Why They Come Back After Hurting You And What Should You Do - Zen And Buddhist Teachings.

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  • Why They Come Back After Hurting You & What You Should Do | Zen & Buddhist Philosophy
    Why do people who hurt you always seem to come back? Is it karma, attachment, or something deeper? In this video, we explore this question through the wisdom of Zen and Buddhist philosophy, revealing profound truths about attachment, suffering, karma, and detachment.
    Through deep mindfulness and self-awareness, you’ll learn why some people return after causing pain and, more importantly, what you should do to find peace and freedom. We’ll discuss the nature of impermanence, ego, emotional detachment, and the cycle of suffering-helping you transcend pain and embrace a life of true inner peace.
    If you've ever wondered why toxic relationships repeat or why people come back after ghosting or hurting you, this video will give you deep spiritual insights and practical wisdom.
    ✅ In this video, you’ll learn:
    Why they return after hurting you (from a Zen perspective)
    The cycle of attachment and suffering in Buddhist teachings
    The role of karma and past connections
    How to emotionally detach and stop suffering
    Zen wisdom on letting go and moving forward with peace
    If you're ready to free yourself from emotional pain and gain deep spiritual clarity, watch till the end!
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    #ZenPhilosophy #BuddhistWisdom #LetGo #EmotionalHealing #SpiritualGrowth #Mindfulness #SelfAwareness #Detachment #ToxicRelationships #Karma #InnerPeace #HealingJourney

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  • @BuddhasProfoundWisdom
    @BuddhasProfoundWisdom 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +75

    Those who hurt you don’t come back because they regret it, but because they haven’t found someone else who tolerated them like you did.

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      🙏

    • @Blue-hf7xt
      @Blue-hf7xt 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      There are a lot of reasons. They do and have been suffering because of the hurt they inflicted and what the took from you.
      Jupiter astrology, God will balance this.
      How?
      When they return, ask Are you from the Christ?
      What is the truth about this?

    • @mimosapudica6723
      @mimosapudica6723 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Truee

    • @ritapeters1330
      @ritapeters1330 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Or they did not even look for somebody else and come back because you are the only one who can fill their void

  • @BuddhaSoul369
    @BuddhaSoul369 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    The final teaching about being like a mountain is so powerful. True freedom is not the absence of pain, but the ability to remain unshaken by it

  • @PhyllisRWilliams
    @PhyllisRWilliams วันที่ผ่านมา +120

    great vidoe. I never imagined writing about a breakup after eight years together. The pain was like nothing I’d ever felt, leaving me to pick up the pieces of my heart. I still hope we can come back to each other someday.

    • @StaceyMSmith
      @StaceyMSmith วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m sorry this hurts so much. Healing takes time, but you’re stronger than you feel right now.

    • @PhyllisRWilliams
      @PhyllisRWilliams วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m torn between moving on and holding onto the hope that he might come back to me.

    • @StaceyMSmith
      @StaceyMSmith วันที่ผ่านมา

      leaving an 8 year relationship isn’t easy. I’ve been through it, but with Father Amiosa’s help, I got my partner back. You should reach out to him for help.

    • @PhyllisRWilliams
      @PhyllisRWilliams วันที่ผ่านมา

      How do I get in touch with him?

    • @StaceyMSmith
      @StaceyMSmith วันที่ผ่านมา

      you can find him online

  • @dawnchristine
    @dawnchristine 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Just because they knock on the door, you don’t have to let them in.

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🙏

    • @Blue-hf7xt
      @Blue-hf7xt 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Remember that when police knock at your door. Protect your God Given Rights.
      I invoke my 5th Amendment Right to remain silent.

  • @Wisdominlife99
    @Wisdominlife99 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Attachment to suffering is the root of all unrest.

  • @GoWithDaFlowMo
    @GoWithDaFlowMo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This gave me more answers, closure and peace than anything my own mind was, making up... Thank you so much..... ❤

  • @empress9857
    @empress9857 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    This was deep❤ definely going to re watch it thank you I enjoyed this content

  • @hankyoung5683
    @hankyoung5683 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Thank you. This information helps me prepare for an event I know is coming.

  • @pravinasings8254
    @pravinasings8254 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    The statement, "You hurt me," signifies victim consciousness. You are giving your power away. A wise healer once told me, "If you don't take responsibility for everything that comes to you in this life, you will never heal."
    Stop blaming others, and empower yourself. You are not the doer, nor does anyone "do" anything to you. The sense of "doer" is an idea, which is a mental image, belonging to the ego. It is a point of mistaken identity. The body/mind complex "does," but you are not the body or mind, which comes to go in time and space. You are the conscious "being", the order of reality which exists independently of time and space. Consciousness doesn't do... consciousness is.

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙏

    • @fij5129
      @fij5129 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Empathy and compassion is key... wishing healing and love❤ to all those suffering. And everyone suffers. Judgement is often ego/fear based and doesnt help anyone. Peace love healing harmony and compassion to all. Xxxxx

  • @Con-Queen
    @Con-Queen 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Very good pace!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      🙏

    • @Con-Queen
      @Con-Queen 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How about the topic of self acceptance; calming addiction; calming ptsd triggers?

  • @Blue-hf7xt
    @Blue-hf7xt 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I have been sensing someone from the past might call or show up.
    The only thing I would say, just put the check in my mailbox and be gone.

  • @DieNumeroWerkstatt
    @DieNumeroWerkstatt วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you so so much🙏❣🍀⚘

  • @gulliver7419
    @gulliver7419 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I am not sure about Buddhism. Everything seems to be about not suffering and non-attachment. While attachment has brought me suffering, it as also brought me great joy. 🤔

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🙏

    • @Peekaboo5819
      @Peekaboo5819 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      There's only one God

    • @gulliver7419
      @gulliver7419 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @ I am baffled as to why people like you watch videos that you don't believe in and then comment on other people's posts. If you don't agree with other people's beliefs, then at least respect that people have different beliefs to yours.

  • @mariamaldonado1338
    @mariamaldonado1338 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you

  • @Susileedean
    @Susileedean 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is really great. So wise. I’m enjoying these lessons so much.

  • @Fish-ub3wn
    @Fish-ub3wn 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    yesterday i pondered if i should call my ex before valentines. thank You.

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙏

    • @anettee.1805
      @anettee.1805 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Please do NOT call your ex for Valentine’s Day.
      If it makes you feel better send well wishes in silence.
      But unless you want to get back with your ex, leave it be.

    • @Blue-hf7xt
      @Blue-hf7xt 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I vote No

    • @Blue-hf7xt
      @Blue-hf7xt 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Call someone who deserves your attention

    • @lucius4556
      @lucius4556 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      For goodness sakes 😂

  • @stevenmcnaught3711
    @stevenmcnaught3711 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you so much for the video

  • @vineetasrivastava219
    @vineetasrivastava219 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I so so love your videos . Thank you very much for the wisdom and content . I would have loved it even more to know whether it is an AI voice or a humans voice . If we could see the person behind this wisdom , even just for a minute before starting , it would help to make a deeper , more personal impact . Anyways , as you ll decide .. the content is so so fabulous , apt and wise . Thank you

  • @permculture
    @permculture 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I generatedc stories reveal themselves when words are mis-pronounced: e.g. "wound" like an injury as opposed to "wound" as the tape is wound on a reel.

  • @MarthaWoodworth-f9s
    @MarthaWoodworth-f9s 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I gave up when I realized it was AI.

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ok

    • @Ra-rg1vk
      @Ra-rg1vk 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Only the narration is AI the data is human generated

  • @candidanandengi7864
    @candidanandengi7864 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

  • @kirkstewart-vf6hg
    @kirkstewart-vf6hg 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Some of the wises words I have ever heard was from a old drunk in a bar in my younger years..
    Me and another man was conversing over budism and the other man said to me yes that's what the masters say!
    The old drunk well into his late 70's or 80 said masters of what?
    Then he said masters my ass BS BEGAT BS....

  • @mira5196
    @mira5196 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She left him never returned because he wanted to have the cake and eat it. Have he's wife and a mistress on the side like a spear car tire left in the trunk.

  • @evermoreart
    @evermoreart 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Sound like AI.

    • @Susileedean
      @Susileedean 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The translation maybe is AI, and it’s basically a good job of translating, (except for its mispronouncing “wound” )
      but the wisdom is Zen, based on real human understanding of suffering and bondage.

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

    • @ZenPhilosophy1723
      @ZenPhilosophy1723  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙏

    • @tess7798
      @tess7798 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      No kidding but so what?

  • @Susileedean
    @Susileedean 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is really great. So wise. I’m enjoying these lessons so much.