Why Men Unplug; Dead Beat Dads, Equality, Single moms, Alpha Males

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  • 🎙️🎧 Welcome back to our Podcast! In this episode, we delve into some thought-provoking topics related to modern society and parenting. We're honored to have with us Jacob Aliet, the profound writer of the game-changing book, "Unplugged."
    Jacob takes us on a journey, discussing the sociological concept of why some men 'unplug' and the complexities of their relationship with society. We delve deep into the sensitive issue of Dead Beat Dads - a candid discussion about responsibility, societal perception, and the impact on families.
    Switching gears, we explore the world of single moms, admiring their resilience, strength, and undying spirit in the face of adversity.
    Lastly, we take a scientific detour and touch upon the topic of ovulation. Why women look for the alpha males during ovulation.

ความคิดเห็น • 55

  • @omondiantony1207
    @omondiantony1207 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mr. Aliet. you are such a GEM! very rich in knowledge and wisdom. I endorse you to be maendeleo ya wanaume chairman for 10years

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed the episode

  • @annem963
    @annem963 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    100% correct, women want men who are leaders, better than them in all aspects, physically, financially, intelligence etc. Otherwise there will be no respect/submission.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Relationships can be built on many things, and what works for one couple might not work for another. There are plenty of strong women who are happy in partnerships where they're equals, or even the primary earners.

    • @edobwoy
      @edobwoy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TheJageroThat is misleading.
      Jacob focuses on majority cases and not minority or individual cases. Nothing is 100%. My late mother became a bread winner and my father never told us until we were older. We NEVER experienced it because she new her role as a wife. She gave our father most of her salary to run the family. It so happened our mother graduated and joined UNDP through women career opportunities. Meanwhile, our father was lecturer at university so she quickly out earned him. Now at 34, with my wife and daughter and I can tell you very few women from my past relationships experiences, female friends and co workers I know would do what l my mother did. Our father was very strict and we saw him being the main voice in the house. I will teach my daughter early to understand the consequences of becoming a feminist woman verses a traditional minded woman and guide her to get the right man because I learned my mother was a minority case.

  • @cleopatramansa6228
    @cleopatramansa6228 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am a woman and i like female bosses. There're more understanding than men.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's a great point! Strong female leadership is definitely inspiring. Have you ever had a female boss who you learned a lot from?

  • @ashtonventures2454
    @ashtonventures2454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    jagero jacob and andrew kibe should come and give men a lecture make it happen those two are the last last honest men alive

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We'd love to chat with you more bold conversations. We remain open to such discussions and collab.

    • @MirriamMuthuita
      @MirriamMuthuita 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nop kites thinking differs from aliechs

  • @sarahmunga
    @sarahmunga ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a great coversation. We want leaders, its hard to remind a man that he needs to lead. leading in all ways

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Whether it’s in the workplace, community, or personal life, effective leadership involves inspiring and guiding others. 🌟💪

  • @marthaharriet1706
    @marthaharriet1706 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love and admire Ndiko so much!
    Happy to see him here
    A lot of information unveiled that’s true from women’s perspective
    But also for men also,
    Thank you for yet another good conversation @jagero

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

  • @johnambuchi9110
    @johnambuchi9110 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Waaaaaau!
    Jacob really brings out unique dimensions of life

  • @Duncan_Maina
    @Duncan_Maina 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very deep man conversation. I like it. Keep it up.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for listening

  • @isaacarona
    @isaacarona ปีที่แล้ว

    great work jagero a good guest he has been Aliet

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

  • @charlesmaina2573
    @charlesmaina2573 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is good content

  • @obellhumphrey8813
    @obellhumphrey8813 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely, very intriguing.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many thanks!

  • @Solve_4_X
    @Solve_4_X 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    DNA testing should be made mandatory before issuing birth certificates. Lets fix this situation.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you know some countries already have procedures for requesting paternity tests after birth? It's a good conversation to have.

    • @TudaOchieng
      @TudaOchieng วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is exactly what I have been saying DNA test should be mandatory in hospital so that both parents can know if that is there child it will also stop hospital from exchanging babies

  • @gudosilva3492
    @gudosilva3492 ปีที่แล้ว

    Insightful, more of such content Jagero

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

  • @dolphina-pearl
    @dolphina-pearl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enlightening, thank you!

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @lillianwaweru5475
    @lillianwaweru5475 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The generalization is off-putting.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your comment! I value your feedback and will keep it in mind for future content.

    • @charlesmaina2573
      @charlesmaina2573 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just because there are some exceptions,it doesn't mean the principles are wrong. It's seeing the world for what it is.

  • @hyllarisymon5511
    @hyllarisymon5511 ปีที่แล้ว

    great conversation

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

  • @komododragontrades
    @komododragontrades 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IS THIS AFRICAS ANDREW TATE? 🔥🔥,, great

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perhaps. And thank you 🙏

  • @MurithiMitu-xv6vk
    @MurithiMitu-xv6vk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks

  • @luisokech8912
    @luisokech8912 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    45:05

  • @WangariAt30
    @WangariAt30 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to disagree with the guest 35.00
    Because:
    That's how the patriarchy works like that. It makes women seem unable and incapable.
    Women are " left behind " in the workplace because of this.

    • @awinobrenda9619
      @awinobrenda9619 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The biggest challenge is that he's read a lot. And read old research. Such a stereotypical way of thinking is the reason why our society is still left behind with a lot of imbalance.
      Human beings evolve over time, both men and women have evolved.
      The guest's way of thinking only shows that there is still a lot of work that needs to be done

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear your point about how societal expectations can sometimes hold women back in the workplace.
      There's definitely truth to the idea that some outdated beliefs about gender roles can make it seem like women are less capable. This can be a big factor in why women might be overlooked for promotions or opportunities.
      I would argue that it's not women who are being left behind, but rather that workplaces need to do better at recognizing and promoting talented women.
      What are your thoughts on how we can challenge these stereotypes and create a more level playing field?

    • @edobwoy
      @edobwoy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@awinobrenda9619men have evolved? 😂😂 men are still expected to be head of the household, pay majority of the bill in the household, buy plot and pay most to build a house, pay dowry to marry, continue to approach women. So you are totally wrong.
      He made you FEEL uncomfortable and clouded your logic. Women aren't virgins now, they pick and choose who to sleep with then, they take children to day care because they go to work, employ a housemaid for household work etc. Its women who have evolved while required men to remain traditional. Plus, women have become superficial...fake hair, fake nails, fake eye lashes, makeup etc

  • @joelonyiego4935
    @joelonyiego4935 ปีที่แล้ว

    Raw😂😂😂😂

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed the episode

  • @JustCiku
    @JustCiku ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aliet, pure gold❤ so much wisdom. Love him.

    • @TheJagero
      @TheJagero  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you