PASTOR ACCUSED WIFE OF PROSTTUTION || Justice Court EP 165

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  • @RhemaWorld-sq3re
    @RhemaWorld-sq3re 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    Poverty is a bastard, even at that he stood his ground to stay and love the children without running away like the mother did eleven years. Does anyone know this man, I want to be a blessing to him

    • @precious_orim
      @precious_orim 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You can contact the court for his information 🙂

    • @empressannjam1
      @empressannjam1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He is a pastor and should do better

    • @samuelarhewe4553
      @samuelarhewe4553 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      i have seen him couple of times in my area as am also staying within that iba and igando axis.. immediately as i started watching this even before he stated where he resides i told my wife and children that i know this man some where around... no issues whenever i come across him i will relate it to him and find a way to link you guys..or better still if you can get his contact from the court it will be good if they can release it to you.... cheers

    • @gideonmiracle7462
      @gideonmiracle7462 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      God bless

    • @One_Mrmoney
      @One_Mrmoney 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      This judge sounds biased, she's so concerned about her bonding with the children not even considering if they will be safe with her....My woman abandoned 2 kids with me years back, a boy and girl and my daughter was the oldest at just 4 years old, last month March 2024 she came back to claim them and my daughter is 16 now while the boy is 13...she took me to the police and lied that i beat her up every time she come to see the children that is why she has not been visiting, this is someone i haven't set my eyes on for almost 12 years,she bribe the police lady that was in charge of the case to locked me up just so she could go with the children, thank goodness my son refuse to go but she went with my daughter till date I don't know where they are...fear women.

  • @Silverphilips
    @Silverphilips ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Madam Judge Funmi, You have wisdoms, I've been following you for a long time now, all your resolves gives me joy and I always appreciate you in every video how you manage Pple and their cases.
    Well-done Ma.

    • @veraaya26
      @veraaya26 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I too love her I swear

  • @TheMezidon2008
    @TheMezidon2008 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Kudos to the man !!!!, he is a true father figure. We are proud of u. May God give u more strength and success in all u do. Fatherhood is proud of u

  • @Okwash1
    @Okwash1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the judge.....She very motherly and wise. Respect! Sending love from Kenya.

  • @ogbonnanwabueze5592
    @ogbonnanwabueze5592 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    It's obvious that the children have been detached from this woman for years and it's going to take a lot of her effort to win them back to herself

  • @dblacconstructionservices4420
    @dblacconstructionservices4420 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    This is the first time I'm seeing judge Fumi not telling the raw truth like telling the woman her wrongs instead of petting her for her wrong behavior over the years. After 11years she now realizes she wants to be a part of their education and the judge is saying to the man that "you're even a pastor". So because he's a pastor, he should be happy that he has a disloyal woman as a wife who left him and the kids for over a decade. Abuja men don finish you remain shafts, now you remember your children. I'm disappointed judge Fumi and I hope she won't corrupt the 19years old daughter to become like her.

    • @dave75now
      @dave75now ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I agree with you. Judge Funmi did not address the woman truthfully, she is clearly taking sides. If it’s the other way round I know her she won’t be this mild. She is still kind of accusing the Pastor after all the woman has done. Thank God the children are there to corroborate the man’s story. I pray God will bless the man to take care of his kids.

    • @dblacconstructionservices4420
      @dblacconstructionservices4420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dave75now Biggest Amen! God really needs to bless him with speed.

    • @MenaUK
      @MenaUK ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@dave75nowI don’t think she is taking sides. Like she said she wouldn’t go into their complaints, past and all. She is only interested in the children bonding with their mother. Every child needs their mother and father and two wrongs don’t make a right. They are both at fault including her family but the man should know better as a Pastor even more than the woman who is not.

    • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
      @WazirinJosnEnvirons ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I like it when men step up and defend their families. Some women don't understand that when you choose family, that is your primary assignment, NOT the job! Any job that separates you from your family has long-term consequences. It is not a popular reality, but it is a FACT.

    • @leviernest3496
      @leviernest3496 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@MenaUKIf it were to be the other way round, would you have said this??

  • @ucukaoma4551
    @ucukaoma4551 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    WOW!
    The harm some parents do to their own offspring: heartbreaking 💔 💔💔

  • @adebayoolufemi2074
    @adebayoolufemi2074 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I cried seeing this video.
    Children are always the ones suffering from the issues. 😢😢

    • @yakeeporn9618
      @yakeeporn9618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I cried to this woman is at fault😊

    • @jw1913
      @jw1913 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not only children in this case that man suffered a lot and the woman sufferings is warming up

    • @aminusikiru2799
      @aminusikiru2799 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I just couldn't hold mine when their daughter busted into tears.

    • @amyzeldigitalstv
      @amyzeldigitalstv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @prosperogidi322
    @prosperogidi322 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It is always better to hear both sides of the story.

  • @nwububrichard8470
    @nwububrichard8470 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I LOVE the Judge way of handling cases 😊😊😊. It's beautiful ❤❤

    • @bosemusa6414
      @bosemusa6414 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very observant and intelligent

    • @asabekee3878
      @asabekee3878 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @pierrejobanus5134
    @pierrejobanus5134 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The girl is traumatized and the woman is very much unconcerned about the welfare of her children. All of them need some form of psycho-social attention.

  • @DabbyMuyunda-sh2kl
    @DabbyMuyunda-sh2kl ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Advice was clear from the judge, don't take sides

  • @emmanuelakande8263
    @emmanuelakande8263 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    May we no choose wrongly in life. The woman just used the man and dumped him. Men dey suffer o..hmmm..

    • @3Csstitches
      @3Csstitches ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did she use the man pls?

    • @MichealPeter-d2e
      @MichealPeter-d2e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@3Csstitchesshe left Lagos for Abuja to live her life to the fullest.
      Kissing another man in front of her kids, is that wise to you?
      Are you deaf and dumb that you can't hear what her daughter says, or your blind also.
      Birds of a feather.

  • @nnamdiezeh1733
    @nnamdiezeh1733 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The mother needs someone to councel her, she's also hurting but ready to reconcile with her child

  • @prosperogidi322
    @prosperogidi322 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There was NO I Mean NO Connection emotionally from the Mother. I felt so sorry for the young Lady. The mother think is by giving Money that will bring the kids to her Lane.

  • @BlessingEkerete-z6u
    @BlessingEkerete-z6u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Broken marriage is like urban war children always the victim. not even a sweet words from mom after eleven years. So sad

  • @toyinbello2534
    @toyinbello2534 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The judge is doing a great work in the court hearing 🙏❤️

  • @nourishbmercy2148
    @nourishbmercy2148 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Character is like smoke; it cannot be hidden. Her reaction towards her daughter during her outburst says it all.

    • @ZoeyBe
      @ZoeyBe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      not everyone is emotional..lol african woman... my mum is not emotional but i know she loves us alll

  • @drtrishmd
    @drtrishmd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my first time watching this. I admire Judge Funmi ‘s very calm and dispassionate demeanour. More grace Ma

  • @collinsekeneonyekachi9270
    @collinsekeneonyekachi9270 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This judgement can never force this girl to bond with her mum considering how traumatised she sounded. The mother appeared less bordered by her daughter's outburst. Madam, that you bore her in your womb is no longer a reason for her to embrace you if you had abandoned them for 11yrs.
    The girl has come to an age where her feelings are defined & justified; and her age and decision backed by law (no longer a minor).
    There has to be sincere apologies, total change of attitude from the mother and a display of genuine love to her children to win their affection back.
    Court judgement can not enforce that, even if you rule for her to have access to them.

    • @RhemaWorld-sq3re
      @RhemaWorld-sq3re 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No child can forcefully bond with an unrepentant and loving mother or father. She need to first of all repent, apologize and amend her ways especially on how she treat her kids. True love birth positive feeling so does hate and maltreatment birth negative feelings and hate.
      If the woman need her kids trust me she knows what to do, the judge should not force bonding between the woman and her kids if it can't come through submissiveness and repentance from their mother.
      For me I will ask the woman what she really want because all I could gather from her is that she want to be part of her kids education like some kind of investor so that could have a say in their future. I expect true mother not able to hold it together when she saw a daughter she left 11 years ago in tears but also break down into tears too and run to her daughter

    • @elijahifeanyichukwu2251
      @elijahifeanyichukwu2251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omoh dis woman if she get opportunity,she go turn d heart of d child to hers ,some women ehh, wen dey tear eye ,dey scatter tins , forgetting GOD

    • @elijahifeanyichukwu2251
      @elijahifeanyichukwu2251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@RhemaWorld-sq3reyesssoooo ,dat js true repentance oooo

    • @roseonyeka9535
      @roseonyeka9535 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The pastor ought to show example.

    • @user-bj8oi4xq5x
      @user-bj8oi4xq5x 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So sad it's never easy for couples to stay apart, the problems are enormous

  • @amyzeldigitalstv
    @amyzeldigitalstv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Broken marriage is an evil and devastating influence on innocent children. I am really emotional about this case. May God heal the kids and resolve the case.

  • @adeolaadelugba8314
    @adeolaadelugba8314 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    When men and women feel entitled to being fathers and mothers because they’re biologically responsible, they forget underlying responsibilities. For someone trying to get her children back after many years, she’s not ready…especially with the reply she gave her crying child. I doubt she’ll ever get there with the children. She needs to be more empathetic.

    • @HarmonyGrate-bn6uc
      @HarmonyGrate-bn6uc ปีที่แล้ว +5

      After she too may have been emotionally and physically abused by her own parents....Africa is a jungle, we are cruel even to our offspring.
      Parents are also people dealing with childhood trauma as well.

    • @dblacconstructionservices4420
      @dblacconstructionservices4420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @alfredsamson6428
      @alfredsamson6428 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you can see that she is heartless (mother) but I don't just like the way lawyer funmi pampered the evil woman because she is not ready to change

  • @akinwumiakindahunsi7254
    @akinwumiakindahunsi7254 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dunno how this judge can be rated on competence! Why does the guy have to pay more (fare to Ikeja as opposed to Egbeda) for multiple children to see a mother they don't want to see.

    • @praisea.olanrewaju5758
      @praisea.olanrewaju5758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're right though, she should have been made to pay all the expenses for abandoning her children, but the judge is trying to be fare considering the woman is coming all the way from Abuja to Lagos. I know the man is also thinking how to raise transport fare to Egbeda since he's financially down for now.

    • @ifeomadorisdivine373
      @ifeomadorisdivine373 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You guys are failing to understand that all that matters here is healing and wholeness. Those kids will never be functional adults if they hold onto the fact that their mum abandoned them. They may grow up and treat their offspring that way. The man can't be a saint in all of this because his speech is full of bitterness with a sprinkle of resentment... He shouldn't add fuel to a burning fire... Marriage no be by force, if a foolish woman "abandons her kids and kids for prostitution" 😂😂 😂😂 I laugh her because her end will be terrible. As far as I am concerned, those kids come first before any other thing in life especially the female child. I don't understand why they agreed she should be apart 11 years ago when that girl was just 8 years old. Anything could have happened, what if she was sexually assaulted... Me I don't know ohhhh but I wish I knew the full story... If the woman actually wanted to have those kids, she should have complained about this custody a long time ago ... The 19 years old is detached already and I don't blame her because she went through the most important part of her life without her mother.... but should still be encouraged to heal and bond with the mother if possible... But if the mother is actually a bad person, then so be it... It's her path...
      I also know as a fact that sometimes, the parent with custody manipulates and exaggerate facts to gain more trust or make the kids hate the absent parent. But a wise parent will understand that such attitude only gives temporary relief but on the long run, their will always be a void in the life of those kids...
      I wish the family all the best and I hope they give feedback to the judge...

    • @MathsMadeeasy-if3yv
      @MathsMadeeasy-if3yv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ifeomadorisdivine373you having to put blame on the man in this issue means you aren't different from the said woman

  • @UsefulHerbsDrOlowofoyekuPhD
    @UsefulHerbsDrOlowofoyekuPhD ปีที่แล้ว +175

    It was quite obvious that the children are scared of her and emotionally detached from her. Also I’m inclined to believe the man because of the daughter’s reaction. A normal mother on seeing her daughter for the first time in 11yrs would have run to her and embraced her…. My heart broke for her when she burst out crying
    I think the court should offer them some psychological counseling on how to mend their daughter-mother relationship so they can move forward

    • @obanibimonifelix4531
      @obanibimonifelix4531 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You have written very intelligently Ma, women stop being attracted to men's pocket it's not worth it.

    • @quincyquinnilmanjem5088
      @quincyquinnilmanjem5088 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the children will never never i repeat forget this period and this will have terrible consequences on their mother in future.she sacrificed her children for big di.ks.what a shame.

    • @beverleytheglobalcaregiverforu
      @beverleytheglobalcaregiverforu ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This man 😢a pastor too.Stop it people he had no right to prevent her access to her children for 11 years. Unless there's physical,verbal and emotional abuse.This man is evil and should be sued in court for kidnapping and psychological trauma. Come on let's stop this barbaric treatment of our sisters daughters and women in general.

    • @gracechika9176
      @gracechika9176 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@beverleytheglobalcaregiverforuI totally disagree with you, 11 years is a very long time to prevent a ‘graduate’ from seeing her own children, she definitely knew what to do but she deliberately refused to do it with the hope that she can always blame her husband for denying her access!! Even her attitude when she finally saw her daughter after 11 whole years confirms my argument.

    • @jinxtacks6589
      @jinxtacks6589 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      ​@@beverleytheglobalcaregiverforu how can he have prevented her from seeing her kids with even all the social media available... Why do you people see truth and choose to support evil all because of feminism? You can go and sue him na since you know better than the woman who knows abandoned her kids until they are grown up

  • @atokeajibola6786
    @atokeajibola6786 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you so much ma. for this judgement and advice to the girl to stay away from adult fight. thank you ma

  • @osas3857
    @osas3857 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    I think African parents should learn how to be more compassionate. The era of i carried you for 9 months has passed. If u can't say i love you, at least say i am sorry...

    • @lovethamadin8538
      @lovethamadin8538 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      It's a shame that a mother who is supposed to be loving is asking her daughter "what" why looking at her.
      She even has the guts to say " and you grow up in my womb" as though the child asked to be born by her.
      The nonsense attitude of SOME mothers is so sickening.

    • @damybalogun7709
      @damybalogun7709 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      African mothers ehnnn.....that short scene at the end just speaks it all....African parents need to start looking at themselves....they are letting the offsprings down

    • @bukolaajayi3381
      @bukolaajayi3381 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      All I see is that the father has poisoned the children's mind against their mother, the scene that happened in d court room now means things have gone wrong behind the scene, may b the girl looked at her mother somehow, we were not there don't take side, see the way the man was talking for the girl, mind u the father will have prepared the girl well knowing well that they were going to court.

    • @eagledove7077
      @eagledove7077 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bukolaajayi3381 mother's love conquers All children's misbehaviours and hatred...

    • @osas3857
      @osas3857 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@bukolaajayi3381 oga abi madam, this ur theory no follow? U didn't hear the mum's response? Your mother didn't leave u for 11 years, so u wont understand.

  • @ferdinandwhyte2810
    @ferdinandwhyte2810 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    D facial expression of this man mother inlaw says alot.. D girl cry tear me up.. May God restore peace in this family Amen

  • @lenyusoft9244
    @lenyusoft9244 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    omg this woman in the best judge
    God bless you Ma'am

  • @folakeomowumi7164
    @folakeomowumi7164 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I pray to God to restore the home Amen

    • @omoayi
      @omoayi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      which home?

  • @miriamajah2848
    @miriamajah2848 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this judge is very intelligent. she knows how to focus on the ISSUES FOR DETERMINATION... despite all other preliminary issues that may come up.

  • @12rounda42
    @12rounda42 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When a woman thinks her career is more important than her matrimonial home, she turned wayward at the long run, now she is feeling alone without her grown up kids,

    • @nwannemka.ofodileofodile1974
      @nwannemka.ofodileofodile1974 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nonesense

    • @anthoniankiruka7513
      @anthoniankiruka7513 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      lol! always threaten by a career woman. she should not pursue her career because she is a married woman? rubbish.

    • @murtalamuhammed9972
      @murtalamuhammed9972 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even the career was not come out well as she expected

    • @cassiusmukungule6590
      @cassiusmukungule6590 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is very lonely

    • @IsraelShaibu
      @IsraelShaibu หลายเดือนก่อน

      I pray you don't minor on the major and major on the minor in your life. People like you will get to know in the end.​@@anthoniankiruka7513

  • @berthaiwuchukwu5617
    @berthaiwuchukwu5617 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The woman is not responsible. She left the marriage thinking she will get married to another man who has money and maybe have other kids but it did not workout as she planned and she than remembered she has kids. It does not work like that. Even her mother is not a good mother.

    • @dblacconstructionservices4420
      @dblacconstructionservices4420 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you and well said

    • @queeniduaye726
      @queeniduaye726 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just look at the face of her mother from behind... she doesn't care 🙁

    • @sharonpaul4740
      @sharonpaul4740 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please I need contact, can someone help me

  • @Queenethsdairy.
    @Queenethsdairy. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried when that young girl started crying. Parents should be careful because the children are always at the receiving end.

  • @agnesalbarka5366
    @agnesalbarka5366 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This episode made me emtotional... But which mother abandons her children for this long and expect a hug from them? Children dont forget these things. She now wants a hug from them claiming carrying them for 9 months when you refused to show them love? This is sad

  • @paulastrose7615
    @paulastrose7615 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Not all women are to be mothers .
    I felt sorry for the daughter brought tears to my eyes .

  • @emmanuelchukwu5260
    @emmanuelchukwu5260 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "go and hug your mum" the judge was wrong. Period!!!

    • @MichealPeter-d2e
      @MichealPeter-d2e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very wrong, but I'm not surprised because she's a woman

  • @suntanglory
    @suntanglory ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am actually surprised judge Fumi was so quick to allow her access to the children that easily,maybe because she's a woman as well? From the few words the daughter said,it is clear the wife is not fit to be a mother,she is just going to hurt the children more if cares is not taken..

    • @TrimTalesChannel
      @TrimTalesChannel ปีที่แล้ว +4

      First time I'm going to disagree with Judge Funmi, do you Know what it takes for a man to 3children all by himself

    • @Guzmies
      @Guzmies ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly ehn

    • @dblacconstructionservices4420
      @dblacconstructionservices4420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Judge Funmi no try! That woman may likely corrupt the girl with time if allowed to bond with her without first subjecting them to a counselor especially that woman.

    • @Guzmies
      @Guzmies ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That bond end with that piece of paper,the daughter will not go,who wan bond with such mum?
      From her body language i can tell she did all that was said about her!

    • @alanrake3045
      @alanrake3045 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't give a fuck what the woman does, the children has already been brainwashed by the father. Only God knows what this woman must've been through. We should not quick to judge, she's a nice woman my own opinion. And the children are not supposed to take side. I pray God intervene and resolve their differences, so the children won't have problem in the future. Funny enough, the man is even a pastor already. Can't even forgive your wife even if their not going to be together anymore. I am highly disappointed in the father 😢😢

  • @sbuzugbe24
    @sbuzugbe24 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well-done. You nailed it and the difference is clear. The African girl cannot confide in her mum next time. But for the other one, she will be happy anytime to learn more from the mum.

  • @obarumobarugitv
    @obarumobarugitv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most people especially women often forget the hard beginning and the love and care showered on them by their husband once they began earn some change, by then the sanctity of her marriage is broken

  • @Man-Diesel
    @Man-Diesel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Kudos to the man.
    I was waiting to hear from the girl and her confession settles it.
    That woman is heartless

  • @rhodium.
    @rhodium. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Though I am not a lawyer, but it is clear to me that the Judge is been sentimental and taking sides in this case. Anyway, there is room for improvement. Well done ma.

  • @aaa-pp
    @aaa-pp ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's not wise for the daughter to be in the court while the parents state their claim. They could've called her in later.

    • @stevetan5373
      @stevetan5373 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She's an adult already

    • @ericata7350
      @ericata7350 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% accepted

    • @Oghene_Million
      @Oghene_Million ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s an adult,if not in court as stated,she can also get the video online..

  • @alfredsamson6428
    @alfredsamson6428 ปีที่แล้ว

    pastor uche be consoled God will sanctify you abundantly with unmerited grace and favor

  • @wordpressguy8893
    @wordpressguy8893 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🌷⚘🌱🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌷⚘⚘⚘
    In italian we say __complicazione__ **marriage is so complicated**
    Note to the Pastor: pls keep your children away from the issue(s) with your wife. Anyone can tell that the girl has been brainwashed by their dad. Pls sir, keep your children out from such conspiracy. My mum did same to me and my late elder sister 25 yrs. Today, as the only surviving son; i choose to distant myself from both (my mum and dad) children are not personal access like land that you can drag in order to get a bigger portion.
    Pastor's are suppose to counsel couple whose marriages are going towards the wrong directions.
    **Just concern about how the children will interpret these drama within the next 10-15 years**
    **Pastor, pls, stop reducing your wife in the presence of the children** Some day these children might hold you accountable for every false accusations!
    🌷⚘🌱🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌷⚘⚘⚘
    **Grazie a Judge Funmi**
    --wordpresguy-- from Rome

    • @adeyemiadeleye5428
      @adeyemiadeleye5428 ปีที่แล้ว

      Weldone sir, our Italian friend 😊

    • @thatgooglegirlomolola4959
      @thatgooglegirlomolola4959 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think I agree with you to some extent.
      Every human being wants to tell a story of perfection. The FATHER and MOTHER forget they both play the role in building up the home/family.
      They all need to disagree to agree.
      UNFORGIVENESS and EGO started the journey of separation.
      Never to late to change!!!
      I believe that the children still need them

  • @OJ-TECHTRADE
    @OJ-TECHTRADE 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tears just Dropped......youth please let learn to stop

  • @rasaq147
    @rasaq147 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I always tell men to stop sending their spouse to school but themselves. Most of the time it doesn’t end well.

    • @tneita3166
      @tneita3166 ปีที่แล้ว

      radag, there is that,,, 🎉,.

    • @Abieyuwa_entertainment
      @Abieyuwa_entertainment 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If the man dey go school weitin they go chop during the school time. I run a fashion business and i am a university graduate and my wife is. But at some point i paid for her to go to school for her masters because she didn't have a stable job and her income was very low so i was the bread winner and sent her to enhance herself academically. The man might be in a similar situation.

  • @ericross1261
    @ericross1261 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is a partial judge, well to put it mildly she is absolutely partial in this case and try every way possible to push the blame on this thoughtful man and his innocent daughter that have felt so abandoned and neglected by her mother. This gentle man i never knew his name until the wife says he insisted in coming to see her new place first before releasing the children. Then I say to my self that sounds like what an Igbo man would do and lo and behold i was right . We might not be the best husband and can be controlling which i believe is very necessary yes but we just do not abandon our children.

  • @franciscaadereti8245
    @franciscaadereti8245 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is very emotional 😭😭😭, what sort of mother is this? Do you think money is everything?

    • @UK-sm4co
      @UK-sm4co ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very strange mother I must confess

    • @judeedu1991
      @judeedu1991 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank so much for this comment, the woman is terrible, after she realizes that she's not getting any younger she now decided to look for her kids

  • @chijioke6384
    @chijioke6384 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fear any woman that tells you why are asking where she's, you can't control her, she is upto something

  • @ngoeemail3068
    @ngoeemail3068 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Just for the fact that the man came to inspect the place where the children will stay means a lot.

    • @maxineadderley5378
      @maxineadderley5378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IF HE HAD MADE PROPER PROVISION FOR HIS CHILDREN HE WOULD HAVE NO NEED FOR INSPECTION, HE IS USING THAT NONSENSE TO HARRAS THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No, a lot of times, the man wants to make sure there isn’t another man with her.

    • @ademolaadeogun6625
      @ademolaadeogun6625 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mrs Judge I beg dnt br bias because you are a woman. How can a daughter said she doesn't want her mother to come close to her and you didn't understand the mother must have done some bad things to her

    • @olatunbosunajagun9705
      @olatunbosunajagun9705 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@maxineadderley5378 what are you even saying?

    • @justinaokoi584
      @justinaokoi584 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ademolaadeogun6625 because the mother has done sth bad to her, she shldn't forgive her till she dies.... How many times have u offended God n he hasn't killed u. Mother is mother n it can't be changed.

  • @TruthIsBitter9ja
    @TruthIsBitter9ja ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When she had the opportunity to soften the heart of her daughter with some kind of apology for all the years she has been missing, all she could said was”
    AND I CARRIED YOU IN MY STOMACH blah blah blah” NONSENSE. 🤨

  • @nombinintlahla8325
    @nombinintlahla8325 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God I've missed tuning in to Justice Court... I love the fact that it's an African court 🤗... I hope this turns up okay

  • @adebisiokemuyiwa4516
    @adebisiokemuyiwa4516 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love d Judge,❤🎉God will bless you more

  • @dapooyedele6941
    @dapooyedele6941 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The problem is , you no go school, you sent your wife to school.?. She is now a graduate and she now thinks you are no more her class.

  • @Rocksmethodtv
    @Rocksmethodtv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is inconclusive. Both of them still have something to say. I hope that the shoprite meeting will help them more

  • @omonike2601
    @omonike2601 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This man has really influenced the children…

    • @omecsbabatv2329
      @omecsbabatv2329 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't think so the woman left the children for so long

    • @omonike2601
      @omonike2601 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omecsbabatv2329 The man is a manipulator, if you are in this woman’s shoes what will you have done?? There is no way he can manipulate for long, the woman is still their mum and will bond with them sooner or later

    • @omoyajowoomobolanleayeni8325
      @omoyajowoomobolanleayeni8325 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I stayed in my abusive marriage for 20years took all the gbas gbos for my children to understand.
      They were the one who told me to leave their dad , I bear no grudge towards him, I singlehandedly paid for their education .

    • @onyisichristianadidamson6824
      @onyisichristianadidamson6824 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​​@@omoyajowoomobolanleayeni8325You are one in a million and I am very proud of you, IF what you have just said here is true. One day, these kids will wipe away your tears. Keep praying for them and never let them hate their evil father for what he did for you.

    • @omoyajowoomobolanleayeni8325
      @omoyajowoomobolanleayeni8325 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onyisichristianadidamson6824 the truth and nothing but the truth, my children are grown now
      God has been very faithful to us. Whenever I watch judge funmi Asaolu I feel like reporting my case because I left the house I built for him for my peace of mind, but I can face all the noise and the embarrassment I will cause my children.
      I decided to heal and remain quiet, this is the first time I will speak out.

  • @thefirstoneannetbrbrowne9603
    @thefirstoneannetbrbrowne9603 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is very heavy. Family needs eachother ❤️ ♥️ she is taking sides. ❤❤

    • @PrayConnect
      @PrayConnect ปีที่แล้ว

      To you she is taking side but, to her she is doing the right thing, 11 good years and you say this as a mother, can you take that as a mother if your husband leave you that long and abandoned the children, don't you know I and my siblings also love our mum cause she also took care of us single-handedly, who do you think I will love to be with, just say the truth, she already showed the children she don't care about them and even if the father is trying to take them away and she have been doing things for those kids that girl won't have ever behave like that to her, just imagine her saying "and you grow in my womb" says it all, do you think she is a good mother

  • @NkwochaJennifer
    @NkwochaJennifer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this woman

  • @davidben-black6391
    @davidben-black6391 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her daughter has the right to choose if she wants her mother in her life, she has the right to accept or regret her mom sponsoring her education.
    Nine months isn't all about life.

  • @zhizhiemmanuel7183
    @zhizhiemmanuel7183 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is a risk for a wife to be the bread winner. It has repercussions. The woman is not wired for such burdens.

  • @tamarabello
    @tamarabello ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The father has band them for seeing the mum.

  • @mundacuput1855
    @mundacuput1855 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome, wise intervention

  • @BloodyNigerian
    @BloodyNigerian ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am shocked Judge Funmi doesn’t speak sense into the woman while she makes the man look unserious. Too bad.

    • @Harlieey
      @Harlieey ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The woman doesn’t present as someone who is sensible or advisable…

    • @alfredsamson6428
      @alfredsamson6428 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes is true if it were the man that was guilty lawyer funmi would have taken some hard decision against him not now she sounds so polite to the evil woman

  • @KandehForna
    @KandehForna 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The mother have failed the children and she do not know how to do reconcilation that's why I love patanity court they tell you the hard truth

  • @davideso8670
    @davideso8670 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The girls emotional breakdown brought tears down my eyes, kids suffer the most from marital disorders😢

  • @csamurai958
    @csamurai958 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May God deliver us from evil people. What a cold woman!

  • @lilianikwueze1477
    @lilianikwueze1477 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cannot believe all the pastor is saying. There are lies in those stories ( concuction of stories). Such long period of keeping the children away from their mothercor father, the children winn definitely grow up to hate him or her. She even said she has all the papers and she should be old enough to know she has passed all the waec papers. But the man interjected to answer for the girl. This girl burst iut in tears because of frustration.

  • @Everythingreactionswithkemi
    @Everythingreactionswithkemi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The woman is a problem here yes you want to pursue ur ambition but what about your children also the company that employed you will never leave their children atleast u didn’t have to wait for 11years before you came..the man also is a not a good father cause he has planted alot in the head of the children cause of their issues which is really bad

    • @Naijalegend1
      @Naijalegend1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @empresskay396 You need to consider the man’s body language. He is controlling and manipulative, I strongly believe the woman sought transfer just to get away from the man. They have been to adjudication in the past, the man is not budging, that is why she came to the court. Everybody deserves to live happily no matter the condition from which they grew up.

    • @siahyoung6335
      @siahyoung6335 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Naijalegend1Exactly!

  • @GABRIELOWARE-o4p
    @GABRIELOWARE-o4p หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOUR HONOUR,IN MARRIAGE, NO MATTER HOW THE ISUE OF PATENTS IT HAS GOT DEFEATED ON CHILDREN LIFE.
    I AM FROM GHANA 🇬🇭 BUT AFRICAN MARRIAGE THAT RUINE CHILDREN LIFE!

  • @ebukaisrael5358
    @ebukaisrael5358 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ... you grow up in my belly is not a wise word for now... after all she was once someone's wife before she chooses to be everyone's wife (according to her husband)

  • @solomonjohnson9267
    @solomonjohnson9267 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The problem started when she disobeyed her husband by moving to abuja. Also it appears she lacks good advice from her mother.

  • @collinsiorhemen1357
    @collinsiorhemen1357 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you women are abandoning your home and following different men up and down you don't think of the implications .

  • @larriebryan6724
    @larriebryan6724 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even now my wife doesn’t allow mines to call
    Me not even for
    My birthday nor yesterday which was Christmas 2023 smh! It’s heart wrenching to the core

  • @jedidiahsolomon4146
    @jedidiahsolomon4146 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wahala' wahala wahala.... Love covers multitude of sin

  • @Ugobest555u
    @Ugobest555u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is not a mother!!! Its not about being a pastor ooo if you go through what he went through you will understand 💯. She can never bound with them

  • @StumpMicheal
    @StumpMicheal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She can't come back to me if I'm the one.....7yrs what it's she coming back to do it can't happen

  • @donnaja290
    @donnaja290 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was just watching this video why all women like this when you know your spouse is take you to school now your eyes are opened??? Women why ?

  • @dumebiokoro
    @dumebiokoro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ohhh God, please help this man and his kids, this woman is clearly lying.

  • @SEWWITHCOSIISO
    @SEWWITHCOSIISO ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe the man. Bringing different men to your house because you don’t live in the same city as your husband is really bad. She’s not a good mother

  • @umoruharuna8824
    @umoruharuna8824 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It seems to me that judge Fumi deliberately did not want to touch the issues of the couple's marriage, she tried to concentrate on the right of the parent to have access to their children, but unfortunately, this children are grown up already and have form their own opinions on their parent .
    In my opinion, that woman is a bad wife and bad mother.

    • @MaronyDickson
      @MaronyDickson ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Judge Funmi mentioned that they came to the court for custody of the children and that’s what she would handle .

    • @kibelupiamugbem2680
      @kibelupiamugbem2680 ปีที่แล้ว

      She said it na
      That she doesn't want to go there cause that's not the reason they're in court.

    • @victorinofen7240
      @victorinofen7240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That woman is not a bad wife the children are acting upon what their dad has brainwashed them with against their mother.Some men are this that once they can have access to a lady anymore,they use their children to revenge for them by turning them against their mother.

    • @umoruharuna8824
      @umoruharuna8824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victorinofen7240 So did not see anything wrong with a woman who abandoned his children for ten years in Lagos while she live in Abuja.

  • @ettebongbenjamin1069
    @ettebongbenjamin1069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow...
    Thanks to the judge

  • @VanReicks
    @VanReicks 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The judge made it seem as though the woman did nothing wrong after the man had said his own part .she never said anything or asked the woman what and why she was ignoring his calls and asking him why he wants to control her.. let them bond like it's easy .Men live a very hard life and I hope that this judge will say the same if such happens to her own son .

  • @onyekachiikeji6797
    @onyekachiikeji6797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    l love this judge

  • @victoriannaji1938
    @victoriannaji1938 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All I can see be say this pastor don spoil the children mind where their mama dey, it's too bad

    • @MathsMadeeasy-if3yv
      @MathsMadeeasy-if3yv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He should tell the children that their mother acted right even when the children saw it with their own eyes? Most of u woman aren't different just some shades covering your atrocities

  • @isimotmuheeb4024
    @isimotmuheeb4024 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The,father has poisoned the children minds.It will be difficult for this woman to cope with this children because of the father.

  • @ezelucky259
    @ezelucky259 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The woman is the problem, I wish this judge will learn to reprimand women who misbehave

  • @mercifiedfirstlady8793
    @mercifiedfirstlady8793 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This woman is not compassionate.i really pray she does better

  • @Ms_Elisa
    @Ms_Elisa ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Well, there must be other things that have contributed to this breakdown. The woman wanted 'a better life'. However, she could have still found her way back by virtue of a redeployment to be with her family! As a woman that is key. Children bond so well with mums than dads (speaking generally). This is your child, A WOMAN! that outpour of emotion is from anger, annoyance, hatred, buried and rooted in her mind.
    The father 'may' have added salt,pepper, ginger and garlic to worsen it.
    My advice The woman has to drop any preconceived anger, DROP IT! and reconcile with her children for whom you carried and endured the pain of 9 MONTHS!
    The father too has to do same. So that they wont see their children replay the mistakes they the parents made.
    May Jesus Christ be the center of their home.
    God gives Us Christian Homes. Amen 🙏

    • @obanibimonifelix4531
      @obanibimonifelix4531 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The woman went for his money and when the money isn't coming she has to leave one way or the other.

    • @jinxtacks6589
      @jinxtacks6589 ปีที่แล้ว

      See the stupidity you just spewed.... Una no go even use brain for once .. despite what you watched, you still imported non existent factors into the story... 'the man may have added salt'... Where did you see the salt added? Feminist isonu

    • @RealmzDee
      @RealmzDee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost interest the moment you started with “WELL” I knew you was going to make excuses for the woman. The man has every right to add salt if at all he did. Do you know what it means to raise 3 kids when their mother is not far away. It means that 19yr old had to learn to use sanitary pad from the man. Which man would be proud of that? Not to even mention the pain of watching a woman he sponsored through school slipped away. It was as if that his punishment for wanting the best for his wife.

  • @Sayitasebe
    @Sayitasebe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Na wao, Mhen !When an illetrate man sends wife to school, level change

  • @ngozioliver2471
    @ngozioliver2471 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The man is a difficult man. He has brainwashed the children. His actions were so glaring.

    • @musiliatarike1340
      @musiliatarike1340 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're taking sense. From his body language, he taught the girl will support the mother,even the girl was afraid of him. A domineering husband and father

  • @patrbison5328
    @patrbison5328 ปีที่แล้ว

    The guy in the grey tee shirt behind the woman on the podium is on his phone almost all through the process. He shouldn't be there if he can't concentrate on the process. Bomboclat!!!

  • @chudydanny245
    @chudydanny245 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This court case should involve evidences like pictures of Facebook accounts especially pictures of the woman with many men, just like Paternity and Couples Court

  • @johnolusola3594
    @johnolusola3594 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This case is beyond only female judge to handle. She is obviously taken sides. There is a need for a male judge with her in order to strike a balance in cases like this in the nearest future. She failed her professionalism!

  • @DimaDBrown
    @DimaDBrown 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm really disappointed with the judge. The children are not adults with their opinion and emotions. So, they have a right of who to associate with and should not be forced by any one to associate with their mum!

  • @idowuolumodeji3200
    @idowuolumodeji3200 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Judge should have ensured they both apologise to one another and bond right there

  • @EDUTAINMENT007
    @EDUTAINMENT007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The woman is not a responsible one, i dont think the lady can accept her easily

  • @idiaakanbi3713
    @idiaakanbi3713 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    With the look the father gave the daughter, you can tell he has subdued these children to believe their mother is the bad one. Unfortunately, too familiar men take children away and mother's until recently no respite; thank you for Courts like these. Even by admission, he said the Mother has been visiting for the past 11 years. His story flipped flopped; he keeps talking onbehalf of the child; imagine what happens behind closed doors. Pastor indeed!

    • @muhammadcollins9275
      @muhammadcollins9275 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did you notice that the mother was calling her daughter this girl and her daughter has a name. Calling your daughter this girl speaks bad of you as a mother

    • @muhammadcollins9275
      @muhammadcollins9275 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The children told the father what their mother was doing. You heard the story of how a cheat the woman is, she lost her marriage and her children because of her. I guess same thing happened to you and you want to justify your actions because you have seen your colleague

    • @kehindeoyekunle880
      @kehindeoyekunle880 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      did u watch the end of the video before u u turned this to a gender issue.. She ddnt even show emotions when the girl was crying.

    • @onyekachioliver9125
      @onyekachioliver9125 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ur comments is so bias. The woman is at the wrong side of the problem from day one . She destroyed the family herself.

    • @adaugo
      @adaugo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This not true na, did you hear the daughter? The woman asked her why she was staring at her, this is 7yrs of not seeing her😢

  • @chrisaugunusuchenna6104
    @chrisaugunusuchenna6104 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That her daughter's reaction says it all 😢

  • @Ikedaniel
    @Ikedaniel ปีที่แล้ว

    Heeeiiiiiiii!!! Stop interrupting the man mrs jugde.

  • @MaryUgbaja
    @MaryUgbaja 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I fell this mans pain,the woman is not a good person and the judge is not being fair.