Sister, you really need to understand the difference between the mazhab teachings which differs from Pakistan and Malaysia and Bangladesh etc. Malaysia predominantly follows the Shafie mazhab, that's why Malaysian Muslims do things differently than the Pakistanis or Bangladeshi or Saudis. Muslim women have some degree of equality in mazhab Shafie compared to other mazhab, that's all.
I am Malaysian and visited Pakistan alone last year. I traveled to the North and spent a few days in Islamabad and Lahore. The scenery was amazing, and the people were incredibly nice. I have never encountered a place where ride-hailing drivers (inDrive) refused to accept the fare, but I experienced that several times there. I literally had to leave the money on the car seat because the driver simply wouldn't accept it. It's unfortunate that the country is in such a state and its people have to endure it.
Yes same here... I'm a Malaysian and had visited Pakistan 3 times... And love the people's there are very loving and caring... Pakistan scenery view are beautiful.
Not accepting fares is one reason why Pakistan is in such a dire state. Looks like they don't even understand what TF is a business transaction. You get paid for service tendered, okay. All working for charity even for 'rich' tourists like you?
Welcome to Malaysia. I am now working in the GCC for almost 10 years and i am always proud to tell people i am from Malaysia. As you rightly said, loving your own country has nothing to do with governance and politics. Although Malaysia is far from perfect, we do have our own charm such as diverse culture, beautiful sceneries and of course the food. :)
I would never choose to live in Pakistan like some people from the Uk who would. Just come back from my 7th visit to Malaysia a couple of days ago coupled with my 4th visit to Indonesia and I am definitely doing my 8th visit to Malaysia next year
We as muslims should never talk negative about our muslim Brother's and sisters doesn't matter what's the situation. We can condemn kafirs not a problem. Wasalam
As a woman in Malaysia, we are more freely and respected. I really thankful for that. Alhamdulilah. The more you travel, the more you appreciate your country.
The woman are respected in Pakistan too i dont know why Saira said these things but she is not right in what she said there are more good people in pakistan than bad. Women in Pakistan are doctors, lawyers, teachers and they can move freely and drive too. Maybe she had a bad experience but her suggestion that the whole country is like that is wrong. There are more conservative regions in the country yes but it is not as she suggests. It is not like malaysia either though. It is different. And Pakistani men are the one of thw most respectful and kind men you will meet anywhere i would know since i am married to one, have one as my fwther and one as my son and one as my brother.❤
I am a Pakistani Canadian, I have only lived in Pakistan until 21 years old man but let me tell you I have lots of bad experiences as a teenage boy but I still love my dirty homeland because my roots, my friends, my relatives and lets not forget if all good people don't go back then bad people will continue to exploit the country. I know current situation is really bad because Pakistan military gone mad keep promoting bad Generals on top jobs.. lets hope things gets better
Military did gone mad, but they were always like that. Only the people with less brain via Imran Khan learn now. I am saying about military from my late Teen age.
Im Pakistani Expat living in Malaysia and i love being here so peaceful, and most important its Muslim country, its an heaven on earth for me. Malaysia Boleh 🇲🇾
leader of Pakistan do not care about people, thy are arogant, i knew as Malaysia i can feel it. most of they corrupted, and greedy, in Malaysia, corruption exist but not much greedy.
Melaka villages are very beautiful clean and tidy. So many mosque ,Food stall everywhere ,very green and the the first state to get the status of a developed state in Malaysia
As a male British Pakistani who's spent 4-5yrs total in Pakistan. I can honestly say that I agree with her statements. As a male, I was still appalled how perveted the men were. They would even glare at random guys, if they find them attractive!💯👨🏻❤️💋👨🏽
dis is exactly wut my pakistani friend told .not just a girl..men also targeted..esp young boys..n in peshawar..its even worst .the young boys sell their body..as young as 8-9 years old..they did dis voluntary..lots of gey p3do over there..
One example. If my wife had to go somewhere in an emergency at 12 at night, i wouldnt be worried if she did so in malaysia, but id be having palpitations if i was in pak though.
Very open and sincere opinion by you, i ve visited Pakistan - Islamabad, Peshawar n Skardu last year. Aggreed with you Pakistan is a beautiful country aspecially the valleys. A lot the issues the government have to handle to improve the country and the livelihood of the people. Pakistan is about 15 years behind Malaysia.
15 years is quite modest to say. It is much more behind actually. And that is not the worst part, the worst part is that they are going in the opposite direction.
Yes, your have truly spoke sincerly the difference between Pakistan and Malaysia. As a muslim, I pray that Pakistan will develop to an advance muslim country, insyaallah.
Although I am a British citizen by descent and a UAE citizen by birth, I have been living in Pakistan for a long time. The old Pakistan was far better than the current Pakistan. I married someone from Pakistan and enjoyed my life a lot here, but now I've come to realize that my decision to live in Pakistan was not the right one.
@@anonamous6278politics turmoil i guess. The value man's life are not so cared, almost like a fly. So many politics and religion extremist such extreme syiah and wahabies and western pro n liberals.
nature and beauty in Pakistan is next level, very beautiful country indeed. But if u want convenient of living in daily life, Malaysia definitely just a better choice.
How many educated people make a life in those mountains? And those living in the cities, how many actually go there frequently? Nature & beauty is far far away for the average paki
Msia is a good country since indepedence frm Britain.I agreed what u have described here.Msian are no stranger to the UK environment as many of their students graduated there.Msia a very tolerant country.Its people knows to respect each other.So life in Msia is cool n calm without any fear wherever u want to be, u are 100% safe😊
@@SairaHayati probably not a good idea to put ur number on here.
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@SairaHayati could you please make a vlog with an immigration lawyer or agent so we can have a contact person to know if I am eligible to move to Malaysia? And start the process.. It would be really helpful..
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@@SairaHayati please make a vlog with immigration agent/lawyer wherr you can share his or her contact number of agency details so a lot of people can benefit from that info
Kenapa hendak pilih tinggal di negara kami ? Tinggal saja di negara anda , terlalu ramai Pakistani masuk bekerja di negara kami dan tidak mahu pulang ke Pakistan lagi...it's so disgusting 😏
Sadly I have to agree with everything you said about Pakistan especially what you said about being a lone female. We men obviously don’t have that issue. I’m thinking of visiting Pakistan again soon, after 10 years, to explore it a bit more whilst I still have good health. My current position is that I still love living in the UK (away from London). Born, raised and lived all my life here but in my early 50s now and in need of more sunshine so exploring other places including Turkey next week.
For some reasons (not wanting to sound racist), pakistanis (and indians) moved to other countries and tried to run things ( on how it was in their countries). They should appreciate the changes in lifestyle in other countries and embraced them. Otherwise .....
Yup that's the funniest thing about those people, they ran away to other countries because their own country failed them, yet they want the country that they ran away to, to behave exactly like the country they ran away from 😂
I was told by a Pakistani tour guide, when i was travelling in Pakistan last year, that woman are not allowed to pray in mosques. Once my friends and I prayed (all of us are ladies) in National Mosque of Islamabad, the Faisal Mosque. There were so many Pakistanis visiting the mosques as tourists and almost everyone watched us praying as it is a strange thing to do. And 1 more thing, there is no 'surau' available at Lahore Airport. We just prayed inside an abandoned commercial premise while waiting to check-in.
Masjid under ahle Hadith allows sis. I can also perform Friday prayer and Terawih prayer was excellent since Imam is a hafiz . Completed the Quran. Alhamdulilah
😂😂 and recently there are a few indian india tourist at batu cave taking picture with a white girl that happen to be a tourist too, and she thought they are locals that never saw a white women before 🤦♀️. * please..... our local indian never do that!
@@amymin9210If those white women thought they are locals, then it reflects on the west's utter ignorance of people's and culture. Just have to blame themselves for being backward but thinking they are forward.
My first experience meeting with my friend's father was uncomfortable because he liked to stare. My friend's father is Pakistani living in Malaysia for a few generations already that he no longer can speak Pakistani. After got to know him, he is very nice man.
Our family wanted to shift to Pakistan and saw progress when Imran khan was in power. We thought Pakistan was about to turn a corner. However, in the past 2 plus years it regressed to end of 70’s and 80’s dictatorship. We decided to stay put in the US. Now, we are trying to sell our home in Karachi DHA and can’t. 😢
talking about touching in particular... i actually saw firsthand in Malaysia, one Pakistani man trying to do the same to a malay sister who work in the courier industry and that really gives a bad reputation to South Asian man in particular. She feel disgusted and i feel disgusted by that because of how uncommon that is to happen in Malaysia. Culturally the man and woman don't get too familiar with each other like that. you know even the act of handshakes between man and woman is rare unlike in Indonesia. so being perverted like that really makes us wary. Hence sometimes racism towards south asian (man in particular) is shared between locals. racism as in *avoiding* them, not targeting people of certain demographic like it is done in the west who just go around minding their own business.
13:55 here in the UK, it's the same. Me and my wife went to Bradford from London and during the Duhr time we were searching for the Mosque where women can pray. I find out it's zero in Bradford but in London it's common for men and women to pray in the same mosque but diffrent sections.
As a Malaysian female....i love watching pak drama series..... why wasnt i shocked at yr experience at the bazaar...bcoz its a very male dominant society...which i gathered frm the drama series...its a pity to see the females in pak r so constricted all bcoz of the goons
I have been to Pakistan couples of times. I was amazed with the beauty of the natures. Sadly some place don't have a good facilities for tourists. Hopefully one day the government do some improvements to attract more tourists to visit Pakistan.
Smiled when I heard you said "surau" as it is a Malay word (I think) and yes, there are "surau" even in shopping malls and MRT stations. Oh, the topic about "women" in Malaysia/South East Asia might deserve it's own exclusive post, as many from the west might think the worse. (edit) : just did a brief homework, the word "surau" comes from Minangkabau language (Sumatera, Indonesia & most of Minang community in Malaysia resides in Negeri Sembilan, Malaysia)
@timeaftertime-om7os i hv been to quite many places in Indonesia, at that time. Need to explain to them what is surau. The term they used overthere is Musolla.
14:07 Saira Malaysia had suraus everywhere long before it was even a thing in Arab countries e.g the U.A.E it was light years ahead of them. I'm guessing Indonesia too as they're similar.
Saira, Thanks for your video, sharing your experiences. 5:22. You said: "...children. In fact, not PEOPLE...children are still being exploited..." I would have said: "...children. In fact, not ADULTS...children are still being exploited..."
@@kingstonlandscape4391 she only talk bout how unsafe pakistani for a young girl/women .then she only talk bout how the children being exploited as a garbage collector..but she did not know dat the boys there has being exploited far beyond dat(u know wut i mean..lots of gey p3d0 over there) .as young as 8 y/o in a certain2 part of dat country iñ exchange for a few rupees. I know dis..bcoz my pakistani friend told me bout dis..then later i found a documentary on utube bout dis issue.. im quite shock..so sad for dat children..i keep thinking .if pakistani boys face dis..how bout their young girls..n if pakistani was dis bad..bangladesh n afghan must be even worst for the children regardless boys or girls
Don’t forget the heat!!! 45+ C. I lived through 52C in Gujrat 60 km from Lahore. And then the electrical grid goes down because everyone wants to use A/C!
I had the same experience in Pakistan when i was 14. I am Malaysian. Went to anarkali bazar lahore and men staring, touching my hand. Today i am married to a Pakistani living in Malaysia. Yes even today nothing has changed
Pakistan is a mixture Islamabad is excellent My sister has lived in Pakistan for 20 years and still loves it As for the baggers - you deciding not to move there will no help them but if you're there you could help
As a Malaysian, I personally don't know anybody who drinks from the tap like Westerners. Yes, our minister may have said our water is now clean enough, but most of us are still not accustomed to that. Many of us have water filters at home, and as for my family, my wife insists that we even boil the filtered water to be 100% bacteria-free.😂
I have been living in USA since 1992 I wanted to move back to Pakistan. I bought a house there in 2002. I just wanted to thank you for your videos now I am seriously interested to move to Malaysia
Been to pakistan, what you said about pakistan is true, beautiful country ,loved it but politically & financially not favourable. Its a shame to see all those possibility to be a great country goes to waste in the hands of wrong people.
It is ironic that women having lower status than men in Pakistan but many Pakistani women are famous, strong and making headlines in the world e.g. Benazir Bhutto, Malala Yousafzai
southeast asia far more better than south asia.. overall just better.. if you want to see beautiful nature & landscape.. just go abroad thailand, philipines & indonesia..
I don't know why some Asians say my parents were from so and so country, inferring that they are something different than that of their parent's ethnicity. I think it's a disgrace. Simple language - I'm a Pakistani who holds a red document called a British passport. The ego of some people when it comes to where they live.
I think it's more about how your brain is wired. Ethnically we are Pakistani no doubt but people who have been bought up in another country will think differently, have different conceptual perspectives. Eg arrange marriages to the village boy and girl... Not saying it don't work but compatibility can become a serious issue. Ethnically the same but from 2 different worlds. Something to think about!!!!
@@HaroonKhan-lu4xu Sorry, but you're getting "ethnicity" confused with "culture". A person's ethnicity can never change regardless of where they live or which passport they hold, whereas cultural effects and affiliations will vary from place to place. So a Pakistani or Bengali born or brought up in Malaysia will significantly vary culturally with one in Japan as an example. But both will be ethnically Pakistani or Bengali - that never changes. Similarly, strictly speaking "British" is not an ethnicity but a nationality. So for example, I could lose my British nationality and then go and live in France, few years later apply for Citizenship and become a French Citizen. Here the word "French" means either an ethnicity or nationality or both. If I'm Pakistani then I would be "French" by nationality but obviously can't be "French" by ethnicity. These are distinctions that are easily overlooked. In this video I was pertaining to the fact that some people take joy and pride in impressing on others the belief that they are a different ethnicity to that of their parents because they feel proud of being eg British or feel ashamed of being known as belonging to that ethnic group.
@@shabrahhussain9680 It's a pretty obvious thing being said here, and with that formula surprised you came to that erroneous conclusion. If you look at my original comment properly, then applying your very own formula it translates into "my parents were born in x (parents from so and so country)," hence I am "x" (talking about people who don't mention this hence I said they want to force others to infer they're something different to that of their parents ethnicity), but I was born in "y" (yes, indeed the mentioning of this point eg Britain, is asking others to think they are that ethnicity of of origin). Furthermore, no passport in any nation is given pre-birth! And furthermore, by being born in a particular country doesn't affect one's ethnicity, merely their potential nationality to be given, There's even laws that deals with that for people born in aeroplanes too.
@@shabrahhussain9680 Force doesn't necessarily mean others will accept it. How is that a contradiction when I say when one is even born on the moon their ethnicity doesn't change ie is not affected, meaning if they're a Pakistani they will remain a Pakistani even though they were born on Jupiter? No contradictions at all! Also, When one is talking about ethnicity (context) the fact they leave their own ethnicity out of it and shoot off about where their parents are from when they could just say "I'm Pakistani" (see, no need to even mention where their bloody parents are from) then you know that person is having issues with their self and ego and is forcing the notion that they are ie British, American etc . I think you need to retake lessons in English and logic. Good start, I see that you managed to put an ' after the "s" in parents whereas I mistakenly put it in between the t and s.
Pakistani are well known in Malaysia as carpet trader 😂 most of them are overstaying, or legally stay by married a locals. With Indian India and Bangladesh, too many illegal immigrants from that region. But if you bring along your fortune and business, then you are very welcome.
Unfortunately a lot of the Pakistani men lied to a lot of the locals and married them just to start a business while having their real wife and children in Pakistan 😅 these type of things they do brings a bad name to Pakistani people.
The best naan i ever had is from one pakistani guy in msia in the 90s. He sell just plain naan with tandoori and dhal sauce. Never had anything better ever since. Nowadays naan in msia are just shit.
There are rows of Pakistani restaurants on jalan Ipoh with good naan. I buy my naan from a Pakistani stall at plaza Damas. Yes, they're better than mamak naan.
Saira are you single, living alone in Malaysia? What will you do after 5 years. When your malaysia visa expires? In Pakistan you could have brought a flat to live in. Theres alot of security in those flats. Also if you wore Pakistani clothes no one would stare at you. Nobody stares at me. You got stared at because your wearing arab dress. You are right about the drinking water. The government needs to build water filtration plants so the entire country gets clean drinking water in the taps.
My brother is in the same situation. He has young daughters and has said exactly the same thing regarding our village in Azad Kashmir. The way people sneer, bad eye , 'paarey ake or parey nazar' as they say about some people there. The worst thing is the caste and backward mindedness as you say. People have this superiority complex over others. Im sure this exists all over the world but to different degrees. In the uk were generally all the same, social status does exist, however our culture and schools have taught us to be polite, respectable, understanding to all. What really annoys me the most is the choudahry 'poona' in Pakistan. I also found people close to you to be disingenuous, some outright dishonest due to financial benefits and gain. The issue you highlighted is major importance. What about the issue those people who are deemed to be less human on a daily basis becuase of the caste system. I went there recently and enjoyed travelling, spending time and having great laughs with the people there. One of the best holidays I had in years, however the underlying issues remain and leave a sour taste in your mouth. I can imagine the dread people with daughters have.
Saira, i agree with your comparison. However, if you are earning a foreign currency like gbp, you are not affected by inflation as much in Pakistan. So, actually, for a foreigner, the cost of living is much cheaper but not for the pakistani earning in pkrs which is very sad.
Salam sister I am very keen to move to Malaysia from the UK but after doing a comparison of costs of Islamabad vs Kuala Lumpur it seems that it is cheaper to move and live in islamabad than Malaysia, this maybe due to the high exchange rate of the £ to rupees but please advise
Sister spoke to the Truth.. as a fellow brit born and raise but also of Pakistan decent there is a long road ahead for Pakistan 🇵🇰 . We pray Imran Khan is released and there are other real honest leaders to make changes within Pakistan
Why they always choose to marry among cousins and within the family? Dont have any chance to choose what they like or love? And some Pakistani men immigrants workers, said that their siblings girl or women not allow to go to school or working and just wait till the age of 16 or 17 to get engage and marry among cousins..
Im curious is it ok for women especially unmarried to travel "ALONE" to another country to study for education?? I thought it was forbidden??? For a lady to be living on her own or traveling far journeys
Interesting dna results, which company did you use? Ive never seen results which show 'afghan' as a result as thats a country rather the dna results i have would say something like 'centeal asia, south' for afghan. What wording does it actually use?
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Sister, you really need to understand the difference between the mazhab teachings which differs from Pakistan and Malaysia and Bangladesh etc. Malaysia predominantly follows the Shafie mazhab, that's why Malaysian Muslims do things differently than the Pakistanis or Bangladeshi or Saudis. Muslim women have some degree of equality in mazhab Shafie compared to other mazhab, that's all.
I am Malaysian and visited Pakistan alone last year. I traveled to the North and spent a few days in Islamabad and Lahore. The scenery was amazing, and the people were incredibly nice. I have never encountered a place where ride-hailing drivers (inDrive) refused to accept the fare, but I experienced that several times there. I literally had to leave the money on the car seat because the driver simply wouldn't accept it. It's unfortunate that the country is in such a state and its people have to endure it.
Yes same here... I'm a Malaysian and had visited Pakistan 3 times... And love the people's there are very loving and caring... Pakistan scenery view are beautiful.
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@@sakinamirsultan6072what flight to pakistan please?
Not accepting fares is one reason why Pakistan is in such a dire state. Looks like they don't even understand what TF is a business transaction. You get paid for service tendered, okay.
All working for charity even for 'rich' tourists like you?
@@wewave23 such noble peoples in Pakistan. Respect from Malaysia
comparing pakistan to malaysia is like comparing mali to switzerland
Well Pakistanis are more islamic than Malaysians
this comparison is quite unrtue.... i am saying from my experience. pls don't go by popular perception or your own bias.
Agree with you, hygiene is a top priority in life..
It is half of Iman..
Welcome to Malaysia. I am now working in the GCC for almost 10 years and i am always proud to tell people i am from Malaysia. As you rightly said, loving your own country has nothing to do with governance and politics. Although Malaysia is far from perfect, we do have our own charm such as diverse culture, beautiful sceneries and of course the food. :)
You not Malaysian, you just life here.. bahasa melayu asas malaysia pon fak tahu
@@hairitajudin4208 apa la lu tak habis2 meroyang kat YT org...biasanya depa ni BM SPM A...
I would never choose to live in Pakistan like some people from the Uk who would. Just come back from my 7th visit to Malaysia a couple of days ago coupled with my 4th visit to Indonesia and I am definitely doing my 8th visit to Malaysia next year
Have a great day bro. Thanks for visiting
You must have love Malaysia indeed 👍🏻
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We as muslims should never talk negative about our muslim Brother's and sisters doesn't matter what's the situation. We can condemn kafirs not a problem. Wasalam
@@AminCorea why not? You are too sacred to wrong?
Thanks for choosing Malaysia Saira and all others expat .. and be happy always and enjoy it. Salam
Even the Jewish expats? There are many of them in Malaysia. U welcome them too?
As a woman in Malaysia, we are more freely and respected. I really thankful for that. Alhamdulilah. The more you travel, the more you appreciate your country.
The woman are respected in Pakistan too i dont know why Saira said these things but she is not right in what she said there are more good people in pakistan than bad. Women in Pakistan are doctors, lawyers, teachers and they can move freely and drive too. Maybe she had a bad experience but her suggestion that the whole country is like that is wrong. There are more conservative regions in the country yes but it is not as she suggests. It is not like malaysia either though. It is different. And Pakistani men are the one of thw most respectful and kind men you will meet anywhere i would know since i am married to one, have one as my fwther and one as my son and one as my brother.❤
@@user-ie8zd5qv3bIt's not only about respect in Malaysia; women also hold high-ranking positions at work. there is no bias!
I am Pakistani, and found your comments reasonable. and can understand you.
I am a Pakistani Canadian, I have only lived in Pakistan until 21 years old man but let me tell you I have lots of bad experiences as a teenage boy but I still love my dirty homeland because my roots, my friends, my relatives and lets not forget if all good people don't go back then bad people will continue to exploit the country. I know current situation is really bad because Pakistan military gone mad keep promoting bad Generals on top jobs.. lets hope things gets better
Military did gone mad, but they were always like that. Only the people with less brain via Imran Khan learn now. I am saying about military from my late Teen age.
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Im Pakistani Expat living in Malaysia and i love being here so peaceful, and most important its Muslim country, its an heaven on earth for me. Malaysia Boleh 🇲🇾
leader of Pakistan do not care about people, thy are arogant, i knew as Malaysia i can feel it. most of they corrupted, and greedy, in Malaysia, corruption exist but not much greedy.
In Malaysia because we are multi cultural, thus we are used to embrace people from different countries and different culture. Welcome to Malaysia.
Yes betul Saira. That’s why I love ❤❤❤ so much my country Malaysia 🇲🇾.
Totally cannot compare.
Malaysia is so so convient in everything and also have beautiful nature too.
Men and women here in Malaysia are equally treated fairly..even many women have high position in any government sector or in non goverment sector
Rubbish!
@@byteme9718proof?
Really
Men and women belonging to a particular majority race, you mean.
@@byteme9718 I think you indo people 😂
Pakistan is always close to my heart even tho I'm Malaysian. Beautiful country with amazing people❤
U really not malaysian...is it true?
@@MattSalleh-v6m
Agreeeee 😅
Thank you so very much for your kindness 💝
Kepala bapak ngkau! Pakistan is the den of world crime , u r not a Malaysian
Melaka villages are very beautiful clean and tidy. So many mosque ,Food stall everywhere ,very green and the the first state to get the status of a developed state in Malaysia
As a male British Pakistani who's spent 4-5yrs total in Pakistan. I can honestly say that I agree with her statements. As a male, I was still appalled how perveted the men were. They would even glare at random guys, if they find them attractive!💯👨🏻❤️💋👨🏽
Whoa man..thats totally different level
Oh Dear
That's gay
dis is exactly wut my pakistani friend told .not just a girl..men also targeted..esp young boys..n in peshawar..its even worst .the young boys sell their body..as young as 8-9 years old..they did dis voluntary..lots of gey p3do over there..
😂🤣😂
Pakistan is good for traveler like me, love the people, the food and the places...but of course, not for long term stay...😊
One example. If my wife had to go somewhere in an emergency at 12 at night, i wouldnt be worried if she did so in malaysia, but id be having palpitations if i was in pak though.
Very open and sincere opinion by you, i ve visited Pakistan - Islamabad, Peshawar n Skardu last year. Aggreed with you Pakistan is a beautiful country aspecially the valleys. A lot the issues the government have to handle to improve the country and the livelihood of the people. Pakistan is about 15 years behind Malaysia.
15 years is quite modest to say. It is much more behind actually. And that is not the worst part, the worst part is that they are going in the opposite direction.
Yes, your have truly spoke sincerly the difference between Pakistan and Malaysia. As a muslim, I pray that Pakistan will develop to an advance muslim country, insyaallah.
Although I am a British citizen by descent and a UAE citizen by birth, I have been living in Pakistan for a long time. The old Pakistan was far better than the current Pakistan. I married someone from Pakistan and enjoyed my life a lot here, but now I've come to realize that my decision to live in Pakistan was not the right one.
What has changed in pakistan so much?
@@anonamous6278politics turmoil i guess.
The value man's life are not so cared, almost like a fly.
So many politics and religion extremist such extreme syiah and wahabies and western pro n liberals.
Remember we as muslims should never ever talk negative things about our muslim Brother's and sisters. Wasalam
UAE citizen?Do you have UAE passport?
I hope u understand the difference between citizen and nationality/ passport.... passport is a nationality
nature and beauty in Pakistan is next level, very beautiful country indeed. But if u want convenient of living in daily life, Malaysia definitely just a better choice.
How many educated people make a life in those mountains? And those living in the cities, how many actually go there frequently? Nature & beauty is far far away for the average paki
Msia is a good country since indepedence frm Britain.I agreed what u have described here.Msian are no stranger to the UK environment as many of their students graduated there.Msia a very tolerant country.Its people knows to respect each other.So life in Msia is cool n calm without any fear wherever u want to be, u are 100% safe😊
@@kamrulz659 you malays are too complacent. Thats why bangla rohingya china all take over your business.
In the middle of planning to move to Melaka soon with my family.
Mashallah that’s amazing! Feel free to contact my PA +447949829081 on whatsapp if you’d like help in anything
@@SairaHayati probably not a good idea to put ur number on here.
@SairaHayati could you please make a vlog with an immigration lawyer or agent so we can have a contact person to know if I am eligible to move to Malaysia?
And start the process.. It would be really helpful..
@@SairaHayati please make a vlog with immigration agent/lawyer wherr you can share his or her contact number of agency details so a lot of people can benefit from that info
Is it free though?@@SairaHayati
as a pakistani i would choose malaysia too
Kenapa hendak pilih tinggal di negara kami ? Tinggal saja di negara anda , terlalu ramai Pakistani masuk bekerja di negara kami dan tidak mahu pulang ke Pakistan lagi...it's so disgusting 😏
We shouldn't criticize muslim country no matter what's the situation.The leaders,the people there are our brothers and sisters. Wasalam
I will also move to Malaysia very soon
very good video, I am a pakistani living in west and looking for info about these topics for my future family.
No future left in the west mate.
These things you described in Pakistan is a perfect example of the effects of IMF "austerity measures" spilling over into society.
I totally agree to everything you said, i wish if pakistan was in good hands. Its shame to see how pakistan has been ruined by crupt rulers.
Since Musharaff sold out.
Sadly I have to agree with everything you said about Pakistan especially what you said about being a lone female. We men obviously don’t have that issue. I’m thinking of visiting Pakistan again soon, after 10 years, to explore it a bit more whilst I still have good health.
My current position is that I still love living in the UK (away from London). Born, raised and lived all my life here but in my early 50s now and in need of more sunshine so exploring other places including Turkey next week.
Go to Morocco it was hot - loads of sun
@@spidyman8853 Already been there.
Yaa.. we have the right to choose the best life in ourselves
For some reasons (not wanting to sound racist), pakistanis (and indians) moved to other countries and tried to run things ( on how it was in their countries). They should appreciate the changes in lifestyle in other countries and embraced them. Otherwise .....
Very true indeed
How do you mean the Pakistani or Indian tried to run things in other countries?
Yup that's the funniest thing about those people, they ran away to other countries because their own country failed them, yet they want the country that they ran away to, to behave exactly like the country they ran away from 😂
Nothing racist at all, you are telling the truth
@@SpeakTheTruthGuyfor example the syiah community. They try to bring their culture to other country. I felt so embarrassed as a muslim
For someone who was born and living in a tropical country like Malaysia, Pakistan's nature scenery is absolutely beautiful
I was told by a Pakistani tour guide, when i was travelling in Pakistan last year, that woman are not allowed to pray in mosques. Once my friends and I prayed (all of us are ladies) in National Mosque of Islamabad, the Faisal Mosque. There were so many Pakistanis visiting the mosques as tourists and almost everyone watched us praying as it is a strange thing to do. And 1 more thing, there is no 'surau' available at Lahore Airport. We just prayed inside an abandoned commercial premise while waiting to check-in.
Tak mesra tourist kot
Masjid under ahle Hadith allows sis.
I can also perform Friday prayer and Terawih prayer was excellent since Imam is a hafiz . Completed the Quran. Alhamdulilah
Very honest and insightful Saira, thank you.
I live in the UK and have been thinking about a move, and you have given me things to think about.
I'm a Pakistani and I just visited Malaysia. I really want to move to KL. I loveeed Malaysia
Pakistanis and bangladeshis in kl also stare at tourists here. Not sure why they do that.
True, they stared though wanted to eat you. My daughter wouldn't go nsk full of bangla . She daring ask them right on their face, ape tengok😅
😂😂 and recently there are a few indian india tourist at batu cave taking picture with a white girl that happen to be a tourist too, and she thought they are locals that never saw a white women before 🤦♀️.
* please..... our local indian never do that!
@@amymin9210 yes tourists said "malaysians" are staring at them. So they feel uncomfortable
ignorance, lust
@@amymin9210If those white women thought they are locals, then it reflects on the west's utter ignorance of people's and culture. Just have to blame themselves for being backward but thinking they are forward.
My first experience meeting with my friend's father was uncomfortable because he liked to stare. My friend's father is Pakistani living in Malaysia for a few generations already that he no longer can speak Pakistani. After got to know him, he is very nice man.
What were you wearing then?
@@shahrimanshahnaz7008 was about to ask the same question
Speak Pakistani 🙄 what language is that then
I went to hunza, it was such beautiful country
Thanks Saira. Thank you on what you did promoting Malaysia. Wish you happiness all your life ❤
I like how your tones change everytime you mentioned each country. From a serious one to an excited little girl everytime you talk about Malaysia. LOL
You are always welcomed in Malaysia Saira Hayati
Thank you for sharing... change is the only constant and pray we all live a blessed life..
1. Agreed
2. Just suggesting: takes your opportunity to collaborate with Saleh Family channel sister. Waiting for it.
# Asalamualaikum
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Our family wanted to shift to Pakistan and saw progress when Imran khan was in power. We thought Pakistan was about to turn a corner. However, in the past 2 plus years it regressed to end of 70’s and 80’s dictatorship. We decided to stay put in the US. Now, we are trying to sell our home in Karachi DHA and can’t. 😢
talking about touching in particular... i actually saw firsthand in Malaysia, one Pakistani man trying to do the same to a malay sister who work in the courier industry and that really gives a bad reputation to South Asian man in particular. She feel disgusted and i feel disgusted by that because of how uncommon that is to happen in Malaysia. Culturally the man and woman don't get too familiar with each other like that. you know even the act of handshakes between man and woman is rare unlike in Indonesia. so being perverted like that really makes us wary. Hence sometimes racism towards south asian (man in particular) is shared between locals. racism as in *avoiding* them, not targeting people of certain demographic like it is done in the west who just go around minding their own business.
13:55 here in the UK, it's the same. Me and my wife went to Bradford from London and during the Duhr time we were searching for the Mosque where women can pray. I find out it's zero in Bradford but in London it's common for men and women to pray in the same mosque but diffrent sections.
As a Malaysian female....i love watching pak drama series.....
why wasnt i shocked at yr experience at the bazaar...bcoz its a very male dominant society...which i gathered frm the drama series...its a pity to see the females in pak r so constricted all bcoz of the goons
I have been to Pakistan couples of times. I was amazed with the beauty of the natures. Sadly some place don't have a good facilities for tourists. Hopefully one day the government do some improvements to attract more tourists to visit Pakistan.
Smiled when I heard you said "surau" as it is a Malay word (I think) and yes, there are "surau" even in shopping malls and MRT stations.
Oh, the topic about "women" in Malaysia/South East Asia might deserve it's own exclusive post, as many from the west might think the worse.
(edit) : just did a brief homework, the word "surau" comes from Minangkabau language (Sumatera, Indonesia & most of Minang community in Malaysia resides in Negeri Sembilan, Malaysia)
Ya but when u r in indonesia and u asked for surau, they will ask u back. What is that..💁♂️
@@bashed1000
87% of Indonesian people know what a surau is
Meanwhile, only 65% of Malaysians know what a "surau" is.
@@bashed1000Indeed, because surau in Indonesia is usually called musholla.
@@bashed1000 Interesting !!
@timeaftertime-om7os i hv been to quite many places in Indonesia, at that time. Need to explain to them what is surau. The term they used overthere is Musolla.
May Allah SWT bless you for these helpful videos and on Insta..hope we meet some day soon... :]
14:07 Saira Malaysia had suraus everywhere long before it was even a thing in Arab countries e.g the U.A.E it was light years ahead of them. I'm guessing Indonesia too as they're similar.
in our IT industry is normal to see indian and pakistani
Saira,
Thanks for your video, sharing your experiences.
5:22. You said: "...children. In fact, not PEOPLE...children are still being exploited..."
I would have said:
"...children. In fact, not ADULTS...children are still being exploited..."
@@kingstonlandscape4391 she only talk bout how unsafe pakistani for a young girl/women .then she only talk bout how the children being exploited as a garbage collector..but she did not know dat the boys there has being exploited far beyond dat(u know wut i mean..lots of gey p3d0 over there) .as young as 8 y/o in a certain2 part of dat country iñ exchange for a few rupees. I know dis..bcoz my pakistani friend told me bout dis..then later i found a documentary on utube bout dis issue.. im quite shock..so sad for dat children..i keep thinking .if pakistani boys face dis..how bout their young girls..n if pakistani was dis bad..bangladesh n afghan must be even worst for the children regardless boys or girls
Don’t forget the heat!!! 45+ C. I lived through 52C in Gujrat 60 km from Lahore. And then the electrical grid goes down because everyone wants to use A/C!
I had the same experience in Pakistan when i was 14. I am Malaysian. Went to anarkali bazar lahore and men staring, touching my hand. Today i am married to a Pakistani living in Malaysia. Yes even today nothing has changed
oh sister your husband staring at you is allowed :) but jk aside, its an unfortunate side of Pak. The men are just no shame..
Female uni students in Malaysia now exceeded male counterparts. Memang tak aci betul😅
Pakistan is a mixture
Islamabad is excellent
My sister has lived in Pakistan for 20 years and still loves it
As for the baggers - you deciding not to move there will no help them but if you're there you could help
Is your brother-in-law a General in Pakistan Army? Just asking !!!
As a Malaysian, I personally don't know anybody who drinks from the tap like Westerners. Yes, our minister may have said our water is now clean enough, but most of us are still not accustomed to that. Many of us have water filters at home, and as for my family, my wife insists that we even boil the filtered water to be 100% bacteria-free.😂
I probably won't see it in my lifetime but 🙏🏻 that Pakistanis get a government that serves them.
I have been living in USA since 1992 I wanted to move back to Pakistan. I bought a house there in 2002. I just wanted to thank you for your videos now I am seriously interested to move to Malaysia
Been to pakistan, what you said about pakistan is true, beautiful country ,loved it but politically & financially not favourable. Its a shame to see all those possibility to be a great country goes to waste in the hands of wrong people.
just be careful that some 'senior' foreigners used to acts & speak like local and the unfortunate tourists will became their victim.
Let's Go Malaysia 🎉
It is ironic that women having lower status than men in Pakistan but many Pakistani women are famous, strong and making headlines in the world e.g. Benazir Bhutto, Malala Yousafzai
Becoz they brought along their fathers' name
Benazir killed. Milala shot in the face hmmmm
Pakistani women are strong in character, beautiful and awesome.
There is a Pakistanis and Indian Mosque in KL. You may visit ✌️
You made the right decision.
👍🏻 totally agree with you!
southeast asia far more better than south asia.. overall just better.. if you want to see beautiful nature & landscape.. just go abroad thailand, philipines & indonesia..
Assalamualaikum wbt, Saira
Welcome & thanks for choose to live in 🇲🇾
We so happy to have you & family as the big family of 🇲🇾
100% right
Iv not been but insha Allah I thing I would like to go because your recommendation.
I don't know why some Asians say my parents were from so and so country, inferring that they are something different than that of their parent's ethnicity. I think it's a disgrace. Simple language - I'm a Pakistani who holds a red document called a British passport. The ego of some people when it comes to where they live.
Agreed
I think it's more about how your brain is wired. Ethnically we are Pakistani no doubt but people who have been bought up in another country will think differently, have different conceptual perspectives. Eg arrange marriages to the village boy and girl... Not saying it don't work but compatibility can become a serious issue. Ethnically the same but from 2 different worlds. Something to think about!!!!
@@HaroonKhan-lu4xu Sorry, but you're getting "ethnicity" confused with "culture". A person's ethnicity can never change regardless of where they live or which passport they hold, whereas cultural effects and affiliations will vary from place to place. So a Pakistani or Bengali born or brought up in Malaysia will significantly vary culturally with one in Japan as an example. But both will be ethnically Pakistani or Bengali - that never changes. Similarly, strictly speaking "British" is not an ethnicity but a nationality. So for example, I could lose my British nationality and then go and live in France, few years later apply for Citizenship and become a French Citizen. Here the word "French" means either an ethnicity or nationality or both. If I'm Pakistani then I would be "French" by nationality but obviously can't be "French" by ethnicity. These are distinctions that are easily overlooked. In this video I was pertaining to the fact that some people take joy and pride in impressing on others the belief that they are a different ethnicity to that of their parents because they feel proud of being eg British or feel ashamed of being known as belonging to that ethnic group.
@@shabrahhussain9680 It's a pretty obvious thing being said here, and with that formula surprised you came to that erroneous conclusion. If you look at my original comment properly, then applying your very own formula it translates into "my parents were born in x (parents from so and so country)," hence I am "x" (talking about people who don't mention this hence I said they want to force others to infer they're something different to that of their parents ethnicity), but I was born in "y" (yes, indeed the mentioning of this point eg Britain, is asking others to think they are that ethnicity of of origin). Furthermore, no passport in any nation is given pre-birth! And furthermore, by being born in a particular country doesn't affect one's ethnicity, merely their potential nationality to be given, There's even laws that deals with that for people born in aeroplanes too.
@@shabrahhussain9680 Force doesn't necessarily mean others will accept it. How is that a contradiction when I say when one is even born on the moon their ethnicity doesn't change ie is not affected, meaning if they're a Pakistani they will remain a Pakistani even though they were born on Jupiter? No contradictions at all! Also, When one is talking about ethnicity (context) the fact they leave their own ethnicity out of it and shoot off about where their parents are from when they could just say "I'm Pakistani" (see, no need to even mention where their bloody parents are from) then you know that person is having issues with their self and ego and is forcing the notion that they are ie British, American etc . I think you need to retake lessons in English and logic. Good start, I see that you managed to put an ' after the "s" in parents whereas I mistakenly put it in between the t and s.
Pakistani are well known in Malaysia as carpet trader 😂 most of them are overstaying, or legally stay by married a locals.
With Indian India and Bangladesh, too many illegal immigrants from that region. But if you bring along your fortune and business, then you are very welcome.
Unfortunately a lot of the Pakistani men lied to a lot of the locals and married them just to start a business while having their real wife and children in Pakistan 😅 these type of things they do brings a bad name to Pakistani people.
The best naan i ever had is from one pakistani guy in msia in the 90s. He sell just plain naan with tandoori and dhal sauce. Never had anything better ever since. Nowadays naan in msia are just shit.
Pls...have some respect. It is food
There are rows of Pakistani restaurants on jalan Ipoh with good naan. I buy my naan from a Pakistani stall at plaza Damas. Yes, they're better than mamak naan.
@@arivfotomoto3642 ok thanks will try later
I had my best naan from Pakistani at Nilai 3. But u might want to try naan in terengganu. Melayu but some of them are really good
Malaysia is a multi racial country and you can also find many Pakistani living in Malaysia....
Malaysia is rank No.2 most racist country in the world.
@@ogapadoga2Yet the most harmonious. We dont have church burning mobs for example
@@shahrimanshahnaz7008 That's India. That's why they are rank NO.1.
@@ogapadoga2 Indonesia too
@@shahrimanshahnaz7008 Yes that one too. Evil country.
What part of Malaysia are you living?
As for fancy city maybe Malaysia good but as for fruit farms agriculture 🚜 we're best 🥭 🍊 🍋
Saira are you single, living alone in Malaysia? What will you do after 5 years. When your malaysia visa expires? In Pakistan you could have brought a flat to live in. Theres alot of security in those flats. Also if you wore Pakistani clothes no one would stare at you. Nobody stares at me. You got stared at because your wearing arab dress. You are right about the drinking water. The government needs to build water filtration plants so the entire country gets clean drinking water in the taps.
no - the men in Pakistan even stare at men!!! The culture is corrupt especially for young girls / women...
I am Turkish. You look like my sister.
My brother is in the same situation. He has young daughters and has said exactly the same thing regarding our village in Azad Kashmir. The way people sneer, bad eye , 'paarey ake or parey nazar' as they say about some people there. The worst thing is the caste and backward mindedness as you say. People have this superiority complex over others. Im sure this exists all over the world but to different degrees. In the uk were generally all the same, social status does exist, however our culture and schools have taught us to be polite, respectable, understanding to all. What really annoys me the most is the choudahry 'poona' in Pakistan. I also found people close to you to be disingenuous, some outright dishonest due to financial benefits and gain. The issue you highlighted is major importance. What about the issue those people who are deemed to be less human on a daily basis becuase of the caste system. I went there recently and enjoyed travelling, spending time and having great laughs with the people there. One of the best holidays I had in years, however the underlying issues remain and leave a sour taste in your mouth. I can imagine the dread people with daughters have.
Saira, i agree with your comparison. However, if you are earning a foreign currency like gbp, you are not affected by inflation as much in Pakistan. So, actually, for a foreigner, the cost of living is much cheaper but not for the pakistani earning in pkrs which is very sad.
Good morning Ms Saira, TQ for feeling comfortable stayed in Malaysia...
Terima kasih berpindah ke MALAYSIA
Welcome to Malaysia and hopefully you'll have wonderful time here.
Salam sister I am very keen to move to Malaysia from the UK but after doing a comparison of costs of Islamabad vs Kuala Lumpur it seems that it is cheaper to move and live in islamabad than Malaysia, this maybe due to the high exchange rate of the £ to rupees but please advise
Salamalaikom.. 100% iam not blaming pakistan politically. I know many thing about pakistan. Ask india and usa. Thx Mrs Saira. We missed your talk.
We miss your talk
Sister spoke to the Truth.. as a fellow brit born and raise but also of Pakistan decent there is a long road ahead for Pakistan 🇵🇰 . We pray Imran Khan is released and there are other real honest leaders to make changes within Pakistan
despite of few disadvantages.. pakistan beautiful sceneries are comparable to swiss n newzealand
Love that you support Imran Khan… Team PTI 🇵🇰
Hello sara please suggest me if i want to shift with my family me my wife and 3 daughters which country is best
Why they always choose to marry among cousins and within the family? Dont have any chance to choose what they like or love? And some Pakistani men immigrants workers, said that their siblings girl or women not allow to go to school or working and just wait till the age of 16 or 17 to get engage and marry among cousins..
Im curious is it ok for women especially unmarried to travel "ALONE" to another country to study for education?? I thought it was forbidden??? For a lady to be living on her own or traveling far journeys
Yes you should be happy to live in Pakistan or Afghanistan as you have more in common with the locals
Interesting dna results, which company did you use? Ive never seen results which show 'afghan' as a result as thats a country rather the dna results i have would say something like 'centeal asia, south' for afghan.
What wording does it actually use?
Don't do dna tests they give away private info, 23 and me recently had a data breach, and they are blaming their customers for it
How would you compare living in Dubai with living in Malaysia
The real problem of Malaysia is that it's too hot and humid. I wish someone invented a way to cool the outdoor to a balmy 21C
You are welcome to genting highland or kundasang... Both are the coolest place in malaysia
Maybe you can help people get Malaysia second residency visa as paid service.
I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..
I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..
I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..
I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..
I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..