things to consider when deciding if you should quit, perspectives from a corporate quitter

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  • @soomie8503
    @soomie8503 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I relate so much.. Quitting is an irreversible decision, especially in this economy. It is a very difficult decision to make. But for me, I decided to choose my happiness first and my mental health has improved significantly. It's therapeutic listening to this . Thank you. It is a great reminder that we really do need to prioritize our mental health first (instead of choosing what we think is "best" or what others want from us)

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey there, so happy that you chose your happiness first, and glad that you're doing much better now! Take care!

  • @kingdragonite9460
    @kingdragonite9460 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If you're watching this, you know it's time to quit your corporate job.

  • @MatuMona960
    @MatuMona960 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    After working for more than three years in an industry that requires working 70+ hours per week, it's time to go, not because I just watched this video. But I made the call on my own.
    And thank you for sharing this video. It reaffirms my decision, and I am not apologetic at all.

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey Matu, so happy you made the decision that's right for you, unapologetically! Hope you're doing well, and wish you all the best on your journey of healing!

  • @LLLLLP0
    @LLLLLP0 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I feel like you are calling me out but in a great way, wish I had a friend like you -

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey there, I got you 😉. Hope you're doing well, remember to be kind to yourself! Take care.

  • @morgansmolder7891
    @morgansmolder7891 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A very insightful and well thought out video, thanks for posting. I appreciate your mindful and calm style

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey Morgan, thank you! Glad you found it helpful, hope you're doing well!

  • @ashleygesty7671
    @ashleygesty7671 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video, please share more details about your sabbaticals!

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Ashley, I'm working hard on it right now, can't wait to share with you all next week! Hope you're doing well, take care!

  • @joannakozowska8062
    @joannakozowska8062 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The end really resonated with me. Thanks

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching Joanna, hope you're doing well!

  • @Rianna93
    @Rianna93 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh no thinking about what I would regret if I died tomorrow gave me my answer I think.
    Shit. I would regret not taking the time off to actually destress.
    I start in a new team in the same company on Monday (which was sprung on me as a surprise last wednesday) and literally had a mini holiday a week ago.
    The fact that I am fully stressed again and need an actual break is glaringly obvious to me now. 😢

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hey Rianna, sorry to hear about your situation. Remember to be kind yourself, listen to your body. Take care!

  • @Gnarrkhaz
    @Gnarrkhaz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been working as a mailman for the last 1,5 years. Aside from doing that i walk the dog three times a day. I don't have a car and ride the bike everywhere (granted it's electric). But despite all that i somehow managed to gain significant weight. As a result i'm always exhausted, always tired, taking naps every other day, which only stresses me out even more and results in even more coping behavior such as eating. I also do nothing anymore in my free time except watch TH-cam. Even playing video games is too much work for me. Forget about hobbies that require discipline like music or game design. On top of that i also have a ridiculously short fuse and lose my temper every single day at work. Apart from that i don't feel any emotions most of the time.
    Whether it's the job causing this or something else, in any case it's time for a break. Only two more weeks to go, then i'm starting my jobless healing phase.

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey there, yea that sounds like you're burnt out. I'm glad you are making the decision to prioritize your health and healing over a job. I wish you best of luck on your healing journey! Take care!

    • @Gnarrkhaz
      @Gnarrkhaz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewxu Thanks!

  • @REVIEWSONTHERUN
    @REVIEWSONTHERUN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great inside. Thanks for sharing it. ✌️

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching ☺️. Hope you're doing well!

    • @REVIEWSONTHERUN
      @REVIEWSONTHERUN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewxu doing good. Thanks for asking. Hopefully everything is going well for you.

  • @LolaAndre
    @LolaAndre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I work in hospitality and I've been wanting to quit and change industry (I'm studying marketing). Even on the good days I still want to quit, my body is completely exhausted from working shifts with low staffing. What's worse is that I think I'm exaggerating and it's actually not that bad.
    But switching to a different industry is so daunting when you have limited experience and are still studying 😢

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hey Lorena, it does sound scary to venture into the unknowns! Stayed tuned for the video I'm posting next, it hope it'll give you a peace of mind, that you're going to be ok! Best of luck in marketing, and whatever comes next, I know you're going to be amazing. Be kind to yourself, you got this!

    • @LolaAndre
      @LolaAndre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewxu thank you so much 😭 I'll be waiting for your next video, they are really helpful 🫶🏼

  • @AnaCorr-pf4py
    @AnaCorr-pf4py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Geat video, thank you so much..

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for your comment, glad you enjoyed it.

  • @Blindswordsman1994
    @Blindswordsman1994 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sure Covid changed people’s mindset on how to prioritise life ;-)

  • @ambivalenc3
    @ambivalenc3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am the frog :(

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      don't be that frog :)

  • @SquarePenix.
    @SquarePenix. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Maybe you aren't the best person to ask for this but what do you think of going to med school after quitting tech? my sister did it a long time ago and now making $700k as a radiologist, wfh, no politics like tech; 4 days a week of work (of course, you have to do well in med school to get into the top "lifestyle" fields

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hey there, while I'm not familiar with what it's like in medical/radiology, I think it's important to be realistic about your expectations of the kind of stress a new field might bring as every industry/job comes with different kinds of stress. Try not to make your decision based on money and money alone. However, I'm a strong believer in taking action about one's unhappiness in life; life is just too short to live miserably, and there are so many different opportunities in life. Hope that helps, best of luck on your endeavours!

    • @SquarePenix.
      @SquarePenix. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewxu Thanks for your reply! Do you make enough money from TH-cam to support your lifestyle now? You're living my dream haha.

    • @andrewxu
      @andrewxu  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      haha that would be nice, but it's not even close! I just treat TH-cam as a hobby to bring together simple-livers and help people live a more peaceful life. My living expenses comes entirely from my savings and investments, and I made a video about how it works at a high level, called "FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early)", have a look if you're curious! I have plans to make some more content in that direction in the future, so stayed tuned :)