Alex G. I know! I loved this video where Bobby speaks about his childhood and an epi of Queer eye: th-cam.com/video/zocPLUlDHxI/w-d-xo.html (it’s a snippet of a longer video)
I love that they're just casually touching each other I feel like we don't get much of men hugging and holding hands and cuddling platonically in media
“It’s not a coming out... it’s letting people in...” I LOOVEEEE THAT!! I’m straight but i felt that comment. LGBTQ people should be understood and not be in a box. It’s not the same for everyone I also love that sermon Karamo said about, “no”- success is bouncing back from the “no’s” and also being okay with asserting your “no’s”. Such an important lesson and so hard to do still as an adult
@@zetyra8336 I know!! I mean obviously he talks with their heroes/heroines with a sensitivity and knowledge that can only be attributed to a (really really good) professional. In my comment I meant to say that I take his advice to heart and that I appreciate what they all share with us. Karamo especially go above and beyond to create amazing teachable moments that can be applied to everybody. Whether it's self-love, identity, heritage, etc. It's really admirable.
You should watch Queer Eye then ! It's a bundle of laughts and cries. They don't only make makeovers, they genuininly care of the person they are helping, they give so much good advices and can relate to them.
Tan with the truth TEA. I'm in my early twenties and I just recently came to the realization on my own that I needed to follow more wholesome, positive accounts and stop looking at things that make me upset. It was so life-changing for me. I recommend it to all
As an actual 17 year-old, this was a such amazing advice. Especially for me, Antoni's "you don't need a label" since I've been struggling with thinking people would be mad if I "changed my mind" again, since I've already done it once. Also here's some random advice for fellow 17 year- olds (or just anyone) get a pet if you can, even if its just a fish or something, because I've noticed that since I got a cat, I feel much more appreciative of nature, and you will always feel loved by someone that way.
The anxiety that people will call you a liar or attention seeker if you "change your mind" about your label is real. But never forget it's THEM who require you label yourself so they'll know how to treat you (differently). Once you step out of cishet space, there's endless discovery to be made, so relax and enjoy it. I'm reaching 30 and I still have moments of "oh, this is also part of my identity/or this isn't as much part of me as I thought it was" and that's okay. And if on some days you don't feel like it, just give your new kitten extra snuggles. :)
When I was 17-19 I changed my “label” several times and continued to develop my understanding of myself into my 20s. I definitely felt like I had to have a label in order to explain myself to people, and you are changing so much up until your mid-20s that your self-identity is bound to change in some ways. I felt awkward/guilty/“fake” for having to correct what I’d previously come out as, I wish I’d been confident enough just be myself without having to announce myself. Also what you said about pets is very true, my anxiety calmed quite a bit when I was finally able to have a cat again. Having pet rats did actually make me more anxious though (I had a lot of dreams where they were escaping/in danger/dead) so it’s not universally true that pets make life better.
@@aishymoo5 that's a good question! In Australia we call them jumpers (sweaters are specifically for gym wear/active wear) buuut you got me wondering so i googled it! "The word "jumper" when used to mean a sweater comes from an obsolete term for a large, loose men's jacket called a jump. "
I have the same identity as Antoni and I love him so much, and I'm so thankful for him talking about this!! I always kinda refer to myself as bi but I feel like it doesn't fit me very well, and I struggled so much with trying to find a label when I was younger, thinking "maybe I'm straight afterall" when no, I'm not straight and also no gay. It annoys me a lot when people call Antoni gay, or call them "5 gay guys" when he's repeatedly said that he doesn't identify as gay. The show is called queer eye, not gay eye! let him be Not Gay please
I love how they're all just holding hands and being so affectionate throughout the whole video, I wish everyone would be okay with displaying affection like that, especially as friends
These guys and Bobby changed the way that I perceive people in general, but specially LGBTQIA+ people. I used to have extreme prejudices about them, and they are day by day going away. I'm not completely free of prejudices, but I'm doing my best to work towards it. I'm forever grateful to the FAB 5
I really needed to hear some of this right now, especially what they were saying about not worrying if you don’t have your life figured out right now. The Fab Five are inspirational, and beautiful inside and out. We need more people like them in the world. ❤️❤️❤️
*Waves* hi...33 here, aaand just now in the process of discovering myself. I have a husband and 3 kids who rely on me. I want to give them the very best of me I can. I spent my whole life living up to someone else's standards, and I'm just now realizing that it's ok for me to be my own person, and the breast version of my self as possible. The fab 5 influence me positively in so many ways, and I hope that someone else is impacted just as much. It's never too late to embrace and find who you are meant to be in your heart. Lots of love to all ❤
Ahhhh they’re all so cute holding hands. They always say the most positive, lovely things but they could be talking about like paint drying on a wall and it would still fill me with joy.
What Karamo said about people shouldn’t be afraid of hearing “nos” from other people and giving “nos” to people hit close to home. A really important and relatable message for everyone.
The “no” moment is so important for my rn bc college decisions just came out and I was rejected from a lot of them, but now I’m going to a school in a different country and imma live an exciting life, like one you see in the movies. Wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t threw a Hail Mary at this college 3 hours before the app was due, and took that risk. Thanks queer eye for inspiring me and bringing me comfort 🌸🌷💕
17 in a couple days.. and this actually helped a little becuz my anxiety has been at its peak and this was a slight bit of reassurance that everything will be ok 😊
Can we just talk for a second about Tan massaging Antoni's arm throughout most of this video??!!! That looks so amazing 😍 Their friendship is so adorable 😭😭👏
The comments for this video are so positive, supportive and bravely vulnerable. So many TH-cam videos are followed by hateful comments, but everyone here seems to be seeking their best self. There's something about these guys that makes us all better people.
Look at them holding hands they are so comforting and sweet they know this talk can be hard for eachother and they are so supportive and intimate and emotional.
TS music video brought me to these guys. I haven’t watched their show but already falling in love. I noticed Tan first, and can relate to him for being a gay Muslim, Antoni being quite reserved just like myself , JVN taught me you don’t have to be afraid of showing feminine side of yourself and embrace your vulnerability, Karamo’s talking about emotions and all really gets me and finally Bobby I really wanna give him big hug after learning about his childhood upbringing. All of them are my favorites.
I absolutely love you all together and individually! So much to share from your life experiences. Your touching and affection with each other is heart warming. And there is not one single episode that’s hasn’t made me cry for the pain people feel and the butterfly you find within them! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
they all had some really good things to say, but the one that struck truest for me is what antoni said about labels--teenage me needed to know that and learning that much more recently left me hurting myself and sometimes other people. it was really cool and validating to hear that from a public figure like this, because that was a message I didn't see at all when I was first figuring it out.
The fact that this is so popular and out there for teens now fills me with joy. I’m straight and count myself so fortunate because teens of my era were assholes. Seeing this, is like watching a wish come true that I wished for 20 years ago.
I love the chillax of it all, everyone's holding hands and touchy feely, Tan rubbing Antonis arm muscle and JVN and Karamo with hands and feet intertwined. I just feel comfortable even watching. And where'd Bob's go!?!? He's been missing in a few of these videos! Dont think we don't notice
I am currently stressed. Listening to them allow me to forget my stress and that Karamo’s « no speech »... oh man, that just made me feel serene right away ❤️ (Where’s Bobby ?)
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I love them all so much but I really want to see Bobby’s self advice because we know he had a really rough childhood
Alex G. I know! I loved this video where Bobby speaks about his childhood and an epi of Queer eye: th-cam.com/video/zocPLUlDHxI/w-d-xo.html (it’s a snippet of a longer video)
@@shadylioness thank you (:
this is a similar vid from last year with bobby in th-cam.com/video/Y3t1gpZlT5w/w-d-xo.html
I love him
I get so sad whenever Bobby is not with the group. He always gives such awesome comments and great advice.
i love the casual massages Tan and Antoni are giving each other
Supportive best friends! They are adorable
They literally can never keep their hands off each other 😂
I love it too
The way he casually strokes Tan's hair though
Read some interviews Tan has given where he says he is extremely attracted to his husband, whenever he sees Rob he gets a little flutter.
I love that they're just casually touching each other I feel like we don't get much of men hugging and holding hands and cuddling platonically in media
I was going to say the same thing but is that a common thing with gay men that are friends?? I think it’s great but I’m just wondering! 🥰🤗🏳️🌈💙
@@Jessie-922 it’s just like having all your friends be attractive to you lol it’s a very weird feeling
@@Jessie-922 idk if it is common, but I'm bi and I'm touchy and i like cuddle with my friends, even my straight friends are like this with me.
I am obsessed with Antoni and Tan together, their friendship is so wonderful.❤️😍
Me too
Ryan Lee yep so friendship goals seriously ! I’ve got a male pal but he’s very Jonathon like to me .
get u a guy who talks to you like antoni talks to tan
And who looks at you the way Karamo looks at JVN (2:44)
...Not everyone is interested in guys...but ok.
@@emmaheart6599 guy can be gender neutral, calm down a little, it wasn't meant in a rude way
“It’s not a coming out... it’s letting people in...”
I LOOVEEEE THAT!! I’m straight but i felt that comment. LGBTQ people should be understood and not be in a box. It’s not the same for everyone
I also love that sermon Karamo said about, “no”- success is bouncing back from the “no’s” and also being okay with asserting your “no’s”. Such an important lesson and so hard to do still as an adult
K de la Cruz karamo is a jewel
i loved that to!
watching jonathon become a figure skater has been so so wonderful :))) I’m so happy for that angel
Yes!!!! It has been so inspiring to me and made me want to start tackling some new challenges
I think Antoni and Tan sit by each other because they always have to touch each other and I am HERE for it
they are besties and i love it sooo much!
I need to find the tan to my antoni
Abby Carpenter oh my gosh, me too girl!
Same girl
Hi honey, she’s here 🙋♀️
“It took me 31 years to come out as a figure skater.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love you Johnathan!
Ouf Karamo is so freaking wise. It's helping me dealing with my insecurities/fears on so many level. They all have such beautiful souls
Imen Toumi he’s a real life therapist. People don’t realize this. He’s a professional advice giver.
@@zetyra8336 I know!! I mean obviously he talks with their heroes/heroines with a sensitivity and knowledge that can only be attributed to a (really really good) professional. In my comment I meant to say that I take his advice to heart and that I appreciate what they all share with us. Karamo especially go above and beyond to create amazing teachable moments that can be applied to everybody. Whether it's self-love, identity, heritage, etc. It's really admirable.
You should read his new book, it's awesome!
I LOVE the idea of "letting people in" instead of coming out. Now that is a really important language shift!
oops didn’t mean to comment that
okayyy so I'm a 28-year-old straight girl and I needed to hear *all* of this today.
I'm a 17-year-old straight girl and I needed to hear all of this today
You should watch Queer Eye then ! It's a bundle of laughts and cries. They don't only make makeovers, they genuininly care of the person they are helping, they give so much good advices and can relate to them.
@@deadtonk5527 I've watched every episode, before I watched this video.
unlocked im a 16 year old straight girl, and my ears needed to be blessed like this today
Girl me too twinzies
I love that Tan and Antoni are always sharing some kind of touch. They are so sweet, and it's great that they normalize platonic touch/cuddling :)
They're literally the best, purest, kindest and most generous people ever and no one can change my mind!
Nice pfp
Antoni's advice seems actually genuine and self-critical in a healthy way. It's good to admit when you were not being your best self.
I'm so proud of Jonathan coming out as a figure skater
Tan with the truth TEA. I'm in my early twenties and I just recently came to the realization on my own that I needed to follow more wholesome, positive accounts and stop looking at things that make me upset. It was so life-changing for me. I recommend it to all
Can we have more men just holding hand with their male friends
*cannot concentrate on anything but on Tan and Antoni massaging one another*
I feel the exact same way
I love listening to Antoni talk.
I bet Karamo can talk about anything in a room and make it super inspirational
whats really inspirational is the way u spelt fettuccine u uneducated swine
GRACIE what’s really inspirational is the fact that I’m Uniqua and your just Tasha
@@sometimesitbelikethatallth7234 finally spelt something right, however from first grade you should know that only the first letter should be capital.
Gracie Harding no u
All caps for dramatic effect 😼😼😼
As an actual 17 year-old, this was a such amazing advice. Especially for me, Antoni's "you don't need a label" since I've been struggling with thinking people would be mad if I "changed my mind" again, since I've already done it once. Also here's some random advice for fellow 17 year- olds (or just anyone) get a pet if you can, even if its just a fish or something, because I've noticed that since I got a cat, I feel much more appreciative of nature, and you will always feel loved by someone that way.
The anxiety that people will call you a liar or attention seeker if you "change your mind" about your label is real. But never forget it's THEM who require you label yourself so they'll know how to treat you (differently).
Once you step out of cishet space, there's endless discovery to be made, so relax and enjoy it. I'm reaching 30 and I still have moments of "oh, this is also part of my identity/or this isn't as much part of me as I thought it was" and that's okay. And if on some days you don't feel like it, just give your new kitten extra snuggles. :)
When I was 17-19 I changed my “label” several times and continued to develop my understanding of myself into my 20s. I definitely felt like I had to have a label in order to explain myself to people, and you are changing so much up until your mid-20s that your self-identity is bound to change in some ways. I felt awkward/guilty/“fake” for having to correct what I’d previously come out as, I wish I’d been confident enough just be myself without having to announce myself.
Also what you said about pets is very true, my anxiety calmed quite a bit when I was finally able to have a cat again. Having pet rats did actually make me more anxious though (I had a lot of dreams where they were escaping/in danger/dead) so it’s not universally true that pets make life better.
Tan and Antoni...I love how u guys support each other by rubbing each other's forearms....u guys are precious
I read you guys as you gays
Jonathan is such a mood.
Tan and Antoni can't stop massage each other, it's adorable
wtf i'm wearing exactly the same lilac jumper as jonathan, it's fate girl
omg where did you get it I HAVE BEEN LUSTING AFTER THIS JUMPER (since antoni wore a similar one in the new series it is to DIE)
Why do u call it a jumper, you jump with ur legs :( aka pants
@@aishymoo5 that's a good question! In Australia we call them jumpers (sweaters are specifically for gym wear/active wear) buuut you got me wondering so i googled it! "The word "jumper" when used to mean a sweater comes from an obsolete term for a large, loose men's jacket called a jump. "
@@elisejcooper hahha that's very interesting, actually never knew that! nice one :) and yeah i associate sweaters w/ hoodies/ gym stuff
WHERE’S IT FROM?!
""Don"t be afraid to hear 'No'" I will emphasize this to all my students that want to be actors. Very encouraging
The affection they give to one another is honestly beautiful and i love it so much
they’ve done so many interviews and jonathan still has yet to say “we the fab five from netflix’s queer eye” in one take lmaoo
I have the same identity as Antoni and I love him so much, and I'm so thankful for him talking about this!! I always kinda refer to myself as bi but I feel like it doesn't fit me very well, and I struggled so much with trying to find a label when I was younger, thinking "maybe I'm straight afterall" when no, I'm not straight and also no gay.
It annoys me a lot when people call Antoni gay, or call them "5 gay guys" when he's repeatedly said that he doesn't identify as gay. The show is called queer eye, not gay eye! let him be Not Gay please
I know right this is so annoying
I love how they're all just holding hands and being so affectionate throughout the whole video, I wish everyone would be okay with displaying affection like that, especially as friends
Antoni shows his love through touch. I love him.
I just want a platonic bond with someone like the bonds the Fab 5 has.
tan went somewhere deep into his past during this...wish i could send him a hug.
As a 17-year-old gay, I’m loving this 🥰
These guys and Bobby changed the way that I perceive people in general, but specially LGBTQIA+ people. I used to have extreme prejudices about them, and they are day by day going away. I'm not completely free of prejudices, but I'm doing my best to work towards it. I'm forever grateful to the FAB 5
You can really tell that Kurano is a Dad, he’s just so wise and loving💛
Tan & Antoni’s reaction to Jonathan’s Joel Osteen comment... I laughed out loud!
Tan rubbing antoni’s arm was adorable 💕💕💕💕
I really needed to hear some of this right now, especially what they were saying about not worrying if you don’t have your life figured out right now. The Fab Five are inspirational, and beautiful inside and out. We need more people like them in the world. ❤️❤️❤️
*Waves* hi...33 here, aaand just now in the process of discovering myself. I have a husband and 3 kids who rely on me. I want to give them the very best of me I can. I spent my whole life living up to someone else's standards, and I'm just now realizing that it's ok for me to be my own person, and the breast version of my self as possible.
The fab 5 influence me positively in so many ways, and I hope that someone else is impacted just as much. It's never too late to embrace and find who you are meant to be in your heart. Lots of love to all ❤
You’re amazing. Proud of you.
The breast version of u
I hate that Bobby isn’t in any of these :(
I agree but hes building his Empire
Antoni saying LGBTQIA-community just increased my already immense appreciation for him SO MUCH.
Ahhhh they’re all so cute holding hands.
They always say the most positive, lovely things but they could be talking about like paint drying on a wall and it would still fill me with joy.
Bobby's always working!
It's his earth sign self lol
I’m mad
Little virgo 😂
Can we just appreciate how utterly lovely Tan looks here? ~sigh~
He always does. So much beauty.
Bobbys stuck helping their last client remodel their whole house :/
😂
Who's your favorite Queer Eye guy? Ours is a 5 way tie.
WHY DO YOU MAKE US PICK? rude.
Antoni and Tans friendship is literally friendship goals
What Karamo said about people shouldn’t be afraid of hearing “nos” from other people and giving “nos” to people hit close to home. A really important and relatable message for everyone.
i strive to have friendships like this where you just have the most amazing supportive conversations while holding hands.
They were all holding hands the whole time that’s beautiful
These lovely men really have such sweet friendships. Holding hands and sweet lil massages. I love them
I’m 17 and I’m so happy that these angels are here to give advice to teens like me!! I was missing Bobby a lot though 😭❤️
5:22 Tan and Antoni's faces though
Jonathan: "I can't act straight."
Also Jonathan: @1:02
love just like. watching them all hold hands and casually massage each other like. the world needs more casual intimacy.
The “no” moment is so important for my rn bc college decisions just came out and I was rejected from a lot of them, but now I’m going to a school in a different country and imma live an exciting life, like one you see in the movies. Wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t threw a Hail Mary at this college 3 hours before the app was due, and took that risk. Thanks queer eye for inspiring me and bringing me comfort 🌸🌷💕
WHERE DAFQ IS MY BOY BOBBY!?!?!?
Hes building his Empire! You know hes opening his Own business... a line of interiors.
Roses are red
Violets are blue
I was not first
And neither were you
17 in a couple days.. and this actually helped a little becuz my anxiety has been at its peak and this was a slight bit of reassurance that everything will be ok 😊
Damnn I would have loved to see Bobby in this interview. But he’s busy building his empire.
I love these angels so much they made my life a lot better and feel better and more proud about my sexuality (I’m a lesbian btw)
Karamo and Antonie I agree so much with what they said.
YES THE CROSS THING. I’m sixteen and double cross and I’ve always been told to uncross them and NEVER AGAIN
omg who transcribed "cashmere-y" instead of "kashmiri" in the closed captions?
Is he a kashmiri?? Im curious.
@@ifxha no
@@ifxha he is pakistani-kashmiri-indian
i think the message was hard to come across because of the annoying pop music/dance music like just imagine it without it...
Can we just talk for a second about Tan massaging Antoni's arm throughout most of this video??!!! That looks so amazing 😍 Their friendship is so adorable 😭😭👏
It started around 6:15 BTW. I only mention it because I found myself staring at Ant's arm for the rest of the vid 😂😂❤
the little massaging btwn antoni and tan
I love them ALL! They’re all just super special people that bring something to the table that the rest of them lack 😩💕
I love all of these folks, but I especially love Antoni. I love how seriously and gently he speaks, and how soothing his voice is. 💕
I love my dads so much! The Fab Five are huge role models for me and always will be.
The comments for this video are so positive, supportive and bravely vulnerable. So many TH-cam videos are followed by hateful comments, but everyone here seems to be seeking their best self. There's something about these guys that makes us all better people.
Look at them holding hands they are so comforting and sweet they know this talk can be hard for eachother and they are so supportive and intimate and emotional.
OMG I LOVE THE QUEER EYE SERIES 😫😫😫😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️
i totally agree with Antoni!! couldn’t have said it better. we don’t need labels. just live
Tan's color palette 😍
They are all so affectionate to eachother in a non sexual way. So much love, friendship and light. They make me so happy!
That color is so fab on Jonathan, he’s so radiant
I love the loving way they touch each other we could all use a lot more of that affection in our lives
They are just one of the best human beings in the world. I love them so much. Honestly they make my life better.
TS music video brought me to these guys. I haven’t watched their show but already falling in love. I noticed Tan first, and can relate to him for being a gay Muslim, Antoni being quite reserved just like myself , JVN taught me you don’t have to be afraid of showing feminine side of yourself and embrace your vulnerability, Karamo’s talking about emotions and all really gets me and finally Bobby I really wanna give him big hug after learning about his childhood upbringing. All of them are my favorites.
I absolutely love you all together and individually! So much to share from your life experiences. Your touching and affection with each other is heart warming. And there is not one single episode that’s hasn’t made me cry for the pain people feel and the butterfly you find within them!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Tan and antoni have the most beautiful friendship 😍😭
they all had some really good things to say, but the one that struck truest for me is what antoni said about labels--teenage me needed to know that and learning that much more recently left me hurting myself and sometimes other people. it was really cool and validating to hear that from a public figure like this, because that was a message I didn't see at all when I was first figuring it out.
How the heck do u double cross your legs
I can do it. I guess if you have thin legs you could do it.
E T dang Thicc leg vibes I guess 😂
My thighs are kinda thick but I can do it
Have either really long legs, or really skinny and flexible legs, or all three to an insane degree if you're me
@@speckofdignity2487 ARE YOU PHAT SHAMING
I wish I could have a close friendship like the fab five
I love how your always touching each other, it's so sweet & supportive & comforting, I wish I had cuddly friends like you all are! ❤❤❤
Ugh I absolutely love the intimacy of their friendship. It's so wholesome and sweet.
The fact that this is so popular and out there for teens now fills me with joy. I’m straight and count myself so fortunate because teens of my era were assholes. Seeing this, is like watching a wish come true that I wished for 20 years ago.
I love the chillax of it all, everyone's holding hands and touchy feely, Tan rubbing Antonis arm muscle and JVN and Karamo with hands and feet intertwined. I just feel comfortable even watching. And where'd Bob's go!?!? He's been missing in a few of these videos! Dont think we don't notice
They said in another video that he was in China creating like his own brand or something
I am currently stressed. Listening to them allow me to forget my stress and that Karamo’s « no speech »... oh man, that just made me feel serene right away ❤️
(Where’s Bobby ?)
I love how they hold hands during interviews ❤️
9:15 omg antoni thanks for the clarification i almost watched the season 3 of riverdale instead uff that was close
"You can change your mind on your label" is the best advice, thanks Toni
no one:
jvn: so I’m a figure skater
This is sooo useful. I cannot thank the channel and the fab five and every crew member who worked on this video enough
FINALLY I’ve found someone else who double crosses their legs everyone always looks horrified when I do it lol
Also JVN have you seen Yuri On Ice...pls watch if you love figure skating and I love a great love story in anime. Check it out "Yuri On Ice"
karieoki yasss he needs to watch it I can already see him being obsessed with it
My friend is obsessed with that 😂