I'm a guy, and this made me love my wife even more. Sniff sniff. 😪😥😢😭🤧 My condolences to you, sister, and thank you for the reminder to love each other. Bless you well.
A man will never know how heart breaking when a women can’t give him a child. Please LOVE YOUR WIFE… she is your whole world and more… she needs you more then you ever know 😭😭😭😭😭😭🥹
Same here brother. Before i started listening to this channel. I had fell short not because I didn’t love her because we’ve been together for so long that the fire had died out no spark or anything i had stop doing alot of things for her. Had some issues but was able to refine readdress our feelings and made corrections talking one on one. Learned so much from this channel. Loving and caring more then i ever had. Every day i tell myself love her like when we first met. I will do anything to win her love for me again. Weve been together 22 years high school sweetheart. Most men will never own up. Besides all this my heart aches for you my hmong sister. Thank you for your sad story my condolences. I have learned how to love my wife and kids even more.
Bless your heart ♥️ my condolences to you and my goodness your pain and sorrow made my heart hurt for you. I’ve experienced the lost of best friend, husband and dad. My hurts aches all over again hearing your story. Sending virtual hugs 🫂 from me to you.
Thank you for sharing, such a wonderful story! Sorry to hear about the loss of your child. Cherish the 17 years of memories you shared with him. I have nothing but the best wishes for you.
My heart breaks for you sister. I’m so sorry for your loss.😢 I don’t know why we Hmong women put ourselves through this kind of heartache when we know our husbands don’t love us anymore. Sister, there are good men out there who have children and don’t want any more children who would love to have you. You deserved happiness and love. You don’t have anything left with your husband. Find peace, happiness, and love for yourself. You deserve more in this lifetime.
This story is so sad. I cried my heart out. I’m so sorry for your lost may the next life time you find a better husband and be blessed with many kids. And may you meet your son again. 🥺❤️
Nrog koj tu siab tshaj plaws li os tus niam laus aws! We lost our baby brother 13 years ago and the grief never ends. He was only 1 month away from his 18th birthday. Stay strong. He came into your life for a reason. I'm glad you got to experience unconditional love 💔🫂
I’m so sorry for your loss and all the heartache and pain you’ve been through. But listen, if you or your child has chest pains, DO NOT TAKE IT LIGHTLY!!!! You must be seen immediately!!!
My heart hurts for you😢. My husband and I have a 21 year old son, we couldn’t have kids after. Diagnosed with secondary infertility. 7 years ago we adopted a little Hmong girl through foster care and paid almost nothing out of pocket. We raised her since she was 4 months old. My husband and I are 40 now and we love our kids to much, I’m very lucky my husband has never once utter new wife, or more kids. I don’t know what the future holds but I am counting my blessings. Adoption is a beautiful thing, I would do it again. The moment your husband asked for a second wife, he already did not respect you.
My heart.. 💔 praying and wishing this lady the best and his girlfriend. Her son may be rest in peace. He was such a sweet person.. 🥺 I wish I could give them a hug.
Such a sad story. My heart ached and cried with you. So much injustice in your life. I hope and pray that you find the peace in this lifetime so next lifetime will be better.
Listening to this....reminds me of my son's death...he had respiratory arrest at the hospital too....the phone call and my reaction will be forever ingrained in my head...when I finally arrived at the hospital and saw his lifeless body on the bed, my whole body was shaking as I hugged him...and just cried and cried....how I miss him...he was my one and only baby....I was hoping he would be the one to bury me and not me bury him :-( All I have are his 7 children....my miracle babies...they remind me of him in their looks and mannerisms...RIP miv tub Vaam Meej (hugs)....
Me viv ncaus aws nrog koj tu siab thiab nrog koj hlub hlub koj tus me tub kawg os mog. Kuv nrog koj mloog koj zaj neej neeg no es kuv lub me kua muag niam ntws si nrog rau koj li thiab os. Yav tag los kuv kuj tsis muaj me nyuam nrog kuv tus txiv thiab os tabsi yom qab 9 lub xyoo es kuv hos cia li muaj lawm es kuv paub hauv koj lub siab hais tias yus tsis muaj me nyuam es tu siab npaum li cas no os. Cas es yuav tsis muaj hmoo ua luaj li os. Twb coj tau ib tug los nyob dai koj txoj sia los cas tseem yuav tso koj tseg lawm thiab es nrog koj tu tu siab los los kua muag 😢😢😢kawg li nawb. Hlub hlub ❤koj os mog es ua luaj siab loj thiab es muab xav rau txhua tus ua tsis muaj tub muaj ki li koj thiab es koj thiaj li tsis quaj quaj os mog ❤
What a beautiful soul gone too soon! May he RIP. Thank you for sharing your story but always, please everyone, always go to the emergency for chest pains. Plz don't wait until it's too late. 😭
Hlub koj os sister. Niam txojkev hlub ma loj dua ntais. Peb cov pojniam ces feem coob tsis muaj peem xwm li vim hlub tus txiv. Hos cov txiv ces, lawv twb tsis tu menyuam los tseem muaj qhov ntawv ua ib qhov excuse mus nrhiav dua tus tshiab!
A mother’s love for her child is beyond any definition! So sorry for your loss. May you find peace in remembering the love you and he had for each other 😭
May, you're such a great story teller. You understand her pain and grief 😔. This make you a perfect story teller with the empathy other TH-camrs don't.
I have one child only, too, and this is also my biggest fear. God bless you, sister. You were chosen for your son. He may not have lived a fulfilling life if you hadn’t intervene when you did to adopt him. And he was sent to show you true, unconditional love because you needed him just as much as he needed you. Stay blessed.
My heart hurts for you! I’m so sorry you have to go through the pain and suffer of losing a child. It’s a parent’s worst nightmare. I have a son myself and I can’t even imagine the pain you’re going through.
I am sorry for your loss, sister. I traveled your route, too. I adopted 3 children, and my ex left me for a younger woman who can give him his own kids. If anything happens to them, i wouldn't know what to do. May God continue to watch over you.
I don't think I have ever cried this much listening to a YT story before 😢 😢 😢 😢 To the sister of this story.....gosh, I have no words for your pain. I can't imagine. I will break. I pray that you will find some peace somehow.....someday.
Tu me viv ncau aw nrog kj tu siab rau kj lub neej kawg li ostwb yug g muaj ib tug me nyuam yog yu ntiag tug twb tu tau ib tug me tub loj2 tiav hlua ntsug lo tseem tso kj tseg lawm thiab hlub2 kj kawg li puam chawj os mog ntshe yu txoj niag hmov yeej lo li no nrog kj tu siab kawg li
Tus me viv ncaud awd kuv mas Pab hlub kom ua luaj os, tiam neej no es yus yug los tsis nrog luag muaj Tub muaj kid es koj tus txiv tseem tsis hlub koj thiab es thiaj ua rau koj mob3 tag npaum kod. I cried so.. hard for you loss, I felt so sad to listen to your story about your son. God blessed you. Viv ncaud txhob quaj2 heev thiab peb yeej hlub2 koj thiab nawb.
Nyob zoo nawb koj hai yog lawm os me Nyab ntsuab teev yus ua neeg Nyob yog tus tsi quaj ces yog neeg tsi muaj siab xwb nawb kuv mloog koj hai cov neej neeg no ma kuv nrog koj quaj li os
Niam tais aw....nrog koj hlub kawg li os...Cas yuav tsis mob siab na...kuv tus mi tub xiam thaum nws muaj 12 xyoos ntxim ntxim hlub mas kuv xajlauv 4 tsib zaug li os...cov muaj minyuam ncaim li no thiaj li tob Taub peb txoj kev mob siab xwb os...tiam no ces txog nws txhua lub hnub yug mas yus yeej tsis hnov qab li os...
I have a hard time conceiving as well and loss my oldest daughter 4 years ago. I feel your pain. I am so glad that my husband is very patience with me and now even though we are a bit older, we are going to have our 4th child. It took a long time… but we feel very blessed…
Oh yo! May, koj cov neej neeg no mas tu siab dhau lawm os! Very emotional! Tsis xav quaj los cia li nrog koj los kua muag li lawm os! Thov kom tus niam laus no muaj kev kaj siab nawb mog!
Sister aw…. Kuv nrog hlub koj thiab koj tus ne tub os mog. Ua cas kuv cia li nrog koj tu siab thiab quaj os. Mob siab tu siab uas yus tus me nyuam ro yus tseg.
Vuag cas kuv noog es kuv nis nrog quaj tib sim thiab os vim yog txoj kev hlub txoj kev tu tu tshaj plaws nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no os thov Vaajtswv txhawb koj lub zog mog
Koj tus mi tub hlub Koj tshaj tsis muaj leej twg Koj tus mi tub yuav hlub npaum li nws hlub Koj txawm nws lub cev tsis nrog Koj nyob los nws tus ntsuj tus plig yuav nyob nrog nraim Koj vim Koj yog nws Niam tus hlub nws tshaj. Tus mi viv ncaus aws nrog Koj hlub Koj tus mi tub mog 😭😭😭😭 txhob quaj quaj lawm nawb tsam Koj muaj mob es tsis muaj Koj tus mi tub ntxawg los saib xyuas Koj os tus viv ncaus aws
😭😭😭 I lost my brother when he was 16 yrs old, and even though I was so hurt and broken … I knew my mother was hurting and breaking 100 times more. Listening to your story took me back, and being a mom now to a 17 yr old boy … I can’t even imagine losing a child. My heart broke for her so many times. Wishing her a future filled with happiness. ❤❤❤
Nyob hauv qab ntuj no tag nrho txiv neej hmoob mas lub siab thiaj li txawj phem peb poj niam ces mob siab npaum twg los tua tsis Tau tus txiv pov tseg hla tsis dhau tus txiv lub taub hau Es mob npaum twg chim npaum twg los thiaj li pheej uv nyob tiv kev mob yog peb ua li txiv neej hmoob ua ces ntshe peb cov txiv twb muab hlais nyoos lawm pab koj tu siab thiab mob siab heev os me niam tsev tig los hlub koj tus kheej os mog
Ntuj aw niam lau ca kv g muaj me nyuam thiab e ca Kj tham zaj neej neeg no e tu2 siab kv niam nrog Kj quaj2 kv txoj sia niam yau zuj zu li os niam lau aw
Omg her life was so sad. I felt her son came into her life at her darkest moment to keep her going. He came into her life to show her how a man truly loves and cares for their family. Even if it was for a short time only but one day they will meet again as mother and son. Almost feel like that is my life. I was close to giving up on my marriage because my husband didn’t make me and our daughters a priority in his life. I made up my mind that I wanted to try once more for a boy so one day if my husband leaves us and I leave this world my girls will have a brother to protect and defend them. My third child is a boy and somehow after having him my husband came back into our life to try and make it work. Now tho I am like this mother who can not fully trust and depend my husband. But I have my two girls and my son with me always even if one day my husband ups and leave. My kids are my world and I do everything so that they know they are loved. A child and mothers love is unconditional and forever.
Ca kv cav hlub2 tus niam tsev no thiab os pab kj khuv xim kj tus tub tshaj kj nim cia2 siab tia kj tus txiv g hlub kj e tsuav kj tu tub lo ca nw nim mu kiag lm thiab hlub kj kawg
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Cas tus siab ua luaj... quaj tsis tau li lawm os. Tus me niam tsev es. Cas tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj li os. Nyob ntiaj teb no, tsuas muaj koj tus tub thiaj hlub koj ib leeg xwb. Cas lub ntuj tseem muab nws qee mus lawm thiab. 😭😭😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭😭cas nim tu siab ua luaj lub neej no es tsis rau leej twg ces yeej tsis paub os niam ntsuab teev hlub hlub tus niam tsev ntawv heev O kuv ces quaj quaj nrog nws nrog kj lub me suab piav tus siab sab tag li o
Cas yuav piav lub mi neej tau tusiab ua luaj li os tus viv ncaua aw. Kuv nem nrog koj quaj qauj kawg li. Mi nyuam ces nem yog yua nplooj siab. Tiam no ces tus txiv tshiab yeej nrhiav tau tab sis yus tus mi nyuam ces yeej tsis muaj hnub yuav nrhiav tau thiab hnov qab nws li os.
nrog koj tu siab thiab quaj2 mob2 siab os tus sister kuv lo twb muaj tus me ntxhais ncaim kuv mus tau 9 xyoo lawm os nws sawv ntsaim hauv kuv siab tsis ploj os hlub thiab mob siab heev li os
cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj os tus niam laus aws sim neej no es leej twg tsis muaj tub muaj ntxhais mas tu siab tiag 2 li os kuv mloog koj zaj ua rau kuv quaj tshaij li os vim kuv twb tsis muaj me nyuam thiab os es lam ua neej raws yus txoj hmoob xwb os
This is why they say that you do everything in your power to lessen the stress of children in whatever you are going through. I believe the strain in this relationship prob contributed to his passing. I know because my brother died the same way. He died of a broken heart. I feel so bad for this mother but let this be a lesson to parents out there. When you decide to turn your families lives upside down, please consider your children’s lives. RIP dear son.
I agree. I know this is just her side of the story but just thinking from the kid's view, he must feel pretty heart broken. Those vile words they throw back and forth especially the father must made him feel insignificant. Sad.
This broke my heart. I have two boys and idk what I will ever do without them. Sending you love sister. Be strong and believe that one day you will reunite with your son. ❤
😭😭😭 I'm so sorry for your loss sister. I have 4 children but only one son. I love him with all my heart and soul and I feel your pain. @May Vang you're human just like us and you hurt just as much as she does telling her story.
To the mother of this story, I am so sorry to hear your loss. It hurt my heart ❤️. I hope you will find real love. I hate hmong men when act like that and use excuses to cheat. Love yourself before you love someone else.
Don’t be sad. I’m sure that they’re some men out there would love to marry a woman that can’t bear a child nowadays. Remember that nowadays our kids don’t take care their parents anymore…as long as you have money, you will be taking care at old age…happiness is more important…😩👍🤠!!!
Tu viv ncaus awsssss ua li cas yuav hlub koj ua luaj li thiab os...koj tu txiv tsis hlub koj lo koj tu tub tseem tso koj tseg thiab....tej zaum koj tu txiv yuav niam yau ces koj tu tub nyuaj nyuaj siab thiab os...so 😔 😥 😥
Vuag pab koj tus siab heev li os tus me ni am laus aw...sim me neej no es ca lub ntuj nim cia peb tuag mus es tsi muaj hnub rov qab los li lawm os💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭
Niam laus aw txiv neej siab phem xwb os zoo Li peb no tub ntxhais muaj tag vaj tse tsheb muaj txhua ua ib tug zoo niam tsev los ua txhij lawm los luag tseem mus yuav niam tau qees thiab os es koj tsis muaj taus los xob tu tu siab os mog
Tus me niam laus aws Cas koj lub me neej yuav mus tusiab thiab txom nyem ua luaj li os. Txiv neej lub niag siab phem phem yog txiv neej muaj tsis tau me nyuam ces tus txiv nim yuam tus pojniam koj Cia li ua siab nyob zov niag txiv tab sis yog tus pojniam tsis muaj ces niag txiv mus yuav kiag lwm tus. Me niam laus aws hlub koj tus kheev os mog. Kuv nrog koj khuv xim koj tus me tub tiag tiag li os. Stay strong, and please take good care of yourself. You deserve all the best of this world.
Tu siab dhau lawm os. Ua kuv quaj2 haj yam tu siab rau kuv lub neej os. Tos yus tsis muaj me nyuam los tsis mus coj ib tug los tu twb yog lub siab xav ntau2 mas. Tu siab dhau lawm os.
Nothing hurts more than losing a child 😪 💔 only the one that go through it knows 💔 😔 😪 so sorry for your loss 🙏 for you 😢
Yes only a mother will understand how painful it is i loss my 16 year old son and not a day passed by that I don’t cry or think of him
@@monayang9720 I'm so sorry to hear that I also loss my 21 year old son 12 years ago and still cry when and think him too
I'm a guy, and this made me love my wife even more. Sniff sniff. 😪😥😢😭🤧
My condolences to you, sister, and thank you for the reminder to love each other. Bless you well.
A man will never know how heart breaking when a women can’t give him a child. Please LOVE YOUR WIFE… she is your whole world and more… she needs you more then you ever know 😭😭😭😭😭😭🥹
Same here brother. Before i started listening to this channel. I had fell short not because I didn’t love her because we’ve been together for so long that the fire had died out no spark or anything i had stop doing alot of things for her. Had some issues but was able to refine readdress our feelings and made corrections talking one on one. Learned so much from this channel. Loving and caring more then i ever had. Every day i tell myself love her like when we first met. I will do anything to win her love for me again. Weve been together 22 years high school sweetheart. Most men will never own up.
Besides all this my heart aches for you my hmong sister. Thank you for your sad story my condolences. I have learned how to love my wife and kids even more.
Bless your heart ♥️ my condolences to you and my goodness your pain and sorrow made my heart hurt for you. I’ve experienced the lost of best friend, husband and dad. My hurts aches all over again hearing your story. Sending virtual hugs 🫂 from me to you.
Oh!! The hurt of heart felt you sister!❤️ I ‘m crying with you by listening to your story! Praying for God to comforts your heart! 🤗!
Thank you for sharing, such a wonderful story! Sorry to hear about the loss of your child. Cherish the 17 years of memories you shared with him. I have nothing but the best wishes for you.
My heart breaks for you sister. I’m so sorry for your loss.😢
I don’t know why we Hmong women put ourselves through this kind of heartache when we know our husbands don’t love us anymore.
Sister, there are good men out there who have children and don’t want any more children who would love to have you. You deserved happiness and love. You don’t have anything left with your husband. Find peace, happiness, and love for yourself. You deserve more in this lifetime.
This story is so sad. I cried my heart out. I’m so sorry for your lost may the next life time you find a better husband and be blessed with many kids. And may you meet your son again. 🥺❤️
Nrog koj tu siab tshaj plaws li os tus niam laus aws! We lost our baby brother 13 years ago and the grief never ends. He was only 1 month away from his 18th birthday. Stay strong. He came into your life for a reason. I'm glad you got to experience unconditional love 💔🫂
I’m so sorry for your loss and all the heartache and pain you’ve been through. But listen, if you or your child has chest pains, DO NOT TAKE IT LIGHTLY!!!! You must be seen immediately!!!
Nrog koj tu siab kawg li o sister it's so sad I can't stop my tearing thanks for sharing your story sister.
My heart hurts for you😢. My husband and I have a 21 year old son, we couldn’t have kids after. Diagnosed with secondary infertility. 7 years ago we adopted a little Hmong girl through foster care and paid almost nothing out of pocket. We raised her since she was 4 months old. My husband and I are 40 now and we love our kids to much, I’m very lucky my husband has never once utter new wife, or more kids. I don’t know what the future holds but I am counting my blessings. Adoption is a beautiful thing, I would do it again. The moment your husband asked for a second wife, he already did not respect you.
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Any pointers on how or where to find hmong children for adoption?
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My heart.. 💔 praying and wishing this lady the best and his girlfriend. Her son may be rest in peace. He was such a sweet person.. 🥺 I wish I could give them a hug.
Such a sad story. My heart ached and cried with you. So much injustice in your life. I hope and pray that you find the peace in this lifetime so next lifetime will be better.
Listening to this....reminds me of my son's death...he had respiratory arrest at the hospital too....the phone call and my reaction will be forever ingrained in my head...when I finally arrived at the hospital and saw his lifeless body on the bed, my whole body was shaking as I hugged him...and just cried and cried....how I miss him...he was my one and only baby....I was hoping he would be the one to bury me and not me bury him :-( All I have are his 7 children....my miracle babies...they remind me of him in their looks and mannerisms...RIP miv tub Vaam Meej (hugs)....
Me viv ncaus aws nrog koj tu siab thiab nrog koj hlub hlub koj tus me tub kawg os mog. Kuv nrog koj mloog koj zaj neej neeg no es kuv lub me kua muag niam ntws si nrog rau koj li thiab os. Yav tag los kuv kuj tsis muaj me nyuam nrog kuv tus txiv thiab os tabsi yom qab 9 lub xyoo es kuv hos cia li muaj lawm es kuv paub hauv koj lub siab hais tias yus tsis muaj me nyuam es tu siab npaum li cas no os. Cas es yuav tsis muaj hmoo ua luaj li os. Twb coj tau ib tug los nyob dai koj txoj sia los cas tseem yuav tso koj tseg lawm thiab es nrog koj tu tu siab los los kua muag 😢😢😢kawg li nawb. Hlub hlub ❤koj os mog es ua luaj siab loj thiab es muab xav rau txhua tus ua tsis muaj tub muaj ki li koj thiab es koj thiaj li tsis quaj quaj os mog ❤
Tu siab li o ntuj eh me viv ncaus aw cas koj zaj neej neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj li o hlub koj dhua li os mog
😢 just want to give this lady a hug😭
Such a heart breaking story. Sending hugs and love to the person of this story. I hope you know that you are stronger than you know.
What a beautiful soul gone too soon! May he RIP. Thank you for sharing your story but always, please everyone, always go to the emergency for chest pains. Plz don't wait until it's too late. 😭
Hlub koj os sister. Niam txojkev hlub ma loj dua ntais. Peb cov pojniam ces feem coob tsis muaj peem xwm li vim hlub tus txiv. Hos cov txiv ces, lawv twb tsis tu menyuam los tseem muaj qhov ntawv ua ib qhov excuse mus nrhiav dua tus tshiab!
Nrog koj tus siab heev os. Tug niam laus aws.
A mother’s love for her child is beyond any definition! So sorry for your loss. May you find peace in remembering the love you and he had for each other 😭
May, you're such a great story teller. You understand her pain and grief 😔. This make you a perfect story teller with the empathy other TH-camrs don't.
nrog kj tu siab heev li o txhob quaj nawb thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov 6 kj o
I have one child only, too, and this is also my biggest fear.
God bless you, sister. You were chosen for your son. He may not have lived a fulfilling life if you hadn’t intervene when you did to adopt him. And he was sent to show you true, unconditional love because you needed him just as much as he needed you. Stay blessed.
A Yang - I only had one child as well. I couldn't conceive after him. He was my life :-(
What a sad 😭😭 and the pain this mom went through 😭😢. It's so sad that the only person in this world who loves her left. L
I'm so sorry for your lost.. to the sister of the story. 🥺🥺 thanks for sharing your story. And thank you MAY for telling it.
My heart hurts for you! I’m so sorry you have to go through the pain and suffer of losing a child. It’s a parent’s worst nightmare. I have a son myself and I can’t even imagine the pain you’re going through.
Niam ntsuab teev koj cov neej neeg kuv mloog g dhuav li
I am sorry for your loss, sister. I traveled your route, too. I adopted 3 children, and my ex left me for a younger woman who can give him his own kids. If anything happens to them, i wouldn't know what to do. May God continue to watch over you.
I don't think I have ever cried this much listening to a YT story before 😢 😢 😢 😢
To the sister of this story.....gosh, I have no words for your pain. I can't imagine. I will break. I pray that you will find some peace somehow.....someday.
Tu me viv ncau aw nrog kj tu siab rau kj lub neej kawg li ostwb yug g muaj ib tug me nyuam yog yu ntiag tug twb tu tau ib tug me tub loj2 tiav hlua ntsug lo tseem tso kj tseg lawm thiab hlub2 kj kawg li puam chawj os mog ntshe yu txoj niag hmov yeej lo li no nrog kj tu siab kawg li
Tus me viv ncaud awd kuv mas Pab hlub kom ua luaj os, tiam neej no es yus yug los tsis nrog luag muaj Tub muaj kid es koj tus txiv tseem tsis hlub koj thiab es thiaj ua rau koj mob3 tag npaum kod. I cried so.. hard for you loss, I felt so sad to listen to your story about your son. God blessed you. Viv ncaud txhob quaj2 heev thiab peb yeej hlub2 koj thiab nawb.
Nyob zoo nawb koj hai yog lawm os me Nyab ntsuab teev yus ua neeg Nyob yog tus tsi quaj ces yog neeg tsi muaj siab xwb nawb kuv mloog koj hai cov neej neeg no ma kuv nrog koj quaj li os
Niam tais aw....nrog koj hlub kawg li os...Cas yuav tsis mob siab na...kuv tus mi tub xiam thaum nws muaj 12 xyoos ntxim ntxim hlub mas kuv xajlauv 4 tsib zaug li os...cov muaj minyuam ncaim li no thiaj li tob Taub peb txoj kev mob siab xwb os...tiam no ces txog nws txhua lub hnub yug mas yus yeej tsis hnov qab li os...
I have a hard time conceiving as well and loss my oldest daughter 4 years ago. I feel your pain. I am so glad that my husband is very patience with me and now even though we are a bit older, we are going to have our 4th child. It took a long time… but we feel very blessed…
Oh yo! May, koj cov neej neeg no mas tu siab dhau lawm os! Very emotional! Tsis xav quaj los cia li nrog koj los kua muag li lawm os! Thov kom tus niam laus no muaj kev kaj siab nawb mog!
Kj zaj no tu siab heev li os me viv ncau hlub kj heev
tus viv ncaus aw kuv mloog koj lub neej txaus tu siab kawg nawb mog txawm li cas los ua siab loj nawb mog
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab tshaj plaws txhua zaj kv hnov
Sister aw…. Kuv nrog hlub koj thiab koj tus ne tub os mog. Ua cas kuv cia li nrog koj tu siab thiab quaj os. Mob siab tu siab uas yus tus me nyuam ro yus tseg.
Tos peb cov txiv neej pheej muaj qhov yuav niam yau thiab tham hluas nkauj los yeeb vim muaj cov poj niam siab dev zoo li koj los mas tus niam tsev aw
Vuag cas kuv noog es kuv nis nrog quaj tib sim thiab os vim yog txoj kev hlub txoj kev tu tu tshaj plaws nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no os thov Vaajtswv txhawb koj lub zog mog
Ua nej zaj neej neeg no mas tu siab kawg li os Yom
Koj tus mi tub hlub Koj tshaj tsis muaj leej twg Koj tus mi tub yuav hlub npaum li nws hlub Koj txawm nws lub cev tsis nrog Koj nyob los nws tus ntsuj tus plig yuav nyob nrog nraim Koj vim Koj yog nws Niam tus hlub nws tshaj. Tus mi viv ncaus aws nrog Koj hlub Koj tus mi tub mog 😭😭😭😭 txhob quaj quaj lawm nawb tsam Koj muaj mob es tsis muaj Koj tus mi tub ntxawg los saib xyuas Koj os tus viv ncaus aws
Tu niam tsev aw... Ca kj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj li os kuv mloog ce kuv lub kua muag lo2 kawg nkaus li thiab os pab hlub kj heev li nawb
Oh my!!! I just want to hug you. I'm crying with you.
😭😭😭 I lost my brother when he was 16 yrs old, and even though I was so hurt and broken … I knew my mother was hurting and breaking 100 times more. Listening to your story took me back, and being a mom now to a 17 yr old boy … I can’t even imagine losing a child. My heart broke for her so many times. Wishing her a future filled with happiness. ❤❤❤
I'm so sorry for you lost too sister. No matter how hard it is, we must be strong for ourselves and others that we care about.
Kj yog ib tus niem tsev zoo heev!
Txob tu siab os mog,thov kom kj tsuag tau zoo mus rau yav laus
Nyob hauv qab ntuj no tag nrho txiv neej hmoob mas lub siab thiaj li txawj phem peb poj niam ces mob siab npaum twg los tua tsis Tau tus txiv pov tseg hla tsis dhau tus txiv lub taub hau Es mob npaum twg chim npaum twg los thiaj li pheej uv nyob tiv kev mob yog peb ua li txiv neej hmoob ua ces ntshe peb cov txiv twb muab hlais nyoos lawm pab koj tu siab thiab mob siab heev os me niam tsev tig los hlub koj tus kheej os mog
Ntuj aw niam lau ca kv g muaj me nyuam thiab e ca Kj tham zaj neej neeg no e tu2 siab kv niam nrog Kj quaj2 kv txoj sia niam yau zuj zu li os niam lau aw
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Ua cas zaj neej neeg no hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os..nrog tug niam tsev no tu siab tshaj li os. 😢
Hlub koj thiab koj tus mi tub heev os mi viv ncaus aw….
Omg her life was so sad. I felt her son came into her life at her darkest moment to keep her going. He came into her life to show her how a man truly loves and cares for their family. Even if it was for a short time only but one day they will meet again as mother and son.
Almost feel like that is my life. I was close to giving up on my marriage because my husband didn’t make me and our daughters a priority in his life. I made up my mind that I wanted to try once more for a boy so one day if my husband leaves us and I leave this world my girls will have a brother to protect and defend them. My third child is a boy and somehow after having him my husband came back into our life to try and make it work. Now tho I am like this mother who can not fully trust and depend my husband. But I have my two girls and my son with me always even if one day my husband ups and leave. My kids are my world and I do everything so that they know they are loved. A child and mothers love is unconditional and forever.
Pab hlub koj thiab koj tus tub kawg li os me niam tsev aw
Nrog koj hlub thiab khuv xim kawg li thiab hlub neb khub me niam txiv kawg thiab os tab sis xav hais rau peb cov muaj me nyuam tias yog tej me nyuam nyiam leej twg hlub leej twg lawm los yuav tau cia lawv xaiv es lawv thiaj tsis mob mob siab nawj
Ca kv cav hlub2 tus niam tsev no thiab os pab kj khuv xim kj tus tub tshaj kj nim cia2 siab tia kj tus txiv g hlub kj e tsuav kj tu tub lo ca nw nim mu kiag lm thiab hlub kj kawg
Ca kj twb lwj siab txaus nkauv lawm ca tseem txwv Kom nw lwj siab thiab na
Sister live the life your son would have wanted to see you live. Rediscover yourself and find your happiness.
Cas yuav hlub koj ua luaj os tus me viv ncaus aw!!!😭😭😭😭😭
Cas peb yuav hlub koj ua luaj me viv ncaus tos lwm tiam mam rov yug dua os mog .
So sad and it make me cry alot...omg.
Zaj dab neeg ntawm no Tus niam lau ntawm NWS xav li kuv thiab ua rau kuv rov qab nco nco txog kuv Tus niam lau Tus me ntxhai kawg li 😭😭
Cas tu siab ua luaj os hmoob aw
Kv quaj vim kj zaj dab neeg no tu siab dhau li lawm os niam laus aw
Hlub2 koj heev li os Tu niam tsev os thiab nrog koj Tu siab heev os😭😭😭😭😭
😭 So sorry to hear about your baby. May the Lord comfort you and take away your sadness.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Cas tus siab ua luaj... quaj tsis tau li lawm os. Tus me niam tsev es. Cas tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj li os. Nyob ntiaj teb no, tsuas muaj koj tus tub thiaj hlub koj ib leeg xwb. Cas lub ntuj tseem muab nws qee mus lawm thiab. 😭😭😭😭😭
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li hlub koj o tus me viv ncaus😭😭😭
My heart aches for you and your loss. When we lose someone we love we must learn not to live without them, but to live with the love they left behind.
tu siab kawg li os.thov vaj tswv txhawb koj lub zog os mog
😭😭😭😭😭cas nim tu siab ua luaj lub neej no es tsis rau leej twg ces yeej tsis paub os niam ntsuab teev hlub hlub tus niam tsev ntawv heev O kuv ces quaj quaj nrog nws nrog kj lub me suab piav tus siab sab tag li o
tuj tuj Siab os ,😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭
Hlub hlub koj tshaj li os me niam tsev aw.
Từ sb hv li o
Oh my heart. 😢😢
Tus niam tais aw kv nim nrog kj quaj quaj kawg os lov , ua siab loj nawb mog ua ib leej niam ces yeej hlub yus tej me nyuam kawg li os
Cas yuav piav lub mi neej tau tusiab ua luaj li os tus viv ncaua aw. Kuv nem nrog koj quaj qauj kawg li. Mi nyuam ces nem yog yua nplooj siab. Tiam no ces tus txiv tshiab yeej nrhiav tau tab sis yus tus mi nyuam ces yeej tsis muaj hnub yuav nrhiav tau thiab hnov qab nws li os.
Tu siab ua luaj li 😭😭😭😭
nrog koj tu siab thiab quaj2 mob2 siab os tus sister kuv lo twb muaj tus me ntxhais ncaim kuv mus tau 9 xyoo lawm os nws sawv ntsaim hauv kuv siab tsis ploj os hlub thiab mob siab heev li os
Thank you for sharing. I cry listening. May he rip. You are worthy of love. Remember, that when your son was alive, he reminded you always.
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cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj os tus niam laus aws sim neej no es leej twg tsis muaj tub muaj ntxhais mas tu siab tiag 2 li os kuv mloog koj zaj ua rau kuv quaj tshaij li os vim kuv twb tsis muaj me nyuam thiab os es lam ua neej raws yus txoj hmoob xwb os
This is why they say that you do everything in your power to lessen the stress of children in whatever you are going through. I believe the strain in this relationship prob contributed to his passing. I know because my brother died the same way. He died of a broken heart. I feel so bad for this mother but let this be a lesson to parents out there. When you decide to turn your families lives upside down, please consider your children’s lives. RIP dear son.
I agree. I know this is just her side of the story but just thinking from the kid's view, he must feel pretty heart broken. Those vile words they throw back and forth especially the father must made him feel insignificant. Sad.
Kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg no es kuv quaj quaj ua tsis taus hauj lwm li os.
This broke my heart. I have two boys and idk what I will ever do without them. Sending you love sister. Be strong and believe that one day you will reunite with your son. ❤
😭😭😭 I'm so sorry for your loss sister. I have 4 children but only one son. I love him with all my heart and soul and I feel your pain. @May Vang you're human just like us and you hurt just as much as she does telling her story.
To the mother of this story, I am so sorry to hear your loss. It hurt my heart ❤️. I hope you will find real love. I hate hmong men when act like that and use excuses to cheat. Love yourself before you love someone else.
Don’t be sad. I’m sure that they’re some men out there would love to marry a woman that can’t bear a child nowadays. Remember that nowadays our kids don’t take care their parents anymore…as long as you have money, you will be taking care at old age…happiness is more important…😩👍🤠!!!
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj na tu me niam tsev kv thov koj muaj hmoo Lwm tiam nawb mog kv thiaj g tau nro kj quaj lawm o
This story very very hurt my heart so much 💔 😢 😭 💔 😭 😭 😭 😭 💔
Nrog koj tu siab thiab khuvxim kawg. Koj tus txiv yog ib tus jerk, niag txiv dev xwb. Nws tsuas xav txog nws tus kheej thiab txoj kev zoo nyob xwb. Koj cov muam los ntxim ntxub tshaj. Muaj ib hnub koj cov muam yuav tau taug koj txoj kev lwjsiab. Lawv nyob rau lub tebchaws tsis vam meej mas hajyam yuav raug txoj niag kev yuav niam hlob niam yau.
Hlub koj os mog😭😭❤️💞
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Tu viv ncaus awsssss ua li cas yuav hlub koj ua luaj li thiab os...koj tu txiv tsis hlub koj lo koj tu tub tseem tso koj tseg thiab....tej zaum koj tu txiv yuav niam yau ces koj tu tub nyuaj nyuaj siab thiab os...so 😔 😥 😥
Vuag pab koj tus siab heev li os tus me ni am laus aw...sim me neej no es ca lub ntuj nim cia peb tuag mus es tsi muaj hnub rov qab los li lawm os💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭
Niam laus aw txiv neej siab phem xwb os zoo Li peb no tub ntxhais muaj tag vaj tse tsheb muaj txhua ua ib tug zoo niam tsev los ua txhij lawm los luag tseem mus yuav niam tau qees thiab os es koj tsis muaj taus los xob tu tu siab os mog
Tus me niam laus aws Cas koj lub me neej yuav mus tusiab thiab txom nyem ua luaj li os. Txiv neej lub niag siab phem phem yog txiv neej muaj tsis tau me nyuam ces tus txiv nim yuam tus pojniam koj Cia li ua siab nyob zov niag txiv tab sis yog tus pojniam tsis muaj ces niag txiv mus yuav kiag lwm tus. Me niam laus aws hlub koj tus kheev os mog. Kuv nrog koj khuv xim koj tus me tub tiag tiag li os. Stay strong, and please take good care of yourself. You deserve all the best of this world.
Tu siab dhau lawm os. Ua kuv quaj2 haj yam tu siab rau kuv lub neej os. Tos yus tsis muaj me nyuam los tsis mus coj ib tug los tu twb yog lub siab xav ntau2 mas. Tu siab dhau lawm os.