Soul To Soul Connections-Twin Flames -Separation- Why
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- The separation phase is a period of growth potential offered to both people . Each must choose separation as an opportunity. Mel explains this from his experience counseling hundreds of soul to soul connections . twinflames.ca
I needed this in high school...not algebra!
I was the runner and im the female , i couldnt handle it at all, it was so over whelming and i was NOT ready for it . it has made me do a lot of work on my self ,, lots of self love and healing as well . i wasnt a teenager i was like a child . This has made a lot of seance for me .
Thank you so much again Mel... I'm on a second cycle of separation phase and this time it is so beautiful, liberating and freeing...
HERE'S MY STORY.... At the time I met my Twin Flame (mind you, I did not know about this Twin Flame stuff until my sister taught it to me a few months ago), I was a staunch Christian (I lost my faith within the past year, not due to any emotional reasons, but through thorough study and research, I now believe that the Bible - especially the New Testament was heavily altered and there are tons of areas - if not the whole thing - that were copied and borrowed from many religions that predate Christianity and even predate Judaism). She is also a Christian and when we first met in 2010, I was so hardcore and intense. I know I scared her away, because I even confessed to her that I was having these weird telepathic, ESP dialogues with her (yup, I should've known that would've made her run haha). One night, I heard her (telepathically) tell me that she was hurt in Greece and then specifically told me in my mind to COME RESCUE HER FROM GREECE. The next day, she wrote on her social media account almost those exact words SOMEONE GET ME THE HELL OUTTA GREECE! She was in the hospital for some reason (she never specifically said, but she mentioned she was sick) and that she had cried more tears during that time than any other in her life. I was stunned that I heard her say that to me the night before, I knew that she was injured somehow and because of that, I knew at that point that our connection was deeper than I imagined!
Fast forward 6 years later, I'm no longer a believer in Christianity. I know that had she gotten with me 6 years ago, this could've led us to possible divorce if we had been together the last 6 years and I found all this information that showed Christianity was a pastiche, re-worked piece of literature to subvert control over those under the auspices of the Roman Empire, especially the Jews (who were very militaristic, xenophobic, didn't want to submit to Caesar nor pay taxes to Rome). I don't need to get into detail about all of that, but I know she's been looking at my social media pages and at times, I feel her coming to me in spirit and telling me that she is amazed at some of the stuff I've found and that she agrees with me. The problem is, she's now married to a Christian pastor and they've done tons of missionary work overseas. She is also weeks away from having her first baby. I've had a few people tell me that maybe I need to contact her, but I've not spoken directly to her in almost 5+ years. I don't even really know what to say, and I would never try to ruin her marriage. The guy seems like a great dude and he's treating her very well. They look happy, but I know in the spiritual realm, she's made it known to me that she loves me. I think at first, she was still young and not sure about what she wanted. She also barely knew me and I'm 6 years older than she is. I was sending her long emails detailing how much I loved her and that it was driving me crazy, which obviously scared her away. She's a Pisces and I read that they scare easily. I'm a dominant, aggressive Taurus male. My love was so intense for her, more than all of the women I've ever been with COMBINED. Every time I look at her to this day, my heart pounds out of my chest, and that male domineering, aggressive side of me says DAMMIT YOU ARE MINE! YOU BELONG TO ME!!!!!!!! I AM COMING TO GET YOU! !!!!!!!!!!
But I would never do that now that she's married. But if her and I are Twin Flames, then I'm confused about what should happen here. I'm confused about what to do, if I am even supposed to contact her and become friends with her somehow? I really don't know, so I've just completely cut all ties with her in the 3-D realm. I don't even hint that I'm thinking about her. I don't post anything that would make her think the posts are aimed at her in any way, shape or form. But I still think about her every single day. My love for her is just as intense today as it was back in 2010, but I've learned to suppress it. She still comes to me in spirit form, typically at night, and we talk through telepathy. I would've thought that was crazy talk and possibly demonic 5 years ago, but now I know that it's real, especially after the Greece experience where she told me through ESP what was actually going on with her, even though I'm in California and she was almost as far away from me as one could possibly be.
The whole 'Twin Flame' concept is really the only thing that explains what happened between her and I. When my sister started sharing it with me, we found some synchronicities involving both our twin flames. She also met her Twin Flame (this was also before she knew anything about this stuff too), back in 2010 as well. I wonder sometimes watching these videos if people who had known about the Twin Flame concept BEFORE supposedly meeting their T.F. is just a projection of what they think is the Twin Flame but it's really not. In our case, we were already experiencing the stages of the Twin Flame paradigm before we knew anything about it. It totally lines up with what's been happening in my case and my sister's case. I am a pretty good looking guy and have a phone full of numbers of women. I can get laid tonight if I wanted to and I do occasionally do so. But when I'm laying in bed with other women, I'm wishing I was laying with her.
Yep. Sounds crazy to be carrying on this telepathic conversation with them, only to validate later that it was happening. I still don't get it. Talking about my own experience. I tried to cut them off telepathically but it doesn't work. I have heard that you can have a telepathic relationship with anyone you care about. Maybe that's all it is, and not twin flame. Although there were very weird things that happened spontaneously that have never happened before or since with another human so I do not get what those things meant. Those things were intense if you look into their eyes you disappear physically. Stuff like that. They had telepathy with others as well so it was something else I think.
Where are you today?
Definitely growing up right now, I’ve been spiritually immature for a while now and realize that my inner little girl wounds have run a lot of the decisions I’ve made, finally learning to steer her in a better direction tho and heal her, so far so good
I CAN DIG IT MAN!!! KEEP IT COMING I BEEN SEARCHING FOR YOU I KNEW IT WAS THERE AND NEVER TRUSTED THOSE THAT WERE NOT TRULY HARMONIZED
Thank you for this video! So much truth in it. You describe this experience so well. And I always take on a new perspective after watching. I'm almost 100% sure that I'm in the end of separation. I see TF consistently with short periods of up to a month of not seeing but not together for various reasons. It's just all so clear to me at this point and so beautiful. Only thing that I can't really take in at this moment is when you say that we can have other experiences like this that feel the same. It's so hard for me to believe that. I mean I'm almost 33 and this is the only time I felt this way. I've had strong feelings for other people, have been very obsessed and in love but nothing gets even close to this. It has been all so meaningful and very very intense, starting from the fact that I fell in love the minute out eyes met for the first time and she handed me a class contract. I was shocked, it was insane. It took a few days to down on me though, intellectually. I did think I had gone crazy in the beginning, I seriously thought that. Only a year later I realized it was a TF flame situation. The following year I was putting pieces together and making sense of that. Not sure if I'd ever feel this again. Lol It just seems like this is the one. I do believe that I can love someone else and be happy with them but not the same as with TF. I'm wondering if you have heard from people's experiences that they had the same experience more than once.
Love Mel's straightforwardness, no fluff.
Thank you so much Mel!
Humbling indeed ! On another note you have no idea how funny you are ,😀❤️
You are so right . He I am sure has no idea how funny he is XXX
Incredible ...exactly what I needed to hear .thank you Mel .love ya 💐
Spot on! My whole life turned upside down and I had to rebuild my life and who I was from the ground up. I went through months of difficulties until this very day. The experience saved my life as I look back at where I was in comparison to where I am now. Love and light to you.
Mel.. amazing insights! It’s all about growing up spiritually 😂❤️🙏🏽 in my second seperation and this path changed me so much. Grown enormous spiritually.. Not needing my twin, but loving her so much. I can’t chase or run anymore. I am happy to be back to me. Full of new insights and many wounds and traumas healed. Intense but super worth it. I wish her the growth too. The selflove process and healing 🙏🏽💫🙏🏽
Fabulous! You are quite wonderful to share. I very much appreciate your video. Everything you said makes sense. I am putting together the pieces and you have guided me in a direction I was looking for. Thank you
There is so much info here I've had to listen to it twice and am thinking a third listen might be necessary at some point 😜 Thanks heaps Mel 👍🏻
I love the info that you give. My soul talked to me soooo heavy during this. If you accept the process ohhh boy it's wonderful! The seperation is sooo needed because you have nothing but you're thoughts and all of it is crap. Even if you are not talking the communication depending on the connection is unbelievable! Dreams, feeling through connection. It is not for the weak! This shit actually takes you back to puberty! During the whole process my intuition was telling me I'm back in high school. GROWING PAINS! You are going to grow up! I have my good days and I have my bad days but I thank source for the experience!
I have never seen a better analysis of the subject. I am sure you are one with light now... you did a great work for us , on this realm. Thank you
Thank you Mel. Just what I needed to hear!
Good kick-ass advice yet again! I'm listening and learning! So done with Tarot readings! X
Hi, just want to thanks and share a couple of conceptes for For those who resonate or may be interested: 1) Our soul is a small fragment of a totality, that spark of conscious energy that for who knows what reasons was divided...
2) love is the force of attraction that seeks the harmonious reunification of those divine sparks or souls...
3) that spark of consciousness or soul, forms bodies, layers of energy that are superimposed on that spark of energy that is aware of itself, these layers, we label them as: subtle bodies, physical body, mind, personality etc etc...
4) in the reunion process that occurs through love, which I already mentioned as the force of attraction between souls, when those layers and formations of energy that are superimposed on the conscious spark, collide with each other, all that remains is to reshape them (and yeah it hurts like hell)
5) The fact is that this force WILL NEVER STOP until the sparks return to where they should be, their original configuration has certain positions, as could happen for example in a physical organism with the organization of cells... or a puzzle...
6) with respect to establishing or not, a relationship with the twin flame? really deep down it is irrelevant, although it is definitely desirable, it is not the final objective of this dynamic...
7) The objective of this dynamic is for each cell to find its natural position in that macroorganism, in an improved version of the original (this from the point of view of time, which by the way, is only perceptible in our reality). dense... in higher vibrations, time does not exist as we perceive it here... however, to say that "time does not exist" while we are here, is absurd, but that is another matter
8) conclusion: Let's heal! let's heal our egos, our belief systems etc etc... it will be the only way to live in peace, and hopefully, to have that pleasant human experience with that "twin flame"... this can be a hellish or glorious path depending what each one does and how much resistance they put up... by the way, there is no guarantee that our counterpart will do its evolutionary work or how long it takes to do it... but if we are healthier than before starting this path, It could well make the experience less painful, or even pleasant...
regards
Thank you, Mel! Right to the point! Had the session with you, after being almost two years in separation. Did hear about immaturity from you. In a few months "Dance back and forward" stage started... up to the end of 2015... It's hard to grow! Spiritually even more! Good very healing video! Just surrender and grow ... we'll pass everything!
Thank you mel for telling like it is ,you have cleared up my undestanding of this journey so many of us are in....blessings😙
Thanks Mel, appreciated for all you are doing :) :) :)
Thank you so much for your grounded information on the twin flame journey, I have been seeing several video's by you yesterday. I am in physical "seperation" and I found a piece of advice on why we are seperated, wrote it down. And I send my twin that online, information I was afraid to send him in the past about my experience. But he said he would soon send me something back on this topic, tonight or tomorrow.
So because I found your information, I was lead to stand up for what my experience was and I connected with my twin again! This is fantastic!!
I have been doing some good pioneering these last few years, I understand what the connection is about now
I am so happy i have discovered your channel! Whooohoo ... i love it!
MEL YOU FLOWING AND VIBRATING I CAN FEEL IT SO INTENSELY IN EVERY FIBER OF MY BEING IM ECSTATIC WITH GRATITUDE AND FAITH OOH BOY
07/09/2019- so many months of trying to understand what’s happening...phew!!! I got somewhere!!! Everything spoken is just so bang on...thought I was going insane...this video has just helped me light my tubelight!!! Thank you so much...
When I started going through this and made most mistakes possible, worst was trying to sort through info online that made sense .. Too much “romance/ unicorns and rainbows bs online so I learned to go with in, follow my intuition and realized a lot of the answers are within once you start to dissolve ego .. love your posts because you offer clarity and help me put thoughts in order instead of all jumbled up , Thxs for your time it’s much appreciated
I happened to find this charming men shortly after I realized I am ready to find another teacher in my journey. Such a blessing for this world
I am going right through this, it's really happening to me... and it hits me hard, but i am also grateful because i am finally healing and becoming my authentic self. My twin and i aren't communicating much but i believe this is part of the process. He is healing me without even knowing it. It's still a very painful process, but i know i can do this...
Great sound advice- funny guy too! I love it! Thank you~ at my point in this journey, this resonates for me!🙂
loving the frankness....totally resonated. thanks
Love this and you ... so damn spot on! 😂
This isn't boring for sure :)
Many thx!
thank YOU Mel..I think alike. me and my tf is separated for few months now with no communication past 1 n over month..but we just let d flow go.without drama.without expectations.
Respect to you sir. Very much appreciate your teaching.
I love your spirit so much💕 I know you are guiding us from the kingdom, guiding all meant to experience this for the greater good for self and all collective soul evolution here💕 🙏💕 The heart center of our world is opening so I must say the wheel is turning much faster than previously. These are healing times, times where healing happens easier smoother and faster than ever before as long as you are willing to NOT cockblock the universe, meet it half way, be open to healing and do the work💕
Thank you for your service and being here for us alive and after your life graduation💕
Soulsiblings…Don’t give up believing…. In yourself, the beloved💕
2/7/22 😉🦋
God had directed me to watched your video. I truly do believed it is a blessing that we are separated and there is no communication from his behalf. Your the second person who said it's a blessing. And although I may not understand everything.I can say I understand some of it. I am leaving f it all in God's hands.This journey is not an easy one .I Thank you very much for your information in regards to Twin flames.God Bless!
Frances Trevino how are you. Im in separation and no communication too
Absolutely brilliant.True teacher.Thank you!
You are right about everything. I have experienced it through the end of separation.
Thank you 💖.. your time is greatly appreciated 🌻🥑👌😊✌✨
Mel , thank you for this video!!!
Thank you, as always, my friend:)
you're in shape lol
I agree with the fact that you're getting vocal. Right before I watch yours, I played another video from someone else, which was a discussion of many topics, including spiritual awakenings, and I just had to skip it (the kangaroo -_- ) because despite words sounded right, I could literally FEEL it was just concepts-regurgitation.
I've always been, if not spiritual, in quest of or open to spirituality, but since I've experienced what I did so far, and I had to be in touch with so-called spiritual-peoples, I've rarely seen such amounts of bullshits and gogo-traps; Business must be really good for some people.
One of the reason why I don't think twin flames concealing shouldn't be offered as a service, is because it's an individual experience, and every person will have to deal with different issues.
Add to this that growth is rarely, from an human standpoint, a welcomed experience, and we often need pain to face real change, so it's easy for the one whom ask for help to remain lying to themselves.
Plus I also think that many talents / skills are revealed to us during this experience - which are not all related to a spiritual service of any kind, it's more about what "the real you" should have been before society, parents, friends and other deadly circumstances appear in your life and turn it into the mess of your own decisions based on the control issues they've created in you.
I encourage communication with one's higher-self as much as possible before you consider a third party advice, but one must also be warned that if they think they will fool themselves to take the wrong path, life will have no remorse make you face your own death (you've said it in a video, and it's something I've also experienced myself)
there's a lot of positive things to take in this experience, and the best is to see "the greater you" emerge.
On a personal note, and for the example, to hear you say that once separated, and depending on the circumstances we might not be reunited again is much more easy to accept this time lol ... to let go has been one of the hardest thing I've had to do in this experience so far, but anyone should trust that if they're willing to do the job, guidance won't be ungrateful.
there's a lot of Love in this video, and for those out there who want to see things as they are and will accept to grow, your videos are a goldmine.
so, thank you.
Love to you & Nicole
Some good parts in this one. Much love and namaste.
Just wanted to say that you are really helping me.
I believe you,Thank you.Perfectly explained.
Hey there, I'm hoping someone can provide clarity on having sex in the dream state while in separation. I'm in separation but while I've had dreams about him, they were not sexual. So does this mean I should let go of the journey?
Thank you so much for this video
We got together had an amazing time, she ghosted me... as for the dreams, I do not remember my dreams, very rarely do as I have a screwed up sleep cycle etc.. but I still feel her energy and it is very nice.... 10 weeks out of ghosting but I know this is part of the process.
The Motivational Viking I was ghosted recently. Not sure if she is my TF but the connection was strong. What did I do to get ghosted? I told her that her partner/husband should treat her like a goddess. The next day I’m blocked on every level. Go figure.
You are spot on my friend!!!
Are you able to tell us who the genuine balanced teachers on TH-cam are?
Every soul is ready to get up and go 🎉Mel
Hello Mel!, could you please do a video about how to be immune to emotional triggers and rise above them? What is the process? Or how not to be invested, when sb tries to push our buttons Thank you!
I CAN dig it !!
Great video. But, i guess 99% of us come here, look for TF vids only during the separation phase for the intense pain it causes. We look for the signs and it leads to TFs domain and from there we go to different masters who teach and advice about TFs, what to do and what not. But isn't it already late to talk about what to do during the bubble phase. Boy! Who is gonna worry about anything during the bubble phase which has its enticing colours painted on it. We all only enjoy it as much as we can and when one of the TF couple runs away, that's when we come here look for remedies because we are bleeding from brick that fell on our head.
You are looking Divine Mel!!
Thank you very much!
What if I have dreams about this person , but still haven't come into the union with them? It's been months since the dreams. But also how do I know if they are my true twin or not?
Totally Right On!
I can't say thank you enough!!
Miss this guy 😊
Mel can you give your website again please .. I heard Twinflame.ca I'm sure that is not correct
Greetings Mel! Thank you for all your videos! Whenever I lose control over my emotional body your videos are there to help me cure that disharmony. I have a question about the connection between the two of us in the dream states. Do we always have to have a sexual connection in the dream state or is it possible to sometimes have sexual experiences and sometimes purely intimate without having sex?
Thank you!
twinflames.ca
Wish this Man was still here with us; *****RESPECT MEL*****
This video is the truth
What do you do when your twin flame dies unexpectedly? :(
How to get info on cleaning the 12 chakras???
Luv you Mel!
Is it just through constant self awareness that we can stop listening to our learned experiences (the ego) that we are able to hear our higher selves? I'm very aware but struggle often to not listen to my ego. Somehow that fear keeps slipping in....
I can dig it and you!!
Hi there your video is fantastic, you have any web page or how could I be in contact with you guys?
How do i talk to you like skype counsel??
love it....
very interesting and helpful
Dude I love you :)))
Seeing your videos for the first time and so confused. Have heard for two years that my tf and I still have healing to do no matter how much is done. He is married but not happy. He doesn't feel it's a good time to end it because he is worried his 15 yr old daughter could go down the wrong path if he isn't in her life on a daily as she is a follower. Also doesn't like the way his wife treats his daughter so he feels he needs to protect her. Also, if I rarely ever remember dreams and only remember 2 recently with him in them but neither sexual. In one he gave me a ring, the other was 2 nights ago he told me he needed more money in the bank. But he has sexual dreams all the time about me. Does this mean we will or won't come together?
I don't know what he and I are supposed to be doing toward union, not supposed to be doing.
my situation is female - male but are there same sex twin flame relationships ?
Your a genius. Very informative. Please write a book.
Everybody is a twin flame folks everybody has a soul we are all twin flames.
Thank-You...💜
14:44 yeah he knows what he’s talking about I’m having these sexual energetic connections in meditation, a bit of a merging I like to think of it
I don’t think mine relies he is really a flame he has gone away 3 times for his karmic partner and I have now pulled us into separation I feel his pain and I know it’s not mine as I know he needs it
I have full communication without him even speaking to I know when he is sad upset and even angry I had a dream about him last night and it was most certainly not my dream
so you mean we can have more than ONE twin flame?
I may have misunderstood but I'm in the end did you say you can have more than one twin flame? Everything resonates here and it felt good to get it said straight.
Ok, besides you, who do you consider valid twin Flame guides here in TH-cam - who are the other 5 couples?😃
How do i get the dreams to stop? I do not love this person and do not want him in my life. I don't want any "union" or anything like that. the dreams or the way i interpret them, anyways, is to mean destruction or death is coming my way. Thats how I interpret the dreams, to mean destruction and loss.
Beginning to like this guy...
Im growing as of current ik i caused a ripple in the connection by which my insecurities & selfishness with my current flame by not releasing being hurt from a previous flame & holding onto other connections I should’ve been released ig people can’t get enough of my energy but I can’t have anyone else come between my love anymore Ive been cutting ties with all old situations
I am dyingg you are hilarious! Hahaha but the truth is said here.
I think this guy lives on light, he doesnt eat food anymore, no need
Thank you ♥
AV thank you so much x
AV what does it mean if one twin flame is much older then the other being a woman much older
I would also add to that list of wannabees certain twin flames who talk a lot but who seem to lack any kind of loyalty or integrity to each other and seek mostly to be indulged by themselves, each other and the world while money-spinning the twin flame label...one black guy and white woman I cant even remember their names, but really horrendous. Thanks a lot for being honest and having integrity Mel.......im currently waiting to see if I get another kick at the can, but its ok if I don't.
bobby george Yes!!! I was horrified. I stopped watching them!
Yes it"s Me.. Thank you. Good morning.. I just want to tell you I agree with you 100 percenr, . Even my son is a lawyer, who , told me not to go to Taroh Reading in youtube. because they are not true. But because I am stubborn I went anyway. The reason being, is because of nightmare that I had, , My inquiring mind wants to know what that nightmare means. .I found myself in a taroh reading for the first time around mid October. For some reason all the answers I was looking for unfold simultanous. It was overwhelming, but I felt I need to do something to help him. The reason I found the truth easijy, because I didnt actually listen to the taroh reader, but instead I read the comments of the people involved on that particullar program, Also I realized that some taroh readers , are being paid for by some karmik in infuse negativity. By the way I realized since I found the answer I was looking for, I told myself my job here is done... Adios. By the way I will continue to watch your conference meeting whateryou call it. Please let me knoe if there"s anything I can do to help. Thank you very much.
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Im happy mating with my soul one pulse at a time all is well x
i still have the bump on my head....
I so dig it. The misinformation is a soul killer.
Thanks so much for what you do!!! Yes, I'm going through a very painful TF journey. He hardly speaks so I don't know what he thinks of me. I was in the bubble, could it have been "just" me? Also, could you please put your volume up? Thanks!☮️🦋☯️💗
We have more then 1 twin flame?
I heard only one but there are catalysts as well
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I did not know that Mel