Let's talk vat ‘n sit (cohabitation), gender roles and sex

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Thanks,

[@nondumisomazibuko2867]

Mandy needs to invite you to her channel, that sit-down will not only be liiiiitttt but it's also going to grow your channel.

[@nolu_mqina]

Thank you, sis ❤ we will think of a topic we can both contribute to and that align's to her audience.

[@LolokaNkitha]

i loved this seat down👌👌👌❤❤❤

[@nolu_mqina]

Thank you sis🥹❤️

[@MrsL]

Loved this conversation. You touched on some challenges that we face in marriages and the dynamics we face as wives. This is the reality that many of us need to be mindful of going into these marriages. It is hard work but it is also beautiful.

[@nwabisajijana586]

Like you said Nolu we grew up nabazaloo that would never understand why si vat and sit. Personally I wouldn't do it ndiyadikwa mntase I love my space, which is why again ndonqena nomtshato,I think I'm one of the percentage of girls that don't even dream about umtshato ..I know it's weird
Yabona la sex topic 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️ I still have a 5 year old so by the time she'll want "the talk" I'll be ready I guess.. but my sister just turned 20 my mother wants me to talk to her 🙆🙆
Im kinder sort of like Mandy , I'm demisexual I have to connect nawe inorder for me to actually have sex, back then I didn't care it was just njee, not its a big deal
Love love love your channel ❤️ 💛 💖 topics are spot on

[@nolu_mqina]

Haibo mtase 😂😂 but I understand you especially when it comes to ispace! You just like uAmanda she really doesn't care for it.
Uzoyiqala ngaphi la sex talk 😂 ndizithanda mna eza awkward vibes 😂😂😂
Thank you mtase I really appreciate it!

[@thobekaphanyeko4358]

You and me both sis. I love my space and demi too. The entitlement that comes with marriage is wild!

[@life_with_pontsho]

Maaandy!! Facts and facts on the upbringing of boys and girls,I hate it so much. I'm a boy mom and I don't like how most boys were/are broad up...maybe that's why we have relationship problems because we've always been told ukba "who is gonna marry you when you cannot do this and that" but boys? None of that is said to them,they do as they please and kuthwa "boys will always be boys" yhuu ay sana 🤦🏽‍♀️ sisekakeni...lol I can talk the whole day about this lemme leave it here

[@nolu_mqina]

Gender roles and boy moms are exhausting.

[@wandilehlabangane3484]

Yohhh, this conversation is beautiful and so very important!!! Loved both perspectives 🫶🏽💐🌻🍃

[@nolu_mqina]

Thank you so much Wandile. I’m glad you enjoyed it ❤

[@sharonthebe1135]

Enjoyed listening to this.
Thanks for sharing Gimmie

[@nolu_mqina]

Shaz bathong! I knew it was you because of the Gimme ☺️☺️

[@sharonthebe1135]

hahahaha, it's me, my darling.
Keep doing what you're doing. I love the content and enjoy watching your video's

[@nolu_mqina]

Thank you for the support ❤️

[@lynettenene9218]

Vat en sit is right when you do it with the man ongasanga ozimisele ukubanonkosikazi ozokwenza izinto ezifanele

[@nolu_mqina]

You are right! Both parties should have clear expectations and the ideal end result 🤞

[@evelinpanduleni5769]

Combination deadly 🔥…..loved every bit of it❤️

[@nolu_mqina]

Thanks you Evelin ❤

[@BuuujeJwaaa]

Mendy ufana nam i think its one of the reasons im single

[@nolu_mqina]

Haibo Zaza

[@lesibamashaba3898]

Marriage for men is a debt for women it's a reward...if your person is not considerate you will suffer,both partners must be considerate, a woman should be domesticated if she is with a traditional man but the man must also not kill his wife with labour unnecessarily

[@nolu_mqina]

I love this so much! Living together should focus on making each other’s life easier and bearable.

[@Mabotjakhomotjo]

Am like amanda, watching intimacy even wen am alone makes me uncomfortable

[@nolu_mqina]

Sibadala guys 🤭

[@nondumisomazibuko2867]

Azange ngibe confused kanje ngendaba zabantu, so Mandy lived with Milani's dad.
Kanti ushade nini lomuntu 😭😭😭

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Yeyi Nondu. That man played me so much. Hehe, we lived together for months on end. It’s a long story 😂😂

[@nondumisomazibuko2867]

@@TheMillennialMom1 I'm so sorry Mandy, I hope you find your one soon ❤️

[@asimbongencube1216]

Yazi i had the same thought. Some men though😑

[@Yassmiinn.]

Sis, I'm here because I'm also confused.
She said she found out when she was 4 months pregnant that he was married, and his wife was also 4 months, so how were they staying together in 2020?
Nah Mandy, we need a storytime la because the math isn't mathing sis 😭😂

[@nondumisomazibuko2867]

@@Yassmiinn. This is confirmation that men will dribble you 😭

[@lindymokhatu1044]

Amanda please visit your therapist very fast regarding the talk because am coming to you for the talk too. 👄

[@nolu_mqina]

Please tell her 😂😂😂

[@lindymokhatu1044]

Amanda take note.

[@vuyiprecious5157]

100% would not recommend. My experience was hell. The bottom of the barrel!

[@nolu_mqina]

Askisi! I hope you heal ❤

[@lynettenene9218]

You were to young to do then you did not know how to act when he do wrong to you bekuyinja ungakhali abanye abafana basile

[@nolu_mqina]

Basenyani she.