I lost my husband 2 years ago. That is when I started watching you and a few other TH-camrs. I am 61 now, and still working on getting good enough to decide what to do. I spent the last 40 years raising 11 children and homeschooling them all, and now I am a widow, without anyone to plan and dream with. I will figure it out. Bless you guys!
I'm so sorry for your loss.❤️ You should travel and go to all the places you've always wanted to see. Camping or airBnB. There are groups to join too. Your grandchildren might want to join too. 🙂 My grandmother traveled a little with friends after my grandfather passed. She also painted and re-decorated her house. She was 70 then.
So so sorry for your loss. I couldn't comment on Bert's video as I was crying so much I couldn't see my screen. Loss of a loved one is so hard. I lost my husband (67 yrs old) suddenly in March. It still doesn't seem real. Keeping busy during the day and praying helps. My heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. 🙏🙏🙏
I’m praying for you. God please comfort Annemarie. Give her a peace like no other. Give her rest during this time. We give you praise even in the struggle. We love you, amen. Much love.
See if Audrey can be like a candy striper volunteer at a hospital or nursing home or even just go spend a couple of hours a week with grandma and grandpa just hanging out with them 💙
Greetings from Northeast Ohio. God bless your mother and dad Bert for they’re the ones that had the day-to-day care of grandma. They’re the ones that remodeled their home and did everything they could to give her the comfort she so deserved. It’s a loving gift that they gave to her but most people walk away from. I took care of my mother for the last 16 months of her life. She was bedridden and we had to use a Hoyer lift to move her from room to room. It was the best gift I could ever have given her and it was a gift of taking care of her that she gave to me. So sending Blessings to your mom and dad
Prayers for your dad and your whole family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I lost my mom in 2011 and I still grieve, some days are harder than others like her birthday, but I get through by remembering some great times I had with her. I listen to music and that helps me feel better if am having a bad day. ❤️🙏🏻 I know my dad at 81 almost 82 is ready to go and be with God and my mom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Put my papaw into hospice about 4 weeks ago, and within 5 days he was gone. Was with him when he took his last breath. He was ready to go which is a blessing, yet learning how to live now without him is so incredibly hard.
I love the analogy that grief is like a button in a box with a ball bouncing around. At first the ball is huge and hits that button constantly. Over time, the ball gets smaller and doesn’t hit the button as often, but it still hurts just as much when it does.
Thank You for posting today. My heart goes out to your Mom and Dad who graciously allowed for you to video tape them. Isn't God Good.He gives us such strength to endure the toughest thing's in life. Your example on Loving and Trusting God to help you through this loss of Great Grandma your children will always remember. I'm to going to keep you all in my prayers. God Bless You All. ✝️🙏
My parents passed within 10 months of each other. It was incredibly sad BUT on the flipside, they are together, young and fully restored. The dates come and go of their birth, wedding anniversary and their deaths. It's still sad at about 2 years out, but so much to be thankful about them. They lived a long life and were able to see their 2 great grandkids almost on a daily basis. So fortunate on many levels.
I lost my mom at the end of 2017. But, knowing that she is now in a beautiful place where there is no more pain and suffering brings me unexplainable peace! I miss her every single day, but I know she is now with Jesus.
I also lost my mum in April 2017 and can’t believe it’s been 5 years since she passed. I miss her so much, especially when I struggle with life - she always knew what to say. As time has gone on the pain gets easier definitely but there are times when it gets hard. My dad didn’t take her passing well and tried to drink himself to death. That didn’t happen and he is still here with us. Long story but Jesus was with us during these past 5 years. What gives me comfort and peace is she is in a much better place and look forward to seeing her again. The loss of a loved one is extremely tough and grief is like a roller coaster up and down. Adjusting to life without them feels like a heavy weight but it’s good to cry, keep busy and distracted but also to deal with the loss is important. Praise the Lord Jesus for everything he has done for us. 🙏❤️
Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom back in 1995 when I was only 19. I know it's hard but what keeps me going everyday is just remembering all the good things and good times with her and being able to tell my daughter all about her because my daughter never got to meet her. God bless you and your family for what y'all are doing
You are still in my prayers. Your dad and mom too. Your kids and Jessica also. I think you 2 are awesome wanting to build affordable homes for people. God's continued blessings for you.
I didn't really know what to say, but I wanted you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so impressed with Audrey. She has matured so much in the last year or so, taking on responsibilities like driving and working. She has such a beautiful soul. You have done well with all of your children. God bless you all.
Somers family - I am so very sorry that you are going through this. I lost my son this last June and, of course, my heart is broken. I have no great words of wisdom to share. Your close-knit family and your strong faith is your greatest tool in this process. From what you've shared today, it appears you are taking the best course available to us - getting up, taking a deep breath and staying as busy as you can. To me, this process feels like an earthquake. There is the first huge quake that turns you world upside down and then all the small after shocks come unpredictably but each one is a little weaker and than the last. It is wonderful to know that great-grandma is home with the LORD where there is no more pain and that she was looking forward to that. With that being said, it does not take away the hole in our heart because we weren't ready. Heartfelt love to all of you and you will remain in my prayers as you go through this process. (Sorry, this got so long)
I lost my dad and my husband five days apart from each other. Life changes so quickly and so unexpectedly. The healing process takes time with a whole bunch of emotions along the way. Prayer, faith, staying busy and definitely my kids pulled me through. My prayers continue in sending you all love and strength during this time 🙏💖
gosh i feel for you. in 2004 i lost my husband on a wednesday and the following wednesday my father died. sometimes life is really tough. god bless you dear.
I lost my grandmother (we called her Nanny) in September of 2008. She was 95. We always looked out for her, and took her where she wanted or needed to go. Even after 14 years, I still think of the great memories that we had with her. She had three children, seven grandchildren, 14 great grandchildren, and now six great great grandchildren (none of the six who she met). I always had great talks with her. She is with my grandfather, watching over all of us and they are smiling.
I helped take care of my dad for nearly 17 yrs. When he went home I said hallelujah. I knew he was ready. But that doesn't stop the pain of the loss. After several yrs I still miss him and think about him every day but I'm happy for him because there is no more suffering. I'm happy for your grandma but also sad you have to go through this. Love you guys. ❤️🌹❤️
I lost my Dad unexpectedly last year. In five days I went from having my Dad to losing him. We were close so it’s been difficult. For the first few weeks I felt like I was drifting; it didn’t feel like I was part of the world around me. I didn’t cry as much as I thought I would. Possibly because I was worried about my Mum. The kindness of people around me got me through. I also got lots of comfort from my cats. They were happy to cuddle and didn’t “ask” anything of me except to be with me. Like Bert said, it’s a process. Thank you again for taking us with you.
I can feel your pain of losing a loved one. We lost both of our parents in 5 months this year. Those waves of grief come and go. One day you may be fine but the next day the wave comes crashing in. I can feel for Audrey, just something little that brings back those memories can cause you to have an outburst. Hospice calls them grief bursts. Praying that God comforts all of your hearts with those precious memories you have. No matter how old they are, it's never long enough to have them here with us.
I’m in NY.. we always start the Tuesday after Labor Day! It’s so nice to have one last holiday before the school year begins! Many prayers to you all! 💙🙏
I just read an analogy today that "grief is like glitter....you can throw a handful in the air, but when you try to clean it up you'll never get it all. Even after the event, you will still find it tucked into corners...it will always be there...somewhere" ...I like to think of each of those sparkles as a beautiful memory.
I’ve lost my son 7 years ago at 6 months old 7.5 years ago now and what has helped me was definitely staying busy for sure. My dad passed away 10 years ago and grief is so odd how it comes and goes in waves. I’ve lost so many loved ones my 2 adult siblings as well as my mom when I was a child so I guess you could say I’m well experienced with loss not that it’s something anyone would want but what really helps me is my faith. I’m also terminally ill with a rare genetic disorder only 50 of us known with it worldwide it causes aneurisms in my arteries and other chronic medical complications. Much love from a gal in Oregon
Sending you all prayers 🙏🏻,I lost my Sweet Mom 10 years ago and I still grive for Her ,,My best advice is PRAY 🙏🏻 and keep busy and share memories of youre Grandmother ,,Hugs from NYC ❤️💐
The biggest comfort is that she was ready to go. She left in peace. Of course, it's sad for the people she left behind but you can find strenght in the fact that she's finally getting the rest she wanted , and deserved, for so long.
I lost my grandmother a year ago in April. She move in with us when I was 5. I'm so grateful that my 4 children were able to bond and see her all the time. When she got sick we went over there often the kids would do their school work over there just so we could be close to her. Sadly we will be welcome baby #5 Sept 15th and this will be the first one she will not be with me at the hospital. I have mix emotions of course I'm glad she out of pain and in heaven watching over us ,but what I would give to have her by my side. We did decide that our baby middle name will be Lee after her . My prayers are with you and your family during this heartbreaking time ❤️
IT WAS SO BRAVE OF YOU ALL TO COME ON YOUR CHANNEL AT A VERY PRIVATE AND SAD TIME OF YOUR LIVES. RIP DEAR GRAMMA AND IT WAS A BLESSING THAT YOU WERE LOVED AND WILL BE MISSED BY THE WHOLE FAMILY. DANCE WITH THE ANGELS, AND TOGETHER WITH THE PEOPLE I MISS..MY MUM AND NANA. 💕 💖 💕 IF I COULD AS FOR A PRAYER OR 2 FOR MY DAUGHTER, WHO HAS BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH MS. I WOULD APPRECIATE IT VERY MUCH. 🙏 KEEP ON TRYING AND THE DEAR LORD WILL HEAR. LET US ALL PRAY FOR PEACE AND UNITY IN THIS WORLD. THANK YOU SO MUCH. PEACE BE WITH YOU . AMEN. ❤
My mom graduated to Heaven on July 18th, I'm in the process of closing accts which is surreal closing out someones life here on Earth. My kids/grandkids struggled with the loss of Grammie, I understand what your family is going thru. Will continue to pray for y'all ❤
When my momma died in 2012 I knew there was nothing I could do for her..she was gone like we all will be someday. It was then that I realized that there are literally millions of people on this earth that I can help and do something for and I started off on a new path and have never looked back. Be kind to yourselves as you grieve and remember with your heart what great grandma meant to you all with blessings and comfort to all whose lives were touched by her. ❤️
Great grandma had worked her entire life to go home. She’s where she wanted to be. It’s ok to be sad but ok to be joyful for her too!! Praying for you all.
I was given the privilege of having my great grandma in my life until I was nearly 28 years old, we were very close my daughter became our 5th generation 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 she had her 100th birthday on January 18th 1987 🎉🎉🎉🎉 she passed away when she was 100 years 10 months and 10 days old. I miss her so much but, she is with me everyday, I lost everyone now all that’s left is me and my 2 brothers and our children and grandchildren. My great grandma was the glue to our family and no one stepped up after she was gone so we don’t have any family reunions anymore. Prayers for your family to find peace during this most difficult time 🙏🙏🙏💕🌻🦋
I found relief when my Dad went to be with the Lord by making the arrangements for his memorial at our church. He was a WWII Veteran and a decorated hero! He was my hero because he was my Dad. I made a scrapbook for my son with pictures of Dad and writing a life bio of his life. I just took it a day at a time. So just be easy with yourselves, gently go through the days together, it does come in waves, and takes lots of time. My son planted a beautiful rose bush in his yard to honor his Grandfather. He sees his memorial to him all the time, so it's like being with him. Dad liked coffee and doughnuts, so I occasionally have some too to be with him in Spirit. I have his hammer that he used for 60 years working on cars. I hold it sometimes and can even feel his nail marks from gripping the hammer. It somehow comforts me. As you, know Great Grandma is with Jesus, and there is no better place to be. God bless you all, we are with you, take your time and love each other. That's what heals. Love you❤️😊🐶🧒👭👫all very much!
I was 20 when I lost my mom. It was so weird I was literally numb till after her funeral. I did not cry at her visitation but was caring for other family members. At the funeral I let loose. But I knew she was with Jesus, I had such a peace, God had prepared me the night before she died with a dream. The first year is the hardest! But the next year I was blessed with a daughter that looks like her!!! God gave me a little of my mom back!
My mother is 84 years old and tells us every time we talk that she has lived a great life and when the time comes she is ready. But she doesn't think that time is coming anytime soon.
I lost both of my parents within a three month time span (both were expected, unfortunately), and I would definitely agree that keeping busy with everyday tasks was key to help me move on. We don't forget, but the pain of the loss eases after time. I feel for Audrey experiencing what I'm guessing is her first real loss. Would she be interested in working at a daycare, if she's old enough? Or maybe when she's a little older getting her Nurse Aide certification? She definitely has the gift of wanting to serve others, and that is so needed. 🙂
Thank you for your ongoing support for us here outside of Alaska! I have never been there and Im soo grateful to you and yours as my female grands and great grands meant the world to me and they were like mentoring and no it doesnt and didnt mean or make sense at that time!!! Wish I mattered to my kids who I live with!!! Very comfortable sharing!!! I listen to you at night on our wide screen TV TH-cam after the days chaos is over,!!! You have great kids!! Love from Ruskin FLA
I know that nursing homes welcome volunteers of all ages. This old lady volunteered doing crafts. I only went once a month but to see the smiles when I came made my day. Also nursery schools may also welcome volunteers.
I lost my Mom 12 years ago, my dad 4 years ago and my husband last year. I love watching your family. I have 2 kids, a teenager and a 9 year old and I do relate to you and the everyday struggles of raising a family. My kids and I try to be happy, my husband and parents wouldn't want us to be sad, so we try to create happiness in our life as well as others as much as we can in their memory. God bless you and your family.
Bert, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear grandma. It is always in God’s time when he needs to call one home. Audrey, you were a blessing to your great grandma. God told you in your heart that your great grandma needed you in her last days. Everyone needs a helping hand and that is a blessing when they receive it. I took care of my grandpa and my parents in their final days. I was happy to do it. I have no regrets.
Great Grandma was such a wonderful person and had a loving family to surround her with blessings every day. She will always be with you. Hugs and love.
Hello Happy Peoples, I'm so glad that you share your family with me. Great Grandma was the same age my mom would have been. She passed away 18 years ago. She had some really bad health issues from smoking and other things. Too bad she didn't live to see my 10 grand kids. Y'all are truly blessed to of had GG that long. I know it's never easy to lose a loved one. When Bert made the announcement a few days ago, I was weeping with him. Praying for God's comfort for the family. Y'all are amazing.
I walk through grief by trying to remember the joy and laughter that I shared with those who has gone home to glory. But there are times when something will trigger tears and that’s ok. You can’t truly appreciate joy without some sorrow
we just had the graveside service for my mom she was 92, when she went into the hospital she knew the end was coming soon, she told us don't be sad I have had a great life, we said something about mom, she was the best oatmeal molasses brown bread maker, growing up that was Saturday supper with baked beans. miss you mom but now she is with dad and her son and my brother again ❤️
My family lost my oldest brother and his wife suddenly a year ago - those waves of sadness still surface these days. What has helped me is to NOT squash those feelings as they come but rather let them come, honor them. My life will never be the same without these two wonderful people. Laugh and mourn those we miss for they make us the people we are. Blessings and peace to your family from mine in Maine.
I have been there! The transition is difficult and the silence of it is defining. You will adjust with Gods grace! Continued prayers for all of you. 🙏🙏🙏
Don't know if you will read this, but in the last video Bert put me in a good place. My mother passed in June, she was 88 years old. She didn't want a funeral much like your grandmother. So many people made me feel like I was doing the wrong thing. It was difficult, but I promised her. We will scatter her cremains with my father's the way they wanted. Thank you so much for honoring your grandma's wishes. 🙏🙏
I have two grandmas. One is 95 and refuses she’s old but her body says differently, lives on her own. My other grandma is 99 and is pleasant, smiles at you even though she can’t hardly see or hear you.
Hello Somers Family... Wish I had words to help and comfort You. I'm 77 the words Bert you shared comforted me. I lost my husband 18 years ago and its like its still right now. I'm an only child so besides my 2 girls and a son-in-law that's all the family I have. I'm so greatful to have them. But there's no one like your partner to share hopes and plans for tomorrow but my tomorrow is now. I'm so Blessed to have found your TH-cam channel. Your family gives me so much joy. That was so sweet one of "the Happy Peoples" sent your parents flowers🌹I pray God gives you comfort. God Bless LuvYa! Bye from NE Ohio
I have lost my entire family it's been 21 years since I had any family, i'm 75, I just believe being your best self, kind, loving, and helpful to others. my deepest condolences to your family, death is never easy, Keep your memories close.
On the 27th of August my husband of 22 years crossed over Thank god for my children and my grandchildren My family my friends For trying to help me transition into my new why of life.
My grandma (my dad's mom) passed away 4 years ago. She was 92 when she had passed on. I was very lucky to have my grandma for 23 years. I got a phone call no one wants to get from my dad 4 years ago saying that grandma had passed the night before. I had many wonderful memories over the years. Those memories will always stay with you no matter what. My grandma is watching over me.
As I said on your other vlog. Audrey is an angel. So loving & compassionate & so mature for her age. I lost my parents, and all my siblings. 3 brothers. I feel like an orphan even though I have a husband & son. God bless you all. ❤️🙏
Lost both my Mom and Dad last year Dad in January and Mom in October. I just have to remind my self that I know they are safe and in a better place with my younger brother, family and friends. I understand the knowing that a family member is ready to go especially when they are sick and suffering everyday. Take care you all were very lucky to have her for 92 years. Thank you for your videos.
I lost my mother on July 3. Time. Give yourselves time. I still cry, I still miss her terribly. But, I take comfort knowing she's not hurting any more. Remember the good, the laughter and the love. She is always with you.
Grief hits you like an ocean wave at times. Ride it and allow it to bring you back to the shore. Everyone grieves differently. We each have to do it our way. It does help to know exactly where she is. Now, she would not choose to come back, even if she could. I checked and there isn't a group near Fairbanks, but Griefshare is an excellent Christian program to help on how to go through the process. Prayers for you as you go through this journey.
I've lost 5 members of my family in the 14 months. A grandson, an aunt, my sister another aunt and my sister-in-law. I know God has me and all the family. It gets overwhelming some but I still know God carries us daily. Condolences to all the family for y'all's loss. It's ok to cry and feel hurt but to trust in the Lord.
I have found something that help me when I’ve lost people was journaling. I would write down memories so I don’t forget them. Thinking of you all and sending lots of hugs and prayers.🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
Still lifting your family up in prayers! just breathe, share your memories, cry, laugh, and pray! For Audrey, think about a job with children. She needs to be young, to laugh and play and feel joy again! Sending love and prayers for the whole clan. I lost my parents in 2001, three and a half months apart. It was devastating. It almost broke me. But, lean on your family and friends, pray and cry and laugh, share your stories and memories. 🙏❤🙏
Losing loved ones is very hard. I'm 64 and there's still times when I cry for my parents. I lost my father at 19, my mom at 37. Some of my aunts and uncles have passed away recently. The memories of their laughter, lessons of life, cooking and so much more is what keeps me going. I will see them again.
A lot of people find doing something in their memory helps its different for each person. It could be writing down memories a scrap book ,donating to a charity or even planting a tree.
Hello. I want you guys to know that y'all mean so much to this community. We all love you. You guys make us feel like part of your family. Just know that we are all here and praying for you. 💜❤💜❤
What’s helped me with my dad passing when I was 9 and several family members since is that no matter what they are within us and always watching over us 💫 xx
I lost my dad unexpectedly in April 2021 and then my grandfather passed away August 2021 from Cancer. I know the grief journey all to well. We know they are healed and in a better place and we will see them soon! ❤️ But it definitely still hurts that they are not here on Earth with us. Still working through the emotions and learning our new normal.
I lost both of my parents almost a year ago. I'm still adjusting, but I think what is most important, is to continue looking forward and not overly dwelling in the past. The past is nice to reflect on, but we have to go forward. It's so easy to get stuck in regrets and "what-ifs"... I hope that makes sense. God bless you Somers.
I lost my oldest sister and my Mother this summer. Both had serious health issues and they weren't going to get any better. The fact that they aren't suffering anymore helps me alot.
We are bless that u share your life with us !! And make us smile part of your family ! This life we all at that age ppl will come and go . Your grandma with grandpa it ok . 92 that a amazing life . I have uncle that 92 he want nithing tj be with my aunt he has nothing but me and only me ! But I want him with his love and and happy he nit happy . Praying for u all to heal ! Just think of all the happy times and think about how she so happy now and nit sitting all day praying for her ti me with your grandpa! God bless so true u can’t walk do anthing for self and 92 we can’t ask them tj be here for us ! It about them now !
I lost my mom 2 years ago and staying busy helps. I still have my moments but it gets easier with time. Missing them doesn't go away but knowing that they are in a happy place pain free rejoicing with Jesus, definitely helps. I pray for you during this time.
I lost my mom two years ago, she lived with me and it was very hard. I tried to keep doing my normal things, I have disabilities myself but just trying to keep your mind occupied seem to help. I still have days that are bad, missing her You just have to take it one day at a time. God Bless you all. Love you guys. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Grief is a journey that takes you down a road like no other. I’ve been on this road for almost 17 years with the loss of my husband and parents after that. It will hit you like a punch in the stomach but other times are good. I always remind myself that our loved ones are with us just not the way we like. They’re with Jesus in heaven. The most beautiful place of all!!! That’s what gets me through.
Changes of life is what keeps us going. As I constantly struggle with my anxiety to keep my panic attacks at bay I just try to give myself a positive quote or just remembering that the good Lord is carrying me every step of the way even on my worst days. God bless you all . One day at a time, One step at a time
I've lost my dad, my favorite aunt, 3 of my grandparents after I was 25. I had a long time with them. Recently, my grandmother passed. Grief is the hardest thing to go though in life, but with faith in the Lord there is comfort in knowing I'll see them again. I heard a short message on Grief Share and one person said "If we knew what heaven was really Iike we'd never wish them back. We'd also quit trying to stay so healthy".
I lost my husband 2 years ago. That is when I started watching you and a few other TH-camrs. I am 61 now, and still working on getting good enough to decide what to do. I spent the last 40 years raising 11 children and homeschooling them all, and now I am a widow, without anyone to plan and dream with. I will figure it out. Bless you guys!
I 🙏🏾 you will find your way your still young , take good care of yourself love will find a way ❤️🌲🌲🌲🧚🕊️💞💐
I'm so sorry for your loss.❤️ You should travel and go to all the places you've always wanted to see. Camping or airBnB. There are groups to join too. Your grandchildren might want to join too. 🙂
My grandmother traveled a little with friends after my grandfather passed. She also painted and re-decorated her house. She was 70 then.
I did some volunteering to help kids read at the local school.
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God bless you precious lady. Sending you a big hug.❤️
So so sorry for your loss. I couldn't comment on Bert's video as I was crying so much I couldn't see my screen. Loss of a loved one is so hard. I lost my husband (67 yrs old) suddenly in March. It still doesn't seem real. Keeping busy during the day and praying helps. My heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. 🙏🙏🙏
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I’m praying for you. God please comfort Annemarie. Give her a peace like no other. Give her rest during this time. We give you praise even in the struggle. We love you, amen. Much love.
So sorry for your loss.
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See if Audrey can be like a candy striper volunteer at a hospital or nursing home or even just go spend a couple of hours a week with grandma and grandpa just hanging out with them 💙
She would do so well in a nursing home! The amount of lives she could bless! The world could use a thousand more Audreys!!!
Great idea Melissa
She would be so great at it! Such a kindhearted person.
One thing they dont get at nursing homes is fresh fruit what ever berries you can get your hands on I'm sure they would love
They don’t have candy stripper any more ! I never forget that ! Those are good old days .
Greetings from Northeast Ohio. God bless your mother and dad Bert for they’re the ones that had the day-to-day care of grandma. They’re the ones that remodeled their home and did everything they could to give her the comfort she so deserved. It’s a loving gift that they gave to her but most people walk away from. I took care of my mother for the last 16 months of her life. She was bedridden and we had to use a Hoyer lift to move her from room to room. It was the best gift I could ever have given her and it was a gift of taking care of her that she gave to me. So sending Blessings to your mom and dad
Prayers for your dad and your whole family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I lost my mom in 2011 and I still grieve, some days are harder than others like her birthday, but I get through by remembering some great times I had with her. I listen to music and that helps me feel better if am having a bad day. ❤️🙏🏻 I know my dad at 81 almost 82 is ready to go and be with God and my mom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Put my papaw into hospice about 4 weeks ago, and within 5 days he was gone. Was with him when he took his last breath. He was ready to go which is a blessing, yet learning how to live now without him is so incredibly hard.
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Sending prayers to you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Praying for you and your family 🙏
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So sorry for your loss. 💔
I love the analogy that grief is like a button in a box with a ball bouncing around. At first the ball is huge and hits that button constantly. Over time, the ball gets smaller and doesn’t hit the button as often, but it still hurts just as much when it does.
Thank You for posting today. My heart goes out to your Mom and Dad who graciously allowed for you to video tape them. Isn't God Good.He gives us such strength to endure the toughest thing's in life. Your example on Loving and Trusting God to help you through this loss of Great Grandma your children will always remember. I'm to going to keep you all in my prayers. God Bless You All. ✝️🙏
My parents passed within 10 months of each other. It was incredibly sad BUT on the flipside, they are together, young and fully restored. The dates come and go of their birth, wedding anniversary and their deaths. It's still sad at about 2 years out, but so much to be thankful about them. They lived a long life and were able to see their 2 great grandkids almost on a daily basis. So fortunate on many levels.
I lost my mom at the end of 2017. But, knowing that she is now in a beautiful place where there is no more pain and suffering brings me unexplainable peace! I miss her every single day, but I know she is now with Jesus.
I also lost my mum in April 2017 and can’t believe it’s been 5 years since she passed. I miss her so much, especially when I struggle with life - she always knew what to say. As time has gone on the pain gets easier definitely but there are times when it gets hard. My dad didn’t take her passing well and tried to drink himself to death. That didn’t happen and he is still here with us. Long story but Jesus was with us during these past 5 years. What gives me comfort and peace is she is in a much better place and look forward to seeing her again. The loss of a loved one is extremely tough and grief is like a roller coaster up and down. Adjusting to life without them feels like a heavy weight but it’s good to cry, keep busy and distracted but also to deal with the loss is important. Praise the Lord Jesus for everything he has done for us. 🙏❤️
Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom back in 1995 when I was only 19. I know it's hard but what keeps me going everyday is just remembering all the good things and good times with her and being able to tell my daughter all about her because my daughter never got to meet her. God bless you and your family for what y'all are doing
It’s gonna be hard for changes, but SomersInAlaska can do it❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are still in my prayers. Your dad and mom too. Your kids and Jessica also. I think you 2 are awesome wanting to build affordable homes for people. God's continued blessings for you.
Change is hard but great Grandma is at peace and happy. Prayers for you all.
I didn't really know what to say, but I wanted you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so impressed with Audrey. She has matured so much in the last year or so, taking on responsibilities like driving and working. She has such a beautiful soul. You have done well with all of your children. God bless you all.
Somers family - I am so very sorry that you are going through this. I lost my son this last June and, of course, my heart is broken. I have no great words of wisdom to share. Your close-knit family and your strong faith is your greatest tool in this process. From what you've shared today, it appears you are taking the best course available to us - getting up, taking a deep breath and staying as busy as you can. To me, this process feels like an earthquake. There is the first huge quake that turns you world upside down and then all the small after shocks come unpredictably but each one is a little weaker and than the last. It is wonderful to know that great-grandma is home with the LORD where there is no more pain and that she was looking forward to that. With that being said, it does not take away the hole in our heart because we weren't ready. Heartfelt love to all of you and you will remain in my prayers as you go through this process. (Sorry, this got so long)
I lost my dad and my husband five days apart from each other. Life changes so quickly and so unexpectedly. The healing process takes time with a whole bunch of emotions along the way. Prayer, faith, staying busy and definitely my kids pulled me through. My prayers continue in sending you all love and strength during this time 🙏💖
Hugs!
Hugs and prayers 🙏
gosh i feel for you. in 2004 i lost my husband on a wednesday and the following wednesday my father died. sometimes life is really tough. god bless you dear.
Memories of our loved ones are so precious.
I lost my grandmother (we called her Nanny) in September of 2008. She was 95. We always looked out for her, and took her where she wanted or needed to go. Even after 14 years, I still think of the great memories that we had with her. She had three children, seven grandchildren, 14 great grandchildren, and now six great great grandchildren (none of the six who she met). I always had great talks with her. She is with my grandfather, watching over all of us and they are smiling.
I lost my grandmother, I missed her very much, When I spent the moment with her years ago,
Grandma is walking the streets of heaven rejoicing!!!
I'm so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. The grief process is so personal and unique for everyone. One day at a time.
I helped take care of my dad for nearly 17 yrs. When he went home I said hallelujah. I knew he was ready. But that doesn't stop the pain of the loss. After several yrs I still miss him and think about him every day but I'm happy for him because there is no more suffering. I'm happy for your grandma but also sad you have to go through this. Love you guys. ❤️🌹❤️
Even though she may not be here anymore, grandma/great grandma will always live on in your hearts.
I lost my Dad unexpectedly last year. In five days I went from having my Dad to losing him. We were close so it’s been difficult. For the first few weeks I felt like I was drifting; it didn’t feel like I was part of the world around me. I didn’t cry as much as I thought I would. Possibly because I was worried about my Mum. The kindness of people around me got me through. I also got lots of comfort from my cats. They were happy to cuddle and didn’t “ask” anything of me except to be with me.
Like Bert said, it’s a process. Thank you again for taking us with you.
I can feel your pain of losing a loved one. We lost both of our parents in 5 months this year. Those waves of grief come and go. One day you may be fine but the next day the wave comes crashing in. I can feel for Audrey, just something little that brings back those memories can cause you to have an outburst. Hospice calls them grief bursts. Praying that God comforts all of your hearts with those precious memories you have. No matter how old they are, it's never long enough to have them here with us.
Thank you for always sharing real life moments with all of us. Much love and prayers Somers Family!!! Audrey had a heart of gold!!!
I’m in NY.. we always start the Tuesday after Labor Day! It’s so nice to have one last holiday before the school year begins! Many prayers to you all! 💙🙏
92yrs old is amazing. My oldest great grandparent was 85 when she passed.
You all have touched my heart with your kindness, even in your moment of pain, I would like to say thank you,God bless. ♥️🇨🇦
I just read an analogy today that "grief is like glitter....you can throw a handful in the air, but when you try to clean it up you'll never get it all. Even after the event, you will still find it tucked into corners...it will always be there...somewhere" ...I like to think of each of those sparkles as a beautiful memory.
I’ve lost my son 7 years ago at 6 months old 7.5 years ago now and what has helped me was definitely staying busy for sure. My dad passed away 10 years ago and grief is so odd how it comes and goes in waves. I’ve lost so many loved ones my 2 adult siblings as well as my mom when I was a child so I guess you could say I’m well experienced with loss not that it’s something anyone would want but what really helps me is my faith. I’m also terminally ill with a rare genetic disorder only 50 of us known with it worldwide it causes aneurisms in my arteries and other chronic medical complications. Much love from a gal in Oregon
Sending u good wishes and prayers 🙏🏻
Sending you all prayers 🙏🏻,I lost my Sweet Mom 10 years ago and I still grive for Her ,,My best advice is PRAY 🙏🏻 and keep busy and share memories of youre Grandmother ,,Hugs from NYC ❤️💐
The biggest comfort is that she was ready to go. She left in peace. Of course, it's sad for the people she left behind but you can find strenght in the fact that she's finally getting the rest she wanted , and deserved, for so long.
I lost my grandmother a year ago in April. She move in with us when I was 5. I'm so grateful that my 4 children were able to bond and see her all the time. When she got sick we went over there often the kids would do their school work over there just so we could be close to her. Sadly we will be welcome baby #5 Sept 15th and this will be the first one she will not be with me at the hospital. I have mix emotions of course I'm glad she out of pain and in heaven watching over us ,but what I would give to have her by my side. We did decide that our baby middle name will be Lee after her . My prayers are with you and your family during this heartbreaking time ❤️
IT WAS SO BRAVE OF YOU ALL TO COME ON YOUR CHANNEL AT A VERY PRIVATE AND SAD TIME OF YOUR LIVES. RIP DEAR GRAMMA AND IT WAS A BLESSING THAT YOU WERE LOVED AND WILL BE MISSED BY THE WHOLE FAMILY. DANCE WITH THE ANGELS, AND TOGETHER WITH THE PEOPLE I MISS..MY MUM AND NANA. 💕 💖 💕 IF I COULD AS FOR A PRAYER OR 2 FOR MY DAUGHTER, WHO HAS BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH MS. I WOULD APPRECIATE IT VERY MUCH. 🙏 KEEP ON TRYING AND THE DEAR LORD WILL HEAR. LET US ALL PRAY FOR PEACE AND UNITY IN THIS WORLD. THANK YOU SO MUCH. PEACE BE WITH YOU . AMEN. ❤
My mom graduated to Heaven on July 18th, I'm in the process of closing accts which is surreal closing out someones life here on Earth. My kids/grandkids struggled with the loss of Grammie, I understand what your family is going thru. Will continue to pray for y'all ❤
Bless your hearts. I'm 64 and still remember my great grandmother. Granny Williams. 💞
When my momma died in 2012 I knew there was nothing I could do for her..she was gone like we all will be someday. It was then that I realized that there are literally millions of people on this earth that I can help and do something for and I started off on a new path and have never looked back. Be kind to yourselves as you grieve and remember with your heart what great grandma meant to you all with blessings and comfort to all whose lives were touched by her. ❤️
Great grandma had worked her entire life to go home. She’s where she wanted to be. It’s ok to be sad but ok to be joyful for her too!! Praying for you all.
Hello Mary
I was given the privilege of having my great grandma in my life until I was nearly 28 years old, we were very close my daughter became our 5th generation 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 she had her 100th birthday on January 18th 1987 🎉🎉🎉🎉 she passed away when she was 100 years 10 months and 10 days old. I miss her so much but, she is with me everyday, I lost everyone now all that’s left is me and my 2 brothers and our children and grandchildren. My great grandma was the glue to our family and no one stepped up after she was gone so we don’t have any family reunions anymore.
Prayers for your family to find peace during this most difficult time 🙏🙏🙏💕🌻🦋
I found relief when my Dad went to be with the Lord by making the arrangements for his memorial at our church. He was a WWII Veteran and a decorated hero! He was my hero because he was my Dad. I made a scrapbook for my son with pictures of Dad and
writing a life bio of his life.
I just took it a day at a time.
So just be easy with yourselves, gently go through the days together, it does come in waves, and takes lots of time. My son planted a beautiful rose bush in his yard to honor his Grandfather. He sees his memorial to him all the time, so it's like being with him. Dad liked coffee and doughnuts, so I occasionally have some too to be with him in Spirit.
I have his hammer that he used for 60 years working on cars. I hold it sometimes and can even feel his nail marks from gripping the hammer. It somehow comforts me.
As you, know Great Grandma is with Jesus, and there is no better place to be. God bless you all, we are with you, take your time and love each other. That's what heals. Love you❤️😊🐶🧒👭👫all very much!
Love you all SomersInAlaska❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was 20 when I lost my mom. It was so weird I was literally numb till after her funeral. I did not cry at her visitation but was caring for other family members. At the funeral I let loose. But I knew she was with Jesus, I had such a peace, God had prepared me the night before she died with a dream. The first year is the hardest! But the next year I was blessed with a daughter that looks like her!!! God gave me a little of my mom back!
My mother is 84 years old and tells us every time we talk that she has lived a great life and when the time comes she is ready. But she doesn't think that time is coming anytime soon.
I lost both of my parents within a three month time span (both were expected, unfortunately), and I would definitely agree that keeping busy with everyday tasks was key to help me move on. We don't forget, but the pain of the loss eases after time. I feel for Audrey experiencing what I'm guessing is her first real loss. Would she be interested in working at a daycare, if she's old enough? Or maybe when she's a little older getting her Nurse Aide certification? She definitely has the gift of wanting to serve others, and that is so needed. 🙂
Thank you for your ongoing support for us here outside of Alaska! I have never been there and Im soo grateful to you and yours as my female grands and great grands meant the world to me and they were like mentoring and no it doesnt and didnt mean or make sense at that time!!! Wish I mattered to my kids who I live with!!! Very comfortable sharing!!! I listen to you at night on our wide screen TV TH-cam after the days chaos is over,!!! You have great kids!! Love from Ruskin FLA
Praying for a hedge of healing and protection. Praying specifically for Audrey. She is young and dealing with death at her age is tough.
Praying for your family 👪 I just lost my uncle last week but I know we will see our loved ones in heaven ❤️ 🙏
Hugs!
Thank you you so kind 😘
You all were and are a Blessing for for Great Grandma. I only had one Grandma in my life. Family is everything ❤️ ♥️ 💙 💕
I know that nursing homes welcome volunteers of all ages. This old lady volunteered doing crafts. I only went once a month but to see the smiles when I came made my day. Also nursery schools may also welcome volunteers.
I lost my Mom 12 years ago, my dad 4 years ago and my husband last year. I love watching your family. I have 2 kids, a teenager and a 9 year old and I do relate to you and the everyday struggles of raising a family. My kids and I try to be happy, my husband and parents wouldn't want us to be sad, so we try to create happiness in our life as well as others as much as we can in their memory. God bless you and your family.
Bert, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear grandma. It is always in God’s time when he needs to call one home. Audrey, you were a blessing to your great grandma. God told you in your heart that your great grandma needed you in her last days. Everyone needs a helping hand and that is a blessing when they receive it. I took care of my grandpa and my parents in their final days. I was happy to do it. I have no regrets.
Great Grandma was such a wonderful person and had a loving family to surround her with blessings every day. She will always be with you. Hugs and love.
Hello Happy Peoples, I'm so glad that you share your family with me. Great Grandma was the same age my mom would have been. She passed away 18 years ago. She had some really bad health issues from smoking and other things. Too bad she didn't live to see my 10 grand kids. Y'all are truly blessed to of had GG that long. I know it's never easy to lose a loved one. When Bert made the announcement a few days ago, I was weeping with him. Praying for God's comfort for the family. Y'all are amazing.
I walk through grief by trying to remember the joy and laughter that I shared with those who has gone home to glory. But there are times when something will trigger tears and that’s ok. You can’t truly appreciate joy without some sorrow
Your garden is amazing!
we just had the graveside service for my mom she was 92, when she went into the hospital she knew the end was coming soon, she told us don't be sad I have had a great life, we said something about mom, she was the best oatmeal molasses brown bread maker, growing up that was Saturday supper with baked beans. miss you mom but now she is with dad and her son and my brother again ❤️
My family lost my oldest brother and his wife suddenly a year ago - those waves of sadness still surface these days. What has helped me is to NOT squash those feelings as they come but rather let them come, honor them. My life will never be the same without these two wonderful people. Laugh and mourn those we miss for they make us the people we are. Blessings and peace to your family from mine in Maine.
I have been there! The transition is difficult and the silence of it is defining. You will adjust with Gods grace! Continued prayers for all of you. 🙏🙏🙏
Don't know if you will read this, but in the last video Bert put me in a good place. My mother passed in June, she was 88 years old. She didn't want a funeral much like your grandmother. So many people made me feel like I was doing the wrong thing. It was difficult, but I promised her. We will scatter her cremains with my father's the way they wanted. Thank you so much for honoring your grandma's wishes. 🙏🙏
Our thoughts and prayers are with all the Somers family. So happy you had this special time with her. She was Special Lady!!
I have two grandmas. One is 95 and refuses she’s old but her body says differently, lives on her own. My other grandma is 99 and is pleasant, smiles at you even though she can’t hardly see or hear you.
You guys have done all you could do. So that is a Blessing ❤️ have a clean conscience.
Hello Somers Family... Wish I had words to help and comfort You. I'm 77 the words Bert you shared comforted me. I lost my husband 18 years ago and its like its still right now. I'm an only child so besides my 2 girls and a son-in-law that's all the family I have. I'm so greatful to have them. But there's no one like your partner to share hopes and plans for tomorrow but my tomorrow is now. I'm so Blessed to have found your TH-cam channel. Your family gives me so much joy. That was so sweet one of "the Happy Peoples" sent your parents flowers🌹I pray God gives you comfort. God Bless LuvYa! Bye from NE Ohio
I have lost my entire family it's been 21 years since I had any family, i'm 75, I just believe being your best self, kind, loving, and helpful to others. my deepest condolences to your family, death is never easy, Keep your memories close.
On the 27th of August my husband of 22 years crossed over Thank god for my children and my grandchildren My family my friends For trying to help me transition into my new why of life.
My grandma (my dad's mom) passed away 4 years ago. She was 92 when she had passed on. I was very lucky to have my grandma for 23 years. I got a phone call no one wants to get from my dad 4 years ago saying that grandma had passed the night before. I had many wonderful memories over the years. Those memories will always stay with you no matter what. My grandma is watching over me.
As I said on your other vlog. Audrey is an angel. So loving & compassionate & so mature for her age. I lost my parents, and all my siblings. 3 brothers. I feel like an orphan even though I have a husband & son. God bless you all. ❤️🙏
Hugs and prayers Somers! Glad to hear you are all adjusting to the changes God has set out for you.
Take one day at time. Audrey will have the memories about her great grandmother always with her.
I am glad Audrey had that special time with her great grandma. This is a step in her maturity.
Just one thing to say, she's now in heaven. God bless you all!
Lost both my Mom and Dad last year Dad in January and Mom in October. I just have to remind my self that I know they are safe and in a better place with my younger brother, family and friends. I understand the knowing that a family member is ready to go especially when they are sick and suffering everyday. Take care you all were very lucky to have her for 92 years. Thank you for your videos.
If there is one thing that we all need to keep in mind - ALWAYS - is that life can, and does, change on a dime.
When I lost my dad 15 years ago, it was about a year to get through all of the holidays and special moments before it started to get better.
I lost my mother on July 3. Time. Give yourselves time. I still cry, I still miss her terribly. But, I take comfort knowing she's not hurting any more. Remember the good, the laughter and the love. She is always with you.
Grief hits you like an ocean wave at times. Ride it and allow it to bring you back to the shore. Everyone grieves differently. We each have to do it our way. It does help to know exactly where she is. Now, she would not choose to come back, even if she could. I checked and there isn't a group near Fairbanks, but Griefshare is an excellent Christian program to help on how to go through the process. Prayers for you as you go through this journey.
I've lost 5 members of my family in the 14 months. A grandson, an aunt, my sister another aunt and my sister-in-law. I know God has me and all the family. It gets overwhelming some but I still know God carries us daily. Condolences to all the family for y'all's loss. It's ok to cry and feel hurt but to trust in the Lord.
I have found something that help me when I’ve lost people was journaling. I would write down memories so I don’t forget them. Thinking of you all and sending lots of hugs and prayers.🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
Still lifting your family up in prayers! just breathe, share your memories, cry, laugh, and pray! For Audrey, think about a job with children. She needs to be young, to laugh and play and feel joy again! Sending love and prayers for the whole clan. I lost my parents in 2001, three and a half months apart. It was devastating. It almost broke me. But, lean on your family and friends, pray and cry and laugh, share your stories and memories. 🙏❤🙏
Praying for all of the family. Give you grief and sadness to Jesus, it's like cashing tears in for peace and joy.
Hearing Bert's mom and Audrey talk about grandma made me smile.
Losing loved ones is very hard. I'm 64 and there's still times when I cry for my parents. I lost my father at 19, my mom at 37. Some of my aunts and uncles have passed away recently. The memories of their laughter, lessons of life, cooking and so much more is what keeps me going. I will see them again.
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A lot of people find doing something in their memory helps its different for each person. It could be writing down memories a scrap book ,donating to a charity or even planting a tree.
Every day will get a little easier but there will never be a day that you forget her. Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
Hello. I want you guys to know that y'all mean so much to this community. We all love you. You guys make us feel like part of your family. Just know that we are all here and praying for you. 💜❤💜❤
The small happy memories are the best.
92 was/is definitely a good long life. 🙏 🙏
What’s helped me with my dad passing when I was 9 and several family members since is that no matter what they are within us and always watching over us 💫 xx
I lost my dad unexpectedly in April 2021 and then my grandfather passed away August 2021 from Cancer. I know the grief journey all to well. We know they are healed and in a better place and we will see them soon! ❤️ But it definitely still hurts that they are not here on Earth with us. Still working through the emotions and learning our new normal.
It’s really hard losing someone you are close to. I lost my parents in 2005 - 6 weeks apart. It’s still tough! You are in my prayers.
I lost both of my parents almost a year ago. I'm still adjusting, but I think what is most important, is to continue looking forward and not overly dwelling in the past. The past is nice to reflect on, but we have to go forward. It's so easy to get stuck in regrets and "what-ifs"... I hope that makes sense. God bless you Somers.
I lost my oldest sister and my Mother this summer. Both had serious health issues and they weren't going to get any better. The fact that they aren't suffering anymore helps me alot.
Huge hugs and blessings to each and everyone of you. Remembergreat grandma is now in angel in heaven looking out over all of you with pride and love
We are bless that u share your life with us !! And make us smile part of your family ! This life we all at that age ppl will come and go . Your grandma with grandpa it ok . 92 that a amazing life . I have uncle that 92 he want nithing tj be with my aunt he has nothing but me and only me ! But I want him with his love and and happy he nit happy . Praying for u all to heal ! Just think of all the happy times and think about how she so happy now and nit sitting all day praying for her ti me with your grandpa! God bless so true u can’t walk do anthing for self and 92 we can’t ask them tj be here for us ! It about them now !
Lost my son very unexpectedly 6 weeks ago. Grief is a very hard thing to live through. Thinking of your family at this difficult time
I lost my mom 2 years ago and staying busy helps. I still have my moments but it gets easier with time. Missing them doesn't go away but knowing that they are in a happy place pain free rejoicing with Jesus, definitely helps. I pray for you during this time.
I lost my mom two years ago, she lived with me and it was very hard. I tried to keep doing my normal things, I have disabilities myself but just trying to keep your mind occupied seem to help. I still have days that are bad, missing her
You just have to take it one day at a time. God Bless you all. Love you guys. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Grief is a journey that takes you down a road like no other. I’ve been on this road for almost 17 years with the loss of my husband and parents after that. It will hit you like a punch in the stomach but other times are good. I always remind myself that our loved ones are with us just not the way we like. They’re with Jesus in heaven. The most beautiful place of all!!! That’s what gets me through.
Changes of life is what keeps us going. As I constantly struggle with my anxiety to keep my panic attacks at bay I just try to give myself a positive quote or just remembering that the good Lord is carrying me every step of the way even on my worst days. God bless you all . One day at a time, One step at a time
I've lost my dad, my favorite aunt, 3 of my grandparents after I was 25. I had a long time with them. Recently, my grandmother passed. Grief is the hardest thing to go though in life, but with faith in the Lord there is comfort in knowing I'll see them again. I heard a short message on Grief Share and one person said "If we knew what heaven was really Iike we'd never wish them back. We'd also quit trying to stay so healthy".