7 THINGS A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN NEVER DOES WITH A MAN

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  • @felishapittman2778
    @felishapittman2778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1866

    I once heard a person say "if a man ask you what you bring to the table...ask him where's the table?"

  • @kalonnealli7242
    @kalonnealli7242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1624

    This man has changed my life 😢 he is the dad I never had

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Kalonne Palma 🙏🙏🙏

    • @brandylizzy8
      @brandylizzy8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes he's

    • @aprilhenderson8684
      @aprilhenderson8684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes

    • @phumzilesiboza2483
      @phumzilesiboza2483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My goodness! He changed mine too

    • @lynnefreeman7687
      @lynnefreeman7687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      💯♥️❣️❣️ 💁‍♀️I said that yesterday listening to the video on the Narssassist.. as he was talking and looking into the camera, the eye to eye contact, made me feel the same way, like "Dad' was giving his daughter a heart to heart talk. Great great Man 👌👏👏👏👍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✨🧘‍♀️✨😚

  • @juliecousin2695
    @juliecousin2695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1151

    You don’t even know a man until you’ve seen how he handles anger, stress, and/or loss.

    • @natalieboult4726
      @natalieboult4726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Julie Cousin when his ego is threatened !😳

    • @angieayala6867
      @angieayala6867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      TRUUUUUUEEEEEE

    • @barbarawilliamson136
      @barbarawilliamson136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Very true because a mans anger can scare u away.

    • @barbarawilliamson136
      @barbarawilliamson136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I've been placed in situations where I've dated church men and there is no clear distinction..im just learning to love myself and following Matthew 6:33.

    • @xavierbradford8696
      @xavierbradford8696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Julie Cousin facts

  • @patriciaadeliteshumbanhete9772
    @patriciaadeliteshumbanhete9772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    - Never drives the momentum of a relationship
    - Never trusts without verification
    - Never look pass a man's character
    - Never allow a man to rush you
    - Give a relationship time
    - Never commit to potential alone
    - Never finance a man. Finance a king when he is down.
    -Never cater to a man not dedicated to you

    • @evetw7746
      @evetw7746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I have to say lm very impressed as this lessons lve heard in Russian psychologist and teachers. And now you. Touche. Not many people teach exact knowledge 🙏🍀💚

    • @comeonblessme29
      @comeonblessme29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @arzookhan896
      @arzookhan896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A queen demands honour

    • @JulieDozierMcCrary
      @JulieDozierMcCrary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      1. Never ignore a man's poor character.

    • @juliettaloves
      @juliettaloves 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      - Queens do not tolerate DISRESPECT

  • @StoniB77
    @StoniB77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +907

    I made that mistake.. cooking and cleaning doing wifely duties for a boyfriend... 🤦🏾‍♀️never again!!! always trying to prove to these men that we are wife material!

    • @unleashedrider4309
      @unleashedrider4309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      God bless your heart. The Bible says, why not let yourself be cheated. Just like the old saying two wrongs don't make a right. So you just keep on being a good woman and you'll find that good man eventually. No one said you're going to find a perfect man, but maybe one day you'll find to love the imperfect man.
      Keep holding on, keep praying, it's frustrating I know. when you pray be specific on the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Tell God exactly what you want. That actually happened for me because I was very specific to what I wanted. Now I'm getting married in November this year. but by all means it wasn't easy at all and it took a long time and when I met her everything didn't just fall into place. so it's up to us to show God we want it when he does put the right person in your path.

    • @alexandrathegreat9812
      @alexandrathegreat9812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel you

    • @TheKianaRoe
      @TheKianaRoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Charise L SAME !

    • @imonmyway317
      @imonmyway317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Me too... Been there and done that.... twice. Never a third time though. Learnt my lesson on that one x

    • @stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax
      @stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes girl I think a lot of us have been there. But now that we know better, we do better for OURSELVES. Not for a man.

  • @yesiamher9034
    @yesiamher9034 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1092

    When u choose to be single and work on yourself these messages sink in fr...

    • @doryjo127
      @doryjo127 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      shadonna kinney yasss! Single, working of becoming the best version of myself and drama free!

    • @cieshaholmes6375
      @cieshaholmes6375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!

    • @jillygreen7930
      @jillygreen7930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      shadonna kinney
      Yaaaas!

    • @ToniViolaFreshFire
      @ToniViolaFreshFire 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      shadonna kinney Absolutely mysistafriend!!!

    • @faynitawilliams4437
      @faynitawilliams4437 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      shadonna kinney Yeeees Sister/Queen! I am single and working on that better even more beautiful version of myself. 💪💪👑👑👑💕💖🙌👏🙏🙏

  • @aneeciaburkscooper8966
    @aneeciaburkscooper8966 6 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    “He’s tall & Got muscles AND HE BROKE” 😂😂 so true

  • @marinalaguerre6709
    @marinalaguerre6709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I literally cried in the 1st few mins of your video, no one taught me these things... I wasted 4yrs, got pregnant and have been taking care of my child with no help from him. please ladies, listen!!! especially if you still young. this will save you a lot of trouble. its sad... but I'm happy now I know, 🙏🙏 be blessed. and Praise Jesus

    • @landers127ify
      @landers127ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Me too. I was so teary eyed. I realize July 2021 I wasted shy of 11 years on someone. I lost myself and realize I don't know my self worth. It's time to let go and change

    • @windowdancercymbals8246
      @windowdancercymbals8246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      God bless your child.

    • @euginawhalen4046
      @euginawhalen4046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤️

    • @EssenceofPolish
      @EssenceofPolish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’m 29, single, and no kids..I really appreciate your story and I hear the strong heeding of your words! The “no one taught me these things” and “please ladies, listen!!!” really got me 💘and I will make you proud my sister✊🏽!! I’m so grateful to be on this path of learning my worth from his videos!! God bless!!🙏🏽

    • @voiceinthedack6054
      @voiceinthedack6054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have two kids and he was definitely not worth of 10 years of my life

  • @nikkinorman4254
    @nikkinorman4254 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1421

    Always be a QUEEN ladies ✨❤ Thank you for this. I'm 17 and I'm going to start being a Queen at an early age. 👑

    • @muthoninjauyah3968
      @muthoninjauyah3968 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Nikki Consciously living your life with God/Higher power as your everything definitely makes a Queen out of one. I find that I think of and treat myself as one more and more each day and my connection to God is definitely my source in this. God is such beautiful love! Let us blend ourselves with Him and He in turn makes gods and goddesses out of us for loves glory

    • @CoachingChosenOnes
      @CoachingChosenOnes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nonnz njau So true. God bless you

    • @muthoninjauyah3968
      @muthoninjauyah3968 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      CoachingChosenOnes Amen💜 and you too❤💜

    • @royallady6546
      @royallady6546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      So happy for you young lady, God bless you for taking this decision.😘

    • @ibukunbankole
      @ibukunbankole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Lucky you. Please don't forget to think on these teachings over and over. Life circumstances can make you forget sometimes.

  • @MissRhane
    @MissRhane 6 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    QUEENS DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT! Amen

    • @irishdeetalks
      @irishdeetalks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      MissRhane true that!!! I am only learning to be a queen. On the road from narcissistic abuse. X

    • @sherriestephenssnow4154
      @sherriestephenssnow4154 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dee Irish I understand

    • @septiawoman2911
      @septiawoman2911 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And as QUEENS, we have a very low tolerance for bullshit and excuses. Agreed!

    • @carlitacabrera5845
      @carlitacabrera5845 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm from Argentina. South america. I really like this man's advice. I love it.

    • @carlitacabrera5845
      @carlitacabrera5845 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love your words! Better than many I 've heard. You consider areas that nobody talks about. You bring God to your words and that's amazing. I will follow you from now on. I'm from Argentina South America. 😘thank you very very much.

  • @ButtahscotchKisses
    @ButtahscotchKisses 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1277

    I feel like slappin myself across the room. 😑 Done broke every single rule.

    • @nydetrarovchnfszz
      @nydetrarovchnfszz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I feel the same way

    • @justgameingday4705
      @justgameingday4705 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      dont feel bad, we all have done this at one time or another.

    • @lvncsr6166
      @lvncsr6166 6 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      When you know better; you do better(Maya Angelou)

    • @antoinettneil7091
      @antoinettneil7091 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too

    • @Terra711_
      @Terra711_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ten la nu emet me too hahahahaha

  • @sheadjustedhercrown1633
    @sheadjustedhercrown1633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Where was this man 20 years ago.. this is spot on. It took me decades to learn all of this. I have an amazing husband now but I had to go through so much trash before I got here. Ladles listen.. he is speaking 100% truth.

    • @ms.exclusive4076
      @ms.exclusive4076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He had to go , through his trials in order to teach others.I have to gone through it before can teach an touch hearts of others.

    • @ginalaprova2934
      @ginalaprova2934 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ms.exclusive4076 u
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    • @michellebarnes7284
      @michellebarnes7284 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If’s always been here we ignored the information and did what we wanted but I Love Him

  • @nycvision8025
    @nycvision8025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    QUEENS.... "Don't Finance A Grown Man" PERIODT!!

    • @slardebard
      @slardebard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree and men should under no circumstances finance women. Let em fend for themselves.

    • @jksmith9161
      @jksmith9161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@slardebard Like a Boeing 747 that tip went way over your head lol...

    • @ladybluemoon1
      @ladybluemoon1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think everyone should be independent until marriage now if the woman if short on some funds that’s different and vice versa but I ain’t paying no one rent and they ain’t paying mines

    • @slardebard
      @slardebard 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jksmith9161 let's see if get a tip, I'll bet your men support you one dollar at a time.

    • @cherisebrown3028
      @cherisebrown3028 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yess! This is so good ❤

  • @joymosley8997
    @joymosley8997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid down his life for you.

    • @faauluuluganiutili1243
      @faauluuluganiutili1243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is so true ,thanks

    • @MBookerLA
      @MBookerLA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Now this is a good comment. The flip side is that women start things seeing things in me I never said I have.

    • @Sweetheart-d6f
      @Sweetheart-d6f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      NEVER till married!

    • @hildehausikujohannes7664
      @hildehausikujohannes7664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I never knew him until the 12th year of our marriage, I got very scared to realize he is a covert nascist. I'm devastated.

    • @babyc.3015
      @babyc.3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Never will I do that til I'm 💍 It's just never fair, sex is just like food to men while it bears morr complications to us women

  • @amakaike9400
    @amakaike9400 6 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    When a man dishonours a Queen she banishes him from the kingdom.

    • @brotha_pedat
      @brotha_pedat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is unfruitful and ungodly idolatrous talk.
      You are not a Queen and you have no Kingdom. If you're not married to the first man you had sex with then get on your face and repent.
      See how much my last sentence lacked in grace?
      This is NOTHING compared to the heresy and wickedness this man is talking, and which is being embraced by the women watching, and the accompanying hubris and delusion thereof.

    • @mb5857
      @mb5857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That Brotha Pedat .....Go ahead. Because it looks like you may be the wolf in sheep's clothing and mad that Pastor Blakes is putting the daughters up on game... and oh yeah, BE BANISHED, sir.!!👑📤

    • @brotha_pedat
      @brotha_pedat 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mb5857 LOL

    • @DH-zi5ob
      @DH-zi5ob 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      amaka ike yes💯

    • @BrandonsWisdomResort
      @BrandonsWisdomResort 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brotha_pedatMost women live in a fantasy so dont pay them no mind bro. Its levels to this relationship stuff but these women are letting the wrong things get to their heads.

  • @TomiaMacQueen
    @TomiaMacQueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    As a Queen that has been with her King and husband for over 23 years, I second this message FOR REAL!!

  • @AskQueenNadine
    @AskQueenNadine 6 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Facts! Don’t give no man you not married to husband privileges!

  • @deborahphillips5651
    @deborahphillips5651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    it used to bother me to be dumped when I would not agree to sex..now I realize I have saved myself a lot of heartache

    • @TGFriosania23
      @TGFriosania23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Deborah Phillips yes you have sweetie and frustration. Them niggas would of only given you 5mins worth of pumping and they wouldn’t of given a damn if you had your orgasm or not

    • @thisdudesam4332
      @thisdudesam4332 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you happy?

    • @beverlyfrancis8433
      @beverlyfrancis8433 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Deborah Phillips....sometimes they don't dump you because you won't give sex, they just harass you about it every time until they wear you down and lay guilt trip on you.....a sign of a player.

    • @williamnabors9135
      @williamnabors9135 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deborah Phillips hey

    • @pearlharbor4790
      @pearlharbor4790 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      deborah phillips, yes, i hold out till i see who they are. if it ends at least i did not give any. no sex is the test.

  • @octavia5265
    @octavia5265 6 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Queens never cater to a man who is not dedicated to her 💯

    • @thisdudesam4332
      @thisdudesam4332 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tavia S What is dedication?

    • @lioness8456
      @lioness8456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@thisdudesam4332 Dedication is when the man honors, respects, and values you as the queen you are! If he hasn't laid down his life for you and treats you right, he doesnt deserve you. 💯

    • @snekomfg5915
      @snekomfg5915 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lioness8456 and what does the QuEnN do for the man? Nag him all day? Tell him to buy her clothes cos she's too lazy to get a job? Being entitled? Calling herself a queen and the house he bought her "kingdom"? You're so entitled and spoiled. Yall want the rights but you don't want no responsibilities. You're gonna end up miserable sooner or later.

    • @snekomfg5915
      @snekomfg5915 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Rankled Alora I'm sure if a guy falls for type of women then he's handicapped.

  • @_.marialek._
    @_.marialek._ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "Trust is not a gift given. It is an honour earned"
    Yes.

  • @pamelaclaassen4898
    @pamelaclaassen4898 6 ปีที่แล้ว +721

    1. Queens never ignore a man's character
    2. Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship
    3. Queens never trust without verifying
    4. Queens give the relationship time
    5. Queens never commit to potential alone
    6. Queens never trust a man that is not producing
    7. Queens never finance a man
    8. Queens never cater to a man that is not dedicated to her
    9. Queens never tolerate disrespect
    10. Queens DEMAND honour
    10/10💕💕

  • @DD-yo6cs
    @DD-yo6cs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    A lot of women say that's why single women are single-because a lot of them don't allow men to disrespect them. They also have standards about who they date.

    • @PucciNYC
      @PucciNYC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      D D I rather be alone than settle for less than what I deserve. Women know I worth. This why these men out here running rampant without respecting us. Smh!!!

    • @tanyab4128
      @tanyab4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jam Onit Amen 🙏

    • @meganeurope1521
      @meganeurope1521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      DD uou are so right. 🙏😍

    • @deborahday1786
      @deborahday1786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep.

    • @vickicsurbs444
      @vickicsurbs444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I've been single 25 years because I wont tolerate BS, Games, Drama or disrespect From men or anyone.

  • @kymberlycourage
    @kymberlycourage 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    "POTENTIAL DON'T PAY THE LIGHT BILL'!!! This guy makes so much sense 👏👏👏

  • @Kaelinbauu
    @Kaelinbauu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    “Queens DEMAND honor, queens know what they bring to the table. When a man dishonors a queen,
    she BANISHES him from her kingdom.” 💯
    😂😂This part is so funny to me

  • @purplet72walker72
    @purplet72walker72 7 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Queens Do Not Finance Men!!Amen

    • @grwnupmiss
      @grwnupmiss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tracie Darthard So sad I can't like more than once!!

    • @77deerose
      @77deerose 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Tracie Darthard Amen, so many women doing the opposite in these days, that These men ask you out and tell you to pay for first date. Not this queen. lol

    • @gertrudesishartzoggibbs8031
      @gertrudesishartzoggibbs8031 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I refuse to finance a man...

  • @faithgood58
    @faithgood58 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I don't have an earthly dad; I needed this so badly. I am crying.

    • @veebarton7602
      @veebarton7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's ok dear a lot of us didn't ...so now you know and pick up from here and be the true Queen you are designed to be ...help others as well ..bring them to this channel and let them drink of living waters

    • @veebarton7602
      @veebarton7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Queens Demand Honour !!!!!.yes sir!!!! Banished if not from The Kingdom ...Amen!!!!

    • @kellygarvin9586
      @kellygarvin9586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hugs

    • @katiegene1932
      @katiegene1932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking the same thing! The advice I need to hear.

    • @hautecouture2228
      @hautecouture2228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had a lovely dad but he died when I was 15 and we never had these conversations

  • @soniadawson8548
    @soniadawson8548 6 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I have taken back my Queen status, and it's wonderful. I had forgotten. 👑

    • @mariamakay5974
      @mariamakay5974 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sonia Dawson same here sister

    • @Lfavored777
      @Lfavored777 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are going to reap the rewards of Queen status! 👸

    • @karengoldner4719
      @karengoldner4719 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enjoy yourself, your majesty!!! Your royal highness. : )

    • @jahmaykagreen8924
      @jahmaykagreen8924 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes yes goddess queen

    • @lexiglowingup
      @lexiglowingup 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sonia Dawson yes! Sometimes we just go through so much we forget. Nothing wrong with it because we acknowledged it. Congrats to all the Queens who took back their status!! We will reign beautifully.

  • @irenesmith2523
    @irenesmith2523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I thought I was too picky, but now that I am looking at his videos I realized that I am a real Queen 👸 and I don’t tolerate any mistake from a supposedly King 🤴

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    1: Queens never ignore a man’s proven character
    2: Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship
    3: Queens never trust without verifying
    (1 John 4:1)
    • not gullible
    • verify through intentional questions
    • give the relationship time
    4: Queens never commits to potential alone
    (Mark 11:12-14)
    • If he ain’t producing his potential: leave him on the elevator
    5: Queens never finance a man
    (2 Thessalonians 3:11)
    • the only man a queen will finance is her King: TEMPORARILY, if he’s down (with provisions)
    • never finance unproven men
    • only finance your sons, through teaching him how to take care of a woman
    6: Queens never cater to a man that’s not dedicating himself to the woman
    (Ephesians 5:22)
    • don’t give wifely duties to an undedicated man
    7: Queens never tolerate disrespect
    (1 Peter 3:7)
    • Queens demand honor

  • @_M4Muna_
    @_M4Muna_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    "CLOWN IN A CROWN"!!!
    I almost hollered.😲🙊🤭

    • @retinamitchell5993
      @retinamitchell5993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gurrrrrllll!!!!! AMENNN! LOL

    • @michellehunter9762
      @michellehunter9762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I clutched the pearls.

    • @monicaivy2497
      @monicaivy2497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes LAWD! Preach, I bout fainted on that one!! I have seen this so many times, women happy just to have a piece of a man😂😂 and let's not forget RC: "Lee, does potential pay light bills in here?" Linda: "Naw Naw sweety." They are too cute...

    • @amberl.8245
      @amberl.8245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂 I did holler lol

    • @October3074
      @October3074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BROKE clown in a crown! I hollered in the gym 😄😄

  • @thehighnoteincupidshuffle8282
    @thehighnoteincupidshuffle8282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    The 990 dislikes are the clowns in crowns lol 😂😂

    • @lynnefreeman7687
      @lynnefreeman7687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😚🤦‍♀️😂

    • @chosenlight7289
      @chosenlight7289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @22master65
      @22master65 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      like putos

    • @bongiwemdaka533
      @bongiwemdaka533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sandyhagans1262
      @sandyhagans1262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 RiiiGHT!!

  • @cathrineii696
    @cathrineii696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    "Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship....if he's not man enough to drive the relationship, he ain't man enough to maintain that relationship..." 🙏 Thank you for everything you teach and share with the world. Greetings and gratitude from the UK.

  • @livinghigher4837
    @livinghigher4837 6 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    Ladies, dont you just love his videos?

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Live Higher Woman! Thank you. 😂😂😂 Not all of them- SOME OF THEM HATE ME. 😂😂😂

    • @livinghigher4837
      @livinghigher4837 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Robert Blakes the truth hurts.

    • @Letsbreal2023
      @Letsbreal2023 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love his videos. #wisdom

    • @corinaweber9014
      @corinaweber9014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Live Higher Woman! I love his videos. He gives the advice a father would give.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Live Higher Woman! First video!
      I’ve got a lot to learn. From a door mat to a queen type of lady ...

  • @rachaeleena
    @rachaeleena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    “Potential is Not the same as being fruitful “ 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280
    @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280 6 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    *"QUEEEENS NEVER FINANCE A MAN!!!!"*
    *Say it again, brotha Blake, for the chicks in the back!!!!*

    • @mejustbeingme1207
      @mejustbeingme1207 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! for the chicks in the back lol

    • @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280
      @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ab de *Wait, WHAAAAT???!!!*
      *Boy/girl, BYE!*
      -u MUST be one of these soft millenial dudes -OR one of these new-age females, who doesnt know her worth

    • @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280
      @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ab de
      Aaand how does *"BIGOTED"* fit into this equation anyways lol????
      I aint gonna roast u on this positive page, but learn yo words plz

    • @mb5857
      @mb5857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! .....@16:06 .....I LOST IT!!! ROTFLMAO😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥

    • @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280
      @itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mb5857 😂😂😂 ikr??
      He right tho!

  • @giulias.5104
    @giulias.5104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I am 43. I had to learn this lessons by making bad moves and paying the price of it. It is ok. It means to me that my soul wasn't evolved enough to hear this wisdom before. We often have to pass through pain to evolve. I feel grateful for the pain that lead me where I am now.
    Sir, beautiful channel and great wisdom. Thank you for sharing it.

    • @vivavidadela
      @vivavidadela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well sis you ain’t alone🙏🏾me too.

    • @giulias.5104
      @giulias.5104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vivavidadela 💗🌺

    • @KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching
      @KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m 49 and finally learning. I wasn’t ready till I was in pain enough to transcend. It’s never too late.

    • @myrabonatz2601
      @myrabonatz2601 ปีที่แล้ว

      True, blessings ❤

  • @dewdrop4330
    @dewdrop4330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I never had a father figure. I appreciate you sharing your words.

  • @grownknow6857
    @grownknow6857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    "Most men are lying..." hahaha. The funny thing is some guys don't realize they are lying. Then they act like you are the mean one for seeing through them.

  • @srky4346
    @srky4346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    I could’ve used this advice 20 years ago. Parents sit down and let your daughters watch this. 👸

    • @macrocoachkellimichelle
      @macrocoachkellimichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @Adulttvfree
      @Adulttvfree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oooh same!!!

    • @rhondamiller9047
      @rhondamiller9047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto!!!

    • @geminiots2121
      @geminiots2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And the sons needs to watch this too. All of these biys running around who get mad when a girl rejects. This can hopefully explain why and help them change to become better men.
      I do agree with you. These young girls running around with their cheeks hanging out their pants and wonder why men don't respect them. Moms raise your girls to be ladies and dads raise your boys to be gentlemen.

    • @landers127ify
      @landers127ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      15 years ago for me

  • @ladycryptologist192
    @ladycryptologist192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Those 1.2k dislikes must be men cause this man told NO lies in this video 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @muthonispa01-10
      @muthonispa01-10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If they do not dislike then it means it ain’t true so we embrace the dislikes too !

    • @roinetwork7467
      @roinetwork7467 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmbo! 😆 🤣 😂

    • @muthonispa01-10
      @muthonispa01-10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roinetwork7467 right 😂😂

  • @lashuanjones1213
    @lashuanjones1213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    My God I wish I had a man in my life that taught me these things when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of unnecessary pain.

    • @lashuanjones1213
      @lashuanjones1213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m a Hebrew Israelite woman, and even in my church they don’t teach this information. But I now know these things and I’m always speaking out as a woman and letting them know that just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean God won’t and can’t use me in his ministry. There are a lot of Israelite men who are BROKEN and they hold women down because of their brokenness, but I’m proud to say I’m not one of these women who can be held back or down.

    • @1111DoubleOH7
      @1111DoubleOH7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That right there 💞

    • @josannebruce3096
      @josannebruce3096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alot

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Iashuan Jones well said is a shame we have to go through so much pain before we learn

    • @DarrenLenzylll
      @DarrenLenzylll 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s ok. Self compassion.

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 7 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    I'm balling crying 😲😭😭 I've been told I'm drama because of this..Thank you for clarifying my stand🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly I'm glad you know that YOU are not the problem they are! Keep respecting yourself young lady!

    • @carlettachristian369
      @carlettachristian369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sweetie 4 ever God bless you! You are still a Queen in Gods eyes!

    • @purposedpatience6597
      @purposedpatience6597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carletta Christian aww thank you sister💕💕💕

    • @purposedpatience6597
      @purposedpatience6597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mo Getit amen💕💕💕

    • @purposedpatience6597
      @purposedpatience6597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Miss Klassy actually I've never dated or was married to a broke thug. My ex husband is a 20 year detective on the police force and my last two were successful business owners that were respected by many so I can't relate to you assuming that women only deal with bums and broke men.. I'm not broke nor am I desperate I simply don't take no crap no more from a clown like the bishop said.. what my problem was I dated "NARRCISTIC" men who reflected my father. A woman's first example of a man is from her father or lack there of.My father was in my life yet he wasn't nurturing but critical and abusive emotionally..
      My father is a well established attorney of 30 years yet he is still a broken man.. Until a woman deals with her daddy issues then she will entertain men who resembled their father's dysfuntion, which i did...Its alot of successful damage men and women out here who look the part yet lack "wholeness". Dysfunction is not bias nor reduced to material or economic status, it comes on levels..Don't be fooled!

  • @vivivisions2225
    @vivivisions2225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    Wish my father had set me down and had this talk with me at 16

    • @rachaeleena
      @rachaeleena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Linda Flynn me too yet hey most parents don’t know

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here, it would have saved a lot of heartache. ❤️

    • @FeelingFitFabFun
      @FeelingFitFabFun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too. I have an amazing father but he never really told me about men and how men are.

    • @kimberlydobson8652
      @kimberlydobson8652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly same here. But what we can do is teach the generation to come in Jesus name!

    • @iamamillionaire4364
      @iamamillionaire4364 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Linda Flynn right

  • @mimib___6709
    @mimib___6709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Currently doing the inner work in myself and these teachings are pure gold. ❤

  • @yesiamher9034
    @yesiamher9034 6 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    I'm 41 years old with over 25yrs of relationship experience and I'm getting to old to be still blind to the facts..

    • @lwinston5950
      @lwinston5950 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      shadonna kinney 36 and feel the same

    • @tonyascott6203
      @tonyascott6203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      At times I have knowledge of things.. The know how.... without fully understanding the process... So I knew some of these things but didn't understand the process..
      POWERFUL Teaching

    • @gspence517
      @gspence517 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tonya Benn agreed, powerful

    • @MsKofi1
      @MsKofi1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don't feel bad. I'm 48, recently divorced after 25 years, and still learning. I don't know if anyone ever gets it right!

    • @poleprincess5621
      @poleprincess5621 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shadonna kinney you’re honest and we’re here learning..#growth #wisewomen #nubianqueens

  • @mistikalnawe
    @mistikalnawe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    all these 27 years i thought i was being too crazy/high standards out here, turns out i was acting in my Queenly right, just didnt know it. HUH! Thank you so much for this, brother.

    • @taneelawson4945
      @taneelawson4945 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      jvnic3 I said the same thing... I'm like am I too hard on myself

    • @robinsonshanekqua219
      @robinsonshanekqua219 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jvnic3 sammmmeeee here! I knew I was different.. most men swear I’m stuck up... no sweetie I just know what I want.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go queen!!

  • @ItsLotus89
    @ItsLotus89 6 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    I committed to potential in a prior relationship, like a dummy lol I once was lost, but now I’m found 😩 Was blind, but now I see 🙌🏾

    • @mostdefmodest
      @mostdefmodest 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👑

    • @TiaJoy1372
      @TiaJoy1372 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Come on now

    • @graceemade1703
      @graceemade1703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That makes two of us. Recipe for disaster.

    • @madeby__vee
      @madeby__vee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And I’m found found.

    • @victoriousme9068
      @victoriousme9068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here,I'm so embarrassed about my naivety then. Thank God who opened my eyes I left him

  • @deniselopez6226
    @deniselopez6226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    “A Queen does not tolerate disrespect” I wish I have have heard this advice 25 years ago at least a yr after getting married. I would not have become suicidal 5 yrs ago. After hearing your advice, it’s the 1st time I hear this beautiful advice almost 1 yr after my ex-husband left me and my 2 children for another woman (after 26 yrs of marriage). Thankfully I have been close to God through this process, and HE gives me strength.
    But today is the first time
    I understand I already did everything you mentioned a queen does not do 😭. Thankfully I’m still alive, and I’m free from him. I pray God makes a way financially, so I can attend your next retreat.
    You have beautiful fatherly advice that all females who don’t have this fatherly figure could use.
    I pray any single/divorced female will listen to your advice (myself included) and make any necessary changes. Hopefully what I just shared will also help these women.
    Don’t tolerate disrespect in any way, even if you’re married. If you don’t see change in your man, move on. Your life will be better!

    • @tanushreebaranwal06
      @tanushreebaranwal06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      More power to u girl 💪❤

    • @milliesecond102
      @milliesecond102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's been a year now. I've been going through my hell with a narcissist husband of 24 years and filed for divorce after our sin graduated from high school in June. How are you doing now?❤️

    • @pinkroser.e5112
      @pinkroser.e5112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And because a lack of respect from my ex husband , I got divorce.

  • @asamoore4076
    @asamoore4076 6 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Things we must share with our daughters.

    • @marylewis469
      @marylewis469 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brother you are speaking truth I love it you have encouraged me deeply

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The boomer generation truly did drop the ball. We now have two generations of men and women who don’t know the basics anymore.

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Asa Moore share this with our sons as well !!! They need to hear this too !

  • @Ericatheinspirer
    @Ericatheinspirer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I wish I had known this years ago, I was so ignorant and I'm almost ashamed to admit that, but I'm growing into a Queen now 👑💕

    • @monnea2407
      @monnea2407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes ma'am.... I have had several types of circus clowns in my life but the lady I am today.... Don't even try it!!!

    • @7125joyce
      @7125joyce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Don't feel bad because I was a fool and naive but thanks be to God for Pastor Blake allowing God to use him to help us!

    • @BarbieBarnes
      @BarbieBarnes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right me too. But we had to learn

    • @nonkosiebucie2852
      @nonkosiebucie2852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep me too.

    • @beverlyhall4578
      @beverlyhall4578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't stress over it. You now know better.

  • @adianezhernandez5877
    @adianezhernandez5877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I’ve been single for 3 years , going to church and improving myself. It’s sooo had to find a date yet alone discern a man to qualify thru all this. Lord have mercy, God bless us.

  • @theelephantqueen748
    @theelephantqueen748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “Because potential without corresponding character is equal to no potential “ . Wow . Wow. Wow. Way to sum up what has been my biggest lesson reaching age 30 in such a perfect powerful statement ! I LOVED this video, just discovered you , you have gained another subscriber.

  • @bettyspencer3120
    @bettyspencer3120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I am almost 70 yrs. Old yet I feel so stupid right now! But I thank you for what you have brought to MY table!

    • @trasation1774
      @trasation1774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I get it...but, each one Teach one (or more). You (we) have the opportunity to learn and share to others who will listen.💞🔥👑

    • @venishacharlemagne4284
      @venishacharlemagne4284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep 34still learning

    • @dandelionkisss
      @dandelionkisss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s never too late and you are not stupid at all!

    • @darlahenderson4734
      @darlahenderson4734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You aren't stupid you feel you are good . I feel that too but you know I see it different now.

  • @jesuslovesleno6109
    @jesuslovesleno6109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    YES 45 YEARS OLD AND NOW FINALLY LEARNING...THANK YOU🎓

  • @bsean1179
    @bsean1179 6 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    I love every part of this video. I am a King! I make good money, but I have yet to maximize my greatest potential. I've been at a standstill waiting on my Queen: It's just me, so I saw no need for certain things unless my better half was present. I know now, that I have work to do. I guess, if I build it, she'll come. God bless you Pastor. Keep pumping that goodness to 'em.

    • @thephoenix2176
      @thephoenix2176 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True this King.. .Patience is of virtue - Good luck

    • @judisnyder4868
      @judisnyder4868 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amen! From a women's perspective, a man who is focused on his work and bettering himself is the most attractive!

    • @truckergirlgoddest1968
      @truckergirlgoddest1968 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @tashanicole6323
      @tashanicole6323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen.

    • @naysworld
      @naysworld 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She's coming

  • @andreadefell147
    @andreadefell147 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you, Thank you for Sharing, Sometimes because you get Tired of Settling, and Being a Fool, God Bless You, Beautiful King

  • @carlanicholson1516
    @carlanicholson1516 6 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Where did women think financing a man was love? I learned at an early age that a man is suppose to provide for a woman when my stepfather married my mom with 8 kids that weren't his They had one together making it 9 kids and my stepfather worked and took care of all us including his grandkids until he died. From that learning experience I don't finance men and have a good man in my life that is a provider.

    • @lioness8456
      @lioness8456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Wow! You truly experienced a REAL man, so rare these days! I have 4 babies with my husband, but God forbid he leaves I still aint worried about another King finding me! Queens are good women that never have to stress about a man. She's a prize, babies and all. 👑 Blessings to you and your family! ❤ 💪

    • @newme6476
      @newme6476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Now that's a real man. Same thing with my grandad (my mom's stepdad) He married my grandmother when she had 4 kids by a man and a 5th child by another man. She had her 6th with him. She didn't have to work but never went without....always had whatever she needed/wanted. Took care of the kids. My mom is the oldest (61now). I've never seen my grandparents disrespect each other. She passed last year and my grandad told the grown children pick whatever casket you want, real flowers, etc The funeral was beautiful...it hurted to see the tears flowing down his face cause he loved her....That's the kind of man we deserve ladies....

    • @resilience4lyfe331
      @resilience4lyfe331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I pray that never happen to my son!

    • @toyawimley647
      @toyawimley647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree👍

    • @pamelaborst6272
      @pamelaborst6272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That I feel is awesome! Looks like you found your king !

  • @jennyg495
    @jennyg495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    -"Potential don't pay the light bill."
    RC Blake's message 100/100

  • @_me.Kanika
    @_me.Kanika 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Finally. A man speaking truth about relationships that does not hurt, devalue, or underestimate women. Much respect!

  • @Essetheartist
    @Essetheartist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Now that I'm a new, young woman under Christ, I'm looking for the biblical way to date. I'm not trying to fall again.

    • @redandblack2176
      @redandblack2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is wife not talking! Why is he a better women at womenhood than him? I don't bash women not men on social media especially black ones. We have it bad as it is. Vanessa

  • @kimmcleod
    @kimmcleod 7 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    One of the most overlooked components to women not knowing or understanding that they are not behaving in a way that's in their best interest is childhood trauma. Many simply are not aware that growing up in an abusive environment sets the tone for what you will and will not put up with.
    A toxic, abusive, neglectful and absentee parent(s) (parent's can be physically available, but emotionally unavailable due to alcohol, etc) is not assisting the child in developing their emotional intelligence or consciousness and this leads the child to being a broken adult that's susceptible to almost any kind of treatment. So, my point is that the origins of why women may be tolerating this type of character from a man needs to be addressed.

    • @kimmcleod
      @kimmcleod 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Miss Klass, hahaha...we have a ton of "boys" out there who claim to be men and they are extremely abusive and women need to understand that these types are to be left completely alone!

    • @marielove9529
      @marielove9529 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty
      @DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Kim McLeod thank you for mentioning this important point.

    • @rosa629
      @rosa629 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YOUR TRUE` Kim McLeod...

    • @bre970
      @bre970 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amen, and I'm a living witness. I'm glad I woke up but I pray more people come to where God wants us to be.

  • @wendyo7621
    @wendyo7621 6 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    The Queen is also the most powerful piece on the chessboard!

  • @contessanowacki5754
    @contessanowacki5754 6 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    A man that finds a wife finds a good thing!!! Come on Jesus you are teaching!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @gipsyshir4939
      @gipsyshir4939 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men are hard to read. Your man might be hiding something. But it’s not what you think. Are you overlooking his cry for help? t.co/MTPSR5qOxf

  • @soulsister4898
    @soulsister4898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    MY ALL TIME FAVORITE VIDEO EVER!!! I've been celibate for 12 years because of these principles and teachings since my hubby died. My mother and father taught me these principles. I made the mistake of dating a childhood friend (after my husband died) who turned out to be a "false image of a godly man." He taught me so many lessons/things that I should not have done. Mainly, I should not have veered from my parents' and late husband's teachings and examples.
    GOD BLESS YOU...😇
    KEEP TEACHING THESE TRUTHS! They're not antiquated teachings... their truth!🙏🏽

  • @williampalmer9828
    @williampalmer9828 6 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Right on brotha! Teach the Queens. Only the ones that are equal will understand your language.

  • @kelishapatrickable
    @kelishapatrickable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I made so many mistakes with my children's father and my second relationship. God is getting my heart ready for a true King now that I'm walking as a true Queen!

    • @imabeloveddaughter
      @imabeloveddaughter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kelisha Patrick amen. me too.

    • @yongmimi3058
      @yongmimi3058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aah pray God gives you the best man

    • @LUV733
      @LUV733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen to this! 💖

  • @regina6827
    @regina6827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    I’m a QUEEN. I have always had this “Queen Mentality” and didn’t realize it....I just thought I was very “picky & guarded” around a man. So, although lonely, I will continue to WAIT for The King to present himself to me; and I will allow this king to prove/show his worth to me.
    I have been alone for several years and willing to wait for MY King because a new talks a good game but he needs to SHOW me. I’m in NO rush to prove anything to him.🌟🎊
    🙏
    “The Queen😇”

    • @pearlofwisdom4045
      @pearlofwisdom4045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're not lonely queen. You are alone, but even then you're not alone you're never alone. Namaste ❤️

    • @gracendahani
      @gracendahani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Queen, it gets lonely sometimes but it'S Worthy it

    • @newbeginnings9297
      @newbeginnings9297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Second

    • @charitylee292
      @charitylee292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @jessfamilytv6045
      @jessfamilytv6045 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Boom!!! Yes Queen!

  • @lorenparker7846
    @lorenparker7846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I like how he interacts with his wife during the teachings so she feels included. Just checkin on her. 🤗

  • @shakitashontajones
    @shakitashontajones 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Man I was a Queen early but ppl said I thought to highly of myself...23 years later, I'm coming back to her. Praise God. Trust God. Trust yourself.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shakita J ..because they thought to low of themselves

    • @empress_highpriestess3307
      @empress_highpriestess3307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shakita..Im very disturbed that I too..when younger..knew my worth and value -- and lost sight of that..
      Life teaches us through experience comes wisedom - I don't understand how I could have moved backward through the decades..

    • @QB42477
      @QB42477 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HONEY!!!! YES!

    • @UnapologeticallyCynthia
      @UnapologeticallyCynthia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shakita J the enemy wants us to believe our standards are too high and we’re being too much! Don’t believe the hype. I too did some things I regret but to God be the Glory those mistakes taught me to continue to fight for what I believe I deserve. And what make it so bad it’s nothing more than wanting my husband to be the MAN in every area. Not just the bedroom.

  • @ellaoji3867
    @ellaoji3867 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    It's true that when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Thank God for this message my Brother.

    • @asj7732
      @asj7732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ella Oji this is soooo true

  • @paulesaturday9490
    @paulesaturday9490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    "You bringing all the fruit to the table and he bringing potential." Done 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ shame on me

    • @asmieve9094
      @asmieve9094 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I only cry if i think of my past wandering

    • @juliahernandez6247
      @juliahernandez6247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paule Samedi so true

    • @vadamsable
      @vadamsable 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂 you're bringing all the fruit.

  • @allisonrose4796
    @allisonrose4796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I wanted to take the time and express my gratitude for this man.
    Growing up I didn’t have a father to understand these things and I am so blessed that I have come acrosss your channel as it has guided me to become closer to God and know my worth.
    You are a wonderful man, and a great Spiritual Father anyone can ask for. Thank you.

  • @Regina-or8xk
    @Regina-or8xk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    "Never lay your body down to a man that has not laid his life down for you!" That is the word! You are a blessing to the women in the body of Christ Pastor Blakes. Our lives will completely change for the better once we begin to practice that admonishment.

    • @jennyg495
      @jennyg495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Regina, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree with your interpretation as well. So grateful for Pastor Blakes. The way you worded your message is beautiful.

  • @Imcoming304
    @Imcoming304 6 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I've broken all 7 of the Queen Rules and one point and time in life just to have someone. I have new outlook and will follow all 7 Rules.

    • @rudzambilu7522
      @rudzambilu7522 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go for it my sista. I pray that you find your king.

    • @ghisellesimon162
      @ghisellesimon162 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @SW-nz5bx
      @SW-nz5bx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So have I but I'm more conscious now and will wait on my King!

    • @mariaheiuraitchener2329
      @mariaheiuraitchener2329 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too sis aue praise God thats over!!! ✝️😊✊🏾

  • @carmendesir5057
    @carmendesir5057 6 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    “Potential doesn’t keep the lights on”
    “Queens don’t finance a man”
    Come on now! You stepping on toes! Thank you!

    • @lightpinkrosey
      @lightpinkrosey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gyrlllllll did u hear the church say AMEN!🙌

    • @sierushest1991
      @sierushest1991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      More like slicing toes 😂

    • @ritamutoka7768
      @ritamutoka7768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not even toes feet ! Ha, ha, haaaa !!

  • @BayouChicGardening
    @BayouChicGardening ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 8 year old son rushes to open the door for me. That lil boy is something else.

  • @Silkyslim48
    @Silkyslim48 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love this!!!! Women do too much for these men we call OUR MAN!!!! Ain't worthy!!!

  • @lioness8456
    @lioness8456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "Yo lil' clown in a crown" 👑 so sad but true! I know women over 40 supporting grown men financially, but I've never understood how you even respect him as the head of your household. A piece of a man is WORSE than no man, remember that QUEENS!! 👑 ❤

  • @adagator33
    @adagator33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It's been years ago but I still feel sick about how I allowed myself to be treated. Lord please free my mind and help me to forgive myself.

    • @landers127ify
      @landers127ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My now struggle....feeling my worst cause I allowed this man to mistreat me as I settled for a wasted 10 years

  • @Anna-z9z9g
    @Anna-z9z9g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes it's helping me and I am 69years old, thanks I just started watching you, Annabelle!

  • @tania0070
    @tania0070 6 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I tell you what ... I was nothing but a fool - but no more. You are an anointed master teacher! I thank God for your gift. Thanks for sharing with us. May God continue to bless you and your family.

    • @Gigglingsiren
      @Gigglingsiren 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tania Thomas Me too. No more being a fool for me

    • @lj1456
      @lj1456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heather Jones same here

    • @lovingmariahgordon4432
      @lovingmariahgordon4432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tania Thomas you were not a fool you are a honest committed queen doing the right thing. We reap what we sow. Trust in God

  • @barbararodriguez5685
    @barbararodriguez5685 7 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    The bank is closed for the clown in a crown!!!! Amen.

  • @JustineMfulama
    @JustineMfulama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    AHHH I LOVE THIS. He might have the "potential" but if he can't manifest it, then there is no value to it. Boom. Absolutely agree. A lot of us women put too much hope into potential and believe we can change him, but that is such a dangerous mindset, that more often than not leads to heartbreak. THANKS FOR SHARING!

    • @Shaniceisdivine
      @Shaniceisdivine 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have the potential to manifest and multiply.. ???

    • @Shaniceisdivine
      @Shaniceisdivine 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My apologies sis! I just needed a place to take that note. Not intended as a response to you.

  • @pbombshell23
    @pbombshell23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God I found you 🙏💯❤ shower of blessings How I wish my dad was alive and still calling me queen as he always did... 💜🙏dad & mun rip 💯🙏

  • @IsabellGreen
    @IsabellGreen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    THIS works just the same for ANY relationship with a man or any human! I fired a mechanic last week because of his disrespect. I also feel EVERYONE out that is in my life! Same goes for lawyers, doctors etc........ One thing I have learned this year is to NEVER put up with disrespect from ANYONE!!!!

    • @angeledwards6521
      @angeledwards6521 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @royaldominionauthorityglob4813
      @royaldominionauthorityglob4813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too sis, this is definitely the year of Revelation for God on all levels/aspects of our lives when it comes to relationships from all people

    • @faridahnakayemba1496
      @faridahnakayemba1496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also fired Aman who wanted to take me for dinnwr the niga told me to do reservations l told who told u l wanna meet u man up pliz

    • @toniagreen7836
      @toniagreen7836 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      NEVER

    • @darlahenderson4734
      @darlahenderson4734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I called out racist calling chinese man wang the man calling him wang was indigious . A holes come on all races. Doesn't matter color race or greed evil is evil. Said he was an activist yah right another fraud

  • @angelablackthorne3026
    @angelablackthorne3026 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    These are things that women, especially young, inexperienced women, need to hear from a trusted man. Many do not have fathers or other caring men in their lives who will give them this guidance and the permission to use it in protection of their lives and that of their future children. You are a father to many women with good guidance, Pastor Blakes. That's right! Potential doesn't pay the light bill or keep the heat on!!! A man who cannot keep the lights on isn't suitable for a husband!

  • @TheLadyindigo87
    @TheLadyindigo87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    YES! I almost married a man with "potential".Now im in queen consciousness and know MUCH better. Yes a woman should seek and work to be independence but the man should be her provider!

  • @DivinelyGodess
    @DivinelyGodess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Absolutely! “Never cater to a man that didn’t claim you as wife” period!!! Invaluable lesson we women should listen learn and apply!

  • @TheOfficialJessicaDivine
    @TheOfficialJessicaDivine 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I was not sure if this was going to be some "relationship coach" foolishness. However, THIS WAS ON POINT. Thankfully, I caught on to all of this wisdom early on in life. Having this mentality has blessed me immensely. I have been blessed with such a respectful, honorable, and loving husband of six years. He is a provider, protector, intelligent, affectionate, supportive, chivalrous, loves the Lord, etc...Having high standards will run a lot of fools off. However, that leaves room for a good man to come in. Don't allow loneliness and desperation to have you settling.

    • @gardeniajohnson6855
      @gardeniajohnson6855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you wise counsel. Queens demands honor.... God bless you

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      MsJlaw13 Being a true Queen paid off.

  • @Giveintolove94
    @Giveintolove94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This queen has been awoken!!!
    This is the most manly man I've ever heard!

    • @ILoveMyMelanin.
      @ILoveMyMelanin. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      THANK YOU.

    • @darlahenderson4734
      @darlahenderson4734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A real man looks like this a conscious man.

    • @RadiantHeart773
      @RadiantHeart773 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know what is sad. This guy brought me lunch on Monday & on Wednesday ask me to bring him lunch 😠 Foolishness!!!!! He assured me he would reimburse me, but that didn't happen. Annnddddd been having phones conversation for only 2 weeks

  • @slingeerulz
    @slingeerulz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Thank you for this... Imma straighten my crown and keep moving along!

    • @ladyb129
      @ladyb129 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!

  • @tkad1241
    @tkad1241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A friend of mine sent me this link and I subscribed to your channel. I love your teaching on this. Women need to hear this every single day and stop believing the lies that's blocking their eyes. This right here is such a deep message, conversation, teaching, you name it. All women of ages, sizes and skin color need to hear this. This is so real, so true, so important, so deep, so plain, so on point. Thank you for sharing, God bless you!

  • @deanikiliagwu1595
    @deanikiliagwu1595 7 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Potential don’t pay the light bill lol

    • @lulub5059
      @lulub5059 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @vanouchie
      @vanouchie 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      nadine ikiliagwu . True that!

    • @yahwehsaves7044
      @yahwehsaves7044 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nadine ikiliagwu Don't get involve with a broke man. Don't spend your money on him. I learned this too too late. Romance without finance is a nuisance.

    • @dakarawilliams228
      @dakarawilliams228 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @RMurray
    @RMurray 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "Queens do not finance a man!" My brother...you ain't never lied. Sincerely, A Queen.

  • @bonnielindsay4764
    @bonnielindsay4764 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I wish my father would have taught me these principles. I will share this video in hopes it will help someone. Priceless truths!

    • @tabithagonzales9339
      @tabithagonzales9339 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish my father took the time to teach my sisters and I this as well. The room was more important than the queens he had in his house 😔

    • @Msrareedition
      @Msrareedition 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anybody, but then again would I have listened I was so hungry for a man

    • @byyahbaby9211
      @byyahbaby9211 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its ok because you have it now😘

  • @DEVVIINCA
    @DEVVIINCA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are amazing. This should be, taught in high school ⭐️💜👑

  • @19isthenumber
    @19isthenumber 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I'm so proud that this man is a real man and is telling the truth. He reminds me of the male perspective I received from my Father. A real man who taught me how to be a real woman. Men raise your daughters!

  • @aweleokocha8284
    @aweleokocha8284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    God led me this page. Timing and situation likewise

  • @jessicajohnson2559
    @jessicajohnson2559 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Sad to say pastor, I have done it before. Everything that you are saying is the truth. You do better when you know better.

    • @poisonpoison686
      @poisonpoison686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jessica Johnson That's ok WE GOT IT NOW.

    • @Carolyn100000
      @Carolyn100000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes Jesscia, forgive yourself. we know better now so let us do better.

  • @lailamorse5339
    @lailamorse5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    After 44yrs of getting it all so wrong, I finally understand my worth. I have given of myself with love in my heart, without knowing the truth.
    Thank you Father, for sharing these videos. I am ever the student willing to learn. I love myself more and more each day. I respect myself by setting boundaries. Thank You Jesus for all You did and still do for me. I am eternally Yours Lord and You are mine. I love You Lord and offer my humble gratitude for Your guidance and Protection. Sending all my beautiful family, all over this planet and those in Spirit, my unconditional love, light and blessings. 🙏✌️💖✨🤗🥰