After understanding this I immediately stopped comparing with others

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  • @BhavnaKumariThakur
    @BhavnaKumariThakur ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How sweetly she said "dhyaan rakho apna"🥺

  • @SanjitDas-rr1pe
    @SanjitDas-rr1pe ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Comparison is the biggest problem in today's time ...... but you can't neglect it ....... Instead of comparing with others compare your yesterday with today ....... This is really beneficial for me ...... thanks Neha Di ❤

  • @7gsc
    @7gsc ปีที่แล้ว +408

    Life is not race. Its God Grace.

  • @kritiagrawal12309
    @kritiagrawal12309 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    You are the MIRROR for everyone's life who is so pure and unfiltered ❤️
    This is my 1st time commenting on TH-cam though i watch all your videos also love them.

  • @Harshu_57
    @Harshu_57 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    What a beauty inside out dear !! Your perspective is so different and pure ,I used to ignore your content a lot but now whenever I open your videos there’s something to learn something precious and the vibes , great mam ! May God bless you with the best of everything ! Love you sweetheart ❤

    • @CANEHADATTA
      @CANEHADATTA  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Par aap ignore kyo kr rhe the 🥲🥹😐

    • @Harshu_57
      @Harshu_57 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      To be truly honest ,I thought ke aise hee kuch gisa pita kuch bta denge but if I wouldn’t have started being a part of your virtual family ,I’d have been in a great loss ❤ , you radiate so much of positivity and hope and elegance !!!!!!!

    • @player8473
      @player8473 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@CANEHADATTAhamare consent ke bina bhi log uphaas uda sakthe hai iss duniya mei taaqatwar hamesa kamjor ko maarte tang karte rehta hai chahe consent ho yaa naa ho , baap bete par , boss employee par , teacher students par rob dikhate hi hai or sehna wala asahaye hi hota hai . Jab 5-10 aadmi gherkar maarne lag jaaye to saare consent or sakthi bhul jaaye or pitne ke sivaah or koi chara naa rahe . Allow karne wali baat tabhi aati hai jab aise karne wala samarthyavan ho varna gussa bhi hasi udane layak banta hai taaqat ke bina . taaqat ka vaasta maine ya to physical strength , money , authority yaa tej dimaag se kiya hai . Bus iss duniya mei taaqatwar raj karta hai or rules banata hai or kamjor sehta hai , mere hisaab se yahi duniya ka dastur hai

    • @Harshu_57
      @Harshu_57 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pta hai di, Abhi just I showed your video to Mumma ,she was like kitni pyaari hai ,kitna pyaara Bol rhin hai ❤😁 i and mumma we both are your fan girls now🔥🌈✨

    • @player8473
      @player8473 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@CANEHADATTAkabhi kabhi dusro ki buri aadatein bhi effect kar sakthi hai aapko , agar koi smoker aaspas hai to bahut non-smokers bhi passive smoking se marte hai to ek video nasha bandi par bhi banao to or accha 👍ki kaise smoking band hona chahiye or gym mei heavy weightlifting ke wakt bhi failure hone par injury ka darr rehta hai ki agar itne reps ke pehle naa utha paaye vajan to kya hoga , kab exhaustion aayegi . Mei 600 kg uthana chahta hu par 500 kg uthane mei hi eddie , hafthor jaiso ka blood nikal gaya or ve collapse hogaye to 600 kg uthane ke liye koi motivation de sakthi ho ? Mujhe vah impossible lag raha hai jo insaani shamta ke bilkul bahaar hai

  • @anmolr_03
    @anmolr_03 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    i have been countinously watching your videos since Feb 2023. You know what, it is gradually changing my perception about life and help alot in becoming a new version of myself. THANK YOU MENTOR, wishing you a prosperous life ahead.

  • @sukhmanitoor318
    @sukhmanitoor318 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I seriously wish I had a sister like you. In this tough phase of my life, your thoughts are like therapy for me.
    I wish you all the good things in life, Neha :)

  • @anushkasharma6929
    @anushkasharma6929 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    ना किसी से प्रतिस्पर्धा
    ना किसी से होड़
    मेरी अपनी मंजिल
    मेरी अपनी दौड़ ❤

  • @mr.choudhary79
    @mr.choudhary79 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When You Become Enlightened, Fear, Greed, Ego Nothing Remains. Love Exists Everywhere.❤❤

  • @PrankiMotivational
    @PrankiMotivational ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Neha ji, I am not a chartered accountant but a computer science graduate, still I watch your videos every day. Your thoughts are really commendable.👍

  • @thissidekhushi7413
    @thissidekhushi7413 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really needed to hear this I was crying that other students are doing better than me and they are getting better scores than me but watching this video makes me feel that I am a fish who lives alone in her pond I don't need to compare myself to others because there always be a person in the world who has more than you.

    • @sakshiahuja3791
      @sakshiahuja3791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you!!!

    • @thissidekhushi7413
      @thissidekhushi7413 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sakshiahuja3791om my gosh!
      This means I am not alone:) thank you for your reply

  • @kajalbhardwaj8213
    @kajalbhardwaj8213 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tooo honest Neha Mam❤ Bahut acha laga sun kar

  • @dwellingemotions
    @dwellingemotions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Few days before only, I was comparing myself with someone.. I don't know how small or big that is, but right now this clicked. You said exactly the right thing that we have to completely finish it. It is the ego only that makes us compares ourself from others.

  • @NarendraGoswami293
    @NarendraGoswami293 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Neha ji,
    You have a pure heart.
    You are very humble.
    You have no ego,no jealous.
    God bless you .
    Thank you sharing your life experience.

  • @SaranshSagar999
    @SaranshSagar999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    सब दिल से कहा है , सच बिना सोचे बिना समझे बिना नोट्स बनाये , like a philosopher 😊👌👌

  • @memehandle726
    @memehandle726 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi mam
    I just did my class 12 , but everything that is on your channel , I sorted all this out when I was in class 9 , I grew phenomenally using these things , setting up boundaries , being away from the TOXIC group . and I would contribute most of these things to my upbringing . I had extreme hardships and that taught me to be flexible , certain betrayal, not serious though but enough to teach me lesson so i would say I feel so connected to you because of one thing , ability to learn from your mistakes and realizing there are no failure , there are successes and lessons .
    thanks for the vedio
    waiting for more to come soon .

  • @shivammah
    @shivammah ปีที่แล้ว +6

    7:01 "Jo bhi Race chal rahi Bhag hi nahi rahi usme 😂" Nice.✅

  • @NitinSingh-xr7ft
    @NitinSingh-xr7ft ปีที่แล้ว

    Every time, your video pops up in my feed, it's directly addressing to my mental state at that time which is causing me to suffer. Like every time. Can't be a coincidence

  • @NeuroSwathi
    @NeuroSwathi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video popped up at the right time! today itself, i had my practical exams today... i was having the same mindset as you've mentioned in this video, but now, i mean today i got to know about my changed mindset a lot, i didn't compare... but my mindset is to get the BEST of me.

  • @savarp
    @savarp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yessss life is not a race .. its a beautiful journey and story is your own.

  • @Discoveringmaths
    @Discoveringmaths ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear you have great reflection ability. God bless you.
    Metta

  • @anandthakur6263
    @anandthakur6263 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so Practical, Wise, Mature, Beautiful. Your smile tells that you have experienced life in its entirety. Love you so much ❤❤

  • @PoojaKumari-rn3pb
    @PoojaKumari-rn3pb ปีที่แล้ว

    2:43 next level...ye maine scch me kavi socha hi nhi...aur kisi se suna v nhi...❤

  • @satyamchauhan9466
    @satyamchauhan9466 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing your precious experiences it will help us a lot ☺

  • @ronwick3824
    @ronwick3824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing I've learned in this journey of 22 years of life! Be happy with whatever you have😌

  • @SunilOla
    @SunilOla ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Video bilkul relatable hote hai... lot of thanks 😍

  • @monishaboruah3902
    @monishaboruah3902 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your words are enough for boost myself 💐

  • @NehaYadav-od4pf
    @NehaYadav-od4pf ปีที่แล้ว

    After acharya Prashant she is the second person I found who speaks truth... hats off❤❤❤ love from dewas

  • @freenaziz1618
    @freenaziz1618 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are my little Angel... Love unconditional 🌹☘️💫

  • @Kashmiriboyy
    @Kashmiriboyy ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful life lesson.
    🎉

  • @yashodasaini993
    @yashodasaini993 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your maturity and knowledge.....increadible.😊

  • @radhikagupta3024
    @radhikagupta3024 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sch m aesa lgta h jese koi bdi bhn smjha rahi hai mujhe .....you really help me di in my life .......mere depression ka safr aapki ek video tk hi rhta h ...fir sara depression chla jta h .....thank u di ...❤

  • @kinjalmakwana05
    @kinjalmakwana05 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sahi time pe sahi video milna b ek blessing hai ....❤

  • @yashaswiraj8401
    @yashaswiraj8401 ปีที่แล้ว

    How could someone be this calming person for others, when someone is overthinking and comparing themselves ur vedio popup just to say sitback and relax ❤

  • @bleedblue45
    @bleedblue45 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everytime i watch your video my eyes always filled with tears..... thanks didi to simplify my life

  • @samikshyaswain5967
    @samikshyaswain5967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A Beautiful and lesson Ever

  • @mandargharpure8867
    @mandargharpure8867 ปีที่แล้ว

    👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👏👏👏👏👏 Best speech
    Apne bahut accha observe kiya hai life ko !!!

  • @prashi_dubey
    @prashi_dubey ปีที่แล้ว

    Aap bohot pyare ho❤...i mean aapke vdos dekh k itna positive feel hota h..I am so grateful that I discovered your channel and listening to you is the best... thankyouuuuu for your guidance, motivation for everything ❤❤

  • @nairkroft483
    @nairkroft483 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know how but you put this video in the most needed moment possible, thankyou so much ❤

  • @AFireBirdPhoenix
    @AFireBirdPhoenix ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I recently started watching your contents and l must say l find some peace in me listening to you. But there are still lot of things to be done to be a sane calm being that I have been aspiring to be. Safe and Happy Journey Neha 😊

  • @swetaa3433
    @swetaa3433 ปีที่แล้ว

    Level of understanding ❤️ i have never heared this type of thought🔥

  • @LeaarnEnglishwithme
    @LeaarnEnglishwithme ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice ma'am. I think God wants me to hear this.. Thank you

  • @Shravni123
    @Shravni123 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Neha di thank you so much I'm a class 12 student and I've been coming first all my 11th it boosted my ego so much so that ab agar is sal kisi k 1-2% jyada aajate the toh mai khudko compare karke khudko critisism dene lag jati thi but now that I've realised ki mai apni journey me hu mai apna best dungi fir agar vo topper of th school wala tag mere naseeb me hoga toh mil jaega nahi hoga toh nahi milega ❤️❤️❤️

  • @navoditaupadhyay
    @navoditaupadhyay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are very good person inside . You give your raw and honest life experiences without any hesitation of being judged and of course compared. Thank you !!

  • @pooshanv
    @pooshanv ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG so true, thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Savanpatel149
    @Savanpatel149 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you didi, mene other youtube channel me only vo paya jo mere kam ka he hi nhi or ek din apka channel mil gya bs ab koi dusre ko sunna psnd hi nhi apke siva, you are inspiration ❤❤

  • @shrisd.1249
    @shrisd.1249 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dee when ever I heard ur voice I feel like shriii Dee is with u at all the time just go ahead & get it what u want she is the one of the best Dee love u Dee

  • @SaranshSagar999
    @SaranshSagar999 ปีที่แล้ว

    आपकी आवाज बहुत ही मधुर है नेहा ❤❤😮 , माँ सरस्वती की आप पर विशेष कृपा है

  • @Navyayayyaya
    @Navyayayyaya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes comparison helps a person to grow in good way so its the way you treat comparison for eg i scored 80 but my friend who used to score 50 got a 90 this time it would help with competency and will make you grow one should compare but not hate that person or feel down about it its all about perspective comparing bodies might be wrong but fitness activities isn't you are not wrong but you should have discussed the positive aspect .. comparison is something that pushed me harder changed the perspective and now preparing for something i never thought i will AAG LAGA DUNGI attitude>>>ps i am normal student and kudos to you motivating the ppl who need it maybe it helps people to rethink about life they're living with the jealousy and insecurity !!

    • @Navyayayyaya
      @Navyayayyaya ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also life mai bhaagna pdta hi h bas chizein personal ni leni chahiye acc to me it helps me to grow so yeah again perspective!!

  • @xib38krishnapriyabiju72
    @xib38krishnapriyabiju72 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So nice talks.. ❤I am really thankful that you are giving captions in English... So much love for uu.. ❤❤❤

  • @krj847
    @krj847 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I watched the karma yogi(the conversation between Arjuna and Krishna) video on TH-cam all my comparison just melted away .I strongly recommend it whoever going through comparison,self doubt,ego issues.

  • @GAURI5-h6t
    @GAURI5-h6t ปีที่แล้ว

    Didi u r amazing or apki batein to bus kya he kaho yr maze daar or itni knowledgeable❤... Thanks 😊

  • @Ishaaroraangeloffortune
    @Ishaaroraangeloffortune ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes,you are Sharing Great content ❤

  • @saurabhnair8529
    @saurabhnair8529 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comparison isliye hota hai kyunki hamara intention unko dominate karne ka hota hai na ki uski help karne me ya khud ko defend karne me.......isliye intention pure hona chahiye 🤗

  • @Hayat22849
    @Hayat22849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why but I'm your big fan ❤
    For 5 days ago I started to watch your videos nd now I regularly watch your videos

  • @anmol23461T
    @anmol23461T ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma'am you are so genuine
    Listening to you always calms me down. Wish you the best of everything. Please keep this authenticity always ❤

  • @suvangibhattacharya7440
    @suvangibhattacharya7440 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been doing this for a long time Neha di and was struck in a loophole of sadness. Your video and words caught tears in my eyes. I really felt each and every word you said. I promise today that I will not compare myself with anyone henceforth. Your words are always a bliss in solitude. Love you ,Neha Di🥰🥰❤❤

  • @sejalvaishy4793
    @sejalvaishy4793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mam, genuinely i feel so blessed to have connection with you by the way of your thoughts. Thankyou for always appearing on my screen whenever I need you the most.❤

  • @regawis07
    @regawis07 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Undoubtedly, the best video I ever watched for dealing with comparison 💯
    Neha Diii!!! Matlab, kya ho aap? 🥺
    Comparison ko jad se khatam karne ka ye REAL raasta samjhane ke liye dil se shukriya di! ♥️

  • @ankitjain4294
    @ankitjain4294 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very well said.. humility and being self content is required

  • @iamshwetatiwari
    @iamshwetatiwari ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the same neha once said in a video that getting richer and trying to have a luxurious life is not equivalent to being materialistic it's called growth mindset happy to see this transformation very nice explaination very well said even i had started comparing myself with people but now i also understand that life is not a race it is not a destination but a journey of our own celibrations and challenges❤❤

  • @Rosi-rk7oh
    @Rosi-rk7oh ปีที่แล้ว

    i like the way of yours to spreading positivity and share your life experience...for motivated us,.i can relate ur each words n lines🙂❤

  • @SwatiSingh-zh8rt
    @SwatiSingh-zh8rt ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice ...you just gave words to my thoughts ❤

  • @anshulverma4744
    @anshulverma4744 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Neha ...this is my first comment on your video...tbh I was comparing myself and my life with few people (precisely 3) and was ranting all with my friend half an hour ago.
    I am comparing myself from last 3-4 months because I m having tough time nd some difficulties in life these days. And honestly these people don't play much role in my life...and your video made me realised that I am really hurting myself and even those people don't even know.....I m feeling really better after watching your video... everyone has their own journey....we are insulting ourselves while comparing...
    Best thing is ...apni life m hi itne engage rho...doosre ki tension lo hi Mt..

  • @bhawnatiwari5023
    @bhawnatiwari5023 ปีที่แล้ว

    Na kisi se age
    Na kisi se peeche
    Ki duad me ab na padna h
    Mujhe apni life ki journey me khud se age badna.
    Thank you so much Nehu di ❤i love you a lot❤

  • @bhavisha5465
    @bhavisha5465 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤🙌🏻clarity beyond the level...

  • @Gitanshi-r1o
    @Gitanshi-r1o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is what I understand that " your maxima is someone's minima"

  • @devendrasinha8965
    @devendrasinha8965 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the real answer to Stop comparison ownself.

  • @jinsflsg
    @jinsflsg ปีที่แล้ว

    Much needed realisation!

  • @ankitatantuway9733
    @ankitatantuway9733 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's a journey!You are experiencing 💙

  • @kshiprarungta2244
    @kshiprarungta2244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice words of wisdom Neha. So mature for your age

  • @animaagrawal2774
    @animaagrawal2774 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Neha ,god bless you my sis

  • @ajitdivakar3504
    @ajitdivakar3504 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Each one shines during it's time. Can't compare the sun and the moon. Point put forward very well Neha 👏

  • @NS-ho4vm
    @NS-ho4vm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hats Off!!!! simply unique natural content. 100 percent peaceful content. #Journey #Experience #Life

  • @susmitaroy8732
    @susmitaroy8732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much

  • @PreetiTanwar-xq1cz
    @PreetiTanwar-xq1cz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Superb didi ❤yours words give me peace ..

  • @MAMMAS__BOY-02
    @MAMMAS__BOY-02 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you sis...i needed this some of my friends are got job and settled i was only one left behind... i was muted their story because i don't wanna see them ....yiur vidio got me at right time ❤❤❤

  • @RV99972
    @RV99972 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Neha..I just stumbled on to your channel... Great thoughts and observations shared ....thank you... Your explanation is much better and simpler than many many online baba's... thankyou 😊

  • @SecretlyBeautiful
    @SecretlyBeautiful ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My God !!! how do you manage to speak so beautifully and peacefully. Lovely! 👏 I rarely comment but ur every video hits me differently as if it was made for me
    Love you Neha ! God bless you!

  • @samriddhianand6189
    @samriddhianand6189 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your words soothes my soul ❤❤

  • @KabitaNeupane_
    @KabitaNeupane_ ปีที่แล้ว

    न सम्मानका मोह न अपमान का भय.... जीवन बस् चल्ता रहे....

  • @Sana_hidden
    @Sana_hidden ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so so correct 💯... We can't the best there's will be always someone jo humse thora oupr hai and Jo humse thore niche hain .... to stay happy we should love what we do and what we love doing the way we do it and so on....

  • @anjalinegi9365
    @anjalinegi9365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really needed to hear this ❤️🫠

  • @imgaganraikar
    @imgaganraikar ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankkk youuu so much I was going through it so much today uh just set off a ton tension from me.

  • @livingwithmoonmey
    @livingwithmoonmey ปีที่แล้ว

    True that. Thankyou, ma'am. 🙏❤️

  • @biophiles
    @biophiles ปีที่แล้ว

    I m a neet aspirant and i m ur subscriber you are not just a ca even beyond ca u r a good human,educator,mentor too.. you tough so many life learing lessons and change our vision of life thank you so much
    Keep doing we need it ❤😊

  • @tassusharma7030
    @tassusharma7030 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you di, Got my answer. Everyone is on their own journey.
    Life is a very beautiful journey. No more comparison. ❤😊

  • @jyotiswapnapanda9233
    @jyotiswapnapanda9233 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best video about comparison on youtube till date❤ god bless you ma'am

  • @koshalendrasingh2620
    @koshalendrasingh2620 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your experience it's makes easy to understand and relate and I will so how observing you are it's real knowledge thats can not be learnt from other outside source. So I will give first priority of your video to learn and resolve any dout. So thank you ❤🙏

  • @SadharanLadkaIsBack
    @SadharanLadkaIsBack ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much didi !!!

  • @rathoreaman446
    @rathoreaman446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!! 💛

  • @ujjwalarora3568
    @ujjwalarora3568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aap bhi dhyaan rakho apna 😊

  • @prachibisen5712
    @prachibisen5712 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.।। Kya samjhaya hai di👏

  • @pranavghosh9531
    @pranavghosh9531 ปีที่แล้ว

    When we see ourselves ahead from others ,it boost our pride and when we see others ahead from ourselves it humbles that pride!.. So comparison is indeed essential for acknowledging both of our merits & demerits.

  • @tejalrokade1771
    @tejalrokade1771 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I was literally thinking about this today, and then you uploaded this video!!
    Thank you🫶🏻✨

  • @Kitty786kat
    @Kitty786kat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thankyouu di

  • @suhanijogi15
    @suhanijogi15 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Di I'm a student. I scored low marks in my test as I'm preparing for competitive exam . I was feeling so low and stressed. But I'm so greatful to universe that and of course to you . This video has a perfect timming in my life. Thank you thank you thank you soo sooo soooooo much universe ❤

  • @sumanchawla307
    @sumanchawla307 ปีที่แล้ว

    You r such a pure soul....yes life is a journey not a race.... wonderful video ❤❤❤

  • @supernova4625
    @supernova4625 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you thank you so much for the reminder 😊