Fear of Success || An honest chat

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024

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  • @stephaniemtz2415
    @stephaniemtz2415 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New subscriber here!!! , i loved the feeling of beinf left out with friendships, your Channel its like therapy, just love it. Btw saludos desde México!!!

    • @charminglykoko
      @charminglykoko  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Sometimes when I film it does feel like therapy so I guess that's accurate lol

  • @JamesDooney
    @JamesDooney 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you will find that self talk has a lot to do with it

    • @charminglykoko
      @charminglykoko  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tbh I have mixed feelings on self talk. To an extent, I can see how it can be beneficial. But I feel like some take it to the extreme, as if as long as you talk to yourself positively, think sunshine and rainbows, then everything will get better/work out. But nothing will happen without action.
      Now in the case of imposter syndrome, could positive self talk help, yea. But I think of it as more of a bandaid till you get to the source of whats causing it. I find identifying my issues to be more productive so then I can't ignore what it is I need to work on. Putting it out in the open in videos then helps with keeping me accountable to myself because now I've put it out to the world. Mind as well make my people pleasing work for me lol. Show anyone who's willing to watch that I'm applying the same standards to myself and working on improving once I've identified the issue at hand.
      Also, I appreciate you taking your time to watch and leave comments. I've noticed you've left several 😊

    • @JamesDooney
      @JamesDooney 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@charminglykoko No worries and yes you are right. Things need to b e practical !!