AITA for denying access to my kids
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She's 70 years old and fell down at least part of a flight of stairs? Something tells me his wife's training to not force medical services on someone if they don't want it is kicking in hard. Without knowing more about his MIL's original condition before the fall and his wife and MIL's relationship, I can't say anything for certain, but based on what's there, I'm going with NTA as he sounds more concerned about the safety of all involved. Even more so than his wife, the competent nurse.
The “competent” nurse 😒 rn shes being a bad mother since shes risking her kids life for said reasons. Hes def nta
@@Unluckyprincess15 I didn't want to be rude or make assumptions about his wife in other situations as this could be how she is ONLY with her mother, thus left the quotation marks off. But yes, you definitely stated it the way I was actually thinking.
The mom may be a nurse but has no common sense
Exactly. My late mother's late ex fiance always used to call people like that well educated fools.
She hit her head at 70 and daughter (nurse) doesn't take her to the hospital for a ct scan for skull fractures or possibly having a concussion? Always err on the side of caution with senior citizens! I'm with hubby on this one!
“Grow up.”
I’m sure you won’t be saying that when your kids get in a horrific car accident.
Doesn't matter what the grandmother wants, she should have gone to the ER. If she says she doesn't want to go to the hospital, ask her how she feels about the possibility of her grandchildren finding her dead.
There are times I have to tell my grandma that if something doesn’t get better or gets worse, I AM calling an ambulance whether she likes it or not. Last week, her diabetes was acting up. She couldn’t get it over 49- 40 is the danger zone where you WILL die without medical intervention. It took almost 2 hours and I was just getting increasingly worried. She HATES sweets, but she was trying to find any and everyone sugary thing in the kitchen to eat. She couldn’t move from her chair at the table because she was so dizzy, she was scared she would fall. So I was running around getting her things. I started saying “if you’re blood sugars doesn’t start going up, I AM calling the ambulance and you WILL NOT talk me out of it.” This woman has worked in the medical field since the 80’s and like all people in that field she fights asking for medical help. But she was AGREEING with me that I should call if it wasn’t getting better soon. Thankfully it did get better and start to go up. But that was so scary.
It amazes me how people go into full on "No, no, I'm / she's fine" mode when it's just possible that they may not, in fact, be fine. The denial is strong.
Sounds like the wife is just as stubborn as her mother. No driving for at least a week and a thorough medical exam!
NTA. One of my friend’s on Twitter just lost his wife to a fall. She fell down the stairs and ended up dying later that day. He only knew what happened because she fell overnight and she told him in the morning. Before he could convince her to go to the hospital she collapsed and was rushed to the emergency room by ambulance. An autopsy revealed she damaged a major artery which is what caused her to die.
If we heard that my grandmother fell down the stairs and hurt her head we would drive over an hour to make sure she is okay, my aunt is a nurse and she would probably take her to the ER or check her out herself.
The wife and MIL need their heads checked. Wife for thinking it's a good idea to endanger her child by letting MIL drive them anywhere...and MIL for obvious reasons. THE WOMAN FELL DOWN THE STAIRS....she needs to get her head checked for that
NTA. Missing one week of the kids visiting/having a week off from the kids is worth it compared to risking the lives of the kids. I say it’s best to be safe and postpone the visit to a week where grandma didn’t just fall down the stairs. Even if it’s being paranoid or she gets there just fine it’s better not to risk it. Maybe tell her that she can take them with her if she stays a couple more days just to make sure she’s alright but if she insists on leaving the original date she can’t take the kids.
NTA. I think your wide is concerned that if her mother goes to the hospital, the hospital won't let her drive afterwards.
When I worked in the ER the common calls for a Trauma 1 emergency was the elderly with falls on blood thinner.
Possible concussion plus she took painkillers? Know you're not the asshole!
Take your kids and leave for the day. Maybe she will leave.
You are rightfully concerned about your MIL and kids
Op's wife needs to go back to school.
She sounds extremely incompetent as a person, let alone as a nurse
My dad tried to convince us to not call an ambulance when we found him at the bottom of the stairs. We did it anyway and he had a brain bleed (he fell head first we are certain). An old neck fracture and a fracture in his back. And even for being drunk his speech was bad and he couldn’t answer all the questions the paramedics asked correctly. I am saying all of this to say he should have called 911 and had his mother evaluated at the very least. I pray she was actually okay. You shouldn’t decline to get someone checked out after a serious fall when they hit their head.
So my great grandmother died from a fall after handling the trash on her own. It was not a flight of stairs, just a fall and you want to tell me that you think she'll be fine because nothing is broken? Did they at least check her eyes for any clear signs of a concussion? It's wild that as a nurse she's not at least doing her due diligence to try and make sure her mom is okay. I get there's the right to refuse care, but it wouldn't hurt to check for any other visible signs of something being wrong.
Stroke nurse here - she should have gone to the hospital, she could have a hemorrhage in her brain! This is so frustrating as a nurse I will not give advice on babies and children or women in labor as that is not my specialty. I cover strokes and some heart issues, I can speak about pneumonia in the elderly. Please, stick to what you know.
Nah the mom is right, there’s no need for her to go to the hospital. HOWEVER! I totally understand not letting the kids go with her. And the wife should not stop him, it won’t kill her to let him bring the kids to gran’s house. It is kind of weird how stubborn the mom is being
Yes there actually is. She fell down a freaking flight of stairs which could have given her a concision or brain trauma that could be seriously dangerous
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I’m best friends with two nurses and this is what I know. Advice to anyone else from a nurse YOU MUST TAKE SERIOUSLY! From a nurse to a nurse Yea ok it ain’t gonna happen mate! I’m surprised your even asking this question married to a nurse lol 😂
Dude assume all head injuries are fatal
No
Nope
I mean you have all right to be worried about your kids but your wife is a nurse I don't think she would put you kids and her own mother at risk but in case just try to convince your mother in law to go to the hospital
but even then nurses and doctors can be wrong with their diagnosis
She fell down a flight of stairs any competent nurse would tell her to go to the hospital
@@sugarbear2558 not necessarily my boyfriend aunt fell down the stairs and she said she was fine and she was
@@kronik9317 I mean your right but why would she want her kids to get hurt no sense parents would let that happen
@@tofluffybunny6780 could’ve had a concussion that was not known about so unless you took her to the hospital and they said she was fine, but even then that’s rare
Considering you have zero medical training, I'd go with what your wife thinks is best
Considering it’s common sense that if somebody falls down the stairs, they should go to the hospital. His wife is putting her mother in danger because we actually find out that the mother did break bones and did have a concussion.
N9
Yes you are
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I don’t think people realize how young 70 is
Most people have at least 15-20 years left
70 is 100% NOT young but alr
@@vvixell4580 100% of what?
As someone who’s mom works with elderly people I’ve seen a lot live to 100 which makes 70 not very young to me
70 is pretty old.
@@janette2691 It’s about 3/4 of your lifetime if you are healthy and don’t have any disabling diseases
@@Bejeweled13Swiftieyeah it is old. According to the United Nations considers old age to be 60 years or older. So yes 70 is old no matter if you're Jack LaLanne or the healthiest person on earth 🤷♀️. Not trying to start a fight