hi grace - thanks for the comment. i can't help it! i have the true black moon conjunct moon-mercury-neptune, so the energy is wrapped up in how i think and feel, etc.
Grace Lewis I really would love to know what you mean when you say: "You are a Lilith person"? Our Lilith in houses define that or? I am so confused with my Lilith. I would love to know her better! 😊🙏
I ordered my True Black Moon Lilith chart from you Tom and stayed up until 3:00 AM learning 🌟🔥🌟I went to bed a blow up doll and awoke a vivacious lively woman! This, I feel, just really gave me a life’s worth of clues. I went from Lilith in Aries (Mean) to Lilith in Pisces in Twelfth house. There is the Hero’s journey and then there is Lilith’s journey. Hind sight is 2020 and I am middle age looking back and Lilith has actually saved me when I was hard wired as a Capi in a very fundamentalist religion and marriage. Lilith may have made me a foreigner to my family and social network but I can tell we are going to become best friends. I’m still a long ways from re-entering life but grateful for this strange time. I have always been shamed for having yes/no answers and listening to my gut and told I’m crazy.
So refreshing to come across someone without such a doomtastic view of hard aspects. Constructive criticism is one of the best parts of squares and so often overlooked
It’s rare for me to come across someone that explains concepts like this in a way that resonates with me, and all your videos I’ve watched so far really click for me in a special way. Thank you so so much!!! I’ve got to throw in that my boyfriend’s Lilith is conjunct my Venus, and my Lilith conjunct his Mars, and they are all sextile each other. It’s what made me want to dive into this topic, because it is DEFINITELY SOMETHING!
Hey thanks so much! I have a Moon, Lilith and Uranus exact conjunction in Libra. And I just realized all of my family have their Persephone/Proserpina exact on that degree! This explains the dynamic of parents pushing for "be this innocent, puerile daughter who is perfectly controllable or you will be our scapegoat" and me going between being controlled by them and rebelling. I moved to USA to get away from this dynamic! Recently I can balance this being in my power without knee jerk reactions of capitulating or rebelling. But you are right, it took work, pain, all my focus and energy. Thanks you so much again!
I had not honored my Lillith for so long - feeling suppressed for years. Thank Source for the growth I've made and my current partner. Haven't done his chart because he doesn't know time of birth. Can't wait to read the book! Thank you. ☮
3 lilith conjunctions and my god i can't stress how much I feel shadowed,overpowered and my instinctual desire to be true,real without restriction and compromise
20:57 Trine is supportive what you are already being. 22:55 opposition sharing perception of you/ reflection / or constructive criticism. Can feel blocked. Self trust.
We can't see that in the chart--but in the person's life and behavior. In my teaching I try to paint a few different possibilities, because we can't look at the chart and see how the energy plays out in the person's life. (That's true of everything in a chart, by the way.)
You are such a great find. My Lilith is Leo in the first house. I was using the wrong one and when I corrected it that did not change. However, my partner's did. His was in Libra in the 12th before. Using the true method it's in Virgo in the 11th. He already has like 8 Virgo placements in there lol. His Lilith falls into my second house with a 6 degree orb to my Moon and a three degree orb to my North Node. I assume that would be conjunction. Mine falls into his tenth house with a seven degree orb to his North Node. I will have to look more into this. There are no opposites or squares. Most of our planets, asteroids, and points mirror in overlays. However, his Moon and Venus fall into my 12th. It's incredibly telepathic and psychic.
Thank you so much for this, I have totally understood why my last relationship went pear shape, his sun was on my true black Lillith, exact. His name was almost Jim! hahahaha
Lillith conjunct Lucifer exact 29 degs Scorpio synastry! Seems to have an equally intense attraction and underlying fear as well! Any other thoughts on how this pans out?
Hey I have Pluto Venus in the 12 th !! Wow if only I could pay you to figure out my ascendant ?? I’m tired of having to guess ? I’m born august 06 1962 near Belfast Northern Ireland
Finally I found clear for me explanation of Lilith. My husband lilith sitting on my sun and well i feel socked up and no energy( maybe because he cannot deal with his black moon. I would really love to have private conversation with you about it
Oh boy! I have quite the placement! True Black Lilith, Venus, and Mars in Aries in the 10th house. What in the world could that mean about my femininity? Career? Father?
I didn't know about the differece between true and mean BML, I've used Mean BML up until now. My true BML is also in Saggitarius, almost the same degree as yours, interestingly enough.
I never talked with him, but he mentioned several times doing an info-sharing collaboration, and the timing - again - wasn't quite right. He seemed to really take to this approach. Be well!
I have True lilith in Cancer @ 21 degree w/my Sun & Mercury(12H) conjunct my Bf's Moon @ 19 degree His TL is in Sag @ 12 degree w/ his Sun, Mercury& S,Node(10th H).while I have Mars in Sag @ 2 degrees, With 10 degree difference can this be conjunct too?
hii , i like watching ur videos u have unique information, i have true lilith in scorpio and mean lilith in saggitarius haha, anyways my english is not the best am an arabic fan😋 .. my boyfriend moon + true lilith + mean lilith is in my acsendent conucting my sun + venus + mercury .. i just wanna know if it is a positive sign cz it seem strong .. what do u think about it ?
Thank you so much for instructions on the true BLM is on that site. I have many trines and a biquintile there now that its accurate. What a gift you revealed.
Hey I have Pluto Venus in the 12 th !! Wow if only I could pay you to figure out my ascendant ?? I’m tired of having to guess ? I’m born august 06 1962 near Belfast Northern Ireland
hi again--unfortunately ,i don't have the skills to do chart rectification (to confirm the ascendant degree). honestly i wish more people went into that work. i don't currently know any.
The Cookbook: Conjunction: 12:30; Sextile: 15:07; Square: 17:04; Trine: 20:57
Erin M thank you
Ty!
I'm really happy to have come across a guy that knows about the pill and women's hormones! You are a Lilith person indeed. :)
hi grace - thanks for the comment. i can't help it! i have the true black moon conjunct moon-mercury-neptune, so the energy is wrapped up in how i think and feel, etc.
Grace Lewis I really would love to know what you mean when you say: "You are a Lilith person"?
Our Lilith in houses define that or? I am so confused with my Lilith. I would love to know her better! 😊🙏
@@quantumuniverse5771 I just meant that the archetypes she represents are displayed very strongly in Tom especially in this video.
I ordered my True Black Moon Lilith chart from you Tom and stayed up until 3:00 AM learning 🌟🔥🌟I went to bed a blow up doll and awoke a vivacious lively woman! This, I feel, just really gave me a life’s worth of clues. I went from Lilith in Aries (Mean) to Lilith in Pisces in Twelfth house. There is the Hero’s journey and then there is Lilith’s journey. Hind sight is 2020 and I am middle age looking back and Lilith has actually saved me when I was hard wired as a Capi in a very fundamentalist religion and marriage. Lilith may have made me a foreigner to my family and social network but I can tell we are going to become best friends. I’m still a long ways from re-entering life but grateful for this strange time. I have always been shamed for having yes/no answers and listening to my gut and told I’m crazy.
So refreshing to come across someone without such a doomtastic view of hard aspects. Constructive criticism is one of the best parts of squares and so often overlooked
It’s rare for me to come across someone that explains concepts like this in a way that resonates with me, and all your videos I’ve watched so far really click for me in a special way. Thank you so so much!!! I’ve got to throw in that my boyfriend’s Lilith is conjunct my Venus, and my Lilith conjunct his Mars, and they are all sextile each other. It’s what made me want to dive into this topic, because it is DEFINITELY SOMETHING!
Tom, thanks for your insights. What if someones Lilith is conjunct your ascendant? Or midheaven?
Your explanations always articulated with presition and clarity
Hey thanks so much! I have a Moon, Lilith and Uranus exact conjunction in Libra. And I just realized all of my family have their Persephone/Proserpina exact on that degree! This explains the dynamic of parents pushing for "be this innocent, puerile daughter who is perfectly controllable or you will be our scapegoat" and me going between being controlled by them and rebelling. I moved to USA to get away from this dynamic! Recently I can balance this being in my power without knee jerk reactions of capitulating or rebelling. But you are right, it took work, pain, all my focus and energy. Thanks you so much again!
Pinar Gosterisli This is my story ❤️
I had not honored my Lillith for so long - feeling suppressed for years. Thank Source for the growth I've made and my current partner. Haven't done his chart because he doesn't know time of birth. Can't wait to read the book! Thank you. ☮
I am so grateful to have found your channel.Very insightful!
Very interesting. Someones Sun is on my TBM Lilith and I didn't care for him for years, now I want to be with him all the time.
3 lilith conjunctions and my god i can't stress how much I feel shadowed,overpowered and my instinctual desire to be true,real without restriction and compromise
20:57 Trine is supportive what you are already being.
22:55 opposition sharing perception of you/ reflection / or constructive criticism. Can feel blocked. Self trust.
Do you do synastry charts ? Does it include BML?
Very interesting... I'm more intrigued now than ever.
Now I want you cookbook synastry aspects. lol
How do you know if Lilith is expressed or suppressed in a chart
Or you mean it’s up to that person
We can't see that in the chart--but in the person's life and behavior. In my teaching I try to paint a few different possibilities, because we can't look at the chart and see how the energy plays out in the person's life. (That's true of everything in a chart, by the way.)
Thank you
You are such a great find. My Lilith is Leo in the first house. I was using the wrong one and when I corrected it that did not change. However, my partner's did. His was in Libra in the 12th before. Using the true method it's in Virgo in the 11th. He already has like 8 Virgo placements in there lol. His Lilith falls into my second house with a 6 degree orb to my Moon and a three degree orb to my North Node. I assume that would be conjunction. Mine falls into his tenth house with a seven degree orb to his North Node. I will have to look more into this. There are no opposites or squares.
Most of our planets, asteroids, and points mirror in overlays. However, his Moon and Venus fall into my 12th. It's incredibly telepathic and psychic.
Thank you so much for this, I have totally understood why my last relationship went pear shape, his sun was on my true black Lillith, exact. His name was almost Jim! hahahaha
Lillith conjunct Lucifer exact 29 degs Scorpio synastry! Seems to have an equally intense attraction and underlying fear as well! Any other thoughts on how this pans out?
What about lilith conjunct lilith ? (in cancer..? )
so wonderful! Does lilith get affected by the nodes or vertex/antivertex?
Amazing . Ur channel is a blessing to of come across. Gratitude xx
thank you, regressing i! and you are welcome.
Hey I have Pluto Venus in the 12 th !! Wow if only I could pay you to figure out my ascendant ?? I’m tired of having to guess ? I’m born august 06 1962 near Belfast Northern Ireland
What about Lilith-Lilith aspects in Synastry? 🤔
Finally I found clear for me explanation of Lilith. My husband lilith sitting on my sun and well i feel socked up and no energy( maybe because he cannot deal with his black moon. I would really love to have private conversation with you about it
Could someone explain lilith square pluto in synastry? I'm really trying to understand this onr
Chilled with lil for 20 yrs wore me down.
Oh boy! I have quite the placement! True Black Lilith, Venus, and Mars in Aries in the 10th house. What in the world could that mean about my femininity? Career? Father?
Alexandra Golovenko sex work for a career lol..
Hi Tom! Would 10 degrees be too wide of an orb for a Lilith Venus conjunction in synastry?
🌻Dude, i learn so much 💬🙏🏽thank you 🌺🧝🏽♀️🐯♍♎♏ new subscriber Yosemite California
You just explained so much for me... my partner's sun squares my BML.
So informative, thank you for sharing your knowledge with us 🙏
HI. Who feels it most ? Lilith or Planet Person? Thank you xoxo
planet
I had it with so. He was Venus and I was lilith. He was crazily obsessed with me.
I didn't know about the differece between true and mean BML, I've used Mean BML up until now. My true BML is also in Saggitarius, almost the same degree as yours, interestingly enough.
What about Lilith square Venus DW in synastry?
Thankyou, gold nuggets,by the bagful.🖤
How Juno sq Lilith in synastry manifests? By the look of it, it looks like a deal breaker in marriage? What do you say?
great explanation! do you have a cancer mars? just curious, you remind me of someone with it
Hi Mary-Anne - I have a Libra Mars, and my South Node and Midheaven are in Cancer.
Tom Jacobs, my NN 11° Cancer 4h :)
Steve Tuffill always swore I would love you, guess the timing was never quite right. Just had my Lilith return, 3rd house.
I never talked with him, but he mentioned several times doing an info-sharing collaboration, and the timing - again - wasn't quite right. He seemed to really take to this approach. Be well!
What About lillith conjunct the other persons north node.
What does that mean, how do that play out?
I have True lilith in Cancer @ 21 degree w/my Sun & Mercury(12H) conjunct my Bf's Moon @ 19 degree
His TL is in Sag @ 12 degree w/ his Sun, Mercury& S,Node(10th H).while I have Mars in Sag @ 2 degrees, With 10 degree difference can this be conjunct too?
What about house overlays? My Lilith lands in my guy's 12th house overlay.
Tucson mountains!? Do we happen to live in the same city? I would freakin die lol
Fyi this video is beyond amazing. Lilith for me is in my gemini 8th house between and conjunct both my moon and venus 👍🏻
22 min. thats me, urgh☺thanks so much for this video!
you are crazy good.
Spot on.
what is it mean if sooneones lilith in my 12th house , someone whi actually were a friend but turned out they're not
thank you i have found lilith mean and true,and i wasnt sure which one to fallow. both me and my husband are lilith in gemini true
his Lilith conjunct my Jupiter and my Lilith conjunct his Chiron
This is brilliant, thank you!
So Lilith is a bdsm primal?
What if a man's lilith trine with woman's sun??🙏🏻
I love your videos, thank you ❤
Thank you 🙏🏾
hii , i like watching ur videos u have unique information, i have true lilith in scorpio and mean lilith in saggitarius haha, anyways my english is not the best am an arabic fan😋
.. my boyfriend moon + true lilith + mean lilith is in my acsendent conucting my sun + venus + mercury .. i just wanna know if it is a positive sign cz it seem strong .. what do u think about it ?
I do Lilith how she’s meant to be done..
Thank you very much , sir.
you're welcome!
Tom Jacobs It is so refreshing to be able to tune in to someone who really and truly knows what they are talking about. Blessings to you.
My retrograde Lilith conjunct his lilith. Same with Juno. Vertex conj his asc.
What does lilith opposit juno can mean in a birth chart?
Thank you so much for instructions on the true BLM is on that site. I have many trines and a biquintile there now that its accurate. What a gift you revealed.
I love this!
what is it mean if a friend lilith in my 12th house
Ohh my I love this I need help with my lilth
How can I get a lil info on my lilith
my mean and true lilith are 1 degree apart in pisces!
Such wisdom thanks so much
WOW!
do a mars square pluto synastry
trust... amen
❤
True just sounds like the truth 😉😂
Capricorn conjunction
Dolly. Haha😆 Roxy Music song.
astrodienst yurp
Great video! Thank you :)
Hey I have Pluto Venus in the 12 th !! Wow if only I could pay you to figure out my ascendant ?? I’m tired of having to guess ? I’m born august 06 1962 near Belfast Northern Ireland
hi again--unfortunately ,i don't have the skills to do chart rectification (to confirm the ascendant degree). honestly i wish more people went into that work. i don't currently know any.