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  • @SairaHayati
    @SairaHayati  25 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

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    • @fatimashah4962
      @fatimashah4962 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mashallah loved your vlogs .. you raised valied points ... ❤❤❤❤

    • @nutzhazel
      @nutzhazel 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Sister, you really need to understand the difference between the mazhab teachings which differs from Pakistan and Malaysia and Bangladesh etc. Malaysia predominantly follows the Shafie mazhab, that's why Malaysian Muslims do things differently than the Pakistanis or Bangladeshi or Saudis. Muslim women have some degree of equality in mazhab Shafie compared to other mazhab, that's all.

  • @chillout914
    @chillout914 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +62

    comparing pakistan to malaysia is like comparing mali to switzerland

  • @Tamjeedx
    @Tamjeedx 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Im Pakistani Expat living in Malaysia and i love being here so peaceful, and most important its Muslim country, its an heaven on earth for me. Malaysia Boleh 🇲🇾

  • @tokwae
    @tokwae 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +97

    I am Malaysian and visited Pakistan alone last year. I traveled to the North and spent a few days in Islamabad and Lahore. The scenery was amazing, and the people were incredibly nice. I have never encountered a place where ride-hailing drivers (inDrive) refused to accept the fare, but I experienced that several times there. I literally had to leave the money on the car seat because the driver simply wouldn't accept it. It's unfortunate that the country is in such a state and its people have to endure it.

    • @sakinamirsultan6072
      @sakinamirsultan6072 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Yes same here... I'm a Malaysian and had visited Pakistan 3 times... And love the people's there are very loving and caring... Pakistan scenery view are beautiful.

    • @twize4916
      @twize4916 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This

    • @cececonnie5509
      @cececonnie5509 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sakinamirsultan6072what flight to pakistan please?

    • @wewave23
      @wewave23 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Not accepting fares is one reason why Pakistan is in such a dire state. Looks like they don't even understand what TF is a business transaction. You get paid for service tendered, okay.
      All working for charity even for 'rich' tourists like you?

    • @twize4916
      @twize4916 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@wewave23 such noble peoples in Pakistan. Respect from Malaysia

  • @decTac
    @decTac 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    Agree with you, hygiene is a top priority in life..
    It is half of Iman..

  • @mycricketpassion
    @mycricketpassion 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    I am a Pakistani Canadian, I have only lived in Pakistan until 21 years old man but let me tell you I have lots of bad experiences as a teenage boy but I still love my dirty homeland because my roots, my friends, my relatives and lets not forget if all good people don't go back then bad people will continue to exploit the country. I know current situation is really bad because Pakistan military gone mad keep promoting bad Generals on top jobs.. lets hope things gets better

    • @sjishah
      @sjishah 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Military did gone mad, but they were always like that. Only the people with less brain via Imran Khan learn now. I am saying about military from my late Teen age.

  • @aidaaida2756
    @aidaaida2756 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    As a woman in Malaysia, we are more freely and respected. I really thankful for that. Alhamdulilah. The more you travel, the more you appreciate your country.

  • @LimWeeChoon
    @LimWeeChoon 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Welcome to Malaysia. I am now working in the GCC for almost 10 years and i am always proud to tell people i am from Malaysia. As you rightly said, loving your own country has nothing to do with governance and politics. Although Malaysia is far from perfect, we do have our own charm such as diverse culture, beautiful sceneries and of course the food. :)

    • @hairitajudin4208
      @hairitajudin4208 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You not Malaysian, you just life here.. bahasa melayu asas malaysia pon fak tahu

    • @dolceoption1587
      @dolceoption1587 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@hairitajudin4208 apa la lu tak habis2 meroyang kat YT org...biasanya depa ni BM SPM A...

  • @najairashid3976
    @najairashid3976 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    Thanks for choosing Malaysia Saira and all others expat .. and be happy always and enjoy it. Salam

    • @DemoNinja79
      @DemoNinja79 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Even the Jewish expats? There are many of them in Malaysia. U welcome them too?

  • @brothersman524
    @brothersman524 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +183

    I would never choose to live in Pakistan like some people from the Uk who would. Just come back from my 7th visit to Malaysia a couple of days ago coupled with my 4th visit to Indonesia and I am definitely doing my 8th visit to Malaysia next year

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Have a great day bro. Thanks for visiting

    • @NoorHishamCheDin
      @NoorHishamCheDin 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You must have love Malaysia indeed 👍🏻

    • @goodguyaus
      @goodguyaus 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Aye... it's brothersman524 ☺, honorary Ambassador!

    • @user-db9ek1ie8f
      @user-db9ek1ie8f 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      We as muslims should never talk negative about our muslim Brother's and sisters doesn't matter what's the situation. We can condemn kafirs not a problem. Wasalam

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      @@user-db9ek1ie8f why not? You are too sacred to wrong?

  • @junainahtaiban7340
    @junainahtaiban7340 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Pakistan is always close to my heart even tho I'm Malaysian. Beautiful country with amazing people❤

    • @MattSalleh-v6m
      @MattSalleh-v6m 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      U really not malaysian...is it true?

    • @mochacosgranday4205
      @mochacosgranday4205 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MattSalleh-v6m
      Agreeeee 😅

  • @englishcarnivalbeaufort9011
    @englishcarnivalbeaufort9011 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    Men and women here in Malaysia are equally treated fairly..even many women have high position in any government sector or in non goverment sector

  • @aibel99
    @aibel99 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    One example. If my wife had to go somewhere in an emergency at 12 at night, i wouldnt be worried if she did so in malaysia, but id be having palpitations if i was in pak though.

  • @eugp4198
    @eugp4198 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    In Malaysia because we are multi cultural, thus we are used to embrace people from different countries and different culture. Welcome to Malaysia.

  • @agnescheah0785
    @agnescheah0785 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Totally cannot compare.
    Malaysia is so so convient in everything and also have beautiful nature too.

  • @rodzaDTrainer
    @rodzaDTrainer 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Yes betul Saira. That’s why I love ❤❤❤ so much my country Malaysia 🇲🇾.

  • @zoainoid
    @zoainoid 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    As a male British Pakistani who's spent 4-5yrs total in Pakistan. I can honestly say that I agree with her statements. As a male, I was still appalled how perveted the men were. They would even glare at random guys, if they find them attractive!💯👨🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏽

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Whoa man..thats totally different level

    • @mayabulan
      @mayabulan 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Oh Dear

    • @gingerteddy618
      @gingerteddy618 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      That's gay

    • @amin-dl2dn
      @amin-dl2dn 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      dis is exactly wut my pakistani friend told .not just a girl..men also targeted..esp young boys..n in peshawar..its even worst .the young boys sell their body..as young as 8-9 years old..they did dis voluntary..lots of gey p3do over there..

    • @khairunna100
      @khairunna100 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂🤣😂

  • @muhammadabdulwahab123
    @muhammadabdulwahab123 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Melaka villages are very beautiful clean and tidy. So many mosque ,Food stall everywhere ,very green and the the first state to get the status of a developed state in Malaysia

  • @kaim1947
    @kaim1947 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I am Pakistani, and found your comments reasonable. and can understand you.

  • @Dixgn644
    @Dixgn644 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Pakistan is good for traveler like me, love the people, the food and the places...but of course, not for long term stay...😊

  • @zi7099
    @zi7099 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    In the middle of planning to move to Melaka soon with my family.

    • @SairaHayati
      @SairaHayati  25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Mashallah that’s amazing! Feel free to contact my PA +447949829081 on whatsapp if you’d like help in anything

    • @muhammadmusakhan5202
      @muhammadmusakhan5202 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@SairaHayati probably not a good idea to put ur number on here.

    •  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @SairaHayati could you please make a vlog with an immigration lawyer or agent so we can have a contact person to know if I am eligible to move to Malaysia?
      And start the process.. It would be really helpful..

    •  25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@SairaHayati please make a vlog with immigration agent/lawyer wherr you can share his or her contact number of agency details so a lot of people can benefit from that info

    • @deennomads8683
      @deennomads8683 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Is it free though?​@@SairaHayati

  • @musaabdurrani8592
    @musaabdurrani8592 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Although I am a British citizen by descent and a UAE citizen by birth, I have been living in Pakistan for a long time. The old Pakistan was far better than the current Pakistan. I married someone from Pakistan and enjoyed my life a lot here, but now I've come to realize that my decision to live in Pakistan was not the right one.

    • @anonamous6278
      @anonamous6278 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      What has changed in pakistan so much?

    • @hypermageran1110
      @hypermageran1110 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      ​@@anonamous6278politics turmoil i guess.
      The value man's life are not so cared, almost like a fly.
      So many politics and religion extremist such extreme syiah and wahabies and western pro n liberals.

    • @user-db9ek1ie8f
      @user-db9ek1ie8f 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Remember we as muslims should never ever talk negative things about our muslim Brother's and sisters. Wasalam

    • @Hasanaljadid
      @Hasanaljadid 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      UAE citizen?Do you have UAE passport?

    • @Haroonbhatti01
      @Haroonbhatti01 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope u understand the difference between citizen and nationality/ passport.... passport is a nationality

  • @travelwithraza8000
    @travelwithraza8000 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    very good video, I am a pakistani living in west and looking for info about these topics for my future family.

    • @K4MR4N1UK123
      @K4MR4N1UK123 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      No future left in the west mate.

  • @sgmasai
    @sgmasai 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Yes, your have truly spoke sincerly the difference between Pakistan and Malaysia. As a muslim, I pray that Pakistan will develop to an advance muslim country, insyaallah.

  • @shabuniversal58
    @shabuniversal58 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I totally agree to everything you said, i wish if pakistan was in good hands. Its shame to see how pakistan has been ruined by crupt rulers.

    • @allykhan8594
      @allykhan8594 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Since Musharaff sold out.

  • @malikamid5959
    @malikamid5959 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Very open and sincere opinion by you, i ve visited Pakistan - Islamabad, Peshawar n Skardu last year. Aggreed with you Pakistan is a beautiful country aspecially the valleys. A lot the issues the government have to handle to improve the country and the livelihood of the people. Pakistan is about 15 years behind Malaysia.

    • @raokh.715
      @raokh.715 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      15 years is quite modest to say. It is much more behind actually. And that is not the worst part, the worst part is that they are going in the opposite direction.

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    Pakistanis and bangladeshis in kl also stare at tourists here. Not sure why they do that.

    • @aishi9068
      @aishi9068 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      True, they stared though wanted to eat you. My daughter wouldn't go nsk full of bangla . She daring ask them right on their face, ape tengok😅

    • @amymin9210
      @amymin9210 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

      😂😂 and recently there are a few indian india tourist at batu cave taking picture with a white girl that happen to be a tourist too, and she thought they are locals that never saw a white women before 🤦‍♀️.
      * please..... our local indian never do that!

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@amymin9210 yes tourists said "malaysians" are staring at them. So they feel uncomfortable

    • @wewave23
      @wewave23 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ignorance, lust

    • @wewave23
      @wewave23 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@amymin9210If those white women thought they are locals, then it reflects on the west's utter ignorance of people's and culture. Just have to blame themselves for being backward but thinking they are forward.

  • @kamrulz659
    @kamrulz659 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Msia is a good country since indepedence frm Britain.I agreed what u have described here.Msian are no stranger to the UK environment as many of their students graduated there.Msia a very tolerant country.Its people knows to respect each other.So life in Msia is cool n calm without any fear wherever u want to be, u are 100% safe😊

    • @DemoNinja79
      @DemoNinja79 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kamrulz659 you malays are too complacent. Thats why bangla rohingya china all take over your business.

  • @kimseoah154
    @kimseoah154 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I will also move to Malaysia very soon

  • @darkreeze
    @darkreeze 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    nature and beauty in Pakistan is next level, very beautiful country indeed. But if u want convenient of living in daily life, Malaysia definitely just a better choice.

    • @salqubeq5203
      @salqubeq5203 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How many educated people make a life in those mountains? And those living in the cities, how many actually go there frequently? Nature & beauty is far far away for the average paki

  • @mrmane2000
    @mrmane2000 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    These things you described in Pakistan is a perfect example of the effects of IMF "austerity measures" spilling over into society.

  • @user-ye3sz1nh8u
    @user-ye3sz1nh8u 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    as a pakistani i would choose malaysia too

    • @chikizzah7384
      @chikizzah7384 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Kenapa hendak pilih tinggal di negara kami ? Tinggal saja di negara anda , terlalu ramai Pakistani masuk bekerja di negara kami dan tidak mahu pulang ke Pakistan lagi...it's so disgusting 😏

    • @user-db9ek1ie8f
      @user-db9ek1ie8f 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      We shouldn't criticize muslim country no matter what's the situation.The leaders,the people there are our brothers and sisters. Wasalam

  • @nasha21
    @nasha21 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Yaa.. we have the right to choose the best life in ourselves

  • @Mr.GeeKhan786
    @Mr.GeeKhan786 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Sadly I have to agree with everything you said about Pakistan especially what you said about being a lone female. We men obviously don’t have that issue. I’m thinking of visiting Pakistan again soon, after 10 years, to explore it a bit more whilst I still have good health.
    My current position is that I still love living in the UK (away from London). Born, raised and lived all my life here but in my early 50s now and in need of more sunshine so exploring other places including Turkey next week.

    • @spidyman8853
      @spidyman8853 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Go to Morocco it was hot - loads of sun

    • @Mr.GeeKhan786
      @Mr.GeeKhan786 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@spidyman8853 Already been there.

  • @nostromo586
    @nostromo586 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    For some reasons (not wanting to sound racist), pakistanis (and indians) moved to other countries and tried to run things ( on how it was in their countries). They should appreciate the changes in lifestyle in other countries and embraced them. Otherwise .....

    • @matmotor7572
      @matmotor7572 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Very true indeed

    • @SpeakTheTruthGuy
      @SpeakTheTruthGuy 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How do you mean the Pakistani or Indian tried to run things in other countries?

    • @nutzhazel
      @nutzhazel 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yup that's the funniest thing about those people, they ran away to other countries because their own country failed them, yet they want the country that they ran away to, to behave exactly like the country they ran away from 😂

    • @brothersman524
      @brothersman524 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nothing racist at all, you are telling the truth

    • @zaedhrsh
      @zaedhrsh 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SpeakTheTruthGuyfor example the syiah community. They try to bring their culture to other country. I felt so embarrassed as a muslim

  • @zalf88
    @zalf88 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I like how your tones change everytime you mentioned each country. From a serious one to an excited little girl everytime you talk about Malaysia. LOL

  • @ricedrown
    @ricedrown 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    My first experience meeting with my friend's father was uncomfortable because he liked to stare. My friend's father is Pakistani living in Malaysia for a few generations already that he no longer can speak Pakistani. After got to know him, he is very nice man.

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What were you wearing then?

    • @twize4916
      @twize4916 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@shahrimanshahnaz7008 was about to ask the same question

    • @Islam-j9k
      @Islam-j9k 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Speak Pakistani 🙄 what language is that then

  • @keshmeshnakhuutt9555
    @keshmeshnakhuutt9555 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    May Allah SWT bless you for these helpful videos and on Insta..hope we meet some day soon... :]

  • @galaxysm1320
    @galaxysm1320 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing... change is the only constant and pray we all live a blessed life..

  • @ahmadhusny7849
    @ahmadhusny7849 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I went to hunza, it was such beautiful country

  • @Sami_rah
    @Sami_rah 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Sarah Cairo uae dubai has that ramadan culture or I would say evening out that is lovely as u experienced in pakistan. But I agree safety for women alone .I am indian punjabi loved india but not live that same reson u mentioned about pakistan. I am blessed to be malaysian although I don't live in Malaysia right now . More I see ur blogs more I want to return.
    I have began to realise there is a shift in the world n intended six sense people r choosing were they will be safe .it's becoming them n us things as far as western world n others. It's time to be somewhere we're a person can live with dignity practice thier beliefs n have piece. U can never feel u belong in a western country. This my personal opinion my experince. Racism n islamphobia is difficult if u r single or with disabilities. Malaysia not best for disabilities but getting there n for that I think it's time to return.

  • @mordecaikucai9532
    @mordecaikucai9532 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks Saira. Thank you on what you did promoting Malaysia. Wish you happiness all your life ❤

  • @norihanb.690
    @norihanb.690 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was told by a Pakistani tour guide, when i was travelling in Pakistan last year, that woman are not allowed to pray in mosques. Once my friends and I prayed (all of us are ladies) in National Mosque of Islamabad, the Faisal Mosque. There were so many Pakistanis visiting the mosques as tourists and almost everyone watched us praying as it is a strange thing to do. And 1 more thing, there is no 'surau' available at Lahore Airport. We just prayed inside an abandoned commercial premise while waiting to check-in.

    • @putrimaryama1954
      @putrimaryama1954 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tak mesra tourist kot

    • @ahliahomes9002
      @ahliahomes9002 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Masjid under ahle Hadith allows sis.
      I can also perform Friday prayer and Terawih prayer was excellent since Imam is a hafiz . Completed the Quran. Alhamdulilah

  • @Flyinginthebluedream
    @Flyinginthebluedream 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    For someone who was born and living in a tropical country like Malaysia, Pakistan's nature scenery is absolutely beautiful

  • @Danial3109
    @Danial3109 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You are always welcomed in Malaysia Saira Hayati

  • @val80156
    @val80156 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Don’t forget the heat!!! 45+ C. I lived through 52C in Gujrat 60 km from Lahore. And then the electrical grid goes down because everyone wants to use A/C!

  • @xchaix
    @xchaix 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    There is a Pakistanis and Indian Mosque in KL. You may visit ✌️

  • @sofiamohdnasimhamayon6183
    @sofiamohdnasimhamayon6183 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I had the same experience in Pakistan when i was 14. I am Malaysian. Went to anarkali bazar lahore and men staring, touching my hand. Today i am married to a Pakistani living in Malaysia. Yes even today nothing has changed

    • @user-dm8tl7ls9d
      @user-dm8tl7ls9d 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      oh sister your husband staring at you is allowed :) but jk aside, its an unfortunate side of Pak. The men are just no shame..

  • @MVPA-io5ee
    @MVPA-io5ee 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    talking about touching in particular... i actually saw firsthand in Malaysia, one Pakistani man trying to do the same to a malay sister who work in the courier industry and that really gives a bad reputation to South Asian man in particular. She feel disgusted and i feel disgusted by that because of how uncommon that is to happen in Malaysia. Culturally the man and woman don't get too familiar with each other like that. you know even the act of handshakes between man and woman is rare unlike in Indonesia. so being perverted like that really makes us wary. Hence sometimes racism towards south asian (man in particular) is shared between locals. racism as in *avoiding* them, not targeting people of certain demographic like it is done in the west who just go around minding their own business.

  • @saminaakhtar1937
    @saminaakhtar1937 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👍🏻 totally agree with you!

  • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
    @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Female uni students in Malaysia now exceeded male counterparts. Memang tak aci betul😅

  • @CKent84
    @CKent84 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I don't know why some Asians say my parents were from so and so country, inferring that they are something different than that of their parent's ethnicity. I think it's a disgrace. Simple language - I'm a Pakistani who holds a red document called a British passport. The ego of some people when it comes to where they live.

    • @catseyes8377
      @catseyes8377 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Agreed

    • @HaroonKhan-lu4xu
      @HaroonKhan-lu4xu 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think it's more about how your brain is wired. Ethnically we are Pakistani no doubt but people who have been bought up in another country will think differently, have different conceptual perspectives. Eg arrange marriages to the village boy and girl... Not saying it don't work but compatibility can become a serious issue. Ethnically the same but from 2 different worlds. Something to think about!!!!

    • @CKent84
      @CKent84 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@HaroonKhan-lu4xu Sorry, but you're getting "ethnicity" confused with "culture". A person's ethnicity can never change regardless of where they live or which passport they hold, whereas cultural effects and affiliations will vary from place to place. So a Pakistani or Bengali born or brought up in Malaysia will significantly vary culturally with one in Japan as an example. But both will be ethnically Pakistani or Bengali - that never changes. Similarly, strictly speaking "British" is not an ethnicity but a nationality. So for example, I could lose my British nationality and then go and live in France, few years later apply for Citizenship and become a French Citizen. Here the word "French" means either an ethnicity or nationality or both. If I'm Pakistani then I would be "French" by nationality but obviously can't be "French" by ethnicity. These are distinctions that are easily overlooked. In this video I was pertaining to the fact that some people take joy and pride in impressing on others the belief that they are a different ethnicity to that of their parents because they feel proud of being eg British or feel ashamed of being known as belonging to that ethnic group.

    • @CKent84
      @CKent84 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@shabrahhussain9680 It's a pretty obvious thing being said here, and with that formula surprised you came to that erroneous conclusion. If you look at my original comment properly, then applying your very own formula it translates into "my parents were born in x (parents from so and so country)," hence I am "x" (talking about people who don't mention this hence I said they want to force others to infer they're something different to that of their parents ethnicity), but I was born in "y" (yes, indeed the mentioning of this point eg Britain, is asking others to think they are that ethnicity of of origin). Furthermore, no passport in any nation is given pre-birth! And furthermore, by being born in a particular country doesn't affect one's ethnicity, merely their potential nationality to be given, There's even laws that deals with that for people born in aeroplanes too.

    • @CKent84
      @CKent84 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@shabrahhussain9680 Force doesn't necessarily mean others will accept it. How is that a contradiction when I say when one is even born on the moon their ethnicity doesn't change ie is not affected, meaning if they're a Pakistani they will remain a Pakistani even though they were born on Jupiter? No contradictions at all! Also, When one is talking about ethnicity (context) the fact they leave their own ethnicity out of it and shoot off about where their parents are from when they could just say "I'm Pakistani" (see, no need to even mention where their bloody parents are from) then you know that person is having issues with their self and ego and is forcing the notion that they are ie British, American etc . I think you need to retake lessons in English and logic. Good start, I see that you managed to put an ' after the "s" in parents whereas I mistakenly put it in between the t and s.

  • @shahnazdean8368
    @shahnazdean8368 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Iv not been but insha Allah I thing I would like to go because your recommendation.

  • @sultrys2291
    @sultrys2291 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Smiled when I heard you said "surau" as it is a Malay word (I think) and yes, there are "surau" even in shopping malls and MRT stations.
    Oh, the topic about "women" in Malaysia/South East Asia might deserve it's own exclusive post, as many from the west might think the worse.
    (edit) : just did a brief homework, the word "surau" comes from Minangkabau language (Sumatera, Indonesia & most of Minang community in Malaysia resides in Negeri Sembilan, Malaysia)

    • @bashed1000
      @bashed1000 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Ya but when u r in indonesia and u asked for surau, they will ask u back. What is that..💁‍♂️

    • @timeaftertime-om7os
      @timeaftertime-om7os 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@bashed1000
      87% of Indonesian people know what a surau is
      Meanwhile, only 65% ​​of Malaysians know what a "surau" is.

    • @muhd7144
      @muhd7144 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@bashed1000Indeed, because surau in Indonesia is usually called musholla.

    • @sultrys2291
      @sultrys2291 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bashed1000 Interesting !!

    • @bashed1000
      @bashed1000 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @timeaftertime-om7os i hv been to quite many places in Indonesia, at that time. Need to explain to them what is surau. The term they used overthere is Musolla.

  • @dissent807
    @dissent807 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You are telling the truth about Pakistan. For the most part, the Pakistani culture is rotten. Where millions of children do not have access to schools and education, we should not expect that country to make progress or join the global economy. I don't see light at the end of the tunnel for the people in that God-forsaken country. It's better to avoid it.

  • @ptaeiy
    @ptaeiy 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    11:36. I can almost feel your sadness there sister. My prayers are with Pakistan and to the rest of Muslim countries as well. Insya Allah.

  • @user-se8so5hb9g
    @user-se8so5hb9g 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What part of Malaysia are you living?

  • @lunastarr1925
    @lunastarr1925 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a Malaysian female....i love watching pak drama series.....
    why wasnt i shocked at yr experience at the bazaar...bcoz its a very male dominant society...which i gathered frm the drama series...its a pity to see the females in pak r so constricted all bcoz of the goons

  • @zanzillahsaruji9966
    @zanzillahsaruji9966 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Malaysia is a multi racial country and you can also find many Pakistani living in Malaysia....

    • @ogapadoga2
      @ogapadoga2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Malaysia is rank No.2 most racist country in the world.

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@ogapadoga2Yet the most harmonious. We dont have church burning mobs for example

    • @ogapadoga2
      @ogapadoga2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shahrimanshahnaz7008 That's India. That's why they are rank NO.1.

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ogapadoga2 Indonesia too

    • @ogapadoga2
      @ogapadoga2 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shahrimanshahnaz7008 Yes that one too. Evil country.

  • @sjishah
    @sjishah 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    13:55 here in the UK, it's the same. Me and my wife went to Bradford from London and during the Duhr time we were searching for the Mosque where women can pray. I find out it's zero in Bradford but in London it's common for men and women to pray in the same mosque but diffrent sections.

  • @normalahismail9201
    @normalahismail9201 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Assalamualaikum wbt, Saira
    Welcome & thanks for choose to live in 🇲🇾
    We so happy to have you & family as the big family of 🇲🇾

  • @fatimahjohari4890
    @fatimahjohari4890 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have been to Pakistan couples of times. I was amazed with the beauty of the natures. Sadly some place don't have a good facilities for tourists. Hopefully one day the government do some improvements to attract more tourists to visit Pakistan.

  • @zainielias6342
    @zainielias6342 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    in our IT industry is normal to see indian and pakistani

  • @dolceoption1587
    @dolceoption1587 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    just be careful that some 'senior' foreigners used to acts & speak like local and the unfortunate tourists will became their victim.

  • @tg988
    @tg988 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It is ironic that women having lower status than men in Pakistan but many Pakistani women are famous, strong and making headlines in the world e.g. Benazir Bhutto, Malala Yousafzai

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Becoz they brought along their fathers' name

    • @shametienne8975
      @shametienne8975 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Benazir killed. Milala shot in the face hmmmm

    • @user-db9ek1ie8f
      @user-db9ek1ie8f 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Pakistani women are strong in character, beautiful and awesome.

  • @SpeakTheTruthGuy
    @SpeakTheTruthGuy 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Im curious is it ok for women especially unmarried to travel "ALONE" to another country to study for education?? I thought it was forbidden??? For a lady to be living on her own or traveling far journeys

  • @zaki-pq1ps
    @zaki-pq1ps 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The best naan i ever had is from one pakistani guy in msia in the 90s. He sell just plain naan with tandoori and dhal sauce. Never had anything better ever since. Nowadays naan in msia are just shit.

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Pls...have some respect. It is food

    • @arivfotomoto3642
      @arivfotomoto3642 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There are rows of Pakistani restaurants on jalan Ipoh with good naan. I buy my naan from a Pakistani stall at plaza Damas. Yes, they're better than mamak naan.

    • @zaki-pq1ps
      @zaki-pq1ps 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@arivfotomoto3642 ok thanks will try later

    • @karimkasim2817
      @karimkasim2817 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I had my best naan from Pakistani at Nilai 3. But u might want to try naan in terengganu. Melayu but some of them are really good

  • @reidrachman7914
    @reidrachman7914 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Been to pakistan, what you said about pakistan is true, beautiful country ,loved it but politically & financially not favourable. Its a shame to see all those possibility to be a great country goes to waste in the hands of wrong people.

  • @kingstonlandscape4391
    @kingstonlandscape4391 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Saira,
    Thanks for your video, sharing your experiences.
    5:22. You said: "...children. In fact, not PEOPLE...children are still being exploited..."
    I would have said:
    "...children. In fact, not ADULTS...children are still being exploited..."

    • @amin-dl2dn
      @amin-dl2dn 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kingstonlandscape4391 she only talk bout how unsafe pakistani for a young girl/women .then she only talk bout how the children being exploited as a garbage collector..but she did not know dat the boys there has being exploited far beyond dat(u know wut i mean..lots of gey p3d0 over there) .as young as 8 y/o in a certain2 part of dat country iñ exchange for a few rupees. I know dis..bcoz my pakistani friend told me bout dis..then later i found a documentary on utube bout dis issue.. im quite shock..so sad for dat children..i keep thinking .if pakistani boys face dis..how bout their young girls..n if pakistani was dis bad..bangladesh n afghan must be even worst for the children regardless boys or girls

  • @starz2020
    @starz2020 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    im so sad to see that one of the biggest muslim country in world, pakistan is facing a huge problem of mismanagement and deep corruption..even india and bangladesh is performing well..thank god other muslim country such as malaysia, indonesia, arab saudi, uae, qatar and kuwait are doing well..

  • @farahharis5016
    @farahharis5016 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why they always choose to marry among cousins and within the family? Dont have any chance to choose what they like or love? And some Pakistani men immigrants workers, said that their siblings girl or women not allow to go to school or working and just wait till the age of 16 or 17 to get engage and marry among cousins..

  • @goodguyaus
    @goodguyaus 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I probably won't see it in my lifetime but 🙏🏻 that Pakistanis get a government that serves them.

  • @Lahoria9
    @Lahoria9 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You made the right decision.

  • @mohdshahruddinsiddik5978
    @mohdshahruddinsiddik5978 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Terima kasih berpindah ke MALAYSIA

  • @aibel99
    @aibel99 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Interesting dna results, which company did you use? Ive never seen results which show 'afghan' as a result as thats a country rather the dna results i have would say something like 'centeal asia, south' for afghan.
    What wording does it actually use?

    • @shein672
      @shein672 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Don't do dna tests they give away private info, 23 and me recently had a data breach, and they are blaming their customers for it

  • @phlizzow
    @phlizzow 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Welcome to Malaysia and hopefully you'll have wonderful time here.

  • @MrErosennin68
    @MrErosennin68 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Being neighbor to Thailand and Singapore plays a part in Malaysia's development.
    You have to keep up with the neighbors.

  • @catseyes8377
    @catseyes8377 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Saira are you single, living alone in Malaysia? What will you do after 5 years. When your malaysia visa expires? In Pakistan you could have brought a flat to live in. Theres alot of security in those flats. Also if you wore Pakistani clothes no one would stare at you. Nobody stares at me. You got stared at because your wearing arab dress. You are right about the drinking water. The government needs to build water filtration plants so the entire country gets clean drinking water in the taps.

    • @user-dm8tl7ls9d
      @user-dm8tl7ls9d 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      no - the men in Pakistan even stare at men!!! The culture is corrupt especially for young girls / women...

  • @sunshineseaandvitamind8620
    @sunshineseaandvitamind8620 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    14:07 Saira Malaysia had suraus everywhere long before it was even a thing in Arab countries e.g the U.A.E it was light years ahead of them. I'm guessing Indonesia too as they're similar.

  • @ghanisulaiman5625
    @ghanisulaiman5625 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tq sister Saira for the video..😊

  • @bartocastro3672
    @bartocastro3672 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Pakistani are well known in Malaysia as carpet trader 😂 most of them are overstaying, or legally stay by married a locals.
    With Indian India and Bangladesh, too many illegal immigrants from that region. But if you bring along your fortune and business, then you are very welcome.

    • @SDarlingssss
      @SDarlingssss 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Unfortunately a lot of the Pakistani men lied to a lot of the locals and married them just to start a business while having their real wife and children in Pakistan 😅 these type of things they do brings a bad name to Pakistani people.

  • @robaz1177
    @robaz1177 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Nilai 3 is Malaysian mini Pakistan😅

    • @Yazar_AlkonohanIQ78
      @Yazar_AlkonohanIQ78 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haha true kapet setia alam tak lama lagi 😂

  • @user-go6ge4mu8x
    @user-go6ge4mu8x 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi, you came to Malaysia on MM2H Gold visa?

  • @bikeboi821
    @bikeboi821 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a brit pakistani i 100 percent agree beautiful country, amazing people but corruption, poor leadership and poverty have failed. IMRAN KHAN needed 10 years and he would have done wonder's

  • @latifahhamsa7005
    @latifahhamsa7005 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zeedozeedo2277
    @zeedozeedo2277 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good morning Ms Saira, TQ for feeling comfortable stayed in Malaysia...

  • @mountaindew20
    @mountaindew20 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    southeast asia far more better than south asia.. overall just better.. if you want to see beautiful nature & landscape.. just go abroad thailand, philipines & indonesia..

  • @steam_fish_of_aegean_sea
    @steam_fish_of_aegean_sea 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a Malaysian, I personally don't know anybody who drinks from the tap like Westerners. Yes, our minister may have said our water is now clean enough, but most of us are still not accustomed to that. Many of us have water filters at home, and as for my family, my wife insists that we even boil the filtered water to be 100% bacteria-free.😂

  • @travelwithraza8000
    @travelwithraza8000 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Maybe you can help people get Malaysia second residency visa as paid service.

    • @ellehanim9559
      @ellehanim9559 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..

    • @ellehanim9559
      @ellehanim9559 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..

    • @ellehanim9559
      @ellehanim9559 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..

    • @ellehanim9559
      @ellehanim9559 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..

    • @ellehanim9559
      @ellehanim9559 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can help..just share some tips ..if you are already it's easier because you may already know more locals & foreign workers..

  • @nutzhazel
    @nutzhazel 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really don't get your first comparison about Malaysia and Pakistan, like what are you trying to say? Your mentioned touching, glaring and poverty and went straight to safety and crimes, like where's the connection? Where's and what the crimes are? Are you saying that Pakistan poor people are mostly criminals?

    • @xeedsenterprise505
      @xeedsenterprise505 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe no links but the staring could be very uncomfortable

  • @Dr_Mohsin_Sattar
    @Dr_Mohsin_Sattar 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Your roots are in Pakistan and not in Malaysia. The comparison is unfair and respect the place of your ancestors.

    • @DeBABAYAGA
      @DeBABAYAGA 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's is actually afghani, most probably the Farsiban, they're always unthankful no matter what you do, they'll always show animosity towards Pakistan in anyway they can Dr. Sahab.

    • @orgkampong
      @orgkampong 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Chill out bro, she gave an overview objectively, yup it's her call , u got to respect it no matter what . U could try making ur own blog and praise through the roof about ur Pakistan. That said a little tip ppls around the world goes to Kashmir (India Kashmir) love & enjoy their stay. Can't say about the AJK (Pakistan side) aside from the natural scenic nothing else worth mentioning here sorry bro , hope ur Pakistan get their act together & try catching up to ur industrious neighbors !

    • @mohsenkhan741
      @mohsenkhan741 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@orgkampongbuild toilets in Hindu rastra India

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She brought up both sides of the country fairly to me

    • @Hellibra
      @Hellibra 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If a Country have AB C , she said it has ABC. And she said it according to her opinion and experience.

  • @MrJaybon
    @MrJaybon 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    i just watch Mr ''Bald and Bankrupt'' youtube video visit Pakistan and all of the 'TAN' country now i understand why you choose Malaysia 🙂

    • @BenHifni
      @BenHifni 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Actually, they're known as STAN countries not TAN countries

    • @tg988
      @tg988 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Gohead, Gostan

    • @shahrimanshahnaz7008
      @shahrimanshahnaz7008 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah from Dagestan to Turkistan/ Xinjiang

    • @MVPA-io5ee
      @MVPA-io5ee 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      what did he say about it?

  • @babs5655
    @babs5655 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Which DNA test company did you use? Or would you recommend

  • @breakan
    @breakan 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How did you buy your first house in the U.K.

  • @xiaomashitu
    @xiaomashitu 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let's Go Malaysia 🎉

  • @nademkhan931
    @nademkhan931 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How would you compare living in Dubai with living in Malaysia

  • @farawlofarawla3395
    @farawlofarawla3395 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Any words a out what's happening in Gaza Palestine??

    • @SairaHayati
      @SairaHayati  25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Check my TikTok: saira Hayati

    • @farawlofarawla3395
      @farawlofarawla3395 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SairaHayati May Allah rewards you with Jennato Annaeem

  • @sabaryunus3538
    @sabaryunus3538 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just make it short, all you want to says are Malaysia very2 good country as overall..Yes we are not "drop that gorgeous" or most beautiful but among the best

  • @PeacePaix
    @PeacePaix 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    5:06 yes, the glares are uncomfortable AF. but hang on, aren't people glaring at you on TH-cam for 17 minutes straight?

    • @DeBABAYAGA
      @DeBABAYAGA 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also afghanis taking a piss openly on road and cleaning it openly by slipping in there shalwar or pajamas in front of ladies...batchabazi etc...but she is gonna talk about Pakistan only because she's a farsiban afghani who are an enemy of Pakistan forever.

    • @cececonnie5509
      @cececonnie5509 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It’s about feeling safe, you staring at her on the screen, she’s safe. In real life, if you are a man being stared by a group of men, you’d think they gonna rob you

    • @mediha90
      @mediha90 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Majority on her yt is "glaring" bc of what she has to say instead of her looks

  • @nademkhan931
    @nademkhan931 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I lost you when you said Imran Khan came in to end corruption ..... fell off the chair laughing