Great story and a learning experience to take from. I am a guy who has not marry yet but this story will make me learn how to love my parents even more.
I don’t understand what this OG want us to feel for him. Sad or happy? I don’t feel sad for him at all. Why is he feel jealous? He got what he always wanted. He got a second wife and live his life with his wife and his new kids. What is wrong with this OG. No feeling at for his OG
The audacity of this dad! You don’t deserve love from your daughters. Remember that a “son is a son, until he gets a wife. A daughter is a daughter for life!”
@@kellielee9829 Those are the sons who wear a skirt in his marriage. The sons who actually are the head of his household will make sure to treat both parents fairly for special occasions.
Another story to teach us that Hmoob men are terrible role models. Hmoob Clan leaders are providing us guidance to follow and lead by good examples, but they can't live up to their own standards. As I get older, I'm starting to understand that our elders are the biggest hypocrites.
Wow koj cov ntxhais mam ua tau ntxim siab tshaj plaws li. Ua cas koj tseem muaj ntshej muag hais tias koj tu siab koj cov ntxhais dab tsi!!!!! Koj twb yeej tsis tau HLUB!!!! Koj cov ntxhais li na!!!!! Nrog koj tu siab kawg li nawb.
This father still don’t love his daughters but envy the love the daughters give to his first wife have only. He lucky his daughter have compassion to love him now. Hopefully this kinda of bias ends with our older generations of Hmong men.
Koj ua txiv tau kev nlub nmo ntuj luwm ces koj tus poj niam tau kev nlub ntuab nmub luwm koj tau kev zoo siab txob tu siab mog kojtxoj yog txoj zoo heev li
@@xuelao778 so you expect your daughters to still love you when you careless and aren’t there for them 😂 everyone have their own opinion on this situation. I don’t expect anything from anyone for what I’ve done for them but if you expect something for doing nothing for me, don’t help me 😜🤭
Don’t expect love in return when you didn’t love them or their mother from the get-go. This is a good lesson for all parents who favor sons over daughters.
😁 Zoo Kawg, tia nos koj hlub luag li cas, ces lawm hlub koj li ntawd. Rau rau siab hlub niam yaus thiab koj cov tub nawb. Koj cov life insurance puas muaj koj cov ntxhais npe, yog tsi pub sib luag rau laws tag nhro ces txhob paub paub tu siab....
I'm just glad to be hearing more of these stories. The fact that our fathers are learning these life lessons b4 they die. That they learned this n are able to share their stories n pass it onto others. I hope more learn from these stories
Kv nima tsi muaj tub li thiab os kv niam ntshaw2 ib tug tub lo ua kv niam noj niaj hnb no nyb lub neej lwj2 siab vim mloog tej kwv tej tij hai e nim muab peb cov ntxhai no seeb hlo tawm ntawm lub neej. Kv niam kv txiv tej liaj tej teb nim tsi pub rau peb cov ntxhai e hnub no kj cov kwv tej ca lawv ho ua kj tu tu siab os kv niam. Kv xav kom kj paub tia peb yg ntxhai lo peb yeej hlub2 kj kawg kv hlub kj os kv niam
Niag raum aw. Txhob tu siab os. Koj twb tau qhov koj tshaw lawm ne. Koj tus niam loj twb tsis tau koj txoj kev hlub ne. Koj twb nrog koj tus niam yau xwb ne. Npam xwb os. Tsis txhob tu tu siab os tus yawv txiv es.
Kj tia kj tu siab tab si kj poj niam thiab kj cov ntxhais lawv tseem tu siab tshaj kj Os vim kj twb tau niam yau los puag lawm ho kj poj niam nws tsuas tau kev hlub los ntawm cov ntxhais xwb twb tsis tau kj li kev hlub ne ua neeg nyob ces leej twg los yeej ntshaw kv hlub los ntawm tus txij nkawm thiab e thiaj li puv 100% o
Thaub laus koj tu siab dab tsi nawj koj twb tau qhov koj xav2 tau lawm nev zaum no koj twb tau qhov chaw tuag lawm ces zoo siab twj ywm xwb cov ntxhais ntawd lawv tsis muaj nuj nqes rau koj lawv txawm yuav hlu koj thiab tsis hlub los nyob nawm lawv xav ua kuv thov pab koj tu siab tias ua cas koj cov ntxhais tsis hlub koj thiab li ntawd mas pauj tsis tau txoj kev koj tsis hlub lawv. You deserve it old man
Txhob tu siab os tus kwv tij aw Kom koj muab xav tias zoo li tus lag luam es thaum lawv pib lawv twb Kom yus nrog lawv tso nyiaj yus twb tsis kam ces thaum lawv tau paj los yeej tsis kam faib rau yus ib yam thiab ua neeg nyob ces yus li cas rau luag ces yus tsuas tau txais li ntawv xwb os tsis txhob tu siab rau leej twg yuav tau tu siab rau yus tus kheej xwb os.
Lub ntuj tso koj cov tubs rau koj ua Kab npam vim koj Txoj kev phem ntshaw tubs . Karma is real! On the bright side, I’m glad you see , know now and learned the hard way. GL to you.
Tiam tshiab no, cov ntxhais tig mus ua tub ho cov tub tig mus ua nyab lawm os. Txhob cem cem thiab thuam thuam cov ntxhais nawb. Thaum kawg, cov ntxhais yuav yog cov thiaj hlub tau lawv niam lawv txiv os.
Mej cov ua txiv tsi tsim nyog tu sab nawb mej tsuas nrog Mej tsi txawj ua txiv tej mivnyuas tsi has leejtwg cov le cov leejtwg txiv yeej coj zoo tuab yaam nkaug mej txhaj tsi tau mivnyuas txuj kev hlub
Dev laus koj puas xav tias cov ntxhais tu siab rau koj npaum li cas……niam loj tu siab npaum li cas…….dev laus ko tseem tu siab thiab,,,,,,khib koj kawg yom……tsis tsimnyog los kuamuag nawv vim yus limhiam rau niam loj cov ntxhais
Thaub Tsi txhob tu siab koj hlub luag li cas ces koj tau txais kev hlub li ntawm xwb os koj Tsi hlub lawv kiag lawv hlub koj li ko ces twb yog hmoov hwv os
I don't get Hmong men.. Why is it that the men are the one marrying so many wives and hurt his 1st wife and kids but every time they "ua neeg" they always say that the man is "tu siab".. just tells you how big of a cry baby a man is..smh Have a txiv tseg ever ua neeg for his wife and see how heart broken she is?
Tus me yawm txiv aw txhob tu siab ma tos koj cov vauv yog neeg txawj hlub neeg los vim lawv muaj zoo niam zoo txiv qhuab qhia thiab muab kev hlub zoo rau lawv ne vim koj tsis txawj ua txiv es koj thiaj tu siab rau yav laus li no os
Txhob tu siab os twb tau niam yau lawm os koj nrog niam yau koj siav thiaj loj os koj niam loj ces koj siav me2 li os tau kev hlub li ko lo twb yog hmoov kawg lawm os mus zov yus cov tub xwb ma
cov txiv ua tu niam yug tau ntxhai xwb pheej mu tham hlua nkauj e yuav dua ib tug mas siab phem tshaj li cas ho paub tu siab nas hlub li cas tau li ntawv xwb
Luag tej tub tos hlub niam pog txiv yawg, hlub niam tais los vim luag niam luag txiv txawj qhuab qhia luag ua neej li koj tus niam loj qhia nws cov ntxhais mus ua lawv lub neej. Koj li tos koj pab tub tsis hlub koj los vim koj tsis txawj qhuab qhia lawv ne. Koj pab tub tsis hlub koj los txaus txaus siab tias koj tau koj txoj kev ntshaw.
Txhob tu siab mg tu me yawm txiv aw kv lo kuj yog ib tug me ntxhai lo ntawm kv txiv tu niam loj thiab o kv hlub kv niam ntau dua kv txiv thiab o vim kv txiv tsim txom kv niam thaum kv tseem me yau lo lawm kv thiaj xav ib yam li kj cov ntxhai thiab o txhob tu siab mg tim yu xwb o mg
Txiv neej tsis yog ntshaw tub thiaj yuav niam yau qhov tseeb yog ntshaw qov hauv xwb thaum hluas ces tsawg qhov los xav kom tau sim tsawg qhov los xav kom tau ua tos koj cov ntxhais tsis hlub koj los tsim nyog lawm siab phem ntuj thiaj lem
Faj cov lus no mus rau tus txiv tsev tshaw tub los yog tshwj xeeb tshaj rau cov niam cov txiv uas saib tub siab siab es ho saib ntxhais qis qis pheej xav hais tias tub yog cov yuav nqa yus lub taub hau thiab yuav faus yus no nawb😂tiam 21 no tub ntxhais los zoo tib yam xwb vim luag muaj luv fais thauj thiab faus xwb es txhob ruam ruam hlub kom sib npaug es tej tub tej ntxhais thiaj tsis tu siab rau nej no os mog tej niam tej txiv
Ua ib leej txiv coj tsis ncaj ces twb yog koj Pab ntxhais thiaj li hlub koj li no ces yog hmoov nyiaj hmoov kub lawm os mog. Nrog koj Ua niam zoo siab tias koj Txawj yug kawg li os mog
Tus txiv tsev koj los lus hais tias kom koj tus niam loj txhob tusiab no ce yog lam hais lawm xwb vim qhov tusiab twb tu tag lawm ne...thim tsis tau lig dhau lawm tus yuav tusiab ces yog koj es yeejmeem tu tusiab kom txog hnub tuag xwb os...
This story teaches us to show and teach our kids how to love. Not just tell but lead by example. If you expect your children to be present, be authentic, and be kind, learn to be that.
These OG still the carry the mentality that boy is inferior to girl, that is so in the past. Hmong men most definitely needed to Chang, otherwise their regret will definitely follow this grandpa’s footsteps.
I'm glad some of these older generations are beginning to realize that daughters are just as important as sons. Too bad it took this long for this father to realize that.
The entitlement that this man has. Your daughters, don't have to love you because you didn't love them. You are lucky they even bother. You did this to yourself.
I don’t get these OG they leave there first wife because they want sons and stop loving there kids and expect love and respect from the kids they left. Stop blaming your kids and blame yourself.
I am so proud of your daughters for loving their mother. As for you, your daughters had no value to you, it's why you married a second wife. You even admitted it yourself so why do expect love from them? You are a selfish person. It doesn't matter if you are their dad. They are not obligated to love you if you have never love them. It's easy for a man to give a woman a baby but takes a whole village to raise a child. You want love, tell your sons. I do not feel sorry for you.
To the guys listening to this story, please don't be an idiot like this man. I'm sure if we all combined all the tears from all his daughters from the first wife, they would make many Mekong and Amazon rivers. This man was great in making babies but horrible as a parent and forgot to live by the golden rule of treating others like how you want to be treated. He got what he wanted through his actions and mistreatment of his daughters. I'm surprised they are very forgiving and still treat him as their father. Probably the older generation but definitely not now.
Sons or daughters, we are the same here in America. In America, it is how you teach their hearts is how good they become to you. Back in the days girls abilities were limited because they were dependent on their husbands for a way of living. Now that we are in a land that flourishes, girls can shine better. They have always been like that just put down due to traditions.
Tub tsis muaj nuj nqis lawm txhob yug coob2 lawm os. Tiam 21 no ces Tub poob peev loj tshaj plaws li lawm yog Paub ua ntej tias yog Tub no ces coj mus flash hauv toilet yuav zoo dua lawm ma
Koj cov ntxhais siab zoo li koj tus niam loj ho koj cov tub siab zoo kiag li koj mas brother
Great story and a learning experience to take from. I am a guy who has not marry yet but this story will make me learn how to love my parents even more.
I don’t understand what this OG want us to feel for him. Sad or happy? I don’t feel sad for him at all. Why is he feel jealous? He got what he always wanted. He got a second wife and live his life with his wife and his new kids. What is wrong with this OG. No feeling at for his OG
The only thing I feel for this old man is...PITY!!! I pity him for the fool that he made himself into.
I just roll my eyes!!
He even complained about the girls didn’t take him and his wife to vacation with their mom 😊😅
@Gaosay Vu Right! Oh the audacity of this old man.
What a loser this guy is. U not there when they needed you the most. Freaking make me made.
The audacity of this dad! You don’t deserve love from your daughters. Remember that a “son is a son, until he gets a wife. A daughter is a daughter for life!”
Yep! Once the son is married he will turn to his wife side of the family and only if she allow it he can love his family.
@@kellielee9829 Those are the sons who wear a skirt in his marriage. The sons who actually are the head of his household will make sure to treat both parents fairly for special occasions.
@@PM-oe5mk Exactly, well said. A true man will lead with his head not with his penis.....
Another story to teach us that Hmoob men are terrible role models. Hmoob Clan leaders are providing us guidance to follow and lead by good examples, but they can't live up to their own standards. As I get older, I'm starting to understand that our elders are the biggest hypocrites.
Wow koj cov ntxhais mam ua tau ntxim siab tshaj plaws li. Ua cas koj tseem muaj ntshej muag hais tias koj tu siab koj cov ntxhais dab tsi!!!!! Koj twb yeej tsis tau HLUB!!!! Koj cov ntxhais li na!!!!! Nrog koj tu siab kawg li nawb.
This father still don’t love his daughters but envy the love the daughters give to his first wife have only. He lucky his daughter have compassion to love him now. Hopefully this kinda of bias ends with our older generations of Hmong men.
Typical Hmong men thinking. You said it yourself you don’t love your daughters. Now you know how it feels to not be loved. It’s call karma!
Tus txiv neej twg yog yuav niam yau lawm ces txhais tau hais tias tus txiv Zam hais tias niam loj tuag lawm.
Good to hear this man’s story. Hmong men need to love their wife and children as their first priority.
Koj ua txiv tau kev nlub nmo ntuj luwm ces koj tus poj niam tau kev nlub ntuab nmub luwm koj tau kev zoo siab txob tu siab mog kojtxoj yog txoj zoo heev li
You can not expect your daughters you don’t care about to treat you the same as the person who always cared for them.. smh
Tusneeg zoo likojces tsistsim nyoghlub
@@xuelao778 so you expect your daughters to still love you when you careless and aren’t there for them 😂 everyone have their own opinion on this situation. I don’t expect anything from anyone for what I’ve done for them but if you expect something for doing nothing for me, don’t help me 😜🤭
Don’t expect love in return when you didn’t love them or their mother from the get-go. This is a good lesson for all parents who favor sons over daughters.
Tu siab tshaj plaws rau lub neej uas peb yug los yuam kev yog ntxhais hmoob os
Neeg siab phem li koj tseem xav tau kev hlub thiab
Don't expect love from your daughters if you don't love them. Daughters will always love their parents more than sons.
He only realized that when he didn’t received any love from the girls. Too late.
Not all daughters love their parents more than sons. My brother love my parents more.
I love my parents more than my sisters
U get ? U have done
@@Lisa_X5 ďdďdďď
😁 Zoo Kawg, tia nos koj hlub luag li cas, ces lawm hlub koj li ntawd. Rau rau siab hlub niam yaus thiab koj cov tub nawb. Koj cov life insurance puas muaj koj cov ntxhais npe, yog tsi pub sib luag rau laws tag nhro ces txhob paub paub tu siab....
Son or daughter, its about how your raise your kids. Granted, daughters will love thier parents more than the boys.
Leej txiv Nov yog ib niag neeg tsi muaj lub siab zoo koj yog ib leej txiv tsi zoo
Nkauj hmoob hais tau zoo heev tsis tag li tseem zoo nkauj ntxim hlub tiag li
Yus tsis hlub yus tej ntxhais ces tsis txhob vam2 lawv txoj kev hlub yav laus.
Yg mas cov neeg yuav niam yau ces twb tsi muaj nqi rau niam loj cov niam tub lm thaub kj tsi tsim nyog yuam niam loj cov ntxhai hlub koj niam yau neb li nb
I'm just glad to be hearing more of these stories. The fact that our fathers are learning these life lessons b4 they die. That they learned this n are able to share their stories n pass it onto others. I hope more learn from these stories
Kv nima tsi muaj tub li thiab os kv niam ntshaw2 ib tug tub lo ua kv niam noj niaj hnb no nyb lub neej lwj2 siab vim mloog tej kwv tej tij hai e nim muab peb cov ntxhai no seeb hlo tawm ntawm lub neej. Kv niam kv txiv tej liaj tej teb nim tsi pub rau peb cov ntxhai e hnub no kj cov kwv tej ca lawv ho ua kj tu tu siab os kv niam. Kv xav kom kj paub tia peb yg ntxhai lo peb yeej hlub2 kj kawg kv hlub kj os kv niam
Niag raum aw. Txhob tu siab os. Koj twb tau qhov koj tshaw lawm ne. Koj tus niam loj twb tsis tau koj txoj kev hlub ne. Koj twb nrog koj tus niam yau xwb ne. Npam xwb os. Tsis txhob tu tu siab os tus yawv txiv es.
Thaub thaum koj cov ntxhai me koj twb tsi hlub lawv nas, cas niam no koj ho txawj tu siab thiab
Wow txhob Tu siab os, yus hlub lawv li cas ces lawv thiaj hlub yus li ntawd xwb os mog.
Kj tia kj tu siab tab si kj poj niam thiab kj cov ntxhais lawv tseem tu siab tshaj kj Os vim kj twb tau niam yau los puag lawm ho kj poj niam nws tsuas tau kev hlub los ntawm cov ntxhais xwb twb tsis tau kj li kev hlub ne ua neeg nyob ces leej twg los yeej ntshaw kv hlub los ntawm tus txij nkawm thiab e thiaj li puv 100% o
Thaub laus koj tu siab dab tsi nawj koj twb tau qhov koj xav2 tau lawm nev zaum no koj twb tau qhov chaw tuag lawm ces zoo siab twj ywm xwb cov ntxhais ntawd lawv tsis muaj nuj nqes rau koj lawv txawm yuav hlu koj thiab tsis hlub los nyob nawm lawv xav ua kuv thov pab koj tu siab tias ua cas koj cov ntxhais tsis hlub koj thiab li ntawd mas pauj tsis tau txoj kev koj tsis hlub lawv. You deserve it old man
Txiv neej ces nej tsis qhia lo poj niam yeej paub kawg...yog nej yuav niam yau lawm niam loj nej yeej tsis hlub lawm
All children are special either boys or girls. Love them indiscriminately.
Txhob tu siab os tus kwv tij aw Kom koj muab xav tias zoo li tus lag luam es thaum lawv pib lawv twb Kom yus nrog lawv tso nyiaj yus twb tsis kam ces thaum lawv tau paj los yeej tsis kam faib rau yus ib yam thiab ua neeg nyob ces yus li cas rau luag ces yus tsuas tau txais li ntawv xwb os tsis txhob tu siab rau leej twg yuav tau tu siab rau yus tus kheej xwb os.
Lub ntuj tso koj cov tubs rau koj ua Kab npam vim koj Txoj kev phem ntshaw tubs . Karma is real!
On the bright side, I’m glad you see , know now and learned the hard way. GL to you.
Mhoog tag xwb ces kuv kua muag lo2 li os tu2 siab li os yog koj yog ib tu yug lo nyob lub neej ntxhais coob2 li kv thiab😢😔
Koj yeej tsis txawj ua txiv zoo rau Koj tus niam loj thiab cov ntxhais ces Koj tsuas tau kev hlub me me ntawm lawv xwb los twb zoo kawg lawm.
This is a man trying to give the daughters guilt trips 🙄🙄🙄🙄...you get what you sow...remember that!!!
Tiam tshiab no, cov ntxhais tig mus ua tub ho cov tub tig mus ua nyab lawm os. Txhob cem cem thiab thuam thuam cov ntxhais nawb. Thaum kawg, cov ntxhais yuav yog cov thiaj hlub tau lawv niam lawv txiv os.
Yes I thing so
Thaub laus aw.... koj lub siab lim hiam dhau lub ntuj lawm es koj tseem yuav kom koj cov me nyuam hlub koj na. Txaj muag tshaj lau
Mej cov ua txiv tsi tsim nyog tu sab nawb mej tsuas nrog Mej tsi txawj ua txiv tej mivnyuas tsi has leejtwg cov le cov leejtwg txiv yeej coj zoo tuab yaam nkaug mej txhaj tsi tau mivnyuas txuj kev hlub
How can you be jealous when you did NOTHING for your daughters! You deserved everything in return. Hurts doesn’t it.
Dev laus koj puas xav tias cov ntxhais tu siab rau koj npaum li cas……niam loj tu siab npaum li cas…….dev laus ko tseem tu siab thiab,,,,,,khib koj kawg yom……tsis tsimnyog los kuamuag nawv vim yus limhiam rau niam loj cov ntxhais
Yus tws tsis hlub es tseem muaj nsteg muag los piav dag neeg hais tias tus siab. Muas xim tiag tiag. Peeee!! Ntxim ntxu ua luas.
Koj cov ntxais ua yog lawm nawb
Thaub Tsi txhob tu siab koj hlub luag li cas ces koj tau txais kev hlub li ntawm xwb os koj Tsi hlub lawv kiag lawv hlub koj li ko ces twb yog hmoov hwv os
Ua cas es kuv tsis feel sorry rau koj li ne….thov Vajtswv sam txim rau kuv thiab os.
I don't get Hmong men..
Why is it that the men are the one marrying so many wives and hurt his 1st wife and kids but every time they "ua neeg" they always say that the man is "tu siab".. just tells you how big of a cry baby a man is..smh
Have a txiv tseg ever ua neeg for his wife and see how heart broken she is?
Tus me yawm txiv aw txhob tu siab ma tos koj cov vauv yog neeg txawj hlub neeg los vim lawv muaj zoo niam zoo txiv qhuab qhia thiab muab kev hlub zoo rau lawv ne vim koj tsis txawj ua txiv es koj thiaj tu siab rau yav laus li no os
Leej twg muaj tub coob txhob zoo 2 siab tiam 21 no txhai thiaj hlub
Moral of the story: 1) Don't cheat. 2) Don't be sexist. 3) Love all your kids equally.
Hlub niam yau kom txog hnub tuag mas txawm tsis tau noj tau hnav los txob tus siab
Koj tsuas muab txoj sia rau lawv xwb Koj twb tsis hlub lawv ne ces txawm lawv tsis hlub koj los tsis txhob tu siab. You get what you give.
Hnub koj yua niam yau ces menyuam kev hlub tu lawm.
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In this country both sons and daughters can burry their parents! I'm glad my father loves all of his children the same regardless.
Txhob tu siab os twb tau niam yau lawm os koj nrog niam yau koj siav thiaj loj os koj niam loj ces koj siav me2 li os tau kev hlub li ko lo twb yog hmoov kawg lawm os mus zov yus cov tub xwb ma
cov txiv ua tu niam yug tau ntxhai xwb pheej mu tham hlua nkauj e yuav dua ib tug mas siab phem tshaj li cas ho paub tu siab nas hlub li cas tau li ntawv xwb
Luag tej tub tos hlub niam pog txiv yawg, hlub niam tais los vim luag niam luag txiv txawj qhuab qhia luag ua neej li koj tus niam loj qhia nws cov ntxhais mus ua lawv lub neej.
Koj li tos koj pab tub tsis hlub koj los vim koj tsis txawj qhuab qhia lawv ne.
Koj pab tub tsis hlub koj los txaus txaus siab tias koj tau koj txoj kev ntshaw.
Great takeaway for fathers who look down upon their daughters. 😂🤣😂 Mother hit the jackpot, not dad. Hahaha...
Txiv neej hmoob poob qab Deb heev caum tsis txog poj niam hmoob
Twg kom koj tsis hlub cov ntxhais thiaj tsis tau saw kub ntag.
Something is better than nothing.
Zoo li koj ntshaw khoom pliag kawg thiab laiv yom txim yus tsis hlub lawv niam nes ces txhob complain mo
Txhob tu siab mg tu me yawm txiv aw kv lo kuj yog ib tug me ntxhai lo ntawm kv txiv tu niam loj thiab o kv hlub kv niam ntau dua kv txiv thiab o vim kv txiv tsim txom kv niam thaum kv tseem me yau lo lawm kv thiaj xav ib yam li kj cov ntxhai thiab o txhob tu siab mg tim yu xwb o mg
My husband and i only have a daughter and she completes us 💌
Hahaha tuag tsis tuag saib ntxhais tsis muaj nqis os tuag tsis tuag.zoo li koj ko tseem txawj tu siab thiab ntuj os ntuj aw.
Ua neej nyob koj twb tsis hlub Luag es Luag yuav ua cas hlub koj na thaub aw
Ua ca txog nub no koj ho paub quaj thiab os yom. Thaum yug tsim cov ntxhais mas yeej tsi xav txog tias yuav muaj nub no li
Cov menyuam no mas ua yog tshaj li os. Yus kav tsij hlub hlub yus niam xwb nawb!
Txiv neej tsis yog ntshaw tub thiaj yuav niam yau qhov tseeb yog ntshaw qov hauv xwb thaum hluas ces tsawg qhov los xav kom tau sim tsawg qhov los xav kom tau ua tos koj cov ntxhais tsis hlub koj los tsim nyog lawm siab phem ntuj thiaj lem
Faj cov lus no mus rau tus txiv tsev tshaw tub los yog tshwj xeeb tshaj rau cov niam cov txiv uas saib tub siab siab es ho saib ntxhais qis qis pheej xav hais tias tub yog cov yuav nqa yus lub taub hau thiab yuav faus yus no nawb😂tiam 21 no tub ntxhais los zoo tib yam xwb vim luag muaj luv fais thauj thiab faus xwb es txhob ruam ruam hlub kom sib npaug es tej tub tej ntxhais thiaj tsis tu siab rau nej no os mog tej niam tej txiv
Ua ib leej txiv coj tsis ncaj ces twb yog koj Pab ntxhais thiaj li hlub koj li no ces yog hmoov nyiaj hmoov kub lawm os mog. Nrog koj Ua niam zoo siab tias koj Txawj yug kawg li os mog
This OG got what he wanted, his sons.
Lwm hnub seb neb pab puas hlub niam loj li niam pab hlub neb os. Es no koj twb tsi yuav lawv hlub koj ned tsi yog lov.
Tus txiv tsev koj los lus hais tias kom koj tus niam loj txhob tusiab no ce yog lam hais lawm xwb vim qhov tusiab twb tu tag lawm ne...thim tsis tau lig dhau lawm tus yuav tusiab ces yog koj es yeejmeem tu tusiab kom txog hnub tuag xwb os...
This story teaches us to show and teach our kids how to love. Not just tell but lead by example. If you expect your children to be present, be authentic, and be kind, learn to be that.
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Amen!! When your kids don’t love you, it’s usually because you never taught them to.
These OG still the carry the mentality that boy is inferior to girl, that is so in the past. Hmong men most definitely needed to Chang, otherwise their regret will definitely follow this grandpa’s footsteps.
I'm glad some of these older generations are beginning to realize that daughters are just as important as sons. Too bad it took this long for this father to realize that.
Cov neeg ruam ces coj li ko tiag ces thiaj li tau txais kev hlub ki ko xwb cov neeg ntse ces hlub tub ntxhais sib npaug zog ces tau kev hlub puv npo
The entitlement that this man has. Your daughters, don't have to love you because you didn't love them. You are lucky they even bother. You did this to yourself.
Koj ua txiv koj twb tsis hlub koj cov ntxhais ib qhov hlo li es muaj ib leej ib puav rau koj es yog zoo heev lawm os Tus txiv tsev
Nco ntsoov tias yug tau lawm tub ntxhais yeej hlub ib yam
Me me me is all I hear. Selfish!!!!
I don’t get these OG they leave there first wife because they want sons and stop loving there kids and expect love and respect from the kids they left. Stop blaming your kids and blame yourself.
Koj cov tub tsis yog tub hlub koj vim koj tsis txawj ua txiv. Koj tsis hlub ncaj ncees thiaj tsis muaj tus hwm koj. Koj yog ib tug neeg siab phem.....hlub koj tus kheej xwb! Hnub no koj mam tutu siab tabsis luag twb tu siab ib tiam lawm! Neeg phem li koj tsis tsim nyog hlub!
Xajmaim tam sim no ntxhais hlub niam tais yawm txiv dua lawm. Ntej teb hloov zuj zus lawm.
Tus txiv ntxawm,, xav tau li koj g tau lig nawb mog, zoo heev uas koj tseem xav tau es tig rov los ua ib tug txiv dua
Niag neeg hmoov ge cais yog koj ntag ,
Koj cais npam lawd
Xav txog twb lig 2 lawm os mog thaub Kay's aw
Pab koj tiab su
I am so proud of your daughters for loving their mother. As for you, your daughters had no value to you, it's why you married a second wife. You even admitted it yourself so why do expect love from them? You are a selfish person. It doesn't matter if you are their dad. They are not obligated to love you if you have never love them. It's easy for a man to give a woman a baby but takes a whole village to raise a child. You
want love, tell your sons. I do not feel sorry for you.
nim npov2 tub nub no tseem tu siab tug tsw koj yog tug phem tsw hlub yug tej me nyuam ua ntej nub no luag hlub tsw tau koj xwj as
Why oh Why do you expect Love & Care from your daughters that you've abandoned and not loved?!!! Please live and learn from your past mistakes...
To the guys listening to this story, please don't be an idiot like this man. I'm sure if we all combined all the tears from all his daughters from the first wife, they would make many Mekong and Amazon rivers. This man was great in making babies but horrible as a parent and forgot to live by the golden rule of treating others like how you want to be treated. He got what he wanted through his actions and mistreatment of his daughters. I'm surprised they are very forgiving and still treat him as their father. Probably the older generation but definitely not now.
Tus txiv tsev, koj ib txwm tsis hlub thiab cia siab rau koj cov ntxhais. Koj yuav niam yau twb vim yog koj poj niam yug tau lawv yog cov ntxhais xwb. Koj tsis muaj cai tu siab rau lawv vim koj twb tsis tau ua ib leej txiv rau lawv. Yus tsuas tau kev hlub li yus muab rau lawv xwb es txhob tu siab nawb.
Yog mas cov neeg siab phem txhb ntshaw22 os
TU siab dab g Yu Twb g hlb ne
Sons or daughters, we are the same here in America. In America, it is how you teach their hearts is how good they become to you. Back in the days girls abilities were limited because they were dependent on their husbands for a way of living. Now that we are in a land that flourishes, girls can shine better. They have always been like that just put down due to traditions.
Ab koj ces yuam qhuav ntxim xwb qhov koj tsis tau txais kev hlub los ntawm koj pab ntxhais. koj twb tsis hlub lawv thaum lub hauv paus na. koj hlub niam yau pab xwb ne.
Xob tu siab mog me phooj Ywg, Tim yus tus kheej xwb vim yus tsi hlub Lawv. Es Koj Puas paub Tswv Yexus nab
Koj tau khoom plig raws li koj hlub lawv xwb os
Do good and you shall receive good.
Tub tsis muaj nuj nqis lawm txhob yug coob2 lawm os. Tiam 21 no ces Tub poob peev loj tshaj plaws li lawm yog Paub ua ntej tias yog Tub no ces coj mus flash hauv toilet yuav zoo dua lawm ma
Koj twb tsis hlub koj cov ntxhais es koj tu siab ua dab tsi? You get out what you put in.
Because you honor your sons too much they think they’re kings. They are just learning what you taught them.
Why do you feel bad for yourself, mister? You get what you give!