Secrets To Never Lose Your Man - The Benjamin Zulu Show

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  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    The last words did it for me: "Choose a man that is ready to be kept." If a man has no intentions of being with one woman, you can be all Mr Zulu said and even more and that man will still keep on moving like a rolling stone.

  • @zandilemoyo4072
    @zandilemoyo4072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Kenyans I really admire your English accent, you guys are educated..

    • @kisunaomar3138
      @kisunaomar3138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks we really appreciate,

    • @irenawanjiru
      @irenawanjiru 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why the colonial language is nothing to be admired

    • @theMorganjuiceshow
      @theMorganjuiceshow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou so much we love learning and we strive to be good at many things being eloquent isn't an exception... 😊

    • @myword2503
      @myword2503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank your so much

    • @Trizz358
      @Trizz358 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @nakimuliannet8170
    @nakimuliannet8170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    1. Confidence
    2. Self belief
    3. Understanding
    4. Be true, be yourself

    • @lastborn8302
      @lastborn8302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    • @AKCRop-be8hq
      @AKCRop-be8hq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tht is the fact of true matters in arela/ship without tht........all is 🚮🚮🚮

  • @mongalix8
    @mongalix8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    People only honour what they know they can loose. .. powerful.

  • @cherotichjanet3928
    @cherotichjanet3928 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am glad I discovered this channel. I can't get enough of your wisdom. Your touch of humour and the Bramwel's calm demeanor. I love the duo.

  • @phinahnyambu4297
    @phinahnyambu4297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    'Never make people think they can't lose you'👍

  • @yvetteebot302
    @yvetteebot302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Mr. Zulu you are just WOW. Am here everyday everytime taking my notes. Class 2021 assemble here for a round of applaud to Mr Zulu. This man is full of wisdom. I started my class this 2021 and my perspective has change alot.Thank you Sir

    • @iristhomas9832
      @iristhomas9832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your laughter u made me laugh 😂😂😂

    • @joymiracle
      @joymiracle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a proud member of class of 2021✊

    • @agnesmbala5050
      @agnesmbala5050 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @bridgetmusoki3479
    @bridgetmusoki3479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But this son of God!! I bet you don't know how many lives you keep changing....♥️♥️♥️

  • @joycegumbo6086
    @joycegumbo6086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    A man who wants to leave will still go no matter what you do!!

    • @marywanjiku8338
      @marywanjiku8338 ปีที่แล้ว

      Choose one that want to be kept

    • @marywanjiku8338
      @marywanjiku8338 ปีที่แล้ว

      Choose a man that is ready to be kept

    • @hana-belle
      @hana-belle ปีที่แล้ว

      True but those that leave often are the ones who are not that into you 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @irenemuriithi6346
    @irenemuriithi6346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Wow.
    When you are attracted to a person's warmth and enthusiasm, you find them beautiful.

  • @om3851
    @om3851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This show is a two in one as in comedy n motivation sense!!

    • @queenlyne2363
      @queenlyne2363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Comically educative

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because B and B knows how stress people are so they want us to be happy Imeddiately we start watching

  • @knightnayomi2672
    @knightnayomi2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love this..wow" i'm with him out of choice, I'm not with him because of lack of choice.. .People only honour what they know they can lose"

  • @knightnayomi2672
    @knightnayomi2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These two Can laugh for Africa.. The laughter is contagious.

  • @esther_ninsiima
    @esther_ninsiima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "Beauty is a fact not an opinion".... I love ur honesty Benjamin & I'm always laughing while taking my lessons from you.

  • @rodgersbangirana
    @rodgersbangirana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love you Benjamin Zulu...these are teachings everyone must listen to before marriage, everyone....God bless all of you listening plus Benja

  • @labethmuumbi4667
    @labethmuumbi4667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yea,being completely confident without anyone approval and still feeling good,,,I really love my character

  • @Funtodavids
    @Funtodavids 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I enjoyed how Benjamin explained all his points. How he makes it funny, and this drives home his point magically.

  • @PhynaKamau
    @PhynaKamau ปีที่แล้ว

    to the point, one of the best shows i have listen, straight to the point without giving many many examples.thank you for this

  • @lydiamathipa4596
    @lydiamathipa4596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Confidence is feeling beautiful without anybody telling you”

  • @florenceamoit8903
    @florenceamoit8903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very educative.
    I discovered him few months ago and I have learnt a lot.
    Much love from Kampala Uganda.

  • @Njokilynne
    @Njokilynne ปีที่แล้ว

    Class of 2022 i can tell we are graduating with honors
    Thankyou Zulu for this, i will never be the same again

  • @Mzansi74
    @Mzansi74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!
    The wisdom from Africa.
    The West has gone wild with the woke nonsense, culture wars, and so on. And TV shows just fuel that further.
    But this, this is awesome!
    So proud to be an African!

  • @joannakabugo3939
    @joannakabugo3939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have confidence and self love, this keep men chasing me
    ladies copy

  • @thegogetterbymaletjemamath3166
    @thegogetterbymaletjemamath3166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm above 25, recently got in a lovely relationship(previous ones were messy) , you have been great advice to those of us without fathers. Keep at it Benjamin 💃

  • @hannahkibe1
    @hannahkibe1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This Convo has taken a different twist from the obvious.
    Omg it the best videos I have watched this Year.
    My view has changed!

  • @esthermawuena436
    @esthermawuena436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This man is full of Wisdom. All we need to do is listen carefully and act accordingly

  • @annetkirabo4749
    @annetkirabo4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I loved listening to you sir, great wisdom for women..Every woman needs to listen to this ..well done

  • @joanmueni7292
    @joanmueni7292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Benjamin Zulu thank you for making this point about self acceptance so clear. It made me reflect on the person l was few years back when l used to fear wearing short dresses because of the scars l had on my leg from a road accident. Now days l have learnt to love my scars and embrace them.

  • @mercyjerop1375
    @mercyjerop1375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Am addicted to your show. Man of intelligence and truth. God man sent prophet to our relationship 💪💪

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow the first magic is self confidence! Believe in yourself no matter what. Nothing draws a man to a woman like her confidence and calm nature and knowing herself.

  • @jacklinekirungi5488
    @jacklinekirungi5488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is soul enriching: entertaining and educating. God bless you two🙏

  • @linahngakipi2767
    @linahngakipi2767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The show I can't afford to miss Benjamin Zulu's...full of wisdom 🙏🏽

  • @agnesmukhooli866
    @agnesmukhooli866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    When are we graduating"zulu class of 2020"THIS MAN IS GOD SENT"

  • @faith500ful
    @faith500ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I give God the glory and so greatful to him for giving you so much wisdom. I'm so grateful I found this channel 🥰

  • @Chemu2777
    @Chemu2777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Let me just say,you are wise beyond your years benjamin

  • @myzgod
    @myzgod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    who else has been laughing. this man is funny

  • @joymiracle
    @joymiracle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This episode got me rolling and dying on the floor🙌 due to laughters😂😂😂😂😂🙌
    getting to know what works for you can do magic honestly. i agree!
    Thank you for impacting lives Mr Zulu

  • @annsitymakena2382
    @annsitymakena2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Make sure I command attention where I pass ,creating an atmosphere of royalty, of grace ,Amen and Amen

  • @pombo_swimmers
    @pombo_swimmers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Benjamin ur going far. Internationally. Trust me

  • @maureenkemei9254
    @maureenkemei9254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Choosing a man that is ready to be kept wow!! That's my take away thank you for this amazing life changing show👍👍.

  • @mercymumbeblessed
    @mercymumbeblessed ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the lesson

  • @Tchibazz-TV
    @Tchibazz-TV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one amazing show I have seen this week!!!!!
    Keep it going sire

  • @estherkalekye2682
    @estherkalekye2682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is the gales of laughter from these two for me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @esthershiko5780
    @esthershiko5780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    every woman should hear this . You are a whole vibe Benjamin very wise

  • @milkaadhiambo601
    @milkaadhiambo601 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a good show .It's is usually very encouraging to hear a man giving ladies such great life skills.Benjamin you kiswahili is good but you English at another level God bless you ,

  • @acildamasonzander9917
    @acildamasonzander9917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love the 'dressing' advice. More, please!!

  • @namuliregina2156
    @namuliregina2156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you Benjamin for your content and the way you draw our attention to your points. I pray that I be changed by ur advise. Thank u so much

  • @adakuemeruem795
    @adakuemeruem795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Lovely,lovely,lovely! Benjamin, I could watch you all day! I have had a good laugh while learning a thing or two. Well done,Sir. God bless your ministry.

  • @scolla81
    @scolla81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Benjamin u have good chemistry togather, thanks for free education in our comfortable zone.

  • @catherinekoki8077
    @catherinekoki8077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Taken 📝 notes
    So much wisdom 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @sharonnasambu6753
    @sharonnasambu6753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wallai this 2 can laugh ooh🤣🤣🤣

  • @wangarireginah
    @wangarireginah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Looking forward to a detailed show on the levels of confidence especially queendom....

  • @sharonmuthoni8179
    @sharonmuthoni8179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have a question on dressing. ,, and I hope it gets answered... So where does one draw the line of modesty...

  • @milikalonus3499
    @milikalonus3499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am a new subscriber bt iv enjoyed and picked a leaf from this show.thnx alot

  • @sly2549
    @sly2549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benjamin you're the best 😃😂.. Eti gikomba on the move

  • @pollynkirote9097
    @pollynkirote9097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm grateful for TH-cam...whoa,dear God thank you I came across Benjamin 🙏♥️

  • @roseann4622
    @roseann4622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Benjamin thank God for you

  • @milkaadhiambo601
    @milkaadhiambo601 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is just confirming the book of Romans that we must have peace with ourselves then peace with others and peace with God You have to love yourself first then it will be easier to love others..God bless your

  • @kelienekande4349
    @kelienekande4349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just to support your point benjamin...From a true story..my husband told me that my confidence in a crowd without him even knowing me blew him off.Point number one well✔✔

  • @monicahjames7308
    @monicahjames7308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    . HAVE CONFIDENCE ON YOURSELF.
    . SELF BELIEF
    . UNDERSTAND
    . BE TRUE BE YOURSELF
    BE WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO, NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE OUT OF CHOICE 💯👌
    CHOOSE A MEN WHO IS READY TO BE KEPT 🔥🔥

  • @jsmithforreal
    @jsmithforreal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Make sure you turn heads where you pass! I love that amidst everything else including the first point of displaying self-assurance.

  • @iam_ntli
    @iam_ntli 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such wisdom nje... Wow am glad I found your channel on utube. It came at a time where I need it the most.

  • @aineshealthcorner8958
    @aineshealthcorner8958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Benjamin you really are a wise man and I love your show because I not only learn a lot, be informed but I laugh 😆 like crazy

  • @frenotasha
    @frenotasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have learned something today and enjoyed the show

  • @winnieshiroh8532
    @winnieshiroh8532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very insightful! But i laughed the entire show😀. Thank you for a beautiful show.

  • @marthakikai2879
    @marthakikai2879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for this sir♥️

  • @zuleikhaahmed7220
    @zuleikhaahmed7220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I enjoyed this so much!! ❤❤

  • @janebaguette4424
    @janebaguette4424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This show is hilarious n very educative.....ati gikomba on the move...keep on guys.

  • @terrymuthoni5575
    @terrymuthoni5575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True accepting some parts of our bodies is a challenge to many

    • @lynnetgathoni2940
      @lynnetgathoni2940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true bt is a high time they should accept themselves

  • @AMUKENYA
    @AMUKENYA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're with him because of your choice, you choose to be with him

  • @destinedprincess6558
    @destinedprincess6558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Gikomba on the move"got me 😂😂

  • @jacqueypatrick4090
    @jacqueypatrick4090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Taking notes 📝thank you guy's

  • @emmaoketch4587
    @emmaoketch4587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gikomba on the move,that was something. Thanks for the insight

  • @rebeccashirichena01
    @rebeccashirichena01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you sir...wise words
    Our Solomon of today 😊

  • @zamzamsekibibi7575
    @zamzamsekibibi7575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks so much ❤️ I have learnt something

  • @conniedladla780
    @conniedladla780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very wise words and a good sense of humour at the same time Benjamin thanks for sharing🙏👏👏🤣🤣

  • @pollynkirote9097
    @pollynkirote9097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gikomba on the move killed me😂😂😂😂😂

  • @liznoir
    @liznoir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Part 2 of this please! I enjoyed

  • @moyowangutu1774
    @moyowangutu1774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kakangu, nimecheka asubuhi hii, na mazungumzo ya mawaidha....usichoke KAMWE

  • @JanieRecipesNah1vs9
    @JanieRecipesNah1vs9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Zulu you r doing a great job kindly bring in a woman to your conversation; so u can strick’ that balance of the heart of a woman! The two of you r great but can only see the picture from one side!

  • @yasnyne
    @yasnyne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Much appreciated class Mr Benjamin Zulu and Bramuel.

  • @Resinsandcrafts
    @Resinsandcrafts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    These guys are so comic 😂

  • @smartladymoraa7243
    @smartladymoraa7243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂😂 gikomba on the moving caught me.. wise words of counsel

  • @tooblessed4275
    @tooblessed4275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Benjamin is just a vibe share more wisdom

  • @maureenkemei9254
    @maureenkemei9254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wisdom is my identity wow like that 😍.

  • @sun-801
    @sun-801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Zulu 👌🏽👌🏽

  • @hopefull3387
    @hopefull3387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Confidence is important ladies, even if you don’t have it, it doesn’t matter. The most important thing is what God says about you! You are fearfully and wonderfully made, you are God’s masterpiece! God calls you a priceless pearl.

    • @sheeworld3734
      @sheeworld3734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks what I needed to hear ☺️

  • @winnie-ex9jq
    @winnie-ex9jq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm taking notes for my non-existent man.

  • @lizzymemoh153
    @lizzymemoh153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This are true facts thank you so much>>>>>>

  • @foreverglad4419
    @foreverglad4419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh God I have loved this show

  • @doreengakiikinoti60
    @doreengakiikinoti60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣gikomba on the move! Banange

  • @donnanyapola7997
    @donnanyapola7997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOUR TRUTH CRACKS ME UP IN THE OFFICE I FORGOT ALL MY PROBLEMS 🤣🤣😂😂👌👌

  • @hellenchelagat5990
    @hellenchelagat5990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    'Rachael was more beautiful,Leah had delicate eyes'....physicality is nothing...start finding them and you will discover their beauty❤❤❤❤

  • @cmugo1
    @cmugo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant.

  • @carolinemwaniga6207
    @carolinemwaniga6207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 gikomba on the move? 😂😂😂😂😂 sawa tu. We need to change aki

  • @annetkirabo4749
    @annetkirabo4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Highlighting the headlines

  • @joywanjiku2304
    @joywanjiku2304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great show 🔥

  • @fatumaibrahim2105
    @fatumaibrahim2105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    buoyancy....woooow

  • @ajalahupfront
    @ajalahupfront 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how east Africans pronounce love as Laav

    • @ewm4266
      @ewm4266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      West Africans Looov😅

  • @susanogutu821
    @susanogutu821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You cracked me Benja
    Ati if I haven’t made peace with myself
    I love your shows
    Listening from UTAH.. 🇺🇸