down

    • @Anu_Tuvs
      @Anu_Tuvs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats! How old is he?

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Update?

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like a ghetto sd..can't u do better like get a job..

  • @tammyjones9454
    @tammyjones9454 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Wow shera is dagerous..’enchant’ powerful i dont think alot of ladies understand this but i do..they become addicted to u!

    • @nyasha4964
      @nyasha4964 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Really? How can one go about it?

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Enchantment is dangerous sorcery rebuke it

    • @doublebreasted1422
      @doublebreasted1422 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@John-ls4xh rebuke yo @$$ gtfoh!

    • @professor.donut24
      @professor.donut24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nyasha4964just do what shera says .. try it on some men and LEARN ❤

  • @LovelyLiswa
    @LovelyLiswa ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love you mama. I'm from South Africa and I have been practicing what you preach in the mirror. Now I will go to these fancy hotel bars to eat and meet this rich provider and protectors I want

    • @top10africa65
      @top10africa65 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol let’s 😮together

    • @top10africa65
      @top10africa65 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m at Sandton

  • @lovebuggang33
    @lovebuggang33 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I swear people come into my life on Divine Timing I definitely needed to hear this & she is a comedian her responses are funny…every time she says “Sprinkle Sprinkle” I feel like I just been seasoned with some game 😂🐞

  • @kainaeil
    @kainaeil 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    this woman knows too much, u blow my mind everytime 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MisaRedd
    @MisaRedd ปีที่แล้ว +91

    IF ANYONE IS A GODDESS OF OUR TIME, SHERA IS.

  • @Keylove-hi3bq
    @Keylove-hi3bq ปีที่แล้ว +186

    You could keep all this game too yourself but you share 🤯talk about women empowerment thanks sis universe protect this queen at all costs.❤

    • @maludisusa3880
      @maludisusa3880 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss

    • @724moon
      @724moon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think the same

  • @jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759
    @jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Perfect timing! I have a date tomorrow night...The first in 6 years and I forgot how to act..This is a life saver 🙏!!

  • @GM-wn3sh
    @GM-wn3sh ปีที่แล้ว +133

    OMG SO RIGHT ABOUT THE COFFEE DATES! I've literally NEVER been impressed with a guy I went on a coffee date with. Even dinner/ lunch. BORING.Unless I'm also receiving an allowance. But even then it's like YES I FEEL STUPID GETTING DRESSED TO DRINK COFFEE OUTSIDE MY HOME, WHEN I COULD DO THAT IN BED!!!!! YES 100 YES YES YES YES YES. EVERYTHING YOU SAID 100!!!!! I did tell the last guy off and I will never go on a coffee date again. AMEN SIS!!!!!

    • @BriannaSade
      @BriannaSade ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Lmfao I went in a coffee date last week and was so disappointed, I got all cute and dude look like he didn’t even take the time to wash his hair, I know it’s just a coffee date but damn, you could’nt get yourself together for your first time meeting me lol

    • @niamphdollieofficial
      @niamphdollieofficial 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@BriannaSadethat's why I don't bother dressing up for men like I ain't getting anything outta it why tf should I? Shiiii

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Men taking women on coffee dates is a whole scam and I will never do it 😂

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pearlpearl3806me too . I don’t even like coffee

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@j-tenn226 it doesnt have to be coffee dummy it can be a cappuccino.

  • @nunyafawkingbiz
    @nunyafawkingbiz ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Be unique, mysterious, be fun. A little serious but also carefree ! Think outside the box !

  • @madibrooke-fe6ho
    @madibrooke-fe6ho ปีที่แล้ว +356

    Listen to Shera ladies!
    Stop trying to rewrite the rules.
    I’ve noticed with me(26) the older the better (50+) it does not take much for them to want to provide for you. Listen to them talk, agree with them and be available that’s it.
    reason is because young men have no shortage of women and they are used to getting women with little effort, so even if you do get a young guy to provide he either won’t have as much to offer (still building his wealth) or you will have to compete with all the other Insta baddies of the world.

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Honey I’m 48 and these older men are set up different now..I have 2 beautiful little nurse sisters (registered nurses) one is 28 with a 44 year old with 2 baby mommas and the other is 30 with a 47 year old with a crazy ex wife and 3 children and I’m 48 and snatched up a high value black physician..they both are younger taking care of their boyfriends and helping them with their businesses and children So I don’t know I’m seeing the opposite Younger women please listen to SheRae beautiful younger women should never be taking care of old a$$ men especially over 40 year men..these ninjas just setup different now so tread lightly the older men are bigger players because they are making over six figures and the other dust kings are looking for young girls to use..I try to tell them get older men with money but they don’t listen to me!

    • @madibrooke-fe6ho
      @madibrooke-fe6ho ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 interesting insight. I’m not dealing with any men atm I finished up my education and started a new career in the financial industry had to focus lol.
      so are you for older men or younger men? A little confused by your post.

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madibrooke-fe6ho neither lovely LOL I'm older and wiser I only dated men who were super financially stable, I'm currently engaged to a physician (he is a little younger than me he is 45 I'm 48) I use to work with thanks to Shera's amazing advice..we are going to Europe to get marry in June. Our (he claim as his own) daughter who is 22 years old and his (who I claim as my own although she has an amazing mother) daughter who is 17 years old can now see how this work so they don't have to go through what I went through because I had no guidance because my mother was too busy struggling with my step father..I was married to a bum when I was 25 years old who could not provide only protect because he was always angry, never again..But then one of my sisters got marry at 26 years old to a man her age and they are 12 years in a super healthy loving marriage..it all depends on the man as alot of older men know young girls are looking for money so they be playing the games too..Uggghh so to me age is just that it's about character..age. I got the man I dreamed of (emotional intelligent, financially intelligent, spiritually intelligent and physically intelligent)..I'm fit curvy so because most men my age 40/50 and older are so out of shape I stayed single until God brought the perfect man for ME in my life I didn't let anyone get in my ear about age unless you want to have children

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@madibrooke-fe6ho by the way you are absolutely adorable do NOT allow any dusty to take your youth..VET them follow RC Blakes he will also get you the perfect man of your desires Also follow Adrienne Everheart she teach "educated" woman how to stay feminine..Congratulations on all your accolades and achievements...But if I was you I would not date 50 year old men..35 to 38 at the most if you want to date an older man (it is alot of successful men that are 35 I work with so many amazing young male physicians )..50 years old you all will not have anything at all in common..

    • @madibrooke-fe6ho
      @madibrooke-fe6ho ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 thank you 😊 that’s funny you mention the hospital bc I do take daily walks at my hospital each evening bc they have beautiful trails. Maybe I’ll meet a physician haha 😂 I wouldn’t mind younger if that’s the case

  • @whiteboard3405
    @whiteboard3405 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Do this for the right target, because the wrong one will just offer you a position to another job and ask you to work 🤣

    • @citadelofposh
      @citadelofposh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thissssssss

  • @poojashinde7965
    @poojashinde7965 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    Thank you so much for this because I have autism and while I'm very in tune with my dark feminine energy, I still didn't know how to show it off. This, though...but THIS. This is the playbook I needed in order to exceed in my dating life because the Lord knows my daddy didn't teach me anything I NEEDED to know, just contributed to my low slef-esteem.

    • @oliviaa_clairee
      @oliviaa_clairee ปีที่แล้ว +32

      MOOOOOOD

    • @amoraa.
      @amoraa. ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I'm autistic as well. I was somehow in my dark feminine AND my masculine energy before shera, so she has definitely helped me.

    • @amoraa5114
      @amoraa5114 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think shera is great for girls with autism!

    • @samten4097
      @samten4097 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Me too. I always get anxious when men be coming onto me so I had to learn how to leverage it

    • @jessicawilson2422
      @jessicawilson2422 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did you know you had autism? I always test negative but question myself alot

  • @aileenmac1
    @aileenmac1 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    “if he’s ugly imagine his wallet” 😂

    • @anka6356
      @anka6356 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aahhaahahahah

  • @sudan723
    @sudan723 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I’m about to get a Shera award because I’m about to act my butt off lol

  • @VenanceChiepodeu-vu4sr
    @VenanceChiepodeu-vu4sr ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Her delivery is comedy lmaooo but it’s so GOLD!!! 🔑 When I tell you I took NOTES!!! 😂👏🏾👏🏾I can’t wait to get her books!

  • @dreamofjayda5268
    @dreamofjayda5268 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The dessert "RICH" & the "I'ma call u when i get home almost TOOK ME TF OUUTTTT 😂😩😫

  • @Mynameisdarkxxo
    @Mynameisdarkxxo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You’re so right about being less nervous when you go in with this mentality, it’s been three guys so far in a span of a less of a month & your strategies work wonders. I had that realisation earlier that this is why men behave the way they do!! Body language is everything baby

  • @Forexroadrunner
    @Forexroadrunner ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Shera, I used the tire gag with a dude and he got offended and told me how was I surviving before him. So I stopped texting. Your methods are great but dudes now are different and on viagra. They literally start mentioning their penis the minute you sit down in the chair for the date. It's creepy.

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Then you start mentioning your bills.

    • @gingerjones111
      @gingerjones111 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Talk bills. If no reply, then ghost.

    • @Charlett2013
      @Charlett2013 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      Those are called DUSTIES. This advice does NOT work on broke men. There is a entire series on Dusties. Run from them, leave as soon as they mention what they want.

    • @Forexroadrunner
      @Forexroadrunner ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Charlett2013 yes I'm on it.

    • @love.1995
      @love.1995 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Sweetheart, you are not entertaining the kind of men Shera is referencing.

  • @kailynae2271
    @kailynae2271 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    When you laugh at the things you say 😂😂😂 funny as hell

  • @arrinimani1659
    @arrinimani1659 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    Eye contact
    Assume something about him
    Tell him an exciting/ dumb secret
    Smile while he talks
    Ask him to help you pick something off the menu
    Enjoy the food in a sexy way
    Look him the eyes when the waiter ask about desserts
    Suggest you guys share
    Ask him what he’s in the mood for

    • @alejandragamez6155
      @alejandragamez6155 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who eats desserts. Im full from the meal.

  • @berri6015
    @berri6015 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    “Don’t look like he paid, look like he can afford” - Ashera
    ABSOLUTE BARS

  • @Ashley-yr2lq
    @Ashley-yr2lq ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I watched this vid and went on a date later last night…had that man grinning from ear to ear for 3 hours ☺️

  • @berenice072298
    @berenice072298 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Girl you’re skilled lol

  • @Neema825
    @Neema825 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This works on young men 32+ from wealthy and upper class families who were raised by older men.

    • @DearStephanieX
      @DearStephanieX ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true 💕

    • @niamphdollieofficial
      @niamphdollieofficial 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's my goal I want his money but I want to at least be with someone I'm attracted to at LEAST

  • @krystalnykole
    @krystalnykole ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Baby I’ve been laughing more than I’ve been taking my notes!! You are hilarious!!!

  • @ppippoppippo597
    @ppippoppippo597 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    You are a genius! I have succeeded in marriage thanks to you!🙇‍♀️

  • @luztorreano7056
    @luztorreano7056 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I'm a straight woman and I think I was somehow enchanted by you. :|

  • @Redeemedgirly
    @Redeemedgirly ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I loooove this beautiful woman right here, wish I found her channel sooner! It works ladies!! She is THEE truth! 🥰

  • @BreeziDeezi
    @BreeziDeezi ปีที่แล้ว +33

    If he’s not attractive , I definitely can still envision him spending money on me 😂 you are golden

  • @erickavoguemodel9283
    @erickavoguemodel9283 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I ran from tiktok after seeing you pop up on my feed and in this moment I'm trusting gods timing and your videos coming into my life is divine timing. Thank you my big sister I never had god bless ❤

  • @jasmineedwards8333
    @jasmineedwards8333 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Loyal listeners love Shera, - her steps are clear, possible.
    Giving us smart ladies itemised useful advice , -
    Shera's the meritorious professor of express prosperity.

  • @limitlessglobalgirl
    @limitlessglobalgirl ปีที่แล้ว +39

    ROFL - on your 3rd video today. Getting so many nuggets of wisdom on feminity + being aligned to womans design. I learn from you, RC Blakes, my own divine downloads, and truly feeling like being prepared for life + mate on the way!

  • @Tatianarain
    @Tatianarain ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Damn i wish I had seen this earlier. I recently noticed that this is what I’m missing. It really is the difference between being that girl a man can never forget and the girl who gets the slow fade. 😂

  • @tls4022
    @tls4022 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    This is good to know haha I think I over-interviewed this one guy because I was so nervous and anxious, he ended up not calling me back LOL 🤣🤣

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did he ever come back? Men always come back.

    • @tls4022
      @tls4022 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@j-tenn226 not as of yet 🤣 will update you lol he wasn’t worth it anyway, still a broke ass

    • @cheyennestephens9417
      @cheyennestephens9417 ปีที่แล้ว

      In what way did you interview him, whatd you say lol

    • @724moon
      @724moon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Girl, I did the same and now when I listen Shera in this video, I feel so emarance of my self 😅🤣

  • @Aestheticallyalgerian
    @Aestheticallyalgerian ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl i remember when you popped on my fyp the first time, i paused scrolling down and thought to myself, damn this woman is really beautiful.

  • @kekef3620
    @kekef3620 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Shera, I'm back (head down). I followed you many years ago but I guess my mind simply wasn't ready. I thought I was the exception and that I found a guy who was "different." Joke was on me. I'm ready to be a student and I'm taking notes.

    • @iamme8947
      @iamme8947 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Girl same I'm back after 3 years 😂😂😂 🤡

    • @kekef3620
      @kekef3620 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@iamme8947 🤣🤣😭 she would be appalled if she knew the details. But at least we learned our lessons and can now take notes and do better.

    • @ToniOne03
      @ToniOne03 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same a whole Barbara the builder.

  • @armybrat323
    @armybrat323 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    I laughed the whole time. I love your sense of humor! So intelligent and funny!thank you for all these free game! I’ve purchased your books and anything you sell I’m getting! lol wish i knew about you sooner 😫💖

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  ปีที่แล้ว +28

      thank u so much ❤

    • @angelamc3532
      @angelamc3532 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@SheRaSeven1So how do you Enchant a person, that you don't see regularly anymore. Can you do it on their picture??

  • @honeyasonja522
    @honeyasonja522 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    This was Golden! Thank you Shera 💅👑💰Ladies stay on your goals Sheras videos and books are the manual, if you want the level up lifestyle; stay out of your feelings they will send you into poverty. Think longterm selfcare high standards always recall, chess not checkers.💰💰💰💅💅💅
    #softlife

    • @mikescott4780
      @mikescott4780 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This was her best video to date. I have learned a ton from this. She is the filter I always wanted. Selling the dream has never been easier.. I have even read her books. Great stuff.

  • @brookehillman6186
    @brookehillman6186 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I love her so much like she literally guides me through life 😅

  • @kiaralyshell1994
    @kiaralyshell1994 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    I’m so glad I watched this Shera because I was literally about to do the interview style 😂😂😂 I even had a list of questions ready 😅😅

    • @Mscokrissy715
      @Mscokrissy715 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Me toooo omg let me delete that from my notes 😂😂😂😂

    • @yoshungoddess
      @yoshungoddess ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @kiaralyshell1994
      @kiaralyshell1994 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Mscokrissy715 Same!! Girl I had my notes ready haha I quickly deleted after I saw this

    • @ToniOne03
      @ToniOne03 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

    • @nikkig6035
      @nikkig6035 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @wisediamond830
    @wisediamond830 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was the best show ever, so much information...Shera, you are a gem!

  • @GoddessLaurel
    @GoddessLaurel ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You just get better and better.. thank you for sharing your endless wisdom. 💖

  • @Gmirra5849
    @Gmirra5849 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A lot of this stuff I already say and do naturally…but I can see where I’m fumbling … Thanks- Im about to start bagging them!

  • @missm6082
    @missm6082 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Getting ready for a date and listening to this! thanks Shear xx

    • @AlwaysSpoilt
      @AlwaysSpoilt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You got this baby ❤

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Shera makes me laugh out loud 😂😂 like I be literally cackling 🤣🤣

  • @Justonevideoplease
    @Justonevideoplease ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This was so funny!!! She’s a full on comedian lol I can’t take her! I’d love to watch a real date with her lol

    • @pasa186
      @pasa186 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’d be laughing so much because I’d realize when she’d be dropping her gems, her game #SPRINKLESPRINKLE 😂😂😂
      Shera is a genius

  • @Sosososossoo
    @Sosososossoo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This woman is genius !!!😂

  • @itsabbymarieb
    @itsabbymarieb ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I liked this video just seeing the title. bringin the energy 😍✨

  • @breonna1
    @breonna1 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The voice Shera puts on for the men 😂😂😂😭

  • @janellelakia
    @janellelakia ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I know my fairy god mother when I see her✨

  • @thetruthteller33
    @thetruthteller33 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Listen ladies sometimes i get there early so that i can have a cocktail to loosen up so i can run game 😂😂😂😂. Its actually hard for me to fake the funk but the martini always does the job to gas a man up

  • @blabla7652
    @blabla7652 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ive spent too much of my time and energy on dusties. Im only gonna date rich man now. Im so glad you came on my feed. Aint no dusty ass man breaking my heart and using me anymore because I want love

  • @miameghynh
    @miameghynh ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video has me smiling laughin as I’m walking on the beach

  • @CrochetStudent36
    @CrochetStudent36 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    You are a TREASURE!! I send these videos to my younger cousins as often as possible!!! I DO NOT want them to end up like I was, young, dumb & looking for love outside of myself!!!

    • @phi-losiphy2038
      @phi-losiphy2038 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You are an amazing cousin! Doing the job their mother couldn't!❤

    • @alexisbee
      @alexisbee ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yup i show my neice the way too..The young ladies definitely need the guidance, especially in todays culture. The fellas aren't fellering 😂

    • @ToniOne03
      @ToniOne03 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes same. I watch these for my daughter.

  • @Sunshinelady82
    @Sunshinelady82 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Have fun period. Ease him right on to spending more money and getting more dates

  • @Trinidancr
    @Trinidancr ปีที่แล้ว +43

    A Walk date is insulting..

  • @jessicanicole1715
    @jessicanicole1715 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I’m learning so much on your page, thank you queen💖😌

  • @sybersandy
    @sybersandy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think pisces woman are naturally enchanting. Shera's so beautiful, literally every single look suits her!

  • @timetoshiny5182
    @timetoshiny5182 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You’re the smartest women I have ever seen

  • @arielsheniza
    @arielsheniza ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow, an Icon ✨ I’m listening!

  • @kaydkaydkayd
    @kaydkaydkayd ปีที่แล้ว +10

    im so intrigued by ur mind like how do u come up w these storylines + choices for when stuff might go left 😦

  • @nicolletteramirez
    @nicolletteramirez ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’ve been so right re providers tho. They are either providers or they are not and you can’t get water out a stone. Pick the right target.

  • @madirose
    @madirose ปีที่แล้ว +35

    the grinch voice when ur imitating them 😂😂

  • @ErinDeNis
    @ErinDeNis ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There is a technique of attraction that says when you look at man, imagine a juicy Ribeye steak, the flavors, the smells, the texture, everything. It works.

  • @juicyy3951
    @juicyy3951 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Sheera you are super skilled…..intelligent and gorgeous 💕❤️💕
    Wish I stuck to you Chanel first time I came across it couple of years ago….I wouldn’t still be where I am today….but anyways never too late…..love you ❤️❤️❤️💕💕❤️

  • @oziomaannieiwuoha4612
    @oziomaannieiwuoha4612 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    With you Shera, my thinking has definitely shifted during the year for the better, as I keep levelling up. Right now, I am unapologetically picky. I think I'm gonna try out that" gold digger' inscription on my t-shirt. I laughed.What a great sense of humour you've got.el ow el 😂🤣😅. Thank you Ms. Love from Nigeria, West Africa.

  • @eggsheran2601
    @eggsheran2601 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shera is our mother at this point

  • @pinqfriday2490
    @pinqfriday2490 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love this woman omg 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @bigchichi
    @bigchichi ปีที่แล้ว +108

    ive done everything she says you shouldnt do. i feel so embarrassed

    • @tyd8077
      @tyd8077 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      We all have. We need to teach our daughters what our mothers failed to.

    • @dancingdivazriooo
      @dancingdivazriooo ปีที่แล้ว +39

      One time I went on a date and the man was doing all the enchanting 😂

    • @AllDsFAM
      @AllDsFAM ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It's ok to show yourself grace for simply not knowing while trying to survive the dating world. Dont be so hard on yourself. Your new level up dating life is just beginning. Plenty of new men to enchant 😉😏

    • @nyashaziwondo
      @nyashaziwondo 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@AllDsFAMI needed this😩thank you