idk i doubt anyone can be that oblivious, + his gf would prob tell him to drop her after this pictures, seems he kept it hidden its weird@@cherami-nox-fleuret
The 3 story is crazy cause imagine getting this like beautiful message declaring how much this man loves his partner, couldn’t be without her, and admires her and be like hm he must want me 💀
Dean is such a sweetheart I teared up a bit. Yeah John nailed it! As someone with extreme anxiety, I would at least want someone to ask if I was in a place to hear about a shit with bad takes about me.
Callie absolutely knew what she was doing, I bet she persuaded the guy to have another kid because she wanted to mark her territory. My dad's ex was completely like this and got extremely jealous whenever we (me and my siblings) came over which made her ignore us and pull him away from us. The guy is to blame too for letting it happen but Callie clearly has no love or care for the first daughter.
I truly don’t understand why someone would date/marry a person with kids if they don’t want those kids to be a part of their lives. Jealousy is an ugly monster. I’m really sorry you had to deal with that, it wasn’t fair.
Absolutely, my dad's second wife gunned for a kid so he would have a son and to replace me (a disabled girl) and he agreed 😒 jackass! They had a girl lmao and she's a huge b!tch to him and pretty much amounted to nothing while I "bring pride to his house" (African anachronism).
Some stepparents are hands off/treat the relationship as being a family friend or loving aunt to the child. In this scenario, if they were going to have a baby, Callie should know most of the caregiving for the baby would be on her and she wouldn't be able to make her stepchild magically need less. I don't know what the dad was thinking.
Story 3 reminded me of a story my friend told. She has bipolar disorder, but when I met her, it was already under control and she was a completely normal person: kinda shy and quiet girl, not the kind of person to do anything crazy ever. So she told me a story what it was like before she was diagnosed and when she had one of the manic episodes: She put on a short and sexy dress, went to her crushes house uninvited, walked past him inside when he opened the door, took off her dress and went straight to his bed. One of his friends was there too but she didn't care about that. Apparently the guys were completely baffled, but my friend didn't understand why. Then she felt tired and just fell asleep on his bed. She said that at the time she had no ability for self-reflection and that it just felt like people who found her behaviour weird simply weren't smart enough to understand her brilliant mind. She had other type of delusional thinking as well. So my point is, the behaviour of OP in story 3 - and even more so Dean's behaviour - suggests that OP may have a mental health crisis. Sure, there are people who are "too nice" like Dean, but maybe Dean was nice because OP didn't use to be like that and the weird obsessive stuff was completely out of character. I mean, OP did not even understand what was going on when the commenter suggested she link the post to Dean, which would go extremely well with a manic episode. There are of course also incel type women, but OP's behaviour is textbook mania of bipolar disorder, which shows quite a different light to the story. Makes me hope that she gets the help if that is the case.
Young kid going between school and sports practice is absolutely fine to have fruit snacks or something else with a bit more sugar than a “healthy” snack. They need the energy. Is it the most ideal option for everyday? No probably not, but not eating would be worse for a kid that age.
I was at the mall shopping while listening the third story. I reacted the same way as John, didn’t care if people was watching, the story was just TOO GOOD.
John screaming how hyped he was was everything 😂😂😂 I felt exactly the same in that moment lmao Also Josh’s frat boy voice is SPOT on. Unfortunately I knew a guy exactly like that AH & kept him in my life for WAAAY too long. Part of me is actually wondering if this was him LOL thank you for reminding me what I’m nawt missing 😂
4th story: Absolutely not the asshole and I really hope the op reconsiders her relationship. It's a huge red flag that he just LEFT HIS PARTNER with a complete stranger and in general just yelled at them for wanting to do a kind-hearted thing... Edit: Probably should have finished the WHOLE story before commenting, but I'm glad the bf isn't around anymore 🎉
Story #3: OP has some serious chutzpah!! 🤯 Dude NEEDS to get a CPO, block & delete, maybe even move away from that area.😬 Lastly, none of the things the gf bought OP's friend, is NOT cheap. Assuming she doesn't make much from her platform is just one way she keeps herself delusional. 🤷🏽♀️
The first story seems like there is more to it. Like the mom feels insecure about the babysitter, and maybe based on what the husband did he isn't helping. The fact that the babysitter threatened to quit so quickly too makes it seem like there's more to the story.
idk if u mean threatened bc she feels her husband would cheat or is attracted to the babysitter, but i saw someone else say she may be insecure cause the babysitter was picking up slack she didnt know existed. its as if op thinks the babysitter is thinking "youre a bad parent so im gonna be better"
That parent sounds like she has issues with food and is starting to transfer her issues to her kid. It's a disordered eating mentality to think that an active child who is regularly participating in after school sports doesn't require carb-rich snacks. Also just the level of control she's trying to exert over what the kid can eat _by whom_ is the biggest tell in the story. "You can't give him these foods, only _I_ can" is whack-a-doodle.
All of those possibilities makes sense to me too! Ultimately, I just think that the husband should've talked to his wife first instead of just going straight to the babysitter and undermining her completely. Even if she's wrong, he could've handled that better. I thought that was weird.
54:12 hard relate to girly. I was heartbroken when I found out ALL of my friends (89% male) wanted to sleep with me. Like they all separately would say I should be grateful and happy that people wanted me. I’m like no…I thought we were friends. And you just looked at our “friendship” as a foot in the door. Like …… tf
If Story 3 is real, I’m guessing an age difference might be why Dean is being so calm and kind with his answers. If she’s a university student and he used to be her boss then he might be decently older than her and is trying to be mature when she’s acting so childishly. OP sees them as friends but Dean maybe sees her as more of a colleague or someone he’s kinda mentoring. That’s just me speculating tho! Tho tbh I feel like story 3 has got to be fake. I just feel like OP goes into too much detail about the GF’s genuine struggles and the super nice things she’s done for Dean without really bragging about her own good qualities and why she’s better. Like, if she wanted to convince strangers on the internet that she’s the best choice then why include all that stuff?
Story 3 was so crazy that I paused it while listening to the podcast just so I could watch yall talk about it on TH-cam. Every name yall called that woman was correct. Sometimes shoes just be fittin.
Heheeeeee, I definitely fangirled the first time I heard my handle said by Josh. That girl craaazy, and TooManyAnts is absolutely amazing 😂 I try to only cross post things to ROW that are funny or at the very least not sad. It made me so happy to see you guys laugh as much as I did at that OP. I originally thought of it as Does This Girl F**k 😂 And no. No she does not. She in fact f**ks the leastest. (Not sure if I can openly swear on TH-cam)
As for the first story- me being an adult I have not experienced hunger the way I experienced hunger when I was a teenager getting out of school I say teenager because I remember my emotions and feelings as a teenager better than I do younger than that. Getting out of school I was always starving even though I ate breakfast and lunch. That mum is a piece of work. I also did gymnastics after school. It was quite important that I eat. Good thing, the dad is sticking up for the babysitter and the child smart guy
I'm binging all of your guys videos and have been all night to keep me distracted from the current terrible US events. Thank you guys, I appreciate you.
I still remember listening to this for the first time, i was buying cucumbers, bell peppers and celery and i had to turn it off cause my face broadcasts my emotions to everyone who can see my face and i was getting some weird ass looks. My god, so delusional it was unforgettable.
Ok, the last guy is an ah, but he has a point with "having sex doesn't mean you don't care about the friendship, it's a decision of two adult horny people" I actually like the way he put it a lot I had sex with my best friend, because we both wanted to have sex with each other. It sure didn't ruin the friendship, I actually think it made it even deeper. It's been two years since and the only direct effect it had on our relationship is that sometimes we bring it up as a nice memory
I've had several friends trying to date me and it freaking sucks and have found out casual hangouts from my end were meant to be dates from their end. Now I've just implemented the rule that it's not a date if it's not explicitly stated. It has led to lowering contact with people to let them deal with their emotions and I've had to cut some out because it got too inappropriate. Friendships have become way less stressful and I'm glad I have friends who can be honest, because some have told me about their feelings. I'm okay with them having a crush, most don't last that long, and talking to them afterwards it's often just them feeling lonely and getting attention from someone. I get it, I'm just sad that you feel lonely and just a friendly conversation means that much.
I was the same as "loser" girlfriend in story 3 with my now ex being told he could do better etc and after 10 years he decided he could and threw me to the curb. He said all the same things as the guy in this story when asked why he loved me and it still wasn't enough. Now he resents me and doesn't care if I live or die.
Kids need a snack after school. Something small is fine so they will eat their dinner (stuff they dont like). Undortunately you have to starve them out when theyre being picky lol The babystitter does need to tell parents what he had so they arebt doubling his snacks in the day though The girl in love with dean... Ok a lot of people seem to be unaware that the person you love also has to love you. Thats why it takes time to pair up sometimes. Story 4: that guy did not have to stay. If your partner or friend or family member wants to put you in a potentially dangerous situation you have no obligation to be there. My husbands done that with me and i chose not to attend ab event. If he wants to risk gettinf stavved go for it. Not putting myself in that situation
Maybe I hear too many of these stories but I get the vibe the ex of the OP who helped the drunk guy probably cheated and that's why he left at the drop of a hat.
How did OP in story 5 break his friends’ confidence down? He said nothing but nice things about her 🥴 plus she asked, why would she ask knowing she might not like the answer…
Story 4 Hot Take: I don't think the boyfriend was really in the wrong here. He should've definitely been more helpful and mentioned getting a taxi for the drunk guy but I understand why he was mad. I'm a woman and so I like to do the gender reverse in these scenarios quite a bit. So let's assume OP was a man and the fiance was a woman and the drunk guy is still a drunk guy. Would you expect a woman to stay in a car with her naive/dense fiance (the OP) and have a drunk stranger in the backseat? No matter what gender you are if the drunk guy pulls a knife/gun on the driver what are you supposed to do? A man won't be of any better help than a woman. So I completely understand why the fiance got so mad. Maybe he's been mugged before or someone close to him. He was mad because OP wasn't only putting herself in danger but him aswell and didn't care one bit that he was majorly uncomfortable with the situation. Now he has to be worried that she'd do this when he isn't around and if she actually has any sense for danger. I also don't mind him jumping out in the middle of the ride. He told her multiple times how dangerous the situation is, how he doesn't want to be of any part in it and she ignored him. Now it's about realizing that she's an adult and if she wants to put herself at risk she may do so all on her own. Another situation that just happened yesterday. My mom and me are very animal friendly and we pick up strays a lot. Yesterday she finds two big dogs running around the street whilst driving down the road. We were on a call so she told me they were two huge dogs. I told her to not get out of the car and call the cops. 10 min later she sends me a picture of these twoassive dogs inside her car. She got them inside by opening one car door and getting out of the other simulationously. Even though she had good intentions I got mad at her because even though they look friendly you don't know what's going on inside that head. Long message but I feel like "protecting the woman is a mans job" is ludicrous. We're in an age where guns exist and being 10 cm taller and having more muscle mass is not going to make an impact on a bullet wound. Stop playing the superhero and realize you are mortal
Incel was actually a lesbian coined phrase for gay women who were involuntarily celibate, then men took it and ran with it. So femcel or anything else that might signify a female incel would be incorrect.
I think everyone sucks here. I think the "Callie" person might be overworked/overwhelmed as a new mom of a newborn. AH #1: He knew how hard this newborn stage was (since this is baby #2) and should have asked for less visit time during this phase. Saying Callie wanted it is distancing himself from accountability. Ew. AH #2: It also feels like "Callie" is being scapegoated a little bit here. (I usually feel this way when there's such a clear AH and the OP sounds so clean.) Asking why they'd have a baby after he didn't in their relationship sounds bitter. Ew. AH #3: Callie came into a complicated situation and decided that being hands-off towards her husband's daughter--her stepdaughter - is such a red flag. Ew. Every adult sucks here.
story 3...maybe i'm being pessimistic, but i don't see dean as "too nice". like he aint cut her off after nudes? questioning why he likes his gf? confessing having feelings and saying he could live without gf and that she wished she wasn't around? and he's stil friends with her after all that? call him when she learns to respect his relationship? i think he's keeping her on deck. if his and gf don't work out or break up for some reason, he'll probably definitely use op as rebound. can't do that if he cuts her off completely.
*Silent, calm, drunk man with elevator music playing in his head sat in the back, watching this "sober" man act like a child* 😮
Watching John jumping up and down in his chair getting super excited over TooManyAnts stirring the pot is the highlight of 2024 for me so far.
I know right! Had to rewatch the story the next day 😂
Toomanyants was stirring it up😂😂😂
Omg I was also jumping up and down with him. That's fucking hilarious 😂😂
The reasons in story 3 that the boyfriend gives on why he is with his girlfriend sounds like his vows ! So cute 😍
Yeah but he seems to enjoy OP's attention a BIT too much cuz wth, saying that but being oblivious to N¨DES??
@atsooba or he's not stupid, and sees through her "pick me-isms" and feels bad for her
idk i doubt anyone can be that oblivious, + his gf would prob tell him to drop her after this pictures, seems he kept it hidden its weird@@cherami-nox-fleuret
The 3 story is crazy cause imagine getting this like beautiful message declaring how much this man loves his partner, couldn’t be without her, and admires her and be like hm he must want me 💀
1st story just sounds like op is mad because she found out babysitter is picking up slack she didn't know she was dropping. Smh
Dean is such a sweetheart I teared up a bit.
Yeah John nailed it! As someone with extreme anxiety, I would at least want someone to ask if I was in a place to hear about a shit with bad takes about me.
Callie absolutely knew what she was doing, I bet she persuaded the guy to have another kid because she wanted to mark her territory. My dad's ex was completely like this and got extremely jealous whenever we (me and my siblings) came over which made her ignore us and pull him away from us.
The guy is to blame too for letting it happen but Callie clearly has no love or care for the first daughter.
I truly don’t understand why someone would date/marry a person with kids if they don’t want those kids to be a part of their lives. Jealousy is an ugly
monster. I’m really sorry you had to deal with that, it wasn’t fair.
Absolutely, my dad's second wife gunned for a kid so he would have a son and to replace me (a disabled girl) and he agreed 😒 jackass!
They had a girl lmao and she's a huge b!tch to him and pretty much amounted to nothing while I "bring pride to his house" (African anachronism).
You are absolutely right. She knew the conditions of that child and did not care about no one but herself
Some stepparents are hands off/treat the relationship as being a family friend or loving aunt to the child.
In this scenario, if they were going to have a baby, Callie should know most of the caregiving for the baby would be on her and she wouldn't be able to make her stepchild magically need less.
I don't know what the dad was thinking.
Story 3 reminded me of a story my friend told. She has bipolar disorder, but when I met her, it was already under control and she was a completely normal person: kinda shy and quiet girl, not the kind of person to do anything crazy ever.
So she told me a story what it was like before she was diagnosed and when she had one of the manic episodes: She put on a short and sexy dress, went to her crushes house uninvited, walked past him inside when he opened the door, took off her dress and went straight to his bed. One of his friends was there too but she didn't care about that. Apparently the guys were completely baffled, but my friend didn't understand why. Then she felt tired and just fell asleep on his bed.
She said that at the time she had no ability for self-reflection and that it just felt like people who found her behaviour weird simply weren't smart enough to understand her brilliant mind. She had other type of delusional thinking as well.
So my point is, the behaviour of OP in story 3 - and even more so Dean's behaviour - suggests that OP may have a mental health crisis. Sure, there are people who are "too nice" like Dean, but maybe Dean was nice because OP didn't use to be like that and the weird obsessive stuff was completely out of character.
I mean, OP did not even understand what was going on when the commenter suggested she link the post to Dean, which would go extremely well with a manic episode.
There are of course also incel type women, but OP's behaviour is textbook mania of bipolar disorder, which shows quite a different light to the story. Makes me hope that she gets the help if that is the case.
That's a very good point actually! Very good catch, as someone who has had mania in the past I agree it might be a possibility
This could totally explain why Dean was being overly patient with her
Young kid going between school and sports practice is absolutely fine to have fruit snacks or something else with a bit more sugar than a “healthy” snack. They need the energy. Is it the most ideal option for everyday? No probably not, but not eating would be worse for a kid that age.
I was at the mall shopping while listening the third story. I reacted the same way as John, didn’t care if people was watching, the story was just TOO GOOD.
John screaming how hyped he was was everything 😂😂😂 I felt exactly the same in that moment lmao
Also Josh’s frat boy voice is SPOT on. Unfortunately I knew a guy exactly like that AH & kept him in my life for WAAAY too long. Part of me is actually wondering if this was him LOL thank you for reminding me what I’m nawt missing 😂
4th story: Absolutely not the asshole and I really hope the op reconsiders her relationship. It's a huge red flag that he just LEFT HIS PARTNER with a complete stranger and in general just yelled at them for wanting to do a kind-hearted thing...
Edit: Probably should have finished the WHOLE story before commenting, but I'm glad the bf isn't around anymore 🎉
Story #3: OP has some serious chutzpah!! 🤯 Dude NEEDS to get a CPO, block & delete, maybe even move away from that area.😬 Lastly, none of the things the gf bought OP's friend, is NOT cheap. Assuming she doesn't make much from her platform is just one way she keeps herself delusional. 🤷🏽♀️
Saying granola bars and applesauce are "processed crap" is absolutely wild😂😂😂 that op/mom is a sad sad person
Those are processed, but out of all processed foods out there, those are pretty ok
OP #4 is the kind of person we need more of in the world today.
The first story seems like there is more to it. Like the mom feels insecure about the babysitter, and maybe based on what the husband did he isn't helping. The fact that the babysitter threatened to quit so quickly too makes it seem like there's more to the story.
idk if u mean threatened bc she feels her husband would cheat or is attracted to the babysitter, but i saw someone else say she may be insecure cause the babysitter was picking up slack she didnt know existed. its as if op thinks the babysitter is thinking "youre a bad parent so im gonna be better"
That parent sounds like she has issues with food and is starting to transfer her issues to her kid. It's a disordered eating mentality to think that an active child who is regularly participating in after school sports doesn't require carb-rich snacks. Also just the level of control she's trying to exert over what the kid can eat _by whom_ is the biggest tell in the story. "You can't give him these foods, only _I_ can" is whack-a-doodle.
All of those possibilities makes sense to me too! Ultimately, I just think that the husband should've talked to his wife first instead of just going straight to the babysitter and undermining her completely. Even if she's wrong, he could've handled that better. I thought that was weird.
Sean is triggered by snacks lol. 🤣
I kind of think anyone who knew your significant others would be way too scared of them to send a text with that much audacity. 🤣🤣
54:12 hard relate to girly. I was heartbroken when I found out ALL of my friends (89% male) wanted to sleep with me. Like they all separately would say I should be grateful and happy that people wanted me. I’m like no…I thought we were friends. And you just looked at our “friendship” as a foot in the door. Like …… tf
If Story 3 is real, I’m guessing an age difference might be why Dean is being so calm and kind with his answers. If she’s a university student and he used to be her boss then he might be decently older than her and is trying to be mature when she’s acting so childishly. OP sees them as friends but Dean maybe sees her as more of a colleague or someone he’s kinda mentoring. That’s just me speculating tho!
Tho tbh I feel like story 3 has got to be fake. I just feel like OP goes into too much detail about the GF’s genuine struggles and the super nice things she’s done for Dean without really bragging about her own good qualities and why she’s better. Like, if she wanted to convince strangers on the internet that she’s the best choice then why include all that stuff?
First atory the wife swap being referenced it was both bacon and chicken nuggets😂 he was PASSIONATE about the bacon tho😂😂😂
31:48 incel was actually a term coined by a Canadian woman in the 90s so I guess it's gender neutral
Story 3 was so crazy that I paused it while listening to the podcast just so I could watch yall talk about it on TH-cam. Every name yall called that woman was correct. Sometimes shoes just be fittin.
The Mom in story 1 is giving almond mom vibes - especially if she’s requesting her son goes hours without eating rather than having a sugary snack.
Heheeeeee, I definitely fangirled the first time I heard my handle said by Josh. That girl craaazy, and TooManyAnts is absolutely amazing 😂
I try to only cross post things to ROW that are funny or at the very least not sad. It made me so happy to see you guys laugh as much as I did at that OP. I originally thought of it as Does This Girl F**k 😂 And no. No she does not. She in fact f**ks the leastest. (Not sure if I can openly swear on TH-cam)
As for the first story- me being an adult I have not experienced hunger the way I experienced hunger when I was a teenager getting out of school I say teenager because I remember my emotions and feelings as a teenager better than I do younger than that. Getting out of school I was always starving even though I ate breakfast and lunch. That mum is a piece of work. I also did gymnastics after school. It was quite important that I eat.
Good thing, the dad is sticking up for the babysitter and the child smart guy
I'm binging all of your guys videos and have been all night to keep me distracted from the current terrible US events. Thank you guys, I appreciate you.
Too Many Ants is an amazing person!
I laughed so hard at 35:18 Everyone's reaction is so priceless 😂😂
The Wife Swap impression sent me! The kid being named Curtis only made it that much funnier. 😂 She caynt run in thim lil ole hayyi heels!
Wow i started bawling at the Dean part. What a king holy shit
In my country most people wouldn't bat an eyelid at giving a drunk guy a ride home.
wholesome! where are you from if you don't mind me asking?
These three are just walking green flags. It's so nice to listen to a group of kind people with good, kind takes!
#4 is a hero. Glad she broke up with that jerk.
I still remember listening to this for the first time, i was buying cucumbers, bell peppers and celery and i had to turn it off cause my face broadcasts my emotions to everyone who can see my face and i was getting some weird ass looks. My god, so delusional it was unforgettable.
Ok, the last guy is an ah, but he has a point with "having sex doesn't mean you don't care about the friendship, it's a decision of two adult horny people"
I actually like the way he put it a lot
I had sex with my best friend, because we both wanted to have sex with each other. It sure didn't ruin the friendship, I actually think it made it even deeper.
It's been two years since and the only direct effect it had on our relationship is that sometimes we bring it up as a nice memory
The 1st story : is OP Ruby from 8 passengers?
..OP?
@@cherami-nox-fleuretoriginal poster
@@Eanaes oh I know! I'm just confused considering we made the decision OP wasn't in the wrong
Sooo, I learned today u do not take Johns snacks...👀😬🤯🤣😂
I've had several friends trying to date me and it freaking sucks and have found out casual hangouts from my end were meant to be dates from their end. Now I've just implemented the rule that it's not a date if it's not explicitly stated. It has led to lowering contact with people to let them deal with their emotions and I've had to cut some out because it got too inappropriate. Friendships have become way less stressful and I'm glad I have friends who can be honest, because some have told me about their feelings. I'm okay with them having a crush, most don't last that long, and talking to them afterwards it's often just them feeling lonely and getting attention from someone. I get it, I'm just sad that you feel lonely and just a friendly conversation means that much.
When I broke up with my ex, so many of my guy friends swarmed me. I lost so many people I thought were my friends
op in story 3 was definitely giving super incel energy lol
I want you guys to know I love these thumbnails. Uncanny valley but they look good.
😂 I'm glad people are loving the unhinged thumbnails
27:53 Sean's face😂😂😂
I was the same as "loser" girlfriend in story 3 with my now ex being told he could do better etc and after 10 years he decided he could and threw me to the curb. He said all the same things as the guy in this story when asked why he loved me and it still wasn't enough. Now he resents me and doesn't care if I live or die.
Kids need a snack after school. Something small is fine so they will eat their dinner (stuff they dont like). Undortunately you have to starve them out when theyre being picky lol
The babystitter does need to tell parents what he had so they arebt doubling his snacks in the day though
The girl in love with dean... Ok a lot of people seem to be unaware that the person you love also has to love you. Thats why it takes time to pair up sometimes.
Story 4: that guy did not have to stay. If your partner or friend or family member wants to put you in a potentially dangerous situation you have no obligation to be there. My husbands done that with me and i chose not to attend ab event. If he wants to risk gettinf stavved go for it. Not putting myself in that situation
Story 3: creepy as fuck. She's featuring in the next season of 'You'...
Maybe I hear too many of these stories but I get the vibe the ex of the OP who helped the drunk guy probably cheated and that's why he left at the drop of a hat.
He seems like a horrible person capable of that
I'm from Ohio, and every time you guys say "the browns," I think of our football team 😅
I want someone to look at me like Dean does his gf on story 3 😢
What kind of man procreates with someone who would give a f about his own sick child, you must expect they wouldn't be a great person or mother
Shame on the husband in the second story. Putting words in the ex mouth to make him a victim
How did OP in story 5 break his friends’ confidence down? He said nothing but nice things about her 🥴 plus she asked, why would she ask knowing she might not like the answer…
It matters 😂
So glad yall can guess freely without fear of consequence now 🥳 I personally was not a fan of that bit
Story 4 Hot Take: I don't think the boyfriend was really in the wrong here. He should've definitely been more helpful and mentioned getting a taxi for the drunk guy but I understand why he was mad.
I'm a woman and so I like to do the gender reverse in these scenarios quite a bit. So let's assume OP was a man and the fiance was a woman and the drunk guy is still a drunk guy. Would you expect a woman to stay in a car with her naive/dense fiance (the OP) and have a drunk stranger in the backseat?
No matter what gender you are if the drunk guy pulls a knife/gun on the driver what are you supposed to do?
A man won't be of any better help than a woman.
So I completely understand why the fiance got so mad. Maybe he's been mugged before or someone close to him. He was mad because OP wasn't only putting herself in danger but him aswell and didn't care one bit that he was majorly uncomfortable with the situation.
Now he has to be worried that she'd do this when he isn't around and if she actually has any sense for danger.
I also don't mind him jumping out in the middle of the ride. He told her multiple times how dangerous the situation is, how he doesn't want to be of any part in it and she ignored him. Now it's about realizing that she's an adult and if she wants to put herself at risk she may do so all on her own.
Another situation that just happened yesterday. My mom and me are very animal friendly and we pick up strays a lot. Yesterday she finds two big dogs running around the street whilst driving down the road. We were on a call so she told me they were two huge dogs. I told her to not get out of the car and call the cops. 10 min later she sends me a picture of these twoassive dogs inside her car. She got them inside by opening one car door and getting out of the other simulationously. Even though she had good intentions I got mad at her because even though they look friendly you don't know what's going on inside that head.
Long message but I feel like "protecting the woman is a mans job" is ludicrous. We're in an age where guns exist and being 10 cm taller and having more muscle mass is not going to make an impact on a bullet wound. Stop playing the superhero and realize you are mortal
Incel was actually a lesbian coined phrase for gay women who were involuntarily celibate, then men took it and ran with it. So femcel or anything else that might signify a female incel would be incorrect.
I would love to see you guys do a show with Morgan from @twohottakes
Fruit snacks are bad
The first story is crazy. Little kids shouldn't have to be hungry damn
Stop picking on Josh 😢
I think everyone sucks here. I think the "Callie" person might be overworked/overwhelmed as a new mom of a newborn.
AH #1: He knew how hard this newborn stage was (since this is baby #2) and should have asked for less visit time during this phase. Saying Callie wanted it is distancing himself from accountability. Ew.
AH #2: It also feels like "Callie" is being scapegoated a little bit here. (I usually feel this way when there's such a clear AH and the OP sounds so clean.) Asking why they'd have a baby after he didn't in their relationship sounds bitter. Ew.
AH #3: Callie came into a complicated situation and decided that being hands-off towards her husband's daughter--her stepdaughter - is such a red flag. Ew.
Every adult sucks here.
story 3...maybe i'm being pessimistic, but i don't see dean as "too nice". like he aint cut her off after nudes? questioning why he likes his gf? confessing having feelings and saying he could live without gf and that she wished she wasn't around? and he's stil friends with her after all that? call him when she learns to respect his relationship?
i think he's keeping her on deck. if his and gf don't work out or break up for some reason, he'll probably definitely use op as rebound. can't do that if he cuts her off completely.