I've been placed in situations where I've dated church men and there is no clear distinction..im just learning to love myself and following Matthew 6:33.
💯♥️❣️❣️ 💁♀️I said that yesterday listening to the video on the Narssassist.. as he was talking and looking into the camera, the eye to eye contact, made me feel the same way, like "Dad' was giving his daughter a heart to heart talk. Great great Man 👌👏👏👏👍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✨🧘♀️✨😚
- Never drives the momentum of a relationship - Never trusts without verification - Never look pass a man's character - Never allow a man to rush you - Give a relationship time - Never commit to potential alone - Never finance a man. Finance a king when he is down. -Never cater to a man not dedicated to you
I have to say lm very impressed as this lessons lve heard in Russian psychologist and teachers. And now you. Touche. Not many people teach exact knowledge 🙏🍀💚
I made that mistake.. cooking and cleaning doing wifely duties for a boyfriend... 🤦🏾♀️never again!!! always trying to prove to these men that we are wife material!
God bless your heart. The Bible says, why not let yourself be cheated. Just like the old saying two wrongs don't make a right. So you just keep on being a good woman and you'll find that good man eventually. No one said you're going to find a perfect man, but maybe one day you'll find to love the imperfect man. Keep holding on, keep praying, it's frustrating I know. when you pray be specific on the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Tell God exactly what you want. That actually happened for me because I was very specific to what I wanted. Now I'm getting married in November this year. but by all means it wasn't easy at all and it took a long time and when I met her everything didn't just fall into place. so it's up to us to show God we want it when he does put the right person in your path.
I literally cried in the 1st few mins of your video, no one taught me these things... I wasted 4yrs, got pregnant and have been taking care of my child with no help from him. please ladies, listen!!! especially if you still young. this will save you a lot of trouble. its sad... but I'm happy now I know, 🙏🙏 be blessed. and Praise Jesus
Me too. I was so teary eyed. I realize July 2021 I wasted shy of 11 years on someone. I lost myself and realize I don't know my self worth. It's time to let go and change
I’m 29, single, and no kids..I really appreciate your story and I hear the strong heeding of your words! The “no one taught me these things” and “please ladies, listen!!!” really got me 💘and I will make you proud my sister✊🏽!! I’m so grateful to be on this path of learning my worth from his videos!! God bless!!🙏🏽
1. Queens never ignore a man's character 2. Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship 3. Queens never trust without verifying 4. Queens give the relationship time 5. Queens never commit to potential alone 6. Queens never trust a man that is not producing 7. Queens never finance a man 8. Queens never cater to a man that is not dedicated to her 9. Queens never tolerate disrespect 10. Queens DEMAND honour 10/10💕💕
This is unfruitful and ungodly idolatrous talk. You are not a Queen and you have no Kingdom. If you're not married to the first man you had sex with then get on your face and repent. See how much my last sentence lacked in grace? This is NOTHING compared to the heresy and wickedness this man is talking, and which is being embraced by the women watching, and the accompanying hubris and delusion thereof.
That Brotha Pedat .....Go ahead. Because it looks like you may be the wolf in sheep's clothing and mad that Pastor Blakes is putting the daughters up on game... and oh yeah, BE BANISHED, sir.!!👑📤
@@brotha_pedatMost women live in a fantasy so dont pay them no mind bro. Its levels to this relationship stuff but these women are letting the wrong things get to their heads.
Where was this man 20 years ago.. this is spot on. It took me decades to learn all of this. I have an amazing husband now but I had to go through so much trash before I got here. Ladles listen.. he is speaking 100% truth.
I think everyone should be independent until marriage now if the woman if short on some funds that’s different and vice versa but I ain’t paying no one rent and they ain’t paying mines
I love your words! Better than many I 've heard. You consider areas that nobody talks about. You bring God to your words and that's amazing. I will follow you from now on. I'm from Argentina South America. 😘thank you very very much.
A lot of women say that's why single women are single-because a lot of them don't allow men to disrespect them. They also have standards about who they date.
D D I rather be alone than settle for less than what I deserve. Women know I worth. This why these men out here running rampant without respecting us. Smh!!!
“Queens DEMAND honor, queens know what they bring to the table. When a man dishonors a queen, she BANISHES him from her kingdom.” 💯 😂😂This part is so funny to me
@@thisdudesam4332 Dedication is when the man honors, respects, and values you as the queen you are! If he hasn't laid down his life for you and treats you right, he doesnt deserve you. 💯
@@lioness8456 and what does the QuEnN do for the man? Nag him all day? Tell him to buy her clothes cos she's too lazy to get a job? Being entitled? Calling herself a queen and the house he bought her "kingdom"? You're so entitled and spoiled. Yall want the rights but you don't want no responsibilities. You're gonna end up miserable sooner or later.
Nikki Consciously living your life with God/Higher power as your everything definitely makes a Queen out of one. I find that I think of and treat myself as one more and more each day and my connection to God is definitely my source in this. God is such beautiful love! Let us blend ourselves with Him and He in turn makes gods and goddesses out of us for loves glory
Deborah Phillips yes you have sweetie and frustration. Them niggas would of only given you 5mins worth of pumping and they wouldn’t of given a damn if you had your orgasm or not
Deborah Phillips....sometimes they don't dump you because you won't give sex, they just harass you about it every time until they wear you down and lay guilt trip on you.....a sign of a player.
1: Queens never ignore a man’s proven character 2: Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship 3: Queens never trust without verifying (1 John 4:1) • not gullible • verify through intentional questions • give the relationship time 4: Queens never commits to potential alone (Mark 11:12-14) • If he ain’t producing his potential: leave him on the elevator 5: Queens never finance a man (2 Thessalonians 3:11) • the only man a queen will finance is her King: TEMPORARILY, if he’s down (with provisions) • never finance unproven men • only finance your sons, through teaching him how to take care of a woman 6: Queens never cater to a man that’s not dedicating himself to the woman (Ephesians 5:22) • don’t give wifely duties to an undedicated man 7: Queens never tolerate disrespect (1 Peter 3:7) • Queens demand honor
"Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship....if he's not man enough to drive the relationship, he ain't man enough to maintain that relationship..." 🙏 Thank you for everything you teach and share with the world. Greetings and gratitude from the UK.
And the sons needs to watch this too. All of these biys running around who get mad when a girl rejects. This can hopefully explain why and help them change to become better men. I do agree with you. These young girls running around with their cheeks hanging out their pants and wonder why men don't respect them. Moms raise your girls to be ladies and dads raise your boys to be gentlemen.
It's ok dear a lot of us didn't ...so now you know and pick up from here and be the true Queen you are designed to be ...help others as well ..bring them to this channel and let them drink of living waters
I thought I was too picky, but now that I am looking at his videos I realized that I am a real Queen 👸 and I don’t tolerate any mistake from a supposedly King 🤴
"Most men are lying..." hahaha. The funny thing is some guys don't realize they are lying. Then they act like you are the mean one for seeing through them.
I’m a Hebrew Israelite woman, and even in my church they don’t teach this information. But I now know these things and I’m always speaking out as a woman and letting them know that just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean God won’t and can’t use me in his ministry. There are a lot of Israelite men who are BROKEN and they hold women down because of their brokenness, but I’m proud to say I’m not one of these women who can be held back or down.
Sonia Dawson yes! Sometimes we just go through so much we forget. Nothing wrong with it because we acknowledged it. Congrats to all the Queens who took back their status!! We will reign beautifully.
Why is wife not talking! Why is he a better women at womenhood than him? I don't bash women not men on social media especially black ones. We have it bad as it is. Vanessa
I’m a QUEEN. I have always had this “Queen Mentality” and didn’t realize it....I just thought I was very “picky & guarded” around a man. So, although lonely, I will continue to WAIT for The King to present himself to me; and I will allow this king to prove/show his worth to me. I have been alone for several years and willing to wait for MY King because a new talks a good game but he needs to SHOW me. I’m in NO rush to prove anything to him.🌟🎊 🙏 “The Queen😇”
"Never lay your body down to a man that has not laid his life down for you!" That is the word! You are a blessing to the women in the body of Christ Pastor Blakes. Our lives will completely change for the better once we begin to practice that admonishment.
Regina, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree with your interpretation as well. So grateful for Pastor Blakes. The way you worded your message is beautiful.
Tracie Darthard Amen, so many women doing the opposite in these days, that These men ask you out and tell you to pay for first date. Not this queen. lol
Where did women think financing a man was love? I learned at an early age that a man is suppose to provide for a woman when my stepfather married my mom with 8 kids that weren't his They had one together making it 9 kids and my stepfather worked and took care of all us including his grandkids until he died. From that learning experience I don't finance men and have a good man in my life that is a provider.
Wow! You truly experienced a REAL man, so rare these days! I have 4 babies with my husband, but God forbid he leaves I still aint worried about another King finding me! Queens are good women that never have to stress about a man. She's a prize, babies and all. 👑 Blessings to you and your family! ❤ 💪
Now that's a real man. Same thing with my grandad (my mom's stepdad) He married my grandmother when she had 4 kids by a man and a 5th child by another man. She had her 6th with him. She didn't have to work but never went without....always had whatever she needed/wanted. Took care of the kids. My mom is the oldest (61now). I've never seen my grandparents disrespect each other. She passed last year and my grandad told the grown children pick whatever casket you want, real flowers, etc The funeral was beautiful...it hurted to see the tears flowing down his face cause he loved her....That's the kind of man we deserve ladies....
"Yo lil' clown in a crown" 👑 so sad but true! I know women over 40 supporting grown men financially, but I've never understood how you even respect him as the head of your household. A piece of a man is WORSE than no man, remember that QUEENS!! 👑 ❤
“A Queen does not tolerate disrespect” I wish I have have heard this advice 25 years ago at least a yr after getting married. I would not have become suicidal 5 yrs ago. After hearing your advice, it’s the 1st time I hear this beautiful advice almost 1 yr after my ex-husband left me and my 2 children for another woman (after 26 yrs of marriage). Thankfully I have been close to God through this process, and HE gives me strength. But today is the first time I understand I already did everything you mentioned a queen does not do 😭. Thankfully I’m still alive, and I’m free from him. I pray God makes a way financially, so I can attend your next retreat. You have beautiful fatherly advice that all females who don’t have this fatherly figure could use. I pray any single/divorced female will listen to your advice (myself included) and make any necessary changes. Hopefully what I just shared will also help these women. Don’t tolerate disrespect in any way, even if you’re married. If you don’t see change in your man, move on. Your life will be better!
It's been a year now. I've been going through my hell with a narcissist husband of 24 years and filed for divorce after our sin graduated from high school in June. How are you doing now?❤️
A queen does not finance a man!!! 🙌🙌🙌 I did it my entire 13 year marriage. In the end, he left me for a woman 15 years younger and married her. He now lives with his wife and new baby in the downstairs of his parents house. Learned my lesson for next time around. Queen conscious 👑
Honey..He was A Narcissist an opportunist...And did tht to make you jealous!! & if you have no children with him Even more of a BLESSING to you!! So y'all have no ties! You didn't have the knowledge back then, now you do. I hope you receive healing for what you've endured💕Peace, Love & Light...These are Demonic spirits trying to deter Us Children Of God from our true purpose..Sad, but True!
Shakita..Im very disturbed that I too..when younger..knew my worth and value -- and lost sight of that.. Life teaches us through experience comes wisedom - I don't understand how I could have moved backward through the decades..
Shakita J the enemy wants us to believe our standards are too high and we’re being too much! Don’t believe the hype. I too did some things I regret but to God be the Glory those mistakes taught me to continue to fight for what I believe I deserve. And what make it so bad it’s nothing more than wanting my husband to be the MAN in every area. Not just the bedroom.
I’ve been single for 3 years , going to church and improving myself. It’s sooo had to find a date yet alone discern a man to qualify thru all this. Lord have mercy, God bless us.
At times I have knowledge of things.. The know how.... without fully understanding the process... So I knew some of these things but didn't understand the process.. POWERFUL Teaching
I am 43. I had to learn this lessons by making bad moves and paying the price of it. It is ok. It means to me that my soul wasn't evolved enough to hear this wisdom before. We often have to pass through pain to evolve. I feel grateful for the pain that lead me where I am now. Sir, beautiful channel and great wisdom. Thank you for sharing it.
Yes LAWD! Preach, I bout fainted on that one!! I have seen this so many times, women happy just to have a piece of a man😂😂 and let's not forget RC: "Lee, does potential pay light bills in here?" Linda: "Naw Naw sweety." They are too cute...
all these 27 years i thought i was being too crazy/high standards out here, turns out i was acting in my Queenly right, just didnt know it. HUH! Thank you so much for this, brother.
MY ALL TIME FAVORITE VIDEO EVER!!! I've been celibate for 12 years because of these principles and teachings since my hubby died. My mother and father taught me these principles. I made the mistake of dating a childhood friend (after my husband died) who turned out to be a "false image of a godly man." He taught me so many lessons/things that I should not have done. Mainly, I should not have veered from my parents' and late husband's teachings and examples. GOD BLESS YOU...😇 KEEP TEACHING THESE TRUTHS! They're not antiquated teachings... their truth!🙏🏽
One of the most overlooked components to women not knowing or understanding that they are not behaving in a way that's in their best interest is childhood trauma. Many simply are not aware that growing up in an abusive environment sets the tone for what you will and will not put up with. A toxic, abusive, neglectful and absentee parent(s) (parent's can be physically available, but emotionally unavailable due to alcohol, etc) is not assisting the child in developing their emotional intelligence or consciousness and this leads the child to being a broken adult that's susceptible to almost any kind of treatment. So, my point is that the origins of why women may be tolerating this type of character from a man needs to be addressed.
Miss Klass, hahaha...we have a ton of "boys" out there who claim to be men and they are extremely abusive and women need to understand that these types are to be left completely alone!
“Because potential without corresponding character is equal to no potential “ . Wow . Wow. Wow. Way to sum up what has been my biggest lesson reaching age 30 in such a perfect powerful statement ! I LOVED this video, just discovered you , you have gained another subscriber.
Miss Klassy actually I've never dated or was married to a broke thug. My ex husband is a 20 year detective on the police force and my last two were successful business owners that were respected by many so I can't relate to you assuming that women only deal with bums and broke men.. I'm not broke nor am I desperate I simply don't take no crap no more from a clown like the bishop said.. what my problem was I dated "NARRCISTIC" men who reflected my father. A woman's first example of a man is from her father or lack there of.My father was in my life yet he wasn't nurturing but critical and abusive emotionally.. My father is a well established attorney of 30 years yet he is still a broken man.. Until a woman deals with her daddy issues then she will entertain men who resembled their father's dysfuntion, which i did...Its alot of successful damage men and women out here who look the part yet lack "wholeness". Dysfunction is not bias nor reduced to material or economic status, it comes on levels..Don't be fooled!
I wanted to take the time and express my gratitude for this man. Growing up I didn’t have a father to understand these things and I am so blessed that I have come acrosss your channel as it has guided me to become closer to God and know my worth. You are a wonderful man, and a great Spiritual Father anyone can ask for. Thank you.
THIS works just the same for ANY relationship with a man or any human! I fired a mechanic last week because of his disrespect. I also feel EVERYONE out that is in my life! Same goes for lawyers, doctors etc........ One thing I have learned this year is to NEVER put up with disrespect from ANYONE!!!!
I called out racist calling chinese man wang the man calling him wang was indigious . A holes come on all races. Doesn't matter color race or greed evil is evil. Said he was an activist yah right another fraud
I'm so proud that this man is a real man and is telling the truth. He reminds me of the male perspective I received from my Father. A real man who taught me how to be a real woman. Men raise your daughters!
I made so many mistakes with my children's father and my second relationship. God is getting my heart ready for a true King now that I'm walking as a true Queen!
After 44yrs of getting it all so wrong, I finally understand my worth. I have given of myself with love in my heart, without knowing the truth. Thank you Father, for sharing these videos. I am ever the student willing to learn. I love myself more and more each day. I respect myself by setting boundaries. Thank You Jesus for all You did and still do for me. I am eternally Yours Lord and You are mine. I love You Lord and offer my humble gratitude for Your guidance and Protection. Sending all my beautiful family, all over this planet and those in Spirit, my unconditional love, light and blessings. 🙏✌️💖✨🤗🥰
I love every part of this video. I am a King! I make good money, but I have yet to maximize my greatest potential. I've been at a standstill waiting on my Queen: It's just me, so I saw no need for certain things unless my better half was present. I know now, that I have work to do. I guess, if I build it, she'll come. God bless you Pastor. Keep pumping that goodness to 'em.
YES! I almost married a man with "potential".Now im in queen consciousness and know MUCH better. Yes a woman should seek and work to be independence but the man should be her provider!
“Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid his life down for you!” OMG! ☺️This, my brother, is wisdom👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. On repeat. Your humbleness, realness and emotion invoked in this video has moved me. Much respect for you and your teachings.🙏🏾
Becoming the queens that we were predestined to be,stems frm the upbringing that was taught to us by our grandmothers,mothers aunts & sisters,we learn from watching our elders,how they interact with men,so if they were disrespectful ,cursing or beating on them,we feel that this image is healthy so that is how we feel about ourselves:but if men were taught at a young age to honor,praise and respect women we would be the Kings &Queens we were born to be:Thanks
One person lays WITH another to be intimate with them as an expression of their feelings. If a man lays down his life then what would he have to offer you? A living man and women together share and procreate life. Jesus was not without flaw and could have never given life to anyone because he did not own it, he died, and he admits he has an ending.
"A Queen doesn't constantly have to sell herself to a man" .... After that statement, I stopped listening to the rest of the video because that was enough said for me.
My dad was diagnosed with cancer when I was 11 and died when I was 14. I never had spiritual leaders as men take one on one time with me or really help develop me as the God-fearing woman I was meant to be. Some of my most crucial years I was running from coping with the pain and loss of my Dad and ran to all the wrong things and people. So thankful God lead me to you! Thank you for helping women of all ages! ❤🙏
These are things that women, especially young, inexperienced women, need to hear from a trusted man. Many do not have fathers or other caring men in their lives who will give them this guidance and the permission to use it in protection of their lives and that of their future children. You are a father to many women with good guidance, Pastor Blakes. That's right! Potential doesn't pay the light bill or keep the heat on!!! A man who cannot keep the lights on isn't suitable for a husband!
AHHH I LOVE THIS. He might have the "potential" but if he can't manifest it, then there is no value to it. Boom. Absolutely agree. A lot of us women put too much hope into potential and believe we can change him, but that is such a dangerous mindset, that more often than not leads to heartbreak. THANKS FOR SHARING!
•Queens don't ignore the signals & signs. •Queens don't drive the momentum of a relationship. •Queens trust after they verify. •Queens give the relationship time. •Queens never commit to potential ALONE. •Queens never finance an unproven man. •Queens don't lay their body down without the man laying their life down first. •Queen never tolerate disrespect. BONUS •Queens demand honor.
FAITHM100 No "although"!! How would you like it if anyone said "although you are a Christian", and appreciate your statement? This wisdom hasn't got anything to do with any particular religion. Sometimes religion encourages or even does cover up disgraceful and abusive (male) behaviour. That's why you don't trust someone just because they go to your church/temple/mosque or any other church/temple /mosque for that matter, or go to a priest's house alone - even long before 11:30 p.m. - just because he claimed to be a faithful servant of his god and his commandments. All the best to you!!
no name I agree with your statement ;however, I am sorry that you misunderstood my statement. Maybe , I should have explained it in a better way. Than there would not have been any confusion For that I apologize . This is why I do not like making comments. Someone is bound to misunderstand and take what I say out of context. I respect everyone. Sorry you took it as a personal attack. Consequently, to prevent any future issues or misunderstandings, I removed it. I never made the statement you are saying I made . If I mistakenly said anything to hurt your feelings I apologize. Have a blessed day.
I was not sure if this was going to be some "relationship coach" foolishness. However, THIS WAS ON POINT. Thankfully, I caught on to all of this wisdom early on in life. Having this mentality has blessed me immensely. I have been blessed with such a respectful, honorable, and loving husband of six years. He is a provider, protector, intelligent, affectionate, supportive, chivalrous, loves the Lord, etc...Having high standards will run a lot of fools off. However, that leaves room for a good man to come in. Don't allow loneliness and desperation to have you settling.
I tell you what ... I was nothing but a fool - but no more. You are an anointed master teacher! I thank God for your gift. Thanks for sharing with us. May God continue to bless you and your family.
A friend of mine sent me this link and I subscribed to your channel. I love your teaching on this. Women need to hear this every single day and stop believing the lies that's blocking their eyes. This right here is such a deep message, conversation, teaching, you name it. All women of ages, sizes and skin color need to hear this. This is so real, so true, so important, so deep, so plain, so on point. Thank you for sharing, God bless you!
I once heard a person say "if a man ask you what you bring to the table...ask him where's the table?"
I had to screenshot this
Good one!!
This is exactly what I needed hear!! Thank you girl!
That part!!!
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You don’t even know a man until you’ve seen how he handles anger, stress, and/or loss.
Julie Cousin when his ego is threatened !😳
TRUUUUUUEEEEEE
Very true because a mans anger can scare u away.
I've been placed in situations where I've dated church men and there is no clear distinction..im just learning to love myself and following Matthew 6:33.
Julie Cousin facts
This man has changed my life 😢 he is the dad I never had
Kalonne Palma 🙏🙏🙏
Yes he's
Yes
My goodness! He changed mine too
💯♥️❣️❣️ 💁♀️I said that yesterday listening to the video on the Narssassist.. as he was talking and looking into the camera, the eye to eye contact, made me feel the same way, like "Dad' was giving his daughter a heart to heart talk. Great great Man 👌👏👏👏👍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✨🧘♀️✨😚
- Never drives the momentum of a relationship
- Never trusts without verification
- Never look pass a man's character
- Never allow a man to rush you
- Give a relationship time
- Never commit to potential alone
- Never finance a man. Finance a king when he is down.
-Never cater to a man not dedicated to you
I have to say lm very impressed as this lessons lve heard in Russian psychologist and teachers. And now you. Touche. Not many people teach exact knowledge 🙏🍀💚
So true
A queen demands honour
1. Never ignore a man's poor character.
- Queens do not tolerate DISRESPECT
When u choose to be single and work on yourself these messages sink in fr...
shadonna kinney yasss! Single, working of becoming the best version of myself and drama free!
Yes!
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Yaaaas!
shadonna kinney Absolutely mysistafriend!!!
shadonna kinney Yeeees Sister/Queen! I am single and working on that better even more beautiful version of myself. 💪💪👑👑👑💕💖🙌👏🙏🙏
Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid down his life for you.
This is so true ,thanks
Now this is a good comment. The flip side is that women start things seeing things in me I never said I have.
NEVER till married!
I never knew him until the 12th year of our marriage, I got very scared to realize he is a covert nascist. I'm devastated.
Never will I do that til I'm 💍 It's just never fair, sex is just like food to men while it bears morr complications to us women
I made that mistake.. cooking and cleaning doing wifely duties for a boyfriend... 🤦🏾♀️never again!!! always trying to prove to these men that we are wife material!
God bless your heart. The Bible says, why not let yourself be cheated. Just like the old saying two wrongs don't make a right. So you just keep on being a good woman and you'll find that good man eventually. No one said you're going to find a perfect man, but maybe one day you'll find to love the imperfect man.
Keep holding on, keep praying, it's frustrating I know. when you pray be specific on the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Tell God exactly what you want. That actually happened for me because I was very specific to what I wanted. Now I'm getting married in November this year. but by all means it wasn't easy at all and it took a long time and when I met her everything didn't just fall into place. so it's up to us to show God we want it when he does put the right person in your path.
I feel you
Charise L SAME !
Me too... Been there and done that.... twice. Never a third time though. Learnt my lesson on that one x
Yes girl I think a lot of us have been there. But now that we know better, we do better for OURSELVES. Not for a man.
I literally cried in the 1st few mins of your video, no one taught me these things... I wasted 4yrs, got pregnant and have been taking care of my child with no help from him. please ladies, listen!!! especially if you still young. this will save you a lot of trouble. its sad... but I'm happy now I know, 🙏🙏 be blessed. and Praise Jesus
Me too. I was so teary eyed. I realize July 2021 I wasted shy of 11 years on someone. I lost myself and realize I don't know my self worth. It's time to let go and change
God bless your child.
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I’m 29, single, and no kids..I really appreciate your story and I hear the strong heeding of your words! The “no one taught me these things” and “please ladies, listen!!!” really got me 💘and I will make you proud my sister✊🏽!! I’m so grateful to be on this path of learning my worth from his videos!! God bless!!🙏🏽
I have two kids and he was definitely not worth of 10 years of my life
“He’s tall & Got muscles AND HE BROKE” 😂😂 so true
1. Queens never ignore a man's character
2. Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship
3. Queens never trust without verifying
4. Queens give the relationship time
5. Queens never commit to potential alone
6. Queens never trust a man that is not producing
7. Queens never finance a man
8. Queens never cater to a man that is not dedicated to her
9. Queens never tolerate disrespect
10. Queens DEMAND honour
10/10💕💕
Amen
Thank you :-)
Thx😘
It says seven in the title, though. And he also said (1) queens never drive the momentum of a relationship.
Amen
When a man dishonours a Queen she banishes him from the kingdom.
This is unfruitful and ungodly idolatrous talk.
You are not a Queen and you have no Kingdom. If you're not married to the first man you had sex with then get on your face and repent.
See how much my last sentence lacked in grace?
This is NOTHING compared to the heresy and wickedness this man is talking, and which is being embraced by the women watching, and the accompanying hubris and delusion thereof.
That Brotha Pedat .....Go ahead. Because it looks like you may be the wolf in sheep's clothing and mad that Pastor Blakes is putting the daughters up on game... and oh yeah, BE BANISHED, sir.!!👑📤
@@mb5857 LOL
amaka ike yes💯
@@brotha_pedatMost women live in a fantasy so dont pay them no mind bro. Its levels to this relationship stuff but these women are letting the wrong things get to their heads.
Where was this man 20 years ago.. this is spot on. It took me decades to learn all of this. I have an amazing husband now but I had to go through so much trash before I got here. Ladles listen.. he is speaking 100% truth.
He had to go , through his trials in order to teach others.I have to gone through it before can teach an touch hearts of others.
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If’s always been here we ignored the information and did what we wanted but I Love Him
QUEENS.... "Don't Finance A Grown Man" PERIODT!!
I agree and men should under no circumstances finance women. Let em fend for themselves.
@@slardebard Like a Boeing 747 that tip went way over your head lol...
I think everyone should be independent until marriage now if the woman if short on some funds that’s different and vice versa but I ain’t paying no one rent and they ain’t paying mines
@@jksmith9161 let's see if get a tip, I'll bet your men support you one dollar at a time.
Yess! This is so good ❤
QUEENS DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT! Amen
MissRhane true that!!! I am only learning to be a queen. On the road from narcissistic abuse. X
Dee Irish I understand
And as QUEENS, we have a very low tolerance for bullshit and excuses. Agreed!
I'm from Argentina. South america. I really like this man's advice. I love it.
I love your words! Better than many I 've heard. You consider areas that nobody talks about. You bring God to your words and that's amazing. I will follow you from now on. I'm from Argentina South America. 😘thank you very very much.
A lot of women say that's why single women are single-because a lot of them don't allow men to disrespect them. They also have standards about who they date.
D D I rather be alone than settle for less than what I deserve. Women know I worth. This why these men out here running rampant without respecting us. Smh!!!
Jam Onit Amen 🙏
DD uou are so right. 🙏😍
Yep.
I've been single 25 years because I wont tolerate BS, Games, Drama or disrespect From men or anyone.
“Queens DEMAND honor, queens know what they bring to the table. When a man dishonors a queen,
she BANISHES him from her kingdom.” 💯
😂😂This part is so funny to me
Queens never cater to a man who is not dedicated to her 💯
Tavia S What is dedication?
@@thisdudesam4332 Dedication is when the man honors, respects, and values you as the queen you are! If he hasn't laid down his life for you and treats you right, he doesnt deserve you. 💯
@@lioness8456 and what does the QuEnN do for the man? Nag him all day? Tell him to buy her clothes cos she's too lazy to get a job? Being entitled? Calling herself a queen and the house he bought her "kingdom"? You're so entitled and spoiled. Yall want the rights but you don't want no responsibilities. You're gonna end up miserable sooner or later.
@Rankled Alora I'm sure if a guy falls for type of women then he's handicapped.
Always be a QUEEN ladies ✨❤ Thank you for this. I'm 17 and I'm going to start being a Queen at an early age. 👑
Nikki Consciously living your life with God/Higher power as your everything definitely makes a Queen out of one. I find that I think of and treat myself as one more and more each day and my connection to God is definitely my source in this. God is such beautiful love! Let us blend ourselves with Him and He in turn makes gods and goddesses out of us for loves glory
nonnz njau So true. God bless you
CoachingChosenOnes Amen💜 and you too❤💜
So happy for you young lady, God bless you for taking this decision.😘
Lucky you. Please don't forget to think on these teachings over and over. Life circumstances can make you forget sometimes.
it used to bother me to be dumped when I would not agree to sex..now I realize I have saved myself a lot of heartache
Deborah Phillips yes you have sweetie and frustration. Them niggas would of only given you 5mins worth of pumping and they wouldn’t of given a damn if you had your orgasm or not
Are you happy?
Deborah Phillips....sometimes they don't dump you because you won't give sex, they just harass you about it every time until they wear you down and lay guilt trip on you.....a sign of a player.
Deborah Phillips hey
deborah phillips, yes, i hold out till i see who they are. if it ends at least i did not give any. no sex is the test.
As a Queen that has been with her King and husband for over 23 years, I second this message FOR REAL!!
1: Queens never ignore a man’s proven character
2: Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship
3: Queens never trust without verifying
(1 John 4:1)
• not gullible
• verify through intentional questions
• give the relationship time
4: Queens never commits to potential alone
(Mark 11:12-14)
• If he ain’t producing his potential: leave him on the elevator
5: Queens never finance a man
(2 Thessalonians 3:11)
• the only man a queen will finance is her King: TEMPORARILY, if he’s down (with provisions)
• never finance unproven men
• only finance your sons, through teaching him how to take care of a woman
6: Queens never cater to a man that’s not dedicating himself to the woman
(Ephesians 5:22)
• don’t give wifely duties to an undedicated man
7: Queens never tolerate disrespect
(1 Peter 3:7)
• Queens demand honor
#4 is legit
Facts! Don’t give no man you not married to husband privileges!
“Potential is Not the same as being fruitful “ 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
"Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship....if he's not man enough to drive the relationship, he ain't man enough to maintain that relationship..." 🙏 Thank you for everything you teach and share with the world. Greetings and gratitude from the UK.
*"QUEEEENS NEVER FINANCE A MAN!!!!"*
*Say it again, brotha Blake, for the chicks in the back!!!!*
It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! for the chicks in the back lol
ab de *Wait, WHAAAAT???!!!*
*Boy/girl, BYE!*
-u MUST be one of these soft millenial dudes -OR one of these new-age females, who doesnt know her worth
ab de
Aaand how does *"BIGOTED"* fit into this equation anyways lol????
I aint gonna roast u on this positive page, but learn yo words plz
It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! .....@16:06 .....I LOST IT!!! ROTFLMAO😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥
@@mb5857 😂😂😂 ikr??
He right tho!
I feel like slappin myself across the room. 😑 Done broke every single rule.
I feel the same way
dont feel bad, we all have done this at one time or another.
When you know better; you do better(Maya Angelou)
Me too
Ten la nu emet me too hahahahaha
"POTENTIAL DON'T PAY THE LIGHT BILL'!!! This guy makes so much sense 👏👏👏
Yes the dont
This part made me LOLOL
"Trust is not a gift given. It is an honour earned"
Yes.
I could’ve used this advice 20 years ago. Parents sit down and let your daughters watch this. 👸
Same here
Oooh same!!!
Ditto!!!
And the sons needs to watch this too. All of these biys running around who get mad when a girl rejects. This can hopefully explain why and help them change to become better men.
I do agree with you. These young girls running around with their cheeks hanging out their pants and wonder why men don't respect them. Moms raise your girls to be ladies and dads raise your boys to be gentlemen.
15 years ago for me
I don't have an earthly dad; I needed this so badly. I am crying.
It's ok dear a lot of us didn't ...so now you know and pick up from here and be the true Queen you are designed to be ...help others as well ..bring them to this channel and let them drink of living waters
Queens Demand Honour !!!!!.yes sir!!!! Banished if not from The Kingdom ...Amen!!!!
Hugs
I was thinking the same thing! The advice I need to hear.
I had a lovely dad but he died when I was 15 and we never had these conversations
I wish I had known this years ago, I was so ignorant and I'm almost ashamed to admit that, but I'm growing into a Queen now 👑💕
Yes ma'am.... I have had several types of circus clowns in my life but the lady I am today.... Don't even try it!!!
Don't feel bad because I was a fool and naive but thanks be to God for Pastor Blake allowing God to use him to help us!
Right me too. But we had to learn
Yep me too.
Don't stress over it. You now know better.
I thought I was too picky, but now that I am looking at his videos I realized that I am a real Queen 👸 and I don’t tolerate any mistake from a supposedly King 🤴
"Most men are lying..." hahaha. The funny thing is some guys don't realize they are lying. Then they act like you are the mean one for seeing through them.
I know
Story of my life with my husband every day.
My God I wish I had a man in my life that taught me these things when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of unnecessary pain.
I’m a Hebrew Israelite woman, and even in my church they don’t teach this information. But I now know these things and I’m always speaking out as a woman and letting them know that just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean God won’t and can’t use me in his ministry. There are a lot of Israelite men who are BROKEN and they hold women down because of their brokenness, but I’m proud to say I’m not one of these women who can be held back or down.
That right there 💞
Alot
@Iashuan Jones well said is a shame we have to go through so much pain before we learn
It’s ok. Self compassion.
I have taken back my Queen status, and it's wonderful. I had forgotten. 👑
Sonia Dawson same here sister
You are going to reap the rewards of Queen status! 👸
Enjoy yourself, your majesty!!! Your royal highness. : )
Yes yes goddess queen
Sonia Dawson yes! Sometimes we just go through so much we forget. Nothing wrong with it because we acknowledged it. Congrats to all the Queens who took back their status!! We will reign beautifully.
Now that I'm a new, young woman under Christ, I'm looking for the biblical way to date. I'm not trying to fall again.
Why is wife not talking! Why is he a better women at womenhood than him? I don't bash women not men on social media especially black ones. We have it bad as it is. Vanessa
I’m a QUEEN. I have always had this “Queen Mentality” and didn’t realize it....I just thought I was very “picky & guarded” around a man. So, although lonely, I will continue to WAIT for The King to present himself to me; and I will allow this king to prove/show his worth to me.
I have been alone for several years and willing to wait for MY King because a new talks a good game but he needs to SHOW me. I’m in NO rush to prove anything to him.🌟🎊
🙏
“The Queen😇”
You're not lonely queen. You are alone, but even then you're not alone you're never alone. Namaste ❤️
Yes Queen, it gets lonely sometimes but it'S Worthy it
Second
Amen
Boom!!! Yes Queen!
"Never lay your body down to a man that has not laid his life down for you!" That is the word! You are a blessing to the women in the body of Christ Pastor Blakes. Our lives will completely change for the better once we begin to practice that admonishment.
Regina, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree with your interpretation as well. So grateful for Pastor Blakes. The way you worded your message is beautiful.
Queens Do Not Finance Men!!Amen
Tracie Darthard So sad I can't like more than once!!
Tracie Darthard Amen, so many women doing the opposite in these days, that These men ask you out and tell you to pay for first date. Not this queen. lol
I refuse to finance a man...
Those 1.2k dislikes must be men cause this man told NO lies in this video 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
If they do not dislike then it means it ain’t true so we embrace the dislikes too !
Lmbo! 😆 🤣 😂
@@roinetwork7467 right 😂😂
Where did women think financing a man was love? I learned at an early age that a man is suppose to provide for a woman when my stepfather married my mom with 8 kids that weren't his They had one together making it 9 kids and my stepfather worked and took care of all us including his grandkids until he died. From that learning experience I don't finance men and have a good man in my life that is a provider.
Wow! You truly experienced a REAL man, so rare these days! I have 4 babies with my husband, but God forbid he leaves I still aint worried about another King finding me! Queens are good women that never have to stress about a man. She's a prize, babies and all. 👑 Blessings to you and your family! ❤ 💪
Now that's a real man. Same thing with my grandad (my mom's stepdad) He married my grandmother when she had 4 kids by a man and a 5th child by another man. She had her 6th with him. She didn't have to work but never went without....always had whatever she needed/wanted. Took care of the kids. My mom is the oldest (61now). I've never seen my grandparents disrespect each other. She passed last year and my grandad told the grown children pick whatever casket you want, real flowers, etc The funeral was beautiful...it hurted to see the tears flowing down his face cause he loved her....That's the kind of man we deserve ladies....
I pray that never happen to my son!
I agree👍
That I feel is awesome! Looks like you found your king !
"Yo lil' clown in a crown" 👑 so sad but true! I know women over 40 supporting grown men financially, but I've never understood how you even respect him as the head of your household. A piece of a man is WORSE than no man, remember that QUEENS!! 👑 ❤
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Potential doesn’t keep the lights on”
“Queens don’t finance a man”
Come on now! You stepping on toes! Thank you!
Gyrlllllll did u hear the church say AMEN!🙌
More like slicing toes 😂
Not even toes feet ! Ha, ha, haaaa !!
“A Queen does not tolerate disrespect” I wish I have have heard this advice 25 years ago at least a yr after getting married. I would not have become suicidal 5 yrs ago. After hearing your advice, it’s the 1st time I hear this beautiful advice almost 1 yr after my ex-husband left me and my 2 children for another woman (after 26 yrs of marriage). Thankfully I have been close to God through this process, and HE gives me strength.
But today is the first time
I understand I already did everything you mentioned a queen does not do 😭. Thankfully I’m still alive, and I’m free from him. I pray God makes a way financially, so I can attend your next retreat.
You have beautiful fatherly advice that all females who don’t have this fatherly figure could use.
I pray any single/divorced female will listen to your advice (myself included) and make any necessary changes. Hopefully what I just shared will also help these women.
Don’t tolerate disrespect in any way, even if you’re married. If you don’t see change in your man, move on. Your life will be better!
More power to u girl 💪❤
It's been a year now. I've been going through my hell with a narcissist husband of 24 years and filed for divorce after our sin graduated from high school in June. How are you doing now?❤️
And because a lack of respect from my ex husband , I got divorce.
A queen does not finance a man!!! 🙌🙌🙌
I did it my entire 13 year marriage. In the end, he left me for a woman 15 years younger and married her. He now lives with his wife and new baby in the downstairs of his parents house. Learned my lesson for next time around. Queen conscious 👑
Honey..He was A Narcissist an opportunist...And did tht to make you jealous!! & if you have no children with him Even more of a BLESSING to you!! So y'all have no ties! You didn't have the knowledge back then, now you do. I hope you receive healing for what you've endured💕Peace, Love & Light...These are Demonic spirits trying to deter Us Children Of God from our true purpose..Sad, but True!
She doesn't have your man, she has your problem. You should be glad she took him off your hands!!!
She'll be treated the same exact way that's why he had get someone younger to train her and tear her down
Sounds like my ex husband!!
Man I was a Queen early but ppl said I thought to highly of myself...23 years later, I'm coming back to her. Praise God. Trust God. Trust yourself.
Shakita J ..because they thought to low of themselves
Shakita..Im very disturbed that I too..when younger..knew my worth and value -- and lost sight of that..
Life teaches us through experience comes wisedom - I don't understand how I could have moved backward through the decades..
HONEY!!!! YES!
Shakita J the enemy wants us to believe our standards are too high and we’re being too much! Don’t believe the hype. I too did some things I regret but to God be the Glory those mistakes taught me to continue to fight for what I believe I deserve. And what make it so bad it’s nothing more than wanting my husband to be the MAN in every area. Not just the bedroom.
I’ve been single for 3 years , going to church and improving myself. It’s sooo had to find a date yet alone discern a man to qualify thru all this. Lord have mercy, God bless us.
Currently doing the inner work in myself and these teachings are pure gold. ❤
I never had a father figure. I appreciate you sharing your words.
God bless you Xx
I'm 41 years old with over 25yrs of relationship experience and I'm getting to old to be still blind to the facts..
shadonna kinney 36 and feel the same
At times I have knowledge of things.. The know how.... without fully understanding the process... So I knew some of these things but didn't understand the process..
POWERFUL Teaching
Tonya Benn agreed, powerful
Don't feel bad. I'm 48, recently divorced after 25 years, and still learning. I don't know if anyone ever gets it right!
shadonna kinney you’re honest and we’re here learning..#growth #wisewomen #nubianqueens
Finally. A man speaking truth about relationships that does not hurt, devalue, or underestimate women. Much respect!
Kanika W I agree ☝🏻
Praise God
Kanika W Right that's why I'm listening now..
I am 43. I had to learn this lessons by making bad moves and paying the price of it. It is ok. It means to me that my soul wasn't evolved enough to hear this wisdom before. We often have to pass through pain to evolve. I feel grateful for the pain that lead me where I am now.
Sir, beautiful channel and great wisdom. Thank you for sharing it.
Well sis you ain’t alone🙏🏾me too.
@@vivavidadela 💗🌺
I’m 49 and finally learning. I wasn’t ready till I was in pain enough to transcend. It’s never too late.
True, blessings ❤
"CLOWN IN A CROWN"!!!
I almost hollered.😲🙊🤭
Gurrrrrllll!!!!! AMENNN! LOL
I clutched the pearls.
Yes LAWD! Preach, I bout fainted on that one!! I have seen this so many times, women happy just to have a piece of a man😂😂 and let's not forget RC: "Lee, does potential pay light bills in here?" Linda: "Naw Naw sweety." They are too cute...
😂😂😂 I did holler lol
BROKE clown in a crown! I hollered in the gym 😄😄
all these 27 years i thought i was being too crazy/high standards out here, turns out i was acting in my Queenly right, just didnt know it. HUH! Thank you so much for this, brother.
jvnic3 I said the same thing... I'm like am I too hard on myself
jvnic3 sammmmeeee here! I knew I was different.. most men swear I’m stuck up... no sweetie I just know what I want.
Go queen!!
The 990 dislikes are the clowns in crowns lol 😂😂
💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😚🤦♀️😂
😂😂😂
like putos
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😂😂😂 RiiiGHT!!
MY ALL TIME FAVORITE VIDEO EVER!!! I've been celibate for 12 years because of these principles and teachings since my hubby died. My mother and father taught me these principles. I made the mistake of dating a childhood friend (after my husband died) who turned out to be a "false image of a godly man." He taught me so many lessons/things that I should not have done. Mainly, I should not have veered from my parents' and late husband's teachings and examples.
GOD BLESS YOU...😇
KEEP TEACHING THESE TRUTHS! They're not antiquated teachings... their truth!🙏🏽
A man that finds a wife finds a good thing!!! Come on Jesus you are teaching!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Men are hard to read. Your man might be hiding something. But it’s not what you think. Are you overlooking his cry for help? t.co/MTPSR5qOxf
YES 45 YEARS OLD AND NOW FINALLY LEARNING...THANK YOU🎓
One of the most overlooked components to women not knowing or understanding that they are not behaving in a way that's in their best interest is childhood trauma. Many simply are not aware that growing up in an abusive environment sets the tone for what you will and will not put up with.
A toxic, abusive, neglectful and absentee parent(s) (parent's can be physically available, but emotionally unavailable due to alcohol, etc) is not assisting the child in developing their emotional intelligence or consciousness and this leads the child to being a broken adult that's susceptible to almost any kind of treatment. So, my point is that the origins of why women may be tolerating this type of character from a man needs to be addressed.
Miss Klass, hahaha...we have a ton of "boys" out there who claim to be men and they are extremely abusive and women need to understand that these types are to be left completely alone!
True
Kim McLeod thank you for mentioning this important point.
YOUR TRUE` Kim McLeod...
Amen, and I'm a living witness. I'm glad I woke up but I pray more people come to where God wants us to be.
“Because potential without corresponding character is equal to no potential “ . Wow . Wow. Wow. Way to sum up what has been my biggest lesson reaching age 30 in such a perfect powerful statement ! I LOVED this video, just discovered you , you have gained another subscriber.
-"Potential don't pay the light bill."
RC Blake's message 100/100
Lol.
I'm balling crying 😲😭😭 I've been told I'm drama because of this..Thank you for clarifying my stand🙌🏽🙏🏽
Exactly I'm glad you know that YOU are not the problem they are! Keep respecting yourself young lady!
sweetie 4 ever God bless you! You are still a Queen in Gods eyes!
Carletta Christian aww thank you sister💕💕💕
Mo Getit amen💕💕💕
Miss Klassy actually I've never dated or was married to a broke thug. My ex husband is a 20 year detective on the police force and my last two were successful business owners that were respected by many so I can't relate to you assuming that women only deal with bums and broke men.. I'm not broke nor am I desperate I simply don't take no crap no more from a clown like the bishop said.. what my problem was I dated "NARRCISTIC" men who reflected my father. A woman's first example of a man is from her father or lack there of.My father was in my life yet he wasn't nurturing but critical and abusive emotionally..
My father is a well established attorney of 30 years yet he is still a broken man.. Until a woman deals with her daddy issues then she will entertain men who resembled their father's dysfuntion, which i did...Its alot of successful damage men and women out here who look the part yet lack "wholeness". Dysfunction is not bias nor reduced to material or economic status, it comes on levels..Don't be fooled!
"You bringing all the fruit to the table and he bringing potential." Done 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ shame on me
I only cry if i think of my past wandering
Paule Samedi so true
😂😂😂 you're bringing all the fruit.
I wanted to take the time and express my gratitude for this man.
Growing up I didn’t have a father to understand these things and I am so blessed that I have come acrosss your channel as it has guided me to become closer to God and know my worth.
You are a wonderful man, and a great Spiritual Father anyone can ask for. Thank you.
I committed to potential in a prior relationship, like a dummy lol I once was lost, but now I’m found 😩 Was blind, but now I see 🙌🏾
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Come on now
That makes two of us. Recipe for disaster.
And I’m found found.
Same here,I'm so embarrassed about my naivety then. Thank God who opened my eyes I left him
Wish my father had set me down and had this talk with me at 16
Linda Flynn me too yet hey most parents don’t know
Same here, it would have saved a lot of heartache. ❤️
Me too. I have an amazing father but he never really told me about men and how men are.
Exactly same here. But what we can do is teach the generation to come in Jesus name!
Linda Flynn right
Ladies, dont you just love his videos?
Live Higher Woman! Thank you. 😂😂😂 Not all of them- SOME OF THEM HATE ME. 😂😂😂
Robert Blakes the truth hurts.
I love his videos. #wisdom
Live Higher Woman! I love his videos. He gives the advice a father would give.
Live Higher Woman! First video!
I’ve got a lot to learn. From a door mat to a queen type of lady ...
Absolutely! “Never cater to a man that didn’t claim you as wife” period!!! Invaluable lesson we women should listen learn and apply!
I've broken all 7 of the Queen Rules and one point and time in life just to have someone. I have new outlook and will follow all 7 Rules.
Go for it my sista. I pray that you find your king.
True
So have I but I'm more conscious now and will wait on my King!
me too sis aue praise God thats over!!! ✝️😊✊🏾
THIS works just the same for ANY relationship with a man or any human! I fired a mechanic last week because of his disrespect. I also feel EVERYONE out that is in my life! Same goes for lawyers, doctors etc........ One thing I have learned this year is to NEVER put up with disrespect from ANYONE!!!!
Yup
Me too sis, this is definitely the year of Revelation for God on all levels/aspects of our lives when it comes to relationships from all people
I also fired Aman who wanted to take me for dinnwr the niga told me to do reservations l told who told u l wanna meet u man up pliz
NEVER
I called out racist calling chinese man wang the man calling him wang was indigious . A holes come on all races. Doesn't matter color race or greed evil is evil. Said he was an activist yah right another fraud
I'm so proud that this man is a real man and is telling the truth. He reminds me of the male perspective I received from my Father. A real man who taught me how to be a real woman. Men raise your daughters!
I like how he interacts with his wife during the teachings so she feels included. Just checkin on her. 🤗
I made so many mistakes with my children's father and my second relationship. God is getting my heart ready for a true King now that I'm walking as a true Queen!
Kelisha Patrick amen. me too.
Aah pray God gives you the best man
Amen to this! 💖
It's true that when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Thank God for this message my Brother.
Ella Oji this is soooo true
Right on brotha! Teach the Queens. Only the ones that are equal will understand your language.
William Palmer Ameem
amen.... I agree
I'm equal in respect. However, as a female I do love my gentle side. I don't like having to push for respect. Nah.
William Palmer Thank you. Some don’t get it.
Indeed.
After 44yrs of getting it all so wrong, I finally understand my worth. I have given of myself with love in my heart, without knowing the truth.
Thank you Father, for sharing these videos. I am ever the student willing to learn. I love myself more and more each day. I respect myself by setting boundaries. Thank You Jesus for all You did and still do for me. I am eternally Yours Lord and You are mine. I love You Lord and offer my humble gratitude for Your guidance and Protection. Sending all my beautiful family, all over this planet and those in Spirit, my unconditional love, light and blessings. 🙏✌️💖✨🤗🥰
I love every part of this video. I am a King! I make good money, but I have yet to maximize my greatest potential. I've been at a standstill waiting on my Queen: It's just me, so I saw no need for certain things unless my better half was present. I know now, that I have work to do. I guess, if I build it, she'll come. God bless you Pastor. Keep pumping that goodness to 'em.
True this King.. .Patience is of virtue - Good luck
Amen! From a women's perspective, a man who is focused on his work and bettering himself is the most attractive!
Amen
Amen.
She's coming
I am almost 70 yrs. Old yet I feel so stupid right now! But I thank you for what you have brought to MY table!
I get it...but, each one Teach one (or more). You (we) have the opportunity to learn and share to others who will listen.💞🔥👑
Yep 34still learning
It’s never too late and you are not stupid at all!
You aren't stupid you feel you are good . I feel that too but you know I see it different now.
YES! I almost married a man with "potential".Now im in queen consciousness and know MUCH better. Yes a woman should seek and work to be independence but the man should be her provider!
I wish my dad taught me this growing up! Would’ve saved me a lot of heartache!
“Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid his life down for you!” OMG! ☺️This, my brother, is wisdom👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. On repeat. Your humbleness, realness and emotion invoked in this video has moved me. Much respect for you and your teachings.🙏🏾
Becoming the queens that we were predestined to be,stems frm the upbringing that was taught to us by our grandmothers,mothers aunts & sisters,we learn from watching our elders,how they interact with men,so if they were disrespectful ,cursing or beating on them,we feel that this image is healthy so that is how we feel about ourselves:but if men were taught at a young age to honor,praise and respect women we would be the Kings &Queens we were born to be:Thanks
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One person lays WITH another to be intimate with them as an expression of their feelings. If a man lays down his life then what would he have to offer you? A living man and women together share and procreate life. Jesus was not without flaw and could have never given life to anyone because he did not own it, he died, and he admits he has an ending.
Thanks 🙏💕
MsPrincessaj 👍🏿❤️
"Queens do not finance a man!" My brother...you ain't never lied. Sincerely, A Queen.
"A Queen doesn't constantly have to sell herself to a man" .... After that statement, I stopped listening to the rest of the video because that was enough said for me.
Regina Craig They want attention not necessarily love....
Pls listen to the rest of the video. There's more to learn
You too
@@BrendaBaBoom Exactly!
My dad was diagnosed with cancer when I was 11 and died when I was 14. I never had spiritual leaders as men take one on one time with me or really help develop me as the God-fearing woman I was meant to be. Some of my most crucial years I was running from coping with the pain and loss of my Dad and ran to all the wrong things and people. So thankful God lead me to you! Thank you for helping women of all ages! ❤🙏
Sorry about your dad darling. I hope you cope well and I wish you happiness❤️❤️
The Queen is also the most powerful piece on the chessboard!
Wendy O Who created the game?
Wendy O 💪💝💝🙏🏿💝
Sammy Torres It’s African
That's Right....
It originated in India
These are things that women, especially young, inexperienced women, need to hear from a trusted man. Many do not have fathers or other caring men in their lives who will give them this guidance and the permission to use it in protection of their lives and that of their future children. You are a father to many women with good guidance, Pastor Blakes. That's right! Potential doesn't pay the light bill or keep the heat on!!! A man who cannot keep the lights on isn't suitable for a husband!
It's been years ago but I still feel sick about how I allowed myself to be treated. Lord please free my mind and help me to forgive myself.
My now struggle....feeling my worst cause I allowed this man to mistreat me as I settled for a wasted 10 years
"I think you got off on the wrong floor" PREACH and TEACH, dear brother!
AHHH I LOVE THIS. He might have the "potential" but if he can't manifest it, then there is no value to it. Boom. Absolutely agree. A lot of us women put too much hope into potential and believe we can change him, but that is such a dangerous mindset, that more often than not leads to heartbreak. THANKS FOR SHARING!
Do you have the potential to manifest and multiply.. ???
My apologies sis! I just needed a place to take that note. Not intended as a response to you.
The bank is closed for the clown in a crown!!!! Amen.
Barbara Rodriguez Amen.
Amen...
Barbara Rodriguez Amen!!
Things we must share with our daughters.
Brother you are speaking truth I love it you have encouraged me deeply
The boomer generation truly did drop the ball. We now have two generations of men and women who don’t know the basics anymore.
Asa Moore share this with our sons as well !!! They need to hear this too !
•Queens don't ignore the signals & signs.
•Queens don't drive the momentum of a relationship.
•Queens trust after they verify.
•Queens give the relationship time.
•Queens never commit to potential ALONE.
•Queens never finance an unproven man.
•Queens don't lay their body down without the man laying their life down first.
•Queen never tolerate disrespect.
BONUS
•Queens demand honor.
Queens don't cater men.
I'm a Muslim woman but I would have to agree with this brother...he's on point and may Allah guide you to continue your path in truth...! Thank you 👍
Abyssinia Iman same here! 💯
Me three✋
Assalamualaikum sisters Ramadan Mubarak
lashmagosh B walikum salaam 😁
FAITHM100
No "although"!! How would you like it if anyone said "although you are a Christian", and appreciate your statement?
This wisdom hasn't got anything to do with any particular religion. Sometimes religion encourages or even does cover up disgraceful and abusive (male) behaviour. That's why you don't trust someone just because they go to your church/temple/mosque or any other church/temple /mosque for that matter, or go to a priest's house alone - even long before 11:30 p.m. - just because he claimed to be a faithful servant of his god and his commandments.
All the best to you!!
no name I agree with your statement ;however, I am sorry that you misunderstood my statement. Maybe , I should have explained it in a better way. Than there would not have been any confusion For that I apologize . This is why I do not like making comments. Someone is bound to misunderstand and take what I say out of context. I respect everyone. Sorry you took it as a personal attack. Consequently, to prevent any future issues or misunderstandings, I removed it. I never made the statement you are saying I made . If I mistakenly said anything to hurt your feelings I apologize. Have a blessed day.
And i quote " queens do not finance a little broke clown in a 👑"
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I was not sure if this was going to be some "relationship coach" foolishness. However, THIS WAS ON POINT. Thankfully, I caught on to all of this wisdom early on in life. Having this mentality has blessed me immensely. I have been blessed with such a respectful, honorable, and loving husband of six years. He is a provider, protector, intelligent, affectionate, supportive, chivalrous, loves the Lord, etc...Having high standards will run a lot of fools off. However, that leaves room for a good man to come in. Don't allow loneliness and desperation to have you settling.
Thank you wise counsel. Queens demands honor.... God bless you
MsJlaw13 Being a true Queen paid off.
Love you, Thank you for Sharing, Sometimes because you get Tired of Settling, and Being a Fool, God Bless You, Beautiful King
I tell you what ... I was nothing but a fool - but no more. You are an anointed master teacher! I thank God for your gift. Thanks for sharing with us. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Tania Thomas Me too. No more being a fool for me
Heather Jones same here
Tania Thomas you were not a fool you are a honest committed queen doing the right thing. We reap what we sow. Trust in God
I love this!!!! Women do too much for these men we call OUR MAN!!!! Ain't worthy!!!
Gutrrrrrl!!!!!!
My favorite #7: A queen 👑 will quietly move towards the telephone ☎️ and call those people with those lights on top of their cars 🚙
I laughed at that part because I have always said that's what I would do if he ever disrespected me. That was right on point!
@Angel Herron wow
A friend of mine sent me this link and I subscribed to your channel. I love your teaching on this. Women need to hear this every single day and stop believing the lies that's blocking their eyes. This right here is such a deep message, conversation, teaching, you name it. All women of ages, sizes and skin color need to hear this. This is so real, so true, so important, so deep, so plain, so on point. Thank you for sharing, God bless you!