Why men have no business treating women like Queens,marrying young & accepting unrealistic standards
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- Do you think it’s true women will easily forgive a cheating wealthy man and quickly divorce a poor man? Do you also think men have no business marrying early and should highly prioritize building their finances rather than engaging in relationships where they invest so much in a woman who will leave them at some point?
Do you also think toxic masculinity is a myth?
Well, do share your thoughts on today’s conversation where we host Unplug author, Jacob Aliet
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Hapa umeleta convo ya power sana
I must give this conversation the credit it deserves: it was an interesting one.
Every time I consume any sort of content, I try to seive it through various lenses: whether it syncs with my spiritual man, what is its truth value, should I adopt it and if so why?Yet still honour and appreciate that it is someone's opinion.
Having said that....Do I agree that love is conditional?Totally.Both subtly and expressly.
I like looking at human beings first from a place of them being spiritual beings or soulish beings for some people, before I look at what differentiates them in terms of gender. If what you do or treat another human would hurt you emotionally if it were done to you, then do not do it, regardless of what the other gender is : In my opinion, this answers the question of cheating not having the same magnitude for men and women.
About men not having to consult women: From where I sit, a woman feels confident in his man when he makes decisions, but what makes her feel seen, acknowledged and involved in a realtionship is when she is looped in those decisions.Wisdom disctates that the man will present it to the woman in a manner not to suggest that he is unsure of his decisions, but one to communicate that "hey, this is what I want to do, how do you feel about it".If she has a contrary opinion, a knowledgeable woman knows how best that should be put across in a manner not to bruise his ego, or make him question his ability to make judgements. It is matter of balance, wisdom, knowledge and knowing that you are also dealling with another being with emotions.
Lastly, I feel like if a man;s purpose originates from a woman being in his life, then he never had a purpose in the first place, and it actually is not a purpose: maybe some sort of responsibility that he takes on by the virtue of she coming into her life.
All said , it was interesting getting a glimpse into how a man views various aspects of life
He's allover the place, dodging questions to cover some insecurities, low-key narcissist and chauvinist. I might agree men who marry after 40 to an emotionally mature woman have a chance at a stable marriage.
Awesome initiative for such conversation. However i feel one man cannot speak for all/most men. Maybe such a topic would have a sit down with other men too in a panel Pastor T, Benjamin Zulu and other men for a holistic view of the gender. Otherwise the conversation feels slightly incomplete.
He is a type of a narcissist, akae na mamake 😅😅
If you first passed by the comment section before listening to this story
Acha hizo. Ulijuaje😂.
Hey, that is our signature as Kenyans.
I know mehn😂😂😂, the topic by itself is likely to cause chaos😅
Man this guy is our Kenyan top G 🎉 Stoic to the core
Man full of wisdom👍
Am actually relieved we have such a guy to instill the game into young cats coz they're really in dire times
Best conversation I have seen on TH-cam this year… Do more of such Lynn. The men in this generation need to hear men who they can relate to talk about things they can relate to.
Absolutely 💯
This man is telling us what reality is.....I need the book
Available at text book center, Nairobi
‘You cannot negotiate genuine desire’. ~Jacob Aliet ~
That's from Rollo Tomassi
Rollo Tomassi
That's not his quote though
Rollo said negotiated desire leads to obligated compliance. I got that one
@@wekesaemmanuel4074 so he should not use it?
My take from this conversation is;
There’s nothing wrong with a woman being career oriented.
A man needs to be moulded into strong man with authority and confidence. When the right woman comes into his life, she will naturally submit. She will naturally feel safe and protected. She will naturally feel at peace and loved.
So the society needs to invest in raising strong willed men who will not be trumped upon and diminished.
Of course there’s nothing wrong with women being career-oriented. What’s wrong is the fallacious logic that career-oriented and wife are both mutually inclusive. The existence of one effectively annuls the existence or the other.
Correct, you got the lessons well. A strong man is good for women, he will never abuse his wife
Are there women left who think like this? You are a masterpiece!
its not supposed to be a comparison between men and women....its about the man being a better version of themselves.....
100%✓✓
He should come back and teach us how to raise the young boys so that they don't end up in this mess. I have listened to the entire conversation and its quite thought provoking and kaukweli flani hapo 😊
It’s actually very simple Rachel: Raising young ones (boys or girls) is primarily the father’s job. Controversial, but true. Involve the fathers in raising them, and they’ll turn out well…and if the fathers don’t want to be involved, then stop having children with men who haven’t matured into the man-role yet.
As the gentleman said, roles are key. Women should understand that there are roles that only men can play in their children's lives, both boys and girls regardless of what a 'good' mother you are. Problem is they want to punish men by keeping them away from their children. If the father is not available, look for a responsible uncle and be intentional in making them part of the kids' lives.
women cannot raised men
He is making very valuable points....My own uncle educated a certain lady and was left now turned drunkard....People will never understand some things until it hits home
So why couldn't he educate himself too. Too lazy I guess, just wanted to impress her.
@@bonitaweekes4366 he was stupid to place her interest above himself
@@shelmithmumbi6884very good ...I'm happy that some women actually see what this man is talking about
@@bonitaweekes4366you are just doomed
Ladies live in the moment.
Guys! Please know your mate, know who you are marrying and why. Just don't take generalization as gospel truth. Seek marriages that have lasted and you will find out, some of the things you are being fed are not the full truth. Truth sometimes is not glamorized or romanticized. If you base your whole marriage around finances and that's the only thing that counts remember money comes, money goes. Dear Lord!
Wewe wako anagongwa inje
Well said.
I love this words of wisdom
@@yvonnenakirija Me too. That's what it's all about actually, knowing your mate and being self aware.
Wisdom
The last time I was this glued to the Screen was in 2007 December when watching election results. The conversation was Powerful and very interesting. I loved how he was giving supporting evidence in each case. I hope all men will get this link. Kudos LNN and Aliet
His talking the truth if you listen very carefully to him you will understand that his talking what is absolutely right kabisa I agree with him,my gal Lynn uko juu tu Sana
True
Jacob need to be protected 24/7 by the government,he's full of blessings to men in society,he says what many fear to say,we celebrate you Sir,spread the word
Men need to elect him chairman..Kibe vice chairman...and international Andrew Tate...yaani men scream as there is a demonic attack.
Absolutely 💯
you are chauvinistic this is a mad man that leaves in the medeavah
This man is making sense...just try thinking with logic not emotions and at least be above 30yrs ....you will see his point
Thanks darling you are one in a million 🌹
Exactly he makes a lot of sense
Woow im loving this man. A wife and a husband is a role. Very on point
That's exactly how Milles Munroe defined marriage! Great
@Ordinary8030 he needs to teach the so called men of God. Most preachers wives are the most miserable for sure. Some have walked out they couldn't take it anymore.
At least once in this show we have a man that speaks sense to the young men in this country. Men should guard their frame.
There is no such thing as guarding your frame. It is hogwash
This man is speaking the truth but this needs maturity to understand.
thank you
Very true
Soo true; an open flexible mindset 👌
Very true,... It needs more mature individuals
Which truth
“A man’s cheating doesn’t destroy a home” was a saying a heard and resented all through my growing up years in Zambia, it made me decide, I would never stay with a man who has no discipline on who and where he takes his clothes off.
Did he marry you as virginity woman you never had any displine you in the first place coz no man would cheat with the right attitude and respective woman question yourself
@@DouglasOira not sure I understand what you are talking about. By the way I have never been cheated on, but never did I ever say yes to men, who had no vision for their own life. Very happy with my Viking man. A man with no self respect, is not difficult to spot, look to yourself.
Wow!
The western culture labled polygamy as "cheating" but it was very legal and God permitted it. The same western culture is pushing what God calls sin(homosexuality)into our lives.
@@DouglasOirakizungu kizungumkuti😅
I've never been treated like a queen. In fact I'm usually the one treating a man like a king and contributing the most financially, emotionally, etc. I don't know why I attract men who need help, I always wanted a man like my dad, hardworking, reliable, a great provider, protector, etc. After dealing with needy, selfish men for many years, I decided never to date again. I've been single and celibate for 14 years. I'll never look back.
"I don't know why I attract men who need help..." Don't you think this is a you problem? Stop looking for broken wings to fix. Look for men like your dad, hardworking, reliable and great providers. Giving up doesn't take away your innate need for connection, it just leaves you always feeling a gap. That is why you are here opening up roho to the universe anonymously despite pretending to be okay among company.
@@MegaMie77 what if one never had a dad in their life
What? Maybe you are the problem.
Work on your self . Don’t be giving it all in your relationship, get a therapist who will guide you and you will attract the best person in your life
Maybe you can recommend some good s*x toys because being celibate for 14 yrs is NO joke!!!!
Lynn, I appreciate your approach to interviewing individuals who may challenge conventional norms, actively engaging with them while maintaining an open mind. It’s essential to embrace diverse perspectives and discern what resonates with us. These discussions offer valuable learning opportunities.
Regarding the evolution of gender dynamics, understanding historical behaviors is important, but we must acknowledge the changing times. Women today are educated and financially independent, shaping new societal norms. Rather than longing for the past, it’s crucial for men to adapt and foster successful relationships with these empowered women. Ignoring this reality is counterproductive.
I agree that women are attracted to men with a sense of purpose, but balance is key. When one’s purpose consumes them, neglecting their family, relationships suffer. Treating an independent woman with respect involves investing time and building emotional connections, not just financial gestures.
Absolutely!!!
Spot on!
I would love to read his books! Thanks for the most truthful conversation Lynn!!
Good conversation. Just because you consult her, it doesn't mean that it takes away from the man as a decision maker.
Lynn, the title is giving goosebumps 😂
Am just 23 and I agree with this man 😊I swear......he said it all🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Good age for marriage 🥰 come
A very good age for marriege b4 u get spoiled out there
Don't agree with this man you will be misguided don't.
Good for you
She should reject truth?@@nishamillicent614
Someone explain to me why men want traditional women but do not want to be traditional men. They want us to be traditional in doing chores and serving them, but still we become modern by paying part of the bills. If they are told to be 100% providers and care for a woman, they would not. So, they want a traditional wife taking on modern responsibilities, while they only stay only modern in their paying of bills.
You're smart! Thank you!!!
True, it's hypocritical
Its the opposite
They want submissive providers. Ridiculous!
Do you provide 50 50 in your house?
Excellent points that every Man needs to hear. Key Take-Aways;
1. Men should take up the burden of performance
2. Everyone should know and understand their role in a Marriage/Relationship
3. Desire cannot be negotiated
4. Women are born with Value. Men have to create their own Value and should spend their time wisely
5. If you treat her like a Queen, she'll treat you like a fan
6. A Woman should complement a man but not be his Focus
Let me order the Books now @ Nuria Bookstore.
No 4: Women are born with Value.....; but please note that the value usually has a very short timeframe (window).
@@sammykinoti1615lies….thats what the society has labeled it !!!!
Works perfect in my home...i clean..cook ..do dishes... laundry....and that does not make me a less man and yet i know my roll. Making dinner or helping out in the house is out care and respect.
Yeey Jacob Aliet unplugged is here let me take my pen and paper ready to take notes
Jacob is erudite, very articulate, grounded, and knowledgeable. I like the way he is eclectic
I agree 100% 50 50 has never been the way.. women want someone who is above them in everything
What a thought provoking, Eye opening and Refreshing conversation.🤔
Unpacked, Unplugged and Unshackled! There is definitely need for a paneled comeback of this! Good job LNN. Thank you so much for hosting Mr Jacob Aliet. 👏👌🙏
I agree with Aliet 💯. Men need to build their masculine frame if families have to survive. The man must take leadership and give the direction that he wants his home to take. The woman is there to support.
He is telling bits and pieces of truth that are interspersed with lots of generalization and stereotypes but it is wise to note his ideas.
Absolutely💯
Perfect analysis
True
I like that this comment came from a man
I feel like giving Lyn a kiss Thank you for bringing a real man on the podcast Listen and be wise
Kindly Lynn bring Benjamin Zulu on this show
Atapata time kweli
We want Zulu this one no
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣anaburn@@wachairman7657
Great idea
Because Benjamin Zulu appeals to women
Lynn, I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Jacob speak a lot of hard truths 💯, has well researched arguments and holds frame the way a man should. Respect Bruv 👊🏾
I agree with this man on a most points, he has some insight
He’s a living example of his father how he treated his 3 wives.
And 28 kids 😅😅😅
But some men/women change and do not want to treat their spouses like their father/mother. Unfortunately, he is stuck in a rut where the norm is disrespect, maltreatment, etc. I wonder if his daughter was treated like his reasoning, whether he would think it is OK. Sad!!!
He must have been a hard working person to raise such a family . Men prefer responsibility over happiness
Sounds a narcissist
Far from it. Jacob is a father to two lovely kids and is married to one wife that he's not made attempts to hide from his followers.
This guy is very resourceful. Valid points all through!!
We need more of Jacob. He has much to teach both men and women. This is insightful.
One of the best informative show. The other side of men has been explained and highlighted well.
Keep up LNN.
if men follow what this gentleman is saying ....we will reduce divorce with a very big margin....
True. The Western Media keeps promoting a lifestyle that tends to end in divorce.
@@leewambui8064western media are the ones telling our men to cheat and abandon their children whistle infecting women with HIV
Akiii
Lynn this topic was long overdue. Men must never show weakness.. so insightful!!! Bring him again
This is insightful. His craft is just legit. I loved this discussion. One of the best episodes so far...
You only understand him at a maturity perspective he makes sense in everything he's saying the problem with our generation they are going down on earth to please ladies and having high expectations in return
Dust is their portion
Women should also not please men .Then we will have. Couples who enter relationship not wanting to ease each other then
Amerix followers like me see a lot of sense in this man.
Weuh! This guy oozes knowledge, wisdom and experience. He sounds so well read, real and yes love the controversies which in actuality are practical.
Great info. Answered the questions professionally. Kudos!
Love love the interview 🎉🎉
Very strong points there.
What an interview 🎉🎉thank you Lynn for such a guest
I like this guy!! Insightful, intelligent and eloquent. Glad we still have good authors and psychologists!
This is the first interview I watched plus the adverts section..often I skip straight to the interview.Awesome.Time well spent
We are complicating Marriage. Marriage is basically getting a life partner who is coming to make your life bearable.
Really???
see thats the problem. if it was that simple we would be having 100% of marriages lasting for life but current statistics show that 50% of marriages end up in divorce both in the world and wait for it.... in the church. simple huh...
No
Agreed. The fact that his narrative resonates with so many people highlights how broken families have been normalised. He has a few interesting points but he's jaded.
Any person who listen to Aliet and take his opinion as truth is doomed.... and if they're married the marriage will fail. Dead On Arrival.
A lot of wisdom being dispensed here
Thnak you jacob aliet
In a Godly marriage, it’s important for a man to maintain his manly frame while showing love and care for his wife. This means balancing assertiveness with understanding, being decisive yet empathetic. It’s also true that certain desires and core values cannot be negotiated, and it’s crucial for both partners to communicate openly and respectfully about their needs and boundaries while honoring each other’s differences.
I agree with what the author says.
First, I like the calmness of this guy even as he is delivering very debatable statements.
MASCULINE FRAME!!...This is the key word here.4get about tall, black,,,,bla bla bla.. Been married for 25yrs and we fight like always just bcoz he wants to maintain his masculine frame and this makes me love him more😂
A man and half that one, extend my greetings to him Kudos!
@ Jacob....Respecting and honoring women as equals isn't about spoiling or complimenting them-it's about recognizing their inherent worth and value in society. The era of viewing women as mere complements to men is outdated. Treating women like queens means acknowledging their autonomy, capabilities, and contributions.
We will never be equal, read your Bible, that's where the problem starts.
Yes in Hollywood and in the movies…
If you need autonomy, don't get married or hook up with men
If you're autonomous then you don't need a man. You basically mean that you can fully take care of yourself and all of your needs.
Say it louder.. huyu jamaa aende akiendaga. 😂😂😂
Some very good insights from Aliet. Good job for Lynn and the team for having him. Definitely looking for Unplugged.
Thanks Lynn from bringing the guest. He has actually said it all, know your role as a man. I hate men who depend a lot in their wives and this 50 50 had lead to al lot of divorces. Women love men who understands their roles.
He did not say that women should not pay bills. Such men still expect their women to contribute to the bills.
Sometimes, I wonder. Women want to work and earn their money but hate to contribute to any bill. You want to rely on someone's else money while working at the same time complaining they dont provide. Can you take a moment and think what it means to be a leech. Even back in the days our fathers used to work and send money while mothers used to go to the garden and ensure it was all managed. But all in all he did not say Women should not contribute anything.
The best conversation I have had this year, great concepts Aliet
I'm a woman but today this man has come out to speak for the boychild kudos.. Women we have become so demanding yet when men demand we don't do as they want. Women have forgotten to be submissive. Let the man lead..
As a man know your purpose and you will glow.. jipende Baba
@lucykibunja953 : I Agree with you as a married woman for 18 years I'm with this man 90%
Exactly! "Boy child" therein lies the problem. Too many boys speaking up for boys!
We want a man who's talking on behalf of men/adults in general.
When you're used to mediocrity, you'll happily allow mediocrity.
@@svt3Wait till your wife grows all the kids. She will be out of there or you will have matured and realized she’s important to you.
@@catherinek3409 I'm a woman mother of 3 teenagers happily married for almost 18 years and I live in Australia where there's creators of feminists i have live here for 20+years but their feminism's and some of their law has never change my beliefs and I knows a lot of white women who are agree with a lot of Andrew Tate beliefs and their against of cultures and laws has change and we do blame they media for spreading immoral and dirt cultures and african anything started in western country they embrace it
@@svt3 Andrew Tate is going on trial for trafficking. He’s just a smart guy who identified a niche and is exploiting it. I have also been married for over 20 years it’s a normal marriage I do most of the feminine roles and he does his part. I like being the traditional wife. My husband is an alpha male and I just found ways to control his alpha personality. I have managed him and treats me like a queen and he thinks he has everything under control but he doesn’t. The key-is making men feel like they’re in charge. As for western culture, society’s evolve nothing stays the same men like him are fighting change and there’s no way to stop the only thing that’s constant which is change. You are just dreaming of you think our way living will ever return.
Lynn , I just loved how you asked the questions I had in mind. Kudos❤
His arguments were clear and hold so much sense to come and think of it...
Wow am forwarding this to all my male friends .....very educative and informative ......... wonderful interview
Painfull pill to swallow as a woman but I completely agree with him💯💯
Cool. Calm. Collected. Clear. Thank you JA.
I love this conversation. Lynn you are really representing the girl child very well. Much love from Uganda.
Get Benjamin Zulu next
I second you
I join the request❤he’s the only one in Kenya who is eligible and learned in this matter.
Great idea
Alete huyu ata mimi I agree
By Public Demand!
I feel sorry for his wife. Just imagine what will happen when she hits 40. According to him, she's not worthy. The masculine framework got him in a chokehold. When I hear men like this, I think they can't be experiencing a happy life because their concern is bondage.
You are definitely over 40 and your time has passed. Hopefully the younger women can take his advice and not fall for the feminist propaganda.
Why do you want to be worshiped by a man. Live your life and compliment each other
@@tony99765😂😂😂
Uweeeh!!!!🤔
@@tony99765 Silly rabbit. Actually, married for 26 years, have two children, a house, a $350K family income per year, DMV inhabitant, and a full feminist because I believe everyone deserves to live a full life.
Enjoyed this candid conversation lynn
This guy is taking so much sense...needs mature and sober minds to grasp.
Good stuff❤
This man is talking TRUTH! Thank you!!
Woman will mostly gravitate towards an alpha male who handles his business out there and also holds it down in the home. We also understand a man is a human being with real emotions and feelings so no problem if they can be vulnerable at times. Masculine and Feminine energy its like Ying and Yang very complementary to each other. There are no slave and master syndrome in that.
Over the years I've become very alive to Narcissisms and Obvert Narcissism by continuous observation of people. This guest today is speaking based off of the example of having grown up in a polygamous home with three mothers and how he watched his father navigate that set up. A woman who is okay with that kind of ideology will naturally agree to his ideologies. For me its a very big NO particularly on how he downplays and even rubbishes the need to view women as equal human beings rather than tools for men to play about with.
I believe as a woman know yourself the way Lynn said do the work on you and secure your bag hunny. The man you desire will come along and compliment you. And that will be one beautiful partnership. Ladies just don't settle for a man who views life from this type of Lense when you know your desire is to be with a different type.
I also don't understand the bitterness that the men who are pro his ideologies choose to spew on women who disagree with this ideology. Boss, abusing or typing demeaning comments to a woman who doesn't embrace this line of thought only demonstrates your emotional immaturity. It in no way or form changes your desirability to the person you are disrespecting whom you don't even know honestly outside of a comment.
Anyway, great job Lynn. I also agreed with some few nuggets from him. Most of his ideologies i don't agree with because they don't align with my value system. I'm also very weary of someone who approaches anything in life with an entitlement attitude and tries to diminish the essence of another human being based off of toxic gendered roles and expectations. Traditional Man was for Traditional woman. Don't be a modern man who marries a modern woman but desiring her to take up traditionally roles. That's hypocrisy on steroids.
Exactly...this is just based from his experience.Its not everyone's reality. Also he sounds like he wants women to enable and agree to some bad behaviors men do in the name of that's how men are.
My thoughts exactly. You beat me to this!
Great show always love when I see men as guest!
Amazing interview..keep it up...very Eye opening...
This man is making a lot of sense I will sure like to purchase the books.
A very insightful conversation
A man has to know he is a king for him to be confident to treat his wife as a queen. If he is not confident of the title of king, he will think of himself as a subject!!!!!!
Wow amazing! I fully agree with this guest
I have loved every part of this conversation. I agree 💯 with what Jacob has said. I didn't know him before. Thanks Lynn for always educating us and exposing us to various content.
I had this type of a man who thinks like him and how he views women guess what i divorced him and he could not believe.
I'm curious, did you ever get married henceforth?
Congrats😂😂
@@MambetOfficialmost likely not. That's why she's lost in the 'glory' of the divorce. That man is lucky to have lost her I am sure.
@@JeremiahBaracka thank you and I'm doing fine.
@@onduruomolo475 stop bringing your spiritual things in people's life I'm glorifying divorce so what kasikie vibaya na huku kwenu.
Vuruteni stool I give you a sober balance advise: Human beings are human being, male, female and all…this issue of grouping women as a single entity will drive you straight to divorce or treating men as a single entity will equally drive you straight to divorce. Treat your person as they come….Women are abusive and women cheat but not all women are abusive and cheat, men are abusive and cheat but not all men…
Not many will understand your comment. Wisdom you got. There is no uniform way of dealing with men/women. Understand a human being, deal with the human....
Exactly, stereotyping is a dangerous train of thought.Each individual has a different mindset based on the set of principles and values that they decide to live by,one can't just go about generalizing groups of people
as if they are all single-minded......come on!
What sort of twisted mindset is he operating on? This is sickening to say the least.
Generalization has been so much misleading and damaging to generations. We have been conditioned by "the rising red pill" communities to believe that there is a single type of men and women. I believe each and every human being's character is determined by how he/she was raised and the environment she/he grew in. Those who experienced childhood traumas and have not healed sadly are still broken and hurting. Those who have healed / working towards healing becomes whole. In summary, we cannot generalise and put all men/women in one basket and come up with a conclusion. Let us just heal and do the right thing for the sake of our clear consciousness. No choice has no consequence. Have seen men and women who used to be in a red pill community come out and say its so draining because they became slaves to validating brokenness.
@@aluochireneI hope you said that during femicide protest, because how comes when a man kills a woman it's femicide but, when a woman kills a man no gender labels?
@@wanjirumuthee3024you could have said that during femicide protest,why when a man kills a woman is a femicide but when a woman kills a man no gender labels?
I have learned so much that i can apply in my life and relationship. thank you so much.
The BEST topic so far this year from Lynn Ngugi. I think this man is the best Boychild in kenya so far . Lynn plz send him straight to meet Wamuratha senator or our 1st Lady Gachagua they have something in common. His body language shows he was ready to tackle the woman in Lynn any question from Lynn he answers ....goid question ...meaning he was expecting the challenges from Lynn he was ready to be put down by Lynn and this made Lynn to came in tough on him but she was kind of seeing hes making sence. 50 50 for you both was good just listening to you both . Bravooooo
Sincerely, I don't know how I feel about this discussion. I agree partly and disagree partly.
Me too
Try to listen carefully and you will understand what he is talking about . Listen with open mind!! Do not judge
What do you agree with and disagree with. Perhaps you can be helped 😀
Maybe because you see it as a Truth but it's painful to agree with him .
Me too..I got stuck at "men go for beauty".. what of brains?
A very nice and thoughtful -provoking content. Pure stoicism. I completely agree with your school of thinking.
@LynnNgugi, that was a good show. Both perspectives are great to make a good community
This man has dropped some hard truths!! 💯
Lovely conversation...and very good questions Lynn, you're a great journalist. If we put emotions aside there is a lot of sense in most of what Jacob says. When men remain as men, even women will be happy.
Thank you❤❤
Wonderful message. Jacob continue doing the good job of helping men.
I followed this discussion from the beginning to the end and I was impressed with the message 👌
Interesting conversations am glued in ❤
Weh our gal representing us so welll...good job lynn... nipitieni guys...we grow together 😊
There is great insight oh my
So much sense in the whole episode 💯
young men are very luck to access this kind of talk freely.. great talk
This is quite a great thought while looking at the relatioship aspects.Content for open minded people
One of the best convos
Realest conversation I've listened to ever!!
Welldone. Conversation was measured kabisa. Kudos to you two.
Wooow. We need men like him in society. Talking the truth.